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This podcast was created to empower high achieving women just like you to create habits and a life you love. As a high achiever, your work and accolades are your pride and joy, but your perfectionist tendencies and constant overthinking have been running you ragged. At the end of the day, you’re left feeling tired, overwhelmed and just not content, like you’re missing out on something more.
This podcast is your time away from the daily hustle to focus on taking care of you: seeing where you’re stuck, and helping you develop habits that will build you up instead of tearing you down.
Tune in every week and join Dr. Kristi Angevine, MD, Ob/Gyn turned Certified Life Coach, as she shares practical, no fluff strategies you can apply to your daily life to achieve meaningful change.
If you’re over the overwhelm, done with always feeling guilty and not enough this podcast is for you.
For more information visit habitsonpurpose.com
This podcast is your time away from the daily hustle to focus on taking care of you: seeing where you’re stuck, and helping you develop habits that will build you up instead of tearing you down.
Tune in every week and join Dr. Kristi Angevine, MD, Ob/Gyn turned Certified Life Coach, as she shares practical, no fluff strategies you can apply to your daily life to achieve meaningful change.
If you’re over the overwhelm, done with always feeling guilty and not enough this podcast is for you.
For more information visit habitsonpurpose.com
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Have you ever made a detailed plan to change everything at once, only to find yourself back where you started weeks later? Grand plans often look inspiring, but they rarely hold up in daily life. They demand more than what’s realistic for the season you’re in and leave no room for flexibility when life gets in the way. In this episode, I explore three key reasons why ambitious plans often fail and why starting small is the true key to sustainable change. You’ll learn how perfectionism, impatience, and the belief that small steps mean weakness keep you in cycles of all-or-nothing effort. I’ll share a simple, practical approach to goal-setting that helps you stay consistent and build trust with yourself over time. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/194 Join the Habits on Purpose newsletter for extra tools, prompts, and stories between episodes: https://habitsonpurpose.com/
Ever reach the end of the day and wonder where the hours went, only to realize you still haven’t done what you set out to do? Maybe you got lost in emails, organizing, or helping others while your own priorities slipped away. This disconnect isn’t about poor time management; it’s a sign of two related challenges: time blindness and values blindness. Time blindness, common in people with ADHD but experienced by many, happens when your brain loses track of the passage of time. In this episode, I break down how both time and values blindness shape your attention, energy, and sense of alignment. You’ll learn practical strategies to regain control using tools from executive functioning, including external reminders, task chunking, and reflection exercises. By noticing where your time and values are going, you can create a life that feels steady, aligned, and purposeful. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/193 Join the Habits on Purpose newsletter for extra tools, prompts, and stories between episodes: https://habitsonpurpose.com/
Do you sometimes feel like the person you show up as each day isn’t the real you? Between work, family, and the constant pull of daily responsibilities, it’s easy to drift into autopilot and lose touch with your inner self. In this episode, we explore how to come back home to yourself and cultivate a sense of internal belonging that grounds your thoughts, feelings, and actions in what truly matters. Authenticity isn’t just about being genuine with others. Through practical prompts and reflective practices, you’ll learn to pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, impulses, and beliefs in a way that builds self-awareness. You’ll discover how to notice when you’re out of alignment, face uncomfortable truths with honesty, and make internal authenticity a daily practice rather than a vague concept. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/192 Join the Habits on Purpose newsletter for extra tools, prompts, and stories between episodes: https://habitsonpurpose.com/
Ever feel like everything is spiraling out of control? Maybe you’re running late, snapping at others, or watching a small setback feel like a catastrophe. These intense moments don’t just come from what’s happening on the surface; they’re amplified by short-term stress that hijacks your perspective and makes you lose sight of what actually matters. In this episode, I share a simple technique built around the phrase "at the end of the day" to help you pause and recalibrate when life feels overwhelming. You’ll learn how to interrupt the stress spiral, notice when you’re caught up in tension, and ask targeted questions that allow you to make decisions from a place of clarity rather than crisis. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/191
Are your habits shaping the life you truly want, or are they running the show? Habits influence how you think, feel, and show up every single day. The way you respond to challenges, interact with others, and navigate your own mind is all shaped by the patterns you repeat, often without even realizing it. In this episode, I explore why habits are so vitally important and why, if you want to live intentionally, you must be deliberate with your habits. Think about your life 10 years from now. Will you be living with the same habits you have today, or with habits that serve you, support your goals, and leave you feeling like you’re in the driver’s seat? You’ll learn how to start cultivating habits you love, how to unravel patterns that no longer serve you, and why the choices you make right now can dramatically shape the next decade of your life. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/190
When a problem keeps showing up in your life like an unwelcome visitor, how do you respond? Maybe the same struggles keep resurfacing despite your best efforts—leaving work at the office, carving out time for what matters, or breaking free from patterns that no longer serve you. It can feel like these challenges are unsolvable, draining your energy, and stealing your peace of mind. These problems aren’t unsolvable; the challenge is often in how we approach them. We resist looking at what’s painful and dismiss our deepest desires as unrealistic or selfish. In this episode, I share two techniques that flip this pattern. You’ll learn how to create containers for difficult emotions, honor your desires without getting lost in logistics, and design small, doable experiments that move you forward when you feel stuck. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/189
Do you ever feel torn about what to do next? Maybe you’re juggling work deadlines, school drop-offs, or endless to-do lists, and each decision feels urgent. When different parts of you want different things, it’s easy to get stuck overthinking and second-guessing yourself, leaving you frustrated and unsure of how to move forward. In this episode, I share a three-step framework to help you gain clarity when you feel conflicted. I introduce the concept of your “inner mediator,” a calm, neutral part of yourself that can listen to all sides, weigh priorities, and uncover solutions that honor every perspective. You’ll learn how to identify the conflicting thoughts and feelings inside you, understand the core concerns behind each one, and create a way forward that feels aligned with what’s truly important. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/188
Do you find yourself making plans repeatedly but never following through? You set intentions to exercise, organize your space, or reach out to someone you care about, but it never happens. This pattern can leave you frustrated and stuck, questioning why you can’t just do what you say you will, even when it’s something you genuinely want. In this episode, I break down what’s really going on when plans fail, beyond the usual advice about motivation, willpower, or accountability systems. Resistance isn’t a flaw; it’s information. When you notice yourself avoiding a workout, skipping a task, or postponing a call, it’s often your mind and body signaling something important. Understanding that signal changes how you approach your intentions, and it can transform repeated patterns of inaction into insight and forward movement. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/187
Do you ever feel like you're stuck in autopilot mode, running through the motions without really asking if you're living the life you truly want? Most of us have at least one habit that feels out of alignment, whether it’s scrolling at night, overindulging, or staying in a draining job. We judge ourselves harshly, wondering why we can't break free. But what if these habits are not the problem? What if, instead, they’re signals that point to something deeper? In this episode, I offer a new perspective on habits, especially those we label as "bad." Instead of seeing them as flaws to be fixed, I invite you to understand the deeper, often protective reasons behind them. When we approach our habits with curiosity and compassion, we start to recognize that everything we do makes sense when viewed in the context of our life experiences and what we've been taught to value. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/186
Life is going sideways. You're snapping at your people, overthinking, doom scrolling, or eating all the snacks. You know things aren't going well, but it feels like you just can't stop, and you can't get out of the pattern. The momentum of these moments can feel impossible to interrupt, even when you're fully aware that what you're doing isn't working. In this episode, I'm sharing the neuroscience behind why we get stuck in these reactive patterns and how our brain's survival mode takes over when we're stressed. Through a simple three-step process, you can interrupt the stress spiral and access more choice. The key isn't waiting for the perfect moment or overhauling everything; it's about creating what I call "one-degree shifts." Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/185
Does anxiety make you feel like there is something wrong with you? It can feel uncomfortable, overpowering, something to manage or medicate away. We've been taught to see it as a flaw, a weakness, something broken that needs fixing. But treating anxiety as an adversary might be exactly what's making it worse. In this episode, I'm exploring a radically different approach to anxiety—one that sees it not as something wrong with you, but as a sophisticated signal system trying to help. I share how anxiety functions like a check engine light or cybersecurity system, alerting you to threats to your physical, emotional, relational, or financial well-being. Through practical examples and a simple outside-inside approach, you'll discover how to decode what your anxiety is actually signaling. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/184
Do you feel like acknowledging your struggles will make them worse, or that it means you're weak or indulgent? Many of us have been taught to push through challenges, minimize what we’re feeling, and judge ourselves for reacting in normal, human ways. But this mindset keeps us from fully understanding why we’re struggling in the first place. In this episode, I explore why validation is one of the most powerful tools for lasting change. Validation is simply the act of recognizing what's real, legitimate, and understandable about our experience. It’s about acknowledging what is true in the moment without judgment. When we validate our emotions instead of dismissing them, we create the clarity, confidence, creativity, and inner strength needed to make meaningful shifts. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/183
Have you ever tried to “think your way” into feeling better, only to feel stuck in the same patterns? It’s easy to fall into the belief that changing our thoughts will automatically change our emotions and habits. But what if the solution isn’t about forcing yourself to think better thoughts? What if it’s about understanding emotions in a deeper, more compassionate way? In this episode, I revisit the ideas I first shared on an early episode of the podcast about how to feel better. While I once believed that changing our thoughts was the key to lasting change, I now realize it’s only part of the equation. By shifting from trying to manage your feelings to understanding and relating to them, you can create the lasting changes you’ve been seeking. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/182
Have you ever tried to change by simply thinking a new thought, only to feel frustrated when the change doesn’t happen as easily as promised? The idea that if you just change your thoughts, you can change your life has been a cornerstone of personal development for years. But what if it's not the whole story? In this episode, I’m revisiting a concept from an early episode, where I taught "thinking a new thought" as the key to change. While this cognitive behavioral approach helped many of my clients, I now realize how incomplete it is. Our experience is shaped by much more than our thoughts. It’s influenced by our nervous system, memories, trauma, and even cultural systems. I’ll explain why thought work is useful but not enough, and why real change involves understanding the deeper layers beneath our thoughts. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/181
Have you ever received a compliment or acknowledged a success, only to immediately deflect or downplay it? Or perhaps you’ve accomplished something meaningful but instead of feeling proud, you start to focus on what could have been better? This tendency to minimize our strengths and dismiss our progress can be so automatic that we don’t even realize we’re doing it. In this episode, I explore why we minimize ourselves and how to relate to this habit differently. What I once saw as just a bad mental habit to fix, I now understand as a protective strategy—a part of us trying to keep us safe from vulnerability, judgment, or failure. Through the lens of Internal Family Systems, embodiment, and nervous system regulation, I’ll show you how this tendency serves a purpose and how we can start to shift it. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/180
Have you ever been so angry about something, voiced your concerns, advocated for a solution, maybe even cried over it, only to have nothing change? The situation remains the same, the person doesn’t budge, and your anger lingers, leaving you stuck. What now? In this episode, I explore the exhaustion that comes when we’re angry about something that won’t shift. You’ll discover why anger becomes exhausting when there’s no external resolution, what emotions typically hide beneath it, and how to redefine resolution as an internal process rather than an external outcome. You’ll also learn practical ways to work with your anger so you can continue advocating for what matters without being undone by what you can’t control. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/179
Have you ever noticed a behavior or pattern that you know you should change, but you just can’t seem to? Whether it’s scrolling aimlessly on your phone or saying yes to commitments you don’t want, that moment of recognition is where change begins. But what if that moment of awareness, even without immediate change, is more powerful than you think? In this episode, I revisit one of the foundational concepts in behavior change: awareness precedes change. While this idea was introduced in an early episode, my understanding has evolved significantly. You'll learn practical ways to expand your awareness beyond just cognitive observation, including a simple practice you can use anytime. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/178
When your emotions feel overwhelming, pushing them away seems like the only option. That familiar tightness in your chest, the urge to fix everything immediately, the exhaustion that comes from constantly suppressing what you feel - these experiences shape how you move through each day. Through this episode, you'll discover how to relate to your emotions as messengers carrying vital information rather than inconveniences to manage. You'll learn practical ways to shift from reflexively fixing or avoiding difficult feelings to approaching them with curiosity and compassion. By the end, you'll have concrete tools for turning toward your emotions instead of away from them, creating a richer understanding of yourself in the process. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/177
Have you ever had one of those days when things just take longer than you expected? Maybe a task that should have taken 30 minutes ends up consuming hours, and suddenly, you're behind on everything. It’s easy to start feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or frustrated when your plans go sideways. In this episode, I share a simple framework to help you navigate these moments without getting caught in a spiral of self-blame or urgency. You’ll learn how to pause, check the context, and realign with what really matters, turning those pressure-filled moments into opportunities for clarity and creative problem-solving. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/176
What is nourishing you these days? In this light and reflective episode, I share a curated collection of simple pleasures and meaningful concepts that are currently bringing joy and stability to my life. From practical travel items to philosophical insights, these are the elements helping me navigate daily life with more groundedness and connection. As summer approaches, I'm finding deep appreciation in both the tangible and intangible - everything from a cherished gift to the profound teachings of a grief expert. These items, ideas, and practices form a tapestry of support that keeps me feeling human and connected during challenging times. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/175
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