Calling In Sick

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by Dr. Sula Windgassen, a health psychologist, researcher, author of It’s All in Your Body, and fellow chronic illness patient. Dr. Windgassen brings a rare and deeply validating perspective to chronic illness care, one that explains why symptoms often worsen when we feel dismissed, blamed, or unsafe, and how psychology can biologically influence pain and illness without implying that it’s “all in your head.” Together, we explore: What actually happens in the body when you’re dismissed or not believed How external comments turn into self-gaslighting What actually helps restore a sense of safety This is a grounding, science-backed, and deeply de-shaming conversation for anyone who’s been told, explicitly or subtly, that their illness is psychological, exaggerated, or something they should be able to “think their way out of.” You are not broken. Your symptoms make sense. And safety is not a reward… it’s a biological need. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s one thing you wish people understood about how words affect chronic illness? ✨ Substack EXCLUSIVES! ✨ This week, only our Substack subscribers will get exclusive access to this week’s Q&A. We give our two cents on: Ways to calm the mind/body down and use this connection for healing Is it possible to rule out if there is or is NOT mental components of chronic illness? In this framework... Is it my fault I'm sick? How do we know if mental health is the root cause of physical symptoms? How do you deal with medical PTSD? ✨Subscribe to our Substack for our answers! https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod ✨ TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:04:48 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Divi, Jupiter) Mind-Body-Flare Up: 00:07:36 Intro to Dr. Sula Wingassen (how getting sick pushed her into studying and developing the psycho-biology framework) 00:21:55 The impact of hopelessness on chronic illness 00:28:20 Why the mind-body connection isn’t always effective (and how to effectively use it) 00:31:30 How internalized self-blame keeps the body stuck in threat-mode 00:37:12 Why searching for the silver bullet derails healing in the long-term 00:40:00 The 5 key measures of safety that prove how social experiences can put our bodies in survival response 00:48:00 It’s all in our body… how trauma and cortisol can be the last straw (little T and big T, trauma) 00:50:23 Why we hate to hear “have you tried…” and how to NOT let it activate the body’s stress response  01:03:15 How chronic illness changes how we view “a good day” 01:11:08 Dr. Sula’s top tips to find a sense of safety in the body  Conclusion: 01:26:32 One Brain Cell Show: Wednesday (Music: Bellemt; TV: The Office) 01:30:32 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with our Guest, Dr. Sula Wingassen: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/the_health_psychologist_/?hl=en • Her website - https://www.healthpsychologist.co.uk/ Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: In honor of me getting ready to learn how to do all the girly things before (hopefully) becoming a girl mom… we’re talking hair health!! ✨DIVI (hair growth serum, dry shampoo, air dry cream)  — https://go.shopmy.us/p-38925489 ALEXANDRA15 for 15% off at checkout ✨Jupiter Detox Shampoo — https://go.shopmy.us/p-38925648 ALEXANDRA20 for 20% off at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by Dr. Tracy Shevell — a physician, high-risk OBGYN, women’s health advocate, and chronic illness patient. Dr. Shevell brings a rare dual perspective: what it’s like to move through the medical system as both the provider and the patient. In this episode, we explore: ✨ How to navigate Western medicine with a chronic illness and why becoming your own “health quarterback” matters ✨How to explore non-Western healing modalities without losing your money, your nervous system, or your sense of self ✨ Why medical social media and doom-scrolling symptoms can make us feel worse ✨ The difference between intuition and anxiety, and how to use that nuance to advocate for yourself more effectively Tune into this episode for a grounding, myth-busting conversation about taking care of yourself when Western medicine alone isn’t cutting it, without spiraling, self-blaming, or burning out. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: How do you utilize social media to navigate your healing journey? ✨ Substack EXCLUSIVES! ✨ This week, only our Substack subscribers will get exclusive access to this week’s Q&A. We give our two cents on navigating pregnancy and postpartum care with complex chronic illness, how providers can better support high-risk patients before, during, and after pregnancy, and how we navigated careers with high expectations while living with chronic illness. ✨Subscribe to our Substack here: https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:03:22 My life and health update 00:04:04 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Tilt, Comrad & CBDLiving… discount codes below!) Dr. Tracy Shevell, the doctor: 00:06:03 Dr. Tracy Shevell: becoming a provider and patient 00:15:30 On becoming our own health quarterbacks 00:17:30 How we pursued alternative non-western healing modalities 00:21:50 Why western medicine pays more attention to women’s health and chronic illnesses suddenly 00:26:00 Dr. Shevell’s top 4 tips for navigating the western medical world with a chronic illness Dr. Tracy Shevell, the patient: 00:34:15 What being a patient and provider is really like 00:41:24 Navigating the wild world of medical social media & the pressure to try everything that could help us feel better 00:51:02 The difference between being an expert on our own bodies, and a medical expert 00:54:11 The difference between a gut feeling and anxiety, and how to use this nuance to your advantage 00:57:50 How to rebuild trust after medical gaslighting and medical trauma Conclusion: 01:06:45 One Brain Cell Show: Gossip Girl (Netflix) 01:11:41 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with our Guest, Dr. Tracy Shevell: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tracyshevellmd/ • Her website - https://www.tracyshevellmd.com/ Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House - https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson - https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: The other week on social media, I posted my top 5 products that I keep reordering, chronic illness edition, obviously. And y’all loved it!! The top 3 most requested links were… ✨Tilt Lip Treatment — https://go.shopmy.us/p-38126280 - CODE: AWILD15 for 15% off ✨Comrad Compression Socks — https://go.shopmy.us/p-38067114 - CODE: ALEXANDRA20 for 20% off ✨CBDLiving Pain Stick — https://go.shopmy.us/p-32444450 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by actor, content creator, and disability rights advocate Tara Rule for an honest, existential conversation about what happens when you come face-to-face with your own mortality… and decide to stop waiting for permission to live. Tara and I talk about how chronic illness forces so many of us to grow up early, reckon with uncertainty, and hit emotional rock bottom. And that from those experiences and downward spirals, you can come to realize that we have nothing to lose by finally chasing the lives and creative careers we want. From content creation to acting, we explore why so many chronically ill people end up in creative spaces, and how “rock bottom” often becomes a strange kind of launch point. We also unpack the full spectrum of chronic illness content… from crash-out creators to toxic positivity… and why all of it matters. Because the chronic illness journey isn’t linear, and neither is healing, ambition, or success. This episode is about holding gratitude for simply being here today and allowing yourself to want more. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s something you’re no longer waiting for permission to want? Substack EXCLUSIVES! This week, only our Substack subscribers will hear our two cents on what we would have changed in our early diagnosis days, when we knew it was time to quit our 9-5 jobs, and how I’m preparing to make motherhood more sustainable and accessible with chronic illness. Subscribe to our Substack here: https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:01:01 Alex Catch Up 00:04:17 Episode Sneak Peak Housekeeping, and Substack Info 00:06:17 Alex’s Picks (Sacheu Lip Liner & Thrive Causemetics) Tara Rule is Calling in Sick: 00:08:27 Intro to Tara 00:15:45 Tara’s career shifts (mortuary school, content creating, acting) 00:17:27 How a near death experience changed EVERYTHING  00:32:09 Why it’s important to have different voices that paint the full picture of chronic illness 00:37:45 How Tara handles masking (or not masking) chronic illness for her career 00:42:40 Why is there SUCH a pipeline for chronic illness fighters to the creative space 00: 45:35 The fear of flaring versus the fear of disappointing others 00:47:16 How powerful our brains are 00:50:07 Navigating redefining success with a chronic illness Conclusion: 00:58:13 One Brain Cell Show (Stranger Things (Netflix), Telepathy Tapes (Spotify); Haunted Hotel (Netflix) and Heated Rivalry (Prime)) 01:03:16 Thank you for listening!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: My go to passive wellness picks, in food form!! ✨Sacheu Lip Liner — https://go.shopmy.us/p-38126238 —> ALEXANDRA15 for 15% off ✨Thrive Causemetic’s Plumping Lip gloss — https://go.shopmy.us/p-38126276 Connect with Tara Rule • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tara_rule_/?hl=en\ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@tara_rule #ChronicIllness #InvisibleIllness #SpoonieLife #DisabilityAwareness #ChronicPain #RedefiningSuccess #LifeAfterDiagnosis #WorkingWithChronicIllness #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #SickGirlSoftLiving #SoftLiving #tararule #neardeathexperience #rockbottom #lifepivots Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy New Year my lovies!!! In honor of the new year, I’m officially launching a new podcast segment… Ask Alex!  Every week (yes, even during guest episodes!), we’ll post the upcoming podcast topic (and guest) to our Substack and ask our subscribers to submit questions. I’ll answer a handful of these on the podcast each week, and the rest of the Q&A will live exclusively on Substack. For this first Ask Alex episode, I’m tackling some of  most requested questions… like what are my actual routines like, how I make medication decisions, what to do about medical finances and debt, and how to communicate boundaries and symptoms to those that *just don’t get it*. Substack EXCLUSIVES! This week, only our Substack subscribers will hear my two cents on micro-dosing and how to know when it might be time to consider long-term disability. I’ve been so excited to bring this segment to life. It’s my little way of saying thank you… for your support, your vulnerability, your questions, and for trusting me with your stories this past year. This community means everything to me, and I can’t wait to keep building this space together in 2026. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: So have you subscribed to our Substack now!? Subscribe to our Substack here: ⁠https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod?⁠ TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:02:58 My REALLY BIG life update!!!! 00:07:52 Alex’s Picks (AG1 and Ella’s Flats)  Ask Alex Q&A: 00:09:09 Tips on being the best caregiver 00:11:52 Are we doing an IRL meet up?! 00:12:38 GLP-1s and peptides for inflammation  00:13:21 How to stay on track with routines when you’re homebound 00:15:12 My low spoon, under 10-minute skincare, makeup and haircare routine 00:16:40 The things I grieved the most after my diagnosis 00:19:17 Finances & communicating budgets to our loved ones 00:21:18 Explaining boundaries and symptoms to those that do NOT understand 00:23:06 When to use disability aids (parking placard, cane, walker, etc.) 00:24:14 New Years guilt & feeling stuck in the same place as last year 00:26:30 How I *actually* motivate myself to physically get out of bed in the morning 00:28:24 How I decide to take (or not take) medications 00:29:41 My top tips for advocating at the ER (especially when we have trauma!!) Conclusion: 00:31:27 One Brain Cell Show 00:33:18 Thank you for listening!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: My go to passive wellness picks, in food form!! ✨AG1 — https://go.shopmy.us/p-37437789 ✨Ella’s Flats — https://go.shopmy.us/p-37437898 —> ALEXANDRAWILDESON15 for 15% off #ChronicIllness #SpoonieLife #InvisibleIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #HealthJourney #DisabilityAwareness #flareup #ChronicIllnessSupport #WorkingWithChronicIllness #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #SoftLiving #NewYearDifferentRules #AskAlex #QuestionandAnswer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re talking about the terrifying and liberating shift from hiding your illness to letting the world see it. I’m joined by the incredible Sara Levitt, a Crohn’s warrior, Ostomy advocate, model, and creator who lived privately with her Ostomy for 15 years… before deciding that invisibility wasn’t serving her anymore. Today, she takes up space… in fashion shows, brand campaigns, magazines, and online, challenging stigma by simply existing visibly, confidently, and honestly. We dive into: ✨ What going public with your illness REALLY feels like ✨ Imposter syndrome & identity shifts when sickness becomes visible ✨ The critics, misconceptions, and assumptions we all endure ✨ Why storytelling is activism, even when it’s hard If you’ve ever worried about being “too sick” or “not sick enough” to be believed… this episode will encourage you to shop up however you want, however you are. xx, Alex Comment: What’s one part of your illness that feels hardest to make visible? TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:02:13 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Mayfair & Tilt) Get to know Sara Levitt: 00:03:03 Intro to Sara Levitt (Crohn’s warrior, Ostomy advocate, model, and creator ) 00:12:43 Why we went into content creation and chronic illness advocacy work 00:23:40 What it’s like to work with brands that work to amplify voices with chronic illness 00:26:26 Finding confidence while working as a model with chronic illness 00:33:33 Navigating the pressure of advocacy work within the chronic illness community 00:44:24 Finding confidence, a sense of self-worth, positivity and hope despite chronic illness Conclusion: 00:51:30 One Brain Cell Show: Gossip Girl!!! 00:57:06 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: This week, I’m picking brands that help make the invisible, visible by celebrating disability, chronic illness and mental health, instead of showcasing. ✨Mayfair — https://go.shopmy.us/p-31914468 Use code ALEXANDRA15 for 15% off! ✨Tilt — https://go.shopmy.us/p-30221469 Use code ALEXANDRA20 for 20% off! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with our Guest, Sara Levitt: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/saralevs/?hl=en • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@saralevitt?lang=en #ChronicIllness #InvisibleIllness #SpoonieLife #OstomyLife #CrohnsDisease #IBDWarrior #DynamicDisability #MedicalGaslighting #BodyNeutrality #DisabilityAdvocate #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #ChronicPain #SpoonieSupport #HealthJourney #SelfAdvocacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by @Samantha Duran, a chronic illness and pain advocate, accessible fashion designer and content creator who is radically honest about life with chronic illness. We talk about the parts of chronic pain that rarely make it into doctor’s offices or public conversations: the shame around needing relief, the reality of public judgment, and the exhausting internal battle of deciding how much pain is “enough” pain to deserve care. Together, we unpack the misconceptions that keep people suffering in silence. We’re diving into: ✨ Samantha’s journey with chronic illness and how it shaped who she is ✨ Why dynamic disabilities are so misunderstood ✨ The stigma around pain management and seeking relief ✨ The internal guilt, fear, and self-doubt that comes with chronic pain ✨ What compassionate, patient-centered pain care should look like If you’ve ever minimized your pain, questioned whether you’re “sick enough,” or felt ashamed for wanting relief, this conversation is for you. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s the hardest part of living with chronic pain that people don’t see? TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:03:15 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Hair Growth Go-Tos: DIVI, K18, Jupiter, Hairstory) Our discussion on chronic pain & dynamic disabilities: 00:06:10 Get to know Samantha Duran 00:14:45 The reality of living with a dynamic disability 00:27:20 What living with chronic pain is REALLY like 00:48:00 Why there is a stigma around seeking relief from chronic pain 00:55:15 Why the current medical system’s understanding of chronic pain makes getting relief harder than it needs to be 01:06:47 What gives us hope that chronic pain management will improve over time Conclusion: 01:08:55 One Brain Cell Segment 01:14:17 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Follow our Guest, Samantha Duran! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adisabledicon/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adisabledicon?lang=en Shop her Store: https://thanksicon.com/ Listen to her chronic pain playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6OgAKjwfWMATonF4pNnBHP?si=IRavatdDTzmC0hPmZERoRw Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: Samantha said it best… you can be sick, and hot!! Here are my favorite products for reclaiming your hair from chronic illness (no more thinning or frail hair!!) ✨DIVI — https://go.shopmy.us/p-36240548 Alexandra15 for 15% off at checkout!  ✨Jupiter — https://go.shopmy.us/p-36240630 Alexandra20 for 20% off at checkout!  ✨HairStory — https://go.shopmy.us/p-36240725 ✨K18 —https://go.shopmy.us/p-36240750 #ChronicPain #PainManagement #InvisibleIllness #SpoonieLife #MedicalGaslighting #DisabilityAdvocate #ChronicIllness #HealthJourney #MentalHealth #PainStigma #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #spooniesupport #samanthaduran #accessibility #dynamicdisability #ambulatorydisability  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick I’m pulling back the curtain on the last two months of medical testing — why I said yes to a clinical study, what the actual tests were like, and how I’m handling the weird emotional whiplash of “we did all that… and we still don’t have a perfect answer.” I’m tired, I’m flaring, I had my first day of IVIG… and somehow we’re still laughing (because if we don’t laugh, we scream in a medical trailer getting injected with nuclear medicine 🙃). We’re diving into: ✨ Why I joined a clinical study (and what it’s actually used for) ✨ The 5-test diagnostic gauntlet: prednisone taper, bloodwork, scopes, pill cam, MRAs/MRIs + a PET scan ✨ Insurance + scheduling lore from HELL ✨ Colonoscopy prep amnesia (it’s like childbirth… you forget on purpose) ✨ My polarizing take: Google Maps > Apple Maps (fight me) ✨ The pill cam panic + urgent care x2 in one week ✨ The mindset shift I didn’t see coming: career momentum, motherhood timeline, and accepting what I’m not ready for yet xx, Alex 💬 COMMENT: What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever had to do for medical testing? TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:06:18 Alex’s Picks of the Week: Gap Body pajamas + bear slippers (kids section hack) Meat & Potatoes: The Diagnostic Gauntlet 00:09:08 Setting the stage: why I did the study 00:09:34 Clinical study 101 (and why it matters for future patients) 00:11:44 The deeper reason: the childhood diagnosis question mark 00:14:21 Prednisone taper (DO NOT DO THIS AT HOME) 00:19:27 Colonoscopy/endoscopy scheduling chaos + prep misery 00:22:26 Bloodwork off meds (and why I wanted the comparison) 00:25:14 Pill cam explained 00:30:47 MRAs/MRIs explained 00:34:56 Rituxan win: the mid-infusion Benadryl trick 00:36:02 IVIG recall 00:36:43 PET scans explained 00:39:19 Biggest takeaways: prep worse than tests + results didn’t show much 00:42:38 What’s next: oral prednisone vs IV, CAR-T trial, methotrexate or… Conclusion: 00:46:00 Why I feel “weirdly okay” right now (and what chronic illness teaches you) 00:49:24 Soft30 with Elastique 00:50:06 One Brain Cell Show: Age of Disclosure 00:52:34 Thank you for listening!  ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ ---------------------------------------------------------------- Alex’s Picks of the Week: We’re talking “surviving medical chaos” essentials this week… aka comfort items and small joys. ✨Gap Body pajamas (port-friendly button down) — https://go.shopmy.us/p-35563702 ✨Gap bear slippers — https://go.shopmy.us/p-35563870 ✨Our MERCH is available still…. Get it while it lasts!!!! — https://calling-in-sick.myshopify.com/ —— Use code “ZOFRAN” for a special discount!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- 🥄 RSVP: Cooking with Cooper LIVE on YouTube on 12/19 —https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cooking-with-coop-tickets-1976990439624?aff=oddtdtcreator ---------------------------------------------------------------- #callinginsickpodcast #callinginsick #chronicillness #autoimmune #spoonielife #spooniesupport #invisibleillness #healthjourney #ivig #rituxan #prednisone #vasculitis #lupuslife #endometriosis #chronicpain #fatigue #medicalgaslighting #spoonietribe #flareup #petscan #pillcam #colonoscopy #mri #mra #clinicalstudy #chronicillnesshumor Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick we’re talking about one of the most controversial skills you’ll ever learn with chronic illness… working smarter instead of harder. After 25+ years being the patient, I’ve learned something I WISH someone told me as a kid… healthy-person rules were never designed for us. So I’m walking you through the “rules” I break on purpose, why my body finally didn’t crash after a holiday (knocking on wood), and the smarter systems I’ve built that protect my energy, time, and sanity. We’re diving into: ✨ Automating anything that drains your energy ✨ Outsourcing high-spoon, low-reward tasks ✨ Scheduling around spoons (not expectations) ✨ Proactive wellness + mobility aids BEFORE you look sick ✨ Habit stacking (my Soft30 girlies knowwww) We’ll talk if it’s OK taking mid-day naps during the workweek, cancelling last-minute, using a wheelchair-at-the-airport and what mindset shift that changed everything for me this year. If you’ve ever been called lazy, dramatic, or “too much” for doing what your body actually needs… then this episode is going to be like a chat with THAT friend who encourages you to break every rule healthy people consider “normal.” xx, Alex 💬 COMMENT: What societal rule do YOU break because of chronic illness? TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:01:20 Introducing... Soft30 Challenge with Elastique 00:04:20 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Elastique, Comrad, MERCH!!!) Work Smarter, Not Harder: 00:06:47 Why working smarter not harder may disappoint healthy people 00:10:37 Tip 1: Automate anything that drains you 00:12:39 Tip 2: Outsource selectively 00:15:22 Tip 3: Own your own schedule 00:18:12 Tip 4: Be proactive with your spoons 00:22:33 Tip 5: Habit stacking & My top 5 wellness tools // products Conclusion: 00:27:48 One Brain Cell Show: Man on the Inside (Netflix) 00:29:42 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: We’re talking smarter systems and strategies this week… which obviously means I had to pick things in-line with that aka compression wear ✨Elastique — https://tidd.ly/4oyZWpa —— ALEXW30 for 30% ✨Comrad Socks — go.shopmy.us/p-28820619 —— ALEXWILDESON for 20% ✨Our MERCH is available still…. Get it while it lasts!!!! — https://calling-in-sick.myshopify.com/ —— Use code “ZOFRAN” for a special discount!! #callinginsickpodcast #callinginsick #chronicillness #autoimmune #spoonielife #spooniesupport #invisibleillness #worksmartnothard #disabilitylife #chronicpain #fatigue #chronicillnesspodcast #healthjourney #chronicillnesshumor #autoimmunedisease #lupuslife #vasculitis #mixedconnectivetissuedisease #spoonietips #spoonietools #wellnesstips #ivig #rituxan #duvetday #chronicillnesssupport #pacingskills #spoonietribe #energybudget #restday #mobilityaids #compressionwear #habitstacking #soft30 #burnoutprevention #medicalgaslighting #restisproductive #spoons #flarestory #restculture #energyconservation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re getting into one of the most universal chronic illness experiences that NOBODY warns you about. What happens when you internalize the words “I don’t believe you,” and how that becomes the voice in your head. After 25+ years of being the patient, I’m unpacking how dismissal, doubt, and “are you sure?” became my default setting and how trauma therapy (for something else entirely) made me realize how DEEP this runs. We’re diving into: ⭐ The childhood moments that taught me to question my own symptoms — the arthritic kid in the 90s, the teacher who didn’t believe me, and the way it rewired my brain ⚡️ The universal experience that bonds every chronic illness patient — why people don’t “get it” unless they live it, touch it, or you explain it in their language 🧠 How this internalized disbelief shows up everywhere else — work, relationships, self-doubt, medical OCD, and becoming addicted to proving yourself ✨ The realization in trauma therapy that changed everything — and why this “I don’t believe you” voice isn’t actually yours If you’ve ever caught yourself wondering, “Are my symptoms real?” “Do people think I’m exaggerating?” “Is this all in my head?” …this episode is for you. xx,Alex Comment: Do you default to thinking people do believe you, or don’t believe you? Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:00:25 The childhood moments that taught me to question my own symptoms 00:04:07 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Elastique, Warmies, Calling in Sick merch) 00:10:02 The realization in trauma therapy that changed everything 00:15:52 People “don’t get” chronic illness until they live it, touch it, or you explain it in a language they understand 00:20:17 How internalized disbelief shows up everywhere else (work, relationships, self-doubt, medical OCD, etc.) 00:29:01 The “I don’t believe you” voice in your head isn’t actually yours 00:30:38 One Brain Cell Show: Secret Lives of Mormon Wives 00:32:28 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: This week we’re talking COMFORT because when you have a big “aha” in therapy, your body needs all the softness ✨Elastique wearable wellness for on the go lymphatic-friendly comfort compression — https://go.shopmy.us/p-29784091 ✨Warmies microwaveable, weighted and an immediate nervous system hug packed into slippers — https://amzn.to/4pl7UmU ✨Shop Our Merch ✨ — https://calling-in-sick.myshopify.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re diving into one of the most begged-for topics in women’s health… hormones. We talk about what they actually do, how they impact chronic illness, and why SO many of us are misdiagnosed or dismissed for years. I’m joined by Dr. Shawn Tassone, America’s Holistic Gynecologist, a double board-certified OB/GYN + Integrative Medicine MD with a PhD in Mind-Body Medicine. He’s known for blending science and spirituality, calling out misinformation online, and giving women the tools to finally understand their bodies. We’re breaking down: 🧩 Hormones 101 — what they really control (hint: it’s way beyond PMS) 🔥 Hormones & Chronic Illness — autoimmune overlap, stress load, flare patterns 🩺 What you can do — red flags, labs that matter, treatments and integrative care 🚨 Hormone Mythbusting — cortisol panic, “balancing your hormones,” internet BS If hormones feel like a mystery box, this episode will make everything finally click. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s ONE hormone symptom you wish doctors took seriously? TIMESTAMPS Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:02:39 Alex’s Picks of the Week (MERCH!!, Giveaway, Corkcicle, Hatch) Interview with Dr. Tassone 00:05:34 Intro to Hormones 00:10:50 Intro to Dr. Tassone (who he is, what he does and how he became the Hormone Guru) 00:18:33 Why there is SO much misinformation online about health 00:21:58 Calling in Sick Merch Drop Details 00:25:48 Women's Health & Narrative Medicine Women's Hormones 00:30:17 Why women's hormone health has been overlooked for SO long 00:32:57 The black box warning on women's hormone treatment 00:40:15 When should you look into your hormone health (testing & treatment) 00:44:52 The wrench that insurance throws into this mix (Alex's most recent crashout & impact to procedures) 00:49:50 Current hormone treatments on the market 00:53:57 Rapid Fire Myth Busting and why hormones impact chronic illness Conclusion: 00:58:48 One Brain Cell Segment 01:01:01 Where to find Dr. Tassone & Thank You!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week:These are my favorite finds to start my morning softly… and without spills! ✨Corckcicle, Sierra Leakproof Cruiser — go.shopmy.us/p-30936310 — CODE: ShopMy20 for 20% off at checkout ✨Hatch, Restore 3 — go.shopmy.us/p-32313847 — $30 off until 12/2, or until it sells out!! MERCH IS LIVE! https://calling-in-sick.myshopify.com/ #HormoneHealth #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #MindBodyConnection #WomenHealth #DrShawnTassone #HormoneBalanceBible #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #SpoonieLife #InvisibleIllness #IntegrativeMedicine #Endometriosis #PCOS #Inflammation #MedicalGaslighting #HolisticGynecology #Cortisol #HRT #functionalmedicine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This month nearly took me out — it literally felt like a physical and mental rollercoaster. I was up…and then down (like almost in the hospital down)…and then up…and then decided it was also a good time to test some boundaries, which brought only more ups and downs. With my monthlong whiplash coming to an end, I wanted to do some reflection to figure out what worked, what didn’t, and what I need to prioritize moving forward. So, this week's episode of Calling in Sick, is that reflection. Please keep your hands, arms, legs, and feet inside this chronic illness rollercoaster at all times because it’s a doozy!! I’m sharing:  💔The rules I broke (+ what happened when I broke them!!) 📝The rules I held firm!! 🙌 My unexpected learnings from testing ALL the boundaries (at once) If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I allowed to push? Am I allowed to live big even when I feel small?” — this episode is your permission slip…to at least do some testing. xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s your take on couple’s math? If your partner is doing all the cooking/cleaning while you're on low spoons… is it rude to sit out, or is that just survival mode etiquette? Comment your thoughts below!! TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick 00:20:00 Life catch-up 00:02:38 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Crown Pillow, Kroma Bone Broth) 00:05:32 MERCH dropping Monday 11/24!! Pushing the Limits: 00:08:43 The mental health impact of testing your boundaries and rules 00:13:04 Boundary #1 - Food 00:15:28 Boundary #2 - Sleep 00:17:17 Boundary #3 - Socializing 00:19:42 The rules I followed this weekend 00:25:08 The rules I broke this weekend! 00:28:40 My take on whether the rollercoaster was worth it Conclusion: 00:37:05 One Brain Cell Show: Frankenstein 00:38:22 Thank you for Calling in Sick with me! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: I’ve really been leaning into all the coziness this month, these 2 are some of my favorites!  ✨Crown Pillow - https://go.shopmy.us/p-31199942 ✨Kroma Bone Broth - https://go.shopmy.us/p-31199981 #ChronicIllnessPodcast #SpoonieLife #InvisibleIllness #AutoimmuneWarrior #FlareUp #ChronicPainCommunity #ChronicIllnessHumor #PodcastForSpoonies #SpoonieSupport #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #ChronicWarrior #MentalHealthMatters #ChronicIllnessAwareness #LifeWithChronicIllness #ChronicHealing #SpoonieStruggles #ChronicIllnessPodcastEpisode #SpoonTheory #FatigueFighter #ChronicIllnessJourney #AutoimmuneLife #WellnessJourney #BoundariesMatter #HealthJourney #ChronicIllnessAcceptance #ChronicIllnessTips #DisabilityCommunity #ChronicIllnessSupport #SpoonieTools Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I had a toddler-level crash out this week… like, full-on crying mid–Hot Girl Walk. In this episode, I try to make sense of where it came from. Hint: my brain was definitely trying to protect me. Between the prednisone taper, nonstop testing, and the mental gymnastics of waiting for answers, I didn’t realize how much my anxiety had been brewing under the surface. So today, I’m getting real about what’s actually behind it — and what this latest meltdown taught me. I open up about: 😭 How the literal anticipation of bad news made me crash out 🧠 The sneaky tricks our brains play on us (and why we need to not borrow tomorrow’s trouble) 🩺 Why negative test results can feel like heartbreak 💔 How hard it can be when those you love fail to support you in the way you need 🤯 How I gaslit myself into questioning if I can even be a mom Anxiety really is one SOB, isn’t it?!  xx,Alex 💬 Comment: How do YOU want people to show up for you when you’re struggling — with shit talking, solutions, solidarity, or silliness? TIMESTAMP: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:03:10 Alex’s Picks of the Week (Elastique, Lola Blanket) Why I crashed the F out: 00:04:40 Confession time (ie: I crashed out) 00:08:12 Why I think I got so anxious 00:10:35 How my brain started to play tricks on me 00:14:52 My medical update 00:20:26 What I know for sure: my current protocol isn’t working 00:2250 My reframe since my crash out 00:25:00 The 4 different ways that people need support 00:27:47 The 3 reasons that people may not show up for you when you need them most Conclusion: 00:34:11 One Brain Cell Show: Dancing with the Stars 00:35:27 My approach for the next 2 months 00:36:18 Thanks for Calling in Sick with me this week!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: During the rollercoaster of this week, I’ve been leaning into anything that makes life easier, and these 2 have been absolute lifesavers ✨Elastique - https://go.shopmy.us/p-23182655 ✨Lola Blankets - https://go.shopmy.us/p-29496707 ALEXWILD for 55% off at checkout #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #ChronicIllness #ChronicIllnessAwareness #SpoonieLife #SpoonieSupport #ChronicPain #InvisibleIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicFatigue #MentalHealthMatters #HealingJourney #HealthAnxiety #PrednisoneProblems #VasculitisWarrior #ChronicIllnessCommunity #SpooniePodcast #IllnessJourney #MedicalMystery #MindBodyConnection #SelfCompassion #ChronicWarrior #BrainHealth #TraumaHealing #HealthUpdate #PatientPerspective #Duality #AutoimmuneLife #HealthPodcast #SpoonieStories  #EmotionalHealing  #ChronicIllnessAdvocate Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Last week, we talked about giving ourselves permission to have fun — but this week? We’re swinging the pendulum back the other way. Because I made zero adjustments and just had fun… which was great until it wasn’t. Truth is, one of the hardest people to set boundaries with is actually ourselves. In this episode, I talk through what it looks like to chase joy, crash hard, and try to recover without beating yourself up. Spoiler alert: I’m recording this after two straight days of IVIG, so I’m right in the thick of it. Here’s what we get into: 🚷 Why we need to set boundaries with ourselves to make life sustainable 🧳 The “oops I had fun and now I’m in spoon jail” cycle 🌿 Ottine road trips, mineral springs, and my new “Come With Me” content series 🪑 The adjustments I’m making in real time This one’s for the people who are 0 or 100, all or nothing, go-go-go until your joints give out. You’re not lazy. You’re not failing. You’re just human — and that’s more than enough. Thanks for Calling in Sick with me, again 💛 xx, Alex Comment: What’s one boundary you’re learning to set with yourself lately? Need to catch up on last week's episode? Here! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:00:30 Alex Life Updates! 00:03:00 Alex’s Picks of the Week! (discount code & links below) 00:04:28 The asterisk that should come after “Just Have Fun!” 00:06:00 How I allocate spoons (aka my energy!!) 00:11:30 Why I landed myself in sick chick jail this week (sorry for having a good time!!!) 00:15:43 Introducing My New Content Series, Come With Me!! 00:20:10 What Boundaries I’m Putting Up Against Myself 00:23:05 One Brain Cell TV: Your Friends & Neighbors (Apple) 00:28:06 LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack -  https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨The Detox Market — https://go.shopmy.us/p-19681555 ———- ALEXWILDDETOX15 for 15% off at checkout! ✨Tower 28, SOS Line — https://go.shopmy.us/p-19830687 #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #selfadvocacy #medicalbias   #vasculitis #mixedconnectivetissuedisease #ibd #irritableboweldisease #trauma #ptsd #mentalhealthmatters #findjoy #glimmers #guiltforjoy  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, I’m joined by Dr. Preston Roche—a psychiatry resident, former Air Force Academy track athlete, and viral medical content creator known as ⁠ ⁨@itspresro⁩ ⁠. Preston brings a blend of clinical insight and personal vulnerability and I share my experience with acute and chronic pain (including how I think about and manage CRPS). Together, we dive into the messy, misunderstood world of chronic pain, mental health, and medical bias. In this episode, we talk: 🧠 How today’s doctors learn about pain (chronic and acute), and how that compares to real life 📉 Why chronic pain can be dismissed in ER or hospital settings 🥼 Why patients struggle with seeking pain relief 💛 How to advocate for yourself and your pain (and why certain phrases may be working AGAINST you!)
 💊 What pain relief options can we have in our toolbox? ⚠️ The deep overlap between depression and pain (and why being in the hospital spikes this connection 👀 The Truth Behind the Chronic Pain and Illness Olympics Whether you’ve been dismissed by a doctor, told your symptoms are “in your head,” or just want to understand your body better—this one’s for you. You are not making it up. You are not alone. And you deserve care that actually cares. Thanks for Calling in Sick with us 💛xx,
Alex 💬 Comment: How has chronic illness impacted your mental health? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:02:00 Alex’s Picks of The Week 00:02:51 Interview with Preston Roche 00:07:55 How Pain is Taught to Today’s Doctors - from the class room to the hospital 00:11:30 Why is My Pain Questioned in the Hospital? 00:18:50 Have I Suffered Enough to Receive Pain Relief? 00:23:14 The Relationship between Doctors and Chronic Illness Patients 00:26:32 Why “I know my body best” and “I have a high pain tolerance” may get you dismissed by medical professionals 00:41:06 Hospitalization and In-Patient Pain and Mental Health Management 00:48:47 The different types of psychological pain 00:56:13 Why “it’s just anxiety” is a problem for people with chronic illnesses 01:00:01 Is it our fault to feel depressed, anxiety or pain?01:09:11 The Truth Behind the Sick and Pain Olympics 01:16:00 The One Brain Cell Segment 01:21:51 LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Feet Warmies — https://getwarmertimes.com/collections/warmers/products/toe-warmers ✨Saje — https://go.shopmy.us/p-18164585 Resources on Understanding Pain and Pain Management: • https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/2661581 • https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/2673971 #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #neurology #selfadvocacy #medicalbias #prestonroche #psychiatry #chronicpainandmentalhealth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re diving deep into a condition that’s often misunderstood, minimized, or completely missed: endometriosis. I’m joined by the wonderful Autumn Weimann (@grlwithbangs)—naturopathic doctor (@period.prep), clean beauty founder (@Banginhair.shop), and advocate for body-literate healing. Autumn shares her powerful story of navigating chronic pain and years of unanswered questions before being diagnosed with endometriosis, and taking her healing into her own hands. We trace her journey from feeling unheard in medical offices to becoming her own best advocate, healer, and educator. In this episode, we talk: 🩸 What endometriosis actually feels like (and why it’s so often missed) 💔 The emotional toll of misdiagnosis and mistrust in your body 🌿 Why Autumn pivoted into naturopathic medicine 💄 Launching a clean beauty brand grounded in hormone health 🧠 Reconnecting with your body when it’s been the source of so much pain Whether you’ve experienced chronic pain or just want to better understand your body, this episode is a must-listen. You deserve care that believes you, honors your intuition, and supports your whole self. Thanks for Calling in Sick with us this week 💛 xx,Alex 💬 Comment: What symptoms did you ignore that—looking back—were big warning signs? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:02:30 Alex’s Picks of The Week (Clean Beauty... see links below!!) 00:03:40 Welcome, Autumn Weimann (her story: early symptoms to diagnosis) 00:11:10 Why Autumn Became a Naturopathic Doctor, Diagnosis & The Period Prep 00:17:30 Why Boundaries Are SO Important 00:22:00 Challenging the Chronic Illness Identity Takeover 00:25:30 What Is The Period Prep Kit?! 00:32:21 Biggest Misconceptions Around Endometriosis 00:34:11 Alex Spilling the Tea on her Second Endo Surgery 00:37:36 How Endometriosis Impacts Fertility & Dreams of Motherhood 00:48:00 Is Clean Beauty Really Clean?! 00:58:57 Our Biggest Tips for Navigating YOUR Health 01:03:01 One Brain Cell Pick of the week (Love on the Spectrum & Vanderpump Villa) 01:07:31 Wrap Up, Endo Gala, and Thank YOU! 01:10:28 THANK YOU & LOVE YOU GUYS! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: ✨Bangin’ Hair – https://www.banginhair.shop/product-page/banginhair-serum ✨HigherDose Infrared Hat - https://go.shopmy.us/p-14854531 Use code ALEXANDRA15 for 15% off #podcast #podcastclips #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneDisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney #DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #ChronicIllnessCommunity #endometriosis #autumnweimann Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey sweet friends—no full episode this week, just a short 10-minute update from me. Between a rough IVIG reaction, an unexpected ER trip, and a literal attempted home invasion (yes, really), I’m throwing it back to a past episodes: Processing Your Chronic Illness—because wow, I need to listen to this one this week too!! This week on Calling in Sick, I’m diving into something that doesn’t get talked about enough: the identity shift that happens when you're living with a chronic illness — whether you have an official diagnosis or not. There’s a specific kind of grief that comes from realizing you're no longer the person you once were. The person who had endless energy. The person who didn’t have to think twice about plans, goals, or dreams. The person who didn’t wonder, "Do I look sick enough for people to take me seriously?" In this solo episode, I’m opening up about: 💭 How chronic illness impacts your sense of self (even before a diagnosis) ⚡ Why comparison — to others and to your old self — can feel so brutal 🩺 The silent pressure to “look” sick enough for care 🧠 How processing a chronic illness mirrors the stages of grief 📚 Plus: My tips, tricks, and personal mindset shifts that have helped me find myself again If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, "I don’t even recognize my life anymore," — this one’s for you. You are not alone in this identity shift. You are not broken. You are just becoming someone new. Thanks for Calling in Sick with me again — xx, Alex 💛 💬 Comment: What’s been the hardest part of your chronic illness identity shift? What part of your “old” self do you miss — and what new part of you are you starting to love? TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:02:01 Alex's Picks of The Week (Mayfair Group Sweat Suits, Intelligent Change 5 Minute Gratitude Journal) 00:04:02 One Brain Cell Segment: Below Deck 00:06:25 Processing your identity with a chronic illness intro 00:12:11 Post-Diagnosis Prioritization 00:19:46 The Challenges of Shifting Identity with Chronic Illness 00:28:31 My Tips for Handling the Identity Shift 00:45:41 My NUMBER ONE Tip for Handling the Identity Shift 00:48:01 Thank You for Listening! Thank you to our sponsors this week: *Lifeboost - Visit www.lifeboostcoffee.com/?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON and use code ALEXANDRA10 for 10% off your order for a healthier coffee experience – decaf included – you’ll love. Alex's Picks of the Week: *Mayfair Group - Visit http://go.shopmy.us/p-16514050 and use code Alexandra15 for 15% off *Intelligent Change - Visit https://www.intelligentchange.com/ALEXANDRA10 and use code Alexandra10 for 10% off at checkout Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack — https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod Powered by: https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Calling in Sick, we’re tackling something that makes every chronic illness patient’s life harder—medical bills. The system is confusing, overwhelming, and expensive—and let’s be real, most of us just swipe our card and hope for the best. But what if I told you that hospitals and insurance companies are overcharging you—constantly? That’s why I’m sitting down with Daniel Lynch, co-founder of Medical Billing Gurus, to break down: 💰 The #1 mistake people make when they get a medical bill 🚨 How to fight back against surprise charges & denials 📉 How to negotiate your bill (yes, you CAN lower it!) 🧾 Why the same procedure can cost $500 or $5,000—depending on who’s paying If you’ve ever looked at a medical bill and thought, WTF is this?, this episode is for you. Knowledge is power—and this conversation will help you pick the right insurance plan for you, and potentially save you thousands. Have you ever fought a medical bill and won? Drop your story in the comments or DM me on IG (@callinginsickpod)! As always, sending love!xx,Alex Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:03:05 Alex’s Catch-Up 00:07:25 Alex’s Picks of the Week (VERSED, DIVI) 00:10:00 Introduction to Daniel Lynch, co-founder of Medical Billing Gurus 00:16:20 Picking the right insurance policy for you 00:25:15 The ABCs of your insurance policy (deductible, copay, etc) 00:44:54 The #1 mistake people make when they get a medical bill 00:51:40 Why are there so many errors with medical bills? 00:53:50 How to fight back against surprise charges & denials 00:57:20 The broken healthcare system 01:02:40 Insurance for functional/wholistic medicine 01:10:20 #1 Tip - ASK THE QUESTIONS! 01:13:10 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: UPDATE • ABC: https://flagship.shop/alexandrawildeson/products-v2/231581 • ABC: https://go.shopmy.us/p-12706973 #chronicillnesssupport #livingwithautoimmunedisease #healthandwellness #podcast #podcastclips #medicalinsurance #medicalconditions #healthinsurance #medicalbillingservices #medicalbilling #medicalbillingcompany #healthinsuranceexplained Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this week’s episode of Calling in Sick, I share my how-to guide on navigating travel with a chronic illness. Travel is supposed to be a relaxing and enjoyable break from “real life,” but when you’re dealing with a chronic illness, it can be incredibly overwhelming. From anxiety about how “able” you are, to internalized pressure on having the “perfect” get away, and realizing the impact of brain fog on planning… you are not alone in these worries! Not to forget the mental gymnastics of battling guilt for being stressed! If you want your next trip to go a bit smoother, look no further! Tune in to this week’s episode to hear what you need to pack in your suitcase versus your carry on and my top 5 most important things to travel with. You’ll leave this episode feeling more prepared and less anxious for your next trip. And as always, thanks for joining me for another Monday of Calling in Sick! xx, Alex Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick! 00:01:02 Alex’s Health Update 00:04:45 Alex’s Wellness Picks of the Week 00:09:00 Traveling with a Chronic Illness is stressful 00:15:15 How to pack for your trip 00:34:30 How to enjoy your trip 00:40:15 How to manage anxiety while traveling 00:45:45 How to manage if you over do it 00:47:10 Thank you for listening! Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ #chronicillnesssupport #livingwithautoimmunedisease #callinginsick #healthandwellness #podcast #podcastclips #flareup #traveling #chronicillness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do I know for sure about chronic illness, you ask?? Literally NONE of it makes sense. As someone who’s been sick for 25 years, you think I would have it all perfectly figured out - what triggers me, what medications work for me, how to talk about my illness with other people - but NOPE, a lot of the time chronic illness still feels a bit like a mystery to me, so how are other people, especially those without chronic illness, supposed to get it?? From flare ups that appear out of nowhere to “doing everything right” and still getting knocked down, this episode dives into the chaos and contradictions of living with chronic illness. What I get into this week: ⚠️ How this past week’s flare up has totally rocked me and what’s next 🤕 My TOP 4 reasons that chronic illnesses just don’t make sense! ⛔️ The different things “flare up” can mean 📝 How I remind myself what healing a chronic disease really means  xx, Alex 💬 Comment: What’s something about your chronic illness that makes zero sense — but you’ve learned to live with anyway? Drop it below! TIMESTAMPS: Intro: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling in Sick! 00:00:44 Life catchup + what we are talking about this week 00:04:10 Alex’s Picks of the week (Conrad compression socks, Cadence travel containers) 4 Reasons Chronic Illnesses make NO sense: 00:07:01 The unpredictability of chronic illness 00:11:44 Why we can’t compare ourselves to other people (even if they have the same disease!!) 00:15:33 Why it feels like nobody fully understands chronic illness  00:16:20 How I define a flare-up 00:19:57 The goal of healing a chronic illness Conclusion: 00:24:51 One Brain Cell Show: Wife Swap: The Real Housewives Edition (Bravo) 00:26:45 Thank you for listening! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow us on socials for more! • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/ • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568 • Substack - https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod? ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/ Alex’s Picks of the Week: The items that that are a must have for your go-bag (hospitals, infusions and travel)! ✨Comrad compression socks - https://go.shopmy.us/p-28820619 — use “ALEXWILDESON20” for 20% off at checkout!! ✨Cadence travel containers - https://go.shopmy.us/p-29547777 #ChronicIllness #AutoimmuneLife #InvisibleIllness #ChronicIllnessWarrior #ChronicFatigue #SpoonieLife #SpoonieCommunity #ChronicPain #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MentalHealthMatters #HealingJourney #ChronicIllnessDoesntMakeSense #DisabilityAwareness #LifeWithChronicIllness #ChronicPainRelief #FightingFatigue #SpoonieSupport #CallingInSickPodcast #AlexWildeson #BrainFog #FlareUp #InvisibleDisability #AutoimmuneDisease #HealthJourney #WellnessMindset #SelfCareRoutine #HealingNotCured #ChronicIllnessAcceptance #RestIsProductive #ChronicWarrior #UnpredictableBody #MindBodyHealth #SpoonieTips #AutoimmuneCommunity  #ChronicIllnessSupport Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I girlbossed too close to the sun 😵‍💫 (forcing a flare for diagnostics + having a little too much fun!!) — so I’m calling in sick for real this week and giving my body the rest it needs. While I take a breather (and a heating pad nap), I’m revisiting one of my all-time favorite episodes. This conversation with Dr. Zachary Spiritos, a neuro-gastro-immunologist and advocate for women’s health, changed the way I think about medicine, bias, and being believed. We talk about why so many women’s symptoms are dismissed, how to actually advocate for yourself in appointments, and what invisible illness really means. If you’ve ever been told “it’s all in your head” — this episode is your reminder that it’s not. What we cover: 🧠 Why women’s pain is often minimized or misdiagnosed ⚠️ How medical gaslighting shows up — and how to handle it 🥼 What real advocacy looks like in the doctor’s office 💩 The gut-health connection to chronic conditions 💬 Why “trust your body” isn’t just a phrase — it’s a survival skill Whether you’re fighting to be taken seriously, learning to listen to your body, or just craving validation that you’re not alone — this one still hits. Thanks for Calling in Sick with us 💛 xx, Alex Comment: What’s one thing you wish more doctors understood about women’s health? TIMESTAMPS:  Intro 00:00:00 Welcome back to Calling In Sick!  00:02:15 Alex’s Picks Of the Week (IB Guard, Magnesium)  My Interview with Dr. Spiritos 00:03:45 Meet Dr. Zachary Spiritos & understanding neuro-gastro-immunology  00:24:48 Where the disparity in women’s health comes from 00:29:00 The reality of medical gaslighting and how to respond  00:44:33 How to advocate for yourself in appointments, and have success! Final Thoughts 00:47:34 What’s next for Dr. Zachary Spiritos  00:55:00 Dr. Zachary’s final recommendations 00:57:25 Thank you for listening!!!  ---------------------------------------------------------------- Stay connected and follow social: • Instagram - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/callinginsickpod/⁠ • TikTok - ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginsickpod⁠ • Facebook -  ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558234607568⁠ • Substack -  ⁠https://substack.com/@callinginsickpod?⁠ ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- ⁠https://www.justmediahouse.com/⁠ Produced by: Alexandra Wildeson — ⁠https://www.instagram.com/alexandrawildeson/⁠ ---------------------------------------------------------------- Episode Sponsor: LifeBoost Coffee! • First Time Customer (58% off): ⁠https://lifeboostcoffee.com/pages/healthy-coffee-ot2e-19-cp?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON⁠ • Subscribe and Save (Up to 48% off): ⁠https://lifeboostcoffee.com/pages/subscribe-save?ref=ALEXANDRAWILDESON⁠ Use code ALEXANDRA10 for 10% off!! ---------------------------------------------------------------- Alex’s Picks of the Week: This week's picks are for all my friends whose tummy hurts!! ✨IB Guard — ⁠ https://amzn.to/47nlDSC ✨Pure Encapsulation (Magnesium Supplementation) — ⁠ https://amzn.to/47nlHlk ---------------------------------------------------------------- #podcast #podcastclips #chronicillness #autoimmunedisease #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #spoonielife #HealthJourney #CallingInSick #SpoonieSupport #ChronicIllnessAwareness #MedicalJourney#DisabilityAwareness #SurvivalMode #IdentityShift #medicalgaslighting #womenshealth #zachspiritos#neurology #gastroenterology #immunology #selfadvocacy #medicalbias Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices