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Know Your Ancestors
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I’m Megan Hillyer, professional genealogist and host of Know Your Ancestors. This podcast is about more than building a family tree, it’s about discovering the strength, belonging, and healing that come from knowing your lineage. Each episode is an invitation to explore the power of your ancestors’ lives and how their stories can shape and guide your own. At its heart, this podcast is about one truth: when you know your ancestors, you know yourself.
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Ep 46: Join Remember: A 3-Day Journey to Honor Your Ancestors and Connect With Your Roots!We’ll meet October 27-29 for three short, guided sessions (about 30 minutes each) to reflect on your ancestors, uncover their stories, and feel their presence. It’s free to join at knowyourancestors.co/remember.After closing my group membership and taking a step back, I realized I needed to simplify and reconnect to the heart of Know Your Ancestors. In this episode, I’m sharing what’s changed, what’s next, and how I’m bringing both the practical and spiritual sides of genealogy together.You’ll hear about:Why I decided to close my group membership and start freshHow I’m pairing genealogy research with ancestral connectionWhat to expect from upcoming episodes (solo stories, guest conversations, and more)My new offerings — including Ancestral Analysis and The Genealogy JourneyThe free 3-day experience Remember that’s happening soonIf you’re ready to feel supported by your lineage, to know your ancestors and know yourself — this next chapter is for you.Sign up for Remember: knowyourancestors.co/rememberConnect with me: megan@knowyourancestors.coFollow on Instagram: @knowyourancestors
Last summer, I walked the land where generations of my ancestors lived in northern Wales. In today’s episode, I share what that experience stirred in me—and how it inspired the free class I’m teaching this week: Know Your Ancestral Guides.If you’ve ever felt the pull of your lineage or wondered where to begin connecting with your ancestors, this class is for you.Register here (it’s free!):https://knowyourancestors.co/guideWe start Wednesday at 10am MT / 12pm ET. See you there!
Ep 44: In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Kate Northrup, author, entrepreneur, and founder of Relaxed Money, to explore her ancestral lineage and how it connects to her work in healing our relationship with time and money. We dive deep into the generational patterns of wealth, scarcity, and abundance that have shaped her family’s story—and how those same patterns may influence our own lives today.Kate shares personal insights about her paternal lineage, uncovering a fascinating family history of wealth, loss, and resilience. From her great-grandfather’s success in the textile industry to her third great-grandfather, an Irish immigrant who built a fortune in Oregon, Kate reflects on how these stories mirror the financial and emotional narratives we inherit.Together, we discuss: ✨ The contrasting money beliefs between her mother and father’s families ✨ The impact of generational wealth and how it doesn’t always lead to financial well-being ✨ How her third great-grandfather, an Irish immigrant, became a wealthy businessman in Portland, Oregon ✨ The struggles and resilience of her great-grandmother, who lost three husbands yet remained financially stable ✨ How family stories influence our relationship with money and abundance todayKate also opens up about how her own career and purpose align with the financial and emotional patterns she’s inherited, and how understanding her ancestors has helped her reframe money as a tool for freedom and presence.🔗 Listen now and join us on this journey of discovery!Watch on YouTubeAbout Kate NorthrupKate is the author of Money: A Love Story and Do Less, and the founder of Relaxed Money, where she helps ambitious humans heal their relationship with time and money using a neuroscience-backed, trauma-informed approach. Her work focuses on breaking free from scarcity mindsets and creating true financial well-being.💡 Follow Kate & Learn More:📌 Podcast: Plenty – Listen Here 📌 Instagram: @katenorthrup 📌 Get Kate’s Free Money Breakthrough Guide: DM her "WISDOM" on Instagram📖 Ready to explore your own family history? Download my free mini-class: Three Steps to Start Knowing Your Ancestors – complete with a workbook!🔗 Get it here: knowyourancestors.co/3stepsConnect with me:Follow @knowyourancestors on InstagramLike Know Your Ancestors on FacebookFollow @knowyourancestors on TikTokSubscribe to @knowyourancestors on YouTubeVisit knowyourancestors.co
Ep 43: In this episode of Know Your Ancestors, I sit down with Dee Taggart, a breathwork facilitator and intuitive cranial sacral therapist, to explore the deep connections between ancestry, healing, and personal transformation. Dee shares how her spiritual journey led her to uncover the presence of her grandmother, Virginia Lee Gibbs, during a healing session—sparking a newfound curiosity about her family history.We dive into the lives of the women who came before her—her grandmother, great-grandmother, and second great-grandmother—piecing together their resilience, struggles, and triumphs. From the perseverance of a young widow raising six children to the dynamic, determined spirit of Virginia, Dee reflects on the generational strengths she carries today.Join us as we discuss the power of ancestral connection, the lessons our predecessors offer, and how acknowledging their journeys can inspire our own.In This Episode, We Cover:✨ Dee’s spiritual awakening and journey into breathwork and healing✨ The moment she felt her grandmother’s presence and what it revealed✨ The resilience of the women in her maternal line—from 19th-century Kentucky to 20th-century California✨ How family patterns and struggles, like gambling and perseverance, echo through generations✨ Ways to honor and connect with your ancestors in daily lifeConnect with Dee Taggart:📷 Instagram:@thedeetaggart🎙️ Podcast:Her Xpansion (Available onApple Podcasts &Spotify)📖 Ready to explore your own family history? Download my free mini-class: Three Steps to Start Knowing Your Ancestors – complete with a workbook!🔗 Get it here:knowyourancestors.co/3steps🎧 Listen now and start uncovering the wisdom of your ancestors!Connect with me:Follow @knowyourancestors on InstagramLike Know Your Ancestors on FacebookFollow @knowyourancestors on TikTokSubscribe to @knowyourancestors on YouTubeVisit knowyourancestors.co
Ep 42: If you have ancestors that lived in England or Wales after 1837, watch (or listen) to learn how to order their civil registration records (birth, marriage, and death). In this episode I share how I searched for civil registration records for the last episode with Zach Mander. These records are very reliable to locate and have useful information, especially if you're having a hard time locating church records for your ancestors.
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FreeBMD Index
Locate Registration Districts
GRO Website
00:00 Introduction and Overview
00:32 Researching Australian Ancestry
01:30 Accessing UK Vital Records
02:50 Using FreeBMD for Ancestry Research
04:26 Finding Registration Districts
07:16 Ordering Death Records
14:33 Searching for Birth Records
17:21 Locating Marriage Records
19:11 Conclusion and Resources
20:05 Podcast Updates and Free Mini Class
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Ep 41: Zach Mander is a radio host and comedic content creator, living in Brisbane, Australia. He knew very little about his ancestors and was curious about learning when they first came to Australia. In this episode, I shared about the life of his great grandfather Lance Harold Mander, his unexpected beginnings, and arrival in Australia.
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Thanks to Will from https://www.dfdagency.net/ for helping with some research for this episode!
00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
00:49 Zach's Family Background
02:19 Exploring the Family Tree
04:40 Discovering Ancestral Roots
07:39 Lance Harold Mander's Legacy
15:19 Family Tragedies and Resilience
21:22 Reflecting on Family History
22:47 Searching for Birth Records
24:17 Uncovering Family Connections
24:53 Life in London
26:20 The Mander Family
29:53 Marriage Mysteries
33:59 Lance's Life and Legacy
41:42 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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Ep 40 - Do you have ancestors who served in WW1 from Canada? If you do, you definitely want to watch to learn how to locate their personnel file. If not, watch to understand the importance of military records and how they can help you connect and better understand your military ancestors.
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00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
00:32 Accessing World War I Personnel Files in Canada
01:17 Navigating the Library and Archives Canada Website
02:35 Finding and Verifying Ancestor Records
04:52 Exploring Detailed Military Files
06:50 Understanding Military Service and History
08:01 Researching War Diaries
11:01 Connecting with Your Ancestors
11:51 Genealogy Research Services
13:10 Conclusion and Additional Resources
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Ep 39 - Kelsey's great grandmother died when she was young, but she remembers visiting her and requested to learn more about her for this interview. I loved researching Kelsey's great grandmother Luella. She was born in North Dakota, emigrating to Saskatchewan at just 2 years old. Her life was a struggle, but she had a good sense of humor and was generous through it all. Watch the full interview to hear more about Kelsey's upbringing and how her and her great grandmother's lives found similar paths.
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00:00 Introduction and Guest Background
01:53 Kelsey's Journey to Self-Growth
05:38 Childhood and Family Influences
09:24 Great Grandmother Luella's Early Life
13:06 Immigration to Canada
18:41 Life in Saskatchewan and World War I
21:09 The Struggles of War and Family
22:05 Life After War: Hardships and Resilience
22:33 Luella's Early Life and Education
24:16 Marriage and Early Adulthood
25:05 Challenges and Moves
27:13 Family Life and Loss
29:41 Later Years and Legacy
35:56 Reflections and Connections
39:57 Conclusion and Resources
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Ep 38 - In this "behind the scenes," look at last week's episode with Christopher Ward from @modelstrangers, I share 2 essential sites to use to research your ancestors who lived in Ireland after 1864. See links below to access the sites I talk about. Let's go!
Use this site to look for birth, marriage, and death records: https://civilrecords.irishgenealogy.ie/churchrecords/civil-search.jsp
Use this site to look for census records in Ireland: https://census.nationalarchives.ie/search/
Discover Irish Registration Districts: https://www.swilson.info/regdistmap.php
Find your ancestor's Irish Townland: https://www.townlands.ie/
00:00 Introduction and Recap of Episode 37
01:01 Researching Irish Ancestors: Key Websites
02:04 Understanding Irish Civil Records
03:23 Searching for Ancestors in Civil Records
07:27 Using Registration Districts for Accurate Searches
09:28 Exploring William's Birth Record
10:30 Finding Ballygawly on the Map
12:02 Using Irish Genealogy Website
12:33 Navigating Irish Census Records
14:00 Analyzing Census Data
15:42 Understanding Census Details
17:02 Conclusion and Additional Resources
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Ep 37 - Christopher Ward is a videographer and man behind the viral Instagram account @modelstrangers . Born in South Africa to Irish parents, Christopher now lives in Northern Ireland. He knew some about his family tree, including that he is related to the famous Bronte sisters. In this episode, I was able to share more with him about his Bronte relation and looked into the roots of his own artistic talents.
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Miles Lynch is a genealogist who helped research this episode. You can contact him at forestfamilyresearch at gmail.com
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00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
01:16 Christopher Ward's Background
01:59 The Birth of Model Strangers
02:45 Impact and Success Stories
04:38 Connecting Through Stories
05:51 Discovering Ancestral Roots
06:55 The Bronte Family Connection
08:15 Exploring Family History
11:52 Life in Northern Ireland
22:44 Exploring the Life of Margaret Callahan
23:35 The History of Lizard Manor
25:40 Family Life in the Early 1900s
31:16 Discovering the Ward Lineage
31:34 James Ward's Early Life and Family
35:20 The Legacy of the Ward Family
36:44 Reflecting on Family History
40:03 Connecting with the Past
41:07 Closing Thoughts and Resources
Ep 36 - Census records are a great resource for building a timeline of your ancestors' lives. You can discover where they lived, what their occupation was, and who was living with them. Every 10 years you can capture this information, map it, and have an overview of their life. This is what I did when I researched Georgette Todd's ancestors in episode 35. Take a look and try this with your own ancestors!
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Ep 35: Georgette Todd works for Connect Our Kids, a nonprofit that helps foster kids connect to their biological relatives. As a former foster kid herself, Georgette grew up knowing very little about her family, let alone her ancestors. In this episode, I was able to share with Georgette about her 2x great grandparents who immigrated to Hawaii from Germany in the late 1800s and follow down the line to her grandmother who died when Georgette was 4 years old. This discovery led to more questions and the beginning of a connection that Georgette can now build on and draw strength from.
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Ep 34: Most of the United States and Canada use the Rectangular Survey System to organize plots of land. If you have ancestors who were farmers or lived rurally, understanding how this system works, can help you locate where your ancestors' land was.
In this episode, I share how I located Angie's ancestors' land in Southern Alberta for episode 33 of the podcast using a tool for Alberta land surveys. I also share how to use the Bureau of Land Management website to locate land plots in the US. Watch to see how you can do this for your own ancestors!
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Use Altalis (for Alberta, Canada)
Use the Bureau of Land Management site (for the US)
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#33: Angie Reeder is a boutique clothing store owner, style coach, and personal shopper. About six years ago, her life took an unexpected turn and she was left to figure out her future with her 4 kids.
As I shared what I had put together about her great grandmother for this episode, we soon realized that her life had a lot of similarities to Angie's. Watch and hear about Angie's discovery and connection I was able to help foster between her and her great grandmother, Doris Elizabeth Taylor.
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00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
00:52 Angie's Background and Early Life
02:37 Career Beginnings and Passion for Style
05:20 Family History and Great Grandmother Doris
07:00 Doris's Early Life and Family Background
13:19 Doris's Marriage and Family Life
17:08 Challenges and Hardships in Doris's Life
22:17 Doris's Later Years and Legacy
28:56 Angie's Reflections and Business Information
32:13 Conclusion and Podcast Information
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32: In this behind-the-scenes episode, I share insights into the research process for the previous episode featuring Monica Packer. This episode delves into uncovering family histories, using census records efficiently, and navigating challenges in obtaining vital records. I illustrate these tips through a case study involving Monica's second great grandmother and a mysterious Fred Barnes, shedding light on how to narrow down potential ancestors and solve genealogical puzzles.
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
00:30 Behind the Scenes: Researching Monica Packer's Ancestors
02:02 Challenges in Obtaining Vital Records
02:56 Finding Ancestors in Census Records
05:05 Step-by-Step Guide to Using Ancestry for Census Records
07:51 Exploring Possible Fred Barnes Matches
13:22 Unexpected Connections and Further Research
16:41 Conclusion and Resources for Further Learning
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#31: In this episode, I chat with Monica Packer, a podcaster known for her show 'About Progress,' centered on personal development and overcoming perfectionism. Monica discusses her background, her family, and the evolution of her pragmatic approach to self-growth inspired by her own struggles with perfectionism. I then shared about Monica’s great-grandmother Lucy's life and her daughter Susie's experiences. Their lives were difficult to say the least and I loved sharing bits of their story with Monica.
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00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
00:54 Monica Packer's Background and Work
02:09 Family Influence on Perfectionism
07:12 Personal Struggles with Perfectionism
09:08 The Concept of Progress Over Perfection
13:51 Ancestor Research: Lucy Rose Ehmann
26:39 Exploring Fred Barnes' Identity
27:54 Lucy's Marriage to Robert Fish
28:52 Life on the Farm in Oklahoma
30:55 Lucy's Tragic Death
34:07 Susie's Childhood and Family Dynamics
43:54 Honoring Ancestors and Personal Reflections
49:43 Conclusion and Resources
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#30: This summer I went on an absolutely incredible trip to Wales to visit where my grandma was born and other ancestral homes, cemeteries, and churches. It was perfect. I've gotten lots of questions about the trip, so I wanted to share how we organized it and found places to visit and how YOU can do this too with YOUR own ancestral homelands.
Have any questions? Ask in the comments and I'll do my best to help you out.
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#29: I loved chatting with Ashlynn about her work and then sharing about her grandfather with her. Ashlynn's grandfather passed away when her father was 13, so she didn't know much about him. Watch to hear about Ashlynn and the amazing work she is doing with her community, and about the story of her grandfather. It's powerful stuff!
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#28: Knowing our genealogy and what happened in our ancestors' lives is key in understanding our own generational trauma. It becomes not just a theory or idea, but a real experience and powerful tool to explore. In this episode I talk a bit about epigenetics and how to apply that to our ancestral connections and how my online course helps to further this conversation.
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Links to the two articles I refer to:
Transgenerational Epigenetic Inheritance of Traumatic Experience in Mammals - 2023
Intergenerational transmission of trauma effects: putative role of epigenetic mechanisms - 2018
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#27: After recording a podcast meant for today, I looked at the news and saw what's happening in Gaza right now and felt I needed to record something different.
So here it is. My hope for a better world. And how I believe that knowing the stories and experiences of our ancestors can help bring change.
Consider the lives and experiences of your ancestors and how they have affected you. Sign up for my online course: Know Your Ancestor here: https://knowyourancestorcourse.com/
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