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The Secret Guide To Better Sex with Sex Therapist Couple Vanessa + Xander Marin

The Secret Guide To Better Sex with Sex Therapist Couple Vanessa + Xander Marin

Update: 2025-08-04
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This week, Erin and Abe chat with Vanessa and Xander Marin, a couple of 18 years who’ve turned their expertise in sex therapy into a mission to help long-term couples keep their spark alive. Vanessa, a sex therapist, and Xander, a former Google guy turned business partner, share their insights on how to maintain intimacy and connection through simple practices like communication, eye contact, and non-sexual touch. They also tackle the myths around spontaneous sex and dive into how AI (Abe's favorite) is shaping modern relationships.


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The Secret Guide To Better Sex with Sex Therapist Couple Vanessa + Xander Marin

The Secret Guide To Better Sex with Sex Therapist Couple Vanessa + Xander Marin