Cappuccinos & Confidence with Nefe

The host rereads Dr. Joseph Murphy’s The Power of the Subconscious Mind and reframes it as a guide to trusting yourself. The episode shows that the subconscious responds to repetition, not pressure, and shares five gentle practices—morning mind reset, the word “yet,” a nightly proof list, whispered affirmations, and swapping self-deprecating jokes for kinder truths—to help reprogram negative self-talk into kinder, consistent habits.

Ever feel like everyone else has it all figured out while you’re just trying to make it through the day? You’re not alone — and spoiler alert: nobody really has it together. In this episode of Confidence & Cappuccino, Nefe shows up — cold, blanket, tea and all — to talk about why perfection is overrated and how real confidence is built in the messy middle of life. From funny “not-so-together” moments to heartfelt truths about self-trust, Nefe reminds us that showing up imperfectly is still showing up — and that’s what confidence truly looks like.   ✨ You’ll hear about: Why “having it all together” is a confidence trap How to find peace in chaos and show up anyway The link between humour, imperfection, and resilience Three gentle ways to let go of perfectionism for good Grab your cup, exhale, and remember — confidence isn’t built in perfection; it’s built in persistence. ☕   👉 Read the full show notes, transcript, and resources: nefewellness.com/the-myth-of-having-it-all-together-cc36

Sometimes, the hardest kind of grief isn’t about losing someone — it’s about losing the version of your life you thought you’d have. In this deeply personal episode, Nefe opens up about navigating health challenges, the pain of letting go of long-held dreams, and learning how to find peace in the middle of change. Through gentle reflection and relatable honesty, she explores what it means to heal without rushing, to honour grief as love, and to rediscover confidence when life takes an unexpected turn. Whether you’re dealing with loss, change, or simply feeling off-track, this episode is a reminder that your story still matters — even when it looks nothing like you imagined. ☕ Listen now to find compassion, comfort, and quiet courage — one sip at a time.   ✨ You’ll Learn: Why grief isn’t a straight line — and why that’s okay. How to hold space for both pain and progress. The quiet power of rewriting your story with self-compassion. Why confidence often begins in our most vulnerable moments.   💖 Resources and transcript: 👉 nefewellness.com/grieving-the-life-you-imagined-cc35

Hey my loves, quick update: Big Brew 2 is now available on YouTube. You can download the workbook from my website or just watch the video. I will put a link to my website in the description. Alright loves, have a great day, bye! Link: https://nefewellness.com/big-brew-2-wellness-reset/

om sequins to samba rolls, Strictly Come Dancing is more than Saturday night sparkle — it’s a masterclass in confidence. Every season, celebrities step onto the dance floor terrified, imperfect, and unsure… and week by week, they grow. In this episode of Confidence & Cappuccino with Nefe, I take inspiration from Strictly 2025 (yes, I’m Team Nitro & Karen 💃✨) and share how the show mirrors our own journey of building confidence in real life. ✨ You’ll learn: Why the first step is always scary — but necessary. How tiny wins stack up into big confidence. Why success isn’t about luck, but consistency and courage. The power of support and community when you feel wobbly. Why progress, not perfection, is worth celebrating. Whether you’re a Strictly fan or not, this episode is your reminder: confidence isn’t built in your head. It’s built in action.   👉 Listen now, and find the full transcript + resources at: nefewellness.com/step-into-confidence-cc34

Do you ever catch yourself stuck in your own head — replaying conversations, rewriting emails, or planning every detail until the moment has already passed? You’re not alone. Overthinking is one of the biggest confidence killers, and it can keep us frozen right when we most want to move forward. In this episode of Confidence & Cappuccino with Nefe, we’ll explore how to break free from the overthinking cycle and start taking action — even when it feels uncomfortable. ✨ You’ll learn: Why we overthink and how it drains confidence. The real cost of staying stuck in your head. Four simple strategies to shift from overthinking to action. Relatable stories and examples of how small steps create big change. Your confidence isn’t built in endless thinking — it’s built in action. 👉 Listen now, and don’t forget to check out the full transcript and additional resources at nefewellness.com/from-overthinking-to-action-cc33

We often think confidence comes from big achievements — landing the dream job, reaching a huge milestone, or finally “making it.” But the truth? Real confidence is built in the small, quiet wins nobody else sees. In this episode of Confidence & Cappuccino with Nefe, I’m sharing how the tiniest victories — drinking a glass of water before coffee, folding the laundry instead of living out of “the chair,” sending that scary email, or putting your phone down before midnight — all stack up to create a strong foundation of self-belief. ✨ You’ll learn: Why your brain loves tiny wins (and the science behind it). How to celebrate the small things without feeling silly. Real-life examples of how little steps lead to big changes. Simple ways to start stacking your own confidence-building wins today. Your dream life isn’t built in jackpots or giant leaps — it’s built one tiny win at a time. 👉 Listen to Episode 32 now: nefewellness.com/tiny-wins-big-confidence-cc32

Why do so many of us dream about winning the lottery? For many, it’s not about the millions — it’s about what those millions represent: freedom, security, joy, and the chance to finally live life on our own terms. In this episode of Confidence & Cappuccino with Nefe, I unpack why relying on lottery tickets keeps us stuck, and how small, practical steps can bring you closer to your dream life — no jackpot required. You’ll learn: ☕ Why the lottery feels so tempting (and why the odds are stacked against us). ☕ How to get clear on what you actually want from life. ☕ Simple ways to save money without feeling deprived. ☕ Real-life examples of people who built freedom with small steps. ☕ How to shift from a “lottery mindset” to a “builder mindset.” ✨ Your dream is valid. You don’t need luck — you need clarity, consistency, and courage. 👉 Share your version of a “dream day” with me at nefewellness.com

Join the very first Big Brew session on YouTube where we work through a post-summer self-love roadmap together. Reflect on the season, learn the difference between self-care and true self-love, choose tiny daily habits for body, mind, spirit, and relationships, and create a practical 30-day plan to carry into the next season.   👉 Download your free workbook here: https://nefewellness.com/post-summer-self-love-road-map/

Welcome to "Cappuccinos & Confidence" where self-discovery meets your favorite brew. Host Nefe, the self-love barista, introduces an exciting rebrand from the previous "Beyond Doubt, Unleashing Confidence." This episode reveals the playful and insightful journey behind the new name, inspired by cozy coaching sessions in cafes and spontaneous coffee metaphors. Discover how this rebranding fuels excitement, creativity, and connection, while staying true to the essence of quick, uplifting pep talks backed by psychology. Tune in weekly for empowering bites of confidence, and join our community ready to sip courage and embrace personal growth one flavorful moment at a time.   Show notes: New title: Cappuccinos & Confidence with Nefe Resources: NefeWellness.com, @Nefe86 on IG Next episode drop: Wednesday, 3 September 2025

In this special episode of "Beyond Doubt, Unleashing Confidence," host Nefe shares an important announcement about taking a break from the podcast. From April to September 2025, Nefe is stepping away to focus on health, personal commitments, and business changes. This strategic pause is inspired by icons like Beyoncé and J.K. Rowling, who took breaks to gather fresh inspiration and return stronger. Nefe assures listeners of her return with even more impactful content come September 2025. Until then, she encourages everyone to continue building confidence and embracing the power of rest.

In this uplifting episode of Beyond Doubt: Unleashing Confidence, host Nefe reveals four real-life accounts of women who dared to make big changes when spring’s gentle nudge whispered, “It’s time to grow.” From a 26-year-old beating workplace doubts to a 67-year-old teacher discovering new purpose in retirement, each story proves there’s no deadline on reinventing yourself. Along the way, you’ll pick up encouragement, a special open-window reset tip, and plenty of reasons to trust your instincts when the season of renewal prompts you to start fresh. Ready to swap stale mindsets for bold possibilities? Tune in and let spring’s energy propel you towards the life you’ve always wanted. Recommended Book: It’s Never Too Late to Begin Again by Julia Cameron – A nurturing guide on tapping into creativity and discovering new passions at any stage in life. Additional Resources: For more tips, check out Nefe Wellness Resources for insightful articles and tools. Love the stories you heard today? Dive deeper by visiting the blog post that inspired this episode: Spring Reset: Success Stories to Inspire Your Own Fresh Start. Let this be your sign to embrace the season and plant the seeds of transformation—your own Spring Reset starts now.

Welcome to another empowering episode of Beyond Doubt, Unleashing Confidence. Join host Nefe as we tackle the sneaky gremlin of procrastination head-on. Discover effective time blocking strategies and ways to manage overwhelm, ensuring you stay on track with your goals. Take a moment for a mid-month review: reflect, recalibrate, and keep progressing without the fear of imperfection holding you back. Learn why our brains often fall into the procrastination trap and how to realign your mindset for success. Get inspired by Priya's journey from procrastination to productivity, and find out how overcoming procrastination not only boosts productivity but also strengthens confidence. Don’t miss out on practical tips, a motivational book recommendation, and a weekly challenge to help you unleash your most confident self.   Recommended resources: Blog post: Overcoming Procrastination – Time-Blocking and Taming Overwhelm Book: Eat that frog  

Welcome to Episode 26 of Beyond Doubt Unleashing Confidence! Join host Nefe on a transformative journey as we delve into the power of daily habits in boosting self-confidence. This episode explores the concept of habit stacking, sustainable routines, and how small, consistent actions can lead to lasting change. Nefe shares practical tips, real-life success stories, and provides a simple plan to integrate new habits seamlessly into your daily life. Whether you're juggling a busy schedule or facing life's challenges, this episode offers valuable insights to help you build confidence, one habit at a time. Recommended resources: Blog post: Building Empowering Habits for Confidence Book: “Atomic Habits” by James Clear 

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Beyond Doubt, Unleashing Confidence, hosted by Nefe. In this episode, we delve into the concept of mental spring cleaning, a practice that refreshes your mind, much like a spring morning walk invigorates your body. Discover the reasons why mental spring cleaning is crucial for your personal growth and confidence. Learn the first steps to identify and challenge the negative thoughts, comparisons, and limiting beliefs cluttering your mind. Explore effective strategies to toss away these mental blocks and replace them with positive affirmations and proactive thoughts. Nefe shares practical tips on organizing mental space by setting clear goals, defining priorities, and celebrating small wins, all while maintaining this newfound clarity through daily habits of journaling, mindfulness, and gratitude. Embrace the power of new beginnings, and let your confidence bloom by clearing away self-doubt. Tune in, take action, and discover how to reclaim your worth with courage and positivity.   Related resources Blog post: https://nefewellness.com/mental-spring-cleaning/ Recommended book: You Are a Badass” by Jen Sincero - check out here

Ready to ditch self-doubt and supercharge your self-worth this March? Join host Nefe on Beyond Doubt: Unleashing Confidence for a lively, heartfelt chat about reclaiming your worth, one small achievement at a time. Discover why celebrating tiny milestones matters, how to set “good enough” goals that actually stick, and what it takes to keep your momentum going—even when life throws curveballs. Expect plenty of real-life success stories, a dash of humour, and practical strategies (like emotional journaling) to help you transform your mindset from “I can’t” to “Watch me!” Tune in for an inspirational journey that proves your confidence isn’t gone—it’s simply waiting to be unleashed. Resources to Help You on Your Journey Recommended Book: The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown. For insights on embracing vulnerability and celebrating your perfectly imperfect self, get your copy here. Free Resources at Nefe Wellness: From guided journals to confidence-boosting exercises, visit Nefe Wellness for a treasure trove of free tools. Professional Coaching Services: If you’re ready to take your self-belief to the next level, explore one-on-one coaching at Nefe Wellness and let’s craft a personalised plan to unleash your confidence together!

Ready to revolutionise the way you care for yourself? In this episode, Nefe Oguntoye dives deep into why self-care isn’t a frivolous luxury, but the bedrock of genuine confidence. Discover how simple daily rituals, healthy boundaries, and acts of kindness can create a ripple effect—transforming your mindset, energy levels, and sense of self-worth. Whether you’re feeling the mid-February slump or just seeking a fresh perspective on personal growth, this episode offers stories, tips, and a sprinkle of fun to help you reboot your self-care journey. Resources Mentioned: Recommended Book: “Set Boundaries, Find Peace” by Nedra Glover Tawwab – A practical guide to safeguarding your well-being and fostering meaningful connections without burning out. Find it at https://amzn.to/4b43sTe.  Free Resources & Affirmations: Explore a variety of motivational tools and uplifting goodies at https://nefewellness.com/resources/ to supercharge your self-care routine. Life Coaching Services: If you’re looking for one-on-one guidance and personalised strategies, check out my coaching packages at https://nefewellness.com/life-coaching-services/. Together, we’ll craft a self-care plan that fuels your confidence and fits into your busy lifestyle.

In this uplifting and humour-packed episode of Beyond Doubt, Unleashing Confidence, host Nefe Oguntoye takes you on a heart-warming journey through the real meaning of Valentine’s Day. Move over lovey-dovey stereotypes—this chat focuses on transforming negativity into self-compassion, building rock-solid confidence, and finding the courage to show up for yourself. Featuring Lucy’s inspiring turnaround from lonely pizza nights to smashing career goals, this episode proves that the best Valentine might just be you. Recommended Read: For even more insights on embracing imperfection and loving yourself wholeheartedly, check out The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown on Amazon. Extra Resources: Valentine’s Day Self-Love Blog Post: nefewellness.com/valentines-day-self-love-guide/ All Resources for Your Wellness Journey: nefewellness.com/resources/ Tune in now to discover practical tips, honest stories, and a dash of laughter—all designed to help you conquer negative self-talk and unleash your confidence!

In Episode 21 of Beyond Doubt Unleashing Confidence, host Nefe invites listeners to explore the transformative power of self-love. Dive into the world of affirmations and journaling to supercharge your confidence and find emotional release. Discover real-life stories of individuals like Sarah and Jade, who used these practices to overcome challenges and embrace their true potential. Learn how to integrate affirmations with journaling, avoid common pitfalls, and pair these techniques with mindfulness for an amplified effect. Nefe shares insightful tips to help you navigate the journey of self-love with humor and grace, emphasizing that every step, no matter how small, is worth celebrating. Tune in and start nurturing your self-belief today. Check the blog post: https://nefewellness.com/self-love-affirmations-journaling/

Think January flew by without much fanfare? Think again! In this laugh-out-loud episode, we’re celebrating small victories, poking fun at the messy moments, and uncovering the secret to turning any stumble into a soaring success. Join your host, Nefe Oguntoye, for a dose of witty banter, heart-warming anecdotes, and practical strategies that’ll supercharge your confidence before February even knows what hit it. Ready to stop beating yourself up over budget slip-ups, burnt toast, or missed workouts? Let’s transform those hiccups into stepping stones for growth. And if you’re hungry for more (and let’s face it, who isn’t?), find the blog post that inspired this episode at nefewellness.com. Prepare to laugh, learn, and launch yourself into the rest of the year with unstoppable optimism and a cheeky grin!