Fighting Rape Culture

“Big boys don’t cry.” What if that’s where the harm begins? In a world flooded with toxic influencers and confusingmessages about what it means to “be a man,” Lewis Weblock is doing something different.He’s bringing honest, compassionate, and critical conversations about masculinity into classrooms—working with young people of all genders and the educators who guide them.In this episode, we explore: 🔹 Why the “manosphere” speaks to so many young men🔹 How to build safer spaces without shame or blame🔹 The power of compassion and accountability intransforming culture🔹 How race, class, and mental health shape masculinity inschool settingsWant to know more?-       More info on Lewis’ work: https://www.lewiswedlock.com/ -       His new book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Masculinities-Schools-Lewis-Wedlock-ebook/dp/B0F54BCBZJ?ref_=ast_author_mpb   Additional resources and bibliography areavailable at: ⁠⁠https://www.fightingrapeculture.com/podcast⁠⁠Social Media: @FightingRapeCulture (on IG, FB &LinkedIn)Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related tosexual and gender-based violence. Listener discretion is advised.Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only.Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy

Porn has become the world’s de facto sex educator—and it’s failing us. What happens when we replace awkward silence with honest conversations about real-world intimacy? In this episode, Cindy Gallop, founder of MakeLoveNotPorn, takes us through her sixteen-year journey building the first human curated social sex video platform. From her viral TED talk to the challenges of funding an adult-friendly startup, Cindy reveals how MLNP is destigmatizing sex, promoting consent, and modeling healthy communication—one user-generated video at a time.Discover:- Why open dialogue is the antidote to pornography as sex ed- How MLNP’s unparalleled curation process keeps contributors safe- The surprising healing power of shared sexual agency for survivors- Cindy’s bold vision for MakeLoveNotPorn.Academy, acurated, age-appropriate sex education hubThis conversation isn’t just about adult video—it’s about reclaiming intimacy, ending rape culture, and building a healthier digital future. Tune in and join the movement to make love, not porn. Want to know more? Take a look at www.makelovenotporn.com and be sure to donate to https://givebutter.com/InspireAccessxMLNP to ensure that MakeLoveNotPorn Academy (www.makelovenotporn.academy/) - the new sex education aggregator platform -can come to live! Additional resources and bibliography are available at: ⁠⁠https://www.fightingrapeculture.com/podcast⁠⁠Social Media:@FightingRapeCulture (on IG, FB & LinkedIn)Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related to sexual and gender-based violence. Listener discretion is advised.Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only.Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy

Deepfake pornography. Gendered disinformation. Women leaving politics after relentless online abuse. How did we get here—and more importantly, how do we fight back? In this episode, Marie Lamensch, co-founder of the Montreal Institute for Global Security unpacks the growing crisis of online gendered violence and how social media, artificial intelligence, and digital platforms are being weaponized against women. From the hidden biases in AI to the rise of deepfake technology and the erosion of online safety, she sheds light on the alarming reality of digital misogyny. Discover how social media algorithms amplify hate, how online abuse spills into real life, and why governments, tech companies, and individuals must step up to reclaim digital spaces.This conversation isn’t just about the problem—it’s about finding solutions. Tune in and join the movement for a safer, more equitable online world. Want to know more? Take a look at-       the Montreal’s Institute for Global Security-       She Persisted: https://she-persisted.org-       Les3Sex: https://les3sex.com/ Additional resources and bibliography are available at: ⁠⁠https://www.fightingrapeculture.com/podcast⁠⁠Social Media:@FightingRapeCulture (on IG, FB & LinkedIn)Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related to sexual and gender-based violence as well as self-harm and suicide (including of and by children). Listener discretion is advised.Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only.Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy

Children facing judges for sexting and bullying. Children taking their own lives after intimate pictures are shared online. How did we get here—and more importantly, how do we fix this?   In this episode, Professor Shaheen Shariff takes us on a deep dive into her groundbreaking research and advocacy work. From tackling the complex challenges of cyberbullying and sexting to building sustainable education programs on sexual violence prevention, she explores how law, education, and art intersect to address both online and offline violence.   Discover the global ripple effects of societal polarization and how schools and universities can become powerful drivers of change, fostering a culture of inclusion and respect.   This conversation isn’t just about understanding the problem—it’s about finding actionable solutions. Tune in and join the movement for a safer, more compassionate world.   Want to know more?   Take a look at Professor Shaheen Sharriff’s projects: -       Define the Line: https://www.mcgill.ca/definetheline/ -       iMPACTS: https://www.mcgill.ca/definetheline/impacts -       Available resources: https://www.mcgill.ca/definetheline/resources -       Her books: https://www.goodreads.com/author/list/2979394.Shaheen_Shariff   Additional resources and bibliography are available at: ⁠https://www.fightingrapeculture.com/podcast⁠Social Media:@FightingRapeCulture (on IG, FB & LinkedIn)Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related to sexual and gender-based violence as well as self-harm and suicide (including of and by children). Listener discretion is advised.Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only.Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy

Think patriarchy is just about outdated traditions? Think again! In this episode, we dive deep into how patriarchy underpins sexual violence, exploring concepts like benevolent and hostile sexism, and the violence pyramid.With Annalisa Casini, professor at UCLouvain and expert in social psychology and gender issues, as our guide, we’ll uncover how seemingly “harmless” forms of sexism build the foundation for a culture where violence thrives—and what we can do to challenge it.Tune in to gain a fresh perspective on the systemic roots of rape culture and how dismantling patriarchal norms is essential to creating a safer world for everyone.As always, stick around for actions you can take at the end of the episode. Let’s make change happen!Enjoy the episode!Want to know more? Annalisa Casini's research: https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Annalisa-Casini Author mentioned during the episode: Liv Strömquist Additional resources and bibliography are available at: ⁠https://www.fightingrapeculture.com/podcast⁠Social Media:@FightingRapeCulture (on IG, FB & LinkedIn)Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related to sexual and gender-based violence. Listener discretion is advised.Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only.Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy

In this uplifting continuation of our two-part series, we delve into holistic and creative ways to support your healing journey from sexual abuse. From the grounding power of meditation and breathwork to the soothing benefits of essential oils, singing, and even a weighted blanket, this episode explores tools that nurture your body, mind, and soul. Whether you're looking to reconnect with your body through movement, find peace in mindful practices, or create moments of joy and self-care, this episode offers a diverse range of empowering techniques to deepen your healing. Tune in for a compassionate conversation designed to inspire and guide you toward greater resilience and well-being. Resources mentioned in this episode: - Breath work app: Respirelax + - Meditation apps: Balance & Insight Timer - Daily practice: https://courses.crappychildhoodfairy.com/daily-practice Additional resources and bibliography are available at: ⁠⁠https://www.fightingrapeculture.com/podcast⁠⁠ Social Media: @FightingRapeCulture (on IG, FB & LinkedIn) Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related to sexual and gender-based violence. Listener discretion is advised. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy

In this powerful episode, we explore 10 transformative ways to heal from the trauma of sexual abuse. Whether you're just beginning your healing journey or seeking deeper emotional restoration, this episode offers a practical sexual abuse toolkit to support you or your loved ones. This is the 1st of a two-part series on healing from sexual abuse. We’ll discuss the basic steps to finding peace in your body, and overcoming emotional triggers. Even though it's a long, tumultuous journey, healing is possible, and you deserve it. Tune in for a compassionate and empowering conversation that will help you take meaningful steps toward recovery and self-empowerment. Resources mentioned in this episode: - Sexual Assault Centres: https://sac.belgium.be/ - Kama app - Books: o   Aphrodite Matsakis “The Rape Recovery Handbook” o   Staci Haines “Healing Sex – A mind-body approach to healing sexual trauma” o   Pete Walker: “Complex PTSD – From surviving to thriving” o   Peter Levine: “Waking the tiger – Healing trauma” o   Bessel van der Kolk: “The body keeps the score” Additional resources and bibliography are available at: ⁠https://www.fightingrapeculture.com/podcast⁠ Social Media: @FightingRapeCulture (on IG, FB & LinkedIn) Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related to sexual and gender-based violence. Listener discretion is advised. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy

Think self-defense is just about physical fights? Think again! In this episode, we unveil how feminist self-defense is a game-changer in the battle against rape culture. Learn how empowering women and girls with the tools to assert and protect themselves can be a revolutionary force in preventing sexual and gender-based violence. Tune in and discover the unexpected power of feminist self-defense in creating a safer world for all! As always, you will be asked to take some actions at the end of the episode. Be ready! :) Enjoy the episode! Want to know more? Check out Garance’s: website: https://www.garance.be facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/GaranceAutodefense/about youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Garanceasbl Order the book "Non, c'est non - Petit manuel d'autodéfense à l'usage des femmes qui en ont marre de se faire emmerder sans rien dire": https://www.fr.fnac.be/a2188418/Irene-Zeilinger-Non-c-est-non  Additional resources and bibliography are available at: https://www.fightingrapeculture.com/podcast Social Media: @FightingRapeCulture (on IG, FB & LinkedIn) Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related to sexual and gender-based violence. Listener discretion is advised. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy

"What were you wearing?" "Where you drunk?" "Why didn't you fight back?" Why are survivors of sexual violence often held responsible, whether partially or fully for what happened to them? In this episode, I will be diving into the psychological phenomena and biases which push us to engage in victim blaming. As always, you will be asked to take some actions at the end of the episode. Be ready! :) Enjoy the episode! Want to know more? Additional resources and bibliography are available at: https://www.fightingrapeculture.com/podcast Social Media: @FightingRapeCulture (on IG, FB & LinkedIn) Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related to sexual violence. Listener discretion is advised. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy

What is Rape Culture? What promotes Rape Culture? Why do we call it "a culture"? Isn't it just about the survivor and the perpetrator? In this episode, I will be diving into all these questions, trying to answer them as best as I can to give you a better understanding of Rape Culture. As always, you will be asked to take some actions at the end of the episode. Be ready! :) Enjoy the episode! Resources: - "Not that bad - Dispatches from rape culture" by Roxanne Gay. Want to know more? Go to www.fightingrapeculture.com Social Media: @FightingRapeCulture (on IG, FB & LinkedIn) Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related to sexual violence. Listener discretion is advised. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy

The "Me Too" movement has been incredibly effective in highlighting the widespread prevalence and horrific realities of sexual violence across the globe. The WHO estimates that 1 out of 3 women has suffered from sexual violence. These numbers are way too high. I strongly believe that in order to solve an issue, we need to understand its root causes and then take actions to solve it. I also believe that, as a society, we have both the power to fight against this problem as well as a responsibility to do it. The aim of this podcast will thus be to look at the issue from a variety of different angles and identify opportunities for actions. In this short intro episode, we will discuss what rape culture is and why it is important for all of us to take action to fight against it and create a safe environment for everyone. Enjoy the episode! Want to know more? Go to www.fightingrapeculture.com Trigger Warning: This podcast discusses topics related to sexual violence. Listener discretion is advised. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only. Music: "Summer walk" by Olexy