Can I have a WORD with you?

Join Heather and Amanda as they unpack the powerful word CHOSEN. Christ Has Openly Spoken Everlasting New-life http://www.acupofgratitude.org/ Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

Unpacking GIVING What are we giving? Grief, a hard time, trouble or grace, compliments, thanks, appreciation, or something else that lifts others with encouragement? Romans 15 v 4 And the Scriptures were written to teach and encourage us by GIVING us hope. GIVING Gets to the heart of life Invites us to share self Valid, whatever is given Is uniquely your GIFT Nurture & watch grow Give from a Joyful place Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

Unpacking THANK YOU These are the two perfect words when getting a compliment for doing something someone appreciates. Nothing more, nothing less. not to diminish and not to accept with any overconfidence or gloating. Also, two great words when showing appreciation for the effort seen by someone else that impacts our day. Ephesians 5 v 4 Don't use dirty or filthy or foolish words. Instead, say how thankful you are. Unpacking THANK YOU might look like this. Let's break it down. THANK YOU They work with sincere Have them ready to go All that needs to be said Not another word Keep doling them out Yes reaching the helper Oh the impact made Use them with PLEASE as well Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

Unpacking INSPIRATIONAL Bruce goes solo in this episode sharing his recent experience seeing INSPIRATIONAL friends completing a workout milestone and attending the Georgia State Golf Association's Adaptive Golf Championship this weekend. What is INSPIRATIONAL to you? The underdog winning? The total domination of your team against an opponent. Overcoming adversity and a setback. Determination and resilience? Consistency? Unpacking INSPIRATIONAL might look like this. Let's break it down. INSPIRATIONAL In action with intention Not notoriety seeking Steadily moving ahead Put setbacks as setups  In constant grow mode Responds w/o reacting Always here to help  True to purpose of good Insists to persist Others minded inclusive Nurture those in need A source of inspiration  Loves to give b4 getting  Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

Sneak Peak at Heather's upcoming Conference. Let her know if you would like her to come to your church or event to share more of the same! heathercartersoulselfie@gmail.com heathercarterwrites.com WATCH THIS 30 SECOND VIDEO RE: WOMEN'S CONFERENCES https://youtu.be/DHb_m2QqPOA?si=ew3yVIzK8rvd1Fsq Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

Unpacking WONDER Do we WONDER why me? How about why not or why are we not getting what we want or desire right away or even after exhaustive work? Do we wonder what others are thinking about us? their opinion or perception? Can we look at our God and Christ in complete WONDER of their greatness? WONDER, what a great word We break it down this way and have a conversation about the many ways to look at WONDER. Be full of WONDER Why? the best question ever Oh, I want to know more Now let's explore deeply Do today, tomorrow is not promised Ever curious to know how things work Realize life is WONDERFUL when we WONDER Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

Are we doing things that FREEZE us? Let's do something that FREES us. Are we stuck at times? FROZEN. Yes, we certainly can all be. What can we do that will help FREE us up and move forward? Especially in difficult times and struggles that might instead bring in Worry, Anxiety, and Stress. Also, as Christ followers, who FREES us and can we always learn to turn to Jesus? Bruce landed on Psalm 46 v 10. Be STILL and know that I am GOD. Wow be still for a moment, turn to him, and let him work so that his love, grace, and protection FREES us from the FREEZE FREEZE Frozen from actions Restricting my GIFTS Enlisting doubt Embracing CAN't Zapped of Energy Endlessly trapped FREES Forward movement first Release the grip on results Embrace incremenal Ease in & keep going See how free it can be Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

What is the EXAMPLE we are setting and where does the light shine? Bruce and Heather unpack their perspective on this topic. Bruce draws on Daniel 6 v 26 where after Daniel refused King Dorius' decree to only worship him and was thrown into the lion's den for his "disobedience". Acting by faith, Daniel did not fear this fate. King Darius rushed to the den after a restless and distraught night only to find Daniel unafraid and unhurt. This caused Darius to reverse his decree and command all to worship Daniel's God, the eternal God. All glory went to God through Daniel's act of faith. So can we set the same kind of example AND ensure that GOD gets the glory? Easy to set ego aside? No. Thank you Daniel for showing us through your faith. EXAMPLE Everything I do sets one eXamine all my actions Are they bright and bold? Making a difference? Painting the Picture? Light shining on HIM? Exercising my faith in HIM? Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

What is being VICTORY? The big prize? Winning it all? The trophy and the accolades? Well, if that is the only picture of a "WIN", life can be pretty disappointing, right? In this episode, Heather and Bruce look at VICTORY in different ways so that we can gain some momentum, get on track, and start or eliminate certain behaviors or actions that can build as little victories that might just change the trajectory of our lives. We looked at the book of 1 John chapter 5 and verse 4 which says "Every child of God can defeat the world and our faith is what gives us victory." Easy? No, Can we go alone? No. Bur it we set hour Mindset and Heartset with intention, we can Can we look at little steps as victory? Can we see victory at the start, middle and end? Here is how we broke down VICTORY Voice the desire Imagine the impact Create the space for it Take down the doubt Own that you deserve it Remember you are enough You expect success We recommend and spoke of a book in this episode titled "The Go Giver" by Bob Burg and John David Mann. This great story tells about a man who has been a go-getter all his life but learns that being a giver first and some of the key characteristics of looking at life from a giving perspective first can bring on greater VICTORY than imaginable. More about this book and its authors at www.thegogiver.com. Check it out. Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

A few episodes back, we unpacked COMMIT and looked at the WHAT and the HOW. In this Episode we revisit COMMIT but look at a focus on WHY would we commit to an improvement or a change in our lives. Why is this she important in working to archive a change in our lives? The verse we landed on to frame the discussion is Psalm 37 verse 5. Commit thy way unto the Lord. Trust also in him and he shall bring it to pass. (KJV) COMMIT (Why) Could save a life (mine) Oh the inspiration ripple My family needs me More to lose if I wait It means more than ever Time is NOW let’s go! You may recall the what of COMMIT we discussed as COMMIT (Why) Count On Me Making It There. The how of COMMIT we discussed as: COMMIT (How)  Come w/positivity  Own our time Make self-promises Make service a priority Invest in growth actions Then realize the results  Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

CHANGE for a dollar? | Can make us holler | How do we deal with it make the most of change?  It’s easier when we WANT it, but what about when it is imposed on us or if we don’t think we have what it takes to embrace it and become a better person as we go through it? Stacey Siekman joins Heather and Bruce to unpack CHANGE, her experiences, and perspective will help us all when facing wanted and unwanted CHANGE. Stacey breaks it down like this.   Let’s dive in! CHANGE Creates awareness Holds the answers of truth Allows progress Narrates a new chapter Generates growth Empowers life  Her aligning Bible verse is Proverbs 4:23 "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Stacey is a Best-Selling Author, Speaker, Certified Life and Intentional Movement Coach who is extremely passionate about empowering and encouraging women to move with strength, courage, and confidence through their middle-age years. She utilizes intentional movement, cutting-edge coaching, and functional core training to inspire a whole sense of being, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and nutritionally. If you are ready to move in a powerful new way, Stacey welcomes the opportunity to work with you. Please visit https://www.balancedbodyreflections.com/.  Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

In this episode, Bruce goes solo and unpacks the September Holiday of LABOR DAY. We are often going so fast in life that we feel hurried, too busy, worried about the outcomes, anxious about the process and stressed about everything. We too often compare ourselves to others which is never a good idea because God made each of us unique and with our own GIFTS and TALENTS. Can we keep up the pace? Do we have what it takes? WAIT. Take time often to focus on our work and the contributions we are making. Here is one way as we celebrate Labor Day this month. LABOR DAY Look at what you do At the impact you make Be proud and stand tall  Okay celebrate today Remember your “WHY”   Don’t ever give up  Always keep growing You are an inspiration  Matthew 9 v 37 (CEV) He said to his disciples, "A large crop is in the fields, but there are only a few workers. Let's work and do so knowing He is with us when we glorify Him as we put in the effort. Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about  Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

What is being reluctant? Why are we reluctant? What causes it? Most importantly what can we do to diminish, overcome it and thrive in our purpose? How can we learn to take action despite the situation and circumstances? Not easy to solve but Bruce and Heather discuss what they have learned through the struggle of moving from being reluctant to taking action. Looking at 1 Corinthians 15 v 34 and 58 with Bruce's men's Global men's ministry called In His Grip Ministry (www.inhisgripgolf.com) he speaks of the two verses as inspiration to remove his reluctance because, 1) There is more work to be done sharing his faith JOurneY (capitalization intentional) with others whose path he meets (verse 34) 2) All work done in honor of the Lord, is worthwhile. (verse 58) Unpacking RELUCTANT by asking ourselves to contemplate the following perspectives. Risk vs Reward Eluding vs Exploring Lacking vs Leveraging Uncertain vs Unyielding Cautious vs Confident Terrified vs Tough Anxious vs Affirmed Nervous vs No doubt Troubled vs Tenacious Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

In this episode, Bruce and Heather unpack the word HELP with Dave MacDonald who is an Ambassador and "Storyteller" with Bucket Ministries. Over 750,00,000 people on the planet do not have access to clean water and close to 800,000 die each year due in part to this lack of clean drinking water. 300,000 of these deaths are of children under the age of 5 years old. Dave (who Bruce and Heather met a few years ago as separate guests on his podcast called "Exercise Your Faith" ) has retired from his teaching career in California and joined forces with Bucket Ministries, an organization combining providing both clear water as well as the GOSPEL and good news of Jesus Christ to those lacking both. Click on the link below to learn all about Bucket Ministries and how you can help if moved to do so. https://thebucketministry.org/about-2023/ IMPACT - This short Timelapse video demonstrates the massive impact Bucket Ministry is having in one of the areas they are serving. https://thebucketministry.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com/Kibera_Stack_08032023_1080_w-Audio.mp4 Easy to understand why Dave picked to unpack HELP as he has been certified in the Bucket Ministry program and is now traveling globally to meet the need at its grassroots, 'rolled up sleeves" level. As one of the first guests with both Bruce and Heather unpacking HELP with Dave, Bruce wrote HELP specifically for Dave who chose Ecclesiastes 11 v 4 (NLT) as his verse that speaks to HELP. Don't wait, jump in and HELP. "Farmers who wait for perfect weather never plant, if they watch every cloud, they never harvest." Ecclesiastes 11 v 4 HELP Here to make a mark Every day an impACT (emphasis on ACT) Look, find, do, repeat Putting others first Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share

To RESOLVE could be to settle "We RESOLVED the issue" or "I RESOLVE to let it go". We an feel like we have thrown in the towel. That may be a good thing and at times okay! But what happens when the going gets really tough and we need fortitude, persistence, or resilience? We RESOLVE to stay committed Heather and Bruce discuss ways to develop RESOLVE, a determination to see things through and commit to stretching, growing, and at times feeling pain and soreness. Give a listen and share your comments RESOLVE  Reached the bottom? End of the rope?  Seeing no way out? Ouch that hurts right? Let go of circumstances Vow to move onward Embrace the growth Learn more about Bruce Pulver, contact him to book a speaking engagement, and order Above the Chatter Our Words Matter at http://abovethechatterourwordsmatter.com/. Watch Bruce's TEDx Talk at: https://www.ted.com/talks/bruce_pulver_the_secret_to_changing_negative_self_talk_by_renewing_your_mindset Learn more about Heather Carter, book a speaking engagement, and order Soul-Selfie or Soul-Selfie#NoFilter at https://heathercarterwrites.com Embracing the Impact of Cancer https://www.actiontakerspublishing.com/impact Author interviews. https://www.youtube.com/live/IoENr-34_sY?feature=share