Dad Space Podcast - for Dads by Dads

Episode 167 - Brandon Neely - Author of Five Smooth Stones - Dad Math and Modelling Money to Your KidsFive Smooth Stones: A Journey of Financial CenteringUnlock your financial potential with Five Smooth Stones, the innovative money journal designed for high achievers. This powerful tool provides clear, actionable steps to reach your financial goals with confidence.Why Choose Five Smooth Stones? Clarity and Control: Quickly identify opportunities and make informed decisions to progress your financial journey.Enjoyable Process: Our unique approach makes financial planning engaging and rewarding.Customizable: Ample space on high-quality, no-bleed paper allows you to tailor your financial strategy.Proven Methodology: Benefit from the authors' tried-and-tested process for financial success.Ongoing Support: Exclusive access to additional resources and guidance to further enhance your financial growth.Take charge of your financial future today. Order Five Smooth Stones and transform your approach to money management.Invest in your financial well-being – Order Now! https://a.co/d/7SobNRNWealth Wisdom Financial Podcast - There are a lot of financial podcasts. Most of them repeat the same advice: Limit your spending, make a budget, invest in the stock market. But the future is uncertain. You never know when financial emergencies or changes in the economy will eat up your earnings. It’s overwhelming and stressful. And even if you act on every piece of advice, you might still feel like you should be further along and closer to your goals. That’s why many step away from conventional financial thinking: It doesn’t help them build long-term wealth or a lifestyle they love. The better alternative? Wealth wisdom! Wealth wisdom isn’t one-size-fits-all advice, but timeless principles that show you how to build the wealth you want for your dream lifestyle—whether you’re an employee or a business owner. The Wealth Wisdom Financial Podcast shows you how to build wealth in all areas of life and business and goes way beyond financial wealth. Hosts Brandon Neely and Amanda Neely, CFP® are pumped to be your allies as you expand your financial confidence to stand the tests of time. On the Wealth Wisdom Financial Podcast you will discover: - How a banker’s mindset can help you be profitable in any economy - How to defeat financial confusion, haphazardness, anxiety, overwhelm, and stress - How to start a profit habit that ends entrepreneurial poverty - And much much more all grounded in the wisdom of the ages May you live long and profit.https://pod.link/1430092759___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 166 - The Spool of Life - Confronting Mortality as a DadAddressing mortality and the realization that life has a definitive end can be a profound and challenging topic for dads. Here's how to approach this theme in a way that resonates with your audience:Understanding Mortality as a DadEmotional Awareness: Recognize that acknowledging mortality can evoke strong emotions. It's essential to be open about these feelings, whether it's fear, acceptance, or a mix of both.Life Reflection: Use the realization of life's end to reflect on your values and priorities. Ask yourself what truly matters and how you want to spend the time you have.Connection with Family: Focus on building deeper connections with your loved ones. Being present and engaged with your family can provide a sense of fulfillment and purpose.Practical Steps for DadsPrioritize Health: Take care of your physical and mental health. Regular check-ups and a balanced lifestyle can help you live a longer, healthier life.Create Meaningful Experiences: Invest in experiences that bring joy and create lasting memories with your family. This could be anything from family vacations to simple moments like bedtime stories.Plan for the Future: Consider making a will, setting up life insurance, and planning for your children's future. These steps can provide peace of mind and ensure your family's well-being.Mindfulness and Gratitude: Practice mindfulness and gratitude to appreciate the present moment. Focus on what you have rather than what you might lose.Addressing Mortality in ConversationsOpen Dialogue: Encourage open conversations about mortality with your family and friends. This can help normalize the topic and foster deeper connections.Support Networks: Build or join support networks where dads can share their experiences and feelings about mortality.Legacy Planning: Think about the legacy you want to leave behind. This could be through personal achievements, family traditions, or community contributions.https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMkMkMbjj/___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 165 - The Presence Detector - How Your Kids Know When You're Really ThereToday, we're going to talk about something incredibly important for all of us dads: being present for our kids. You know, it's easy to get caught up in work, social media, or just life in general, but our children can tell when we're not fully there. They sense it in our distracted glances, delayed responses, and half-hearted nods. And let me tell you, they respond in ways that might surprise you.The Impact of Distracted ParentingWhen we're not fully present, our kids might act out, test boundaries, or break rules. These behaviors aren't random; they're desperate attempts to pull us back into their world. They're saying, "Dad, I need you here. Really here." It's not just about discipline; it's about connection.Research shows that distracted parenting can have serious effects on children's social and emotional development. For instance, studies have found that when parents are distracted by technology, children are more likely to misbehave and have difficulty with language acquisition26. This isn't just about being a good parent; it's about being a present one.The Magic of Being PresentBut here's the flip side: when we are fully present, something magical happens. Behavior improves, connection deepens, and the whole household seems to breathe easier. Our kids feel seen and heard, and that's incredibly powerful. Think of your children as presence detectors; their behavior often reflects your level of engagement.Practical Tips for Being PresentSo, how can we be more present for our kids? Here are a few tips:Put Away Distractions: When you're with your kids, try to put away your phone and other distractions. It's not about being perfect; it's about being intentional.Engage Fully: Whether it's reading a bedtime story or playing a game, be fully immersed in the moment. Your kids will notice the difference.Practice Mindfulness: Take a few deep breaths and focus on the present. Mindfulness can help you stay grounded and engaged.Schedule Quality Time: Set aside dedicated time for your kids each day. It could be as simple as having dinner together without screens.ConclusionBeing present for our kids isn't always easy, but it's worth it. They need us to be fully engaged, and when we are, the rewards are incredible. So, the next time chaos erupts or tensions rise, ask yourself: Where is my attention right now? Take a moment to refocus, and remember, your kids can tell the difference—and they'll respond in kind.Sources:https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7218758/https://www.canr.msu.edu/news/the_dangers_of_distracted_parenting___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 164 - How to Spot an Idiot - The Art of Recognizing Toxic BehaviourAs Dads, we often find ourselves navigating complex social dynamics and trying to set a good example for our families. One crucial aspect of this is recognizing and avoiding individuals who consistently exhibit negative behavior, particularly towards others. Here’s how you can identify those who might not be good for you and your family, and why it’s important to surround yourself with people who uplift and support you.Identifying Negative InfluencesTreatment of Others:Cruelty and Disrespect: People who consistently show cruelty or disrespect towards others, especially those they don’t have to treat well, often reveal a lack of empathy and character. This behavior can be a red flag.Negative Talk: Those who frequently speak negatively about others often do so out of insecurity or a lack of self-awareness. This habit can create a toxic environment and reflect poorly on their character.Impact on Your Life:Emotional Drain: Spending time with people who consistently bring you down or make you feel bad about yourself can be emotionally draining. It’s important to recognize when someone is affecting your mental health negatively.Influence on Behavior: The company you keep can influence your behavior and outlook. Surrounding yourself with positive, supportive people can encourage you to be your best self.Surrounding Yourself with Positive InfluencesBuilding a Supportive Network:Seek Out Positivity: Look for people who uplift and support you, and who treat others with kindness and respect. These individuals can provide a positive influence and help you grow as a person.Mutual Respect: Cultivate relationships where there is mutual respect and understanding. This can create a strong foundation for meaningful connections.Setting Boundaries:Limit Negative Interactions: If someone consistently brings negativity into your life, it may be necessary to limit your interactions with them. Prioritize your own well-being and that of your family.Encourage Positive Conversations: When engaging with others, try to steer conversations towards positive topics. This can help create a more uplifting environment.Leading by Example:Model Good Behavior: As dads, we set an example for our children. By treating others with kindness and respect, we show them the importance of empathy and compassion.Teach Empathy: Encourage your children to consider how their actions affect others. This can help them develop strong moral values and build positive relationships.ConclusionRecognizing and avoiding negative influences is crucial for maintaining a healthy and supportive environment for ourselves and our families. By focusing on how others treat those around them, we can make informed decisions about who we want in our lives. Surrounding ourselves with people who uplift and support us not only benefits our own well-being but also sets a positive example for our children.https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMkm8eHpS/___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 163 - From Obstacles to Opportunities - How Dads Can Turn Challenges into TriumphsIf you were getting paid 1 million dollars to do something, how would you do it?Ability to put your all into something, you have so much to give that hides under the surface, the motivation is what drives you to do better.The only obstacle is yourself. There are many things to blame for not getting to where you dream of, but most of the time we are the ones causing the delay.You have to take action on how you show up for yourself.Imagine being paid $1 million to be the best version of yourself as a dad. How would you show up? With unwavering dedication, unrelenting passion, and a commitment to excellence. That's the same energy we encourage you to bring to your life every day.As dads, we have an incredible ability to put our all into something we care about. But often, there's even more potential hiding beneath the surface. What drives you to be better? It's the motivation to make a meaningful impact on your family and community. Whether it's being a role model for your kids, supporting your partner, or pursuing your own dreams, your motivation is the spark that ignites your journey.However, the biggest obstacle to achieving your dreams often isn't external; it's you. We can blame circumstances, but the truth is, we hold the power to change our path. It's time to take responsibility and take action on how you show up for yourself. By doing so, you become a stronger, more resilient leader for your family.Terry's interview - Terry Crews Cut From NFL, $200 A Week, Sweeping Floors: Rams, Packers, Chargers, Redskins and Eagleshttps://youtu.be/rMSErymWy8A?si=7JI3W_R6A330F-kr___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 162 - Bryan White - Being the CEO of your self and your family - be in business for yourselfBryan White is a Dad of 3, we talk about how we as Dads set the example in our home and how we treat our partner. As Dads we are on a growth journey at the same time as the rest of our family - we are learning and growing in our role and confidence as a Dad.Our kids are watching us - be sure to lead by your example as a Dadhttps://www.facebook.com/the.thriving.chronicles.podcasthttps://pod.link/1784054965___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 161 - Paws, Protection, and Parenting - The Unexpected Benefits of Family PetsHaving a pet in your home can bring numerous benefits to your family, especially for children. Here are some key advantages:Benefits for ChildrenMental Health:Pets can reduce stress, anxiety, and depression in childrenThey provide emotional support and comfort, helping ease separation anxiety when parents are awayInteracting with pets can boost self-esteem and confidence in childrenSecurity:Pets, especially dogs, can provide a sense of safety and security at homeThey offer a calming presence, helping children feel more secureResponsibility:Caring for a pet teaches children important life skills like responsibility and empathy12.Children learn to be accountable for tasks such as feeding, cleaning, and exercising the petHealth Benefits:Pets can improve children's immune systems, potentially reducing the frequency of mild illnesses1.They encourage physical activity, especially dogs that need regular walksInteracting with pets can lower blood pressure and reduce stress levelsGeneral Family BenefitsPets provide companionship and help reduce feelings of lonelinessThey can improve social interactions and help family members meet new peopleOwning a pet can lead to increased physical activity for the whole familyPets can add structure and routine to daily lifeThey offer unconditional love and support, improving overall mental well-beingPotential DownsidesWhile the benefits are numerous, it's important to be aware of potential challenges:Pets require time, attention, and financial commitment for food, medical care, and supplies.Some family members may have allergies to certain animals.Pets can sometimes cause property damage or require extensive cleaning.There may be restrictions on pet ownership depending on your living situation.Overall, the benefits of having a pet in your home often outweigh the challenges, providing valuable experiences and positive impacts on family life and child development.Sources: https://www.animalfriends.co.uk/dog/dog-blog/10-benefits-of-owning-a-pet/https://www.theyouthfairy.com/the-positive-power-of-pets/___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 160 - Empowering Dads - How to Thrive Amid Overwhelm by Doing What You Can with What You HaveTheodore Roosevelt's quote "Do what you can, with what you have, where you are" offers powerful encouragement for overwhelmed dads struggling to meet expectations. Let's break it down into three distinct points:Do What You CanAs a dad, you might feel like you're not doing enough, but remember that your best effort is all that matters. Focus on what's within your control and take small steps each day. Don't compare yourself to others or unrealistic standards. Your children value your presence and effort more than perfectionWith What You HaveYou may feel limited by your resources, time, or energy. However, it's crucial to work with what's available to you right now. Use your current skills, knowledge, and means to support your family. Remember, it's not about having everything figured out, but about making the most of what you possesWhere You AreYour current situation, whether it's your job, location, or family dynamics, is your starting point. Instead of wishing for different circumstances, embrace your present reality and make the best of it. Your ability to adapt and thrive in your current environment sets a powerful example for your childrenRemember, you're not alone in feeling overwhelmed. Many dads struggle with similar challenges. By focusing on doing your best with your available resources in your current situation, you're already making a significant positive impact on your family. Your efforts, no matter how small they may seem, are valuable and appreciated.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 159 - Navigating Fatherhood, Supporting Your Adult Children in Their New LivesAs fathers of adult children who have moved out and started their own families, it's important to understand how to navigate this new phase of parenting. Here's a summary of key points for dads:Respect Boundaries and IndependenceRecognize that your adult children are starting their own family unit with their own decisions and traditions.Avoid showing up uninvited or expecting to have the same level of involvement as before.Allow them to make their own choices about where to live, work, and how to celebrate holidays.Offer Support Without OversteppingMake yourself available for advice and support, but only when invited.Respect their parenting choices and household rules, even if they differ from yours.Be open to learning about their new family dynamics and priorities.Maintain CommunicationKeep in touch regularly, but don't expect daily updates.Show interest in their lives without being intrusive.Use active listening skills and open-ended questions to foster meaningful conversations.Adapt Your RoleTransition from an authority figure to more of a mentor or friend.Focus on building an adult-to-adult relationship with your children.Be prepared to step back and let them handle their own challenges.Self-Care and Personal GrowthDevelop your own interests and relationships outside of your role as a parent.Seek support from other fathers going through similar transitions.Consider joining support groups or counseling if you're struggling with the change.Grandparenting (if applicable)Respect the parenting decisions of your adult children regarding their own kids.Offer to help with grandchildren, but always within the boundaries set by their parents.Focus on building positive relationships with grandchildren without undermining their parents' authority.Remember, this transition can be challenging for fathers, who may feel a loss of purpose or struggle with their changing role. It's normal to experience a range of emotions during this time. The key is to maintain a loving, supportive presence in your adult children's lives while respecting their independence and new family dynamics.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 158 - Freedom's Path, The Story of Salem Chapel and the Underground RailroadDo you have a significant historical landmark in your community - have you spent time there? Well I did. I spent time at the last stop of the Underground Railroad, where black slaves seeking freedom found community, safety and the true freedom they desired. I had the honour to sit in this small chapel and to let the walls and the wood pews tell me about the history of this lighthouse of freedom.WELCOME TO THE SALEM CHAPEL SANCTUARY OF HISTORY​People of African descent began settling in the St. Catharines, Ontario area around 1788 and they brought their religion with them. Many were followers of Rev. John Wesley, the founder of Methodism. Wesley was a staunch abolitionist and advocated for the end of slavery and the slave trade.​Many of the freedom seekers that relocated to this area were also followers of Bishop Richard Allen, the founder of the African Methodist Episcopal Church (AMEC).An AMEC Society was established in St. Catharines, Ontario between 1814 and 1820. A small chapel was built to serve the faithful in the Queenston Street area. When construction on the first Welland Canal began (1824-1829) in their neighbourhood, members of the Black community relocated to the under developed area of Geneva and North Streets. In 1835, they purchased property on North Street from abolitionist businessmen William Hamilton Merritt and Oliver Phelps to build a new AMEC. This church would be the second in St. Catharines and it would hold about 70 members.In 1837, the St. Catharines group sent a petition to the AMEC New York Conference asking for pastoral care and to be received into the AMEC Connection. As a result of this action, AMEC missionaries stationed in Upper Canada were instructed to "regulate the existing Societies, organize more in other regions and also communicate that they shall be subject to the order of the Bishops, and amendable to the Annual Conference of the New York District." One year later, the New York AMEC Conference organized a church in St. Catharines with forty members and two local preachers. The church was named Bethel Chapel.In less than a generation this Methodist group would out grow the second church. The Black community inSt. Catharines began to increase immediately after the US Congress passed the 1850 Fugitive Slave Act. Thousands of free and escaped African Americans living in the Northern States moved to various parts of Canada West to secure their safety and freedom. The new fugitive slave laws also caused thousands of fleeing enslaved African Americans to settle in Canada.In order to accommodate the influx of new comers, the AMEC congregation in St. Catharines decided to build a larger church. Resident freedom seekers began to construct the third church in October 1853. On November 4, 1855 the new AMEC was opened and publicly "dedicated to the Service of Almighty God" by Bishop Daniel Alexander Payne. In less than one year (September 1856), most of the Canadian AME Churches would separate from the AMEC Conference in the US and establish the British Methodist Episcopal Church (BMEC). This was partly due to the 1850 Fugitive Slave Act. Most of the AME Church members in Canada refused to attend Conference in the US because of the fugitive slave laws. They also wanted to identify themselves more closely with the country that granted them their freedom and equal rights.  As a Methodist meeting house, from its early beginnings the AMEC in St. Catharines hosted anti-slavery lectures, civic protests and provided shelter and aid to the newly arrived freedom seekers until the end of the Civil War.  The National Underground Railroad Network to Freedom Program announces new listingsa...

Episode 157 - Behind the Scenes of The Dad Space Podcast - Are You Curious About This ShowHappy December Dads! I take you behind the scenes of Dad Space, share a little about who listens to this show, and I thank all of you for listening!A question for you - outside of the podcast, what can we do to build the Dad Space Community? Any Suggestions?Head over to Dad Space and let me know!Thanks for listeningDave___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 156 - Reflecting on Movember - Grow a Mo, Save a Bro - The Story and Impact of MovemberMovember: Changing the Face of Men's HealthEvery November, a global phenomenon emerges as men worldwide grow moustaches for a cause. This is Movember, a campaign that has revolutionized awareness and support for men's health issues, particularly prostate cancer, testicular cancer, and mental health challenges.The Mo-vement BeginsIn 2003, a group of 30 friends in Melbourne, Australia, sparked a revolution with a simple dare: grow a moustache for 30 days. This playful challenge quickly evolved into a powerful campaign for men's health awareness. Today, Movember has spread to over 20 countries, engaging millions of participants.Why Movember MattersMen's health often takes a backseat, with societal norms discouraging open discussions about health issues. Movember breaks these barriers, advocating for:Early detection and diagnosis of male-specific cancersEffective treatments for prostate and testicular cancerMental health support and suicide preventionMaking an ImpactSince its inception, Movember has:Funded over 1,250 men's health projects globallyRaised millions for research and support servicesChanged perceptions about men's healthEncouraged open dialogue and reduced stigmaHow to Get InvolvedGrow a Mo: Start November clean-shaven and grow your moustache all monthMove for Movember: Run or walk 60 miles over the monthHost an event: Organize a fundraiser or awareness eventMo Your Own Way: Create your own Movember challengeWhether you're growing a moustache, organizing an event, or simply spreading the word, every action contributes to improving men's health outcomes and encouraging healthier, longer lives.Join the movement and be part of the change. Visit Movember.com to learn more about how you can participate, donate, and help reshape the landscape of men's health.https://movember.com/___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 155 - Books for Dads - A Father's Story by Lionel Dahmer, Are You Guilty of Your Child's Choices?"A Father's Story" by Lionel Dahmer details the harrowing experience of Lionel as he grapples with the shocking revelations about his son, Jeffrey Dahmer, who became infamous as a serial killer. The narrative is not just a recounting of Jeffrey's crimes, but a deep exploration of Lionel's feelings of sorrow, guilt, and confusion as he reflects on his role as a father. Throughout the book, Lionel acknowledges his failures in communication and connection with Jeffrey, which he believes contributed to his son's tragic path. He shares insights into the psychological aspects of their relationship, the challenges of parenting a troubled child, and the societal perceptions that followed Jeffrey's arrest. Ultimately, Lionel's memoir serves as both a personal catharsis and a poignant reminder of the complexities of fatherhood.Key TakeawaysThe Complexity of Fatherhood: Lionel's story illustrates that fatherhood is fraught with challenges, particularly when faced with a child's troubling behavior. It emphasizes the importance of open communication and connection between parents and children.Reflection and Responsibility: The narrative encourages fathers to reflect on their parenting styles and recognize how their actions (or inactions) can impact their children's lives. Lionel's journey reveals that acknowledging one's shortcomings is vital for personal growth.The Importance of Support Systems: Lionel recognizes that external support—whether from friends, family, or professional help—is crucial in addressing serious issues within a family. This underscores the need for fathers to seek help when navigating difficult situations.Navigating Shame and Stigma: The book addresses the stigma associated with having a criminal child and how it affects familial relationships. It highlights the emotional toll this can take on parents, urging them to find ways to cope with public scrutiny while maintaining their dignity.https://a.co/d/4bhwbYh___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 154 - Books For Dads - Girl Dad - Navigating Fatherhood With Daughters by David Hall"Girl Dad: Navigating Fatherhood With Daughters" by David Hall is a comprehensive guide for fathers raising daughters. Here's a summary review of the book:OverviewThis book serves as an essential resource for fathers looking to build strong, meaningful relationships with their daughters. It goes beyond typical parenting advice, offering insights into the unique dynamics of father-daughter bonds and providing practical strategies for navigating various stages of a daughter's life.Key StrengthsComprehensive Coverage: The book addresses a wide range of topics, from early childhood to adolescence and beyond, giving fathers a holistic view of their role throughout their daughter's development4.Practical Advice: Hall offers actionable tips and strategies for everyday situations, making the book immediately applicable to real-life parenting challengesEmotional Intelligence Focus: The guide emphasizes understanding and navigating the emotional landscape of daughters, helping fathers foster emotional intelligence and strong communicationAdaptability: It provides insights on how the father-daughter relationship evolves over time, preparing dads for changing dynamics as their daughters growEmpowerment Strategies: The book includes advice on building self-esteem and confidence in daughters, empowering them to pursue their goalsBalanced PerspectiveWhile the book offers valuable insights specific to raising daughters, it also acknowledges that many parenting principles apply regardless of gender, especially in early childhood. However, it does highlight the unique considerations that come into play during puberty and adolescence4.Additional FeaturesThe book includes a helpful reference section at the end, providing fathers with additional resources for further learning"Girl Dad" is generally well-received as a valuable resource for fathers navigating the challenges and joys of raising daughters. It offers a mix of psychological insights, practical advice, and strategies for fostering strong father-daughter relationships. While it may contain some basic advice, its comprehensive approach and focus on emotional intelligence make it a worthwhile read for many fathers, both new and experienced.https://a.co/d/fvHF9MF___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 153 - A Thought For Dads - I Am Not an Option, Embracing My ValueI will never beg anyone to choose me. If you think there’s something better out there, then go. I won’t hold you back. Life is too short to keep someone who is unsure, who wavers like the wind. I believe in the freedom that comes from being true to one’s heart. If you stay, it will be because your heart commands it—not because I asked or because you have nowhere else to go.I am not an option, nor am I a convenience. I am a choice, and I demand that whoever stays by my side chooses me for who I am, not for who you wish I could be. The door is always open.You are free to leave, but remember this: once that door closes, it stays shut. I don’t offer second chances because I value what I have to give. If you can’t see that now, someone else will.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 152 - A Thought For Dads - The Villain's Perspective - Understanding My JourneyIf I'm being honest, truly honest with myself, I'm tired. Not the kind of tired that sleep can cure. No, this is deep. This is the kind of tired that weighs on your soul. I'm so tired of going through the same struggles, tired of trying and nothing working out.I've given it everything I've got. But here I am, drained. It's not about wanting to die. It's not that. But if the gods were sitting right across from me, I'd look them in the eye and say, "I'm done. I've had enough. I can't carry this burden anymore." But then I remind myself:I've felt this way before, and I'm still here. I've been broken, I've been tired, I've been shattered. And somehow, I keep going. So maybe, just maybe, there's still some fight left in me. Maybe that's why I'm still standing.If someone from my past, or even my present, tells you a tale about me, one that casts me as the villain, believe them.Go on. But before you do, ask yourself this: What did they do to push me that far? I know I'm the villain in some people's stories, and that doesn't bother me.People have a way of twisting the truth or starting the story when it suits them, when I become the villain. But they forget what led to that moment. I don't wake up and decide to harm anyone. But if you betray me, if you cross me, I won't come after you with revenge.I don't need to. You'll lose access to me. That is punishment enough. If that makes me the villain in your eyes, so be it. I stand where I stand. I make no apologies.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 151 - A Thought For Dads - The Power of Your Words, Stop Being A JokeNever speak bad words to yourself, not even in jest. Your mind and body don't know the difference between what is real and what you only think. Words have power, and this world is built on power. If you want to change your fate, then change the way you speak to yourself.The words you whisper and the thoughts you carry shape your destiny. If you fill your mind with weakness, you will crumble. But if you speak with strength, if you fill yourself with fire, the world will bend to your will. It's a simple truth: you control your words, you control your fate.When you master that, you can conquer your life.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 150 - What Eddie Van Halen and His Guitar Has Taught Me About ParentingThe comparison between guitar players and parenting highlights a common psychological response to perceived inadequacy:Guitar Players:Positive response: Use the better player as inspiration to improve.Negative response: Give up due to feeling overwhelmed by the skill gap.Parenting:Positive response: Learn from experienced parents and strive to improve.Negative response: Abandon efforts or avoid parenting altogether due to feeling inadequate.In both scenarios, the negative response stems from a fixed mindset, where individuals believe their abilities are static and unchangeable. This leads to avoiding challenges and giving up easily.The key lesson is that both guitar playing and parenting are skills that can be developed with practice, patience, and persistence. Just as a novice guitarist can improve through dedication, a new or prospective father can learn and grow into the role of a good dad.The challenge is to shift from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset, recognizing that abilities can be developed over time. This approach encourages embracing challenges, learning from others, and persevering in the face of setbacks, ultimately leading to personal growth and success in both guitar playing and parenting.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 149 - A Thought For Dads - A Father's Dreams, A Child's JourneyThe day you bury your father, it strikes you like a blade to the heart. You've lost the one man who truly wanted you to rise higher than he ever did. The man who silently prayed for your victories, even when you were too blind to see.In the silence, you feel the weight of his hopes, his strength. It wasn't just his own; it was yours, forged in the belief that you could be more than him. And now, with him gone, you realize he was the reason you stood so strong all along.But now, the weight is yours to carry. His hopes don't die with him; they live in you. The time for looking up to him has passed. Now, it's time for others to look up to you, to rise and become what he always knew you could be.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270

Episode 148 - A Thought For Dads - The Beautiful Chaos of MarriageIf your husband isn’t the most annoying person in your life, can he even be considered your husband? Think about it. If he doesn’t drive you mad at least once a day, can you truly call it a marriage? A real husband knows how to push your buttons better than anyone else.He leaves his socks everywhere, you end up taking out the trash, and he snores like a wild beast. But that’s part of the deal, isn’t it? Those little annoyances are proof that he’s comfortable with you—no pretense, just his true, annoying self.And that’s where the love lies. The man who makes you want to scream is also the one who makes you laugh until your sides hurt. Without the madness, it’s not real. It’s in the chaos, the mess, and the everyday frustrations that you find genuine love.___https://dadspace.camusic provided by Blue Dot SessionsSong: The Big Ten https://app.sessions.blue/browse/track/258270