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Author: Novaya and Carta Monir

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Join artist/former dominatrix Novaya and writer/pornstar Carta Monir for a podcast which lacks serious literary, artistic, political, or scientific value. (Content Warning: This podcast is intended for adults over 18 years of age. Please do not listen if you are upset by frank conversations about sex, pornography, fetish, bdsm, consent, or queerness.)

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There's a little cutout at the beginning of the audio for some reason! Not sure why!Topics Discussed:Grieving trans friends lost to suicideNovaya's trans lawyer friend and former lover who is helping them through their grieving processTeenage Novaya had the same forwardness as adult Novaya does nowRemembering Novaya's friend, LeeThe importance of trans people having spaces to be themselvesNovaya's beloved sissy maid"A kill room, but for pies."Transphobia kinkWanting to be Carta's pantyboyCarta's scene in Chicago with TestimonyCarta, getting fucked with her own bloodCarta, on getting waterboarded and how fraught it feels"One stupid thing at a time"Novaya's waterboarding instructorCarta's deep discomfort with military shitKink is based in really hard to deal with, often evil stuffRevisiting and rewriting traumatic memories using kinkCarta's doctor got mad at her for not using fake bloodBranding tipsNovaya book updateCarta is mad at people who are charging for pirated versions of her pornNovaya's name changeCarta reveals Novaya's off-camera nameHiiiiii MaggieeeeeeeeeeWhat's gonna happen????Please consider becoming a sustaining sponsor for either/both of us!Events:May 12 - Novaya @ International Center of Photography in the eveningMay 13 - Novaya @ International Center of Photography 3-4 PM with appearance by Sissy MaidMay 13 - Novaya (and Sissy) @ Lucky on Ave. B, Happy Hour 4-6 PMLinks:Ffausten, fisting lubeOur crushes:Studio dé MannéMiss CoupleKyle QuinnTestimony (twitter // instagram)Nightmare VexPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Novaya needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta's wishlist is always a good way to support her! Maybe you want to buy her a book, or a leather jacket, or some new luggage??Special thanks:Thank you everyone for listening to fifteen episodes of I Know It When I See It! We love you and we're so grateful for you <3
This episode was recorded in the least audiophile way possible: we didn't wear headphones, and we recorded using laptop microphones. Sorry and enjoy!Topics Discussed:Gay and Lesbian LifestylesNovaya got 'Zucked'Carta's dick: rubbed rawNovaya's bondage lunchPrincess Coco: perfect???????Carta has been a very good girlNovaya: horny for hibiclens???Carta's pain endurance stratsCarta's training + punishment (SHRINK KINK APPROVED?)Book progress!The best bottom.... Novaya has ever had...???????Just girldick and manboobsPlease keep sending funds for the podcast!!Links:Penny Arcade on Bad GirlsRiver Queer LeatherA Body To Live In by Angelo Madsen MinaxThe Barkley Marathons: The Race That Eats Its YoungOur crushes:Podcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Novaya needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta's wishlist is always a good way to support her! Maybe you want to buy her a book, or a leather jacket, or some new luggage??
Topics Discussed:Squirt: is it pee?????????Collar talkCollar talk: Carta's boy editionCarta went to a sex party and had a good timeSkye's herpes theoryCarta is surprised by vaginal douchingBeing a resource to other porn performersA book of Skye's photography is being published!Carta is getting back into solo shootingThe future of Diskette PressAdmin check-inSkye monogamy updateLinks:Raw Meat CollectiveOur crushes:FTMrubbervampPuscle MussyPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta's wishlist is always a good way to support her! Maybe you want to buy her a book, or a leather jacket, or some new luggage??
If you love our podcast and want to hear it more frequently and with better sound quality, please contribute towards our goal of raising $1500 so that we can hire a Trans audio engineer to edit our next ten episodes! Send to $studionovaya via Cashapp with "Podcast," in the note. Or, email for alternative payment options skyenovaya@gmail.comThis episode is half of a discussion which is being split into two because we ran out of time. In this episode we go into detail about the experience of the performance which was the culmination of Carta's residency at the Tom of Finland Foundation in Los Angeles. It is, as usual, a raw and frank account of our queer sex lives and queer sex work hustles.Topics Discussed:-Performance vs Private BDSM-Safety, fear, Carta passing out from both perspectives-Intention & planning BTS of the performance-*All* porn is queer-Honoring and respecting elders without worshipping them-New friendsPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Carta Monir: www.onlyfans.com/cartawww.cartamonir.com Skye Novaya:www.playboy.com/skyenovayawww.studio-novaya.com
If you love our podcast and want to hear it more frequently and with better sound quality, please contribute towards our goal of raising $1500 so that we can hire a Trans audio engineer to edit our next ten episodes! Send to $studionovaya via Cashapp with "Podcast," in the note. Or, email for alternative payment options skyenovaya@gmail.comThis episode is half of a discussion which is being split into two because we ran out of time. In this episode we go into detail about the experience of the performance which was the culmination of Carta's residency at the Tom of Finland Foundation in Los Angeles. It is, as usual, a raw and frank account of our queer sex lives and queer sex work hustles.Topics Discussed: -Performance vs Private BDSM-Safety, fear, Carta passing out from both perspectives -Intention & planning BTS of the performance-*All* porn is queer -Honoring and respecting elders without worshipping them-New friendsPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Carta Monir: www.onlyfans.com/cartawww.cartamonir.com Skye Novaya:www.playboy.com/skyenovayawww.studio-novaya.com
In this episode we forget to give you a content warning: warning, this episode may be upsetting to you. We talk about sex, art, bdsm, sexy art, pornography, sex work, nuance, pee play, fisting, the usual.We catch up on Skye's Berlin shoot with heavybondage4life and Mistress Trinity- at the recently closed Residenz Avalon. And we talk about Carta's recent performance with Mistress Odette at the Tom of Finland House. People, places, things that we talk about in this episode: Residenz Avalon Lady MercedesHeavyMistress TrinityMistress OdetteBetony VernonJesse PonySheree RoseTom of Finland Foundation Our crushes this week include: Angelo MadsenDanny Wylde aka Christopher ZeischeggPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99PAY U/us:Skye is finishing their bondage studio and needs all kinds of gear; cashapp $studionovaya and wishlist hereCarta's  wishlist! Send her money to buy erotic art or kink equipment! Or just send her money for whatever!More about Skye: www.studio-novaya.comMore about Carta: www.cartamonir.com
Episode 11: Butthole Barber

Episode 11: Butthole Barber

2022-09-1201:06:39

Topics Discussed:The butthole barberInstant photographyHaving dedicated assistance on setThorns by the waterCarta loved the water tankThe decision to cut when Carta was too coldMore details about our one-on-one shoots!Abandoned swimming poolStraitjacket and bondage hoodBalancing "being on camera" with "having a real BDSM experience"Incorporating Carta's braces into bondageIt (was) Carta's birthday!!Selling photographyTalking shit (credit our photos!)Links:Polaroid dot comCarta's recommended starter PolaroidClejuso handcuffsStraitJacketShop on EtsyOur crushes:Bee VanianHal Schrieve (prounced "Shreev" lol)Podcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Skye needs more sexy boots and a shopping trip for their birthday. Will you be the one to spoil them? Contact them here!It was just Carta's birthday! She has a wishlist! Send her money to buy erotic art or kink equipment! Or just send her money for whatever!
Episode 10: Bad Hotline

Episode 10: Bad Hotline

2022-08-2201:03:44

Topics Discussed:Visa and Mastercard pull out of PornHubSkye's bad idea for a suicide hotlineWhat does it mean to have "experience" in kink?Boot fetish basicsVomit is "the commitment to the blowjob"Nonconsensual hypnosisHow do we choose who we work with?Do we have specific minimum ages for our collaborators?Listener question: is there any porn of Skye fucking Carta with a strap-on?Mainstream kink porn has the same approach as Guy FieriManaging depressionWhat should we do when we record in the same location?Links:Daisy Does Taxes' breakdown of the Visa/MC newsFisting for JesusTommy KingAgainst Memoir by Michelle TeaZepp WellnessOur crushes:Raquel SavageJamal PhoenixPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Skye needs more sexy boots and a shopping trip for their birthday. Will you be the one to spoil them? Contact them here!Carta's birthday is coming up! She has a wishlist now! Buy her a dashcam to make her car safer?? Is that sexy?? Or just send her money other ways!
Topics Discussed:Carta health and website update!Carta's residency plansSkye is monogamous now!Skye is looking for journalists who are covering new models of media distributionDo you want to hear more about Skye's plants??There's going to be a movie version of Paying For It??Why isn't there a Hothead Paisan HBO show??????Skye makes threats (in Minecraft)Skye hates Shortbus (2006)Diane DiMassa, are you listening? We have a questionSkye loves being told to live their truthPublic playyyyySkye is looking for bodyguards for Folsom! Is that you??Carta is prepping for her first on-camera bloodplay!"Reply guy" is a gender-neutral termLinks:Life Drawing at Heavy Manners Library in LABuy limited-edition art at Skye's website!Play Odell Lake onlineThe Girlfriend Experience (2009)Our crushes:Mistress TrinityEmma MagnoliaPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some ambitious filming-related costs and international travel. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta has a wishlist now! Buy her a dashcam to make her car safer?? Is that sexy?? Or just send her money other ways!
Note:Sound quality in this episode is BAD on Carta's end because she didn't turn off her air conditioner to record. Lesson learned! It sounds like she's on a phone instead of a microphone as a result, sorry about that. (She couldn't have recorded without AC because she was like... sweating bullets and very sick, so this is a compromise lol)Topics Discussed:Carta has coronavirusCarta got covid from giving a professional talkSkye kisses and tellsProfessional contracts??Skye's opinions aren't their ownLawyers and porn formsDo we care if people call us queer?Carta pipes up right at the endLinks:Carta's professional talk for ICON11Our crushes:Courtney ColesRiver QueerPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta needs someone to pay for a new laptop, as well as debt incurred by legal fees fro setting up her new websites. Send money through venmo, cashapp, or paypal! She also has a wishlist now! Buy her a dashcam to make her car safer?? Is that sexy?? Oh god she needs money
Episode 07: It's Pat!

Episode 07: It's Pat!

2022-07-0555:05

Note:Sound quality in this episode is lower than usual because of temporary recording conditions, sorry about that! It's very listenable but a little scratchy in places.Topics Discussed:It's Pat!Being a T4T chaser Carta's t-dick tattooIs it rude to masturbate during the podcast?Leathersex + Skye's vowD/s dynamicsD/s with disabilityTaking pain as serviceAvoiding interdependence in D/sWhat it feels like to get railed by a fucksawLinks:Carta's It's Pat! fanficThe Marketplace series by Laura Antoniou (Carta's problematic fave)Mr. Benson (Skye's problematic fave)Our crushes:Dominique RystanPeach EmojyPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta needs someone to pay for a new laptop, as well as debt incurred by legal fees fro setting up her new websites. Send money through venmo, cashapp, or paypal! She also has a wishlist now! Buy her a dashcam to make her car safer?? Is that sexy?? Oh god she needs money
Topics Discussed:Carta has trouble getting hard when she's bottomingHow do we plan for porn shoots?Skye has a big military fetish, and Carta really doesn'tWe want more listener questions!Links:North Korean Traffic PoliceLibya's Amazonian GuardOur crushes:BoarlordGreyhoundPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta needs someone to pay for a new laptop, as well as debt incurred by legal fees fro setting up her new websites. Send money through venmo, cashapp, or paypal! She also has a wishlist now! Buy her a dashcam to make her car safer?? Is that sexy??
Topics Discussed:Answering a listener question about IRL cruisingThe importance of being confidentCarta speaks for all trans womenPiss drinking and Skye's feelings around scat playLinks:Carta's twitter clip with Derek RacksSkye's Playboy Centerfold pageSophie Ladder's content restrictions spreadsheetOur crushes:Ravyn AlexaPandora aka luxusinleatherPodcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta needs someone to pay for a new laptop, as well as debt incurred by legal fees fro setting up her new websites. Send money through venmo, cashapp, or paypal! She also has a wishlist now!
Topics Discussed:Twins + incest + family in BDSM and sex workArt funding + the progress Carta is making on her websitesIs Skye a good bottom? (The answer will not surprise you)SwitchingLinks:https://twitter.com/gynarchygoddesshttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Holy_Virgin_MaryResidenz Avalon in BerlinOur crushes:Mistress OdetteMistress Amanda WildefyreXenon Opal Universe Podcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta needs someone to pay for a new laptop, as well as debt incurred by legal fees fro setting up her new websites. Send money through venmo, cashapp, or paypal! She also has a wishlist now!
Episode 03: Marks

Episode 03: Marks

2022-06-0601:00:29

Topics Discussed:Hypermobility-type Ehlers-Danlos syndromeBob Flanagan and Sheree RoseMarking submissives and loversHow each of us combined porn with artSkye's low opinion of SatanismSolar Panels??Links:Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist (1997)Louise NevelsonCatherine Opie's photographs-Self-Portrait/Pervert (1994)-Self-Portrait/Nursing (2004)Solar-powered offroad MaybachThe Films of Doris Wishman: The Twilight Years (with Carta's commentary track!)Podcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Ira Glass quote about art referenced by Skye: “Nobody tells this to people who are beginners, I wish someone told me. All of us who do creative work, we get into it because we have good taste. But there is this gap. For the first couple years you make stuff, it’s just not that good. It’s trying to be good, it has potential, but it’s not. But your taste, the thing that got you into the game, is still killer. And your taste is why your work disappoints you. A lot of people never get past this phase, they quit. Most people I know who do interesting, creative work went through years of this. We know our work doesn’t have this special thing that we want it to have. We all go through this. And if you are just starting out or you are still in this phase, you gotta know its normal and the most important thing you can do is do a lot of work. Put yourself on a deadline so that every week you will finish one story. It is only by going through a volume of work that you will close that gap, and your work will be as good as your ambitions. And I took longer to figure out how to do this than anyone I’ve ever met. It’s gonna take awhile. It’s normal to take awhile. You’ve just gotta fight your way through.” Wishlists:Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta needs someone to pay for some of the expenses incurred by setting up her own sites. Is this you? Send money through venmo, cashapp, or paypal! She also has a wishlist now!
Episode 02: Consent

Episode 02: Consent

2022-05-2701:03:25

Topics Discussed:Non-binary hairConsent in BDSMAnti-porn feminismInsexKink dot comWhat would an ideal BDSM porn studio be like?Our dynamicLinks:Irene BossGraphic Sexual Horror, 2009 (this documentary has Carta's anti-recommendation... it's excellently made, and pure psychic damage. Watch at your own risk.)Kink,  2013Poem Skye's Sub Wrote About Them:There is an adjustment that I have to make every time.What sometimes allows me to adjust myself is observing this person managing both her desire and my fantasy with unusual energy and skill.When she calculates my limit. How much I am capable of taking. How much she is capable of giving. How much she can damage me without being forced to end the scene.I love when she tells me to do what I must do. Which I know to be impossible.She tells me what I am going to do, and her tale scares me, because this thing is beyond my capabilities.She is reasonable only because she wants to believe that she is reasonable.Does that sound like a terrible thing to say? On the contrary, to manage one's motives rationally is admirable.I would not want to see an intuitive, uncontrolled confused person such as myself trying to manage motives of sadism.Podcast MusicKING by ESPer 99Wishlists:Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta needs someone to pay for some of the expenses incurred by setting up her own sites. Is this you? Send money through venmo, cashapp, or paypal!
Episode 01: Introductions

Episode 01: Introductions

2022-05-1801:11:19

Topics discussed:Who are areOnline censorshipOur D/s dynamicPervOut and Lucy HartOur crushes:Austin SpearsBabyBlackWidowHeavyWishlists:Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!Carta needs someone to pay for some of the expenses incurred by setting up her own sites. Is this you? Send money through venmo, cashapp, or paypal!
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