The Masculine Wilderness Podcast

What if the most important victories in sports never show up on the scoreboard?In this powerful episode of the Masculine Wilderness Podcast, Tom sits down with Spencer Crace, college football coach and mentor, for a deeply honest conversation about masculinity, leadership, and the sacred responsibility of shaping young men through sport.Spencer shares his journey into coaching and the moments that refined his philosophy, not just about winning games, but about building character, resilience, and brotherhood. Together, they unpack the invisible pressures facing young men today: comparison culture, criticism, identity confusion, and the quiet loss of free play that once taught boys how to fail, adapt, and lead themselves.This episode goes far beyond X’s and O’s. It’s about fatherhood, patience forged through injury, the power of accountability within a team, and why coaches may be some of the most influential male role models a young man ever encounters. Spencer offers a grounded, compelling vision of leadership, one rooted in presence, humility, and integrity.At the heart of the conversation is a simple but radical idea: you don’t win on the field if you’re losing at home. For coaches, parents, and men alike, this episode is a reminder that the greatest measure of success is who you become and who you help others become along the way.00:00 — Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast 02:02 — Spencer Crace: A Coach’s Journey 03:48 — Sports and Character Development 07:47 — Leadership Lessons from Youth Sports 10:51 — Criticism, Pressure, and Mental Toughness 14:21 — Injury and the Discipline of Patience 16:41 — Brotherhood and Team Culture 18:55 — Taking Team Values Into Real Life 22:29 — The Coach’s Role in Shaping Young Men 24:50 — Fatherhood and Coaching: Parallel Callings 29:29 — The Comparison Trap in Modern Sports 33:19 — Why Free Play Still Matters 36:03 — Challenges Facing Young Men Today 39:16 — Redefining What It Means to WinLet's Connect:www.epikproject.orgDONATE:https://funraise.org/give/Epik-Project/6e9de4e6-5b6d-4333-bd08-c043cd690405/

What does healthy masculinity look like in one of the most hyper-masculine spaces in the world?In this powerful episode of the Masculine Wilderness Podcast, Tom sits down with Megha Parekh, one of the few female executives working inside the NFL, for a rare and honest conversation about masculinity, leadership, and cultural change in professional sports.Megha shares her journey into the league, navigating bias, earning trust, and helping shape environments where accountability and empathy aren’t liabilities, but strengths. Together, they explore the evolving realities of masculinity in sports, the slow but meaningful erosion of misogyny in the workplace, and why courageous conversations matter more now than ever.This episode goes beyond locker rooms and boardrooms. Megha and Tom examine the outsized cultural influence of professional sports, how athletes and organizations model behavior for millions, and why mental health awareness, ethical leadership, and human dignity must be part of the conversation. From addressing exploitation and trafficking to mentoring young athletes, Megha offers a grounded, hopeful vision for what leadership can become.This is a conversation about power, responsibility, and the freedom that comes from showing up as your full self, regardless of expectations.Chapters00:00 — Introduction to Masculine Wilderness01:24 — Megha’s Journey to the NFL03:27 — Expanding Roles in Professional Sports08:21 — The Complexity of Masculinity in Sports14:10 — Addressing Misogyny and Bias18:04 — Creating a Supportive Work Environment24:22 — Empathy and Accountability in the Workplace30:00 — The Influence of Professional Sports on Masculinity31:59 — Raising Awareness Around Mental Health36:59 — Collaborating for Social Change41:27 — Understanding the Buyer in Human Trafficking47:11 — Empathy and Accountability in Justice51:19 — Planting Seeds of Courage in Young Athletes52:27 — Finding Hope in Cultural ChangeLet's Connect:www.epikproject.orghttps://www.instagram.com/epik_project/https://www.jaguars.com/

In this powerful episode of the Masculine Wilderness podcast, Tom Perez sits down with Jenni Lippold, a people technologist, StoryCorp enthusiast, and a relentless believer in the power of human connection. Together, they explore how storytelling can soften political divides, dissolve concepts of the “other,” and transform our understanding of trauma, fear, and one another.Drawing from over 12,000 recorded Storycore conversations, Jenni brings rare insight into what people are really longing for: to be heard, to be seen, and to matter. She breaks down why empathy isn’t just a virtue, it’s a skill, a practice, and a survival tool in a polarized world.They dig into StoryCorps’ groundbreaking One Small Step initiative, which pairs Americans on opposite sides of the political spectrum for deeply human, surprisingly tender conversations. Through these stories, Jenni reveals the vulnerability, courage, and hope that emerge when we dare to listen past the noise.This is an episode about connection, compassion, and the radical possibilities that open when we stop asking, “What do you believe?” and start asking, “What’s your story?”Chapters:00:00 — Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:37 — Jenni Lippold: A People Technologist’s Journey04:20 — StoryCorps: Archiving Humanity’s Stories06:08 — One Small Step: Bridging Political Divides11:48 — Digital Conversations: The Evolution of Engagement15:10 — Insights from 12,000 Conversations21:24 — Empathy: The Key to Understanding27:49 — The Power of Shared Stories33:54 — The Role of Empathy in Change34:23 — The Power of Data in Empathy-Building39:22 — Storytelling’s Impact on Understanding45:21 — Children and the Magic of Storytelling49:33 — Trauma & Connection Through Shared Stories51:10 — Fear, Human Behavior, and the “Other”53:18 — The Future of Empathy Initiatives01:02:43 — Masculine Wilderness ThemeLet's Connect:www.epikproject.orghttps://storycorps.org/

This episode of the Masculine Wilderness Podcast is nothing short of extraordinary. Host Tom Perez sits down with Josie Heyano, an Alaska-based social worker whose depth of insight, cultural grounding, and fierce compassion bring a rare clarity to conversations about masculinity, exploitation, and community healing.What unfolds is a deeply moving exploration of Indigenous identity, relational accountability, and the complex realities of human trafficking in Alaska—a region where historical trauma, geographic isolation, and systemic inequities converge in devastating ways. Josie breaks down concepts like tundra pimping with honesty and nuance, exposing the long-standing roots of exploitation targeting Indigenous youth and rural communities.But this episode isn’t just about the problem; it’s about the power of culture, connection, and collective care. Josie shares how Indigenous frameworks of interconnectedness offer pathways for healing, resilience, and prevention. She invites listeners to reconsider their relationship with anger, describing how women’s anger is often a powerful, defiant force for change, and how men’s anger can be transformed into grounded leadership and accountability.Throughout the conversation, Josie weaves together personal narrative, cultural wisdom, and professional experience to illuminate what true community responsibility looks like. From the role of beauty and creativity in surviving hardship to the slow work of building trust across generations, this episode challenges listeners to show up more thoughtfully, more courageously, and more relationally.This is an episode that lingers... a call to remember where we come from, who we are accountable to, and how we can show up for one another with more heart.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:47 Josie Heyano's Cultural Introduction03:42 Personal Stories and Connections to Alaska05:52 Human Trafficking in Alaska10:13 Roots of Exploitation in Alaska15:06 The Role of Anger in Advocacy19:46 Gender Dynamics of Anger25:07 Men in Leadership and Community Responsibility29:59 Listening and Respecting Women's Anger34:31 The Shift in Human Trafficking Dynamics35:55 Emotional Healing Through Connection36:12 Traditional Practices and Gender Roles40:18 Balancing Roles in Caregiving42:12 Cultural Practices and Community Care45:11 The Power of Relational Care48:39 The Role of Beauty in Healing54:38 Reconnecting with Roots and Traditions58:36 Hope in Advocacy and Community Resilience01:04:00 A Message to Men: Building Trust and Awareness01:08:14 Masculine Wilderness Theme.mp3Let's Connect:www.epikproject.orghttps://www.signifyconsultingak.org/

What if the future of justice isn’t about punishment—but prevention?In this episode of The Masculine Wilderness Podcast, Kristen Hubbell—former FBI agent and founder of Prevention Now—shares her extraordinary journey from federal law enforcement to leading one of the most innovative organizations in the fight against human trafficking.Kristen reveals why justice without empathy falls short, why collaboration across communities is non-negotiable, and how technology—from big data to artificial intelligence—is reshaping what prevention can look like. Her insights challenge us to think differently about exploitation, not only as a criminal issue but as a human one that requires humility, curiosity, and shared responsibility.And for men listening, this conversation is especially urgent: Kristen offers a direct call to action for how men can step into leadership, accountability, and advocacy in the fight to protect the vulnerable.This episode isn’t just about trafficking—it’s about redefining justice for a new era. 00:00 Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:03 Kristin Hubbell’s Journey into Anti-Violence Work03:38 Evolving Understanding of Justice05:35 Responsibility for Justice07:18 Transition from FBI to Anti-Trafficking Work10:53 Founding Prevention Now14:10 The Importance of Collaboration15:10 Data as a Storytelling Tool18:03 Empathy in Law Enforcement22:13 Integrating Collaboration in Anti-Trafficking Work26:57 Collaborative Efforts Against Human Trafficking28:51 Utilizing Data for Community Collaboration32:13 Understanding Risk Factors in Human Trafficking36:18 The Role of Technology and AI in Prevention44:06 Empathy and Understanding in Addressing Exploitation47:55 Defining Prevention in the Anti-Trafficking Movement🎧 Listen now and discover how empathy, collaboration, and innovation can transform the fight against trafficking.Let’s Connect:🌐 Learn more about Kristin’s work: www.prevention-now.org🌐 Explore the movement to disrupt exploitation: www.epikproject.org

What does it cost to turn your pain into purpose, and how do you keep going when the weight of your story feels unbearable?In this powerful episode of The Masculine Wilderness Podcast, Kathy Bryan, founder of The Genesis Project and a survivor of human trafficking, opens up about the long, courageous road from survival to leadership. With unflinching honesty, Kathy shares what it truly means to become an advocate while still carrying the emotional residue of past trauma.This conversation goes far beyond statistics or headlines. It’s a deep dive into the realities of trafficking across urban and rural communities and the nuanced challenges survivors face when their stories become public tools for change. Kathy doesn’t just share her experience; she issues a call to action.You’ll hear about the critical role parents play in prevention, why traffickers are targeting increasingly younger children, and how digital culture has transformed the landscape of exploitation. Kathy offers practical, heartfelt advice for families navigating a world that often feels out of control and reveals what true connection looks like between parents and children.This episode is a gut-check, a guide, and a testament to the power of resilience. If you want to understand the human side of trafficking and how to make a real difference, start here.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:36 Kathy's Journey: From Trafficking to Advocacy09:31 The Cost of Sharing a Survivor's Story14:49 The Genesis Project: Building Futures22:22 Understanding Trafficking in Rural Communities24:54 Statistics and Myths Surrounding Trafficking28:26 Understanding the Risks: A Shocking Reality31:07 Empowering Parents: Navigating Safety in a Digital World33:49 The Harsh Truth: Child Trafficking vs. Other Dangers36:38 Breaking the Silence: The Stigma of Sex Trafficking41:08 The Role of Men: Accountability and Cultural Change47:39 Survivor Perspectives: The Emotional Toll of Injustice50:45 Practical Advice for Parents: Engaging with Your Children52:10 Masculine Wilderness Theme.mp3Let's Connect:www.epikproject.orghttps://thegenesisproject.lifehttps://www.instagram.com/simplykathy/, https://www.instagram.com/thegenesisprojectlife/ https://www.facebook.com/simplykathy/ https://www.facebook.com/thegenesisprojectlife

Why are so many men disconnected from their inner lives and what does it take to find the way back?In this intimate and soul-stirring episode of The Masculine Wilderness Podcast, Andrew Carruthers invites us into a conversation many men never get to have about shame, emotional expression, and the quiet longing for authenticity. A former hairdresser turned Wayfinder, Andrew has spent years helping others navigate their emotional terrain, and now he’s sharing the raw truths and hard-earned wisdom that shape his work.Together, Andrew and Tom explore the cost of silence in men’s lives, the weight of unspoken guilt, the armor of stoicism, and the stories that keep us from fully showing up. But this isn't a conversation about what’s wrong with men. It's a powerful reckoning with what’s possible for men: real emotional presence, radical self-awareness, and a return to community.They go deep on the cultural rise of men’s work, not as a trend, but as a response to crisis. Andrew speaks directly to young men craving purpose, connection, and a path toward wholeness. His message is clear: you are not broken but must be brave enough to meet yourself.If you're ready to drop the mask and step into something deeper, this episode will challenge you, inspire you, and leave you feeling less alone.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:10 Andrew Carruthers: The Wayfinder Journey03:19 From Hairdressing to Coaching: A Personal Evolution09:49 Understanding the Clientele: Leaders and Educators14:39 Masculine Mythology: Shaping Identity and Work18:35 Emotional Presence: Challenges for Men24:45 The Role of Shame in Men's Lives25:36 The Cycle of Shame and Confirmation Bias26:57 The Power of Men's Groups29:09 Cultural Expectations of Masculinity31:22 The Evolution of Men's Work33:31 Emotional Expression in Older Generations36:38 Tools for Emotional Awareness39:20 Difficult Conversations for Older Men41:47 Rites of Passage and the Role of Elders45:01 The Openness of Younger Generations47:21 Finding Enoughness and Community Support49:14 New ChapterLet's Connect:www.epikproject.orgwww.outofstep.lifeDonate: www.epikproject.org/donate

What if the key to ending exploitation lies in the courage to tell the truth?In this gripping and deeply personal episode of The Masculine Wilderness Podcast, Penny Ronning—leader of the Yellowstone Anti-Trafficking Task Force—shares a raw and unfiltered look at the realities of commercial sexual exploitation and why men must be part of the solution.Through the lens of her own family’s history—marked by her mother’s survival of childhood trauma—Penny opens a powerful dialogue on how generational wounds shape us, and how storytelling can become a lifeline for healing. This isn’t just a policy conversation—it’s a human one.Together, Penny and Tom tackle the uncomfortable questions many avoid: What does it mean to be a man in a world where children are sold for sex? How can we hold space for both accountability and empathy? And what kind of leadership does it take to dismantle an industry built on silence?They explore the urgent need for cultural shifts, community-based solutions, and legislative change—but more importantly, they underscore why men’s voices are essential in this movement. This episode is a rallying cry for courageous leadership, emotional honesty, and relentless compassion.If you care about protecting the most vulnerable, if you believe that healing is possible, and if you're ready to face hard truths with an open heart, this episode is your invitation.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Masculinity and Healing02:40 Penny Ronning's Journey and Background05:59 The Impact of Trauma on Lives11:37 Legislation and Advocacy for Survivors14:35 The Power of Storytelling in Healing17:30 The Intersection of Art and Activism24:05 Challenging Myths About Trafficking29:15 Legislative Changes in Montana33:58 Understanding the Demand for Exploitation36:10 Collaborative Efforts Against Exploitation37:22 The Role of Men in Addressing Exploitation40:32 Empowering Voices in the Conversation43:39 Humanity at the Core of the Issue46:31 Community Solutions to a Societal Problem50:15 Cultural Change and Responsibility52:44 Mobilizing Male Allies55:39 Leadership and Courage in AdvocacyLet's Connect:www.epikproject.orgInstagram: @pennyronningLinkedIn: Penny Ronning on LinkedInTed Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=czwA-IY89R8&t=657s

What’s really driving the rise of male supremacy—and how do we bring young men back from the edge? In this gripping and timely episode of The Masculine Wilderness Podcast, Dr. Pasha Dashtgard unpacks the complex, high-stakes terrain of modern masculinity in an age defined by digital distortion, political polarization, and emotional disconnection.This conversation dives deep into the undercurrent of grievance politics—how a generation of disillusioned young men is being radicalized by influencers like Andrew Tate, and what that says about the state of modern manhood. But this isn’t a takedown—it’s an excavation. What’s missing in the lives of these men? What’s the void they’re trying to fill? And how can society respond without shame or silence?The conversation doesn’t shy away from the emotional labor men have long suppressed—or the toll that takes on women and communities. Instead, it offers a bold vision for healing: grounded in relational intelligence, responsibility, and the courage to redefine what strength actually looks like.This episode is a wake-up call, a roadmap, and a challenge. If you're a man searching for meaning, a parent raising sons, or someone who simply wants to understand the cultural reckoning happening right now—press play.This is the conversation we all need to be having.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:52 The Rise of Male Supremacy and Online Radicalization05:23 Grievance Politics and Its Historical Roots12:25 The Impact of Rapid Social Change on Masculinity15:44 Current Masculine Currents: Male Supremacy, Misogyny, and Isolation23:24 The Impact of Masculinity on Self-Perception29:24 Isolation and Emotional Labor in Male Relationships35:27 The Influence of Andrew Tate and Male Supremacy40:00 Building Healthier Masculinity: Solutions and Strategies51:45 Masculine Wilderness Theme.mp3Let's Connect:www.epikproject.orgwww.instagram.org/epik_projecthttps://perilresearch.com/team/pasha-dashtgard/

What happens when a survivor becomes the leader of a movement? In this raw and deeply human episode, Tom sits down with Toni McKinley—Executive Director of the Magdalen House in Austin, Texas, and a survivor of sex trafficking herself—for one of the most profound conversations this show has ever hosted.Toni doesn't just talk about trauma—she’s lived it, studied it, and transformed it into powerful leadership. Together, Tom and Toni unpack what trauma actually does to the brain, how memory is affected by abuse, and why traditional approaches to healing often fall short. But this conversation isn’t about theory—it’s about what it takes to rebuild your life from the ground up and why safe, supportive housing is absolutely essential for recovery.And for the men listening—this one is especially for you. Toni speaks directly to the heart of what it means to be a man in today’s world. She challenges the cultural narratives that silence men emotionally and shares actionable tools for self-reflection, emotional growth, and healing generational wounds. They explore how men can show up—truly show up—for their families, their partners, and themselves.This episode will shift your perspective on trauma, leadership, and the real meaning of resilience. If you’ve ever wondered how to break cycles of pain and step into a role of healing and leadership, this is your blueprint.Warning: This conversation might just change the way you see yourself.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Magdalen House and Its Mission03:00 Understanding the Need for Supportive Housing05:57 The Impact of Trauma on Survivors09:07 Toni's Personal Journey and Healing Process11:55 The Science of Trauma and Its Effects14:49 Navigating Trauma Responses18:01 Resilience and Recovery from Trauma21:06 The Importance of Understanding Trauma24:06 Toni's Story and the Power of Narrative30:54 Understanding Trauma and Memory32:31 The Importance of Relationships in Healing34:54 Community and Connection: Healing Together35:42 Navigating Relationships Post-Trauma40:14 The Role of Men in Healing and Relationships45:01 Men and Trauma: Breaking the Cycle51:27 Agency in Healing: Taking Responsibility54:07 Advice for Men: Healing Starts at HomeLet's Connect:www.epikproject.orghttps://www.magdaleneaustin.orghttps://www.tonimckinley.com/Instagram:@MagdaleneATX@Toni_Adventures1Facebook:MagdaleneATX on FacebookLinkedIn:Toni McKinley on LinkedInMagdalene House of Austin on LinkedIn

What does it really take to dismantle systems of exploitation? In this powerful episode of The Masculine Wilderness Podcast, host Tom Perez sits down with trailblazing advocates Sarina Cooper and Ashlynn Fredendall for an eye-opening conversation about the urgent fight against sex trafficking and exploitation. They pull back the curtain on their journeys into advocacy, revealing the deep connections between sustainability, social justice, and the movement to protect the most vulnerable.Together, they explore the growing wave of young leaders stepping up to drive cultural change, the vital role of men in reshaping narratives around exploitation, and the responsibility of older generations to support and uplift the next wave of advocates. This conversation isn’t just about the problem—it’s about the solutions, the hope, and the momentum building in the fight for justice.Packed with raw insights, inspiring success stories, and hard-hitting truths, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand how we can dismantle systems of harm and create a future rooted in empowerment and human connection. Don’t miss the closing reflections on self-care, resilience, and why no advocate should have to walk this path alone.Tune in now—this is a conversation that could change everything.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:03 Understanding the Work of World Without Exploitation and My Friends Are Not For Sale02:54 Personal Journeys into Advocacy05:59 The Intersection of Sustainability and Social Justice11:28 Mobilizing Youth Against Exploitation14:43 The Role of Peer-to-Peer Education18:52 Success Stories in Advocacy25:26 The Impact of Direct Human Connection27:31 The Influence of Andrew Tate on Young Men34:16 Young Men Advocating Against Misogyny40:13 Supporting Youth in the Fight Against Exploitation47:26 Finding Life Beyond Advocacy50:20 Masculine Wilderness ThemeLet's Connect:www.epikproject.orgwww.epikrpoject.org/myfriendsarenotforsalewww.worldwithoutexploitation.orgwww.worldwithoutexploitation.org/youth

In this episode of The Masculine Wilderness Podcast, host Tom Perez sits down with educator and coach Ashton Clark for a powerful conversation about resilience, growth, and the impact of mentorship. Ashton takes us on a journey from his early years in Vancouver, Washington, through the highs and challenges of college football, and into his current role as a counselor and coach.They explore how sports shape character, the pressures of athletic culture, and the pivotal moments that define Ashton’s path. He opens up about personal loss, the importance of community, and the values that guide him as a husband and father. With reflections on his relationship with his wife, Aisha, and his hopes for his children’s future, Ashton shares hard-won lessons on love, respect, and the power of showing up for others.This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating life’s transitions, seeking wisdom on raising the next generation or looking for inspiration on turning challenges into growth.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:20 Ashton's Journey: From Student to Counselor03:52 Formative Experiences of Manhood09:43 The Impact of Sports on Character14:42 Transitioning to College Football21:30 Navigating College Sports Culture28:19 Transitioning from Athletics to Life Beyond32:39 Facing Tragedy and Finding Purpose35:40 The Importance of Brotherhood and Community41:03 Love and Relationships: A Journey with Aisha46:34 Parenting with Intent: Values and Lessons49:02 Challenges Facing Today's Youth53:00 Hopes for the Future: Raising Respectful ChildrenLet's Connect:www.epikproject.org

Shame thrives in silence, but what happens when we finally confront it? In this episode, Gene McConnell shares his raw and deeply personal journey from addiction and self-destruction to redemption, revealing the transformative power of vulnerability, love, and accountability.Together with host Tom Perez, Gene unpacks the hidden wounds of childhood trauma, the isolating nature of shame, and how modern society’s shifting landscape affects men’s emotional well-being. This conversation dives deep into the generational patterns of disconnection, the societal pressures that keep men from seeking help, and the essential role of authentic relationships in personal growth.If you’ve ever struggled with your past or questioned how to foster healthier relationships, this episode is for you. Tune in as Gene and Tom explore the power of storytelling, the necessity of safe spaces for vulnerability, and the profound impact men can have when they choose to heal and lead with courage.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Healing Journeys02:17 Expanding Impact and Influence05:44 The Path to Redemption08:13 Childhood Trauma and Its Effects12:28 The Destructive Cycle of Shame14:25 Turning Point: A Moment of Clarity18:51 The Power of Connection and Love22:51 Reflections on Change Over Time28:33 Navigating Modern Challenges32:51 The Power of Intimacy and Connection34:10 Disconnection in a Connected World35:08 Generational Perspectives on Shame36:05 Youth and Vulnerability: A New Approach39:30 Authenticity and Safe Spaces for Healing41:07 The Impact of Storytelling in Redemption43:53 Addressing the Demand: The Why Behind Actions48:55 Creating Change Through Accountability52:46 Empowering the Next Generation of Men57:50 Sustaining Personal Well-Being in Challenging WorkLet's Connect:www.epikproject.orgwww.authenticrelationshipsint.com

What if the key to fighting human trafficking wasn’t just law enforcement action but everyday men stepping up with empathy, courage, and connection?In this gripping episode of The Masculine Wilderness Podcast, Tom sits down with Ryan McCullough, a dedicated cyber-patrol volunteer for Epik since 2017. Ryan takes us behind the scenes of digital operations that disrupt trafficking networks, sharing the raw reality of what it takes to confront this issue head-on.They explore:🔥 The surprising role of empathy in combating trafficking🔥 The evolving landscape of sex buying and online exploitation🔥 How fatherhood and masculinity shape Ryan’s perspective on advocacy🔥 The importance of men building deep community to drive real changeThis conversation challenges the traditional narrative around trafficking and offers a powerful call to action for men who want to make a difference. If you’re ready to rethink what it means to protect and lead, this episode is a must-listen.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast02:44 Understanding Cyber Patrols and Their Purpose06:29 The Journey to Empathy in Addressing Trafficking11:15 First Experiences in Cyber Patrols13:50 The Importance of Team Dynamics in Patrols16:38 Changes in the Sex Buying Culture21:50 Conversations with Buyers: Troubling and Hopeful Stories27:12 The Importance of Human Connection31:57 Men Supporting Men: The Power of Positive Reinforcement34:55 Cultural Narratives and the Fight Against Sex Trafficking40:15 Fatherhood and Its Impact on Advocacy47:39 Processing Experiences: Emotional and Spiritual Reflections51:08 Life Beyond Patrol: Finding Balance and Community54:18 Encouraging Active Participation in Society55:58 Introduction and Gratitude56:07 Masculine Wilderness Theme.Let's Connect:www.epikproject.org

Elizabeth Scaife is a long-time advocate against human trafficking, her formative experiences, and the evolution of the movement over the past 16 years are discussed in this episode. The conversation highlights the importance of survivor voices, the challenges that remain in the field, and the need for cultural shifts in understanding and addressing trafficking. Elizabeth shares insights on the complexities of the issue, including the intersection of labor trafficking and the ongoing stigma surrounding victimization. In this conversation, Tom and Elizabeth discuss the complexities of engaging men in social change, particularly in the context of human trafficking. They explore the myth of the 'action hero' and emphasize the importance of mentorship and community involvement. Elizabeth shares insights on the significance of survivor voices and the need for resources that amplify their stories. The discussion also touches on self-care for advocates and offers advice for men who wish to contribute positively to the fight against exploitation.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the Conversation01:32 Elizabeth Scaife's Journey in Anti-Trafficking07:07 Formative Experiences in the Field16:01 Evolution of the Anti-Trafficking Movement25:53 Current Challenges and Future Directions32:38 The Action Hero Myth34:00 Engaging Men in Social Change36:06 Mentorship as a Tool Against Trafficking37:30 Redefining Heroism39:27 The Importance of Survivor Voices40:22 Creating Resources for Awareness43:51 The Role of Survivor Stories47:21 Navigating Survivor Narratives50:54 Self-Care in Advocacy54:58 Advice for Men in AdvocacyLet's Connect:FYN Global: https://www.findyournorthglobal.com/Books by Survivors Guide: https://www.findyournorthglobal.com/resourcelibraryGrit Conference: https://uprisingwyo.org/grit/Epik Project: https://www.epikproject.org/

Yasmin Vafa, founder of Rights for Girls, returns to the podcast for a second time to discuss the recently published report 'Buyers Unmasked.' The report aims to expose the realities of sex buyers, dispelling myths about their nature and behaviors. Yasmin shares insights from sex buyers' review boards, highlighting the disturbing attitudes and actions of these individuals. The conversation also touches on the societal implications of these findings, the response from survivors, and the need for policy changes to address the issue of sex trafficking and exploitation. In this conversation, Yasmin Vafa discusses the critical issues surrounding gender equality, objectification, and the violence inherent in the sex trade. She emphasizes the importance of promoting healthy relationships among young men and boys, understanding the connections between racism and misogyny, and the need for innovative solutions to combat these societal issues. Vafa also highlights the role of policy in addressing prostitution and trafficking, advocating for a survivor model that prioritizes the dignity and worth of individuals involved in the sex trade. Finally, she calls for men to engage as allies in the fight for equality and to challenge unacceptable behaviors in society.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:22 Overview of the 'Buyers Unmasked' Report06:00 Insights from Sex Buyers' Review Boards11:49 The Disturbing Reality of Sex Buyers20:39 Response to the Report and Its Impact24:49 Challenging Myths About Sex Buyers28:25 Promoting Healthy Relationships and Gender Equality29:28 Understanding Objectification and Fetishization31:33 The Connection Between Racism and Misogyny34:44 Violence and Exploitation in the Sex Trade37:49 Innovative Solutions and Recommendations44:24 Policy Approaches to Prostitution and Trafficking48:51 Engaging Men as Allies in the Fight for EqualityLet's Connect:www.epikproject.orgwww.rights4girls.orgBuyers Unmasked Report: https://rights4girls.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Buyers-Unmasked.pdf

In this episode of the Masculine Wilderness Podcast, host Tom Perez engages in a deep conversation with award-winning filmmaker Irene Taylor. Irene's films, most recently a documentary on Celine Dion, also include exposes on the abuse uncovered within the ranks of The Boy Scouts as well as the Slenderman case. On the podcast, Tom and Irene explore storytelling's transformative power, character-driven narratives' importance, and the intersection of personal experiences with filmmaking. Irene shares her journey as a filmmaker, discussing various projects that tackle sensitive topics and the significance of open-ended questions in drawing out vulnerability. The conversation also touches on gender dynamics in storytelling and the essential role of attention in creating meaningful connections. In this conversation, Tom and Irene discuss the importance of presence and attention in human interactions, the power of vulnerability in making connections, and the challenges of navigating trauma and empathy in storytelling. They explore Irene's journey into filmmaking, the emotional weight of the stories she tells, and the foundational role of love in personal growth and relationships.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest01:30 Irene Taylor: A Filmmaker's Journey04:41 The Power of Storytelling in Film08:59 Exploring Diverse Film Projects12:21 Addressing Sensitive Topics Through Film16:20 The Importance of Open-Ended Questions22:06 Gender Dynamics in Storytelling25:51 Creating Vulnerability Through Attention28:54 The Power of Presence and Attention31:09 Vulnerability: The Human Connection36:10 Navigating Trauma and Empathy43:53 The Journey to Filmmaking and Storytelling49:11 Love as the Foundation for GrowthLet's Connectwww.epikproject.orghttps://vermilionfilms.com/

In this episode of the Masculine Wilderness Podcast, host Tom Perez engages in a heartfelt conversation with retired NFL player Andy McCollum. They explore Andy's transition from professional football to a successful career in financial advising, the joys and challenges of family life, and the unique experiences of being part of a Super Bowl-winning team. Andy shares insights on the importance of teamwork, humility, and maintaining a positive locker room culture while reflecting on the realities of life as an athlete and the lessons learned along the way. In this conversation, Tom and Andy explore the multifaceted aspects of being a professional athlete, the importance of teamwork, the challenges of injuries, and the significance of identity and mentorship in both sports and life. They discuss the dynamics of trash talk in football, the mindset of athletes before games, and the lessons learned from a career in sports that translate into personal and professional relationships. The conversation also delves into the role of fatherhood in shaping identity and values, the importance of community and male relationships, and the hope found in the next generation of young men.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:07 Life After Football: Transitioning to Financial Advising03:27 Family Dynamics: The Joys of Grandparenting06:54 The Journey to the NFL: From Underdog to Super Bowl Champion12:40 The Super Bowl Experience: Memories and Expectations16:07 Building a Positive Locker Room Culture18:40 The Reality of Locker Room Talk and Team Dynamics24:10 Humility and Confidence in Professional Sports28:29 The Art of Trash Talk in Football30:54 The Pre-Game Mindset of Professional Athletes32:43 Injuries and Resilience in a Football Career34:32 The Difference Between Raw Power and Useful Strength36:32 Teamwork: Lessons from the Field to Life39:57 The Importance of Male Relationships41:17 Fatherhood and Identity Transformation46:22 Instilling Values in the Next Generation48:26 Finding Joy Beyond Football51:40 Hope for the Next Generation of Men55:42 Defining True ManhoodLet's Connectwww.epikproject.org

In this episode of the Masculine Wilderness podcast, host Tom Perez engages in a profound conversation with Tina Taylor Sims, a survivor and advocate against human trafficking. They explore Tina's journey, her work in Humboldt County addressing trafficking, and the importance of community collaboration. The discussion also delves into the intersection of the Murdered and Missing Indigenous Women (MMIW) movement and trafficking, highlighting the vulnerabilities faced by Indigenous communities. Tina shares her insights on the misconceptions surrounding trafficking and the systemic issues that perpetuate these problems. In this conversation, Tina Taylor and Tom Perez explore the complexities of vulnerability, exploitation, and resilience within Indigenous communities. They discuss the impact of cultural connection on healing, the significance of traditional practices, and the importance of belonging. Tina shares her journey of healing through cultural identity and tattoos, emphasizing the need for support and understanding in combating exploitation. The conversation highlights the role of cultural competency and the necessity of long-term commitment in addressing these issues.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Masculine Wilderness Podcast01:39 Tina Taylor Sims: A Personal Journey04:44 Addressing Human Trafficking in Humboldt County10:24 Understanding Survivor Experiences14:52 Community Collaboration Against Trafficking18:03 The Intersection of MMIW and Trafficking22:54 Vulnerabilities in Indigenous Communities25:18 Vulnerability and Exploitation in Foster Care26:16 Cultural Connection and Resilience in Indigenous Communities28:09 The Healing Power of Tradition and Belonging30:36 The Significance of Tattoos in Cultural Identity32:23 The Irony of Belonging and Isolation34:14 Learning and Borrowing from Other Cultures38:52 Cultural Competency and Asking Questions41:23 Going Long and Deep in the Fight Against Exploitation46:48 Encouragement for Men to Support Vulnerable Individuals

In this episode of the Masculine Wilderness Podcast, host Tom Perez speaks with Zoe Bellatorre, an expert in familial trafficking. They discuss Zoe's background, her work with survivors, and the critical issue of familial trafficking, which often goes unnoticed. The conversation delves into the differences between familial trafficking and other forms, the impact of early trauma on victims, and the societal reluctance to acknowledge these issues. Zoe emphasizes the importance of community awareness and the need for safe spaces for children, as well as the indicators that can help identify potential victims. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to believe survivors and take steps to create safer environments for children. In this conversation, Zoe Christine Belllatorre and Tom Perez discuss the critical issues surrounding familial trafficking, the importance of community awareness, and the role of educators and parents in safeguarding children. They explore the trauma experienced by victims, the resilience required for recovery, and the need for advocacy and research in this area. The conversation emphasizes the importance of building supportive networks and recognizing the signs of trafficking within families, ultimately calling for a collective effort to protect vulnerable children.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast06:02 The Scope of Familial Trafficking11:55 The Impact of Early Trauma18:00 The Reluctance to Acknowledge Familial Trafficking23:53 The Role of Community in Prevention29:59 Building Awareness and Response Strategies36:25 Community Awareness and Child Safety49:03 Resilience and Building Support Systems55:22 Recognizing Signs of Familial Trafficking01:02:18 Empowering Teachers and Parents for Child ProtectionLet's Connectwww.epikproject.orghttps://youbelongllc.com/