Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment

<p>Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment is the podcast for people who are still struggling with overthinking, anxious attachment patterns, or chasing unavailable partners...even though you <em>understand the theory</em>.</p><p>With a lifetime of personal experience and over 15 years of professional experience, I (Carly Ann) am here to help you move beyond just knowing the logic of attachment and actually start applying it to create real change.</p><p><br /></p><p>You should know, <b>my podcast isn’t about getting your ex back or making your partner fix your anxiety</b>. <b>Lessons in Attachment</b> is about <em>empowering you</em> to become your own coach - using attachment theory, third-wave CBT techniques, and practical tools to transform your daily life. </p><p><br /></p><p>We dive deep into life-changing topics, so be sure to take care of yourself along the way. This is the podcast that helps you <em>finally</em> shift your attachment style and stop letting worry control your life</p><p><br /></p><p>Come and get to know me more on Instagram @carly.ann_ or head to www.carly-ann.co.uk for freebies and community!</p>

Lessons in dating yourself, creating healthy "space" in relationships, & how to be vulnerable with Kat Horrocks

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for anyone looking to heal attachment wounds and break painful relationship patterns. In this episode I am joined by Kat Horrocks. Kat is a passionate leader in Mindset, Goal Setting & Personal/Business Development. Listen in to this incredible conversation where we talk about: Importance of taking "space" in relationships (& the challenges involved for anxious attachment)Comparing yourself to people in relationships & the power...

11-07
53:49

Lessons in Learning to Accept Yourself, Facing Difficulties with Grace, & Building SELF Trust with Aimee Stewart

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for anyone looking to heal attachment wounds and break painful relationship patterns. In this episode I am joined by my good friend Aimee Stewart! Aimee is a soul led life coach and this episode truly does feed the soul. Join us as we discuss: Is it possible to truly love all parts of ourselves?How to FEEL and believe your new loving thoughtsHow to develop self-trust and show up for yourself firstHow to respond gracefully to triggering peop...

10-31
54:07

Lessons in Communication: Including Voicing Your Needs & How to Talk to Someone that is Avoidant and/or Emotionally Unavailable

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for anyone looking to heal attachment wounds and break painful relationship patterns. During this unique episode of Lessons in Love, I am joined by Amira, aka The Communication Expert. This discussion is taken from our monthly membership (details HERE) where we are joined by different experts to support you to have better relationships: Mind-set & fears around communicating with dates/partners/love interests.How your communication may chang...

10-25
01:00:39

Lessons in Finding Freedom from Insecure Attachment, Past Trauma, & Unhealthy Patterns in Love with Natalie Russell

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for anyone looking to heal attachment wounds and break painful relationship patterns. In this episode I am joined by Natalie Russell, a fellow Self-esteem & Relationship Coach. We talk about our journeys to finding freedom from inner chaos and healing from past pain. Included in this conversation is: - The reality of an insecure attachment style - How early trauma experiences inform our vision of love - Healing from this distorted view of l...

10-10
01:07:53

Carly Ann's Experience of Having an Insecure Attachment Style & the Truth About How it Impacts Anxiety & Low Mood

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. In this episode of Lessons in Love I wanted to talk about my experience with anxiety and low mood. Low self-esteem, insecurity, and abandonment issues get so entwined with mood it is hard to know what is real and what is not. My lessons have taught me how to look after intense feelings of anxiety and spells of low mood - usually closely linked to relationships & dating experie...

10-03
42:56

Lessons in Online Dating, Being ghosted, & Managing Anxiety in the Early Stages of Dating with FindingMrHeight

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. For this episode you are warmly invited to join two single dating coaches as we come together and discuss all things modern dating! This week I am joined by Ali, AKA Findingmrheight Join us for this fascinating chat as we deep dive into: Our thoughts, tips, and experiences of meeting someone online vs real life (we all have our own preferences)What to do when you want to give up o...

09-26
50:51

Lessons in Avoidant Attachment & How to Let Your Guard Down So You Can Make Room for Love with the Compatibility Coach

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. In this episode of Lessons in Love I am joined by my good friend and fellow coach Caitlin aka The Compatibility Coach. This is a juicy episode you don't want to miss if you are looking for love! Listen in as we chat about: How to change the negative narrative around your love lifeAvoidant Attachment and signs you are unavailable for loveHow to let your guard down and open your hea...

09-19
54:39

6 Tips on How to Give Finding (Healthy) Love Your Best Shot

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. In this solo episode of Lessons in Love I am give you 6 tips you can use to give love your best shot. (It can feel tough to find and/or sustain love - and so I wanted to give you an inside scoop on how you can feel secure in the knowledge you are doing your part - because what more can you do?) Note - this is about finding a secure, healthy, extraordinary love - not just any relations...

09-05
32:52

Lessons in Safe Communication, Not Losing Yourself to Love, & Releasing Shame with Rosie Rees

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. In this episode I am talking to the brilliant Rosie Reese. This is a juicy one! This week we discuss: ⁃ Our thoughts on Love at first sight - does it exist? ⁃ The trap of looking for love in sex ⁃ Feeling safe enough to communice - these are great tips for reco...

08-29
51:01

Lessons in Regulating Your Emotions, Soothing Your Anxiety, and Our Thoughts on Whether Love Can Come Back Around with Phoebe Greenacre

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. Welcome to a brand new series where we are kicking off with a BRILLIANT GUEST - Phoebe Greenacre. In this episode Phoebe and I are sharing lessons and guidance on Choosing the right relationship for you and finding inner strength to walk away from people who do not serve youOur thoughts about whether love can come back aroundLetting go of "forever" as a way to enjoy your life and ...

08-22
53:11

Fleeting Loneliness: What Influences Those Deep Moments of Feeling so Alone in the World (especially when deep down you know you're not)

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. In this episode I am talking to you about loneliness. This is for the person who mostly experiences meaning & fulfilment, and other times gets knocked down by feelings of loneliness and is unsure why it happens or how to move through it. I am sharing with you some factors that influence this loneliness and some ideas on how to manage those waves. Follow Carly Ann on Instagram:...

06-20
20:55

Receiving Love, Choosing Single Life Over Settling, & Overcoming Shame with Jon Toms

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. In this penultimate episode of series two, I am joined by Jon Toms In this episode you will hear our thoughts on: Accepting praise & compliments and why this is SO important for you and your emotional healthHow to strong in the face of the pressure that comes from "the timeline" - to be married & to have kidsWe talk about our views on "settling" in relationshipsDealing wit...

06-13
01:05:23

You Are Not Your Past! Following Your Fire & Finding Your Voice with Marilyn Sarai

Send us a text A podcast for anyone who has ever lost themselves in love and are searching for a sense of SELF In this special episode we talk about: - Listening to your "soul whispers" and "niggles" that are calling you for something different - Choosing to Level up & following fire despite the fear that has held you back so far - A personal journey moving from girl to woman - No longer being defined by your past and finding full self-acceptance Follow Carly Ann on Instagram: &n...

06-06
51:35

A Journey from SELF blame & deception to SELF discovery and living life on your own terms with Elisa Kurylowicz

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. Welcome to a brand new episode of Lessons in Love. If you are on a path of SELF discovery, I just know you will adore this episode. In this conversation, I am talking to Elisa Kurylowicz. We hear Elisa's take on: - A very real account of the journey to SELf discovery - A history of self-blame and how to break free from that mind-set - Experiencing deception in relationships - How...

05-30
01:04:27

Healing Your "I am not enough" Wounds and Choosing Healthier, Safer, AVAILABLE Relationships with Amy Rushworth

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. In this episode, I am joined by Amy Rushworth and we discuss: - Feeling unlucky in love & not enough - How to stop thinking you are the problem - The journey to attracting secure, healthy, and safe relationships - What we mean by "safe" (this is for you if safe sounds boring) - Training your attachment system to manage anxiety in dating & relationships - Choosing You...

05-23
52:31

What Love is Not: Listen to Carly Ann's Love Story & Lessons in Love

Send us a text A must listen if you experience anxiety, insecurity, and attachment struggles in your dating and love life. In this very unique episode I am answering the very questions I ask all my guests: * Tell us about your love story 1. What does love mean to you? 2. Love can be the most painful and the most amazing , how do you navigate life when love throws you off? 3. You get to go back to any age and teach yourself a lesson in love, what would it be? (not allowed to say no regrets). ...

05-16
39:53

Truth About Healing & How To Stop Relying On a Relationship For Your Self-Worth with Kelly Jenner

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. In this episode of Lessons in Love I am talking To Kelly Jenner. This is a must listen if you have ever lost yourself in love & relationships to the point of deep depression and physical pain. Listen is as we discuss: - Key elements to healing and what you can expect - Patterns that manifest when you ignore your own needs & feelings - The impact of believing relationships ...

05-09
01:01:56

How To Date & Experience Attraction without Games - Amber Grubenmann

Send us a text Lessons in Love is the podcast for learning how to manage your insecure attachment styles. In this episode of Lessons in Love I am talking To Amber Grubenmann about all things dating! This is ideal if you are getting bout out there on the dating scene or in a relationship that is overtaken by anxiety! Listen is as we discuss: - Finding JOY in dating - How to date and find attraction without games and from a place of authenticity - How & Why it is is important to all...

05-02
51:27

Attachment Styles & Understanding The Dance Between Anxious & Avoidant Attachment Styles with Briana MacWilliams

Send us a text Do you have any anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? Lessons in Love brings you Carly Ann's and other people's inspiring stories to support you on your own journey of healing and change. If you are doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming more secure, you are in the right place. Join the Membership: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gymFollow Carly Ann on Instagram: @carly.ann_FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiousl...

04-25
58:33

Finding The Strength to Walk Away, "Waiting" for Love, & Overcoming Fear of Rejection with Lucy Spicer

Send us a text Do you have any anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? Lessons in Love brings you Carly Ann's and other people's inspiring stories to support you on your own journey of healing and change. If you are doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming more secure, you are in the right place. Join the Membership: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gymFollow Carly Ann on Instagram: @carly.ann_FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiousl...

04-18
01:01:32

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