It's Related, I Promise

A sonic escape into the world of THREE diverse Kenyan women. We are young professionals, braving the urban landscape of Kenya's capital city and growing our friendship as we go along. Sharing our experiences as millennials living in the most dynamic continent; AFRICA. From Nairobi to Lagos, Kampala to Johannesburg, Dakar to Accra, New York to London, and that one guy from the Maldives (we saw you in our analytics- LOL); You're all welcome to join in on the fun! Africa to the WORLD;KARIBUNI SANA! Brought to you by Julia Gaitho, Sharon Machira, & Muthoni Muchiri (Our Silent Member)

Where the F*** have we been!? Fungua Roho & new season catch up

We’re backkkk! 🎉After what feels like forever, we’re finally back on set — catching up on everything from career moves and new projects to the little (and not-so-little) updates that shaped us during the break.This one’s raw, hilarious, and long overdue we’re getting real about what kept us away, how life’s been lifing, and what you can expect this new season.So grab your tea (or wine, we won’t judge ) and let’s catch up!It’s been a minute, but we promise, it was worth the wait. 💛With love from Jules, Sharon &Noni.Mentioned;Passion vs Paycheck episode: https://spotify.link/1i49RpUTIXbSo This is Love Podcast: https://spotify.link/zeDv9mZTIXbFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Listen to our past episodes on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3QrSf7FAEfXgc4oRcMvz2Y?si=6bdaa586e62d4ad3Listen to our past episodes on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/its-related-i-promise/id1521265221Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=enFollow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=enFollow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en

10-25
01:20:16

Our First Time Stories- With Kwambox (Sex, Public Shaming & More)

This week we go round the table sharing our first time in various precarious situations. Categories include "First Public Scandal", "First Time Having Sex", "First Million (Kenya) Shillings" and many more. We invited superstar MC and Radio Presenter Kwambox to join in on the fun.  Can you relate to any of the stories? We'd love to hear your 'first time stories' in any of the scenarios we discussed. Please send us a voice note on anchor, or in our DM's (instagram).  https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/ We cant wait to hear from you on this one! While you are here, you can checkout Kwambox's podcast 'The Box Pod' -   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Sr-DjjiZOc.  With love from, Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri & Sharon Machira.

08-10
59:01

What Are Our Toxic Traits? With Janet Mbugua

After a two year (unplanned) hiatus we're finally back and we're so excited to resume podcasting! To kick off season two, we invited seasoned media personality Janet Mbugua, to join us as we unpack our toxic traits. Why did we choose this topic? For absolutely no reason, but... it's related, i promise! Loool. This session was nothing short of CATHARTIC! We had deeply missed sharing our experiences on the podcast and it was a beautiful reminder of the wonderful sisterhood & community we had created here at iRIP.  Feels great to be back! Remember to please share a voice note letting us know YOUR toxic traits :) Here's how: Download the app 'Anchor', search for Its related, I promise and the option to record a 1 min voice note appears at the top of our profile. Hosted by Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri, and Sharon Machira. While you are here, be sure to check out Janet's podcast 'My First Time Stories", where she sheds light on period stigma, one story at a time.  https://afripods.africa/episode/episode-8-periods-and-disability/7c1f3413-e7e2-43d6-ab80-402d3b9ea912

08-03
01:09:27

Do Men Ever Need Reassurance? #AskTheMen with Bright Gameli

Noni recently came across an interesting tweet with a lady asking “Why are men so secure? What’s the secret? Like, do y’all ever need reassurance?” So we invited our Ghanian hommie Bright Gameli, who also dabbles as a Cyber Security expert; and posed the question to him. We’re hoping to do more of these #AskTheMen topics, so feel free to share any questions you’d like to pose to our future male guests, and you can also recommend men who you'd like us to host on the next edition of #AskTheMen. We're wrapping up Season 1 by bringing in our first ever guest, but we'll be back in a few weeks with SEASON TWO, with exciting new content, new segments, and a new ENERGY!  Thanks for the incredible support so far :) Hosted by Sharon Machira, Julia Gaitho & Muthoni Muchiri. 

09-30
40:53

Do You Feel Pressure To Get Married?

If you were raised by African parents and you are over the age of 25, then brace yourself for incessant pressure to get married! Whether the pressure comes from your parents, from society, from your partner or even YOURSELF, you can’t catch a break in these streets! If you are ripe and un-plucked, like the three of us; “Kaa Ngumu Tu”, your time will come :) Hosted by Julia Gaitho, Noni Muchiri & Sharon Machira.

09-23
44:13

#FunguaRoho: What's On Our Mind?

This week we tried something different, we totally 'FREESTYLED'  the session!!  We decided to speak off-script, off-the-cuff, and candidly speak about anything and everything. The ensuing result;  Julia opens up about speaking to a medium, Noni shares a personal dilemma she’s facing with her sister and Sharon gets real about job insecurity. Show Notes; Here are the links Julia mentioned in the podcast! Enjoy! Ainsile Macleod; Living The Life Your Soul Intended- (Super Soul Conversations by Oprah) https://castbox.fm/vb/215933933 Reginald Lewis; the Medium Julia spoke to. https://instagram.com/reginaldlewis?igshid=1m8f5qsrqif9v

09-16
49:18

Do You Have Body Insecurities? Let's Be Candid For A Second

I’ll start by saying, this was a really cute session; listen to the end and you’ll understand why. Also, we're already 10 EPISODES IN? Wow, Thank You all so much for the incredible support.  Today we're talking about Body Insecurities, something we all battle with, however all that matters ultimately is feeling confident in your own skin. We open up about our insecurities, we also share our ‘coming of age’ stories and celebrate each other’s physical features. Hosted by Muthoni Muchiri, Julia Gaitho & Sharon Machira.

09-01
45:31

Should You Delete Your Ex's Pics From Social Media? (Ex-Etiquette)

Let's talk about Ex-Etiquette! How should you engage with your 'former' significant other? It's a slippery slope! One minute they are calling you asking for closure, next minute you're entangled in the sheets. The most contentious of it all; is whether you should delete their pictures from social media! Which way do you sway? All this and much more in today's episode. Hosted by Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri & Sharon Machira. 

08-26
42:56

Ever Had A Partner Who Just Switched Up On You?

Yeah, we know... People change. But what we're talking about today is people SWITCHING UP! It's the shitty kind of change. The one that creeps up on you and has you feeling hoodwinked...When the 'Good-Guy mask' wears off, When the ghosting begins, When you become that friend who gets talked about in our new segment #AFriendOfMine(whattheysaaay)...  Have y'all experienced this? WILD.  Hosted by Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri, and Sharon Machira.

08-18
50:41

Are We Crossing The Line With Celebrity Gossip?

In 2020, Privacy is an illusion. Everybody's business is everybody's business...and when you're a media personality your business is LITERALLY someone's BUSINESS. But are we taking this too far? Social Media has turned us all into nosy, prying-ass humans, but maybe its time we channeled our platforms towards more positive outcomes; like when we got Art Cafe to finally #PayCreatives or when someone's tweet got Kenya Airways to lower its flight prices.  Social Media is a powerful tool... let's wield it responsibly. OKKUURRR? Hosted by Muthoni Muchiri, Julia Gaitho & Sharon Machira.

08-11
46:46

You Chasing Your Passion Or Paycheck?

One of the most confusing questions of our time; Should you pursue your Passion or Paycheck? Or maybe both? We get into 'unconventional career paths', finding your passion and a loose rant about some of the negative perceptions of 'Creatives'. Karibuni!  Hosted by Muthoni Muchiri, Julia Gaitho & Sharon Machira.

07-28
51:27

Why Are We Dating The Same People?

Excuse me, I'm asking for a friend...WHY ARE WE DATING THE SAME PEOPLE?  "Six degrees of separation" is the idea that all people are six, or fewer, social connections away from each other. In Nairobi, (and other African capitals) you'll be lucky to find even a SINGULAR degree of separation between you and your Ex's last fling. This week we let you know more about our beloved community of "Sister Wives" and "Eskimo Brothers" here in the +254. Wanna know who these are? Give the show a listen!  Hosted by Muthoni Muchiri, Julia Gaitho & Sharon Machira. 

07-21
33:19

You Down For An Open Relationship?

ENTANGLEMENT- A word that has found new meaning in 2020! After Jada Pinkett Smith dropped the bomb on the world that she was in an ‘entanglement’ with August Alsina, we knew we had to jump on this topic. We talk about monogamy, open relationships, and Julz introduces us to “Polyamory’ relationships.  We also ask; Would you be in an open relationship? So send in your listener notes! iRIP is hosted by Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri & Sharon Machira.

07-14
42:12

Friends With Benefits; Who Caught The Feels?

In this episode, we talk about ’Situationships’, or better yet ‘Friends With Benefits’. Listen,  Nairobi is a micro-community and whether you like it or not, if you are single then you’re probably in one! It can be a messy situation, especially if lines get blurred or hearts get broken… but as we say in the +254, WE MOVE REGARDLESS! We also share our Bad B**ch Anthems; So let us know yours on our social media handles @itsrelatedIpromise! Enjoy! Hosted by Muthoni Muchiri, Sharon Machira & Julia Gaitho.

07-07
42:34

How You REALLY Doing? COVID & All!

This week we vulnerably share our initial reaction to this pandemic (still feels weird typing that), and how we settled into living in these 'unprecedented times'. Someone should cancel that phrase ... it's been RINSED! But let's use it for now.  Share your listener-notes and let us know how you've been doing. How you've REALLY been doing!  iRIP is hosted by Julia Gaitho, Muthoni Muchiri & Sharon Machira.

07-03
35:47

Surviving The Gig Economy: Film Edition |#STGE || With Mbithi Masya

#STGE – Surviving The Gig Economy: Film Edition!What does it really take to survive and thrive in Kenya’s film industry? 🎥 On this episode, we sit down with the brilliant Mbithi to unpack the realities of building a career in film. From the highs and hard lessons of the film world to the resilience it takes to keep telling stories that matter, this conversation explores what it means to create, sustain, and grow within Kenya’s cinematic landscape.Tune in and let us know your thoughts!#itsrelatedipromise #STGE #gigeconomy #film #kenyafilm #africancinema #creativeeconomyFollow Mbithi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mbithi?igsh=bzcwenVvbWNtem1lLinks mentioned;Voter verification portal: https://verify.iebc.or.ke/Makmende: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MakmendeFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Listen to our past episodes on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3QrSf7FAEfXgc4oRcMvz2Y?si=6bdaa586e62d4ad3Listen to our past episodes on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/its-related-i-promise/id1521265221Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=enFollow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=enFollow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en

12-19
01:30:51

Bride Price or Bought Wife? || With Bright Gameli & Charles Murito

Is paying bride price buying a woman or a cultural rite that still holds value today?In today’s episode, we dive into one of the most debated topics in African homes:bride price.From its traditional meaning… to how it’s practiced today… to whether it’s becoming commercialized, misused or misunderstood… and whether it’s a deal breaker if bride price isn’t paid.We’re unpacking all of it with Bright Gameli and Charles Murito, who share their personal experiences, cultural insights, and a few hot takes.Listen in and share your take! As always — it’s related… we promise! ✨ Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Listen to our past episodes on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3QrSf7FAEfXgc4oRcMvz2Y?si=6bdaa586e62d4ad3Listen to our past episodes on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/its-related-i-promise/id1521265221Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=enFollow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=enFollow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=enFollow Bright on IG: https://www.instagram.com/brightgameli?igsh=dWVta253dDc3Z2d4Follow Charles on IG: https://www.instagram.com/njenga_cm?igsh=MWFkMWt5dGtxOTIzeg==

12-08
01:02:27

Surviving The Gig Economy: Literature & Book Culture | #STGE || With Angela Wachuka

#STGE – Surviving The Gig Economy!What does it take to thrive in Kenya’s world of literature and cultural work? 📚 In this new episode, we sit down with the brilliant Angela Wachuka, co-founder of Book Bunk, to talk about facing the odds, reshaping Nairobi’s public libraries, and what that means for how we experience knowledge, culture, and community.From the unpredictability of the literature space to the wins and lessons of building public cultural institutions… this episode is full of insights every creative needs to hear.✨ Tune in!And while you’re at it… How To Build A Library premieres TODAY at Motion Cinemas. (Don’t say #iRIP didn’t put you on! 😉)Links Mentioned:Book Bunk: https://www.instagram.com/thebookbunk/?hl=enHow To Build A Library Film: https://www.instagram.com/how.to.build.a.library/?hl=enM-changa Book Bunk for crowdfunding: https://www.mchanga.africa/fundraiser/123953Komini: https://www.instagram.com/kominibypani/?hl=enMiles Morland Writing Scholarship: https://milesmorlandfoundation.comBooks: Dust by Yvonne Adhiambo OwuorThe Havoc of Choice by Wanjiru KoinangeFollow Angela on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelawachuka_/Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Listen to our past episodes on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3QrSf7FAEfXgc4oRcMvz2Y?si=6bdaa586e62d4ad3Listen to our past episodes on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/its-related-i-promise/id1521265221Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=enFollow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=enFollow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en

11-21
01:13:25

Should women aspire to be wives & mothers first? || With Pinky Ghelani & Gowi Odera

Should women aspire to be wives and mothers first or has that “should” expired? 💭 From the quiet pressure to marry and become mothers, to how this conversation plays out for both men and women, we’re unpacking it all with Pinky Ghelani and Gowi Odera.This episode had us asking the hard questions and we hope it challenges your thinking too!🎧 Tune in and let us know what you think!➡ Follow Pinky: https://www.instagram.com/pinkyghelani?igsh=MXY3c3I5MDdqbndpag==➡ Follow Gowi: https://www.instagram.com/gowiodera?igsh=MWJsNmE3b2RqZGI3eg==➡ Listen to Kahawa na Gowi: https://open.spotify.com/show/0tSXM8RB9PcsVl8fV6Gq5T?si=SBJ36yzRT9urIZJLI2FGQgFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Listen to our past episodes on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3QrSf7FAEfXgc4oRcMvz2Y?si=6bdaa586e62d4ad3Listen to our past episodes on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/its-related-i-promise/id1521265221Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=enFollow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=enFollow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en

11-07
01:42:47

Making Money, Radical Risks & Clique Culture #STGE || With Murugi Munyi & Muchiri Mike

#STGE - Surviving The Gig Economy We have some of your (and our) faves on today’s episode and we’re keeping it real and raw! What does it really take to be a successful content creator? How did we all navigate this world that can be so unpredictable but so rewarding! Tune in! 🤩 #itsrelatedipromise #gigeconomy #influencer #kenya  #africa 00: 00 Introduction 07:00 What caught your attention 26:25 Beating imposter syndrome 30:32 Fans etiquette 43:03 Understanding Influencer Marketing 57:02 Agencies 1:10:34 Lessons Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Listen to our past episodes on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3QrSf7FAEfXgc4oRcMvz2Y?si=6bdaa586e62d4ad3 Listen to our past episodes on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/its-related-i-promise/id1521265221 Follow Murugi on IG: https://www.instagram.com/murugi.munyi?igsh=MWUwcW0zandmc2wyMw== Follow Mike on IG: https://www.instagram.com/muchiri.mike?igsh=MTE5MDM1djJld2xsaQ== Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=en Follow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=en Follow Jules on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jules_her/?hl=en

10-11
01:26:01

Wanjiku Kimani

hey guys🤗' Great conversation. if you're kikuyu the podcast " matiri ngemi " is a great resource and it has episodes that shed light on some of these questions like what determines the bride price and all.

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Emily Ngamau

A much needed discussion. But, due to how its misconceptionalized esp internationally, i felt that the approach was low effort research-wise. Info though scattered, exist eg 'Matiri Ngemi' podcast mentioned in the past by a podcast member goes in-depth into this topic. Perhaps, Juxtaposition it with a religious leader- Imam/ Indian priest to have a rounded discussion would have been nice. I want to relate, i promise 😃, but like the books topic, this just deserved more..eeh, nini. You get? ♥️

12-08 Reply

synth

The mean girl episode was so nice. the four of you are such a vibe

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kevin ndungu

🔥🔥🔥 great show

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Marion A.

very insightful and fun as always

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