Just Drawz - The Podcast

On this show, Jeff and DMC explore the experiences of being Black gay men over 40, discussing the evolution of their social lives, dating dynamics, and sexual experiences. They reflect on how their perceptions of self and body image have changed over the years, the impact of club culture on social interactions, and the role of confidence in their sexual lives. The discussion also touches on the importance of connection and community, physical health, and mental health care. They discuss setting boundaries in relationships and their aspirations for the future _______________________________Takeaways: Being gay after 40 can bring new perspectives and experiences.Social lives can expand with age and self-acceptance.Finding a supportive community is crucial for personal growth.Body image issues can persist but evolve over time.Clubbing culture has shifted significantly over the years.Younger men often seek older partners, changing dating dynamics.Confidence plays a key role in sexual experiences as one ages.Sexual enhancement drugs can be fun but are not always necessary.Self-perception impacts social interactions and relationships.The importance of living in the moment and enjoying experiences.Physical health becomes a priority as we age.Mental health care is essential for overall well-being.Comfort in life is a key aspiration for many.Aging does not mean the end of opportunities.Self-care practices are vital for health.Future aspirations can drive personal growth.______________________________Listen to Our Fall 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Fall 2025]YouTube MusicSpotify Apple Music_______________________________Hosts:DMC:https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemceeJeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, mental health, family dynamics, colorism, queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA

The conversation continues between DMC, Jeff, and guest DeMarco Majors on the complexities of growing up as Black, same gender loving males. They explore themes of vulnerability, identity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-perception. They discuss early awareness of sexuality, the influence of family dynamics, and the role of cultural differences in shaping masculinity. The conversation highlights the importance of role models in the LGBTQ community and the challenges of navigating shame and performative masculinity. Through personal stories and insights, they emphasize the need for authenticity and connection to one's body and identity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into their personal experiences with family dynamics, colorism, and the journey of growing up queer. They discuss the importance of support systems, the impact of societal expectations, and the legacy they wish to leave behind. The dialogue emphasizes the need for safe spaces within the community and the significance of understanding one's identity in relationships. Be sure to check out Part 1. _______________________________Takeaways: Growing up gay often involves navigating shame and confusion.Early awareness of sexuality can be complex and nuanced.Cultural differences significantly impact perceptions of masculinity.Performative masculinity can be a survival mechanism.Exploring one's body and identity is essential for personal growth.Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Family dynamics can shape personal choices and relationships.Support from family and friends is crucial for personal acceptance and growth.Creating safe spaces is essential for marginalized communities.It's important to acknowledge and address the struggles of others in the community.______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:⁠⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU⁠⁠Spotify:⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d⁠⁠Apple Music: ⁠⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem⁠⁠_______________________________Guest:DeMarco:⁠https://www.instagram.com/demajors/⁠Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, family dynamics, colorism,, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth_______________________________

Guest DeMarco Majors, joins DMC and Jeff for a discussion on the complexities of growing up as Black, same gender loving males. They explore themes of vulnerability, identity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-perception. They discuss early awareness of sexuality, the influence of family dynamics, and the role of cultural differences in shaping masculinity. The conversation highlights the importance of role models in the LGBTQ community and the challenges of navigating shame and performative masculinity. Through personal stories and insights, they emphasize the need for authenticity and connection to one's body and identity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into their personal experiences with family dynamics, colorism, and the journey of growing up queer. They discuss the importance of support systems, the impact of societal expectations, and the legacy they wish to leave behind. The dialogue emphasizes the need for safe spaces within the community and the significance of understanding one's identity in relationships. The term, “Same Gender Loving” was first coined by activist Cleo Manago. Read more about the significance of SGL here: https://web.archive.org/web/20131015005535/http://bmxnational.org/faqs/what-is-same-gender-loving/_______________________________Takeaways: Growing up gay often involves navigating shame and confusion.Early awareness of sexuality can be complex and nuanced.Cultural differences significantly impact perceptions of masculinity.Performative masculinity can be a survival mechanism.Exploring one's body and identity is essential for personal growth.Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Family dynamics can shape personal choices and relationships.Support from family and friends is crucial for personal acceptance and growth.Creating safe spaces is essential for marginalized communities.It's important to acknowledge and address the struggles of others in the community.______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU⁠Spotify:⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d⁠Apple Music: ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem⁠_______________________________Guest:DeMarco:https://www.instagram.com/demajors/Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, family dynamics, colorism,, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, _______________________________

Who inspires us? Who do we think is cute? Find out on this special bonus episode! Shout out to ATL Basement Studios for hosting this session and their production assistance. https://www.instagram.com/atlbasementstudio/_______________________________Takeaways: Recognizing compatibility earlier rather than later is key. Self-esteem plays a significant role in dating and attraction.Catfishing and misrepresentation is still and issue.It's essential to learn from each dating experience, whether good or bad.Navigating ex-relationships requires clear communication and boundaries.First dates should be low-stakes to foster genuine connections.Planning dates around mutual interests can enhance the experience.Understanding dating etiquette can help avoid awkward situations.______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU⁠Spotify:⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d⁠Apple Music: ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem⁠_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:dating, relationships, catfishing, dating experiences, dating tips, self-esteem, ex-relationships, dating etiquette, memorable dates, dating advice_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp  #dating #talkingstage #datingadvice #gaydating #gayconversations

We are back in the studio! This show, our conversation heads into the world of dating. We share our personal experiences with both good and bad dates. Should you end a date early? Do you know when there’s a “spark?” Why do people catfish with all of the technology we have to prove we are who we are?  We talk about the lessons we’ve learned and how to have an enjoyable time!“Just: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly of Dating”Shout out to ATL Basement Studios for hosting this session and their production assistance. https://www.instagram.com/atlbasementstudio/_______________________________Takeaways: Recognizing compatibility earlier rather than later is key. Self-esteem plays a significant role in dating and attraction.Catfishing and misrepresentation is still and issue.It's essential to learn from each dating experience, whether good or bad.Navigating ex-relationships requires clear communication and boundaries.First dates should be low-stakes to foster genuine connections.Planning dates around mutual interests can enhance the experience.Understanding dating etiquette can help avoid awkward situations.______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gUSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490dApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:dating, relationships, catfishing, dating experiences, dating tips, self-esteem, ex-relationships, dating etiquette, memorable dates, dating advice_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp  #dating #talkingstage #datingadvice #gaydating #gayconversations

We welcome Anjeleigh back to JustDrawz as she and DMC explore the perplexing world of common sense—or the lack thereof. From personal anecdotes to societal observations, they discuss why common sense seems to be a rare commodity these days. Expect laughter and a touch of chaos as they have a candid conversation through topics like education, healthcare, and the quirks of everyday life."Just... Uncommon Common Sense"_______________________________"The Last of the Sunkist Soda" - ⁠https://drive.google.com/file/d/1_EbOK-TOxrwb-DTl1R2X2q0e6hn0ioXO/view?usp=sharing⁠ _______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. 2 [Summer 2025]YouTube Music:⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtxSzuDtZyKL8WbGnacTPykO⁠Spotify:⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4hARKFatEu385YaxfPwlr5⁠Apple Music: ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-ii/pl.u-XkD04oLtBxRPBA⁠_______________________________Guest:Anjeleigh: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1/Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:common sense, friendly conversation, medical help, mental health, education, book smarts, street smarts, _______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #advice #askreddit #dearabby #help #advicecolumn #asktheelders #gayconversations #justdrawz_______________________________#JustDrawz

We are concluding this edition of Unsolicited Advice with some sexy topics. Selfies. Bath houses. Plain sex. We're giving our take on what we would do if put in the situations presented by some redditors. Take our advice if you want to... results not guaranteed. We are not telling you what to do... just what WE would do. Like our advice? Want us to do this again? Let us know in the comments!Or hit us up at AskJustDrawz@gmail.com! "Just.. Unsolicited Advice 2 - Part 2" _______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. 2 [Summer 2025]YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtxSzuDtZyKL8WbGnacTPykOSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4hARKFatEu385YaxfPwlr5Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-ii/pl.u-XkD04oLtBxRPBA_______________________________Guest:Terico: http://⁠www.linktr.ee/terico29⁠Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:advice, podcast, unsolicited advice, dining alone, gay friendships, attraction, gym crush, weight loss, dating, personal growth, mental health, weight loss, self-image, confidence, gay culture, body positivity, health, dating, selfies, public nudity, vanilla sex_______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #advice #askreddit #dearabby #help #advicecolumn #asktheelders #gayconversations#justdrawz_______________________________#JustDrawz

Once again, we found some random people looking for help on a few subreddits and we are giving our takes on what we would do in these situations. We were not asked. We just did it. It's Unsolicited Advice! We're tackling how to deal with friends trying to push up on your man, a Black guy working on finding other Black men attractive, approaching that gym crush, and how to go about a fitness journey. This time, we are joined by Terico!Take our advice if you want to... results not guaranteed. We are not telling you what to do... just what WE would do. Like our advice? Want us to do this again? Let us know in the comments!"Just.. Unsolicited Advice 2" _______________________________Listen to Our Spring 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU⁠Spotify:⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d⁠Apple Music: ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem⁠_______________________________Guest:Terico: www.linktr.ee/terico29Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:advice, podcast, unsolicited advice, dining alone, gay friendships, attraction, gym crush, weight loss, dating, personal growth, mental health, weight loss, self-image, confidence, gay culture, body positivity, health, dating, selfies, public nudity, vanilla sex_______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #advice #askreddit #dearabby #help #advicecolumn #asktheelders #gayconversations#justdrawz_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA #gayfem #masc4masc #fem4fem #mascformasc #gayconversations #gendertheory #queerissues #masculinity #masc4masc #queer4queer #femme #butchqueen #gayconversations #judithbutler

In this episode, we dig into performative queerness—how queer identity is expressed, curated, and sometimes judged in today’s world. We talk social media, authenticity, fast fashion, family dynamics, and the pressure to perform for both online and offline audiences. It’s a real conversation about identity, expression, and the power of being true to yourself—even when the world’s watching.  We wrap up with ways one can unlearn and check one’s own performativity as well. “Just… Unclear for Queer”Shout-out to Judith Butler: Queer performativity is rooted in her work where she argued that gender is not something one is, but something one does through repeated acts. When we put that in terms of queer theorising, it is about delinking gender, sex and sexuality (Lind, 2009) by showing that these elements do not have a linear relationship to each other based on biology. So, for the purpose of this episode, we wanted to address what her work in ‘gender performativity’ means for queerness today.Lind, A. (2009). Governing intimacy, struggling for sexual rights: Challenging heteronormativity in the global development industry. Development, 52(1), 34-42._______________________________Takeaways: - Queer identity is constructed through behavior, not fixed by nature.- Social media shapes—and often pressures—how queerness is presented.- Authenticity is essential, but hard to maintain in curated spaces.- Style and self-expression are valid forms of queer identity.- Family, community, and social dynamics impact how we show up.- Unlearning performance can lead to more honest, grounded queerness._______________________________Listen to Our Spring 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gUSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490dApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Keywordsvulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, _______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA #gayfem #masc4masc #fem4fem #mascformasc #gayconversations #gendertheory #queerissues #masculinity #masc4masc #queer4queer #femme #butchqueen #gayconversations #judithbutler

We welcome Joshua Cruz to the show in a discussion on vulnerability, healing, and the impact of toxic masculinity on emotional expression, particularly for Black and brown gay men.  We discuss the importance of self-discovery during, the journey of unlearning negative self-perceptions, and the role of chosen family in personal growth. Joshua shares his experiences with vulnerability, the challenges of online criticism, and the significance of embracing one's softness. "Just... Serving Vulnerability Realness with Joshua Cruz"_______________________________Takeaways: Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, but it is actually a strength.The pandemic forced many to confront their inner struggles and traumas.Unlearning negative self-perceptions is crucial for personal growth.Toxic masculinity can hinder emotional expression and connection.Journaling is a powerful tool for self-discovery and understanding.Chosen family plays a vital role in supporting one's healing journey.It's important to set boundaries while remaining open to emotional connections.Healing does not mean you are broken; it means you are brave.True love comes from being your authentic self.Facing your truth is essential for personal growth._______________________________Listen to Our Spring 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gUSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490dApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem_______________________________Hosts:Guest:Joshua:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaFWXTq-HYR5TmWoiAij2ywhttps://www.instagram.com/joshuamichaelcruz/reels/?hl=enhttps://www.tiktok.com/@joshuamichaelcruzDMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Keywordsvulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, _______________________________#justdrawz #blackpodcast #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #lgbtqia #gayconversations

The Talking Stage timeline debate from Twitter and X was too irresistible for us not to tackle on Just Drawz. We break down the progression of dating in to six stages. Is your "Talking Stage" another man's "Dating Stage?" Let's align on what these mean and provide our perspective and give you some of our personal stories. "Just... The Six Stages of Dating"_______________________________Takeaways: Every stage of this dating journey has its own lessons.Some people are milestone based while others are chronological based for progression.It's important to communicate openly about feelings and expectations.Respecting each other's space is crucial in a relationship.Understanding your partner's love language can enhance the relationship.Labels in relationships help define boundaries for others.There is no perfect timeline for relationships; it's about what works for you. _______________________________Listen to Our Spring 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gUSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490dApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________

Make sure you catch Part 1!This conversation concludes with this episode. We're talking about sex education for queer people, the aftermaths of our transitions from "straight" to gay, and throw it back a bit to when we came out."Just... The First Time Part 2"_______________________________Takeaways: Everyone has a unique first time story.First sexual experiences shape our understanding of intimacy.Myths about sex can lead to confusion and anxiety.Learning about sex often starts with media exposure.First encounters can be awkward and unplanned.Expectations around sex can vary greatly among individuals.Vulnerability is key in discussing personal experiences. Many people do not receive proper sexual education from their parents.School often serves as the primary source of sexual knowledge for many.Open conversations about sex are crucial for healthy development.Sex education should encompass emotional intelligence alongside physical aspects.Experiences with sexual partners can build confidence over time.Navigating relationships can be complex, especially in the LGBTQ+ community.The stigma around discussing sex can hinder open communication.Hookup culture varies greatly among individuals and their experiences._______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________sexual experiences, first time stories, vulnerability, relationships, LGBTQ, myths about sex, personal stories, intimacy, self-discovery, sexual education, LGBTQ+, relationships, intimacy, coming out, sexual experiences, confidence, advice, hookup culture, emotional intelligence, virginity, gold star gays, gay virginity_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #firsttime #virginity #goldstargay #puberty #sexed #sexeducation #gayvirginity #blackgaytalk #gayconversations

We're talking about our first sexual experiences, our personal stories, societal myths, and the evolution of intimacy.  We share some of our humorous experiences, misconceptions we were told about sex, and discuss the impact of our first... entanglements and our current perspectives. This is a candid and insightful conversation about our youth and our sexuality."Just... The First Time"_______________________________Takeaways: Everyone has a unique first time story.First sexual experiences shape our understanding of intimacy.Myths about sex can lead to confusion and anxiety.Learning about sex often starts with media exposure.First encounters can be awkward and unplanned.Expectations around sex can vary greatly among individuals.Vulnerability is key in discussing personal experiences. Many people do not receive proper sexual education from their parents.School often serves as the primary source of sexual knowledge for many.Open conversations about sex are crucial for healthy development.Sex education should encompass emotional intelligence alongside physical aspects.Experiences with sexual partners can build confidence over time.Navigating relationships can be complex, especially in the LGBTQ+ community.The stigma around discussing sex can hinder open communication.Hookup culture varies greatly among individuals and their experiences._______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________sexual experiences, first time stories, vulnerability, relationships, LGBTQ, myths about sex, personal stories, intimacy, self-discovery, sexual education, LGBTQ+, relationships, intimacy, coming out, sexual experiences, confidence, advice, hookup culture, emotional intelligence, virginity, gold star gays, gay virginity_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #firsttime #virginity #goldstargay #puberty #sexed #sexeducation #gayvirginity #blackgaytalk #gayconversations

In this episode, Darius opens up about the real meaning of blood family versus chosen family, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. He reflects on childhood experiences, growing up as a quiet, chubby kid with Sears Toughskins jeans, and how early lessons in independence and self-discovery shaped his understanding of family.From navigating college life and finding his tribe, to challenging old-school beliefs about identity, Darius shares personal stories about building lasting connections with his chosen family—those who offer unconditional support, understanding, and love without judgment.Along the way, using humor, honesty, and heart, he explores the boundaries, blessings, and even the bittersweet goodbyes that come with growing and evolving relationships."Just Thoughts: Blood VS Chosen Family"_______________________________Takeaways: Blood family shares your DNA, but chosen family often shares your soul.Friendships and chosen connections require intentional care and sometimes tough boundaries.Growth often means re-evaluating who has access to the most personal parts of your life. Just because someone is blood doesn't mean they automatically get a backstage pass to your life.Not everyone you lose was meant to stay—and that's okay.Community isn’t just a nice-to-have; it’s a need for survival and thriving, especially for marginalized folks.Love, loyalty, and understanding can come from unexpected places—and those bonds can be just as strong (if not stronger) than blood ties.Chosen family often sees the real you before you even fully recognize yourself.It's okay to compartmentalize relationships to protect your peace and mental health.The bonds you build through shared dreams, struggles, and wins can be deeper than DNA.Setting boundaries isn’t disrespect—it’s self-respect.Sometimes the people you meet on your journey are the ones who teach you the meaning of home.Emotional support doesn’t always come from where you expect—but it always comes when you need it most.Your story (even the crunchy, messy parts) can be a roadmap for somebody else's healing._______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________family dynamics, chosen family, LGBTQ+, emotional support, personal growth, relationships, acceptance, community, self-discovery, vulnerability_______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #podcast #blackpodcaster #youtube #applepodcasts #trailertuesday #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #LGBTQpodcast #blackmen #lgbtqia #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #LGBGQIA #JustDrawz

In this conversation, DMC and Dr. David Glover explore the intersection of spirituality, identity, and the experiences of Black gay men within the church. They discuss the challenges of reconciling faith with sexual identity, the impact of church teachings on mental health, and the duality of church as both a refuge and a place of rejection. Dr. Glover shares his personal journey and initiatives aimed at supporting disenfranchised individuals, emphasizing the importance of community and acceptance.This episode talks about the misconceptions surrounding faith, and the need for a more inclusive approach to spirituality. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of personal relationships with God, the role of physical presence in spiritual practices, and the gradual process required for acceptance and change within religious institutions. “Just: A Matter of Faith”_______________________________Takeaways: The church can be both a refuge and a place of rejection.Reconciling faith and identity is a complex journey.Many black gay men face stigma within religious communities.The teachings of the church can have lasting impacts on mental health.Community support is crucial for healing and acceptance.Faith and identity do not have to be mutually exclusive.Conversations about spirituality need to be inclusive and affirming. Pride and arrogance in faith communities often stem from historical oppression.Questioning authority in faith is essential for personal growth.Churches often prioritize repetition over true understanding of scripture.The expectations placed on church leaders can create unrealistic pressures.Accountability in faith is often shifted to church leaders, removing personal responsibility.Gay-affirming churches serve as beacons of hope for marginalized communities.The concept of God as love is central to understanding faith.The black church has a long way to go in embracing LGBTQ+ individuals.Change within the church requires patience and strategic dialogue.Community support is vital for those facing church hurt._______________________________Guest:Dr. David Glover:Website: https://DrDavidNGlover.comEmail: david@dr.davidglover.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/company/ilikeme/https://www.facebook.com/share/16Q7oN2JKp/?mibextid=wwXIfrHosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________spirituality, identity, faith, LGBTQ, church, stigma, community, reconciliation, black gay men, mental health, faith, church, accountability, pride, questioning authority, gay-affirming, healing, community, logic, spirituality, church dynamics, LGBTQ+ inclusion, spirituality, faith identity, black church, belonging, empowerment, self-acceptance, community support, religious coping_______________________________#blackchurch #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #youtube #applepodcasts #indie #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #LGBTQpodcast #blackmen #lgbtqia #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp#lgbtchurch #InclusiveChurch #affirmingchurch #cogic #amechurch #lgbtchristian

We welcome sex therapist Machel Hunt to Just Drawz to discuss the importance of intimacy, communication, and understanding in relationships. We explore common misconceptions about sexual health, the significance of honest communication, and the challenges of discussing kinks and desires.We talk about hoe phases, b8 culture, kinks, sexual exploration, and more!  “Just: Sexy, Healthy, and Wise”_______________________________Takeaways: Healthy communication starts with honesty.Unspoken expectations in relationships can lead to disappointments.Evolving relationships require ongoing communication.Understanding one's own desires is crucial for healthy relationships.The 'hoe phase' is a common experience.Casual relationships can sometimes serve as placeholders for deeper connections.Group self pleasure has evolved from a safety measure to a recognized kink.Understanding what constitutes cheating is crucial in relationships.Performance anxiety is common and can stem from various factors.All body types are valid and should be embraced in intimate contexts. Learn to be comfortable with your body size.Pornography often sets unrealistic sexual expectations.Finding partners who appreciate your body is crucial.Therapy can help individuals navigate their sexual identity.Sex parties and hookup culture are evolving post-COVID.Resources like https://itgetsbetter.org/ can provide support for gay men._______________________________Guest:Machel Hunt:https://www.instagram.com/relationshipandsexdoc/https://www.sextherapyforyou.com/https://www.facebook.com/atlsexdoc/Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________sex therapy, intimacy, communication, sexual health, relationships, misconceptions, kinks, expectations, accountability, spontaneity, spontaneity, emotional safety, hoe phase, casual relationships, baiting culture, performance anxiety, intimacy, sexual health, boundaries, communication, body image, sexual health, porn, emotional connection, sexual identity, therapy, self-acceptance, hookup culture, gay men, mental health, relationships, LGBTQIA, societal expectations, authenticity, dating, content creators, casual sex, sex, gay sex_______________________________#Sextalk #contentcreators #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #podcast #blackpodcaster #youtube #applepodcasts #trailertuesday #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #LGBTQpodcast #blackmen #lgbtqia #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #masc4masc #maleidentity #LGBGQIA #sexeducation #sextherapy #JustDrawz

On this show, we discuss the concept of performative masculinity within the Black gay community, drawing on Judith Butler's theories of gender as a social construct. We touch on how societal pressures shape masculine identities, the everyday manifestations of masculinity, and personal experiences with conforming to these expectations. Does the perception of masculinity affect dating and relationship choices? What influence, if any, do women have on society's view of masculinity? We get into these questions and more! “Just: Mask for Masc”_______________________________Takeaways: Performative masculinity is influenced by societal pressures.Judith Butler's theory challenges the notion of fixed gender identities.Masculinity is often performed to fit cultural norms.Everyday actions can reflect deeper societal expectations of masculinity.Personal experiences reveal the struggle with conforming to masculine ideals.Role models play a significant role in shaping perceptions of masculinity.The pressure to conform can lead to emotional distress.Black men face unique challenges in navigating masculinity.Understanding performative masculinity can foster greater acceptance.Open discussions about masculinity can help dismantle harmful stereotypes. Men often suppress emotions to conform to societal expectations.As people mature, they often become more accepting of different expressions of masculinity.Policing masculinity can lead to harmful stereotypes and stigma.Fluidity in sexuality should be embraced, not shamed.Women also play a role in defining masculinity through societal expectations.Authenticity is crucial for personal happiness and healthy relationships._______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________performative masculinity, black gay community, Judith Butler, gender theory, societal expectations, masculinity pressure, personal experiences, role models, cultural norms, identity, masculinity, emotional expression, relationships, LGBTQ, societal expectations, authenticity, self-acceptance, dating, gender roles, self-discovery_______________________________#AsAMan #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #podcast #blackpodcaster #youtube #applepodcasts #trailertuesday #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #LGBTQpodcast #blackmen #lgbtqia #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #masc4masc #maleidentity #LGBGQIA #malemasculinity #masculine #masculinity #gendertheory #performativemasculinity #JustDrawz

The clocks have sprung forward, the daylight is saved, and it’s heating up outside!Just in time for the start of vacation season, we welcome Steve Johnson to the show to discuss the significance of travel within the LGBTQ community.We explore the evolving landscape of LGBTQ+ travel, the importance of choosing the right destinations, and the representation of people of color in the travel industry. Steve shares his experiences promoting Thailand as a welcoming destination for LGBTQ travelers and discusses the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead for the community in the travel sector. In this conversationWe explore how to research safe travel destinations, the significance of word-of-mouth recommendations, and the resources available for LGBTQ+ travelers. We talk about passport bros, memorable travel experiences, and insights into solo travel.Just... Phuket! Let's Bangkok and Trip Out! with Steve_______________________________Takeaways: Travel is a significant aspect of the LGBTQ community.Choosing the right destination is crucial for a fulfilling travel experience.Thailand is a leading destination for LGBTQ travelers.The travel industry is evolving to better support LGBTQ+ individuals.Representation of people of color in the travel industry is still lacking.Researching destinations can enhance travel experiences.LGBTQ+ travel spending is a significant part of the travel industry.There are many welcoming destinations for LGBTQ travelers beyond Thailand.Traveling as a person of color can present unique challenges.The future of LGBTQ+ travel looks promising with increasing representation. Empathy and respect for other cultures are essential in travel.Researching destinations can enhance safety and inclusivity.Word of mouth is a powerful tool for gathering travel insights.LGBTQ+ travel resources are crucial for informed decision-making.Sex tourism is a reality in many travel destinations.Traveling solo can lead to immersive experiences.Knowledge is power when planning trips.Understanding local laws can help in making informed travel choices.Travel advisors can provide valuable insights for planning trips._______________________________Guest:Steve:https://www.instagram.com/blackgaydadluxurytravel2/sajohnson1967@hotmail.com_______________________________Key Links:International LGBTQ+ Travel Associationhttps://www.iglta.org/Thailand Insiderhttps://thailandinsider.com/_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________Travel, gay vacation, gaycation, international destinations, destinations, Thailand, Asian travel, Asia, black gay travel, gay travel, passport, _______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #lgbtqmentalhealth #realtalk #applepodcasts #blackgaymentalhealth #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #blackmentalhealth #mentalhealth #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #JustDrawz

This conversation delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the themes of dishonesty, infidelity, and the emotional ramifications of cheating. The guys explore the differences between emotional and physical infidelity, share personal experiences with cheating, and discuss the challenges of non-monogamous relationships. They emphasize the importance of communication and trust in navigating these issues and consider the potential for recovery after infidelity, highlighting the need for emotional maturity and open dialogue.Just... Saving All My Stolen Moments As We Lay_______________________________Takeaways: Dishonesty can lead to questioning everything in a relationship.Emotional infidelity often feels more significant than physical infidelity.Communication is key in non-monogamous relationships.Cheating can stem from unmet emotional needs.Recovery from infidelity requires emotional maturity and introspection.Trust can be rebuilt, but it takes time and effort.It's important to have exhaustive conversations about infidelity.People often cheat due to a lack of communication with their partners.Understanding the reasons behind cheating can aid in recovery.Setting boundaries and having clear conversations is essential in relationships._____________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________dating, relationships, exes, boundaries, personal growth, friendship, cultural perspectives, small dating pool, acceptance, community support, gay dating, grindr, jackd, hornet, dating aps, friends, courting, ltr, successful relationships, romance, acquaintance, partners, boyfriend, gay, gay relationships, platonic, romantic, cheating, infidelity, breakups, breaking up, _______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #lgbtqmentalhealth #realtalk #applepodcasts #blackgaymentalhealth #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #breakingup #cheating #infidelity #cheaters #unfaithful  #blackpodcastnetwork #blackmentalhealth #mentalhealth #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #JustDrawz

We are covering a lot of topics this season with a bunch of guests! Travel. Cheating. Performative Masculinity. Dating. Casual Sex. Advice. Religion. Like and subcribe! And be sure to catch up on previous seasons as well!