Electric Ideas with Whitney Baker: Motherhood, Self-Connection, Joyful Living & Self-Care

Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Have you ever felt behind before the day even really starts? Like, no matter how hard you try, you just can't catch up? In this Mini Jolt, Whitney talks honestly about what it looks like to stop fighting the pace of motherhood and actually let yourself slow down. When the kids are sick, work shifts, plans fall through, and the mental load keeps running in the background, it's so easy to go into survival mode, juggling everything, dropping nothing, and quietly exhausting yourself in the process.   Whitney shares her own moments of feeling stretched thin and the pressure to "keep producing" even when life clearly has other plans. She talks about what she calls fallow seasons, those stretches where you're not operating at full capacity, and maybe you're not meant to be. Instead of seeing them as setbacks, she offers a different lens: maybe they're restorative. Maybe they're necessary. You'll hear practical ideas for building a little more white space into your days and giving yourself a buffer instead of burnout.   If you've been feeling scattered, depleted, or like you're chasing life instead of living it, this conversation will meet you right where you are. Press play for a reset, a reframe, and a reminder that slowing down might be the most powerful thing you do this season.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: The constant pressure to keep up in modern motherhood The idea of "fallow seasons" and why not every season is meant for output Letting go of productivity as your measure of worth Creating white space and a buffer in your daily life Small, practical ways to slow down without everything unraveling Reframing rest as responsible, not indulgent   Reflection question to ponder:  How can I more gently honor and inhabit the wave of life I'm in and how much capacity I have right now, in my season of caregiving?   Take a Listen to Episode 35: Recovering The Lost Art of Rest with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast

Get access to 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction before it closes!     Have you ever felt the quiet, constant pressure to be a "good mom"? The one who stays patient, selfless and grateful, even while running on fumes?   In this episode, Whitney connects with Andrea O'Reilly to examine the expectations mothers carry and the invisible systems shaping their lives. From the concept of the "motherhood wall" to the cultural myths we absorb without realizing it, they explore why so many women feel stretched thin, unseen and perpetually behind, even when they are doing more than enough.   Whitney reflects on how easily we internalize this strain as personal failure. Dr. O'Reilly reframes the story: what if the problem is not you, but the structure you are operating inside? Together, they challenge the myth of the endlessly self-sacrificing "Good Mother," unpack the false divide between working mothers and stay-at-home mothers, and argue for choice, agency and dignity without apology.   This conversation moves beyond coping. It offers language, context and a wider lens. You will leave feeling validated, clearer about what you are carrying, and reminded that your exhaustion is not a character flaw. Press play and step into a more truthful, compassionate narrative.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: What the motherhood wall is and how it impacts women beyond just career conversations How cultural norms and systemic structures shape the experience of modern motherhood Why so many moms internalize their struggles as personal failure The lasting impact of the "Good Mother" myth and unrealistic standards The importance of solidarity and community among mothers Reclaiming visibility and value for maternal labor and caregiving work An introduction to matricentric feminism and what it means for mothers today Reflection question to ponder: Is this necessary, and is this good for me and my family?   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Dr. O'Reilly: In (M)other Words: Writings on Mothering and Motherhood, 2009-2024 | York University

Have you ever felt like intimacy takes a backseat in your busy life? Between endless to-do lists, financial stress, and the mental load of daily responsibilities, it's no surprise that desire often fades into the background. But what if mindfulness could help rekindle connection and deepen intimacy?   In this episode, Whitney sits down with Dr. Lori Brotto, a leading researcher in sexual health and mindfulness and author of Better Sex Through Mindfulness. Dr. Brotto shares fascinating insights into the powerful connection between the mind and sexual well-being, shedding light on how emotional and psychological factors shape women's experiences in the bedroom.   Together, they explore why spontaneous desire is rare—especially in long-term relationships—and how cultivating awareness and intention can reignite passion. By letting go of outdated beliefs around female sexuality and embracing mindfulness, women can foster a more fulfilling relationship with both their bodies and their partners.   Dr. Brotto also shares research-backed, practical strategies to boost desire, confidence, and pleasure—without pressure or perfection.   Tune in for an insightful and empowering conversation that just might shift the way you think about intimacy.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: The prevalence of sexual dysfunction How stress impacts intimacy and sexual desire Why Lori advocates for planning time for sex Mindfulness practices to help rebuild being present with sexual desire Advice for those whose self-judgment is getting in the way of enjoying sex How moms can talk to their daughters to help them have a good relationship with sex Erotica vs. porn Reflection question to ponder: Do I really want this?   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast Connect with Dr. Brotto: Instagram | Website | Book: Better Sex Through Mindfulness | Become a research participant 

Have you ever looked at your partner and thought, "How did we get here?" Somewhere between kids, schedules, groceries, and keeping the household running, many moms begin to feel more like roommates or co-managers than romantic partners.   In this episode, Whitney sits down with marriage coach Michelle Purta to explore why this shift is so common in motherhood, and why it is not a sign that a marriage is broken, but a signal that mental and emotional load has quietly taken over.   They talk honestly about how resentment builds when needs go unspoken, why hard conversations often come out sharper than we intend, and how mental load plays a bigger role in disconnection than we realize. Michelle shares simple, grounded ways to approach conversations differently, from pausing to regulate yourself first, to asking for support clearly and naming why it matters, to creating small moments of connection that do not feel like another item on the to-do list.   If you are feeling stretched thin, disconnected, or longing to feel like a team again, this episode meets you right where you are. Tune in for practical, doable practices that support reconnection with yourself and with your partner.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: Why motherhood naturally creates distance in romantic relationships How to set up consensual conversations instead of ambushing your partner A surprising thing you may not know about even the healthiest couples Examples of micro-connections: intentional check-ins, longer hugs, non-logistics conversations, small acts of support How having a clear vision for your life and relationship guides healthier choices now Reflection question to ponder:  How do I want my life to be like?   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Michelle: Instagram | Website | Marriage and Motherhood Podcast

Many moms already wake up feeling tired, and it's not because they're doing too much, but because they're carrying too much. In this episode of Electric Ideas, Whitney sits down with Leah Ruppanner, professor of sociology, to talk about the mental load of motherhood and why it's so often invisible, brushed off, or just accepted as "part of being a mom."   They talk about the constant background thinking moms do all day long, including keeping track of schedules, anticipating needs, managing emotions, making decisions, and holding everything together in ways no one really sees. Leah breaks down the 8 categories of mental load, helping put language to the many different ways this shows up in daily life. From emotional labor to future planning and decision fatigue, this conversation helps explain why so many moms feel overwhelmed even when they can't point to one specific thing.   Whitney and Leah also dig into why the mental load builds quietly over time, why it's so hard to hand off to someone else, and how cultural expectations keep moms taking on more than their fair share, often without realizing it. Leah shares her mental load assessment, a simple but eye-opening tool that helps moms see where their energy is actually going and which areas are asking for more support.   If you've ever felt exhausted, resentful, or on edge and wondering why everything feels so hard, this episode will help you make sense of it and give you a place to start naming what you're really carrying.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: The many mental loads moms take on and how deep the mental load actually goes The 8 different mental load types moms experience Where to start when we want to be aware of our mental load capacity Reflection question to ponder:  Am I spending my mental load aligned with my purpose?   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Leah: Instagram | Website | Book: Drained | Free Mental Load Assessment

Have you ever looked up from your day and realized you've been moving on autopilot, rushing from one demand to the next without fully landing anywhere?   In this mini jolt episode of Electric Ideas, Whitney offers a grounded, thoughtful conversation for mothers who want to feel more present and more connected in the middle of real life.   Whitney explores why modern motherhood can feel so fragmented, from constant digital interruption to the unrelenting mental and emotional load many women carry. She reflects on how chronic overstimulation pulls us into urgency and reactivity, even when our deepest intention is to show up with care, steadiness, and joy.   She then shares simple mindfulness tools that can be used in minutes and woven into everyday moments. These include brief check-ins with the body and breath, gentle awareness practices, and walking with intention, all designed to support presence without adding another task to your day.   This episode is an invitation to relate to motherhood with more awareness and self-trust, to slow down without falling behind, and to bring more choice into how you move through your days. If you are craving a steadier inner pace and a more connected way of living, this mini jolt meets you right where you are.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: Why many moms crave presence but feel constantly pulled, distracted, and fragmented How mindfulness can help moms reconnect without adding another thing to the to-do list The distinction between meditation and mindfulness and why both matter Why mindfulness isn't about fixing yourself, but about noticing without judgment Two accessible mindfulness practices moms can use immediately: Reflection question to ponder:  Where in my days can I build in intentional pauses?   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast

Register today for The FREE Busy Working Mom's Blueprint Summit** - January 19th-26th** Some of the hardest moments in motherhood aren't about our children at all. They're about parts of us that never felt fully safe, seen, or supported, and get awakened by the intensity of caregiving.   In this episode of Electric Ideas, Whitney sits down with inner child healing expert Lavinia Brown to explore why motherhood can stir up so much guilt, overwhelm, and reactivity, and why those responses often have roots far deeper than the present moment. What looks like irritation over a spilled drink or a standoff about screen time may actually reflect an old emotional pattern surfacing in a nervous system that's already stretched thin.   Together, Whitney and Lavinia examine how unhealed parts of ourselves can quietly shape our parenting, why adding more strategies without tending to our inner world often keeps us stuck in the same cycles, and what it means to meet ourselves with compassion instead of defaulting to self-criticism. They unpack how many of the behaviors that drain mothers today were once effective survival strategies in childhood, and how becoming a parent can reactivate them if we're not aware.   Lavinia explains why you don't need a single, obvious trauma for inner child work to matter, how triggers often signal unmet needs or unprocessed experiences, and why moments of rupture with our children don't define us. What matters most is repair: honest, regulated repair that teaches children big feelings don't break relationships and that connection can be restored.   The conversation also names the double standard many mothers carry around anger and emotional expression, explores why pushback from children isn't inherently a problem to fix, and offers grounded guidance for caring for yourself after a moment you wish had gone differently. It's a conversation about breaking cycles, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming motherhood as a space for growth rather than constant self-judgment.   Press play if you're ready to stop blaming yourself for the hard moments and start understanding what they're really pointing to.   In this episode, we explore: How inner child work shapes the way we show up as mothers Why you don't need a capital T trauma for this work to be meaningful Seeing our reactions as information rather than personal failure What to do after you react in a way you regret How to have a repair conversation that builds trust instead of shame The double standard around anger for moms versus dads Why pushback and defiance from kids can actually be healthy Reflection question to ponder: How old is the part of me that's feeling this way?   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Lavinia: Instagram | Website | Facebook | Podcast: Becoming Untriggered

Register today for The FREE Busy Working Mom's Blueprint Summit - January 19th-26th   Returning to work after having kids is a huge transition, one that can be much harder than one may think. In this episode, Whitney connects with Rebecca Olson, a coach for working moms, to talk about the emotional toll so many women experience when returning to work after motherhood. What once felt meaningful can suddenly feel misaligned, and that identity shift can leave even the most driven women questioning themselves. Rebecca shares her own experience navigating this season and what she's learned from supporting countless working moms through the same transition.   Together, they unpack what Rebecca calls the "motherhood identity crisis" and the failure stories so many women silently carry. The belief that you are falling short at work and at home, that balance is impossible, or that you are somehow doing it wrong. Rebecca explains why these thoughts are so common, how cultural expectations reinforce them, and how to start loosening their grip. This conversation helps normalize the struggle while also offering a way forward that is rooted in clarity, self-trust, and redefining success on your own terms.   Rebecca also shares practical tools to help moms reclaim their time and energy, including how to set real boundaries around work and home, and her simple daily kickstart mindset practice. If you are navigating the return to work and craving more confidence, clarity, and ease, this episode will help you feel less alone and more grounded. Tune in and listen now.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: Navigating being a new mom and going back to work The common "failure story" women tell themselves and how our brains focus on perceived shortcomings How to recognize and reframe the belief that work and family are in conflict Strategies for feeling empowered at work without immediately changing jobs How Rebecca's definition of success has shifted Advice on drawing clear boundaries around work hours and real-life examples A daily morning mindset practice to cultivate empowering beliefs and set the tone for the day Reflection question to ponder: How do I know I'm already good enough?   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Rebecca: Instagram | Website | Podcast | The Daily Kickstart Freebie

Are you longing to feel physically lighter while staying true to a wellness journey that's about more than just weight loss? In this episode, functional nutritionist and chronic illness coach Danielle Pashko reveals the impact of stress on women's health and weight gain.   During the conversation, Danielle explores how intense workouts and elevated stress levels can negatively affect hormonal balance and women's ability to release weight. She emphasizes the importance of nourishing habits like a proper diet, sleep, hydration and stress management.   Danielle shares how embracing softer, ancient practices like Tai Chi and Qigong can better your overall emotional, mental and physical wellness.   Here's what you can look forward to in today's episode: The risk of following every wellness trend The importance of self-love and self-respect How stress can impact weight loss Lessons about true health and happiness Embracing softer wellness practices The power of Tai Chi and Kung Fu Reflection question to ponder: Who do you want to be in 2025?    Join Back to Bright, a 1:1 personalized, four-week coaching experience where I'll guide you in creating sustainable rhythms of rest, joy, and self-connection.   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Danielle: Instagram | Website

Feeling overwhelmed by the juggling act of keeping all the trains running as a mom? You're not alone. But guess what? There's a way to lighten that mental load.   Today on the podcast, Whitney connects with Amelia Pleasant Kennedy, a certified life coach, Fair Play facilitator, professional organizer, and the brains behind A Pleasant Solution. She's all about helping busy women reclaim control over their chaotic lives.   During their conversation, Whitney and Amelia discuss the mental load women often bear in managing their families and households, and the transformative power of decluttering both their physical and mental space. They cover a clutter-free mindset, which involves being intentional about how one's day is spent and making conscious choices about prioritizing tasks.   Amelia also explains what the Fair Play Method is and how to use it to distribute responsibilities and have open conversations about household tasks. It's a powerful system that helps moms prioritize self-care and set boundaries.   By addressing this invisible load many of us hold and engaging in Fair Play at home, we can create a more balanced and fulfilling life that supports us and ripples out to those we love.   Here's what to look forward to in today's episode: What it means to cultivate a clutter-free mindset Understanding the invisible load of mental labor The Fair Play Method: delegation vs. ownership Examples of Fair Play in the home and how to implement it The importance of women prioritizing themselves Reflection question to ponder: What do I want?   Join Back to Bright, a 1:1 personalized, four-week coaching experience where I'll guide you in creating sustainable rhythms of rest, joy, and self-connection.   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Amelia: Instagram | Website | Podcast: A Pleasant Solution: Embracing an Organized Life  

Our intuition is that inner knowing of what is true. In fact, it can almost be seen as a personal GPS that guides us and speaks our truth from the inside out. When we regularly practice connecting with and trusting this inner guidance system, it becomes much easier to make choices that support our highest good. And while our inner impulses and natural instincts are always there, there can be challenges that can obscure our intuition. ‌ During this episode, Whitney offers practical strategies to forge a deeper connection with our inner guidance system through practice and intention. She emphasizes the importance for women to trust their inner wisdom despite society telling us to seek external validation. ‌ Whitney also encourages women to create a space for introspection by asking themselves what they truly desire. Lastly, she discusses the difference between the voice of the ego and the voice of the intuition, explaining the kindness of the intuition while the ego can have some limiting thoughts. ‌ This episode is sure to give you some simple and tangible practices to foster a stronger bond with your intuition. ‌ Here's what to look forward to in today's episode: Understanding what your intuition is Asking ourselves questions to nurture the connection with your intuition Finding space to listen to your intuition Fun and tangible practices to connect with your intuition Intuition vs. ego A bonus opportunity to practice connection with your intuition ‌ Reflection question to ponder: How can you practice tuning into your intuition while the stakes are low?   Join Back to Bright, a 1:1 personalized, four-week coaching experience where I'll guide you in creating sustainable rhythms of rest, joy, and self-connection.   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast

Are you feeling the weight of December in your bones, like you're supposed to make everything magical while barely keeping up yourself? This time of year can feel overwhelming, and many of us slip into the belief that we have to end the year strong. But what if you shifted the narrative and chose to end the year soft instead?   In this mini jolt, Whitney opens up about a pattern she's noticed in herself: how stress tends to amplify old, self-sabotaging tendencies. She shares a practical way to interrupt those patterns and bring awareness to the moments when overwhelm starts to spiral. Then she dives into the mindset shift that's changed everything for her: ending the year soft rather than strong. Whitney talks about the kinder, more intentional choices she's been making for herself and her family this holiday season, and how you can, too.   If you've been feeling stretched thin or overcommitted, this episode will feel like an invitation to pause, breathe, and recalibrate. Tune in now and give yourself the soft landing you deserve this season.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode:  How to recognize and interrupt self-destructive patterns  Practical steps to manage overwhelm  Shifting your mindset - ending the year soft instead of strong  Examples of how to end the year soft  Reflection question to ponder: How can I end the year soft instead of strong?    Join Back to Bright, a 1:1 personalized, four-week coaching experience where I'll guide you in creating sustainable rhythms of rest, joy, and self-connection.   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast

Have you ever noticed how easily motherhood can slide into a rhythm powered by guilt instead of joy? Many moms spend their days giving endlessly, rarely pausing to ask for what they need. In this episode, Whitney sits down with Heather Chauvin, author of Dying to Be a Good Mother, for a conversation about rewriting the rules of what it means to be a good mom. Chauvin shares how a stage-four cancer diagnosis forced her to listen to her own inner voice, a decisive moment that shifted everything. She explains why honoring personal needs isn't selfish, it's connective, and how it can deepen relationships with our children, work, and ourselves.   Chauvin also introduces the way she structures her days through her Energetic Time Management method, a system that helps moms build their schedules around the feelings they want to cultivate, not the obligations they're trying to survive. She breaks down how energy, not hours, should lead the calendar, and walks through her signature tool: Energetic Time Management, a practical framework for planning life in alignment, reducing mental load, and reclaiming self-connection without sacrificing impact.   Tune in now to learn how to bring more joy into motherhood without apology. For many women, this approach marks the turning point between burnout and brightness, proving that a well-resourced woman contributes differently, loves differently, and leads differently.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: The pressure and unrealistic expectations of mothers to self-sacrifice Considering your needs as an act of rebellion Removing guilt and pressure and feeling more alive Energetic Time Management - Figure out how you want to feel and allocate that time to how you want to feel Seeing challenges in parenting as an opportunity for growth and a deeper connection Reflection question to ponder: How would you parent or live if you didn't care what other people thought?   Join Back to Bright, a 1:1 personalized, four-week coaching experience where I'll guide you in creating sustainable rhythms of rest, joy, and self-connection.   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Heather: Instagram | Website | Book: Dying to Be a Good Mother | Podcast: Emotionally Uncomfortable

Be honest, how many times have you pushed through exhaustion and told yourself you'll "catch up on sleep later?" This is something that is all too common. In this episode, Whitney sits down with sleep expert Terry Cralle to talk about why so many of us have been taught to ignore our bodies and treat sleep like it's optional. Terry shares how this mindset not only leaves us drained but also chips away at our mood, focus, and overall well-being.   Terry explains why sleep isn't just "nice to have," but a biological necessity that supports your brain, mood, memory, and long-term well-being. She shares the real science behind how sleep works, why you can't "make up for it" on weekends, and the simple habits that can dramatically improve your nightly rest. You'll hear simple changes that make nighttime rest easier, plus tips for tackling sleep debt, setting boundaries with your family around rest, and creating routines that feel realistic for busy women and moms.   Tune in now to hear Terry's wisdom and take the first step toward treating your sleep like the priority it truly is.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: Debunking the myth that less sleep equals more productivity How sleep helps with memory consolidation What happens to our bodies when we press the snooze button The cognitive clean-up process that happens when we sleep The best course of action to take when we don't get enough sleep Ways to avoid sleep debt when we know we may have to get less sleep Simple sleep habits you should start adopting   Join Back to Bright, a 1:1 personalized, four-week coaching experience where I'll guide you in creating sustainable rhythms of rest, joy, and self-connection.   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Terry: Website | LinkedIn | Instagram | X | Book: Sleeping Your Way to the Top 

Do you ever feel like your perfectionism is something you need to fix? What if the truth is the opposite—that your perfectionism holds real power?   In this episode, Whitney talks with Katherine Morgan Schafler, psychotherapist and author of The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power. Katherine challenges the cultural narrative that perfectionism is a flaw and instead shows how, when understood and channeled well, it can be a meaningful strength.   Katherine explains the difference between adaptive and maladaptive perfectionism, how perfectionism shows up differently for women, and why many of us feel caught between our ambition and the pressure to soften it. She also outlines the five types of perfectionists so listeners can recognize their own patterns, strengths and red flags.   Listen in to rethink what perfectionism really is—and learn how to work with your drive instead of against it.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: Redefining perfectionism in modern discourse Why women are watering down their perfectionist tendencies when men are unconcerned The 5 different types of perfectionists Aligning your actions to your core values Reflection questions to ponder: What do I want for you?   Join Back to Bright, a 1:1 personalized, four-week coaching experience where I'll guide you in creating sustainable rhythms of rest, joy, and self-connection.   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Katherine: Instagram | Website | Book: The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control | Quiz: Get Your Perfectionist Profile 

Join Back to Bright, a 1:1 personalized, four-week coaching experience where I'll guide you in creating sustainable rhythms of rest, joy, and self-connection.   Do you feel like you're giving so much to everyone and everything that there's barely anything left for you? In this episode, Whitney sits down with Nora Wilhelm to unpack what it really means to create change without burning out in the process. Nora shares her own journey through chronic stress and burnout, and how she learned that taking care of yourself isn't selfish, it's essential if you want to make a meaningful impact.   Nora shares what happens when we push ourselves too hard when trying to do good, and how that pressure can quietly spiral into exhaustion and disconnection. You'll hear her honest reflections on being in the burnout spiral, what it looks like in real life, and the small, powerful shifts that helped her find balance again. This conversation offers a refreshing take on what real self-sustainability looks like.   If you've been feeling like the weight of your responsibilities is starting to take over, then you won't want to miss this episode. Tune in to learn how nurturing yourself can actually make your work, your relationships, and your impact stronger and more meaningful.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: What it looks like to contribute to change without losing yourself in the process Unlearning to sacrifice yourself Breaking the cycle of slipping back into old patterns when burnout hits Contributing positively from a place of integrity Reclaiming contribution in small ways Using art as a tool for inner work Trusting yourself and the path you're on Reflection questions to ponder: Am I really dedicating my life energy to what is truly mine to bring? Am I really dedicating my life energy in the way that is most aligned with doing what I truly am here to bring and contribute?   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Nora: Instagram | Website | Art-Based Practices and Tools | Finding Your Unique Contribution

Did you know that every word we say and every action we take is ruled by our nervous system? It's the command center that shapes how we think, feel, and respond to the world around us, and yet, most of us rarely stop to notice what's actually happening inside our bodies. Whitney sits down with Michelle Grosser, an expert in nervous system regulation, to discuss how becoming aware of the cues in your body can help shift how you move throughout the day.   Michelle offers tangible steps we can take to become more somatically aware of what's going on in our bodies and how to regulate before stress builds up. She also shares her big three: movement, stillness and play, and how each of those can help make us feel more grounded.   If you've been craving more calm, ease and connection in your everyday life, this conversation is a must-listen.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: Our nervous system determines how we show up Becoming somatically aware of what's happening in our nervous system, even with a busy life Tangible actions we can take to release any tension that we feel How we can change our baseline Michelle's big three: Movement, stillness and play What happens when our bodies are in fight or flight mode Reflection questions to ponder: Am I playing an inside-out or an outside-in game? How can I shift my judgment to curiosity?   Click HERE to sign up to join the Ask Me Anything call on 11/12/25   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Michelle: Instagram | Website | Podcast: Alive & Well

Are you feeling burnt out and in need of a reset? Between school schedules, work demands, and the invisible load of motherhood, it's easy to feel overstretched and depleted—especially as the holiday season approaches.   In this episode of Electric Ideas, Whitney shares small but powerful practices to help you reset, reclaim your energy, and bring more calm and connection into your days, even amid the chaos.   She offers three simple, realistic ways to support yourself when life feels full: simplifying your morning routine, using short moments of mindfulness to reset during transitions, and ending your day with a grounding ritual that helps you release stress.   Tune in for a gentle reminder that even when life is full, tiny moments of intention can make a big difference.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: Finding a morning routine that works for you Building reset moments on your transitions throughout the day Creating evening rituals that can help shed stress Reflection question to ponder: Where can I intentionally replenish myself so that I might share my energy from a place of overflow, rather than a place of depletion?   Resources mentioned in this episode: Ep 88 - Rise and Thrive: How a Morning Routine Can Change Your Life   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast | Podcast YouTube

Are you constantly pouring your energy into everything and everyone, yet ending the day feeling completely wiped out? In this episode, Whitney sits down with Dr. Diana Hill, author of Wise Effort: How to Focus Your Genius Energy on What Matters Most, to explore what it really means to spend your energy in ways that align with who you are.   Dr. Hill introduces the idea of "wise effort," a mindful approach to work, motherhood, and personal growth that helps you focus on what truly matters rather than simply doing more. She explains how to identify and direct your "genius energy"—the natural strengths that help you thrive when used wisely but can lead to exhaustion when misused.   Whitney and Dr. Hill also discuss The Nightmare Review, a self-reflective practice that reveals what you value most by imagining the story you don't want to live. Through this conversation, you'll learn how to move from overdoing to intentional action, reconnect with your body's signals, and bring vitality and joy back to your days.   If you've been feeling overextended, uninspired, or out of alignment, this episode will help you reclaim your energy and live with more clarity, curiosity, and ease.   Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: Wise effort vs. unwise effort Understanding genius energy When your genius can become a problem The positives and negatives of being a planner What it looks like to treat ourselves with wise action The "Nightmare Review" practice How environment can impact wise effort "One Eye In, One Eye Out" practice Reflection question to ponder: If there's no problem to be solved, what's left?   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Dr. Hill: Instagram | Website | Book: Wise Effort | Podcast: The Wise Effort Show

Have you ever found yourself standing at a crossroads, unsure of what's next, but also knowing deep down something needs to shift? In this episode, Whitney connects with life and career coach Naama Zusman, for a conversation about navigating life's transitions with trust and self-compassion. Naama shares simple ways to move forward without forcing clarity before being ready.   Together, they talk about what it looks like to reconnect with your intuition and trust yourself again, how to shift your mindset from not knowing what you want to exploring what you want, and how even the smallest decisions can strengthen your inner trust. Naama also shares her Try Before You Leap approach that helps you take action without getting stuck in analysis paralysis.   This conversation is a reminder that being uncertain doesn't mean you're lost. It means you are growing. Press play now to hear how to approach life's transitions with more ease and confidence.   Here's what you can look forward to in today's episode: Viewing transitions as empowering opportunities Developing self-connection and intuition The Try Before You Leap method Choosing to simmer over decisions rather than obsessing over them Fear and excitement coexist Reflection question to ponder: What does my gut say? Is it aligned with my values? Does it move me closer to my vision?   Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session   Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast   Connect with Naama: Instagram | Website | Email List