Men's Divorce Recovery

PART TWO  In this episode of Men’s Divorce Recovery, Dale and Chris sit down with Ron Deal, director of FamilyLife Blended®, to talk about the challenges and blessings of life after divorce. Together they unpack the realities of step-parenting, the pitfalls that can lead to re-divorce, and the biblical principles that offer hope for men navigating blended families. With wisdom drawn from Scripture and years of ministry experience, Ron shares practical tools and encouragement for fathers, stepfathers, and husbands who want to lead with faith, patience, and grace. Inspiration Verse: “If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” — 2 Corinthians 5:17 Resources: https://www.rondeal.org/  

In this episode of Men’s Divorce Recovery, Dale and Chris sit down with Ron Deal, director of FamilyLife Blended®, to talk about the challenges and blessings of life after divorce. Together they unpack the realities of step-parenting, the pitfalls that can lead to re-divorce, and the biblical principles that offer hope for men navigating blended families. With wisdom drawn from Scripture and years of ministry experience, Ron shares practical tools and encouragement for fathers, stepfathers, and husbands who want to lead with faith, patience, and grace. Inspiration Verse: “If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” — 2 Corinthians 5:17 Resources: https://rondeal.org/  

In this episode, Dale and Chris sit down with Tim Rutledge, Director of LEAPS Training and a retired narcotics agent, to explore the unique challenges first responders face in marriage—and the difficult road many walk through divorce. Tim shares candid insights from decades of service, stories from the field, and practical tools to strengthen relationships under pressure. Together, they discuss how to build trust, communicate through stress, and find resilience and hope, whether you’re fighting for your marriage or navigating the pain of separation. Bible Verse Inspiration: "Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love."  -1 Corinthians 16:13–14 Resources: https://www.leapstraining.com/  

In this episode of Men’s Divorce Recovery, we explore the deep sadness that comes with the end of a relationship and how to navigate it in a healthy, God-centered way. Christopher Espinoza offers Biblical inspiration, practical tools, and encouragement for men struggling with heartbreak. Learn how to process grief, avoid common pitfalls, and take actionable steps toward healing, growth, and renewed hope. Scripture Highlight: Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org   

In this episode of Men’s Divorce Recovery, Dale Brown explores the question, "What does a win really look like after divorce?" Instead of chasing shallow victories, Dale unpacks five meaningful types of wins: gaining clarity, having passion, finding solidarity with others, making good decisions, and living with integrity. This episode offers a grounded perspective on success, growth, and healing during life’s most challenging transitions.Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.orgBible Verse Inspiration: Micah 6:8 (NIV): "He has shown you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God."

We all face moments in life that bring us to our knees—days when it feels like everything we've built has come crashing down. In this solo episode, Chris gets real about what to do when you're living through the worst day of your life. Whether you're dealing with the shock of divorce, the loss of a relationship, or the weight of emotional pain, this episode offers both Biblical wisdom and practical tools to help you breathe, pause, and begin to heal.You'll learn how to name your pain, avoid destructive reactions, lean into community, and trust that your story isn't over—even when it feels like it is. Drawing from Scripture, real-life reflection, and grounded encouragement, this episode is a guide to surviving your lowest moment and slowly stepping into something new.You’re not alone. God sees you. And there’s still hope.Bible Inspiration: 2 Corinthians 4:8–9 “We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.”Resource: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org

In this powerful episode we sit down with Michael Mmunthali from Malawi, to explore the often-unspoken realities of divorce for men in African cultures. Michael shares his personal journey through heartbreak, cultural stigma, and healing—and how faith, identity, and community shaped his recovery. We will discuss the differences between divorce in the U.S. and Africa, the silence surrounding men’s emotional pain, and how the global church can better support men walking through the aftermath of divorce.Bible Passage Inspiration: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28 (NIV)Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org 

On today's episode Dale discusses important parts of his book, The Daily Survival Guide for Divorced Men. Specifically Dale discusses what happens when you hurt during the divorce process. He looks at what happens to you mentally and physically when we are hurting, what we can expect during this phase of recovery, and what we can do about it to not sink too far. Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org

INTERVIEW PART TWOIn this powerful episode of Men’s Divorce Recovery, we sit down with Bree Sullivan-Howell, author of Crush Your Divorce and Keep Your Faith, to explore how Christian men can navigate the emotional, spiritual, and legal challenges of divorce without losing their faith in Christ. Bree shares personal insights, practical advice, and biblical encouragement for staying grounded, acting with integrity, and building spiritual resilience in the face of one of life’s hardest seasons. Whether you’re in the midst of a divorce or walking the long road of recovery, this conversation offers hope, truth, and the reminder that God is still at work in your story.Bible Passage Inspiration: Isaiah 43:2 "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze."Resources: https://www.sullivan-firm.com

In this powerful episode of Men’s Divorce Recovery, we sit down with Bree Sullivan-Howell, author of Crush Your Divorce and Keep Your Faith, to explore how Christian men can navigate the emotional, spiritual, and legal challenges of divorce without losing their faith in Christ. Bree shares personal insights, practical advice, and biblical encouragement for staying grounded, acting with integrity, and building spiritual resilience in the face of one of life’s hardest seasons. Whether you’re in the midst of a divorce or walking the long road of recovery, this conversation offers hope, truth, and the reminder that God is still at work in your story.Bible Passage Inspiration: Isaiah 43:2 "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze."Resources: https://www.sullivan-firm.com

Today we take things back to the beginning by revisiting the Stages of Divorce developed by Dale. Specifically Dale and Chris will discuss the “Shock” stage and the “Raw Pain” stage, while touching on how they integrate with other stages along your recovery journey. No matter where you are in your recovery process, remembering what it was like in the beginning is key to keeping your grounded and helping others as your rise. Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org 

In this episode we explore surprising lessons on love, healing, and personal growth through the life and example of Pope Francis. From his focus on compassion and forgiveness to his deep humility and expansive view of love, we unpack how his approach can help men recovering from divorce rediscover their identity, rebuild relationships, and redefine what love means in this new chapter of our lives.Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org

Episode Title: Scars that Speak: What Healing Teaches UsScripture Focus: John 20:27In this heartfelt episode, we explore the power and purpose of emotional scars—especially those left behind after divorce. Drawing from John 20:27, we reflect on how even Jesus chose to reveal His scars as a testimony of love, healing, and identity. You'll discover why your own scars are not signs of failure, but sacred reminders of survival and God's presence in your pain. Whether you're deep in the healing process or just beginning, this episode offers hope, perspective, and encouragement to see your scars as part of your redemptive story.

PART TWO OF INTERVIEWOn today’s special episode we welcome an actor, a producer, and a director from Hollywood to discuss their upcoming movie “Guys Night,” an inspirational story of overcoming adversity and growing as a divorced and single dad. The personal stories in this episode will inspire you and fill you with hope for your future. A special thanks to Niko Vitacco, Dave Eichhorn, and Andrew Baird for being on today’s podcast! Bible Passage Inspiration: Proverbs 4:1-2 “Hear, O Children, a father’s instruction, be attentive, that you may gain understanding. Yes, excellent advice I give you; my teaching do not forsake.” Resources: https://givebutter.com/guysnight

On today’s special episode we welcome an actor, a producer, and a director from Hollywood to discuss their upcoming movie “Guys Night,” an inspirational story of overcoming adversity and growing as a divorced single dad. The personal stories in this episode will inspire you and fill you with hope for your future. A special thanks to Niko Vitacco, Dave Eichhorn, and Andrew Baird for being on today’s podcast! Bible Passage Inspiration: Proverbs 4:1-2 “Hear, O Children, a father’s instruction, be attentive, that you may gain understanding. Yes, excellent advice I give you; my teaching do not forsake.” Resources: https://givebutter.com/guysnight

On the episode Chris cover a reading from the Sermon on the Plain and how it relates to the divorce process. He discusses the narrow path of doing the right thing, even in the face of difficult times and intense emotions. Bible Passage Inspiration: Luke 6:27-38"Jesus said to his disciples:“To you who hear I say,love your enemies, do good to those who hate you,bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.To the person who strikes you on one cheek,offer the other one as well,and from the person who takes your cloak,do not withhold even your tunic.Give to everyone who asks of you,and from the one who takes what is yours do not demand it back.Do to others as you would have them do to you.For if you love those who love you,what credit is that to you?Even sinners love those who love them.And if you do good to those who do good to you,what credit is that to you?Even sinners do the same.If you lend money to those from whom you expect repayment,what credit is that to you?Even sinners lend to sinners,and get back the same amount.But rather, love your enemies and do good to them,and lend expecting nothing back;then your reward will be greatand you will be children of the Most High,for he himself is kind to the ungrateful and the wicked.Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.“Stop judging and you will not be judged.Stop condemning and you will not be condemned.Forgive and you will be forgiven.Give, and gifts will be given to you;a good measure, packed together, shaken down, and overflowing,will be poured into your lap.For the measure with which you measurewill in return be measured out to you.”Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org

On today’s podcast we hit fast forward to take a look at what could potentially be in store for you in a second marriage - if God wills that for your life. You may not find yourself ready to listen to this episode, depending on where you are in your divorce process, but we wanted to cover this topic to bring you hope in God’s mercy and resorting power. On this special episode Dale and Chris are joined by their current wives, Kelly and Megan. Bible Passage Inspiration: 1 Peter 4:8 “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org 

On today's episode Dale talks about what to do when you know divorce is coming. At time we as men can be caught off guard by divorce, but most of the time we have a sense that things are heading in that direction. In this episode Dale discusses ideas and tips on how to better handle your kids, your job, your finances, and sleep when divorce first takes place.Rescources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org

PART TWO OF INTERVIEWThey often say that there are three primary reasons why divorce takes place, with sexual issues being near the top of the list. But if sex factored into the dissolution of our marriage, what can we do to heal and repair our sexual brokenness to be restored in our relationship with God and also prepared for future romantic relationships? On today’s episode Dr. Carol Peters-Tanksley, author of the book "Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships” joins the show to discuss these issues and more. Bible Passage Inspiration: Song of Songs Resources: drcarolministries.com 

They often say that there are three primary reasons why divorce takes place, with sexual issues being near the top of the list. But if sex factored into the dissolution of our marriage, what can we do to heal and repair our sexual brokenness to be restored in our relationship with God and also prepared for future romantic relationships? On today’s episode Dr. Carol Peters-Tanksley, author of the book "Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships” joins the show to discuss these issues and more. Bible Passage Inspiration: Song of Songs Resources: drcarolministries.com