In this meandering conversation, Elle and Vee blend kink, parenting, and intimacy into one candid, sex-positive chat. They dive into everything from pregnancy porn and the risks of recording intimate videos to the awkwardness of moms finding sexy photos. They explore sex-positive parenting, New Relationship Energy (NRE), and the intensity of Dominant/submissive dynamics—discussing what makes a good Dom, what subs and tops truly get out of play, and why negotiation is key. Seasons of l...
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This week, the girls catch up on whats been going on for them, from threesomes to new partners. Vee reveals something big going on in her life: a change in her relationship dynamic, and how it seems to be affecting her ability to orgasm. Elle shares updates on how her pregnancy is affecting her dreams. “Cumming and running”: Elle sets boundaries during play weekends. (00:47) The orgasm happens in the brain: not being able to cum when you’re going through something stress...
This week, Elle, Vee and repeat guest Athena spill all the messy, hilarious, and downright disastrous sex stories you never hear about. From sneezing out cum and fishing out lost condoms to broken furniture, tampon mishaps, and anal surprises, nothing is off-limits. We share our own awkward moments along with wild tales from the community that prove sex fails are equal parts mortifying and funny. Because at the end of the day, sex is messy, bodies are human, and sometimes the best aftercare i...
In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Briana Cribeyer, a sacred sexuality facilitator, guide, and founder of Sacred Sexuality Rising. They explore various relationship dynamics and the challenges that can arise while navigating an ENM (ethically non-monogamous) journey. Briana answers listener questions and shares tips and tools for handling difficult situations, balancing masculine and feminine energies, doing inner child work, and using thoughtful questions to open communication around ho...
This week, Elle and Vee chat with JJ of The Sexie Show podcast, and play Girls Gone Shallow, a sex-themed game testing how well they know each other. Play along with your partner, and we invite you to make the stakes interesting ;) Battlestrip: what is it? (1:57) What is the role of games in a sexy environment? Pushing our growth edges, getting silly and reducing anxiety. How can we carry the energy over from the icebreaker games to sexual scenes? (8:01) Exxotica: porn convention....
This week, Elle and Vee catch up on all their latest play, from Elle’s long weekend with lifestyle friends to the reason underlying Vee’s horniness, kinky date night takeaways and why some fantasies you don’t want to role play. Ass play/vegetable play, caving, and Elle learns what a bussy is. Fears, Desires, Boundaries with old friends; ebbing and flowing playing with others in your ENM partnership. Craving touch: asking for what you want (spanking) but being ok if your dom isnt in the ...
This week, Elle and Vee catch up with Athena talking all things NSFW and soul-deep: blowjob glory, gift kink, doctor role play, surrender vs submission, orgasmic visuals and more. Unexpected First-Time Hookup Sex And Taking Sexy Selfies (00:00) Cock Worship Blowjob That Earned a Reward Fuck, Spit or Swallow & Taste of Cum (05:17) 10:05 Orgasming from Oral and Typical 11:26 Visuals and Sensations During Orgasms 18:33 Getting off from buying gifts for others 20:51 “...
This week, Elle and Vee chat with OG sexual wellness icon Pamela Madsen on all things erotic. From extended orgasmic states to the joy of adult play, and how cultivating your erotic persona can transform your sex life. Plus, hear about the Oprah-featured Lotus Lift Meditation and what men can do to truly empower the women in their lives. Pulling from so much experience, Pamela had some serious wisdom to share! Climax isn’t the point: orgasmic states and elongated pleasure. (3:20) Ba...
How can ropes and shibari be used in different ways? At play parties to understand a new partner quickly, as a mode for a transformational or transcendental experience, as a method for submission or dominance... In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Rina Trevi about her journey from dominatrix to tantrika and vulnerability coach, the spiritual side of shibari, and how rope play at parties can be a path to pleasure, presence, and a whole lot of surrender. From dominatrix to tantrika: What ...
Elle and Vee recap their weekend at a mansion airbnb with 45 of their friends, celebrating several birthdays and a bachelor bachelorette! Gemini Bach Bash (00:00) Theme nights (04:54) Seal team slut olympics (06:32) Intentions and elle’s announcement! (19:12) Thursday Night Highlights (28:01) Before Kiss Someone New, Do You Get Consent From Their Partner? (32:37) Sensual Loving and Sweaty Sex (35:02) Cumming at Play Parties: Priority or not? (39:22) Homemade Por...
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Olivia Dydyna about her journey from being inorgasmic to fully awakened through sound, breath, and deep self-connection. The girls explore Soulgasm, light language, sounding for pleasure, and how to unlock turn-on even when trauma lives in the body. If you've ever wondered what it means to center yourself, speak your truth, and experience desire beyond outcome—this one’s for you. Olivia’s Story: From inorgasmic to orgasmic. (2:10) How do we achieve ul...
In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into their recent experiences in ENM, sharing naughty stories, recent personal growths and lesson learned. Jewelry Mishaps and Lingerie Inconveniences During Sex. (00:00) Top Floor Play Party Intentions: New Play Partner, New Location, Plus Pushing Exhibitionist Boundaries. (5:48) The Art of the Stacking: Creative Sexual Positions with 4 people (Porn Star Wolf Hudson Inspired). (18:49) Soft Cock: Thank you! (21:41) Advantages of Smaller D...
For all our sapiosexuals out there, get ready for this panty-dropper! Elle and Vee chat with comedian and podcast host Kaytlin Bailey and "erotic initiatrix" Priestess Francesca about the history of International Whores Day, sex workers' rights, and our internalized prejudices. What is International Whores Day? (3:58) Decriminalizing vs Legalizing. (9:12) Spirituality and Religion intersecting with sex work. (12:13) Controlling sex workers is a feminist issue. (17:41) Internali...
This week, Elle and Vee dive deep into all things masturbation—from silent solo play to sex toy confessions, and the rituals we don’t talk about (but definitely should). What comes to mind when you think of masturbation? (04:42) Masturbating rather than playing in a couple. (06:10) Sexual empowerment through masturbation and sexting. (10:40) Cock stroking. (14:15) Does solo play take away from partner play? (14:58) Shame and a link to Kellogg's cereal. (17:32) How often do you m...
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Priestess Francesca about kink, piss, and the juicy world of dark desires. Bring your curiosity and leave your shame at the door. What is Dark Erotiscm? (3:04) Shadow Work: “fill the hole where shame used to be with love and acceptance.” (10:09) Taboo Kinks: Why are we afraid of our kinks and how can we approach them? (13:57) How can you start exploring your dark erotic desires? What to check for before you begin on your kink journey. (17:58) ...
This week, Elle and Vee chat with Athena, Vee's metamour and wingwoman in NYC. In this candid chat, the girls hear the details of Athena's first gang bang, chat about how to make your fantasies a reality, being a single woman in the lifestyle, and so much more! Exploring the Abyss of Porn Together (00:00) Introducing Athena: From Fainting to Best Friends (2:19) Embracing Your Inner Slut: Athena's Story (5:23) Visual Vs. Spontaneous Fantasy & Planning a Fantasy Ha...
In this episode, Elle and Vee go deep with Adam Darrow, the author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey Into Non-Monogamy. Described as a "firsthand recounting of a wide-open relationship, told with unflinching candor from the male perspective", Elle and Vee were struck by the relatability of Adam's ENM story in Seek the Risk, from the overthinking and jealousy to the adventurous sex and deep connection in his relationship. His firsthand account of how he worked through the challenging emotion...
In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Liv Love: sex writer, sex educator and swinger, and new friend from Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025! They focus on bisexuality, labels, performance anxiety, shame, strap on sex ... and a play-by-play of how to go from zero to orgasm. This is a no-holds-barred conversation about questioning your bisexuality, pussy insecurities, and so much more! Lack of confidence eating going down on women. (00:49) Liv’s story. (5:35) Bisexuality: when do yo...
This week the girls go deep with Leola Watkins, Pleasure Priestess and the best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed. Answering listeners' questions, they dig into a number of concepts under the tantric umbrella from shadow work and Golden Shadows, to sex magic and creating through orgasm, to yoni and lingum gazing. They also cover how all of this applies to men, when often tantric conversations can feel very feminine-energy-focused, AND how we can apply living tantrically to everyday life! ...