Dad Space Podcast - for Dads by Dads

Episode 236 - Raising Daughters - Modeling Respect and Kindness as a DadAs fathers, we're often the first men our daughters look to for clues on how the world works. Your actions speak louder than words, setting the bar for how they expect to be treated and how they treat others. Let's break it down with practical steps you can start todayWhy Dads Matter in Modeling These TraitsFathers shape their daughters' views of relationships from day one. By showing respect - treating people with fairness, dignity, and empathy - you teach her to demand the same in her life. Kindness isn't innate; it's a skill kids learn by watching you respond patiently to frustration, help a neighbor, or listen without judgment.children imitate what they see, especially from dads. When you model respect toward your partner, strangers, or even in traffic, she internalizes it as normal. This builds her confidence to spot unhealthy dynamics later and fosters generosity that ripples through her life.Start small: Notice how you talk to service workers or handle disagreements at home. Your daughter absorbs it all, turning your everyday habits into her lifelong compassPractical Ways to Model Respect DailyTreat your partner as an equal: Use kind words, share chores without grudge, and show affection openly. This demonstrates mutual respect and equality, helping her envision healthy partnerships.​Honor boundaries: Listen when she says no, respect her opinions even if they differ, and apologize sincerely when you mess up. Patience here teaches her self-worth.​Show empathy everywhere: Acknowledge others' feelings—"That must be tough for them"—and act on it, like helping an elderly neighbor. She'll mirror this compassionQuality time amplifies this: Sit at her level for playdates or chats. Role-play scenarios, like sharing toys, to practice respect in action. Your presence proves she mattersBuilding Kindness Through Family HabitsKindness thrives on repetition. Call out her good deeds - "That was so kind sharing your markers!" - to reinforce them. Read books about empathy together, discussing characters' choices on repeat reads.Make it collaborative: Brainstorm acts like baking for a teacher or leaving notes for siblings. At home, recognize Mom's efforts aloud - "Thanks for handling dinner, that helps us all" - to normalize appreciationExtend it outward: Shovel a neighbor's walk as a family or write thank-yous. These build habits that carry to school and beyond, proving kindness starts close byKey TakeawayDads, your daily respect and kindness aren't just nice - they're the blueprint for your daughter's world. Model it relentlessly, and watch her build a life of strong, compassionate connections. Thanks for tuning into Dad Space - share your stories in the comments, subscribe for more, and go be that dad today___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 235 - Date Night Done Right - Tips for Rekindling Marital RomanceWhy Date Nights Matter for DadsMarriage doesn't run on autopilot after the diapers and soccer practices pile up. Dads often prioritize provider mode, but romance keeps the foundation solid for your whole family. Studies show couples who date regularly report higher satisfaction and better parenting teamwork, your kids thrive when mom and dad are connected.​Neglect that spark, and resentment builds fast. Think about it: when was your last uninterrupted conversation with your wife that wasn't about bills or bedtime? Date nights rebuild intimacy, reduce stress, and model healthy love for your children. As dads, we're wired to lead here, step up intentionally.​Practical Tips to Make It HappenPlan Ahead Like a Pro: Block the calendar now—swap kids with another dad couple or hire a sitter monthly. No excuses; treat it like a non-negotiable work meeting. Start small: coffee runs if dinners feel daunting.Ditch the Routine: Skip Applebee's every time. Recreate your early dates - picnic in the park, stargazing drive, or dance lesson. Novelty releases dopamine, mimicking those honeymoon vibes.Focus on Her World: Ask open questions about her day, dreams, stresses - not just yours. Listen 80%, talk 20%. Bonus: Compliment non-physical stuff like her patience with the kids.Keep It Low-Pressure: Home dates count, cook together, unplug phones, play her favorite playlist. Physical touch without expectations rebuilds comfort.Follow Through Post-Date: Text the next day recapping a highlight. Momentum matters; one date sparks the next.These aren't fluffy ideas; they're battle-tested from dads who've been there. One listener shared how weekly walks turned their rocky patch around.​Common PitfallsWatch out for fatigue excuses - "I'm too tired after work." Flip it: date nights recharge you. Another trap? Treating it like a kid event - leave parenting talk at home.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 234 - Movember Comes to an End, Dad Space Continues, An Encouragement for DadsMovember may be over, but the heart of the conversation continues on Dad Space: men’s health is everyone’s health, and the ripple effects of a well-supported dad reach partners, kids, and communities. This episode closes a 30-episodes-in-30-days run by thanking listeners for showing up and, more importantly, taking action—not out of guilt or pressure, but from encouragement and practical ideas that translate into daily life. It’s a reminder that growth doesn’t fit into a month; it’s a year-round practice that touches mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional “muscles,” and small, consistent steps at home matter most.Carrying Movember forwardThe show re-centers men’s health as a family issue, urging dads to keep the conversations and check-ins going beyond November. Listeners shared that they didn’t just consume content—they tried ideas from guests and resources, proving that encouragement plus doable steps beats being lectured any day. The host frames December as a chance to keep momentum, with the podcast serving as a companion and catalyst for sustainable change.December mindset for dadsAs gift season ramps up, the challenge is clear: resist overspending and invest in presence. The story of kids unable to recall last year’s presents becomes a nudge to prioritize memory-making over material lists. Schedule simple rituals—movie nights, popcorn, hot chocolate, and unhurried time on the couch—because those are the moments kids will remember next year. Your presence teaches better than a pile of boxes ever could.What’s next on Dad SpaceExpect new “mini series” that go deeper into single topics across several episodes, keeping the practical, encouraging tone that invites action without shame. The show is actively gathering books, podcasts, speakers, and courses that have helped real dads, and it’s widening the guest bench—dads, moms, experts, and storytellers who can sharpen, encourage, and broaden the conversation. Listeners are invited to submit resources and potential guests, including themselves, to keep building a helpful, shared knowledge base.A few invitationsShare a resource that changed your dad journey so others can benefit.Pitch a guest or your own story—diverse voices make the space stronger.Put family time on the calendar this month; protect it like any important meeting.If your kids are young, check out the Daily Santa Podcast and explore kid-safe listening via the Kids Pod app for a festive, family-friendly countdown.Key takeaway: The best gift you can give your family is a healthy, present you—keep building those daily habits, make time together non-negotiable, and let encouragement fuel action long after Movember ends.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 233 - The Holiday Season is Coming - A Podcast for You to Share With Your Kids - The Daily Santa PodcastIn this episode of the Dad Space podcast, host Dave wraps up the intense Movember challenge of 30 episodes in 30 days, reflecting on the exhaustion and gratitude of pushing through daily conversations for dads worldwide. As Thanksgiving approaches in the US and holiday seasons begin globally, he pivots to a festive family recommendation: his kid-focused Daily Santa Podcast, launching December 1st with 25 daily episodes counting down to Christmas like an audio advent calendar—minus the chocolate. Even for non-Santa households, the show's underlying storyline emphasizes becoming better humans through lessons on kindness, sibling harmony, neighborly love, and personal growth under Santa's watchful eye, perfect for bedtime listening or daytime play.Dave pulls back the curtain on the chaotic creation process, revealing how each episode is crafted live on the day it's due, juggling dozens of tracks for sound effects, music, and voices—from the announcer and weather reporters to live North Pole street updates and recurring jokes that build a connected narrative across the series. Standouts include Santa's social media-savvy elf Selfie, who snaps endless selfies, causes hilarious mayhem, and stars in blooper reels at every episode's end, earning fans like Dave's wife and even coworkers sneaking listens at the office. Listeners worldwide, including US and Canadian military stationed overseas, have shared how it feels like a taste of home, with bonus perks like Dave's wife's favorite Christmas cookie recipe available for download on DailySantaPodcast.com, plus early previews on YouTube.The episode closes on an intimate note, transitioning from holiday cheer to a raw monologue addressing male loneliness as a silent epidemic. Dave speaks directly to men carrying unseen burdens—tired yet unrelenting, strong yet human—urging them to break the silence by reaching out via email, voice message, or calls for help, affirming that real strength lies in honesty and that every dad's presence matters deeply to family, friends, and the world.Key Takeaway: Amid holiday hustle and personal struggles, prioritize connection—share festive podcasts with your kids to build better family habits, and remember to check in on fellow dads, because asking for or offering support turns isolation into strength. Visit DailySantaPodcast.com for links, recipes, and more Dad Space episodes ahead.https://dailysantapodcast.com/___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 232 - Confidence and Arrogance - The Fine Line Every Dad Should KnowA simple way to put it for dads: confidence is “I’m valuable and capable,” while arrogance is “I’m more valuable and more capable than you.” Kids, partners, and coworkers feel safe around confidence and small around arrogance.​Clear definitions for dadsConfidence: A grounded belief in your abilities, with a realistic sense of strengths and weaknesses, and a willingness to learn and ask for help.​Arrogance: An inflated sense of importance, exaggerating your abilities, needing to be right, and putting others down to feel strong.​How it feels to your familyConfident dad: Listens to his kids and partner, makes decisions, owns mistakes, and still shows respect and warmth, so the home feels safe and collaborative.​Arrogant dad: Dismisses opinions, talks over others, blames, or mocks “weakness,” so the home feels tense and people stop being honest with him.​Quick self-check questionsAsk before you speak or act:“Am I trying to serve or to prove something?” Confidence serves; arrogance proves.​“Do I still respect this person if they disagree with me or see my flaws?” Confidence can handle disagreement and imperfection; arrogance can’t.​Everyday dad examplesWith kids: Confident dad says, “I know how to handle this, but I also want to hear how you see it.” Arrogant dad says or implies, “Because I’m the dad, I’m automatically right, end of story.”​With partner: Confident dad holds a strong opinion and listens, adjusts when shown he’s wrong. Arrogant dad doubles down, keeps score, or refuses to apologize.​At work: Confident dad celebrates the team and takes responsibility when things go wrong. Arrogant dad takes all the credit and shifts blame when things fail.​How to grow confident, not arrogantGround your identity: Remind yourself your worth isn’t based on your last win or loss as a dad, husband, or employee; it’s deeper than performance.​Practice humility: Admit “I don’t know” and “I was wrong” regularly; this builds trust and actually strengthens how capable you look to your kids and partner.​Use strength to lift: Any time you feel strong—physically, financially, or intellectually—ask, “How can I use this to support, not to dominate, my family?”​ “Strength with humility is confidence; strength without humility becomes arrogance,” then walk through these family, marriage, and work examples with honest stories and practical self-check questions___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 231 - Why Am I Feeling More Like The Grinch and Less Like Jolly Santa - Where Did My Love for the Holidays Go?Feeling indifferent or apathetic about the Christmas holidays, especially if you once loved the season, is more common than you might think. Many people lose their holiday joy over time due to changes in life circumstances, stress, or shifting priorities. If you’re wondering where your love for the holidays has gone and how to navigate this season when you feel disconnected, here are some helpful approaches shared by others who’ve faced similar feelings:Start Small and Build Your Own Spirit: Don’t wait for that magical feeling to return—begin by playing nostalgic Christmas music, putting up a few meaningful decorations, or watching a favorite holiday movie. Creating new or revisiting old traditions can gradually rekindle your excitement.Focus on What Matters to You: Let go of perfectionism or feeling obligated to do everything. Find one or two things that bring you comfort or joy—whether that’s baking, cozy evenings in Christmas pajamas, or taking winter walks with a hot beverage.Create New Connections and Traditions: Engage with others by volunteering, donating, or simply reaching out to friends or family who may also be struggling. Generosity and connection can reignite the true spirit behind the holidays.Give Yourself Grace: Holiday apathy is okay. Be kind to yourself and acknowledge your feelings without guilt. Sometimes just accepting where you are emotionally can reduce stress.Add Visual Cues: Even if your heart isn’t fully in it, small seasonal changes like lights, candles, or a wreath can create subtle reminders that help shift your mindset.Get Outside: Fresh air, exercise, and nature walks—even in chilly weather—can improve mood and help you feel more present.Seek What Sparks Joy for You: Whether it’s singing carols, decorating a tiny tree, or making thoughtful gifts, engaging senses and doing activities you love can jumpstart holiday feelings.Remember, the holidays don’t have one set definition or way to be celebrated. Find your own version that feels authentic and manageable, and gradually you may find your appreciation and joy returning.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 230 - Shout Out To All the Dad Space Listeners - We Celebrate Our Amazing Listeners Around the GlobeHey, thanks for listening to Dad Space - here is a list of countries where our listeners are! It is amazing to see how far Dad Space has travelled from a small recording space in my home here in Canada to you, out amazing Dad Space audienceHere are the countries that we know of at this point!ArgentinaAustraliaAustriaBelgiumBotswanaBrazilCanadaChinaCzechiaDenmarkDominican RepublicDR CongoEstoniaFinlandFranceGermanyGhanaGreeceGuatemalaHong KongIcelandIndiaIndonesiaIrelandIsraelItalyJapanKazakhstanMalaysiaMexicoNew ZealandNigeriaNorwayPakistanPhilippinesPolandQatarRomaniaRussiaSingaporeSouth AfricaSpainSwedenSwitzerlandTaiwanThailandThe NetherlandsTrinidad and TobagoTürkiyeUnited Arab EmiratesUnited KingdomUnited StatesUzbekistanhttps://movember.com/___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 229 - Legacy - How Dads Create Lasting Change for Families - Presence, Example and WordsIn this episode of Dad Space, we dive into what legacy truly means for fathers and how dads can create lasting, positive change that resonates through generations. Legacy is more than just financial inheritance or big achievements—it’s the daily, consistent acts that shape who your children become and the values they carry forward.We kick off by challenging common cultural ideas of legacy—like career success or wealth—and instead focus on what kids actually remember: the time dads spent with them, how dads treated their family and others, and the patterns of behavior modeled every day. Real legacy is found not in highlight moments but in the quiet, meaningful routines and examples dads set.Next, we explore three core “legacy levers” that dads can use to positively influence their families:Presence: Showing up physically and emotionally through simple connection moments like bedtime talks, car rides, or tech-free dinners.Example: Kids learn more from what dads do than what they say—modeling kindness, accountability, apology, and respect.Words: The phrases we speak leave lasting impressions—expressing love, pride, and encouragement builds strong emotional foundations.We also discuss the courage it takes to break negative family cycles. Many dads may not have had positive role models but can choose to start new traditions—whether saying “I love you” more often or creating small family rituals. Being the one to change the family story is one of the most powerful legacies a dad can leave.The episode highlights the importance of micro-legacies—small traditions, habits, and rituals that build connection and lasting memories, like Saturday morning pancakes or birthday letters. These little things often mean more than big speeches or grand gestures.Finally, listeners are given a simple legacy check-in with thought-provoking questions to reflect on who they are as dads today and what changes they can make for a stronger, more loving family tomorrow.Dad Space ends with a heartfelt challenge for dads to create legacy in small, meaningful ways every day—reminding us all that legacy is not about perfection but showing up consistently with love.Episode Takeaway:Legacy is built in the ordinary moments and consistent patterns of love, presence, and example. By making small intentional choices, dads can leave a powerful, lasting impact on their families for generations.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 228 - A Man That Treated Me Like A Man When I Was Just A Kid - Lessons Learned from LloydIn this heartfelt episode of Dad Space, the host shares a deeply personal story about an unlikely role model from his youth: a man named Lloyd who profoundly shaped his journey into adulthood.Growing up in a small northern Canadian town, the transition from childhood to teenage years was a confusing and challenging time—caught between wanting independence and still being tethered to the limitations of youth. At that vulnerable crossroads, Lloyd stepped into the host’s life as a steady, unexpected guide.Lloyd was far from glamorous. He worked shift work in a plant, owned a large farm with dairy cows and hayfields, and carried the weight of a tough, lonely existence after a separation from his family. Yet, despite his own struggles, he opened his world to a teenage boy, teaching him life lessons that went far beyond simple farming skills or hunting knowledge.Through vivid stories, the host paints a picture of a man who sparked joy and adventure—a vintage John Deere snowmobile that became a beast to ride, daring jumps over hay bales and even a neighbor's house, and hands-on lessons in hunting and farm work. Lloyd’s rugged lifestyle, humility, and generosity created a safe, nurturing environment where the host learned responsibility, courage, and respect.One of the most striking memories is Lloyd’s willingness to let a 14-year-old drive his beat-up farm truck right past the local police station—a quiet act of trust and empowerment that left a lasting impression. Lloyd’s confidence in the host mirrored the confidence he was helping build within himself.The episode also reflects on the deeper emotional resonance of this relationship: Lloyd’s loneliness and longing for connection, and how this shared need brought two very different men together to support and uplift one another. It’s a reminder that mentoring and friendship go both ways—that sometimes the person who seems to have the least also has the most to give.Ultimately, this episode is a call to action for dads and men everywhere: in a world where many kids may lack positive male role models outside their families, the opportunity to step into those roles is invaluable. Whether young or old, men have the power to profoundly influence lives through presence, trust, and simple acts of kindness.As Movember shines a spotlight on men’s health and community support, the host encourages listeners to consider who in their circle might need a guiding hand—and how we can all give back in meaningful ways. The story of Lloyd exemplifies the impact one man’s belief in another can have across a lifetime.Key takeaway: Life-changing mentorship can come from unexpected places. Being present, trusting, and investing in young lives—beyond your own family—builds stronger communities and teaches lessons that last a lifetime.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 227 - Burnout Busters - Managing Stress and Avoiding Dad FatigueBurnout is a real challenge for dads—especially in today's fast-paced world where work, family, and personal expectations easily pile up. This episode of Dad Space, “Burnout Busters: Managing Stress and Avoiding Dad Fatigue,” explores effective habits and insights every dad can use to reclaim energy and joy in their daily life.​Understanding Dad BurnoutParental burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s feeling emotionally drained and detached, struggling to be present for your kids and partner. The warning signs include persistent tiredness, irritability, trouble focusing, emotional distance, and frequent headaches or tension. Burnout builds up slowly, so recognizing these signs early is key to bouncing back before they spiral.​Key Strategies to Bust BurnoutSet Clear BoundariesDads often juggle work, family, and countless daily tasks. Creating strong boundaries—like designating work-free family time and resisting late emails—protects energy and brings more meaningful interactions with your loved ones. Say “no” when you need to, and delegate household chores when possible.​Prioritize Self-CareSelf-care isn’t selfish. Even 10 minutes for yourself each day adds up: take a walk, read a few pages of a book, or enjoy a cup of tea in silence. Make sure you get regular movement and adequate sleep. Quick, healthy meals or snacks (like fruit or nuts) can help, even when time is short.​Ask for HelpResist the urge to carry it all alone. Reach out to your partner, another parent, a friend, or a support group—many are ready to help if you ask. Sharing tasks or emotions strengthens relationships and reduces overwhelm.​Be Self-CompassionateIt’s easy for dads to be their own toughest critics. But supporting yourself with kindness—admitting when you’re tired or need a breather—can keep stress from escalating and model healthy emotional habits for your kids.​Connect With Other DadsSocial connections are a proven buffer against stress. Join a dad’s group, attend community events, or simply check in with another father for honest conversation. You’ll discover tips, encouragement, and the reassurance that you’re not alone.​Reframe Your ExpectationsPerfection isn’t the goal. Aim for realistic routines for yourself and your kids. Prioritize what matters most and shed what doesn’t serve your family’s well-being.​Key Takeaway for Dad Space ListenersBurnout isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s a signal to slow down, recalibrate, and ask for support. By defending boundaries, embracing self-care, seeking help, and building connections, dads can move from surviving to thriving. Taking small steps each day not only benefits you, but also builds the resilient, joyful legacy every father hopes to leave.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 226 - A Story of The Ripple Effect of Depression and Who Else is Impacted by The DarknessDad Space: Movember, Mental Health, and the Ripple Effect — A Personal StoryWelcome to Dad Space, the podcast for dads, by dads. In this special Movember episode, host Dave shares an intimate story that ties directly into previous discussions on men's mental health and the powerful ripple effects that depression can have — not just on the individual but on their family, community, and beyond.Movember is a time to shine a light on men's physical and mental well-being. Dave takes this opportunity to invite open conversation and to remind listeners of the importance of connection, support, and self-care during challenging times.The Story Behind the EpisodeDave reflects on a real-life experience during a period of his own mental health reflection. While working as maintenance and property manager, he encountered a tenant—a quiet, kind man much younger than himself—who faced inner struggles hidden beneath a calm surface.One day, a routine follow-up to prepare the tenant’s apartment for new occupants turned into a heartbreaking discovery: the tenant had passed away, a victim to what was believed to be a profound battle with depression. Dave describes the emotional impact of the moment, the weight of silent suffering, and how this event deeply reinforced the importance of mental health awareness.What This Means for Us as DadsFatherhood often places us on a public platform—a "post turtle" standing in view of our children and community as imperfect, evolving men. Our daily struggles, how we manage our mental health, and the way we show up have a lasting impression on the next generation.Dave emphasizes that children don’t just see the good days but also the tough ones, and through it all, they internalize the behavior and approaches modeled by their dads. The challenge is clear: recognizing the ripple effects our lives create and committing to nurture positivity by seeking help and allowing others to support us.Encouragement and ReminderIf you are currently going through a difficult moment with mental health, Dave gently advises that this episode might not be the right one for you now—and that's okay. The episode will be here when you’re ready. For everyone else, there is strength in reaching out, sharing your story, and accepting help. It’s a vital part of healing and breaking the isolation that too often compels men to go it alone.The metaphor of carrying all the grocery bags in one trip speaks powerfully to the damaging assumption many men carry—that they must do everything alone. Dave invites listeners to let the people who care help carry those bags.Resources and SupportMovember is more than just growing a mustache; it’s about raising awareness and providing tangible support for men’s mental health. While Dave can’t list every resource globally, he urges listeners to seek help early, talk on good days, and build connections that carry through the hard times.Final TakeawayThis episode of Dad Space is more than a story—it’s a call to action for every dad to understand the power of vulnerability and community. Your mental health matters. Your choice to seek and accept help creates positive ripples far beyond you.If this episode resonates with you, share it forward with someone who might need to hear it. Dad Space is a place where real stories and real struggles are welcome, and together we can be the support network no dad should ever have to face alone.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten

Episode 225 - In The Shadow of Silence, A Novel About the Ripple Effects of Depression on Those Around UsAbout the authorRaymonde Dumont, MD, LMFT, is a pediatrician as well as a family therapist. She practiced and taught for several years at Harvard Medical School, and at the Joslin Diabetes Center. Her work focused on the effects of a person's illness through their entire family. She showed that mental health and family function affect the medical outcome. In her private practiceas a family therapist, she helps families to navigate difficulties by collaborating, rather than becoming divided.She is also a mother, a widow, and a friend to many. She now turns her years of experience into words that speak of resilience, and of the flawed road that leads us to becoming good enough. She wrote this book because the story would not let her go, and because she hopes it will bring a little insight and comfort.She has published many professional articles, but in fiction, she finds a more personal, intimate voice. Her short stories have been published in Persimmon Tree and in The Hemlock Journal. You can find her blog on Substack as raedumont.substack. Or you can contact her through her website at Rae Dumont, Writer.She lives and practices in Montclair, New Jersey, within reach of New York City.In the Shadow of Silence: A Novel A novel that follows the pursuit of love and joy—until the descent of untreated depression ends with unbearable loss, forcing a family to deal with the shocking and immediate aftermath of suicide.Eva’s lonely childhood has given her an intuitive connection with kids and teenagers. She is a gifted child psychiatrist. Single, she dreams of having her own children, and she yearns for love. The future seems bright when she meets Lyman; They build a family. They share adventures. They meet life’s challenges as team. They navigate a bout of Lyman’s depression; treatment works.They share rich, fulfilling years while their careers develop, and their children grow up.When their sons enter adulthood and their daughter is a teenager, they plan an entire summer as a family. But Lyman abruptly stops both therapy and medication. He spirals into a dark and irritable isolation that none of them can penetrate.After his brutal suicide, Eva is left to cope and to guide her children through the trauma, as they each rebuild their lives.https://www.raedumontwriting.org/___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 224 - How Podcasts Can Help You Be a Better Dad - Legacy, Lessons and LearningsPodcasting has quietly become a powerful tool for dads who want to leave a meaningful legacy, connect with their kids on a deeper level, and grow as fathers themselves. In today’s fast-paced, distracted world, podcasts offer something truly special: a chance to step back, reflect, and intentionally shape the story we tell our children about what it means to be a dad.Building a LegacyEvery episode of a dad-focused podcast is a digital time capsule—an opportunity to share stories, values, and lessons that your kids, and maybe even your grandkids, can revisit years from now. Whether you’re interviewing guests, sharing hard-won wisdom, or just recounting a funny parenting mishap, you’re building a library of your thoughts, beliefs, and hopes. This kind of legacy reaches beyond the dinner table. It anchors your family in who you are and the journey you’ve been on, helping your children understand not just what you did, but why you did it.Passing Along LessonsPodcasting invites dads to think deeply about what truly matters—from how to navigate tough conversations, to modeling kindness, resilience, and vulnerability. It encourages dads to verbalize lessons that might otherwise go unsaid: how to handle disappointment, why apologizing matters, or the value of perseverance through setbacks. By hearing these moments on a podcast, kids receive guidance in a format that feels relevant and accessible, especially as they grow and become more independent.Sharing the LearningsPerhaps the greatest surprise of podcasting as a dad is how much you learn in return. Each episode—especially when you host guests, experts, or even fellow dads—provides new perspectives and practical tips. This “always learning” mindset not only makes you a more informed father, but it demonstrates to your children the importance of ongoing growth and humility. It’s a living example that you don’t have to have all the answers—and that’s okay.Key TakeawayBy embracing podcasting, dads can share their own story, amplify the values that matter most, and create a living legacy that inspires both themselves and their children. Every recording is an act of service, a resource for future generations, and a reminder: good fatherhood is never about perfection—it’s about showing up, sharing honestly, and always being willing to learn.Podcasts can help you be a better dad, not just by what you say, but by how you listen, adapt, and grow through the journey of parenting.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 223 - Father Figures - The Impact of Grandpas, Uncles, and StepdadsIndirect adult male influences - like coaches, grandpas, uncles, and cousins—play a crucial role in shaping kids by modeling respectful, healthy behaviors, emotional openness, and integrity beyond what they might experience at home. As men, we can actively help our extended families and their children by making ourselves available, participating in their lives, and demonstrating what balanced masculinity looks like - showing fairness, taking responsibility, and admitting mistakes honestly.Ways Men Can Positively Influence KidsShow up for kids at family events, games, or special occasions to foster a sense of belonging and support.​Model respectful behavior and emotional openness, proving that expressing feelings is healthy and normal.​Teach confidence by demonstrating self-belief and sharing motivational strategies, helping kids feel valued in their unique interests.​Offer gentle discipline and guidance, focusing on fairness and accountability rather than strictness or control.​Be proactive in mentoring nieces, nephews, or younger cousins - with advice, shared hobbies, or simple life skills.Modeling Healthy Male Examples Outside Immediate FamilyAdmit your mistakes and show humility, which helps kids see that it’s okay to be imperfect and encourages emotional resilience.​Share caregiving tasks, demonstrate respect for all family members, and challenge outdated stereotypes, so kids observe inclusive and supportive masculinity.​Encourage open communication, listen to kids’ concerns, and validate their opinions, building trust and confidence.​Support diverse interests for family members - whether in music, sports, academics, or art -to expand their understanding of what it means to be a caring, capable man.By modeling these behaviors, men can help kids - both within and outside their immediate families - grow into confident, emotionally resilient adults, equipped to build healthy relationships and contribute positively to their communities.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 222 - The Monkey Trap Mindset - How Letting Go Sets Dads FreeThe famous “monkey trap” story—using a hollowed coconut with a hole just big enough for a monkey’s hand, baited with a treat, to supposedly catch monkeys because they won’t let go of the prize—has been widely repeated, but there’s no reliable evidence that this technique is actually used in the wild. It’s best understood as a parable or metaphor rather than a real trapping method. The Monkey Trap. Most of us have heard of it. You catch a monkey by using a gourd or a coconut that is nailed down, has a small hole in it, and has some fruit for bait inside of it. The monkey slips its hand into the hole, grabs the prize (making a fist that is too large to pull out of the hole in the process), and is caught. Why is it caught? Because it won’t let go of the prize.Despite appearing in anecdotes and spiritual teaching, researchers have not found documented occurrences of this exact trap in field studies of monkey capture. Instead, the story endures for its powerful illustrative value: being trapped by what we refuse to release.This metaphor is a compelling way to discuss how dads—and men in general—can become “trapped” by emotional baggage, grudges, fears, or limiting beliefs. True freedom, growth, and happiness come when we learn to let go.https://samknight.com/?p=924https://movember.com/___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 221 - Out of Place but Learning to Balance, What a Post Turtle Can Teach A DadSometimes in life, we find ourselves as human post turtles. Maybe it’s that coworker who somehow got promoted to manager and you’re scratching your head wondering how. Or that pop star who’s suddenly the face of everything, but can’t carry a tune in a bucket. The idea is the same—they didn’t get there on their own. Someone lifted them up, put them there, and now they’re just trying to figure out what to do with it.As dads, we get it. None of us really “earned” fatherhood through a test or certification. One day we were just placed there—sometimes ready, often not. Suddenly, we’re balancing on this narrow post called “Dad Life,” looking down, hoping we don’t fall, wondering who thought this was a good idea anyway.But here’s the thing about post turtles: even though they didn’t get up there on their own, they’re there now. And like us, they have two choices—freeze up and panic, or adapt and learn to balance. That’s the heart of the dad journey. We might not have all the answers, but we learn on the post. We lean on other dads. We adjust our footing. And maybe, we even learn to enjoy the view from up there.Reflection SegmentSo, who put you on your post? Maybe it was your partner, your parents, your kids, or maybe life itself. The truth is, we’ve all had help. And that’s not something to hide—it’s something to honor. Every dad who’s ever rocked a newborn at 3 AM, every dad who’s shown up to a recital or a soccer game after a long week, every dad trying to be present—each one is a post turtle in his own way. We didn’t get here alone, and we’re not staying balanced by ourselves either.Next time you feel like a post turtle—awkward, unsure, maybe out of place—remember: it’s normal. You’re not alone on that fence post, and there’s a whole community of dads out here cheering you on, helping you find your balance.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 220 - An Introvert’s Perspective - The Quiet Truth For Dads About Energy and ConnectionAn Introvert’s Perspective: The Quiet Truth About Energy and ConnectionIn this episode, the conversation centers on a familiar frustration for many introverts—the misconceptions people have about what it means to be quiet, reserved, or private. The host explores three common phrases that introverts often hear and why they can be both unhelpful and misunderstood.The first is the casual observation, “You’re so quiet. Are you okay?” For introverts, their quietness is not a sign of something being wrong; it’s simply their natural rhythm. Asking them to defend their silence can make social interactions even more uncomfortable. Quiet is not a problem to be fixed—it’s part of how some people process the world.The second remark, “You need to get out more,” misses the point of introversion entirely. Introverts do not need more external stimulation to feel complete. Home and solitude are restorative spaces where their energy is recharged. They venture out when they are ready, not when social expectations demand it.And then there’s, “You need to loosen up.” For an introvert, this can feel like pressure to perform rather than an invitation to connect. Instead of making them feel relaxed, it often highlights the very discomfort they were trying to manage quietly.To help make sense of these differences, the host offers a vivid analogy: introverts start each day with five coins, and every social interaction costs them one. By the end of the day, their coins are spent—they need alone time to refill their emotional balance. Extroverts, however, begin with zero coins and earn one from every interaction. Their energy grows through engagement and connection.This simple idea explains why introverts and extroverts sometimes misunderstand each other. When an extrovert suggests happy hour after work, they’re riding a social high, eager to keep going. The introvert, meanwhile, has exhausted their coin supply. The two operate on different energy economies—one earning through interaction, the other conserving through solitude.But these differences aren’t barriers to friendship or love. They’re opportunities for understanding. When both sides recognize how the other recharges, connection becomes easier and more genuine. Whether you’re an introvert protecting your peace or an extrovert chasing new connections, empathy is the bridge that keeps relationships balanced.Key Takeaway:Introversion and extroversion are not opposites—they are complementary ways of managing energy. Understanding the balance between solitude and connection leads to stronger relationships and deeper respect for how others navigate the world.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 219 - Trust, Truth, and Tense Talks - Dad Strategies for Marriage RecoveryTrust is the foundation of any healthy marriage—but when it’s broken, even everyday conversations can feel like navigating a minefield. This episode explores the warning signs that trust is eroding, why it matters for dads, and practical ways to rebuild connection with your partner and kids. Whether you’re just noticing distance or working to heal after hurt, you’re not alone—let’s talk honestly about trust, respect, and hope for your family.3 Signs Trust is Fading in Your Marriage (for Dads)Communication Feels Like Navigating Shaky GroundWhen trust is strong, you can talk about anything. When it’s shaky, you walk on eggshells, afraid that any word or topic could set off conflict. Instead of open and spontaneous connection, conversations become guarded and stressful. As a dad and partner, you might find yourself second-guessing every word or avoiding important topics altogether. Taking small, honest steps—like sharing feelings even when it’s tough—can open the path to rebuilding safety and trust.Checking Up vs. Checking In: Which One Are You Doing?It’s normal to check in with your partner out of care, but when trust fades, those moments shift into suspicion—“Where were you? Who were you with?” Instead of genuine connection, you find yourself interrogating or feeling interrogated. Choosing to check in daily, with curiosity and respect, helps restore emotional safety and turns tense interactions back into moments of support.You Default to Negative InterpretationsWhen trust is lost, it’s easy to assume negative intentions—seeing innocent actions through a lens of doubt. This cycle can reinforce hurt and distance for both partners. One powerful change: choose to believe the best in each other and give your partner the benefit of the doubt, just as you’d want for yourself. This mindset shift can slowly break the cycle and bring hope back to your marriage.Key Takeaways for Dad Space ListenersIf trust is low, communication will start to feel tense and unsafe—be gentle with yourself and your partner as you work through it.Checking in should be a sign of care, not control. With practice, you can rebuild mutual respect, even after setbacks.Dads play a key role in modeling trust and honesty, both in marriage and with their kids.Real trust grows from small, consistent choices to communicate openly, assume the best, and repair mistakes together.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 218 - The Pencil’s Tale - Five Lessons Every Dad Should Share and Teach Their KidsThe story itself appears to be an anonymous parable, sometimes called "The Pencil Maker’s Parable," but has been attributed to adaptors such as Jimmy Reed and featured in inspirational columns and children’s teachings.Here is the tale:The Pencils Tale. Once upon a time, an old pencil maker took his newest pencil aside just before he was about to pack him into a box. Imagining the little fellow as a person, he recalled a few things about the pencil. There are five things you need to know, he said to his pencil, before I send you out into the world. Always remember these five things. Never forget them and you will become the best pencil you can be. The first thing is to remember that you will be able to do many great things, but only if you put yourself in someone else's hands. From time to time you will experience a painful sharpening, but remember that this will make you a better pencil. Also, keep in mind that you will be able to correct any mistakes you might make along the way. The most important part of you is what's on the inside. And remember this as well. Upon every surface that you are used, you must leave your mark. No matter what else happens, you must continue to write.It seemed the pencil listened to him and promised he would remember these five things, so that he could live his life with heart and purpose. You see in life, in your life, put yourself in someone else's hand. Embrace challenges for growth. Learn from mistakes, value inner qualities and leave a positive mark on the world. And you too can become the best pencil there is. This was the pencils taleApplying the Story to Dads and Families"The Pencil’s Tale" offers simple, profound lessons that resonate for dads at every stage of parenting. By sharing this parable with children, fathers model the values of humility, resilience, and purpose. The pencil’s journey provides a natural metaphor for growth, learning, and character—qualities every dad hopes to nurture in their kids.Key Lessons Dads Can Teach from the TaleAcceptance of Guidance: The pencil succeeds by allowing itself to be guided. Likewise, dads can teach children that everyone benefits from mentors, family, and friends. Being open to support leads to doing great things.Embracing Challenges and Growth: Like sharpening a pencil, life’s difficulties shape us. Dads can explain that painful experiences (hard lessons, discipline, setbacks) help us grow stronger and better, no matter our age.Learning from Mistakes: Erasers let us fix errors, and so can honesty and forgiveness. Teaching kids that mistakes aren’t final—and can be corrected—empowers them to try again and learn without fear.Valuing What’s Inside: The most important part of a person (or pencil) is what’s inside: character, kindness, and integrity. Dads can emphasize that inner qualities matter more than outside appearances.Leaving a Positive Mark: Everyone leaves a mark in the world—through actions, words, and kindness. Encouraging children to be intentional about the impact they make helps them live a life with purpose.By retelling this parable, dads foster meaningful conversations about values, resilience, and making a difference, while building trust and deeper bonds with their families.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot...

Episode 217 - Movember, A Birthday, Some Coffee and a Huge Thank you to YouHey, thanks for pressing play! It is Nov 13th - Dave's birthday, we share a coffee together, we talk Movember and why this is important and we say thanks to you - thanks for being apart of this podcast and for making this your home for all things Dad - this space is for you!If this podcast has brought value to you - please consider sending some coffee back to the show with our buy me a coffee linkhttps://buymeacoffee.com/truemediacahttps://movember.com/___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270