Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

Lifestyle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party

Quickie Episode • Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Lifecycle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party First link (all details & tickets): See Our Events Calendar Episode Summary Nervous about your first lifestyle event? We've got you. In this Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about first-timer anxiety, how to find the right events, what to expect once you're there, and simple ways to meet people without feeling overwhelmed. We also share details for two big meetups: our November 8th Meet & Greet at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) and the December 5–7 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, where we'll host a live Beyond Monogamy show with audience Q&A.   Come Hang With Us — Upcoming Events ➡️ Full Events Page (dates, times, maps, updates) 📍 Saturday, November 8 — Meet & Greet @ Forbidden Fruit (Austin, TX) Time: 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM (we may stay later if it's poppin') Where: Inside Forbidden Fruit (Austin's oldest locally owned adult boutique; block-party vibes with neighboring local shops) What's happening: Photos, lives, light Q&A, merch, and meet-the-hosts energy Parking tip: It's tight—street or neighborhood parking recommended. Worth the walk! Full address, updates, and reminders are on our Events Page. 🎄 December 5–7 — Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio, TX) Weekend takeover: Lifestyle community, day events, and night parties We're performing: A live Beyond Monogamy podcast + audience Q&A (seating + mic setup on site) Heads-up: Rooms are moving fast—see the Events Page for info & booking details Traveling in to see us? Tell us you're coming—we love meeting out-of-towners. How to Find Lifestyle Events Check vetted platforms like SDC and Kasidie for party & meet-and-greet listings. Local Facebook communities (often invite-only)—meet people at clubs and ask for a group invite. At meet-and-greets, introduce yourself to the host or a connector; start with one person, let them introduce you onward. First-Timer Tips (Real Talk) It's normal to be nervous—your first event is the hardest; it gets easier fast. Have a drink if you want, but avoid overdoing it—staying aware keeps you safe and confident. Safety first: watch your surroundings, stick together, and honor consent like it's sacred.   Links & Resources Mentioned 🗓️ All Events (first stop): https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/p/beyond-monogamy-events/ 🌐 Main Site: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com 📬 Beyond Monogamy Confessional (anonymous): https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/p/confess/  📻 Full Swap Radio: https://fullswapradio.com — catch us Thursdays at 2 PM & 7 PM Central ❤️ Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/c/BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris  📱 SDC (events/platform): https://www.sdc.com  📱 Kasidie (events/platform): https://www.kasidie.com    SEO Keywords lifestyle events, swinger events, ethical non-monogamy, meet and greet Austin, Naughty and Nice hotel takeover, swinger podcast, open relationships, Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris, non-monogamy podcast, Full Swap Radio, lifestyle community Texas Enjoyed the episode? Please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review—this helps the community find us and keeps the conversations.

11-05
39:16

Jealousy, Labels & Latino Love: Psychologist Jaime Gama on Ethical Non-Monogamy, Swinging vs. Poly, & Building Community

In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor, and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with real-life stories. 💧 Jaime's work: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com 🌐 Our site: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Listen on FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): FullSwapRadio.com ❤️ Support us on Patreon: @beyondmonogamywithadampris CTA: If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review on whatever platform you listen on—it seriously helps the community grow! Meet Us IRL: We'll be at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) on November 8—come say hi and join our live Q&A session! Show Notes Key Topics How labels help—when they're guides, not molds Swinging vs. Polyamory: sex-forward vs. romance-forward dynamics Jealousy isn't the villain: safety, communication, and growth Latin culture, masculinity, shame, and sexual autonomy Consent, agency, honesty & compassion as relationship pillars Why community is the #1 unlock for sustainable ENM About Our Guest Jaime Gama is a psychologist and Gestalt therapist, international educator on ethical non-monogamy, and author of Si te duele, ahí no es. He leads workshops, writes, and creates hugely popular content that makes complex relationship ideas practical and accessible. Website: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com Links & Resources Beyond Monogamy: www.beyond-monogamy.com FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): FullSwapRadio.com Patreon: @beyondmonogamywithadampris Guest site: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com How You Can Help Tap those buttons—like, subscribe, share, and review—so more curious, open-minded folks can find the show. Thank you for supporting independent creators! Come Hang With Us Forbidden Fruit (Austin) — November 8 Meet-and-greet + listener Q&A. Can't wait to see you there!

11-02
01:05:04

QUICKIE: Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle

Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Sometimes you're vibing at a lifestyle club—lights low, bodies moving, drinks flowing—and boom… someone from your vanilla life walks in. Your coworker. A family friend. Someone from the PTA. 😳 Now what? In today's Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down exactly what happens when you get SPOTTED in the wild… and how to turn that panic moment into a confident lifestyle win. From awkward introductions to "keep your eyes up" territory, this episode shares a real-life run-in that ended up being surprisingly great. What You'll Learn The #1 newbie fear: "What if I run into someone I know?!"—and how to handle it Consent, discretion, and reading the room when worlds collide When not to approach someone—and why Why being open can feel freeing (and build real community) Turning "oh no" into "we're good" without the drama Listen & Support Subscribe on your favorite platform, tap LIKE, SHARE with a friend, and please leave a REVIEW. It takes seconds and massively boosts the show in search and recommendations. Community Links Join Our Patreon Get bonus episodes, Couch Confessionals, After Hours, behind-the-scenes & more. Your support keeps the mics hot. ❤️ Become a Patron Anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional Drop your wild stories, burning questions, or true confessions—100% anonymous. We may feature yours in a future episode. Submit to the Confessional Catch Us on FullSwapRadio Listen every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central alongside a curated lineup of adult talk shows. fullswapradio.com Everything in One Place Episodes • Events • Confessional • Merch • Socials: www.beyond-monogamy.com Episode Keywords ethical non-monogamy, ENM, swinging, lifestyle clubs, getting spotted in the lifestyle, discretion and consent, open relationships, Beyond Monogamy podcast Thanks for listening! If this helped you breathe easier about "getting spotted," share it with a friend who needs it.

10-29
36:18

Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise Relationships

Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Attachment, Resentment & Rewriting the Rules of Non-Monogamy Guests: Jessica Fern (author of Polysecure, Polywise, and Transforming the Shame Triangle) and David Cooley (restorative-justice facilitator, creator of Restorative Relationship Conversations). Episode Summary  In this heart-to-heart, Adam & Pris sit down with Jessica Fern and David Cooley to go deeper than "What is polyamory?" They unpack attachment styles, why resentment is jealousy's sneaky cousin, and how the Shame Triangle (inner persecutor, inner victim, inner rescuer) quietly shapes conflict—and how to transform it with practical tools rooted in IFS and restorative practices. The convo hits real-life dynamics: ditching the "50/50" myth, navigating capacity and time (especially with kids), and why relationships thrive when both partners bring 100%—just not in the same way every day. Adam & Pris get candid about their own poly chapter, burnout, and finding balance, while Jessica & David share how their post-divorce collaboration became one of their healthiest partnerships. Keywords: Jessica Fern, David Cooley, Polysecure, Polywise, Transforming the Shame Triangle, attachment theory, IFS therapy, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, jealousy vs resentment, relationship repair, capacity, family dynamics, Beyond Monogamy podcast, Full Swap Radio. Listen & Subscribe Website: beyond-monogamy.com Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST Patreon (early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord): Patreon.com/BeyondMonogamywith Show Notes Attachment & IFS: How to spot when a part (not your core self) is driving reactivity—and how to respond with needs-based clarity. Jealousy vs. Resentment: Resentment is the "check-engine light" for unmet needs or long-standing imbalances—don't villainize it, learn from it. The 50/50 Myth: Healthy partnerships aren't perfectly split; they're capacity-aware and transparent about changing needs over time. Polyamory + Parenting: Why time/energy constraints shift when kids are young—and how integrating partners into the family system can help. The Shame Triangle: Inner persecutor ➝ inner victim (shame) ➝ inner rescuer/escapers (over/under-functioning, numbing, projection) and how to break the cycle. Collaboration After Divorce: Jessica & David describe dissolving romance, rebuilding trust, and co-creating work that actually deepens harmony. Guest Links & Resources JessicaFern.com — book info, events, workshops (New book Transforming the Shame Triangle releases on October 31; pre-release discount via site). Polysecure, The Polysecure Workbook, Polywise — widely available wherever books are sold. Upcoming signings mentioned: Asheville (Malaprops, Oct 28), Atlanta (Cherish Books, Nov 4), Bay Area events week of Dec 17 with a day-long workshop on Dec 22. Favorite Moments "Resentment is a really important signal—like a dashboard light. There's a need underneath it asking to be seen." "Stop chasing 50/50. Bring your 100%—and expect your partner to bring theirs—in ways that ebb and flow with real capacity." "The Shame Triangle links that inner critic, the shame it creates, and the 'escapes' we use to avoid feeling it. Naming it is the first step to changing it."Timestamps 00:01 — Meet Jessica & David; books, backgrounds, collaboration 16:00 — Sacredness, conditioning & rethinking mononormative scripts 18:00 — Jealousy vs. resentment; needs, signals & repair 22:00 — Ditching 50/50; capacity, boundaries, expectations 29:00 — Poly + parenting; integrating partners into family systems 44:00 — The Shame Triangle explained (persecutor, victim, rescuer/escapers) 54:00 — Why feedback can trigger shame—and how to receive it better 55:00 — Book release timing & event tour details Support the Show Love the conversation? Join our Patreon for early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord hangs, and more. Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST. Follow us: Facebook @BeyondMonogamy4U • Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u • TikTok @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond • YouTube @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris

10-26
59:59

QUICKIE: The Great Expectations

The Great Expectations Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Episode Summary In The Great Expectations, Adam & Pris get real about one of the trickiest parts of ethical non-monogamy: managing what you think is going to happen versus what actually happens. From club nights that don't go as planned to the pressure of "performing" in lifestyle settings, they unpack how expectations—ours, our partners', and everyone else's—shape attraction, confidence, and connection. This candid, funny, and raw conversation explores emotional intelligence, insecurity, chemistry, and the myth of having "no expectations." Spoiler: everyone has them, and that's human. Whether you're new to swinging or deep into open relationship life, you'll leave with practical perspective: the fewer expectations you cling to, the more freedom (and fun) you'll find. Show Notes Topics Covered The illusion of "no expectations" in the lifestyle Why we still walk into clubs hoping for magic (and why it rarely plays out like a fantasy) How unrealistic expectations can kill the vibe before the night even starts Attraction vs. organic connection: letting chemistry lead Emotional intelligence as a lifestyle superpower Releasing insecurities and learning to care less (with age and experience) "Podcaster expectations" vs. real-life anxiety and social energy Expectations and performance pressure—why honest communication matters Respect, boundaries, and the expectations partners set for each other Featured Moments Pris opens up about letting go and growing emotional maturity. Adam talks about mental pressure, male performance, and speaking up instead of spiraling. A funny play-by-play of how fantasy scripts fall apart in real life—and why that's okay. A shared takeaway: try not to have expectations, but admit you always will—then choose flexibility over frustration. Listen & Connect Stream this episode on all major podcast platforms and catch us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. Explore everything—blogs, videos, events, and our anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional—at www.beyond-monogamy.com. Support the Show & Explore the Lifestyle Join Our Patreon Love the raw conversations and want more? Get early access, behind-the-mic clips, uncut moments, and member-only perks by joining our Patreon. Your support keeps the mics on and the real talk flowing. 👉 Become a Patron Find Your People Ready to connect with like-minded folks? Use our links—your sign-ups directly support the podcast: SDC (events, parties, community): https://www.sdc.com/?ref=38236 3Fun (meet, match, explore): https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK11932 Click, explore, and say hi—we appreciate you using our links! Episode SEO Keywords: swinger podcast, non-monogamy podcast, expectations in the lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, open relationship podcast, Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris, lifestyle confidence, emotional intelligence, relationship growth, swinging community.

10-22
38:48

This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes

This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes Ethical Non-Monogamy Bisexuality Confidence & Consent Lifestyle Culture Episode Summary In this bold and beautifully honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we head across the pond to chat with UK writer, educator, and ethical non-monogamy coach Rosie Kay, the voice behind thiskindagirl.co.uk. Rosie pulls back the curtain on what it really means to live ethically non-monogamous in today's world—far beyond the clichés of "swingers in suburbia." From discovering her bisexuality in her teens to finding freedom (and a few fears) in London's clubs, Rosie shares how she turned curiosity, courage, and COVID downtime into one of the UK's most refreshingly honest lifestyle blogs. Together, we dive into bisexuality without shame, breaking stereotypes, emotional honesty and the art of giving consent even when you're not directly involved, plus the cultural contrasts between the UK and US lifestyle scenes. This one's for anyone navigating open relationships or the messy-beautiful reality of non-monogamy in 2025 and beyond. Show Notes Guest: Rosie Kay — thiskindagirl.co.uk Key Topics Covered Rosie's personal journey into non-monogamy & bisexuality How This Kind of Girl started during COVID lockdown UK vs. US lifestyle culture—what's changing and what's the same The emotional side: jealousy, consent, self-awareness, and confidence Breaking stereotypes: who actually participates in the lifestyle Inclusivity, women's empowerment, and moving beyond shame Best Quote "Once you realize that other women aren't your competition, you'll have a much better life—not just a better sex life." — Rosie Kay Follow Rosie Website: thiskindagirl.co.uk   Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Website & blog: www.beyond-monogamy.com Stream us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST: fullswapradio.com Find us on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, X, YouTube, and Reddit: @BeyondMonogamy © Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

10-19
52:24

Forbidden Fruit: How Austin's Oldest Adult Store Kept Sex Positive Since the '80s

Beyond Monogamy • Austin, Texas Forbidden Fruit: Keeping Austin Sexy Since the '80s An exclusive conversation with owner Lynn Raridon about education, community, and an Austin icon. Listen to the Episode | Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube | FullSwapRadio (Thu 1 & 6 PM CST)   The Story of an Austin Icon We sit down with Lynn Raridon, owner of Forbidden Fruit, Austin's beloved sex-positive boutique and education hub. From the early 1980s to today, Forbidden Fruit has blended sexual empowerment, community connection, and hands-on education—long before "sex positivity" was a hashtag. From Punk Rock to Pleasure Revolution Born out of Austin's punk scene and home party sales that brought products into living rooms, Forbidden Fruit evolved into a community institution. Lynn shares the legal hurdles of the late '80s and the clever pivots (like labeling vibrators as educational models) that kept the doors open and the mission alive. More Than a Store—A Movement Workshops & classes: BDSM Basics, Fellatio 101, and more, taught by experienced educators. Local makers: artisan floggers, paddles, collars, lingerie, and kink gear. Erotic art exhibits: rotating local art and cultural programming. Trusted guidance: lube testing, body-safe materials, and matching toys to preferences. Convenience: online ordering and easy curbside pickup. Visit Forbidden Fruit 🌐 Website: www.forbiddenfruit.com 📣 Official social links are listed on their website (footer & product pages). 🛍️ Shop toys, lube, lingerie & BDSM gear • Explore workshops & in-store art Beyond Monogamy Live at Forbidden Fruit — November 8 Join Adam & Pris at the shop on Friday, Nov 8 during the neighborhood block party. Forbidden Fruit opens at 12 PM; we'll be inside with a live show, Q&A, a meet-and-greet, and merch—plus we'll pop on a few social lives throughout the afternoon. Listen, Watch & Connect Play the Episode | Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube | FullSwapRadio (Thu 1 & 6 PM CST)   Follow Beyond Monogamy 🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📱 Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u • TikTok: @beyond.monogamy • X/Twitter: @beyomono 💬 Join our Discord (link on website) 🛍️ Merch & blogs: beyond-monogamy.com/shop 📻 Full Swap Radio: Thursdays @ 1 PM & 6 PM CST

10-15
48:52

Latino Heat In The Lifestyle: Dulce & Angel's Journey from Event Planners to Swing Club Owners

In this electrifying episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we head west to Los Angeles to meet Dulce and Angel, the powerhouse couple behind Tentaciones Club — one of the hottest new lifestyle destinations in Southern California. Tentaciones isn't just a swingers' club; it's a movement. Built with passion, culture, and a whole lot of reggaetón energy, this Latino-owned lifestyle club blends music, sensuality, and community into one unforgettable experience. Angel and Dulce share how they transformed their 20-year relationship, event-planning expertise, and deep ties to LA's Latino community into a sex-positive safe space where connection and culture collide. From converting a banquet hall into an 18,000-square-foot play space to educating a new generation of Latinx swingers about consent and communication, their story is bold, raw, and beautifully authentic. They talk about: How COVID boredom and orgy porn sparked the idea that became Tentaciones Club. The challenges of bringing Latino machismo culture into open, ethical non-monogamy. Why music and environment are key to creating comfort and connection. How they're balancing work, family, and sex-positive entrepreneurship. And the importance of teaching respect, consent, and community inside the lifestyle. This episode isn't just about a club — it's about representation, passion, and the power of owning your truth. Whether you're in the lifestyle or just lifestyle-curious, you'll leave inspired by their hustle, humor, and heart. 📍 About Tentaciones Club (Los Angeles, CA) Located in the heart of Los Angeles, Tentaciones Club is a sensual, inclusive, and proudly Latino-centered lifestyle venue that brings together couples, singles, and open-minded adults for unforgettable nights of music, dance, and connection. With over 9,000 sq. ft. of play space (and another 9,000+ in expansion), Tentaciones delivers an experience that's equal parts sexy and safe — featuring vibrant Latino music, open dance floors, and intimate playrooms that celebrate freedom, consent, and community. Their mission? To create a family-like atmosphere where the Latino lifestyle community can express themselves authentically, without judgment or taboo. 👉 Follow and support Tentaciones Club: 📍 Los Angeles, CA 🌐 Tentaciones Club on TikTok  📸 Instagram: @tentacionesclubla (insert handle if available) 📧 Membership & Events: info@tentacionesclub.com 🎧 Show Notes Highlights & Time Stamps: [00:00] Adam & Pris introduce Dulce & Angel of Tentaciones Club [04:00] How a banquet hall turned into a lifestyle dream space [07:00] The cultural challenges of normalizing swinging in Latino communities [12:00] Building connection, family, and respect inside the club [15:00] The power of music, dance, and vibe — reggaetón, bachata, and consent [23:00] Fetishization, machismo, and educating new members [30:00] How Dulce embraced her bisexuality and Angel learned true communication [40:00] The business grind — running a club while raising kids and trading crypto [45:00] Upcoming events: Las Santas y los Santos theme night [50:00] Virtual walkthrough of the 18,000-square-foot club [51:00] Final thoughts and connections 🥂 Support the Hosts 💋 Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Exploring open relationships, swinging, polyamory, and the real-life stories behind them — with humor, honesty, and heart. 🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Stream on FullSwapRadio.com: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST 📱 Follow Us: Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u TikTok: @beyond.monogamy X / Twitter: @beyomono YouTube: Beyond Monogamy Podcast Discord: Join the conversation! (link on website) 🎁 Support & Merch: beyond-monogamy.com/shop 📝 Leave a Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | FullSwapRadio 🗝️ SEO Tags / Keywords Primary: Tentaciones Club Los Angeles, Latino lifestyle club, Los Angeles swingers, Beyond Monogamy Podcast, Dulce and Angel interview, LA sex-positive scene, ethical non-monogamy podcast Secondary: Latino swingers, reggaeton club LA, open relationships, Latinx lifestyle culture, sex positivity, swinger event Los Angeles, lifestyle education, full swap community

10-12
53:02

QUICKIE: Sexual Assault in the Lifestyle: Why Consent Still Matters in Swinging and Non-Monogamy Spaces"

In this powerful and necessary Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris set aside the usual flirty fun to tackle one of the most difficult but crucial conversations in the non-monogamous community — sexual assault in the lifestyle. It's uncomfortable. It's raw. But it's happening more often than people want to admit. Adam and Pris share personal experiences, listener stories, and hard truths about how boundaries get crossed, why consent isn't a one-time agreement, and how alcohol, pressure, and silence enable abuse inside supposedly "safe" spaces. From club scenes and takeovers to one-on-one dates, the duo breaks down the difference between flirting and coercion, and why "no" should never be negotiable. They discuss the unspoken struggles many face — especially women and closeted men — around finding their voice, saying no without guilt, and holding others accountable. Pris opens up about being an advocate for women in the lifestyle, creating code words and safe-word systems for friends at clubs, and the importance of protecting each other — even if that means calling out bad behavior from someone you love. Adam sheds light on the machismo stigma that stops men from reporting when they've been touched without consent, reminding listeners that assault doesn't discriminate by gender. Together, they stress that being sex-positive means being consent-positive. And that the strength of this community depends on speaking up, watching out for one another, and building spaces where everyone feels safe to explore — not just sexually, but emotionally too. If you've ever felt unsafe, silenced, or unsure how to react when boundaries are crossed, this episode will remind you that you're not alone. Healing starts with awareness, and awareness begins with conversations like this one. 📝 Show Notes (for Podpage, YouTube description, or Spotify "episode info") Episode: Quickie – Sexual Assault in the Lifestyle: Why Consent Still Matters Hosts: Adam & Pris – Beyond Monogamy Podcast Runtime: ~30 minutes Tone: Raw, honest, compassionate, empowering Topics Covered: What sexual assault can look like inside the lifestyle The dangerous myth that "swingers always consent" How alcohol and intoxication blur boundaries Why men are often silent victims, too How to create safe-word systems with friends at events The psychology of freezing during unwanted touch How to safely intervene if you see someone uncomfortable Rebuilding safety and trust in your lifestyle community Why being sex-positive requires being consent-positive Key Takeaways: Consent isn't implied — it's active, ongoing, and revocable. Being in the lifestyle doesn't mean being "available." Read the room. Respect boundaries. Call out bad behavior. Clubs and hosts must create a culture of safety and accountability. Every "no" matters — and so does every voice that speaks up. Resources & Links: Visit www.beyond-monogamy.com for blogs, support resources, and past episodes Join the community on: Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X (Twitter): @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy and @adam&beyond Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Listen every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at 1 PM & 6 PM CST CTA: 👉 Like, subscribe, share, and leave a review — your feedback helps keep important conversations like this alive.

10-08
31:45

Beyond Monogamy Meets The Swing Nation: Origin Story, Clout, and Community

Adam & Pris sit down with Dan & Lacy—aka The Swing Nation—for a candid, funny, and surprisingly tender conversation about what it really takes to build a lifestyle brand while staying real as a couple. They share how an overseas deployment, COVID, and a spicy OnlyFans idea snowballed into viral TikToks, a top-rated podcast, and a nationwide community. We get into boundaries, why "no sex required" is a perfectly valid club night, how to spot clout chasing, and the weirdness of being both hosts and humans at their own events. They open up about social anxiety, shadowbans, sponsors, and what's next: TV talks, NDAs, and a new music-festival-meets-hotel-takeover brand. If you've ever wondered how the sausage gets made in lifestyle media—this is it. Show Notes Guests: Dan & Lacy of The Swing Nation Beacons hub: beacons.ai/theswingnation2 Events & community: SwingerSociety.net What we cover The accidental launch: Deployed Dan, "Southern Girl" OnlyFans, and a viral upside-down pineapple TikTok that outed them overnight—and why they chose to own it. Why the podcast: Long-form answers to the same TikTok questions (jealousy, where to start, boundaries) and building a searchable library for newbies. Rules that work for them: Usually same-room full swap, always protection, and group chats over side DMs—with realistic "gray areas" at events. When one partner is more sought-after: How they check their egos, keep it respectful, and why "connection first" beats counting notches. Clout vs. authentic interest: The awkward moments, being recognized, and why they often play with a trusted circle. Community at scale: Discord in the tens of thousands, sell-out takeovers, and trying to be present hosts while the AC breaks and the DJ swaps sets. First-timer advice: You don't have to play. Dance, watch, vibe, talk, take baby steps—and be honest about where you're at. It's a social club (with optional sex): What keeps people coming back is kindness, connection, and being seen without judgment. Creator realities: Shadowbans, banned accounts, and posting 3–5x/day across TikTok/IG/Facebook/X/Clapper/Reddit. Why they chose values-aligned sponsors over generic ad networks. What's next: TV conversations under NDA, a new music-festival-meets-hotel-takeover brand, and a quick LA trip in October. Stay tuned. Links from the episode The Swing Nation hub: beacons.ai/theswingnation2 Swinger Society events/memberships: SwingerSociety.net Beyond Monogamy essentials New episodes weekly + Quickie Wednesdays We're on Full Swap Radio Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST Everything (blogs, transcripts, platforms, merch): www.beyond-monogamy.com Socials: Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X/Twitter: @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam) Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris If you enjoyed this convo, like, subscribe, share, and drop a review—it's the easiest way to help us grow the community. Thanks for listening!  

10-05
57:53

QUICKIE: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle

In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about the impact of bad swinging experiences and why one flop doesn't have to end your lifestyle journey. From erectile dysfunction struggles to mismatched vibes and awkward first encounters, they break down the most common reasons people walk away after a negative night — and how to process, communicate, and bounce back stronger. Adam shares why he believes in second chances and growth, while Pris explains why her instinct is to shut it down after one bad vibe. Together, they show how balancing those approaches can save your confidence, protect your relationship, and help you find better connections. If you've ever thought, "One bad swinging night means this isn't for me," this episode proves you can reset, learn, and still create amazing experiences in the lifestyle. 🎙️ Show Notes Episode Title: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle Episode Summary: What happens when your first (or even tenth) swinging experience doesn't go as planned? Adam & Pris dive into how to handle those moments without letting them ruin your outlook on the lifestyle. From bad sex, awkward vibes, or ED issues, they share personal stories and practical strategies for reframing those nights into valuable lessons. What You'll Hear in This Episode: Why one bad swinger night can feel like a dealbreaker (especially for newbies) Pris's "no second chances" rule vs. Adam's "everyone deserves another shot" mindset The role of communication, forgiveness, and learning in navigating bad encounters Red flags that truly are dealbreakers vs. just one-off bad vibes How to reset expectations and give the lifestyle another try Why some of the best nights happen right after the worst ones Why This Episode Matters: So many couples quit the lifestyle after a negative experience. This conversation shows you how to move forward instead of letting one bad night define your entire journey. Links & Resources: 🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST 📱 Follow us on socials: Facebook Instagram TikTok @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond X/Twitter Reddit r/beyond_monogamy YouTube 🎧 Available everywhere you listen: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora & more.

10-01
29:54

Non-Monogamy & The Law: Jonathan Lane on Custody, Contracts & Protecting Non-Traditional Families

Family law gets real when you're living outside the box of traditional monogamy. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Maryland/DC attorney Jonathan Lane, a polyamorous lawyer who specializes in ethical non-monogamy, custody battles, divorce, inheritance, and family protections. Jonathan breaks down everything ENM and polyamorous families need to know about child custody risks, de facto parent status, divorce disputes, property ownership, wills, medical directives, employment discrimination, and how judges actually view non-traditional families in court. Whether you're a swinger, poly, or exploring ENM, this is one of those conversations that could protect your kids, your partners, and your lifestyle. If you've ever worried about being "outed" in court, losing custody, or what happens if your throuple breaks up—this episode is packed with answers. 📝 Show Notes (SEO-Optimized) Leave us a review! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Your reviews help Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris grow, get discovered, and keep amazing guests like Jonathan coming on the show. In this week's episode, we're diving deep into the legal side of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging with Jonathan Lane, a Maryland/DC attorney who is out as poly himself and dedicated to protecting non-traditional families in the courtroom. What You'll Learn in This Episode: ⚖️ Custody & Courts — How judges view ENM parents, the "best interest of the child" standard, and why outcomes often depend on your county. 👩‍👩‍👧 De Facto Parent Status — What it means, how it protects non-bio/non-adoptive parents, and the strict criteria involved. 💔 Divorce & Breakups — Why written agreements, even texts, matter when disputes over cheating or swinging arise. 🏡 Property, Inheritance & Wills — How throuples/quads can own property together, protect assets, and secure inheritance rights. 🏥 Medical Directives & Power of Attorney — Why ENM partners should set these up before emergencies. 👩‍⚖️ Employment Discrimination — Why "at will" jobs can be risky, and where (Cambridge, Somerville, Berkeley, Oakland) ENM is starting to see protections. 🌎 Cultural Shifts — How awareness and acceptance of non-monogamy are growing nationwide, even if the laws are still catching up. Jonathan also shares stories from real cases where polyamory and kink showed up in court, from custody battles to divorce disputes—and what lessons we can all take from them. 🔗 Links & Resources Connect with Jonathan Lane: JD Lane Law - www.jdlanelaw.com Our socials: Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond X (Twitter): @beyomono Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Stream us every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com Visit our website: www.beyond-monogamy.com

09-28
48:58

When They Want My Spouse but Not Me: Handling Rejection in Ethical Non-Monogamy

Hey y'all — before we get into today's QUICKIE, we need your help. If you love hanging out with us every week, please take a minute to leave us a review, hit that subscribe button, and share the show with your friends. It may not seem like much, but reviews are the lifeblood that keep Beyond Monogamy growing. It only takes a few seconds, and it helps us reach more open-minded, curious, and lifestyle-friendly listeners just like you. 💬 About This Episode In today's QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into one of those ouch moments almost every couple in the lifestyle has faced: 👉 What do you do when someone makes it crystal clear they're into your spouse… but not into you? This episode is raw, funny, and a little sting-filled as we unpack: Real stories from our own encounters when attraction wasn't mutual. How being "the partner left out" can stir up jealousy, frustration, or even self-doubt. Why delivery matters — the difference between respectful honesty and underhanded sneaking. The role communication plays in softening the sting (and why sugarcoating sometimes happens). How to handle being iced out, ignored, or overlooked without letting it kill your confidence. Tips for reframing rejection so it doesn't ruin your night — or your relationship. We don't just talk theory; we get vulnerable about the awkward moments that made us sour, laugh, and learn. And like always, we keep it playful while shining a light on the deeper emotional side of ethical non-monogamy. 🎧 Why Listen? If you've ever thought "Wait, why don't they want me too?" or if you've had to sit with the sting of rejection in the lifestyle, this episode is for you. We share practical ways to deal with it, plus a few laughs that prove you're not alone. 🔗 Connect With Us Thanks for listening and supporting Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris! 📲 Follow & Connect: Facebook: Beyond Monogamy Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X (Twitter): @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST — streaming alongside some of the best voices in the lifestyle community.

09-24
38:34

Faith, Desire & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi

💥 Review Giveaway Alert! 💥 We're celebrating YOU with a sexy Review Giveaway, sponsored by our friends at Forbidden Fruit – Austin. Here's how to enter: Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify. Screenshot it. Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at www.beyond-monogamy.com. 📅 Ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025 at 11:59 PM CST 📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025 during our QUICKIE episode + on socials. Your reviews help new listeners find us — and each entry is a chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit. This week on Beyond Monogamy, we're joined by the brilliant Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi (aka Rabbi Nikki) — queer, poly, sex-positive rabbi, writer, and educator. Together, we explore how faith, spirituality, and ethical non-monogamy intersect, and how breaking the silence on desire in religious spaces can transform lives. 🔥 Topics include: Coming out as polyamorous in religious and professional spaces. What sacred texts really say (or don't say) about non-monogamy. Queerness, feminism, and sex positivity in modern Jewish life. Why honesty, consent, and ethics matter more than outdated dogma. Real-life ENM experiences — from dating apps to married life. Rabbi Nikki brings wisdom, humor, and lived experience to the mic, making this a must-listen for anyone exploring the deeper spiritual side of ethical non-monogamy. 🌐 Guest Links ✨ Learn more about Rabbi Nikki: www.rabbinikki.com 📻 Catch Us Weekly 🎧 Listen on Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube. 📻 Tune in every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on Full Swap Radio. 📲 Follow & Connect Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u TikTok: @beyond.monogamy + @adam&beyond X (Twitter): @beyomono Facebook: /beyondmonogamy4u Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris 🙌 Don't forget to like, subscribe, share, and review — your interaction helps us grow, keeps us visible, and fuels future conversations.

09-21
01:20:50

QUICKIE: Would You Rather? Ethical Non-Monogamy Edition

💥 Review Giveaway Alert! 💥 We're giving back to our community with a sexy review giveaway, sponsored by our friends at Forbidden Fruit – Austin. Here's how to enter: Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify. Screenshot it. Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at www.beyond-monogamy.com. 📅 Giveaway ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025, at 11:59 PM CST 📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025, during our QUICKIE episode + across all socials. Your reviews help new listeners find our show — and every entry boosts your chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit. Don't wait, get your review in today! 🎙 Episode: Would You Rather? ENM Quickie Edition In this spicy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam and Pris play an unfiltered game of "Would You Rather?" with an ethical non-monogamy twist. From sexy lifestyle scenarios to hilarious couple debates, nothing's off the table. 🔥 Topics we cover: House Party vs Lifestyle Club — where would you rather play? Flirt all night vs play fast — which gets your motor running? Pool party fun vs themed costume parties — which vibe wins? Threesome vs Full Swap — which brings more intimacy and connection? Watch or be watched? — the ultimate ENM performance question. Same-room vs separate-room play — where do couples feel most comfortable? Plus: conversations about time in play sessions, neighbor fantasies, sexy yacht vs mansion parties, and even a wild round of glory holes vs blindfolds. This episode blends humor, personal stories, and real insights into how couples navigate swinging, poly, and ethical non-monogamy in all their messy, fun, and sexy forms. 🌐 Where to Listen & Connect 🎧 Listen everywhere: Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris. 📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST. 📲 Follow & Connect: Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u TikTok: @beyond.monogamy + @adam&beyond X (Twitter): @beyomono Facebook: /beyondmonogamy4u Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy 💬 Don't forget to like, subscribe, share, and review — your interaction helps us grow, keeps us visible, and fuels future conversations.

09-17
35:01

Savage Swingers Unleashed: TikTok Fame, Lifestyle Myths & Honest Conversations

👉 Show us some love! Leave a review & help Beyond Monogamy grow: Review on our website Review us on Apple Podcasts Review us on Spotify 👉 Join our communities & connect with us off the mic: Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Discord: Join here 👉 Get spicy perks: Sign up for SDC with promo code 38236 🎧 Episode Summary What happens when TikTok meets the swinger lifestyle? In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Amber & Jeff—better known as the Savage Swingers. With their bold, funny, and unfiltered approach, Savage Swingers have built a huge following by showing the lifestyle as it really is: messy, sexy, and authentic. We dive into their story—from a wild tent camping first experience at a music festival, to becoming lifestyle content creators with thousands of followers. Along the way, we laugh about resting bitch face problems, talk through misconceptions about swingers, and explore how communication and education are the real keys to keeping relationships strong. If you've ever wondered what it's like to live your truth publicly in the ethical non-monogamy world—or you just need some savage laughs with your lifestyle inspo—this episode brings it all. 💡 What You'll Hear in This Episode How Savage Swingers went from nervous TikTok posts to lifestyle influencers Their not-so-glamorous first experience (tent camping, no A/C, and yep… still fun) The biggest swinger lifestyle myths they want to bust Why communication + education are everything for newbies How they handle jealousy, insecurities, and staying authentic What it's really like to be recognized at lifestyle events The importance of showing not just the sexy highlights, but the real struggles too 🔑 Keywords & Topics Savage Swingers interview TikTok swingers swinger lifestyle myths ethical non-monogamy podcast open relationship communication ENM content creators jealousy and reassurance in swinging Beyond Monogamy podcast guests 🔗 Savage Swingers Links TikTok: SavageSwingers 1.0, 2.0, 3.0 YouTube: Savage Swingers Patreon: The Savage Swingers Website: savageswingers.com 🔗 Beyond Monogamy Links Find more episodes, blogs, and community spaces at: www.beyond-monogamy.com Follow us everywhere: Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond X (Twitter): @beyomono YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Streaming Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.

09-14
42:37

QUICKIE: Lifestyle 101 Series - Having The "Lifestyle" Talk With Your Partner

Review, Connect & Join Our Community 👉 Leave us a review on our website 👉 Review us on Apple Podcasts 👉 Review us on Spotify 👉 Join our Reddit community 👉 Join our Discord community 👉 Sign up for SDC.com with our link (Promo code: 38236) Episode Summary – QUICKIE: Having The Talk Starting the journey into ethical non-monogamy isn't about parties or dating apps—it begins with a single conversation: how do you even bring this up with your partner? In this Lifestyle 101 Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get raw, funny, and brutally honest about what that first talk looked like for them (spoiler: it wasn't perfect) and what they've learned along the way. They share: Timing matters – don't drop the "lifestyle bomb" in the middle of a fight or after a few too many drinks. The preamble is everything – set the stage gently, ask if your partner is in a good headspace, and be ready for big feelings. Insecurities are normal – both men and women may wonder, "Am I not enough?" and that's okay. Reassurance isn't optional – words of affirmation, consistent support, and clear communication keep your foundation solid. Rules and boundaries – from safe words to texting check-ins, clear agreements protect both your relationship and your fun. Consent is sexy – not just with play partners, but between you and your spouse, every step of the way. Adam & Pris keep it 100% real about jealousy, insecurities, ultimatums, and the mistakes they made as newbies—and they drop practical advice for how couples can avoid the crash-and-burn moments while setting themselves up for success. At the end of the day, "having the talk" isn't a one-time thing. It's a conversation that will keep evolving with your relationship, and the key is staying honest, open, and connected. Show Notes Episode Title: QUICKIE – Having The Talk: Lifestyle 101 with Adam & Pris Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris In this episode you'll learn: Why timing and setting are critical when you bring up non-monogamy. How to use a preamble to ease your partner into sensitive conversations. The role of reassurance and emotional safety in keeping your relationship strong. Why rules, boundaries, and safe words matter for beginners. How alcohol and ultimatums can derail healthy conversations. The truth about consent—between partners and with others. Links & Community: Leave us a review on our website Apple Podcasts reviews Spotify reviews Reddit community Discord community SDC promo link (Promo code: 38236) Also streaming on: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, YouTube, and every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.

09-10
32:34

Beyond Fantasy: Francesca Gentille on Kink, Jealousy & Keeping Passion Alive

In this powerful and deeply intimate conversation, Adam & Pris sit down with Francesca Gentille — internationally recognized teacher, coach, and author — to explore the intersections of trauma healing, sacred kink, non-monogamy, and empowered aging. Francesca opens up about her own journey: from childhood as a natural counselor, to studying psychology, tantra, BDSM, and shamanic practices that connect fantasy with healing. She breaks down the roots of modern kink, leather culture, and polyamory, while challenging myths that label kink as "just trauma" or non-monogamy as "abnormal." Together, we dive into: How fantasies are shaped by trauma, culture, and healing opportunities. Sacred Kink practices that transform play into intention, empowerment, and soul connection. Addiction vs. vibrancy — how to tell when desire is a compulsion and when it's authentic. Erotic hypnosis, empowerment scenes, and fantasy integration for deeper intimacy. Menopause & vitality: how to break the cultural curse of aging, embrace bioidentical hormone replacement, and keep passion alive in long-term relationships. Jealousy reframed: why Francesca says "don't call it jealousy" and how to uncover the deeper roots of those feelings. This is one of those episodes that's hot, spiritual, and full of practical wisdom. Whether you're kinky, poly, swinging, or just curious, Francesca brings tools and insights that can change the way you approach intimacy. Show Notes 🔥 Guest Links & Resources FrancescaGentille.com ShamanicKink.com Sol y Luna Festival Foundations Weekend – Belgium Shamanic Kink Immersion – Sicily 🎙️ What You'll Learn in This Episode The shamanic roots of BDSM and why kink can be sacred. How trauma and fantasy connect — and how to heal without losing your desires. Why menopause doesn't mean the end of sex (and how to advocate for hormone health). Practical ways couples can juggle family, non-monogamy, and still keep intimacy alive. How reframing "jealousy" can unlock deeper self-understanding and stronger connections. 💬 Join the Conversation If Francesca's story and wisdom resonate with you, share this episode with a friend or partner, and let's keep breaking stigmas together. 📲 Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris TikTok: @beyond.monogamy | @adam&beyond Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Stream Thursdays on Full Swap Radio at 1 PM & 6 PM CST 👉 Don't forget to like, review, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen. Your support helps us bring on amazing guests like Francesca!

09-07
01:16:24

Quickie Confessions: Our First Time, Fumbles, and Lessons Learned

✨ Beyond Monogamy — Episode Summary & Show Notes 👉 Show us some love! Review us on Spotify: Click here Review us on Apple Podcasts: Click here 💬 Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/SY8K3n78 🎙️ Episode Summary In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive deep into the world of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, and everything in between. We talk real stories, messy moments, and the kind of raw honesty you won't find anywhere else. If you've ever wondered what it's actually like to navigate relationships beyond traditional monogamy, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a few surprises. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, exploring polyamory, or just curious about ENM (ethical non-monogamy), we break down the lifestyle in a way that's both relatable and real. 📌 Show Notes Topics covered: consent, communication, jealousy, swinging etiquette, and the unglamorous truths of the lifestyle. Why listen? This isn't a "highlight reel"—it's the authentic ups, downs, and everything in between that make non-monogamy real. SEO keywords woven in: swinging podcast, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory relationships, ENM community, lifestyle couples, consensual non-monogamy stories. 🌐 Connect With Us Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X / Twitter: @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST ⚡ Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share—your reviews and community support help us grow and keep creating raw, unfiltered conversations about love, sex, and everything beyond monogamy.

09-03
36:29

Hook, Line, and Lie: When Catfish Swim into the Lifestyle

👉 First things first—review us now and help our community grow! Click here: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/reviews/new/ Your reviews aren't just kind words—they're fuel. They help us climb the podcast charts, bring in more incredible guests, and keep the conversation about ethical non-monogamy real, raw, and unfiltered. So hit that link, drop a few stars (we love the shiny 5's ✨), and let us know how we're doing. 💻 Episode Summary This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're diving into a topic that every swinger, poly couple, and ethically non-monogamous adventurer should have on their radar: catfishing in the lifestyle. No, not fishing in swamps or noodling in muddy rivers—we're talking about people pretending to be someone they're not online, sliding into lifestyle spaces with fake photos, shady profiles, and sometimes even predatory intentions. From AOL chatrooms and puppy-love disasters to today's TikTok scammers asking Adam for $45 nail money (yes, that happened), we unpack decades of personal stories, listener anecdotes, and lifestyle lessons. We break down: 🎭 The Types of Catfish: – Filter fiends & "20-year-old" photos – Fake couples (ahem… actually just one lonely guy) – Profiles with pro-model shots only – "I swear my partner knows!"… when they don't – The scammers fishing for your nudes (and why we don't trade pics unless you're real) 🚩 Red Flags to Watch For: – No face pics – Always "too busy" to meet or video chat – Overeager for nudes or instant hookups – Stories that just don't add up 💔 The Fallout: – Emotional letdowns & wasted time – Safety concerns, especially for women – Erosion of trust in lifestyle communities – Why a single lie makes people wonder, "What else are they hiding?" 🛡️ Protect Yourself: – Video verify (FaceTime, Messenger, Zoom—anything live) – Meet first at lifestyle clubs or trusted meet & greets – Cross-reference profiles on sites like SDC, SLS, Kasidie – Build a trusted network who can vouch for people – And above all—trust your gut. If it feels off, it probably is. Through all the laughs and real talk, Adam and Pris remind us that the lifestyle is built on trust, consent, and honesty. Without that, the sexy adventures we love lose their magic. 🔥 Key Takeaway Catfishing isn't just annoying—it can be unsafe. Protect yourself, protect your community, and keep the fun alive by staying vigilant and unapologetically real. 📣 Join the Conversation We want YOUR stories! Have you ever been catfished in the lifestyle? Drop us a voicemail, send a message, or hit us up on our socials. We might even feature your story in a future QUICKIE episode. 📺 Where to Listen & Watch Catch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris everywhere podcasts stream: Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music Pandora iHeartRadio YouTube → @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris And don't forget—you can also find us on FullSwapRadio.com, streaming every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST. 🌐 Connect With Us Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X (Twitter): @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam) Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy 🙌 Help Us Grow If you enjoyed this episode: ⭐ Leave us a review → Review Us Here 👍 Like, share, and subscribe on YouTube 🔄 Share the podcast with your lifestyle friends and communities Remember—you are part of our community, and our community is our family. 💜

08-31
59:55

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