Love In Brief

One of RY's very FAVORITE episodes every year is when we get the chance to ask people what good things their ABDL kink has brought them. In the past we've asked what you're PROUD OF, what made you HAPPY you had an ABDL kink, etc. This year, we asked what you are GRATEFUL FOR with regard to your ABDL kink, and boy did y'all show up! On this episode we'll hear from YOU, our LiB listeners, as you share your own stories and what made you grateful for your ABDL kink. It's the perfect way to ring in the new year!

Are you going to CAPCon SideQuest? You are??? You lucky dog, you! Welp, we've got some hot info for you; on this episode of LIB, RY and Teddy talk with Nito, the Director of Communications for CAPCon, about all of the last-minute details you'll want to know! Are you NOT going to CAPCon SideQuest? Well, here's a big ol' FOMO warning, but we think it's worth a listen anyway as whatever goes well at SideQuest may become a regular CAP feature! And, RY tells you how YOUR voice can become a part of our annual New Year's celebration, you won't want to miss it!

Howdy Partners! You know we enjoy a good round-up, on this Fall 2024 edition @LolaAndThenSome and I get to not 3, not 4, not 5, but 10 questions in the space of just over an hour! We'll talk about topics like- - What to do when your 'nilla partner shows signs of a Little vibe - DLs finding their way in an AB world - Tips and tricks for ABDL/BDSM scening - A fun near-miss story - How to meet folks online - What to do when your ex knows Plus a quick lightning round (kerchow!) about our relationship, by listener request. So ENJOY, this one is chock full of advice, and some of it may just be a rootin' tootin' good time!

WHOOOAH, hold onto your butts, it's 3 episodes in three weeks? Yup, we're going crazy over here at LiB Central and EVERYTHING MUST GO! OK, not really, it's just that we had juuuust recorded a CAPCON SideQuest episode when the news dropped about CAP '25. So we thought now seemed a good time to put out this episode, so that those of you who are wracked with disappointment would get to hear about all the cool things happening at the SideQuest in January while tickets are still available. In case you decide to go! Enjoy this detailed conversation with CAPCon Founding Director Ellexy and Convention Director Kane about what Sidequest is all about, what kinds of cool things are new to SideQuest, and what to look forward to with the new digs. All is not lost, it's a great ep, and SideQuest sounds super fun! More info, tickets, and contact the organizers at CAPCON.club

It is so hard to say goodbye to someone you love, whether it is due to a breakup, a change in living situations, a broken friendship, or a death. And how we deal with grief and loss can deeply intersect with our self-care, our sense of intimacy, and our kink life. On this episode, RY talks one-on-one with Mako, the co-creator and co-host of The Big Little Podcast, about loss and grief, and how we can move through and move forward. SHOW NOTES-- The Big Little Podcast Archive The Widow's Handbook The Bookshelf Model The Pinball Machine Model Cloud Atlas (IMDB) When Things Fall Apart (Amazon)

Last month we lost another incredible member of the community and a friend to many, IdiotWind. On this special replay episode, RY pays tribute to IdiotWind and replays his 2018 appearance on Episode 6 of LiB. We'll miss you, friend.

This week on LIB we are exploring the world of BDSM Dungeons, talking about what they are, what to expect from them, and how ABDL folks can go and enjoy some dungeony fun (and even organize your own ABDL events there)! Join @TeddyBearWithMe (FL/IG) and I and our guests @Sincerely_Ripley (FL/IG) and LoveSlave (@denversanctuary - FL) as we talk about the fun and kinky frivolity of the Dungeon scene. Can't wait for your thoughts and experiences with YOUR local dungeons as well!

This is one we have wanted to do ever since CAPCon this year... a deeper dive into PET PLAY & ABDL! @LolaAndThenSome (FL) has been really excited to journey into Pet Play territory, and she suggested we invite @pupscoutpony (FL) and @mschievousmouse (FL) on as they were amazing at CAP. And of course, they were amazing here as well! Here are some of the products they mention in the podcast mr-s-leather.com wruffstuff.com etsy.com amazon.com (look for halloween costumes!)

On this quick-hit bonus episode, we talk to James Frost, the new ABDL Marketing Channel Director for NorthShore Care Supply, a new-to-world (as far as we know) role... yup, a medical/Nilla diaper company hired an ABDL Ambassador! We talk about the role, the goals, and what ABDL folks mean to NorthShore. If you want to hear the other great podcast that tackled this topic, check out this episode of Newsie's Nook!

It's time for another round-up of YOUR questions! On this episode, Lolaandthensome and I answer six listener-submitted questions, on topics such as: Coming Out as ABDL Social Media and Face Pics Partner Isn't Interested Safe Power Dynamics Real Life Couple Dynamics Self Acceptance vs Self Love Also, as mentioned in the episode, here is a link to the ABDealing +1 Support Group!

As we wrap up Pride month 2024, we want to talk about what it’s like being trans in the ABDL community! My guests are @ABDLPedro_1925(IG)/Pedro_Luis-DL(FL), @AmanitaDreams (IG/FL) and @hbananer(FL)/hbananer09(IG) and together we dig into topics like the overlap between gender and kink journeys, the intersection of trans and ABDL, issues that trans people in the community face, and what it’s like navigating both a trans identity *and* an ABDL kink at the same time. It’s a fabulous discussion, full of tons of learning and a lot of fun along the way! Here are the resources we reference in this episode— Are Neurodivrse People More Likely to be Kinky? Sex & Psychology Podcast Dr. Liam Wignall - “Kinky In the Digital Age” A Short History of Trans Misogny - Jules Gill-Peterson Come As You Are - Emily Nagoski The Transgender Issue - An Argument for Justice - Shon Faye

On this long-form episode of Love In Brief, RY is delighted to introduce three brand new voices to LIB, and to focus on a community we don't talk enough about on the podcast: gay men in ABDL! Of course, there are WORLDS of different experiences and topics to cover in that community, we wanted to bring a few to kick off PRIDE month! This episode features some fantastic relationship stories, personal triumphs and losses, and killer advice and wisdom from our three guests -- @LittleTim55 (FL), @bunnyboyjoey (IG), and @puprootbeer (IG). It's a fabulous and heartwarming episode (and at times more than a little bit super adorable)!

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to walk into a real brick-and-mortar ABDL store? Or to find a whole section of your regional medical supply company dedicated to ABDL stuff? This episode brings us a fabulous discussion with Lora and Bob, owners of two different small businesses: ABDL brick-and-mortar stores that serve their regions. We talk about what it's like to open an ABDL retail store, how they provide confidentiality and safe welcome to their customers, and some tips on engaging an ABDL store as your first real-life contact with the community. Special thanks to TeddyBearWithMe for producing this episode, and to DadBod for the audio fix work and editing!

It's time to reach into that mail bag and answer some more LIB listener questions! On this episode RY welcomes his partner @LolaAndThenSome to her first ever Question Round-Up! In this episode we cover-- helping a partner make a sexy connection to diapershow to tell someone their online info is vulnerable how to talk to your vanilla partner about your kink interests (when your last partner blabbed to the world) what other amazing ABDL podcasts to listen to how to get your partner to initiate kinky play with you How to pick a screen name. Wheeeeeew, all that in 50 minutes, so hang on to your (padded) butts! And, for those wondering, here is a list of the podcasts and creators we mention on this episodeDear Jazzy (Jazzy) The Usual Bet (Sophie, Chloe, Kimmie) The Crinkle Club (ComfortablyCrinkly + MissMummy)Cautious Little Heart (Nikki) Newsie's Nook (newsiebabie)The Big Little Podcast (Mako + Spacey biglittlepodcast.info)DiaperPerv's ABDL Podcast (diaperperv)Dream A Little (Lo)

On this episode, TeddyBearWith Me and RY catch up with two CAPCon first-timers, Kashi and ebabyboy, to get their candid review and reflections on their first big convention experience.

CAPCON has just wrapped and we had a fabulous *live* episode with killer questions, amazing panelists, and lots of ridiculous fun. (We'd like to think there is some good advice somewhere in there too ;). On this live episode we tackle dating/meeting others in the ABDL community, activism as an ABDL, how to step out and attend your first event, and MUCH more! A huge thanks to our panelists: TeddyBearWithMe, Carmen Sandiego, Sprite4breakfast, Mako, & Bananer!!

It's just a week away from CAPCon 2024, and we wanted to give you a preview on what's going down this year! Joining RY for this bonus episode are CAPCon Founding Director Ellexy and Communications Director Incognito for a preview of this year's festivities, important tricks for preparation, and tricks for making the most of your CAPCon time.

Sharing your ABDL kink with a 'nilla partner can be scary, and getting involved in the ABDL community can be an intimidating prospect to boot...but sometimes getting involved in the community can be exactly what you and your 'nilla partner need to grow closer together! On this episode we talk to @rachandtucks (FL) about how their relationship started, how their early days of navigating kink started out with some real roller coaster events, and how getting engaged with the ABDL community helped bring them closer together. I am joined by this episode's co-host, my partner @lolaandthensome (FL), and together with Rach and Tucks we also talk about tips and tricks for events and community participation!

Are you knot entertained??? On this episode TeddyBear and I welcome RopesbyPanda and his rope (and life) partner Bunny to talk about the joy of ropes & bondage, how to get started with rope and tying/rigging, some common terminology, and safety in rope play. And of course, where rope play and ABDL can overlap and play together! Panda was also kind enough to share some resources with us, you can get those at transcripts.loveinbrief.com in the Resources folder. Check them out, it's well worth it!

(UPDATED with two new audio testimonials) It’s that time of year again! We asked YOU to help us celebrate the New Year by telling us what about your kink you are PROUD OF this year, and you came back with some fabulous stories, and even an amazing poem! There is also a SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT from rnt in this episode, and a tribute to our friend Diapered Kent. You don’t want to miss this one!