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Keep the Promise Podcast is built on lessons from the fire service. It’s for anyone who wants to get stronger, become more resilient, and be ready for real life.
Host TJ shares practical advice on fitness, recovery, mindset, and performance. You’ll learn how to handle stress, build a body that holds up, and show up better at work, at home, and when it matters most.
With nearly two decades in the fire service, TJ shares real experience, honest lessons, and practical insight.
You’ll learn about:
- building strength and conditioning for real life
- preventing injury and recovering well
- improving nutrition, energy, and performance
- building mental toughness and handling stress
- staying disciplined, consistent, and ready
- applying fire service lessons to everyday life
From solo episodes to guest interviews, each episode helps you get stronger, think clearer, and become harder to break.
Hit subscribe and start building a stronger body, a steadier mind, and a life you can be proud of.
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![089. Fatherhood, Firehouse Culture & Finding Your Place Again [Part 1]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/3wxu1t7btjr74gscuurljwlquw9r?.jpg "089. Fatherhood, Firehouse Culture & Finding Your Place Again [Part 1]")
What happens when the move you once questioned turns out to be exactly what you needed? In this episode, Nick Lindsay returns to the show to talk about life after the jump from Harrisburg to Upper Darby, what family life looks like with two young kids, and how his perspective on the job has changed over time. This is a real conversation about growth, being present at home, and learning that the fire service matters... but it can’t be the only thing that defines you. What You’ll Learn: ...
Is telling your story self-centered… or is it service? Jim Burneka walks through the real process of writing Overcoming Tuesday: from trauma-dumping the truth to turning it into a resource that helps firefighters get support. He explains the line between “look at me” and “this might save someone,” and why being uncomfortably honest is sometimes the most firefighter thing you can do. What You’ll Learn: The behind-the-scenes process of writing the book, and why the audiobook hits differen...
Retirement sounds like freedom… until the phone stops ringing. Jim Burneka breaks down what life really feels like after you hang up your gear for the last time: better sleep, sure, but also the ego hit, the identity shift, and realizing the machine keeps rolling without you. This is a straight-up firefighter conversation about purpose, tribe, and why you have to start building a healthy retirement from day one on the job. Expect to learn: How to avoid the “retire and disappear” trap wh...
![086. Don’t Take the Fire Service So Seriously [Part 2]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/ga0lg7onxf410r3labug7paqrn89?.jpg "086. Don’t Take the Fire Service So Seriously [Part 2]")
Want to be the calm one when everything goes sideways? This is how you build that. Captain Brian Yonkin talks speaking up, handling imposter thoughts, and using systems to sharpen leadership instead of guessing. Then he tells the story of rolling up on a working fire… and finding out there’s a second fire down the street. If you want to lead under pressure without losing your head, this episode gives you tools you can use as early as next shift. What You’ll Learn: How Brian trains himself to ...
![085. The Firefighter Fixer Trap (And How To Break Out) [Part 1]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/v6nhgc3b89g2ei5zv9llqbuudmz8?.jpg "085. The Firefighter Fixer Trap (And How To Break Out) [Part 1]")
If you’re the “fixer” at home and in your firehouse, this episode will punch you right in the gut. Captain Brian Yonkin breaks down what changed since 2024—promotion to captain, hard family stress, and realizing he was running on fumes without calling it depression. We talk TRT, therapy, asking for help, and how being a dad made him a better leader. This is firefighter reality: you can’t pour from an empty cup and still think you’re “tough.” What You’ll Learn: How to spot when you’re quietly ...
...to 2025 and hello to 2026! This year either made you better or it made you bitter. In this episode, we close out the year by pulling the real lessons from 2025 and turning them into a simple plan for 2026. We talk standards, health, and your crew—because this job will take from you unless you choose who you’re going to be. What You’ll Learn: How to set one standard and actually live it when you’re tiredHow to teach the standard to the next generation without turning into a grouchHow to pro...
![083. It’s Okay Not To Be Okay… But Stop Pretending You’re Fine [Part 2]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/wr90ywmv6m9fucrv4iddi9vxlvyg?.jpg "083. It’s Okay Not To Be Okay… But Stop Pretending You’re Fine [Part 2]")
You're the fixer. But what happens when it’s you that needs fixing? In this hard-hitting follow-up, Brad Schriefer peels back the layers on substance abuse, trauma loops, and why we suck at taking our own advice. He offers real, actionable strategies for breaking the cycle — without losing your edge or your identity. This isn’t therapy — it’s survival. What You’ll Learn: Why the firehouse culture of “fix everyone but yourself” is setting us up to failHow to replace the bottle with tools that ...
![082. The Boiling Frog Problem: How Trauma Creeps Up on Us in the Fire Service [Part 1]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/bgm1lkoh2etr4tgktv8zjb6xokle?.jpg "082. The Boiling Frog Problem: How Trauma Creeps Up on Us in the Fire Service [Part 1]")
You swore to protect others — but when was the last time you checked in on yourself? Brad Schriefer, a third-generation firefighter and mental health advocate, shares his raw journey through trauma, peer support, and post-traumatic growth. With over two decades in the service, Brad brings gritty honesty and real solutions to the emotional weight we carry. This isn’t about being soft. It’s about staying strong enough to show up tomorrow. What You’ll Learn: Why “it’s okay to not be okay — but n...
![081. Training In Turnout Gear Could Be Wrecking Your Health [Part 2]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/nco95fciy54h5rg53bmwouj08002?.jpg "081. Training In Turnout Gear Could Be Wrecking Your Health [Part 2]")
It’s one thing to call out the problem. It’s another to build the solution. In Part 2, Ryan takes us behind the curtain of Carna Bunker Gear — from late-night ideas to market-ready innovation. He shares what it really takes to design gear that protects your health, the mindset shift needed to go from the fireground to founder, and why “just accepting the risk” is no longer good enough. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: How Ryan turned a firehouse problem into a full-blown missionWhat firefighter fitne...
![080. The Gear That's Killing Firefighters [Part 1]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/25c85szgy8nnqbvt91f0n89wn74w?.jpg "080. The Gear That's Killing Firefighters [Part 1]")
If you're training to be a better firefighter but wrecking your body in the process, you're not alone — and Ryan Conley’s had enough. In this powerful first episode, Ryan breaks down the hidden dangers of training in contaminated bunker gear and the real cost firefighters are paying in cancer, heart disease, and early exits from the job. He shares the heartbreaking loss of brothers in the field and how that sparked a movement to create safer, smarter ways to prepare for the job — without sacr...
![077. Don't Wear Your Uniform Home [Part 2]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/dpcqhkssvw6c3lxodfumeq3g7p3n?.jpg "077. Don't Wear Your Uniform Home [Part 2]")
Don’t wear your uniform home—your kids will thank you. Tara Cornett (FLAME Decon) returns with a family-first decon plan: keep gear out of living spaces, run smarter laundry, and make kid station visits safe. Volunteers get a no-shower, low-budget workflow that still works. We also talk money, purpose, and what it really takes to push this mission. What You’ll Learn: Volunteer decon on a budget: bag the gear, store it outside the house, strip and shower fast, run a washer cl...
![076. The “Goldilocks” Decon That Firefighters Will Actually Use [Part 1]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/s3dgpvd6gmxxfgoqswo1jnx182uz?.jpg "076. The “Goldilocks” Decon That Firefighters Will Actually Use [Part 1]")
If you think “no smoke smell” means you’re clean, you’re wrong. Navy vet and FLAME founder Tara Cornett shows how her multi-charcoal “Goldilocks” blend pulls cancer-causing junk off your skin. Crews tested it after working fires, and post-shower swabs came back non-detectable. We lay out fast, simple decon you’ll actually do between calls. What You’ll Learn: A 3–5 minute decon routine you can run as soon as you’re back.Why smell does not mean safety, and how pore size helps grab m...
![075. The Failures Make Me Who I Am [Part 3]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/2g0on3glg27kve4t4wl5llgloyun?.jpg "075. The Failures Make Me Who I Am [Part 3]")
What happens when you take firehouse grit and channel it into building a business? Ralph shares how his passion for the job evolved into launching Cervitas Training Solutions — and how leadership, failure, and brutal lessons learned in the fire service prepared him for entrepreneurship. What You’ll Learn: How fireground leadership translates into building a businessThe surprising link between failure and long-term successWhy ego kills growth — and how to surround yourself with the right peopl...
![074. You'll Learn Something From Everyone You Work With [Part 2]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/wv9ozejzgim0srt4cniuvfl43nnu?.jpg "074. You'll Learn Something From Everyone You Work With [Part 2]")
Leadership in the fire service isn’t about the badge — it’s about the lives that depend on you. In this episode, Ralph Suppa opens up about the sleepless nights, the toll of responsibility, and the lessons learned from failure. If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re doing enough for your crew, this one hits home. What You’ll Take Away: Why real leadership means putting your people first — even when it costs you sleep or worseHow to face the crushing weight of responsibility without breaking...
![073. The Real Cost of Promotion in the Fire Service [Part 1]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/jpkwsanw045t9zogbjb2fx4o8nub?.jpg "073. The Real Cost of Promotion in the Fire Service [Part 1]")
Promotion changes everything — not just your title. In this episode, Captain Ralph Suppa opens up about his journey from rookie firefighter to respected officer, the wins that built him, and the failures that shaped him. From grueling tests to unexpected lessons in leadership, Ralph shares what it really takes to step up without losing your crew or yourself. What You’ll Learn: How to build unshakable trust with your crew — even after you make mistakes.Why finding the right mentors can change ...
![072. There Are Two Types of Senior Men: Which One Are You? [Part 2]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/ht6ir361r1vn7l4qhd939uahmupm?.jpg "072. There Are Two Types of Senior Men: Which One Are You? [Part 2]")
You can build something incredible and still serve. In Part 2, Mike gets real about growing Frontline Optics while staying grounded in firefighter values. He shares the emotional highs and gut checks of going all-in on a brand, how he manages burnout, and why giving back to the fire service is built into his business. If you’ve ever felt torn between your calling and your next move, this one hits hard. What You’ll Learn: The moment Mike knew it was time to leave the fire service, and ho...
![071. Senior Man Is a Title You Have to Earn: Frontline Optics [Part 1]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/v23i8zpj8lclyf8ch9sjfy6l1ays?.jpg "071. Senior Man Is a Title You Have to Earn: Frontline Optics [Part 1]")
You can love the job and still build the next chapter. In Part 1, former firefighter-paramedic Mike Ettenberg tells us how a kid who chased sirens on a bike turned his party-bus side hustle into Frontline Optics. From the EMT grind to 30 failed applications, Mike shows why the firefighter mindset, solve problems and never quit, works in business too. What You’ll Learn: How to stay hungry after 30 “no’s” and finally land the jobWhy small-department mandatories can push you to create Plan...
![070. People Love Us, Don’t Let Them Down: Bobby Eckert [Part 3]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/0fihxzch4sv5tr5mrrfsiyatm2pt?.jpg "070. People Love Us, Don’t Let Them Down: Bobby Eckert [Part 3]")
The gloves are off in Part 3. Captain Bobby Eckert returns to finish what he started, and he doesn’t hold back. From being called “the villain” of the fire service to commanding firegrounds and building one of the most respected training programs in the country, Bobby explores what it really takes to lead, teach, and stay true to yourself - no matter how loud the haters get. What You’ll Learn: The fire service politics Bobby’s done pretending to tolerateWhat happens when you teach the tru...
![069. The Working Fire Is The Great Equalizer: Bobby Eckert [Part 2]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/htkijyvcqjmudxvos8vbns9ej72j?.jpg "069. The Working Fire Is The Great Equalizer: Bobby Eckert [Part 2]")
Some people post quotes. Bobby Eckert lives them. In Part 2 of this no-holds-barred conversation, Captain Bobby Eckert gets brutally honest about leadership, firehouse culture, and the broken state of firefighter training. From how he sleeps better at the station than at home, to why he’s done playing nice with the fire service status quo - this one punches straight through the noise and hits the heart of what it means to lead. What You’ll Learn: Why good officers don’t hover - and how Bo...
![068. Fires Are The Easiest Part of the Job: Bobby Eckert [Part 1]](https://storage.buzzsprout.com/vhnufom6ksk44496p9g4l3y3fkjb?.jpg "068. Fires Are The Easiest Part of the Job: Bobby Eckert [Part 1]")
In this raw and real conversation, Bobby Eckert opens up about his roots, leadership, and the gut-punch layoff that nearly derailed it all. From childhood drills to navigating Camden’s chaos, this is a story about resilience, fatherhood, and the drive that keeps him going even when they try to take away the uniform. What You’ll Learn: What growing up with a fire chief dad taught Bobby about leading with integrityHow layoffs nearly ended his career - and why he came back strongerThe firehouse ...
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