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Catholic confessional sex stories, military consent training, and the differences between inclusionary and exclusionary consent—Dr. Emma Smith shares her journey from shame to sex therapy, radical honesty in relationships, and helping couples open up with care and curiosity.📈 STATS | 42 bisexual pansexual cis-presenting agender femme, she/her and any/all pronouns, in a monogamish relationship, raised Catholic, sexual assault survivor, AASECT certified sex therapist in private practice, writer, intimacy philosopher, advocate for sexual trauma survivors to enjoy sex, from New Jersey, based in Nashville, into: infusing eroticism into daily life, sharing truths and curiosities about sex with partners in playful ways, extended foreplay to build anticipation long before touch is initiated, unlocking shame stories, building sensory awareness and self-trust through solo touch exploration.⏰ TIME CODE00:00 From Catholic schoolgirl to sex therapist and intimacy philosopher06:19 Coming out in her 30s, a Marine husband’s reaction, and her mom’s allyship13:04 Defining sexy as authenticity and what her 42-year-old sex life looks like16:17 Radical honesty, trauma work, and positive sentiment override24:04 Timeouts, nervous system regulation, and timing back in27:18 Monogamy, expansive love, and health practices around testing34:10 Sex therapy: trauma recovery, couples work, and sex as the canary in the coalmine38:16 Helping couples open up with relationship agreement intensives42:15 Virgin Mary statues, masturbation shame, and “transactional” sex58:11 Confession booth stories and Catholic guilt through college59:29 Teaching Marines consent by valuing their own bodies1:13:12 From trauma counseling to sex therapy and post-traumatic growth1:16:36 Responsive vs. spontaneous desire and the myth of “spontaneity”1:19:04 Releasing inherited shame stories1:21:35 Believing people when they tell you who they are and allowing evolution1:22:57 Spreading ripples of love by celebrating small creative acts as miraculous🤩 TOPICS | AASECT certified sex therapist, allyship and coming out stories, authenticity in relationships, awareness through masturbation and solo touch, betrayal trauma therapy, bisexual femme perspective, body trust and self-awareness, Catholic guilt and purity culture, Catholic upbringing and Virgin Mary statue, charcuterie board therapy intensives, communication skills in couples, consent training for Marines, couples counseling and sex therapy, creative acts as love and miracles, daily eroticism practices, erotic embodiment and pleasure, extended foreplay for anticipation, fluid bonding conversations, health and STI testing practices, infidelity recovery and healing, intimacy philosophy and writing, masturbation shame and guilt, military sex education programs, nervous system regulation in relationships, non-monogamy frameworks and polyamory, orgasmic embodiment and desire, polyamorous relationship dynamics, post-traumatic growth and sexuality, power of curiosity and playfulness, purity ring and chastity culture, radical transparency and honesty, relationship agreements for opening up, responsive versus spontaneous desire, self-trust building through touch, sexual assault prevention training, sexual trauma recovery and healing, shame release exercises, soft yes consent framework, spontaneous desire myths and realities, survivor advocacy for sex positivity, therapy for betrayal and infidelity, trauma-informed counseling practices, valuing men’s consent and bodies, writing and intimacy philosophy.🔗 DR EMMA LINKS | @emmasmithphd / @emmasmithphd.bsky.social / facebook / substackSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Luna introduces the term “kindsexual”, a label she coined to describe being aroused by kindness and connection. She explores the joys and challenges of being turned on by care through personal stories, patterns, and upgrades in discernment—and why working as a legal courtesan offers the ideal setting for her kindsexuality to thrive. This episode is a love letter to co-creating sexy, safe, mutually appreciative relationships.00:00 What is a kindsexual? Luna defines her attraction to kindness01:28 Fantasizing about rewarding good behavior with generous mouth acts03:13 Bi, pan, omni... and why “kindsexual” captures something deeper05:05 Flirty or friendly? The thrill of kindness from strangers08:13 Casual dating confusion, booty call burnout, and craving connection10:03 Stories that reshaped Luna’s definition of kindness12:15 Upgrading standards: clarity, care, mutual turn-on14:24 From 14 dates to one deeper desire: intentional intimacy16:57 Sugar dating, money kink, and realizing she was built for this19:19 Why the ranch is the perfect place for her kindsexuality to run wild22:07 Safety, structure, and how clear exchanges make sexy co-creation possible25:18 Sweet sessions, mutual nurturance, and feeling deeply valued27:07 Go forth and kind: making care the norm in erotic connectionGo Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hotel hallway handjobs, pegging with praise, and playful spank counts—Zoo returns to share how their sex anxiety, shifting gender journey, and queer connections are shaping a search for intimacy, pleasure, and community. 📈 STATS | 28 queer trans non-binary human, they/he pronouns, polyamorous, currently partnered, bartender, Shakespearean actor, based in Los Angeles. ⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Updates since 2022 and meeting their now-husband at a bartender conference 02:00 Hallway makeouts, secret storage rooms, and hotel hookups in New Orleans 07:00 First sparks of connection and navigating sexual anxiety with dance 11:30 Rule-breaking thrills, security cameras, and conference restrictions 13:00 Transitioning to transmasc identity and shifts in dating dynamics 17:00 Comparing Vermont’s queer scene to LA and New York 23:00 Long-distance desires, casual partners, and balancing intimacy 25:00 Shifting attractions toward masculinity and butch presentation 31:00 Anxiety around gender perception 33:00 Noodling questions and focusing on desire over perception 35:00 Condom mishaps, filming discomfort, and an unwanted yeast infection 41:00 Spanking tally game and discovering a new Dom dynamic 43:00 Pegging, praise kink, and playful anal explorations with their partner 45:00 Rediscovering libido through sexy Stardew Valley fanfiction 49:00 Polyamory as essential and struggles with long-distance sex 53:00 Trigger loops, sexual anxiety, and finding new routes to connection 59:00 Exploring kink through pressure, praise, and non-traditional dynamics 01:01:00 The messiness of butt sex and embracing new practices 01:01:20 Photo book project on lesbian bars and queer archival work 01:07:15 Dreaming of queer community spaces and creative hubs 01:12:00 Finding their first porn film online and their kink origins 01:19:00 Future hopes: consistent, connected orgasms and true friends-with-benefits 🤩 TOPICS | Alcove makeouts, anxiety loops, bartender conference romance, bisexual queer identity, body confidence, butch attraction, casual encounters, chest dysphoria, chosen family community, connected orgasms, creative queer bar visions, dancing through anxiety, deep intimacy, disassociation during sex, edgy hotel hookups, ethical porn favorites, evolving gender presentation, fanfiction arousal, first porn memories, friends-with-benefits dreams, high production porn, hotel edging, identity shifts, intimacy struggles, kink discovery, latex allergy mishap, lesbian bar archive, libido revival, long-distance love, masturbation inspiration, motorcycle threesome fantasy, naked dancing, non-latex condoms, non-monogamous orientation, OnlyFans filming regret, pegging with praise, polyamorous identity, pressure play, queer nightlife spaces, relationship anarchist vibes, rule-breaking thrill, security camera exhibitionism, sensuality in vintage porn, sexual anxiety triggers, spanking tally game, Stardew Valley smut, strap-on sex, threesomes with multiple penises, vintage porn aesthetics, wingman support. 🔗 ZOO LINKS | @zooholmstrom / thelongroadtolesbos.comZoo’s episode from April 2019 | The Fantasy ChamberZoo’s update from September 2022 | Phantom Dick Orgasms and The Long Road to LesbosAsk a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Luna explores the fantasy, pleasure, and logistics of couples threesomes at Sheri’s Ranch—sharing her personal definitions, play-by-play configurations, and stories from real-life parties. She offers guidance for curious partners, including how to navigate jealousy, negotiation, and boundaries, and reflects on what makes a shared experience hot, safe, and unforgettable. A sexy, thoughtful, and comprehensive guide for anyone dreaming of a third.00:00 Why partnered threesomes are such a common (and complicated) fantasy02:19 How professional courtesans create safety, clarity, and fun for curious couples04:10 Luna’s definition of a couples threesome and why she loves being the guest star06:36 The wide range of couples who show up—hetero, queer, besties, and voyeur-friendly pairs08:17 What “no boundaries” really means10:05 Navigating jealousy, feeling left out, and staying connected through communication12:41 Real-life configurations and favorite positions: face-sitting, spit roasts, lap play, and more19:49 Creative three-way play with internal condoms, shared stimulation, and the Pussy Stack21:49 Scissoring, oral circles, and group dynamics that build heat and joy23:50 Who couples threesomes are best for—and what to know before visiting a legal brothel26:42 Brothel vs. DIY dating: how to choose the right path for your threesome desires Go Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Spanking, exhibitionism, threesomes, and dungeons—Dr. Tiffany Chan shares how she embraced submission, built a 24/7 power exchange, and turned her passion for sex into a thriving career. 📈 STATS | 37 pansexual female, she/her pronouns, monogamish, kink affirming sex educator, board-certified sexologist, model, content creator, designer of wearable art, published author and writer of smut, from Los Angeles, into: MF three-ways, play parties, BDSM, sex toys, kink, and connection. ⏰ TIME CODE00:00 From shame to shameless: early crushes, queer awakenings, and supportive-but-surprising parents06:00 Discovering pleasure through Cinemax and Real Sex11:00 Defining sexy as confidence, comfort, and self-love13:00 Losing herself as a parent, reclaiming pleasure, and choosing supportive relationships16:00 Cosmo magazine discoveries, early blowjobs, and formative sexual explorations19:00 Bartending, Magic Wand revelations, and the road to becoming a sexologist23:00 Balancing pleasure, work, parenting, and creative ventures38:00 Wedding night flogging, public intimacy, and dungeon rituals42:00 From Anne Rice fantasies to FetLife contracts and 24/7 dynamics47:00 Check-ins, accountability, and building a 24/7 partnership52:00 Hands, sensation play, and the allure of strong touch56:00 Friends-with-benefits threesomes and navigating boundaries1:02:00 Parallel play, dungeon nights, and intimate energy exchange1:05:00 Health and safety practices for comfort and consent1:17:00 Rope scenes, corsets, and finding serenity in restraint1:23:00 Switching roles, online platforms, and erotic creativity1:31:00 Goals: more joy, more freedom, and spreading love through pleasure 🤩 TOPICS | Anal curiosity, anxiety in relationships, audio porn, body image struggles, collars and honorifics, content creation, creative writing, cum swallowing boundaries, daddy dom dynamics, divorce transitions, dungeon furniture, edging orgasms, erotic audio, exhibitionist desires, fantasy balls, female empowerment, fisting curiosity, fluid bonding, floggers, friends with benefits, group sex etiquette, HIV awareness, humiliation triggers, kink education, learning management systems, lingerie fetishes, masturbation practices, mental health and ADHD, nude beaches, online censorship, orgasmic meditation, parallel play, pegging interests, poly upbringing, public sex stories, rope bondage, self-acceptance, sex education in homeschooling, shame resilience, shibari, slut reclaiming, spanking fantasies, squirting, swinger parties, threesomes, toxic relationships, university teaching, watersports content, wearable art design, writing erotica. 🔗 DR TIFFANY LINKS | tiffanychanofficial.com / @kipaniAsk a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Luna reads a submissive’s detailed account of their first night together—an intimate journey of nerves, desire, and surrender. From breathwork and boundary-setting to leather, harnesses, and power exchange, this story explores submission, Dominance, pleasure, trust, and the freedom of letting go. A candid, erotic glimpse into kink, intimacy, and the transformative connection between Domme and sub.🤩 TOPICS | Adrenaline rush, ass worship, begging for pleasure, body calibration, bondage bench, breathwork techniques, catsuit gift, collar ritual, control exchange, crying out in waves, dominant care, double orgasm, erotic laughter, face sitting, feather teasing, flogger play, giggling release, harnessed curves, intense submission, leather dress, malevolent giggle, mouth worship, mutual pleasure, naked skin contact, nervous submissive, nipple harness, oxytocin release, paddle impact, pegging session, perineum pressure, prostate stimulation, safe words, sensual kissing, service and surrender, shivering excitement, skin-to-skin touch, spanking wheel, spiky wheel, submission freedom, submissive shaking, thigh squeezing, tongue worship, trust in domination, worshiping her body.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Luna shares how she prioritizes communication across all areas of her life—as a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch, a podcast host, a photographer, and a human with limited time and lots of love to give. With humor and clarity, she breaks down how she likes to connect in-person, virtually, and in writing, offering thoughtful guidance on what kinds of messages get her attention (and which ones don’t). A loving, detailed guide for anyone curious about how to connect—online, at the Ranch, or in the world. 00:00 In-person connection: bar chats, tours, and party etiquette03:24 Anti-convincing, negotiation boundaries, and respectful kink invites05:23 What not to do at the bar (touching, smoke, fake names, leering)09:02 Connecting through photoshoots, retreats, and co-creative play11:29 Navigating public space and irresistible invites14:22 Virtual connection: video for intimacy, audio for creativity15:14 Podcast guest invites, structure, and storytelling17:57 Livestream etiquette, staying on topic, and tipping culture20:08 Premium messages: sharing fantasies, setting the frame, getting a yes23:26 Written communication: email do’s, don’ts, and appreciation29:34 How I prioritize communication depending on where I am35:46 TL;DR and an important reminderGo Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Edging challenges, prostate play, and listener fantasies—Luna and Kimberly share sexy updates, answer questions, celebrate stories from the Woo community, and invite you to apply to be a guest!⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Mailbag kickoff: updates, announcements, and September’s Edge 05:12 Daily masturbation meditations and OnlyFans updates 10:08 Back-to-sex-school courses with Beducated: get 50% off the yearly subscription with code LOVER 15:17 Guest applications open—why sharing sex stories matters and how to apply! 21:07 Kimberly’s cohabitation learnings: communication, conscious touch, and going from period pain to period pleasure 34:07 Luna’s lover updates: pegging, prostate play, kink dynamics, and strap-on firsts 43:38 Safe sleep-sex fantasy, bucket list adventures, and the joys of deep trust 50:14 Celebrating 2,000 (WOO thousand) YouTube subscribers and what “woo” means 58:02 How one listener found new joy and connection through rediscovering the podcast1:00:15 Squirting workshops explained—why boundaries matter and how learning can stay sexy1:06:54 Virgin at 40—navigating shame, toxic workplaces, wild fantasies, and the hope for intimacy1:23:17 How writing, resilience, illness, and reflection fuel future sex stories1:24:41 Pantyhose attraction—childhood imprints, partner negotiations, and money as erotic play1:27:36 Learning something new every episode and why consistent curiosity keeps sex fresh1:31:46 Exploring a fur fetish—fashion, sensuality, and how clothing can become arousal1:33:16 Is this podcast real? Listener wonders if Sex Stories is audio porn or authentic connection1:36:16 Swinger guilt erased and why hearing others’ stories helps couples feel validated1:39:15 Hair, foreskin, and confidence—detailed listener Q&A on grooming, circumcision, and sexual health1:48:32 A love letter tease from a sweet submissive🤩 TOPICS | Affirmations vs information, anal play, anonymous sex stories, arousal from conscious touch, back to school kink, blowjob classes, body confidence, bondage fantasies, butthole play, clothed female naked male, communication check-ins, compression clothing kink, creative content shoots, crotchless pantyhose, deep trust in partners, dildo harness play, edging with toys, erotic energy exchange, fantasy weddings, feeling invisible in dating, foot massages, foreskin stretching, fur fetish, group intimacy lessons, handjobs with foreskin, head scratches, latex skirt play, lingerie requests, listener love letters, masturbation habits, mutual nurturing, naked lifestyle desires, nonsexual intimacy, oxytocin release, pain relief orgasms, period cramps and sex, pleasure coaching, pubic hair grooming, receiving massages, retro fashion kinks, sleep sex fantasies, spanking memories, strap-on cock worship, submission letters, swing lifestyle guilt, teacher skirt attraction, toy storage struggles, trust in dominance, vibrator routines, voice memos from listeners, vulva worship, wet pussy from anal, writing sex stories🔗 BEDUCATED | Go back to (S3x) School: get 50% off your annual membership using code LOVERSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Exploring different kinks, sugar dating fails, motherhood shifts, and sex in love and lust—Sage opens up about reclaiming pleasure, healing from shame, and exploring sex, love, and power through every stage of life. 📈 STATS | 28 straight white female, she/her pronouns, slut, mom, healing from sexual assault, in a monogamous-for-now relationship, full-time animal science student, certified astrologer, ranch worker, based in Sacramento. ⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Rediscovering sensuality as a new mom, sex after childbirth, and teaching partners about kink05:32 What she finds sexy: sapiosexual attraction, mental stimulation, confidence, and embodied vibes07:39 Parenting and passion: foreplay as extended buildup while raising a toddler11:18 Adventurous touches, exhibitionism, outdoor sex, and the thrill of getting caught19:18 Astrology in the bedroom: Leo energy, brat play, and the brat-to-sub dynamic23:51 Safer sex practices: STI testing, condoms, health conversations, and consent communication26:00 Opening kink conversations on dating apps, BDSM tests, and sexting initiation29:12 Early sexual awakening: masturbation, bathtub orgasms, practice kissing, and first intercourse36:00 Virginity loss, assault trauma, shame, and reclaiming her sexual identity44:00 First kinky experience: choking, collars, primal sex, and unexpected orgasmic intensity52:18 Four-hour marathon sex, dominance, restraint, and push–pull power play56:20 Spiritual sex: long-term love, psychedelics, Kundalini awakening, and eye-contact intimacy1:01:14 Threesomes, girl-on-girl pressure, and hetero expectations1:15:15 Double penetration fantasies, two-men threesomes, and balancing desires with fairness1:18:42 Lust versus love: erotic passion compared to slow, vulnerable, emotional sex1:22:18 Why sugar dating and failed sugar babying experiences didn’t work for her1:30:20 Bratting, dom/sub shifts, BDSM dynamics, and partner-specific power exchanges1:35:39 Public play stories: car hookups, concert fingering, camping sex, and party escapades1:42:29 Motherhood and libido: breastfeeding, body changes, dryness, and shifting turn-ons1:51:15 Future hopes: farm life, family, community living, and ongoing sexual exploration1:54:59 Designing her dream pleasure palace: textures, restraints, toys, and sensual spaces2:07:00 Spreading love through compliments, affirmations, and astrology chart readings 🤩 TOPICS | Abortion experience, accidental bathtub orgasms, ADHD absent-minded lovers, animal science student, astrology chart readings, astrology certification, baby interruptions, BDSM kink test, body positivity, book-keeping satisfaction, bratting dynamics, car hookups, child custody battles, childhood masturbation, choking kink, club hookups, communication boundaries, concert fingering, consent conversations, cucumber-cool lovers, cum play curiosity, daddy energy, dating app sexting, dry responses turn-off, emotional healing, emotional safety, energetic foreplay, erotic astrology, female friendships, fingering in theaters, fire sign friends, first masturbation faucet, forest hikes sex, friend betrayals, girlfriend practice kissing, high sex drive, hotbox car sex, intimate eye contact, jealousy in relationships, Kundalini awakening, late night sexting, lesbian curiosity, long-distance engagement, lust fantasies, Mars Venus Lilith in Leo, masturbation massage wand, messy sugar daddies, molly party sex, monogamy negotiations, mothering body changes, movie theater hookups, mushroom sex, natal chart insights, natural lube issues, nervous system healing, OnlyFans curiosity, orgasmic summer romance, outdoor camping sex, overbearing partners, parental interruptions, plan B failure, poly dynamics, porn documentaries, primal lovers, public oral, pussy confidence, religious shame, safe container conversations, Scorpio moon partners, semen retention, sex in creek beds, sex on cars, shower vibrator, single mom dating, sleepover hickeys, slut reclamation, stepdad interruptions, sugar dating disappointments, therapist support, threesome negotiations, trauma healing, trust rebuilding, Tumblr porn discoveries, vibrator discovery, Virgo Mercury communication, Waldorf school sex ed.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Luna shares her approach to supporting virgins of all ages and genders through their partnered sexual debuts at the ranch. She explores the many definitions of virginity, offers detailed session types tailored to different needs and goals, and reflects on the joy of co-creating confidence-building, pleasure-filled first experiences. Plus: double-virgin stories, consent frameworks, and masturbation meditation prep tips!00:00 Virginity, definitions, and why the “right time” is different for everyone04:16 Pleasure beyond orgasm, Virgin 2.0s, and building confidence07:13 Session types: quickies, tutorials, dating coaching, and roleplay14:20 Submissive and dominant dynamics + creative partner prep17:15 Double-virgin stories, sweet debuts, and shared firsts18:35 Masturbation meditation, desensitization tips, and erotic explorationGo Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Fetish porn, healing retreats, pegging joy, and spiritual connection—Shay Sights shares how she built a life of creativity, sensuality, and unconditional love while rebuilding a beach resort and exploring gangbangs. 📈 STATS | 51 bisexual single woman, she/her pronouns, holistic healer, porn star, property manager, Vancouver native, Los Angeles-based, into: twisted mommy talk, adventure, connection, pushing the envelope, fetish play, taboo play, ramping up energy with partners, originality, and coming up with creative content ideas to turn other people on, building things, gardening, animals, and remote places. ⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Meet Shay: holistic healer, porn star, and beach resort rebuilder02:10 Pajama joy and the thrill of canceling a shoot03:08 Buying land in Mexico based on intuition and kombucha07:08 Construction as spiritual healing and creative expression10:00 Why quiet energy and solitude are essential to her joy12:54 Future retreats and transforming a falling-down property into magic13:25 Self-care, saying no to toxicity, and letting people help16:12 How sex work, healing, and hospitality all help people connect21:28 Behind the scenes of porn health and safety practices27:48 Personal sex life and upholding industry standards28:18 Toilet fetishes, stepmom porn, and freedom from shame31:51 Cringing at judgment, not at her own choices33:20 What makes someone sexy? Amazing energy over appearance35:48 Learning sex through sex work, and connection through spiritual growth42:49 Onscreen vs. real-life sex: entertainment vs. intimacy47:19 Porn as curated emotional performance49:58 Bloopers, realism, and letting audiences see the effort51:33 Shay’s slutty fun list: pegging, gang bangs, and mommy talk56:09 Aries sun, Scorpio rising, and the archetypes of porn57:40 Clit-sucking toys and sensation preferences59:14 Favorite sex lesson to teach: communicate everything1:01:31 Why every body—and every day—is different1:03:09 Consent and connection protocols on porn sets1:04:17 Favorite partners, flogging, and flog-worthy memories1:04:55 Still on her list: a five-guy gangbang1:07:53 Sex in Mexico: beach shoots and rooftop fantasies1:09:34 What we need for a more loving world: unconditional love1:10:39 Karma, the Golden Rule, and living as an example1:11:53 Reflections on love, shame, and human connection🤩 TOPICS | Abraham hicks, age and sensuality, airbnb landlord stories, amateur porn realism, angel investing intuition, architecture preservation, artisan tile details, bisexual female performer, blood and urine testing, body-safe toys, business-minded porn stars, Caribbean dive culture, childhood sex education gaps, clitoral stimulation toys, communication in adult scenes, content creator bloopers, creative real estate, deep energy sensitivity, direct German yoga teachers, DIY home restoration, emotional fluidity in sex, ethical adult filmmaking, fetish curiosity, finding kombucha in small towns, French decorative influence, full moon rituals, gang bang choreography, holistic hospitality, hot milf persona, industry compliance standards, jungle building logistics, kinky latex fashion, love-based living, Mexican construction permits, ocean-view roof decks, palm tree privacy, pegging with passion, personality integration, porn career longevity, professional dominants, property zoning in Mexico, quiet nightlife preferences, reality vs fantasy in porn, remote living joy, roof deck sex, Scorpio rising porn stars, sex and spiritual integration, sexual archetypes, sexual energy healing, short film porn scripts, social media expectations, spiritual sex exploration, spoken consent videos, strap-on adventures, tropical solitude, vaginal vs anal testing, voiceover vignette scripts, water sign placements, women-led retreats, and yoga contractor networking. 🔗 SHAY LINKS | shaysights.com / OF / @shaysighstofficial / x / tiktokAsk a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Luna shares her three-step lover invitation framework for turning nervous, shy, or hesitant partners into confident, creative lovers. With real scripts, personal stories, and juicy practicals from her work as a legal courtesan, this episode covers everything from desire check-ins and genital inspections to safe-touch communication and transforming don’ts into delicious do’s. A deeply detailed how-to for co-creating extraordinary sex that feels amazing for everyone involved.00:00 What makes someone an excellent lover + a 3-step invitation framework03:15 Getting on the same page—check-ins, desires, boundaries, and expectations10:06 Normalizing genital inspections & safety conversations before sex15:16 Universal health questions, fluid exchange, and sensory considerations20:12 Specific invitations that spark co-creative, connected sex30:10 Condom communication, orgasm talk, and post-ejaculation care33:15 How boundaries transform shy lovers into radiant, confident partners35:06 Changing sexual dynamics with long-term partners40:02 Turning “don’ts” into “do’s” + why talking about it is hot44:13 Hygiene, nutrition, and the scent of a sexy body47:31 Mutual joy, confidence, and bringing these learnings into your everyday life Go Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Butt rub orgasms, week-long sexting, and a love of blowjobs—Lady C shares how open communication transformed her long-term relationship into a kinky, pleasure-filled partnership.📈 STATS | 30 straight female, she/her pronouns, in a relationship of 7 years, production planner, from Tennessee, into: giving blowjobs, anal, sending her significant other sexy photos and naughty videos, getting choked, being held down, days-long foreplay, and is curious about bondage.⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Shame spikes, sexual confidence, and learning through exploration04:15 Sexting as foreplay, kinky conversations, and discovering what feels good08:25 Early porn exposure, bed-corner masturbation, and first-time stories13:11 College hookups, single motherhood, and craving real connection17:11 First orgasm from penetration, anal curiosity, and learning through trust22:10 Girth challenges, plugs, and double penetration brainstorms27:17 Long-term love, deep trust, and erotic discovery30:37 Playing with foreskin, blowjob enthusiasm, and oral teasing36:39 Week-long foreplay, sexy video exchanges, and scheduling desire39:18 Surprise butt rub orgasm, full-body massage, and nipple play42:39 Being held down, bondage curiosity, and learning to surrender47:36 Porn preferences, homemade content, and teasing videos51:35 Favorite ways to give and receive pleasure57:22 Threesome fantasies, open communication, and shared curiosity1:00:14 Pleasure palace dreams, pole dancing, and mirrored sex1:04:49 Letting people be great, compliments, and spreading love🤩 TOPICS | After-sex touch, ass obsession, ass teasing, baby weight and self-image, being face down and melting, big hand kink, blowjob technique with foreskin, body chemistry, body complex, butt cheek spreading, cancer zodiac personality, clit toy solo video, comfort with long-term partner, consent conversations, couch christening, day shift sex planning, dick sensitivity play, dick sucking while high, early porn exposure, erotic tension during sexting, female-led pleasure teasing, fingering and humming combo, flexible sexual identity, foreskin teasing tips, front-to-back licking, girthy penis challenges, hands-over-head restraint, headspace and surrender, homemade sex tape ideas, intimate long-distance foreplay, internal stroking with fingers, late-in-life confidence, lingerie photo sharing, mirror dancing naked, mommy mode vs sex mode, morning-after cuddles, neck pressure play, nipple pulling, NSFW work distractions, oil on breasts, open to pegging, oral feedback and coaching, partner-first mentality, porn curiosity with partner, postpartum sexual reconnection, pussy slaps to reset, receiving instructions during oral, rough teasing after climax, running from climax, safe word practice, sexting routines, shared masturbation videos, slippery stroke tricks, solo play discomfort, spontaneous oral, teasing the tip, thick dick strategies, titty oil massage, trust in submission, turning pain into pleasure, under-the-influence blowjobs, unfiltered sex stories, unlearning shame, visual turn-ons, weekend-only sex life, work spouse flirtation.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of How to Brothel, Luna Robbe gives a detailed, candid overview of the activities available at legal brothels like Sheri’s Ranch. From classic offerings to specialty parties, she breaks down her stackable menu, shares personal insights, and emphasizes safety, communication, and consent. This episode is packed with practical info, sexy possibilities, and Luna’s signature curiosity and care.00:00 What people really mean when they ask “what are we allowed to do?”02:04 Sheri’s Ranch menu breakdown: duos, lingerie, baths, drag, and breast massage06:11 Foot fetishes, personal touches, and how custom sessions unfold10:22 Stackable pleasures: cuddle hangs, worship, erotic massage, and unlimited sex14:26 Deluxe blowjobs, tantra elements, and cock tension release18:17 Cunnilingus, pegging, prostate massage, and the magic of butts22:00 Roleplay, fetish dreams, and why longer sessions matter for kink26:36 Creative offerings: story edits, erotic photos, filming, and podcast fantasies30:51 Forbidden lunar crater: legal limits, fluid exchange, and safety protocols33:29 Final thoughts: collaboration, clarity, consent, and an invitation to connect Go Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of How to Brothel, Luna shares detailed email etiquette tips for contacting legal courtesans in Nevada. She outlines respectful communication practices, common pitfalls to avoid, and ways to foster real human connection while navigating the professional boundaries of sex work. Whether you're curious or planning a visit, this guide helps ensure your message lands with kindness, clarity, and purpose.00:00 Why email etiquette matters and how to balance warmth, clarity, and respect02:23 How to share: tone tips, fantasy etiquette, and where to take erotic writing04:09 Coded language, gifting guidance, and how to support without risking anyone’s platform06:43 What makes a great intro message: kindness, curiosity, appreciation, and sincere connection09:25 Emails and real-time energy13:06 Sweet support—how clients thoughtfully show up with care16:19 How to introduce yourself, what to share, and why confidence matters more than credentials19:12 When to reflect before reaching out21:37 Booking reminders, follow-ups, and how to help everything flow smoothly27:56 Be kind, be clear, and trust your heart (and your parts) Go Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of How to Brothel, Luna shares practical, heart-centered negotiation tips for legal brothels in Nevada. With a focus on calming the nervous system, valuing human connection, and co-creating satisfying intimate experiences, she walks listeners through her relational negotiation style—from feelings check to final agreement. Whether you're a first-time visitor or curious about the process, this guide offers clarity, compassion, and a few juicy behind-the-scenes stories.00:00 Why negotiation isn’t scary + what to expect at a legal oasis01:26 Value exchange, mindset shifts, and preparing your nervous system03:08 Questions to ask yourself before you visit04:08 Relational negotiation in under 10 minutes05:08 Feelings checks, breath, and connection cues08:11 Discovering overlap, defining desires, and menu magic11:42 The inspection step + setting the tone for play13:00 Generosity, entitlement, and what inspires courtesans to go above and beyond15:41 Erotic energy, arousal mindset, and staying present17:20 Post-session behavior, succubus radar, and rebooking energy20:12 Entitlement stories, misunderstandings, and repair23:18 Fetish party whiplash + why clarity is kindness25:20 Thoughts on collaboration, kindness, and creative connection Go Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of How to Brothel, Luna breaks down the realities of pricing at legal brothels in Nevada. She explains why prices can’t be shared ahead of time, offers analogies to help listeners understand the wide range of experiences and costs, and emphasizes the importance of generosity, consent, and respectful connection. Whether you're budgeting for a quickie or dreaming of a luxury weekend, this episode helps you prepare mindfully and legally.00:00 Legal restrictions, logic, and preparing for your dream experience01:32 Brothel pricing ≠ escort rates03:23 What you're really paying for when you book with a legal courtesan04:10 Types of parties: basic, classic, and luxury experiences06:07 Examples of sessions—from quickies to full weekends of connection07:31 What’s included: chat, tour, negotiation, toys, food, drinks, and more08:55 Behind-the-scenes costs courtesans cover + house split realities10:04 What gets you filtered out (or invited deeper): kindness, respect, attitude11:12 Value, generosity, and coming prepared Go Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Luna shares practical, heartfelt etiquette tips for guests visiting legal brothels in Nevada. From politeness and professionalism to consent, clarity, and generosity, she explores how mindful behavior enhances connection, safety, and mutual enjoyment. This guide offers a loving, detailed roadmap to co-creating respectful, sexy experiences. 00:00 Politeness, consent, and why etiquette matters at the ranch02:01 Professional intros and explicit dirty talk in public spaces05:15 Phones, privacy, and staying present07:01 Nervous systems, smiling, and line-up kindness09:07 Tips for talking to hostesses, bartenders, and support staff13:02 Don’t assume hugs—or services—without asking14:46 Energetic generosity and what turns Luna on18:00 Mutual pleasure, clarity, and what makes parties great20:04 Stranger play, casual sex, and the connection spectrum22:00 Negotiation boundaries and respectful dirty talk24:06 Emotional clarity, journaling, and setting intentions26:08 STI safety, fluid rules, and why spit is not lube28:00 Touch communication, partner checking, and edge play31:16 Degrading terms, choking, and porn norms vs. real life33:20 Post-party communication, cuddles, and follow-up joy35:00 Don'ts: rudeness, trauma dumping, and breaking agreements38:05 Respect, luxury, and why this isn't your reality show40:20 Final reminders: appreciation, kindness, and conscious connectionGo Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Luna Robbie shares a comprehensive, heart-forward guide on how to prepare for a visit to a legal brothel. From emotional readiness and communication tips to hygiene, budgeting, and etiquette, she offers practical advice to help curious clients co-create luxurious, satisfying, and respectful experiences. Whether you're planning your first trip or returning for more, Luna invites you to follow your heart—and follow your parts.00:00 Following your heart and fully committing to your desires02:31 Clarifying: kinks, intimacy, fantasies, and focus06:08 Negotiation prep: communication, specificity, and consent09:53 Budgeting tips, value alignment, and choosing the right courtesan for you13:11 What to bring: toys, outfits, gifts, and specialty item reminders15:57 Travel logistics, driving yourself, car rental tips, and cell service quirks20:24 Self-care deep dive: nutrition, movement, hygiene, and STI check-ins26:26 Nervous system prep, internal parts work, and emotional readiness31:36 Grooming and shower etiquette tips38:13 Money access, appointment logistics, and gift-giving40:43 Arrival tips: edging, entrances, hostess interactions, and bar manners45:18 Bar lineups, threesomes, and multi-lady etiquette52:21 Human check-ins, desire discovery, and budget overlap55:13 Health inspections, playful first looks, and booking steps58:14 Shower rules, extending parties, and payment protocols59:56 Aftercare, scent play, and party wrap-up01:01:04 Tipping, reviews, and post-party appreciation01:06:13 Post-party tips: journaling, ripples of joy, and planning your next trip Go Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Luna offers a candid, detailed introduction to the world of legal brothels in Nevada, sharing personal insights from her experience as a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch. She covers everything from what makes a brothel legal, testing protocols, and negotiation logistics to emotional safety, etiquette, and common misconceptions. It's a compassionate, stigma-busting overview designed to inform and empower curious listeners.00:00 What is a legal brothel? Definitions, stigma, and surprise reactions05:18 Inside Sheri’s Ranch: room types, Playland, and goddess spaces07:43 Legality, ID rules, surrogacy vs. sex work, and healing potential09:12 Safety, freedom, negotiation basics, and fantasy fulfillment13:16 Testing, pricing myths, and payment logistics18:16 Sheriff’s cards and background checks21:00 How brothel negotiations actually work + tipping etiquette22:23 Safe sex laws, hygiene expectations, and boundary clarity26:34 Why legal courtesans can’t leave with guests and public etiquette29:20 Activities overview, emotional safety, and discretion33:29 Holding space, nervous system healing, and embodied trust36:34 Enforcement, kink roots, and the joy of clear containers39:12 Luna’s personal pros and cons Go Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.