Send us a text A wild Sydney night out set the scene, but what stayed with us was a question we couldn’t shake: does foreskin really matter? We lean into the laughs and the awkward bits to unpack circumcision with clear eyes—how it began, who still does it, what the science says, and why porn and peer norms skew how we think about “normal” downstairs. Expect personal stories, a few saucy bathroom anecdotes, and a grounded look at consent, care, and culture. We trace the arc from ancient Egyp...
Send us a text Clothes feel strange after four days of sun, rain, and 375 men learning how to be at home in their skin. We headed to Naked Camp expecting a laugh and a few workshops; we came back with calmer nervous systems, new friends, and a sturdier sense of consent and connection. We talk about the nuts and bolts first: a diverse organising committee, space that actually supports mingling, and a crowd that spanned early 20s to 80s. The vibe? Welcoming, curious, and gloriously unclothed. ...
Send us a text Sun, rain, and 385 men later, we walked away from Naked Man Camp with sand in our shoes, sore cheeks from laughing, and a renewed sense of what queer community can feel like. This isn’t just tents and discos. It’s consent-first workshops, big-hearted conversations, and a culture where strangers become chosen family over a weekend. We paint the scene from the ground up: a campsite layout that mixes RVs with swags so money doesn’t map to status, a camp kitchen that doubles as a ...
Send us a text Planning a four-day camp with 300 naked men has a way of clarifying what really matters: safety, consent, laughter, and spaces where queer people can breathe. We’re heading to Naked Man Camp at Wiseman’s Ferry and pulling back the curtain on what the event is actually like—glamping and powered sites, 40 workshops, riverfront downtime, and a welcoming mix of ages and identities. It’s less about shock value and more about genuine community, the kind you can’t swipe into existence...
Send us a text A four-day “quick break” became a full-bodied story about place, Pride, and the people who keep communities alive. We start with a happy accident—booking Maitland instead of Newcastle—and land in a spotless, genuinely pet‑friendly stay where the front desk maps out the best eats and slyly warns us off a chipless kebab. Between pub couches and old-world facades, we stumble into a local art gem, Patricia Van Lubeck, whose surreal trees and whimsical shapes jump off the wall like ...
Send us a text Sunshine, great food, and a cheeky Grinder tone over a loudspeaker set the stage for a bigger conversation: what actually happens to shame when the body is treated as ordinary rather than scandalous? We open with our romp through the Good Food & Wine Show—standout Greek bites, a crush-worthy stop at SOHI Distillery, and the kind of easy banter that only happens when friends gather. A surprise cruise win at Panthers and plans for Newcastle Pride give us momentum, but the hea...
Send us a text We set out to compare gay and straight sex and ended up building a practical, funny field guide to first times, technique, consent, and why culture matters more than labels. Miami returns with big laughs, useful tips, and unfiltered stories that make the awkward feel normal and the normal feel exciting. • guest Miami returns, relaxed and ready to share • first times unpacked, pain vs pleasure, pressure vs pacing • toy hygiene, consent mid‑scene, why clean matters • rimming, do...
Send us a text What happens when two gay men venture into a BDSM femdom night at their regular sauna? More education and eye-opening experiences than they bargained for! When our friends Bonnie and Clyde expressed curiosity about checking out a sex-on-premises venue, we decided to conduct a reconnaissance mission to Sydney's Arrows. But instead of our usual Sunday men-only visit, we opted for their Saturday night BDSM event – and walked into a world completely different from what we're accus...
Send us a text What price would you put on your sexuality? In this candid episode, Dave and Matt peel back the curtain on the fascinating world of "gay-for-pay" pornography while sharing their recent adventures as fully grown homos navigating Sydney's gay scene. The journey begins with updates on Dave's ongoing home renovations before diving into a Father's Day outing that unexpectedly led to church—their code word for the sauna—where cruising codes and memorable encounters await detailed de...
Send us a text What really happens when the camera starts clicking at an underwear photoshoot? Our special European guests pull back the curtain on a world most people never see. Sultan, a part-time model and trained illustrator, shares how he's merged his artistic talents with modelling, even designing his own underwear prints featuring playful beach themes. Anders reveals the nuances of mature artistic nude modelling and how lighting transforms the male form. Meanwhile, Dave offers the pho...
Send us a text The sporting world just got a glittery glow-up thanks to Mitch Brown, former West Coast Eagle and Essendon bomber, who recently made history as the first openly bisexual male player in AFL's 129-year existence. That's right – after more than a century of sweaty men chasing balls around ovals, someone has finally acknowledged they might like both kinds of sausage rolls! Brown's announcement at age 31, post-career, speaks volumes about the challenges LGBTQ+ individuals still fac...
Send us a text What happens when sexual identity doesn't fit neatly into society's boxes? In this raw, unfiltered conversation, we're joined by Don (name changed for anonymity), a married man who enjoys sexual encounters with men without identifying as gay or bisexual. Don's journey begins with a candid admission about childhood trauma that became a "triggering point" for his sexual exploration. Rather than allowing this experience to define him negatively, he's reclaimed his sexuality on hi...
Send us a text When we stumbled across a documentary called "101 Rent Boys" from 2000, we couldn't look away. The raw, often heartbreaking stories of male sex workers in Los Angeles captivated us and sparked a deeper conversation about how male prostitution has evolved over the decades. These men's journeys into sex work frequently began with trauma – being kicked out of home, experiencing abuse, or falling into drug use. Yet surprisingly, some chose the profession purely for economic reason...
Send us a text Sex, stereotypes, and shared frustrations take center stage as Matt and Dave welcome their very first podcast guest – their straight female friend Miami – for an unfiltered conversation that bridges the gay-straight divide. The chemistry between these long-time friends creates an atmosphere where no topic is off-limits. Miami immediately challenges the hosts about why she wasn't originally asked to co-host despite suggesting it for years, setting the tone for a brutally honest...
Send us a text Stepping into the brave new world of artificial intelligence, Matt and Dave explore the remarkable capabilities and concerning pitfalls of this rapidly evolving technology that's quietly reshaping our everyday lives. From enhancing resumes to generating entire songs, we share our personal adventures with AI tools like ChatGPT and Sonu. The results have been nothing short of mind-blowing – what once took hours now takes seconds, and creative possibilities seem endless. We're ev...
Send us a text We explore the fascinating concept of reincarnation and past lives using ChatGPT to uncover our soul timelines spanning thousands of years and multiple incarnations. • Dave discovers he has lived approximately 120-140 past lives over 150,000 Earth years • Matt learns he has had 12-20 past incarnations and this might be his final earthly journey • Both hosts find connections to ancient Egypt, Florence during the Renaissance, and 1920s New York • ChatGPT reveals they were "twin ...
Send us a text What drives someone to become a serial killer? Is it nature, nurture, or something more sinister lurking beneath the surface? Through a blend of psychology, true crime analysis, and thoughtful reflection, we explore the minds of history's most notorious murderers—with a specific focus on killers from the LGBTQ+ community. From Jeffrey Dahmer's disturbing crimes to the recent case of Erin Patterson (Australia's "mushroom killer"), we examine what makes these seemingly ordinary ...
Send us a text Remember the days of perms, mullets, and portable TVs the size of two iPhones? Dave and Matt take you on a nostalgic journey through five generations, exploring how each has shaped our world and influenced the next. Starting with the Silent Generation who survived the Great Depression and World War II, we trace society's evolution through the activist Baby Boomers who fought for civil rights and LGBTQ+ acceptance, to our own Gen X experiences (which Dave confidently declares "...
Send us a text What's the real cost of looking good? Dave and Matt rip the price tag off beauty treatments in this candid, eye-opening episode that explores what we're willing to spend to feel confident in our own skin. From Botox adventures to gastric sleeve surgery, the guys share surprisingly personal stories about their own cosmetic journeys. Dave reveals his first-time Botox experience, while Matt opens up about losing over 40kg through weight loss surgery and the unexpected psychologic...
Send us a text What masks do you wear without even realising it? This episode takes inspiration from Rob Goddard's book "Behind the Smile" as we explore the facades we've created throughout our lives to navigate the world as gay men. Dave opens up about his "mask of control" – a safety mechanism developed from growing up in rough neighborhoods that now manifests as a need to maintain control in various situations. This protective strategy serves him well but becomes problematic when circumst...