Today we're exploring a topic that's especially relevant during the holiday season: Making New Friends. In this episode, I'm joined by my friend Nick. We'll talk about the challenges and rewards of building new friendships, the importance of vulnerability, and how investing in relationships can enrich your life. Along the way, you'll hear personal stories from Nick and I, gain practical tips, and hopefully find inspiration to strengthen your own connections. Whether you're feeling the holiday loneliness or just wanting to expand your social circle, this episode is packed with insights to help you take action. So, tune in and let's explore how making new friends can truly transform your mental health and life journey!00:33 The Importance of Making New Friends01:33 Introducing Special Guest Nick03:10 Nick's Background and Professional Journey04:52 The Transition from Work to Personal Connections08:37 Challenges and Successes in Building Relationships12:39 The Power of Vulnerability25:05 Tools and Resources for Building Connections29:05 The Power of Sharing Goals with Friends29:52 Overcoming Anxiety in Building Connections33:14 The Impact of Vulnerability in Professional and Personal Life38:33 Handling Rejection and Building Resilience42:55 The Importance of Deep Connections49:10 Final Thoughts and EncouragementBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:How to Organize Your Thoughts (Episode 56)17 Ways Adults Can Make New Friends50 Relationship Building Questions (blog)Contact Nick: NBertram2@outlook.comIf you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Today I'm excited to dive into the topic of making new friends and rekindling old ones. Drawing from my 25 years as a coach, family therapist, and mental health professional, I'll share my personal experiences and offer actionable steps to strengthen your social connections. We'll discuss the importance of being vulnerable, letting go of control, and facing your fears to improve your mental health and overall quality of life. From practical tips to heartfelt stories, this episode is designed to inspire you to take concrete actions towards building meaningful relationships. Whether you're feeling lonely or looking to enhance your existing friendships, join me as we explore how genuine connections can boost resilience, provide new perspectives, and help you achieve your personal goals. Let's make this holiday season a time for connection and growth!00:00 Introduction and Personal Story02:28 The Importance of Friendships03:32 Taking Action to Build Friendships05:30 Benefits of Friendships08:48 Practical Tips for Making Friends12:20 Engaging with Diverse Age Groups14:39 Accountability and Reaching Goals22:10 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:17 Ways Adults Can Make New FriendsIf you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Today we are going to get excited about your future. Over the years, I've faced my own fears and realized how vital it is to confront what holds us back if we want to live our legacy. In this episode, we explore how to overcome self-sabotage and addictive behaviors, and why having a clear vision for your future can transform your mental health and overall life satisfaction. We will discuss common myths about goal-setting and cover actionable steps to help you visualize and achieve your dreams. By the end, I hope you'll feel inspired and equipped to create a compelling vision for your life and take the steps to make it a reality. Let's get started on this journey together!01:17 Overcoming Fear and Self-Sabotage02:29 The Importance of Vision03:21 Facing Personal Fears05:15 Identifying Areas of Stagnation06:20 Benefits of a Big Future Vision11:48 Common Lies About Vision16:41 Creating and Visualizing Your Vision29:34 Conclusion and Next StepsBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Welcome to the Decide Your Legacy podcast! Today we're doing something a bit special. I’m diving into a live coaching session with Bryan, who’s facing some common but tough parenting challenges. Bryan’s got a 12-year-old son, and like many of us, he’s worried about how to prepare him for the real world. We'll talk about everything from overcoming fears, dealing with insecurities, and the importance of being vulnerable with our kids. We’ll even touch on how these same strategies can amp up your professional life. You’ll get a real sneak peek into what happens in a coaching session and see firsthand how powerful these conversations can be. Stick around for some great insights and practical tips you can use in your own life. Let’s jump in!00:45 Live Coaching Session Setup02:31 Bryan's Parenting Concerns06:14 Defining Success and Core Issues13:36 Exploring Confidence and Vulnerability20:20 Insights and Takeaways22:50 Reflecting on Past Mistakes23:42 Building Trust Through Vulnerability24:16 Commitment to Personal Growth24:35 Sharing Personal Stories28:13 Overcoming Limiting Mindsets30:18 Entrepreneurial Confidence37:20 Creating a Healthier Perspective39:44 Applying Coaching Insights41:21 Closing Thoughts and Future PlansBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Today we are going back to one of my favorite topics: overcoming fears. You’ll hear my personal experiences and struggles with fear, including a recent skydiving adventure. We discuss common social fears such as fear of failure, judgment, and rejection, and offer actionable steps to face and conquer these fears. We will also consider the damaging effects of avoiding fears and how it impacts our relationships and creativity. Join us as we motivate each other to take action and live lives free from fear's limitations.00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Fears01:31 Personal Experiences with Fear02:06 Facing Fears: Skydiving Story03:27 Common Fears and Social Anxiety04:56 Taking Action Against Fear05:55 Four Facts About Fear08:03 Damages of Not Facing Your Fears15:30 Building Stronger Relationships18:06 Shatterproof Yourself Course24:35 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
How much do you like yourself? On today’s episode, I’m sharing essential strategies for building self-esteem and self-respect. We'll discuss the importance of facing fears, taking 100% ownership of your life, and maintaining consistent self-care. Discover actionable steps to align your actions with your values, enhance your relationships, and live a life of integrity and fulfillment. Inspired by my 'Shatterproof Yourself' course, this episode is packed with insights to improve your self-perception and mental health, empowering you to take proactive steps toward a brighter future. Join me on this transformative journey and remember, you have the power to decide your legacy!00:00 Introduction and Host Background01:09 Personal Struggles and Self-Care02:16 The Importance of Liking Yourself03:02 Facing Fears and Taking Risks03:45 Identifying Areas for Improvement04:28 Personal Story of Struggle and Growth06:44 Building Self-Esteem and Confidence08:57 Showing Up for Yourself12:27 Making and Keeping Commitments16:16 Taking Ownership of Your Life17:11 The Problem of Being Owned by Your Phone17:57 Ownership and Leadership19:59 The Elephant and the Rider: Understanding Your Brain22:41 Creating a Vision for Your Future24:44 Be Yourself: Embracing Your True Colors30:23 Applying What You've LearnedBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Today we're examining why you want to change your mindset to foster personal growth and freedom. I've faced my own battles with fear and anxiety and learned the power of shifting one's mindset. In this episode, I'll share three compelling reasons to focus on changing your mindset, especially when you're stuck in negativity. We'll explore practical techniques, like expanding your time horizon, to help you face your fears more effectively. We’ll also discuss how adopting a flexible mindset opens up new opportunities, enhances personal freedom, and helps you distinguish truth from fear-driven lies. This isn't just about listening—it's about taking action. So, join me as we explore how a mindset shift can transform your life. Don't forget to check out the free course 'Shatterproof Yourself' for more actionable insights!00:00 Introduction to Changing Your Mindset01:24 Personal Struggles and Overcoming Fear03:07 Expanding Your Time Horizon05:07 Facing Fears and Taking Action06:42 Fixed vs. Flexible Mindsets09:54 Sales Tactics and Mindset13:59 Seeing Opportunities and Staying Positive19:52 Truth Over Lies: Overcoming Fear26:30 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:Every 15 Minutes Counts (Episode #131)The Impact of Great Questions (Episode #132)If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Today we get into the transformative power of asking great questions. As someone who's battled a lifelong fear of rejection and anxiety, we’ll discuss how curiosity and meaningful inquiries have shaped my journey as a coach and therapist. There is great value in stepping outside your comfort zone, engaging with others, and building connections through open-ended questions. Learn how these questioning techniques not only reduce stress and anxiety but also provide transformational clarity and strengthen relationships in both personal and professional settings. Join me and discover how asking the right questions can be a game-changer for you.00:00 Introduction to the Podcast01:25 Personal Struggles and Inspirations02:21 The Power of Asking Questions04:04 Benefits of Asking Great Questions07:25 Practical Applications and Examples09:54 Transformational Clarity Through Questions13:27 Connecting Through Questions18:15 Final Thoughts and Call to ActionBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:Every 15 Minutes Counts (Episode #131)If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Today we are going to cover the importance of making every 15 minutes count in our lives. We will discuss struggles with distraction and explore how small increments of time can lead to significant transformations. I explain how using 15-minute blocks productively can help in various life areas such as mental health, relationships, career, and personal growth. We explore how to identify and make better use of wasted time and I share a personal story about facing fears by playing frisbee golf. Tune in to learn actionable steps to improve your life in small, manageable chunks and check out our 'Shatterproof Yourself Lite' app for additional resources.00:00 Introduction to Episode 13101:34 The Importance of Every 15 Minutes01:56 Facing Fears and Taking Action03:49 Transformations Happen Quickly07:03 Breaking Down Goals into 15-Minute Increments13:49 Balancing Life with 15-Minute Investments16:30 Summary and Final ThoughtsBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:“Turning Life’s Obstacles into Opportunities” (Episode 129)If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, I’m going to tell you exactly why I don't like 'old people.' Now, I'm not talking about age; I'm talking about a mindset that refuses to grow, challenge itself, and embrace new experiences. I'll share my personal journey, including a recent skiing trip that tested my fears, and explain how the DCG (Decide, Courage, Grow) model can help you stay young at heart. We'll explore the negative effects of an 'old' mindset on anxiety, physical health, and missed opportunities. Join me as I urge you to stay proactive, embrace new opportunities, and sustain a youthful, adventurous attitude for a more fulfilling life.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:56 Personal Struggles and Overcoming Fear02:58 The Concept of a 'Young' Mindset04:08 The DCG Model Explained05:53 Applying the Young Mindset in Life07:58 The Physical and Mental Benefits of Staying Young13:01 Real-Life Examples and Personal Stories22:48 Summary and Final ThoughtsBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:“Turning Life’s Obstacles into Opportunities” (Episode 129)If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, I’m opening up about some tough times I've been through. My business fell apart, I went through a divorce, and had to rebuild from scratch. I share how I turned these big challenges into opportunities to grow and find success again. I'll also talk about the experiences of some of my clients who have faced their own hurdles. This episode is all about shifting your mindset to tackle life's obstacles head-on and turn them into something positive. Tune in for some real talk and practical advice!00:00 Introduction and Personal Story02:16 Rebuilding Trust and Business04:00 Facing Uncomfortable Challenges05:29 Transforming Obstacles into Opportunities09:49 Client Success Stories15:52 Energizing Your Future20:49 Focus and Control22:06 Conclusion and Call to ActionBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
In the second part of our series on Relationship Building Actions, hosts Adam Gragg and Brent Coppock dives into practical strategies for enhancing relationships. We discuss the five love languages, emphasizing their importance and offering examples like walking and hiking to integrate these languages. Brent shares personal anecdotes, including a challenging hike with his family that ended in a memorable experience, to highlight the benefits of doing hard things. Then we talk about the significance of taking proactive steps, such as scheduling activities and creating 'if-then' plans, to build stronger connections. Our conversation concludes with actionable advice on facing fears and maintaining commitment to relational goals.00:00 Introduction to Relationship Building Actions01:01 Exploring the Five Love Languages01:58 The Power of Walking Together03:21 Hiking Adventures and Family Bonding07:06 Facing Resistance and Setting Goals09:12 Creating If-Then Plans for Success10:26 Introducing Shatterproof Yourself Lite11:43 The Importance of Doing the Hard Things18:30 Scheduling and Accountability24:31 Conclusion and Call to ActionBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:Email Brent (brent@axiomcounseling.com)If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Today we are welcoming Brent Coppock, a licensed professional counselor, for an engaging discussion about actions that build strong and healthy relationships. Brent and I explore the significance of taking intentional steps in relationship building, sharing personal stories and professional insights. They cover essential elements such as creating a safe environment, the importance of going first in relationships, and practical strategies like understanding love languages. This insightful conversation is aimed at helping listeners cultivate more fulfilling and resilient relationships in both personal and professional settings.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:57 A Memorable Hiking Experience02:12 Introducing Brent Coppock02:37 Brent's Family and Career Journey05:11 Facing Fears and Making Big Decisions08:58 Building Trust and Safety in Relationships20:19 Building Trust Early in Therapy20:29 Creating a Safe Environment21:04 Personal Reflections on Professional Challenges21:42 The Importance of Safe People22:56 Changing Mindsets and Overcoming Fears27:22 The Power of Going First in Relationships32:55 Practical Tips for Relationship Building33:10 The Five Love Languages37:07 Conclusion and Call to ActionBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:Wisdom From My Dad (Episode 120)If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Today we’re diving into some surprising truths about self care. I share my personal journey of overcoming a major sleep issue and anxiety, and how I realized that my self-focused mindset was holding me back. Inspired by a powerful sermon from Craig Groeschel, I discuss the importance of thinking less about yourself, thinking more about others, and shifting your perspective for better mental and physical health. I challenge you to take actionable steps that might feel uncomfortable but are crucial for your growth. Join me as we navigate these surprising insights and work towards living the legacy we want to leave.00:00 My Journey Through a Major Sleep Issue00:46 The Big Mistake: Making Life All About Me01:57 Introduction to the Podcast and Episode Overview03:17 Facing Fears and Seeking Advice04:04 The Surprising Truths About Self Care06:51 The Importance of Thinking Less About Yourself11:47 Shifting Focus: Thinking More of Others16:34 Shifting Perspectives for Better Self Care23:26 Summary and Final ThoughtsBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your FearsHow to Face Your Biggest Fears (Episode 125)When Self-Love is Selfish Life Church sermonIf you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we delve into practical strategies for confronting and overcoming your biggest fears. Drawing from my personal experiences, like tackling my fear of flying and challenging myself in a paddleboard yoga class, I outline three essential steps: counting the cost of avoidance, recognizing the opportunities and growth in facing fears, and leveraging your strengths to tackle daunting tasks. I emphasize the importance of action over insight and encourage you to identify and address the fears that hinder your personal and professional development. Tune in to learn these transformative truths and start living a courageous life.00:00 Introduction to Facing Your Fears01:00 Personal Stories and Inspirations01:25 The Importance of Facing Your Fears02:32 Identifying and Addressing Your Fears04:25 Counting the Cost of Avoidance08:46 Seeing the Potential Gains15:19 Tapping into Your Strengths20:11 Conclusion and Call to ActionBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your FearsStepping Into Courage (Episode 124)If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
In today’s episode, we discuss the importance of facing fears, based on my own experiences including a risky cab ride in Montreal. Throughout the episode, I explore seven unexpected benefits of confronting fears: reduced anxiety, a smaller ego, increased creativity, improved relationships, access to new opportunities, better health, and enhanced confidence. I challenge you to take noteworthy action by identifying and tackling small, uncomfortable tasks to build momentum for bigger challenges. Join me as I provide insights and practical steps to help you courageously face your fears.00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles01:36 Podcast Overview and Host Introduction02:36 Facing Fears: The Concept and Its Importance02:59 Personal Story: Montreal Trip04:09 Action Steps: Embracing Discomfort05:07 Core Values and Book Recommendation06:07 Unexpected Benefits of Facing Fears06:20 Benefit 1: Decreased Anxiety07:55 Benefit 2: Shrinking Ego10:20 Benefit 3: Increased Creativity11:59 Mid-Episode Call to Action13:10 Benefit 4: Improved Relationships16:15 Benefit 5: New Opportunities18:43 Benefit 6: Better Health21:17 Benefit 7: Boosted Confidence23:53 Conclusion and Next StepsBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:7 Unexpected Benefits to Facing Your FearsIf you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
In today’s episode, we dive deep into the pervasive issue of distraction and its impact on our lives. I start by sharing my own struggles with distraction and how I often fall victim to addictive algorithms. I discuss the importance of taking ownership of our attention and share advice from strangers on minimizing distractions. We explore the three pillars of focus: managing emotions, creating productive environments, and building meaningful connections. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, I guide you on how to take actionable steps to improve your focus and productivity. Join me as we learn how to overcome distractions, face our fears, and live a more intentional life.00:00 Introduction: The Battle with Distraction01:28 Admitting the Problem: Recognizing Addiction01:51 Welcome to the Podcast: You Own Your Attention02:47 Facing Fears: The Key to Mental Health03:15 Advice from Strangers: Overcoming Distraction06:07 Taking Ownership: Emotions, Environment, and Connections06:26 Emotional Connections: The First Pillar11:44 Creating Focused Environments: The Second Pillar16:27 Building Relationships: The Third Pillar20:11 Conclusion: Taking Back Your AttentionBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:Mistral by Stephan MoccioYou Own Your Attention - Part 1If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Today we are going to spend some intentional time on the critical topic of owning your attention amidst a world full of distractions. I share my personal struggle with getting sucked into my phone and how it can derail an entire day. Today, we outline three key strategies to reclaim focus: starting your day right, ending your day right, and stopping the spiral of distraction by facing underlying fears. I offer practical actions and routines that have worked for me and challenge you to create your own. Your attention is priceless, and taking control of it can transform your life. Join me as we explore the steps to live intentionally and face our biggest fears.00:00 Introduction: The Struggle with Distraction01:22 Owning Your Attention01:29 Meet Your Host: Adam Gragg01:57 Real-Life Distractions: A Coffee Shop Experiment03:08 The Value of Your Attention04:28 Three Keys to Owning Your Attention04:54 Key 1: Start Your Day Off Right10:59 Key 2: End Your Day Right18:32 Key 3: Stop the Spiral of Fear22:20 Conclusion: Take Action and Own Your AttentionBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, we delve into the crucial topic of avoiding the negative impact of toxic people in your life. I discuss three essential truths that you need to understand: recognizing your own toxic behaviors, identifying toxicity in others, and owning your attention as your property. Drawing from my 25 years of experience as a mental health professional, I'll guide you through actionable steps for setting boundaries, managing your attention, and taking charge of your personal growth. Learn how to face your fears, stay growth-oriented, and prevent yourself from being dragged down by others' negativity. Join me, Adam Gragg, and let’s work together to transform your life and safeguard your mental well-being.00:51 Understanding Toxic People02:47 Personal Experiences and Uncomfortable Actions05:40 Recognizing Toxic Traits in Yourself10:33 Identifying Toxic Traits in Others18:48 Managing Your Attention28:44 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Welcome to episode 120 of the Decide Your Legacy podcast! Today, we're diving deep into the topics of facing fear and asking for what you want. Joined by my special guest and father, Eric Gragg, we'll explore how addiction and fear can act as major roadblocks in life. We'll break down the fear of rejection and offer three powerful tools to help you ask for what you want: cultivating courage, maintaining a positive attitude, and staying organized. Eric shares his invaluable experiences from his prolific career in sales and commercial real estate, revealing how his effective cold calling techniques and strong relationship-building skills led to his success. We'll uncover actionable insights that you can apply immediately to your life, business, and relationships. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with personal stories, practical advice, and tools to help you overcome your own fears and move forward.00:00 Understanding Addiction and Fear01:21 Introducing the Special Guest: My Dad01:27 The Fear of Rejection01:47 Tools to Ask for What You Want02:19 Personal Story: Facing My Fears03:24 Meet the Host: Adam Gragg04:08 Reflecting on Personal Fears04:49 Sales and Marketing Strategies05:50 Interview with My Dad: Early Life and Career06:25 First Jobs and Early Sales Experiences08:42 Challenges and Adversities22:26 Transition to Commercial Real Estate24:10 Dealing with Rejection in Sales30:23 Mindset and Attitude for Success31:35 Identifying and Solving Client Needs33:24 Overcoming Challenges in Real Estate34:55 Building Confidence and Effective Cold Calling48:32 Staying Healthy and Organized for Success01:01:04 Final Thoughts and Key TakeawaysBe sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgraggResources:If you found this information helpful, SUBSCRIBE TODAY and you’ll receive our Free Video & Workbook Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health. Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam’s life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He’s ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. if you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice. Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!