Gotta B Me

Gotta B Me is a podcast hosted by Sophia and Payton Benion, two passionate young African American women who are committed to revealing the truth and providing solutions to the oppression that plagues humanity. Our show delves into pertinent issues and topics which we hope will spark meaningful conversations. Peace, Love, & Hair Grease ✌🏽❤️

Our Mom's Journey Through Stage 4 Cancer

One year ago, our family’s world shifted with the news of our mom’s stage 4 rectal cancer diagnosis. In this heartfelt conversation, she shares her harrowing yet hope-filled journey through a year marked by faith, love, and the unwavering support of friends, family, and God. Together, we reflect on the lessons learned, the strength found, and the power of trusting that everything unfolds just as God wills.

08-08
44:21

He Wrote a Book at 10 - Meet Tyler-the-Reader!

Today, we’re spotlighting a remarkable young author, Tyler the Reader, a 4th grader who went from learning how to read to publishing his own book—all within a single year. His journey is a powerful example of what’s possible when acknowledgment, love, engagement, and cultivation meet community. Surely this could not be possible without the ALECtion method implemented by the Real Black Excellence Intervention Program and the support of his other school teachers, parents, and many other members of the community. This episode is a celebration of literacy, mentorship, and the brilliance of our youth. You’ll want to hear how Tyler’s story unfolded!

08-02
23:51

Building Brotherhood: Marquel’s Mission to Uplift Young Men

In this episode, we sit down with Marquel—a young man whose passion for community and purpose is reshaping the lives of the next generation. Once a young boy searching for his place, Marquel was guided by men who poured into him and helped him discover his value. Now, he’s paying it forward by leading his own young men’s meetings, creating safe spaces for boys to grow, heal, and step confidently into manhood. Tune in as we explore his journey, the power of mentorship, and the importance of helping young men find their voice, vision, and village.

08-02
16:43

What Jane Elliot’s Blue Eyed/Brown Eyed Experiment is Still Teaching Us

In this episode, we dive into Jane Elliott’s groundbreaking “Blue Eyes/Brown Eyes” experiment and the profound effect it had on the children and young adults who experienced it. What began as a classroom exercise became a powerful demonstration of how quickly people can internalize superiority or inferiority based on arbitrary traits. We explore how this social experiment exposed the raw truth about prejudice, privilege, and the ease with which society builds—and believes in—destructive constructs.

07-29
23:22

Meet Our Uncle/Funcle/Muncle

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with our Uncle Muncle as he reflects on growing up as the youngest of three brothers—our dads included—and what it meant to find his voice and calling among two larger-than-life overachievers. We also explore a deeper conversation on the tension in the Black community between outward confidence and inner self-worth, and how that disconnect impacts our ability to build, sustain, and access resources. It’s personal, powerful, and deeply necessary.

07-29
50:37

Is Talking about Black History Complaining?

In this episode, we challenge the misconception that acknowledging our history means adopting a victim mentality. We unpack why telling the truth about the past—through the correct narrative—is not weakness, but a vital step toward healing, identity, and progress. It’s not about blame; it’s about clarity, context, and reclaiming our story.

07-21
26:05

Meet Brothers #3: Jesse and Isaac Tell It All

In this episode, we’re joined by two of our youngest brothers, Isaac and Jesse—the passionate, rough-and-tumble, competitive duo who love to think deep, speak loud, and lead strong. From hilarious childhood memories to serious reflections on finding their voice as young African American men, we dive into what it means to grow up, speak up, and stand up for the next generation.

07-04
44:45

How Media Fueled a Massacre: Wilmington 1898

This episode dives into the Wilmington Massacre of 1898 — when armed white supremacists stormed a thriving Black community, burned it down, and overthrew a legally elected government. It was the only successful coup in U.S. history — and yet, most of us never heard a word about it in school. That’s not by accident. We’re calling out the systems that whitewash history and digging into the truth they don’t want taught. Buckle up — this is the history lesson they never wanted you to hear.Link to the Wilmington Massacre Documentary    • American Coup: Wilmington 1898 | Full Docu...  Curious about who we are and why we dress this way? Check out our videos where we cover those topics!   • Anti-Denominationalism Because…Anti-Racism     • Why We Dress Like This...AGAIN  

06-27
24:40

Breaking Down Sinners: Here’s What it Meant to Us!

In this episode, we girls sit down to unpack the powerful messages and emotional moments from the movie Sinners. We share how it challenged our perspectives, stirred our hearts, and sparked meaningful conversations. Join us as we reflect on what Sinners meant to us—and maybe, what it could mean for you too.

06-26
49:26

Our ALECtion Story

In this episode, we share how we wrote our life stories in just three days—not to impress, but to prove our calling to teach through the transformative process of ALECtion. More than a clever play on “the chosen one,” ALEC stands for Acknowledgment, Love, Engagement, and Cultivation. Join us as we break down each step, reflect on our breakthroughs, and motivate you to step into your own chosen path.

06-16
19:59

Meet our Auntie: The Woman Behind Negasi

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with our Auntie as she shares the powerful story behind founding her business, Negasi. Through deep personal loss, a path of healing, and an unwavering hope for the future, she transformed pain into potential and purpose. Tune in to hear how resilience, faith, and vision led to the birth of a brand rooted in legacy and love, and oh so much food.

05-27
34:12

Women on a Mission: Real Experiences & Lessons

In this episode, we dive into the transformative value of leaving your comfort zone as a young person and stepping into the world. We explore the impact of working abroad, immersing yourself in new cultures, and experiencing life through the lens of others. Whether you go to be of service or simply to expand your life experience, you’ll often find that you’re the one who grows the most. From expanding your worldview to challenging your assumptions, this conversation unpacks how foreign experiences can shape your identity, relationships, and sense of purpose.

05-23
33:19

We Went to Bootcamp!

Join us three girls as we spill all the wild, hilarious, and life-changing moments from our intense 3-week boot camp! From sweat and struggle to growth and grit, we’re sharing the real, unfiltered journey—because every crazy minute was absolutely worth it.

05-13
33:15

Can I Testify?!

In this episode, we dive into the importance of stepping out in faith and boldly running with the blessings God has bestowed on us from day to day. Not surprisingly, we got pretty animated and passionate about our respective stories 😁, but at least you know we mean it. We would love if you felt free to share your testimony, inspiring others, and reminding us all that our journeys—no matter how different—can be powerful tools of encouragement and hope.

05-09
17:50

The Next Chapter of Gotta B Three

In this heartfelt episode, Gotta B Three — Sophia, Payton, and Camille — break down each other’s personalities and look back on the wild, emotional, and unforgettable ride of the past few years. From tears to laughter, this conversation dives deep into the bonds of family, growth, and the stories that shaped them. Expect raw emotion, inside jokes, and moments that’ll make you feel like you’ve known them forever.

04-29
35:48

The Necessity of Conflict

In this episode, we dive into the uncomfortable but essential truth: conflict is necessary for progress, for honesty, and for resolution. But in many spaces—especially ones shaped by white supremacy—conflict is seen as dangerous, divisive, or even unnecessary. We explore how the fear of conflict is not just personal discomfort but a systemic tool to maintain control, silence dissent, and uphold the status quo. We break down how running from conflict is a subtle yet powerful manifestation of white supremacy culture—and what it looks like to choose the harder path of truth, discomfort, and real change.Curious about who we are and why we dress this way? Check out our videos where we cover those topics!   • Anti-Denominationalism Because…Anti-R...     • Why We Dress Like This...AGAIN  00:00-3:15 Conflict: Good or Bad? 3:15-7:15 Human Reaction to Conflict7:15-9:52 Conflict in Relation to America9:52-13:06 Refuse to Separate13:06-17:58 Selling out & White Supremacy17:58-19:33 SHOUTOUT Top Commenters!!

04-21
19:33

Meet Sophia’s Future Husband!

In this episode, we meet Sophia’s fiancé and discover what makes him the one. Sophia opens up about her journey to love, why she chose him, and how they plan to navigate the beauty and complexity of marriage. From preserving her cultural identity to building bridges in her community, she shares how love, faith, and purpose intertwine in their story.

04-14
46:09

Identity: Christian, Black, White, or Family - What Comes First?

We’re talking identity—what it means to be Christian first, African American second, and part of a family third. In that order. This podcast is all about real talk on faith, culture, and the everyday balance of staying grounded in who we are and whose we are.

04-08
31:57

Did Homeschooling Help or Hurt Us?

In this episode, we dive into the pros and cons of private schooling versus public education. From class sizes and curriculum flexibility to social experiences and various diversities in concepts, we break down how each system shapes students’ learning and their present and future opportunities.

04-04
15:52

Marriage Without Dating???

In this episode-“Marriage Without Dating”-we explore cultures, beliefs, and personal convictions behind skipping dating and going straight to courtship and marriage. Is it risky or rewarding? Let’s dive in.

03-31
15:08

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