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Time to cut the cameras and turn ON the mic — Erin and Abe Lichy are pulling back the curtain on the wild ride of marriage, sex, business, and everything in between in Come Together.
As a powerhouse couple who’ve built empires together—Erin as a serial entrepreneur, interior designer, and Real Housewives of New York star, and Abe as a sharp legal mind and founder of The Advisory—they’re the couple you want at your dinner party, the ones you want to grab a drink with, and the first ones you’ll turn to for advice.
Each week, the duo will dive into the real, raw, and often unspoken realities of blending parenting, business, and love — all while keeping it real. With their signature honesty, wit, and easygoing vibe, they’re baring it all. Whether they’re talking business wins, how to keep the spark alive after nearly 15 years, or just the chaos of everyday life, no topic is off-limits.
Tune in every Monday for the real secret behind what it really takes to Come Together.
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In this episode, Erin and Abe get real about what it’s like to mix marriage and business without losing your mind — or each other. They spill on establishing roles, communicating like adults, and building systems so no one ends up stepping on toes (or egos). From pausing before big decisions to celebrating the wins — both tiny and huge — they show how a business partnership can boost your relationship instead of draining it. Plus, they share tips for keeping your personal life intact, staying sane, and even sneaking in a little meditation while hustling together.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Thinking about starting a business but don’t know where to start? Erin and Abe break it down – sharing the messy, the magical, and the downright unexpected parts of launching anything from handbags to Mezcal. They spill on spotting opportunities, leaning into your passions, and finding partners who actually get you. Plus, real talk on using the networks you have, knowing yourself, and surviving the chaos of entrepreneurship. No fluff, just stories, laughs, and actionable tips to get your idea off the ground.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Erin sits down with Danielle Robay for a conversation that’s equal parts heart-to-heart and real talk. They cover everything from the messy (and magical) parts of motherhood, to relationship ups and downs, to the little rituals that keep happiness alive. They reflect on life’s big moments - loss, love, career, and friendship - while sharing how asking the right questions can change everything.Get More Danielle@daniellerobay@questioneverythinghqGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Ben and Zikki are a culinary power couple you need to know. In this episode, we dive into their upcoming cookbook and how they make the kitchen – and life – work as a team. From meeting in the Italian Alps to surviving long-distance during COVID, they’ve built a business and a life together that’s equal parts love and hustle. We talk teamwork, shared goals, the highs and lows of parenthood, and the small rituals that keep them grounded. Bonus: some real talk about self-care and finding balance when work and home collide.Get More Ben + ZikkiORDER BEN + ZIKKI'S BOOK 'Eat Small Plates' HERE!@bengingi@chefzikkiGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Abe and Erin sit down with Omani & Jeanie Carson—partners for 43 years—to unpack what actually sustains a long relationship: losing and re-finding yourself, taking space (they separated for three years), and then doing the hard work to come back stronger. We go inside their five-hour, therapist-guided MDMA-assisted session—how prep, boundaries, and integration dropped defenses and reignited intimacy—and why they now help other couples pursue similar, medically supervised healing at Carson Healing Ranch and the Heartland Gathering. We also hit practicals: why moms can’t “disappear” into motherhood, men’s mental health and vulnerability, and a simple practice they swear by—the “Perfect Year” exercise. Candid, useful, and very human. (Psychedelic therapy is discussed; this episode isn’t medical advice.)Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Erin and Abe chat with Vanessa and Xander Marin, a couple of 18 years who’ve turned their expertise in sex therapy into a mission to help long-term couples keep their spark alive. Vanessa, a sex therapist, and Xander, a former Google guy turned business partner, share their insights on how to maintain intimacy and connection through simple practices like communication, eye contact, and non-sexual touch. They also tackle the myths around spontaneous sex and dive into how AI (Abe's favorite) is shaping modern relationships.Get More Vanessa + XanderLearn more about VM Therapy@vanessaandxanderGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Erin and Abe are joined by intimacy expert Shan Boodram to talk about Arya—the service that’s blending AI with real expertise to give couples fresh ways to connect (yes, really). They dive into the wild world of male and female sexuality, how modern tech is shaking things up in relationships, and how to keep things spicy without the cringe. The trio also shares personal stories and expert advice on creating a judgment-free zone when it comes to intimacy, while exploring how breaking old norms can lead to a more fulfilling sex life. Get More ShanArya: Intimacy Concierge for Couples' Connection@arya.fyi@shanboodramGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Leah Van Dale (formerly WWE’s Carmella) joins Erin and Abe to talk about postpartum recovery, blended family dynamics, and how her own experience led her to create Snatch, a platform for women navigating life after birth. They also get into life behind the scenes of reality TV—and Abe does his best to explain why he refuses to get a vasectomy.Get More Leah@theleahvandale@snatchforherEXPLORE LEAH'S COMMUNITY, SNATCH FOR HERGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
What do HDMI cables, reality TV, and nanny trauma have in common? This episode. Erin and Abe unpack a nightmare child care situation, NYC parenting hacks, and their surprising take on faith, tradition, and why sometimes you should test your partner’s love with a little crazy.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this week's episode, Erin and Abe tackle the chaos of moving, parenthood, and grief. Erin opens up about her journey with grief and how it’s starting to catch up with her, while Abe shares his own reflections. They also talk about the shift in their relationship post-baby and balancing it all with four kids. It’s real, raw, and a reminder that sometimes, you still might end up crying on your birthday – and that’s okay.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
From the early days of Instagram memes to building a national beverage brand, Ben Soffer has seen it all. In this episode, he joins Abe to talk about turning “Boy With No Job” into a launchpad for Spritz Society, the secrets to scaling without VCs, and how being married to Claudia Oshry sharpened his edge and grounded his life. They get into the social media shift, why TikTok is both genius and dangerous, and what it really means to balance love, business, and a brand that actually sells.Get More Ben@boywithnojob@goodguysDRINK SPRITZ SOCIETYGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Author and chef Jake Cohen opens up about his marriage, divorce, partying in Berlin, and what it means to love deeply while still evolving. Erin and Jake unpack relationship dynamics, sexual freedom, emotional growth—and yes, what’s in Jake’s fridge after a hookup.Get More JakePRE-ORDER JAKE'S NEW BOOK 'Dinner Party Animal' HERE!@jakecohenGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Carlos Mendez isn’t just our partner—he’s the soul behind our mezcal. He opens up about growing up gay in rural Mexico, redefining tradition, and building a brand that reflects his values. This is about more than spirits. It’s about courage, culture, and creating change.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Why does the trash matter more than sex? Why do new moms feel like they’re drowning—and new dads feel helpless? And is “mom brain” actually… genius? Erin and Abe go deep with psychologist Dr. Nicole Pensak on what nobody tells you about postpartum life—and how couples can stay close through the chaos.Get More Nicole@drnikkipensak — for more on the latest science of parenthoodOrder Nicole's book RATTLEDLooking for Postpartum Support?Fair Play by Eve RodskyGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This AMA-style episode tackles the hard stuff in relationships—straight from your DMs. We get into: • How to manage parenting with completely different styles • When to talk vs. when to take space during a fight • Why some cheating might be forgivable—and some isn’t • Balancing work, marriage, and four kids without losing it • Whether attraction can grow if it’s not there on day one • The real cost of divorce vs. investing in your relationship • Prioritizing alone time and protecting your sanity as a coupleGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
(and other things Erin says to Abe)It’s the final countdown—Erin’s 38 weeks pregnant, wildly introspective, low-key enraged at Abe (for breathing), and more powerful than ever. The couple unpacks everything: Pitocin horror stories, why working out while pregnant is underrated, what moms actually want from their partners, and how pregnancy has Erin firing on all cylinders creatively. It’s vulnerable, hilarious, and full of truth bombs about rest, resentment, rituals—and the sexiest thing a partner can do in the third trimester. (Hint: it’s not foreplay.)Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Amanda Hirsch of Not Skinny But Not Fat joins Erin and Abe for a wildly honest, laugh-out-loud conversation covering cancel culture, work and marriage dynamics, and why the internet is obsessed with tearing women down. From wrestling with postpartum identity to wondering whether you’d know if your baby wasn’t cute, no topic is off-limits. Amanda opens up about her path from meme queen to media powerhouse, how she handles online hate, and why “independence” might be overrated in modern relationships.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Early dating is a strategy—and if you don’t have one, you’re winging it. Erin and Abe get into the game: when to text, when to wait, and when to move on. They talk first dates, second dates, attraction, sex, and the subtle power dynamics that play out along the way. Also in this episode: Erin’s cookbook announcement, her billboard debut in Times Square, Met Gala afterparties, and what it’s really like trying to date your spouse while raising four kids.Want to jump straight into the convo? Skip to 12:24.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
What happens when an influencer, a reality couple, and a few thousand horny thoughts collide? This episode. Tinx unpacks hookup culture, power dynamics, and the real reasons women evolve while men… well, don’t.Get More Erin + Abe@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyGet More TinxHotter In The Hamptons@tinxSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Deuxmoi knows all the secrets – but in this episode, she shares her own. From private connections to public rumors, we talk about the influence she's built, the lines she won't cross, and the trust that keeps her circle tight. Abe and Erin open up about their role in it all, and the surprising stories they've kept off the record – until now. Get More Erin + Abe@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyGet more Deux@deuxmoiDeuxmoi World AppDeux U PodcastProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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