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"Heal You, Heal Your Relationship" is exactly what I did to save my own marriage. Overcoming anxious attachment, fear of abandonment and self sabotage have been my greatest transformation. The process of learning and unlearning is a path we walk when we are intrigued to heal and grow. This is not your average podcast of someone telling you what to do, these are the experiences, lessons of a woman who practices what she preaches and spent two decades overcoming trauma, fears and anxiety.


Tune in to break free of relationship cycles, intrusive anxious thoughts, love fears and behaviors that leave you feeling guilty, worried and ashamed. As you build your self awareness, you grow, as you grow your relationship transforms. The ripple affect is powerful and your host Sasha Quince is proof of that. Sasha, now 17 years into her own marriage after overcoming self sabotage, a mom of two boys but also a trauma survivor, love coach, and dedicated advocate of personal development. Let's do this together!




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Sara Salhab is a champion of women's growth and leadership and the founder of The Sophia Collective, a transformative platform designed to help women entrepreneurs unlock their potential and navigate their way through the entrepreneurial ecosystem. This episode she is sharing a unique and inspiring story and take on creating space for self love and getting real on being compassionate to you regardless of what life throws you.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha welcomes Sara Salhab, founder of the Sophia Collective and champion of women's growth and leadership. Released just before Valentine's Day, this conversation explores what it truly means to love yourself—beyond the clichés. 💝 Sara shares her journey from 22 years in the corporate world to creating spaces where women can share their stories, be vulnerable, and grow together. From starting with banana bread and mindfulness in her neighborhood to building a transformative community, Sara opens up about brain surgery, abandonment, anger, and the evolution of self-compassion. This episode is about gentleness, boundaries, and learning to name your emotions so you can heal them.Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:When was the last time you truly listened to yourself, your body, your emotions, your needs?If you were given a magic mirror and you can observe yourself 20 years older, what would you do today to fully like what you see then?What part of your healing are you ready to take gentle responsibility for?In this episode, you’ll discover:Learning to name your feelings as the first step toward true healing.Identifying your pattern within the disappointment-abandonment-rejection cycle.Why anger isn't the enemy, but a constructive tool for your boundaries.Meeting your own needs by speaking your love language to yourself.The magic of the Sophia Collective: How storytelling builds a compassionate community.Escaping the victimization trap through the power of gentle responsibility.Why slowing down your pace allows you to finally breathe and respond with truth.💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sara Salhab:LinkedInSophia CollectiveInstagramInstagramLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Description: As a worst case scenario A grade over over thinker Sasha is sharing in this short inspiring episode how we are literally working against our brain programming to decrease overthinking and how we can make progress towards the peace, pleasure and safety we deserve in us and our relationships. Heal your overthinking by digging into this episode where you will receive tangible tools to apply and feel calmer in your head.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha talks about overthinking—how it drains your energy, keeps you stuck in worst-case scenarios, and why you can't just "think positive" your way out of it. 🧠 Sasha shares her journey with overthinking, from waiting by the window as a kid to waking up from anxious dreams as an adult. She explains why you can't flip from negative to positive thoughts without regulating your nervous system first, and shares practical tools like the "I am safe" reset and the two-things-are-true reframe. Healing overthinking isn't about thinking better—it's about feeling safer first.Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:Where is one area in your life you're overthinking and causing yourself more pain? What two things can be true about that area? What did you learn about your brilliant brain today when it comes to why you overthink or how you get more emotional versus logical?In this episode, you’ll discover:Why your brain is wired to scan for danger (not happiness) and predict pain Why overthinking is a behavior that shows up when you're dysregulated The "I am safe" nervous system reset technique How to recognize everyday signs of dysregulationThe "two things are true" reframe for getting unstuck How to go from worst-case to best-case scenario thinking💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Not for the faint hearted as we drop the labels of anxious and avoidant and tap into why we behave the way we do in triggers and how to make shifts that invite secure healthy behavior and meet our own emotional needs as functioning adults.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha tackles a topic that’s been blowing up on Instagram—why we need to stop blaming our partners for their “avoidant” behavior and start asking a better question. She breaks down what’s really happening in the brain when we’re triggered, why labels like “anxious” and “avoidant” keep us stuck, and how to create safety instead of more chaos. 🔥Sasha shares the powerful question that shifted everything in her own marriage, plus her most-used regulation tool that works in eight minutes or less. By the end, you’ll see that healing isn’t about changing your partner—it’s about understanding what safety really looks like when you’re both triggered. ✨Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:Where in your life do you need this tool? Where do you need to be more regulated in your life? What would your relationship feel like if all defenses were gone?What behaviors do you think that you respond from when you’re having a hard time?In this episode, you’ll discover:Stop labeling your partner as “avoidant” and ask what’s really happeningHow the brain shuts down when triggered—and why talking doesn’t workThe powerful question that helps your partner open up instead of defendWhy meeting your own needs first shifts the entire relationship dynamicRegulation isn’t just for big moments—it’s a daily practice that transforms love​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha dives deep into the one piece of love lasting that we’re all missing—and it’s not what you think. She introduces the concept of the Most Generous Interpretation (MGI) and how this simple but profound shift can transform everything from dating to decades-long marriages. 🌟Sasha gets real about her own journey with MGI—from spiraling when her partner shut down to handling a dinner-time boundary violation with clarity and calm. She breaks down the difference between “giving me a hard time” versus “having a hard time,” and why that reframe changes absolutely everything. By the end, you’ll see that healing your relationship isn’t about changing your partner—it’s about choosing compassion over control. ✨Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:Who do you think is one person that you could apply the most generous interpretation to today?What is that most generous interpretation? What is that interpretation that you want to hold space for?What is the most compassionate interpretation you could have of you right now?In this episode, you’ll discover:Giving me a hard time” vs. “having a hard time”—and why this reframe changes everythingWhy avoidant patterns are actually dysregulation, not personal attacksHow to take ownership without drowning in guilt or egoHow empathy softens your nervous system and unlocks your divine feminineWhy guilt and boundaries always come together—and how to feel it anyway💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha welcomes her first male guest—men’s coach Alessandro Frosali—for a raw, honest conversation about what it really means to show up as a partner. From his home in Spain, Alessandro shares the moment his wife told him she needed him to “be more of a man or I’m leaving”—and how that wake-up call became the catalyst for his entire transformation. Together, Alessandro and Sasha explore the brick walls we unknowingly build in relationships, why consistency matters more than perfection, and how owning what’s yours creates space for your partner to own theirs. By the end of this episode, you’ll see that becoming a better partner isn’t about reaching a destination—it’s about committing to the path and standing firm in the heat of emotion instead of running from it. 🌊💛Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What would it take for you to become the best husband or wife that you can be?What would it take for you to fall in love with being the best husband or wife that you can be?What would it take for you to fall in love with your life?In this episode, you’ll discover:The two pedals of relationships: owning what’s yours and loving your partner enough to trust them with theirsWhy brick walls of resentment build differently for men and women—and how to take them down brick by brickHow to separate attachment behaviors from identity so you can actually change your patternsThe three layers of mental load and why understanding emotional labor transforms partnershipWhy holding space when your partner is dysregulated creates the safety they’ve been searching for💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Alessandro Frosali: Website: https://alessandrofrosali.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alessandro_frosali Email: contact@alessandrofrosali.com Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The six lessons that will deeply resonate that as learned brought my partner and I closer and can transform your love life as you apply them and take action to integrate. Even learning of these is a powerful place to start calling in healthy love and developing deeper connection with your partner.This week on Heal You, Heal Your Relationship, Sasha invites you to slow down, soften, and consciously close out 2025 by reflecting on the love lessons that truly landed this year. Recording on New Year’s Eve from a place of joy (not obligation), she shares the six relationship truths that deepened her connection, reshaped her nervous system responses, and transformed how she shows up with her partner, her children, and herself. ✨From understanding how your partner mirrors your energy, to releasing control and learning how to feel emotions instead of talking your way out of them, Sasha walks you through the lessons that moved from “learning” into full integration. She also explores why it’s safe to change your mind, how “try again” can de-escalate conflict in real time, and why being radically honest about what you feel and need is essential for lasting love. 💛Sasha’s 6 Lessons in Love “Your partner will always mirror your energy.”“Where can you release control in your relationship and your love life?”“Stop trying to talk it out when you’re triggered and feel what you’re feeling instead.”“It’s safe to change your mind.”“Be willing to try again.”“Be a hundred percent honest with what you feel and need because nobody in your life will ever be able to guess.”💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha invites you to pause and reflect on 2025 with her—because you deserve to see just how far you've come. She walks you through powerful reflection prompts live, using her own year as an example, from finally seeing Coldplay with her son to launching her Fear to Freedom mini-experience to overcoming health challenges and tech hurdles. 🎉 Sasha shares why reflection is such a gift to yourself—it lets you slow down, acknowledge your growth, and celebrate the moments (big and small) that brought you joy, peace, and freedom. By the end, you'll have clarity on what made you proud, what you learned about yourself, and what you're ready to carry into 2026. ✨Reflection prompts to journal through:What made you proud of you this year? What made you feel important and acknowledged this year? What is a challenge you overcame this year? What did you learn about yourself this year? What did you let go of that brought you peace? Where did you feel the most freedom? What brought you the most joy and pleasure this year? What are you taking into 2026?💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha gets real about how stressful, chaotic seasons can make us snappy and triggered in our relationships—even when our partner isn't doing anything wrong. She shares the simple two-word tool that's been saving her marriage during overwhelming moments: "Try Again." 💫Sasha walks you through how this method brings your nervous system from 100 to 0, why you can't think your way out of a trigger, and how to use it with your partner or kids. By the end, you'll see that healing isn't about going backwards—it's about having tools to help you move forward, even in the messy moments. 🌟Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What is one thing about this episode that really resonated with you?Who do you think that you can try the "Try Again" approach with?What do you think your nervous system response is? Is it fight, flight, freeze, or fawn?In this episode, you’ll discover:The "Try Again" method—two simple words that de-escalate conflictHow to identify your nervous system response and your partner'sWhy you can't think your way out of a triggerHow to practice this tool with your partner, kids, or close relationshipsYou never go backwards in healing—every step moves you forward💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha dives into what to do when your partner pulls away during conflict or communication. She shares why triggers are inevitable in relationships, how dysregulation affects both partners, and why turning inward first is the key to creating emotional safety. 🧘‍♀️Sasha walks you through practical ways to respond when you feel anxious, overlooked, or triggered—from identifying your hidden fears and naming your emotions, to self-soothing and regulating your nervous system. ✨By the end of this episode, you’ll see that healing your inner world first not only reduces unnecessary suffering, but also transforms the way you show up in your relationships—with calm, clarity, and confidence. 🕊️Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What patterns, emotional, relational or karmic, do you notice repeating in your own life?What moment felt like a turning point that quietly began your own process of healing or transformation?What is your own relationship with the unseen or the symbolic?In this episode, you’ll discover:Why your partner pulling away is often a sign of their own dysregulation—not a reflection of your worthHow to step back, self-soothe, and process your emotions before trying to fix the relationshipWhy understanding your triggers can reveal hidden fears that sabotage loveHow regulating yourself first can create a ripple effect of safety and connection in your relationshipPractical tools to identify, feel, and reframe emotions so you can communicate your needs calmly and effectively💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Your birth chart holds clues about your emotional patterns, relationship dynamics, and the lessons you’re here to heal. In this episode, we dive into how Vedic astrology can guide your growth, soften your fears, and support healthier love.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha welcomes brand strategist and Vedic astrology practitioner Prachi Tiwary for a deeply illuminating conversation about how the stars can guide us home to ourselves—and transform the way we show up in our relationships. ✨From growing up in India where astrology is a living tradition to discovering her own path through trauma, ancestral healing, and self-acceptance, Prachi shares how understanding your birth chart can unlock profound self-awareness and compassion. Together, she and Sasha explore how our planets reveal our patterns, our wounds, and our purpose—and how that wisdom ripples into every relationship we touch.By the end of this episode, you’ll see that astrology isn’t about prediction—it’s about permission. Permission to understand yourself deeply, to release judgment, and to honor the karmic connections that shape your healing journey. 🌙In this episode, you’ll discover:How your birth chart reflects both your self-love and how you show up in intimate relationshipsWhy healing always starts within—and how that inner shift transforms your external relationshipsThe power of ancestral lineage and karmic connections in shaping who you are and who you loveHow understanding your moon can unlock emotional blocks and attachment patternsWhy acceptance—of yourself and others—is the greatest form of love💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Prachi Tiwary: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/prachitiwary Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Lets dive into the question I get asked a lot "How do I love myself better?" This is something we learn not something we know, our wounds lead us to pull away form us to be loved by others and its totally backwards. Start to flip the script and honor your needs, love you first and watch your relationships thrive and attract healthy love back at you.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha talks about the challenge of putting yourself first, even when life feels busy and everyone else’s needs come first. She shares how over-giving and self-neglect are learned patterns, how small daily signs show you’re not meeting your own needs, and why self-love is the foundation for all healthy relationships. 🌿Sasha walks you through practical ways to love yourself—from setting boundaries and saying no, to noticing the little ways you show up for yourself each day. She also guides you through her “Soulful Trio” reflection questions, helping you reconnect with your needs and stop outsourcing love to others. 💖By the end of this episode, you’ll see that loving yourself isn’t selfish—it’s the key to feeling whole, easing guilt, and showing up in relationships with presence, calm, and joy. ✨Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:Where in your life are you waiting for someone else to make you feel good about yourself?What is one small way I can actually make myself feel good about myself today?What might change in your relationships if you met more of your own needs first versus others?In this episode, you’ll discover:Self-love comes first—relationships flow easier when your cup is full.Small acts of care matter—notice and meet your needs daily.Over-giving often hides fear—abandonment, rejection, or feeling “not enough.”Boundaries protect your energy, time, and peace.Guilt is part of unlearning—feel it, don’t fight it.💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha guides you through the vulnerable process of moving from an emotional trigger back into grounded connection. After experiencing her own moment of overwhelm, she explains what a trigger truly is, why it hits so hard, and how a compassionate pause can bring you back to yourself. ✨Through gentle, practical guidance, Sasha walks you step-by-step through what to do when your body is activated—how to calm your system, feel what’s coming up, meet your needs, and return to your partner with steadiness instead of urgency. She also shares her simple A–Z trigger process, offering a supportive roadmap for navigating conflict with more safety and self-awareness. By the end of this episode, you’ll see that healing your triggers isn’t about pushing them away—it’s about moving through them with presence, softness, and a regulated nervous system, so you can reconnect with a calmer mind and a more open heart. 💗Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What is your immediate reaction when you’re triggered?What is one feeling that repeatedly comes up that you’ve been dismissing?Where can you take accountability of yourself?In this episode, you’ll discover:Triggers are invitations to understand yourself more deeply.A pause is powerful—it’s where clarity begins.Your body speaks first; your mind catches up later.Self-regulation is the bridge back to safety.Feeling your emotions is how they move, not how they break you.Repair lands best when you return with steadiness.Love grows when you meet yourself before trying to reconnect.💘Join Sasha’s mini-training to transform anxiety into trust and reconnect with your partner here – Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha shares her deeply personal journey of moving from fear to freedom in love. Once caught in cycles of anxiety, control, and the fear of abandonment, she reveals how healing her nervous system and facing her hidden patterns opened the door to peace, connection, and trust. 🌿Through honest storytelling and soulful guidance, Sasha explores why we cling to chaos, how fear quietly tries to protect us, and what it really takes to feel safe in love again. She also gives a first look at her new mini course, Fear to Freedom—a two-week journey to regulate your emotions, calm your body, and rebuild your sense of self in relationships. By the end of this episode, you’ll see that healing isn’t about fixing your fears—it’s about finding freedom through them, and learning to return to love with a steadier heart and a calmer mind. 💛Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What would you do today if this was the last day you knew that you are alive?What is that thing that you will love to do every day and you're not doing right now?If you're struggling with exercise, what is the type of exercise that you could do today?In this episode, you’ll discover:Awareness is the first step to freedom. Fear is a signal, not an enemy. You can’t think through triggers—you have to feel through them. Freedom begins with self-soothing. A calm body makes love feel safe.Reconnection starts within. Peace in love comes from trust, not control.💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha sits down with integrative nutritionist and yoga teacher Cecilia Ayoub to share her powerful story of surviving breast cancer—and how it awakened a deeper connection to her body, spirit, and purpose. 🌿 From losing her health and sense of identity to rediscovering self-love through mindfulness and forgiveness, Cecilia opens up about what it truly means to heal on every level. Together, she and Sasha explore how slowing down, feeling your emotions, and releasing old versions of yourself can become the most profound medicine of all. By the end of this episode, you’ll see that healing isn’t about going back to who you were—it’s about returning home to yourself, stronger, softer, and more whole than ever before. 💛Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What would you do today if this was the last day you knew that you are alive?What is that thing that you will love to do every day and you're not doing right now?If you're struggling with exercise, what is the type of exercise that you could do today?In this episode, you’ll discover:Healing begins when you stop asking “Why me?” and start asking “What is this teaching me?” Feeling your emotions is strength, not weakness. Forgiveness is how you set yourself free. Your body holds the wisdom your mind can’t quiet. Healing isn’t about who you were—it’s about who you’re becoming.💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Cecilia Ayoub: Website: https://www.manifesthealthbyceci.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/manifesthealth/ Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha explores one of the most life-changing universal laws—the Law of Reflection—and how it shapes every relationship we have. ✨From the partner who doesn’t listen, to the friend who crosses your boundaries, Sasha reveals how these experiences are mirrors showing us what still needs healing within. You’ll learn how to move from “Why is this happening to me?” to “What is this teaching me?”, and how to turn frustration, chaos, or rejection into powerful self-awareness.By the end, you’ll see that your outer world isn’t working against you—it’s working for you, guiding you toward inner calm, deeper connection, and emotional freedom. 💛Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What situation in my life feels most frustrating right now? What might it be reflecting about me? Where am I ignoring my own needs hoping someone else will finally meet them?Could this challenge be an invitation to love myself more deeply, to notice something? If it is, what does that look like for me?In this episode, you’ll discover:Your outer world mirrors your inner state.Triggers are invitations to heal, not punishments.Self-respect sets the tone for how others treat you.Inner calm creates outer peace.Growth begins when you ask, “What is this showing me?”💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
You know you're a cycle breaker if you see something in your family system that is unhealthy and you want to shift that dynamic in your own life. This episode talks to the millennials who I believe are the first CONSCIOUS generation that is leading the way to new waves of healing, loving ourselves and showing up in the world as their true self. So lets dig into the 3 biggest healing practices that US millennials were never taught and are learning now.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha dives into three powerful healing practices millennials are mastering—and how they’re helping us break the emotional cycles we inherited. 🌿 From learning to regulate our emotions to embracing conflict as a doorway to deeper connection, Sasha unpacks how this generation is shifting from survival mode to self-awareness. You’ll hear how to stop avoiding your feelings, stay calm in hard conversations, and repair relationships with compassion and accountability. By the end, you’ll see that emotional safety doesn’t come from a perfect partner or a conflict-free home—it starts within you. 💛In this episode, you’ll discover:Emotional regulation is the foundation of self-trust and inner safety. Conflict isn’t dangerous—it’s a doorway to deeper connection. Repair and ownership are what make relationships last. Healing your emotions teaches your children how to do the same. You don’t need to be fully healed to love—you heal through loving.💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha talks about two big mistakes many women make in love—and how they quietly leave us feeling unseen and disconnected. 💔 From relying on our partners for emotional safety to trying to “fix” them, she unpacks how these patterns come from generations of self-abandonment—and what it looks like to start meeting your own needs for acknowledgment, connection, pleasure, and sovereignty. You’ll hear how to stop expecting your partner to fill your empty cup, inspire change without control, and replace resentment with compassion. By the end, you’ll see that love deepens not by changing your partner, but by coming home to the version of you that already feels whole. ✨Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What is one emotional need you can meet today, this weekend, this week?How are you going to meet that need?What is one thing you can accept about a partner or loved one today?In this episode, you’ll discover:Emotional safety starts with you, not your partner.Love patterns often stem from ancestral and childhood wounds.You can’t fix your partner—change begins within.Compassion grows when you embrace your partner’s humanity.Love deepens when you release control and trust your healing.💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The Power of your mind to heal and create the version of who you want to be Description: Reflecting on who I was and how my healing journey released lifetime patterns such as not enough time, not enough money, not enough of you. Change your mind, dissolve the beliefs limiting you and causing you anxiety and watch your life expands into a new version of yourself that you are amazed by.Show Notes:This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha dives into the hidden thoughts that quietly shape our lives—the ones that whisper “I’m not enough,” “I don’t have time,” or “love never works out for me.” 💔 What starts as a passing thought often reveals a deeper wound—an old belief our subconscious still clings to for safety. Through her own journey of shifting these patterns, Sasha shows how to spot the stories that hold you back and gently rewire them into truth. With warmth and real-life examples, she shares how to “ladder up” your thoughts, use small proofs to rebuild self-trust, and retrain your mind toward calm and possibility. This isn’t about pretending to be positive—it’s about learning to believe something new, one step at a time. By the end of this episode, you’ll see that healing doesn’t begin with fixing yourself—it begins with changing what you choose to believe about who you already are. ✨💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
When you believe your partner isn't doing enough, it feels unbalanced and you are pulling more weight for the family and household to function. I know this exact feeling and how much resent and overwhelm it can create, listen to uncover what is truly behind "my partner isn't doing enough," and how to overcome the desire to nag, control and pick at your partners flaws.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha unpacks a feeling so many of us know too well—the thought that our partner isn’t “doing enough.” 💔What starts as frustration over chores, parenting, or communication often runs much deeper. Sasha gently reveals how these moments of nitpicking or resentment usually trace back to old wounds—abandonment, rejection, betrayal, or unworthiness—and how our nervous system tries to protect us by controlling or withdrawing. With compassion and honesty, she shares how to break free from this cycle by creating safety within yourself. You’ll learn how to calm your nervous system when triggered, build self-trust through small promises, reparent your inner child, and set boundaries that are both firm and kind.By the end of this episode, you’ll discover that lasting love isn’t built on keeping score, but on the security you cultivate inside—the kind that allows you to show up with presence, patience, and peace. ✨In this episode, you’ll discover:“Not enough” often reflects old wounds, not your partner.Nitpicking and control are fear-based safety strategies.True safety in love starts within, not outside.Self-trust grows by keeping promises to yourself.💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship – an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sasha interviews Jeri (Parenting & Mindful Expert) supporting leaders through emotional intelligence and mindfulness. Cultivating resilience, preventing burnout, and creating sustainable well-being. With nearly 20 years of experience, she brings a trauma-informed, research-backed approach to emotional and psychological health across schools, nonprofits, and mission-driven workplaces.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha sits down with mindful leadership coach Jeri Ashley to explore healing burnout, re-parenting yourself, and creating boundaries that protect your peace. 🌿Jeri shares her story of becoming a mother during the pandemic and how it awakened patterns of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the belief of “never enough.” Together, she and Sasha unpack how to shift these cycles through self-compassion, emotional intelligence, and joyful practices that nurture your inner child. By the end of this episode, you’ll leave with practical tools to soften your inner voice, raise emotionally aware kids, and honor your well-being with boundaries that last. ✨💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘 Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini trainingHeal You Heal Your Relationship – the 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Jeri Ashley:Website: https://www.themindfulnessco.com/soft-success Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerithemindfulmama LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeri-ashley/  Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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