On this show, Jeff and DMC explore the experiences of being Black gay men over 40, discussing the evolution of their social lives, dating dynamics, and sexual experiences. They reflect on how their perceptions of self and body image have changed over the years, the impact of club culture on social interactions, and the role of confidence in their sexual lives. 

The discussion also touches on the importance of connection and community, physical health, and mental health care. They discuss setting boundaries in relationships and their aspirations for the future 

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Takeaways: 

• Being gay after 40 can bring new perspectives and experiences.

• Social lives can expand with age and self-acceptance.

• Finding a supportive community is crucial for personal growth.

• Body image issues can persist but evolve over time.

• Clubbing culture has shifted significantly over the years.

• Younger men often seek older partners, changing dating dynamics.

• Confidence plays a key role in sexual experiences as one ages.

• Sexual enhancement drugs can be fun but are not always necessary.

• Self-perception impacts social interactions and relationships.

• The importance of living in the moment and enjoying experiences.

• Physical health becomes a priority as we age.

• Mental health care is essential for overall well-being.

• Comfort in life is a key aspiration for many.

• Aging does not mean the end of opportunities.

• Self-care practices are vital for health.

• Future aspirations can drive personal growth.

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Hosts:

DMC:

https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/

⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠

https://linktr.ee/deeemcee

Jeff:

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠

https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup

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Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠

⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠

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Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠

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Keywords:

Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, mental health, family dynamics, colorism, queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA

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