It's Related, I Promise

This week we go round the table sharing our first time in various precarious situations. Categories include "First Public Scandal", "First Time Having Sex", "First Million (Kenya) Shillings" and many more. We invited superstar MC and Radio Presenter Kwambox to join in on the fun.  Can you relate to any of the stories? We'd love to hear your 'first time stories' in any of the scenarios we discussed. Please send us a voice note on anchor, or in our DM's (instagram).  https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/ We cant wait to hear from you on this one! While you are here, you can checkout Kwambox's podcast 'The Box Pod' -   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Sr-DjjiZOc.  With love from, Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri & Sharon Machira. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

After a two year (unplanned) hiatus we're finally back and we're so excited to resume podcasting! To kick off season two, we invited seasoned media personality Janet Mbugua, to join us as we unpack our toxic traits. Why did we choose this topic? For absolutely no reason, but... it's related, i promise! Loool. This session was nothing short of CATHARTIC! We had deeply missed sharing our experiences on the podcast and it was a beautiful reminder of the wonderful sisterhood & community we had created here at iRIP.  Feels great to be back! Remember to please share a voice note letting us know YOUR toxic traits :) Here's how: Download the app 'Anchor', search for Its related, I promise and the option to record a 1 min voice note appears at the top of our profile. Hosted by Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri, and Sharon Machira. While you are here, be sure to check out Janet's podcast 'My First Time Stories", where she sheds light on period stigma, one story at a time.  https://afripods.africa/episode/episode-8-periods-and-disability/7c1f3413-e7e2-43d6-ab80-402d3b9ea912 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

Noni recently came across an interesting tweet with a lady asking “Why are men so secure? What’s the secret? Like, do y’all ever need reassurance?” So we invited our Ghanian hommie Bright Gameli, who also dabbles as a Cyber Security expert; and posed the question to him. We’re hoping to do more of these #AskTheMen topics, so feel free to share any questions you’d like to pose to our future male guests, and you can also recommend men who you'd like us to host on the next edition of #AskTheMen. We're wrapping up Season 1 by bringing in our first ever guest, but we'll be back in a few weeks with SEASON TWO, with exciting new content, new segments, and a new ENERGY!  Thanks for the incredible support so far :) Hosted by Sharon Machira, Julia Gaitho & Muthoni Muchiri.  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

If you were raised by African parents and you are over the age of 25, then brace yourself for incessant pressure to get married! Whether the pressure comes from your parents, from society, from your partner or even YOURSELF, you can’t catch a break in these streets! If you are ripe and un-plucked, like the three of us; “Kaa Ngumu Tu”, your time will come :) Hosted by Julia Gaitho, Noni Muchiri & Sharon Machira. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

This week we tried something different, we totally 'FREESTYLED'  the session!!  We decided to speak off-script, off-the-cuff, and candidly speak about anything and everything. The ensuing result;  Julia opens up about speaking to a medium, Noni shares a personal dilemma she’s facing with her sister and Sharon gets real about job insecurity. Show Notes; Here are the links Julia mentioned in the podcast! Enjoy! Ainsile Macleod; Living The Life Your Soul Intended- (Super Soul Conversations by Oprah) https://castbox.fm/vb/215933933 Reginald Lewis; the Medium Julia spoke to. https://instagram.com/reginaldlewis?igshid=1m8f5qsrqif9v --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

I’ll start by saying, this was a really cute session; listen to the end and you’ll understand why. Also, we're already 10 EPISODES IN? Wow, Thank You all so much for the incredible support.  Today we're talking about Body Insecurities, something we all battle with, however all that matters ultimately is feeling confident in your own skin. We open up about our insecurities, we also share our ‘coming of age’ stories and celebrate each other’s physical features. Hosted by Muthoni Muchiri, Julia Gaitho & Sharon Machira. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

Let's talk about Ex-Etiquette! How should you engage with your 'former' significant other? It's a slippery slope! One minute they are calling you asking for closure, next minute you're entangled in the sheets. The most contentious of it all; is whether you should delete their pictures from social media! Which way do you sway? All this and much more in today's episode. Hosted by Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri & Sharon Machira.  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

Yeah, we know... People change. But what we're talking about today is people SWITCHING UP! It's the shitty kind of change. The one that creeps up on you and has you feeling hoodwinked...When the 'Good-Guy mask' wears off, When the ghosting begins, When you become that friend who gets talked about in our new segment #AFriendOfMine(whattheysaaay)...  Have y'all experienced this? WILD.  Hosted by Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri, and Sharon Machira. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

In 2020, Privacy is an illusion. Everybody's business is everybody's business...and when you're a media personality your business is LITERALLY someone's BUSINESS. But are we taking this too far? Social Media has turned us all into nosy, prying-ass humans, but maybe its time we channeled our platforms towards more positive outcomes; like when we got Art Cafe to finally #PayCreatives or when someone's tweet got Kenya Airways to lower its flight prices.  Social Media is a powerful tool... let's wield it responsibly. OKKUURRR? Hosted by Muthoni Muchiri, Julia Gaitho & Sharon Machira. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

One of the most confusing questions of our time; Should you pursue your Passion or Paycheck? Or maybe both? We get into 'unconventional career paths', finding your passion and a loose rant about some of the negative perceptions of 'Creatives'. Karibuni!  Hosted by Muthoni Muchiri, Julia Gaitho & Sharon Machira. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

Excuse me, I'm asking for a friend...WHY ARE WE DATING THE SAME PEOPLE?  "Six degrees of separation" is the idea that all people are six, or fewer, social connections away from each other. In Nairobi, (and other African capitals) you'll be lucky to find even a SINGULAR degree of separation between you and your Ex's last fling. This week we let you know more about our beloved community of "Sister Wives" and "Eskimo Brothers" here in the +254. Wanna know who these are? Give the show a listen!  Hosted by Muthoni Muchiri, Julia Gaitho & Sharon Machira.  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

ENTANGLEMENT- A word that has found new meaning in 2020! After Jada Pinkett Smith dropped the bomb on the world that she was in an ‘entanglement’ with August Alsina, we knew we had to jump on this topic. We talk about monogamy, open relationships, and Julz introduces us to “Polyamory’ relationships.  We also ask; Would you be in an open relationship? So send in your listener notes! iRIP is hosted by Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri & Sharon Machira. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

In this episode, we talk about ’Situationships’, or better yet ‘Friends With Benefits’. Listen,  Nairobi is a micro-community and whether you like it or not, if you are single then you’re probably in one! It can be a messy situation, especially if lines get blurred or hearts get broken… but as we say in the +254, WE MOVE REGARDLESS! We also share our Bad B**ch Anthems; So let us know yours on our social media handles @itsrelatedIpromise! Enjoy! Hosted by Muthoni Muchiri, Sharon Machira & Julia Gaitho. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

This week we vulnerably share our initial reaction to this pandemic (still feels weird typing that), and how we settled into living in these 'unprecedented times'. Someone should cancel that phrase ... it's been RINSED! But let's use it for now.  Share your listener-notes and let us know how you've been doing. How you've REALLY been doing!  iRIP is hosted by Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri & Sharon Machira. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

How has our upbringing shaped our views on money and class? Find out in our new episode! 🎙#candidconversations 0:00 Introductions 2:52 What Caught Your Attention 12:44 Growing Up Rich Vs Growing Up Poor Video Reaction 19:18 How We Grew Up 40:28 How Do We Want To Raise The Next Generation 1:05:25 Parting Shots Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Follow Charles on IG: https://www.instagram.com/njenga_cm/ Follow Juliani on IG: https://www.instagram.com/julianikenya/ Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=en Follow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=en Follow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

Tune in to this episode to delve into the joys and challenges of intertribal relationships. Our guests share their personal journeys and the collective narratives that shape intertribal romance in Kenya. #itsrelatedipromise #irip #intertribalrelationships Chapters 00:00 - 04:46 Introduction 04:47 -17:27 What Caught Your Attention 17:28 - 33:07 Esther's Story 33:08 - 47:36 How Did We Learn Tribalism 47:47 - 56:27 Do We Tend to Date Along Tribal Lines 56:28 - 1:13:17 How Do We Promote Tribal Stereotypes 1:13:28 - 1:15:18 We'd Love To Hear Your Experiences Follow Magunga on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themagunga/ Follow Magunga on X: https://twitter.com/theMagunga Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=en Follow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=en Follow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

Meet the visionaries behind Fingo Africa, the first sponsors of our podcast and the Gen Z's rewriting Africa’s banking narrative 💰💰💰 Be among the first ten people to download Fingo and open an account using our code ‘ILUVIRIP’ to receive KSH 500. It only takes 4 minutes btw! Their virtual cards are now LIVE and will be accessible as soon as you open your account 💳 Customize your card and start making secure online purchases on your preferred platforms with exclusive deals and rewards 💃🏾🕺🏽 #itsrelatedipromise #irip #fingoafrica #forafricasambitious 00:00 - 02:30 Welcome our first sponsors!!! 02:32 - 11:21 What Caught Your Attention 11:22 - 27:02 Eff It, We'll Open Our Own Bank 27:03 - 37:24 How Secure Is Fingo 37:25 - 55:56 Get To Know The Founders 55:57 - 57:40 So Is Fingo Actually Successful 57:41 - 58:15 Fingo Virtual Cards 58:16 - 1:00:42 What Were The Challenges In Starting Fingo 1:00:43 - 1:02:57 Let's Discuss Doing Business As Friends Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Follow Fingo on IG: https://www.instagram.com/fingoafrica/ Follow Fingo on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fingoafrica Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=en Follow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=en Follow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

Join us and our special guest Lydia K. M. as we unpack Reesa Teesa's "Who TF Did I Marry?" TikTok series. Would we really do things differently if we were in her position? Maybe society's pressures get to us at some point and we "settle"... Let us know your thoughts in the comments or drop us a voice note... 00:00 - 04:41 Introduction 04:42 - 22:22 What Caught Your Attention? 22:23 - 25:49 Who TF Did She Marry? 25:50 - 43:12 What Informed Our Ideas About Love/Marriage? 43:13 - 46:53 Would We Freeze Our Eggs? 46:54 - 50:20 Is Getting A Sperm Donor Crazy? 50:21 - 1:06:31 Societal Pressure Is Rea 1:06:32 - 1:10:54 Bumble Is Where It's At Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Follow Lydia K. M. on IG: https://www.instagram.com/_lydiakm/?hl=en Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=en Follow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=en Follow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

*Trigger Warning* This episode contains graphic depictions of sexual abuse and addiction. Listener discretion is advised. On this episode, we explore the hidden struggles and triumphs over pornography addiction. Our guest shares her personal story, challenging misconceptions, sharing a powerful message of hope and healing. 00:00 - 02:00 Introduction 02:01 - 13:45 What Caught Your Attention 13:46 - 15:27 Segue Into Today's Conversation 15:28 - 25:32 What's Our Take On Porn & Masturbation 25:33 - 37:51 How Did This All Begin For Ruth 37:52 - 52:56 Going Through Therapy 52:57 - 01:13:37 What Really Is Addiction 01:13:38 - 01:22:03 A Personal Story On Pornography For more details on Ruth’s story you can buy her book 'Love Unlimited' available at: - Nuriakenya.com - kenyaclc.org - https://amzn.to/2YF9ci0 Recovery support: E: secondchanceconsults@gmail.com Website: http://secondchanceconsults.org Video Resource: https://forgivenmuchministries.org/our-work-2/ciar-training-videos/ Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=en Follow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=en Follow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message

We’re not just in your ears anymore, we’re coming to your screens! 📺 Get ready for a visual treat as our ‘Ask Us Anything’ episode premieres on YouTube!!! #itsrelatedipromise #irip #PodcastGoesVisual #askusanything 00:00 - 02:17 - Welcome To Our FIRST EVER Audio-Visual Episode!!!! 02:18 - 13:34 - What Caught Our Attention In The Past Week 13:35 - 23:00 - Ask Us Anything 23:01 - 25:08 - What's Our Take on LGBTQIA+? 25:09 - 33:05 - Let's Proceed With The Questions 33:06 - 34:15 - I Am Enough Affirmations 34:16 - 55:07 - What Is The Multiverse? 55:08 - 01:17:55 - It's Related, I Promise Subscribe to our channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCx1WDOZzmyIa1MlK1W3RdOg Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=en Follow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=en Follow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en Episodes on personal finance: - https://open.spotify.com/episode/4JiVsrgHhoJy69aXrwZ6mQ?si=bcd231ec4fe744bb - https://open.spotify.com/episode/2WZ8ncKcw1Mc2Jb3mNYoMC?si=37fae5ba069d4239 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/irip/message