Come Together

Carlos Mendez isn’t just our partner—he’s the soul behind our mezcal. He opens up about growing up gay in rural Mexico, redefining tradition, and building a brand that reflects his values. This is about more than spirits. It’s about courage, culture, and creating change.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why does the trash matter more than sex? Why do new moms feel like they’re drowning—and new dads feel helpless? And is “mom brain” actually… genius? Erin and Abe go deep with psychologist Dr. Nicole Pensak on what nobody tells you about postpartum life—and how couples can stay close through the chaos.Get More Nicole@drnikkipensak — for more on the latest science of parenthoodOrder Nicole's book RATTLEDLooking for Postpartum Support?Fair Play by Eve RodskyGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This AMA-style episode tackles the hard stuff in relationships—straight from your DMs. We get into:    •    How to manage parenting with completely different styles    •    When to talk vs. when to take space during a fight    •    Why some cheating might be forgivable—and some isn’t    •    Balancing work, marriage, and four kids without losing it    •    Whether attraction can grow if it’s not there on day one    •    The real cost of divorce vs. investing in your relationship    •    Prioritizing alone time and protecting your sanity as a coupleGet More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

(and other things Erin says to Abe)It’s the final countdown—Erin’s 38 weeks pregnant, wildly introspective, low-key enraged at Abe (for breathing), and more powerful than ever. The couple unpacks everything: Pitocin horror stories, why working out while pregnant is underrated, what moms actually want from their partners, and how pregnancy has Erin firing on all cylinders creatively. It’s vulnerable, hilarious, and full of truth bombs about rest, resentment, rituals—and the sexiest thing a partner can do in the third trimester. (Hint: it’s not foreplay.)Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Amanda Hirsch of Not Skinny But Not Fat joins Erin and Abe for a wildly honest, laugh-out-loud conversation covering cancel culture, work and marriage dynamics, and why the internet is obsessed with tearing women down. From wrestling with postpartum identity to wondering whether you’d know if your baby wasn’t cute, no topic is off-limits. Amanda opens up about her path from meme queen to media powerhouse, how she handles online hate, and why “independence” might be overrated in modern relationships.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Early dating is a strategy—and if you don’t have one, you’re winging it. Erin and Abe get into the game: when to text, when to wait, and when to move on. They talk first dates, second dates, attraction, sex, and the subtle power dynamics that play out along the way. Also in this episode: Erin’s cookbook announcement, her billboard debut in Times Square, Met Gala afterparties, and what it’s really like trying to date your spouse while raising four kids.Want to jump straight into the convo? Skip to 12:24.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What happens when an influencer, a reality couple, and a few thousand horny thoughts collide? This episode. Tinx unpacks hookup culture, power dynamics, and the real reasons women evolve while men… well, don’t.Get More Erin + Abe@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyGet More TinxHotter In The Hamptons@tinxSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Deuxmoi knows all the secrets – but in this episode, she shares her own. From private connections to public rumors, we talk about the influence she's built, the lines she won't cross, and the trust that keeps her circle tight. Abe and Erin open up about their role in it all, and the surprising stories they've kept off the record – until now. Get More Erin + Abe@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyGet more Deux@deuxmoiDeuxmoi World AppDeux U PodcastProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

One always gets into the club. The other runs marathons to Phish. Together, they make a case for live music, laughter, and not letting your kids hijack your personality. A feel-good, funny dive into relationships, raves, and real talk on parenting. Get More Erin + Abe@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this brutally honest and hilarious episode, Abe and Erin dive into the chaos of being super pregnant with baby #4—insomnia, discomfort, and the deep need for a Mezcalum margarita. The two reflect on how their past pregnancies affected their relationship, share wild memories from their COVID escape to Myrtle Beach (spoiler: it turned into a 40-person commune), and talk about the unexpected journey of building their mezcal business. Things get really real when they veer into sex during pregnancy, solo freedom post-birth, and… prostitutes and lie-down baths?Feeling confused? Us too. But don't worry, in the end, it all comes together.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to the very first episode of Come Together! This week we're talking all about – you guessed it! Sex. From how to keep the spark alive, to navigating "dry spells" + Abe's gross solution to the age old 'pick your socks off the floor' debate – you're in for a wild ride. Get More Erin + Abe@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Come Together is Coming April 7thTime to cut the cameras and turn ON the mic — Erin and Abe Lichy are pulling back the curtain on the wild ride of marriage, sex, business, and everything in between in Come Together.As a powerhouse couple who’ve built empires together—Erin as a serial entrepreneur, interior designer, and Real Housewives of New York star, and Abe as a sharp legal mind and founder of The Advisory—they’re the couple you want at your dinner party, the ones you want to grab a drink with, and the first ones you’ll turn to for advice.Each week, the duo will dive into the real, raw, and often unspoken realities of blending parenting, business, and love — all while keeping it real. With their signature honesty, wit, and easygoing vibe, they’re baring it all. Whether they’re talking business wins, how to keep the spark alive after nearly 15 years, or just the chaos of everyday life, no topic is off-limits. Tune in Monday, April 7th for the real secret behind what it really takes to Come Together.Produced by Dear MediaProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Time to cut the cameras and turn ON the mic — Erin and Abe Lichy are pulling back the curtain on the wild ride of marriage, sex, business, and everything in between in Come Together.As a powerhouse couple who’ve built empires together—Erin as a serial entrepreneur, interior designer, and Real Housewives of New York star, and Abe as a sharp legal mind and founder of The Advisory—they’re the couple you want at your dinner party, the ones you want to grab a drink with, and the first ones you’ll turn to for advice.Each week, the duo will dive into the real, raw, and often unspoken realities of blending parenting, business, and love — all while keeping it real. With their signature honesty, wit, and easygoing vibe, they’re baring it all. Whether they’re talking business wins, how to keep the spark alive after nearly 15 years, or just the chaos of everyday life, no topic is off-limits. Tune in Monday, April 7th for the real secret behind what it really takes to Come Together.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.