Be Light, Shine Bright

A podcast by Pokarlla Kiara from Mārama Counselling, about life, counselling, therapy and other things!

A Therapist to Therapist Chat with Developmental Educator Kelly Wiseman

In this episode Pokarlla chats with special guest and fellow therapist Kelly Wiseman; a Developmental Educator (DE) from Autistic Gem. What is a DE? Who would benefit from seeing one? How does learning about our (and/or our children’s) diagnosis aid us in directing supports? How can our strengths and interests contribute to a feeling of equilibrium. Support the show

03-20
26:39

What's In Store for 2024

Pokarlla discusses upcoming events and offerings from Marama Counselling, Kiara Knowledge and the Be Light, Shine Bright Podcast. Support the show

02-18
15:21

Kiara Knowledge

Pokarlla and Jarni (founders of Marama Counselling and Flourish By Nature) talk about the formation of their collaboration: Kiara Knowledge - the integration of knowledge passed from mother to daughter. Listen to hear about our new offering. Support the show

06-24
15:34

Alignment & Flow

In this episode Pokarlla discusses the concepts of Alignment and Flow. What is alignment? What is flow? How can we tell if we are in or out of alignment? What are some things that help you to get into or stay in alignment? Support the show

06-11
20:31

Entertainment I Enjoy: This Is Us

In this episode, Pokarlla discusses why she enjoyed recently watching the television show "This Is Us". She talks about things learned from the how, topics and subject matter it covers. Please note that this episode is Pokarlla's opinion and view only and is open to discussion and interpretation. Support the show

04-23
19:04

Stop Lighting Yourself on Fire

This episode talks about not setting yourself on fire to keep other people warm. It discusses boundaries, being kind to yourself, recognising "safe people", rest and balancing out negative interactions with positive ones. Support the show

03-20
22:24

Don't Let Others Define Your Worth

In this episode Pokarlla discusses self-worth. We choose how we show up. We choose how our energy is put out to the world. Other peoples' thoughts and opinions about us do not matter. Only what we think about ourselves matters. Don't take anything personally. Your worth comes from you. Support the show

02-18
17:12

Celebrating Your Wins

In this episode Pokarlla discusses the importance of celebrating your personal wins, and giving yourself the recognition that you deserve. She discusses how celebrating your wins can impact you in a positive way. Pokarlla talks about sharing your success and celebrating your wins with safe people, and how you can learn from your mistakes. Support the show

02-11
18:31

Having the Courage to Choose Yourself

In this episode Pokarlla speaks about having the courage to choose yourself, and why this is important. Pokarlla talks about how this may encompass: setting boundaries, teaching others how to treat you, protecting your space and vibrating higher. Support the show

02-03
14:59

Managing Your Low Battery

In this episode Pokarlla speaks about how you can manage your "low battery". She talks about how to recognise when you are running on low or empty, and discusses some things that you can do to recharge. Support the show

01-26
15:42

Getting Clear on Your Personal Values

What are values? How can they help me to live a life that feels in alignment with my personal happiness and satisfaction? How can I prioritise my values? Support the show

01-18
14:11

Confabulation

This episode discusses confabulation. What is confabulation? How is it different to lying? What can it be associated with? What are some things that can help with confabulation? Support the show

01-12
16:13

New Year, New Me

With the new year can come new wishes for ourselves. This episode looks at embracing change, setting goals, making resolutions and acknowledging personal growth. Support the show

01-03
17:42

Your Feel Good List

This podcast episode talks about developing a Feel Good List; a list of things that make you feel good. It talks about breaking down your list into categories, and why having such a list may be beneficial. You can find a printable pdf template for a Feel Good List here: https://www.maramacounselling.com/helpful-documents Support the show

09-25
10:37

The Five Basic Love Languages

In this podcast episode Pokarlla talks about the importance of knowing how you like to give and receive love; and how knowing about the five basic love languages (coined by Dr Gary Chapman in his 1992 book) can help you to better express love towards yourself and the loved ones in your life. The love languages that Pokarlla talks about in this episode are: Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Gifts, Quality Time and Words of Affirmation. Support the show

09-07
22:08

Why Smile?

In this episode Pokarlla discusses the benefits of smiling for our mental health and wellbeing. Suggestions for activities to help increase the likelihood of smiling are spoken about and Pokarlla addresses some of the reasons why you may find it hard to smile. Support the show

08-23
21:55

Slow Deep Breaths

This episode looks at slow, deep breaths (diaphragmatic breathing) and how it can aid in relaxation. It talks about the Vagus Nerve and the role it plays in the Parasympathetic Nervous System. Pokarlla walks you through a 5 Breath Exercise. Support the show

07-23
19:17

Holding Space For Yourself

This episode looks at some things that may help you to find it easier to hold space for yourself. Support the show

06-03
16:29

Conceptualizing Self-Harm

What are the different way in which we harm ourselves? Self-harm can encompass physical and emotional components. It may involve things like addiction, or living with low self worth or love. We may not be living intentionally or in accordance with our own values and morals. We may also be used to putting others and the needs of others first. Support the show

05-05
21:03

Conceptualizing Self-Care

This episode looks at the different ways we can approach self-care, particularly embracing or embodying the following categories: emotional, physical, social, intellectual, spiritual and sensory. Support the show

04-19
20:39

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