Mindset Matters - Live With Purpose and Grow With Intention

Today we're talking about failure. Let’s dive into how to deal with feelings of failure, those moments when it feels like nothing is working, and the tension between perseverance and giving up. I’ll share how learning to flow with life and trust the direction that feels natural has helped me overcome the frustration of things “not working out.” We’ll explore how to reframe setbacks, listen to the lessons hidden in challenges, and find clarity in times of uncertainty. If you’ve ever felt stuck or questioned whether you’re on the right path, this episode is for you.

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living more presently has changed EVERYTHING for me. Here's a few daily habits/ routines that can help you live more presently too.

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Let's redefine success. Happiness, joy, inner peace, living presently.

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In this episode of Mindset Matters, I’m joined by Magnus Rashid, a digital nomad and wellness advocate, to dive into the concept of Essentialism and debate the popular phrase, “If it’s not a Hell Yes, it’s a no.” Is this truly great advice, or does it have its pitfalls? We explore the power of focus, setting boundaries, and letting go of what isn't for you, while also questioning when this mindset might hold you back. Tune in for a deep, thought-provoking conversation about living with purpose and making decisions that align with your goals. 3 Simple Steps to getting UNSTUCK and discovering your passions: mindsetmatterswithvic.com/freebie

Are you struggling to find peace and focus in a world of constant stimulation? In this episode of Mindset Matters, I dive into the transformative power of mindfulness and how regular mindful routines can help you live a more intentional, balanced, and centered life. Discover how practices like self-reflection, meditation, and journaling connect you to the present, enhance mental clarity, reduce stress, and support well-being. In our fast-paced digital world, it's easy to get swept up in distractions, constantly connected to others online yet disconnected from ourselves. Mindfulness can help counteract this "digital disconnect," allowing us to slow down, be fully present, and foster a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment. Highlights: My personal journey from chasing perfection to embracing mindfulness. The difference between mindless habits and intentional routines. Why mindful routines matter in managing stress, anxiety, and negative emotions. Key studies showing how mindfulness improves attention, focus, and cognitive flexibility. The impact of digital distractions and why slowing down is essential for personal growth. Join me as we explore how mindful routines can reconnect you to your true self, empowering you to lead a purposeful life in a world that’s always on. 3-Steps to Get UNSTUCK and Discover your passions: mindsetmatterswithvic.com/freebie Coaching: mindsetmatterswithvic.com Journals: https://www.mindsetmatterswithvic.com/store

3 Simple Steps to getting UNSTUCK and discovering your passions: mindsetmatterswithvic.com/freebie mindsetmatterswithvic.com In this episode of Mindset Matters, we explore the common experience of feeling lost or stuck in life and dive into why decision paralysis, information overload, and constant comparison can leave us feeling disconnected from our true selves. Guided by Segal’s Law—"A man with one watch knows what time it is; a man with two is never sure"—we discuss how endless options, from side hustles to influencers, can overwhelm us and make life choices difficult. From the pitfalls of social media to the endless stream of self-help advice, we discuss how to break free from "infinite choices" syndrome and the effects of influencer culture. You’ll learn how practicing essentialism and intentional self-reflection can reconnect you with your purpose and help you focus on what truly matters. Plus, download my free 3-step guide to Getting Unstuck and Discovering Your Passions at mindsetmatterswithvic.com for more support on your journey to clarity. Tune in to reclaim your focus, prioritize your goals, and start building a balanced, purposeful life. Perfect for anyone in their 20s and 30s feeling overwhelmed by modern pressures and seeking a grounded approach to self-discovery and decision-making.

3 Simple Steps to getting UNSTUCK and discovering your passions: mindsetmatterswithvic.com/freebie mindsetmatterswithvic.com In this episode, we dive into the power of a personal vision—more than just a singular goal, it's a comprehensive picture of how you want your life to look. We’ll explore how a personal vision, guided by your core values and passions, acts as your North Star, keeping you focused and moving in the right direction. Think of it as the headlights for the car of your life, with passion as the fuel that drives you forward. I’ll discuss why having a clear vision is crucial for shaping your habits, making decisions, and navigating life’s distractions—especially in today’s world of constant comparison and overwhelm from social media. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure of your path, a personal vision can provide the clarity and direction you need to live a purposeful, balanced life. Plus, I’ll be sharing the launch of my Personal Vision Package, an 8-session transformative program designed to help you prioritize your passions and create lasting change. We’ll craft a crystal-clear vision together, and this vision will serve as the foundation for your routines, habits, and goals. If you're ready to step into your true self and craft a personal vision, listen in for practical insights and steps to get started!

3 SIMPLE STEPS TO GETTING UNSTUCK! https://www.mindsetmatterswithvic.com/freebie https://www.mindsetmatterswithvic.com/ In this episode, we explore why accepting life’s inherent challenges actually makes things easier. Inspired by the wisdom of The Road Less Traveled and Eckhart Tolle, we’ll dive into how resistance to life’s difficulties is often what causes us the most suffering. When we stop labeling challenges as "bad" and learn to embrace them, we experience growth and flow.We’ll also look at how your mental state can affect your body, why stillness and presence are key to acceptance, and how you’ve likely grown through past challenges without even realizing it.If you’re feeling stuck and ready to get back on track, download my free 3-step guide to Getting Unstuck and Discovering Your Passions at mindsetmatterswithvic.com. Let’s grow together, one mindset shift at a time.

mindsetmatterswithvic.com No notes today. Just some things on my heart. If you're feeling overwhelmed, afraid, or unsure in your life right now, know that you aren't alone. I hope this message helps. :)

mindsetmatterswithvic.com In this episode, we're diving deep into the power of action. You can plan, think, and visualize all you want, but until you take that first step, you’ll never truly know if your plan works or how it feels to execute it. The beauty lies in trial and error, where you learn, grow, and improve. Just like athletes need coaches and practice to excel, you need action to move forward—visualizing success alone won’t cut it. I’ll share personal stories, including how I jumped into starting this podcast and my boxing journey, balancing mindset work with consistent action. Whether it's starting a new project or refining your craft, it's all about blending planning, visualization, and—most importantly—doing.

Get unstuck!!! https://www.mindsetmatterswithvic.com/ Why is a growth mindset the single most important ingredient for success? In this episode, we explore how adopting a mindset focused on growth can transform your challenges into opportunities for continuous personal growth. You'll learn the key characteristics of growth versus fixed mindsets, with real-life examples and actionable insights.We’ll also debunk common misconceptions, like the idea that talent is fixed or that failure reflects your intelligence. Discover how mindset affects motivation, resilience, and performance, and why the most successful people aren’t always the most naturally talented—they just have a relentless desire to improve.Whether you’re navigating setbacks, self-doubt, or simply want to grow in any area of your life, this episode offers practical steps for shifting your mindset. You’ll leave with tools to reframe limiting thoughts, embrace feedback, and push past fear so you can start living the life you’re meant to lead. Tune in to evolve and succeed!

Feeling stuck? Ready to discover what lights you up and make it a priority? This is for you! https://www.mindsetmatterswithvic.com/freebie In this episode, we explore the powerful concept of choosing to be the chess master of your own life rather than just a pawn. How often have you done things to please others, even when you knew it wasn’t right for you? Whether it's following a path set by someone else or saying yes to things that don’t align with your true self, many of us have been there. But what happens when you start following your intuition, listening to your gut, and taking charge of your life? We dive into the emotions and challenges that come with making these choices and discuss how to navigate the resistance and guilt that can arise. Ultimately, this episode is about recognizing that you have the power to make the small choices that add up to a life that’s truly your own.

GET UNSTUCK and discover your passions: https://www.mindsetmatterswithvic.com/freebie In today's episode of Mindset Matters, we're diving into the true meaning of living a balanced life. I believe many of us are caught up in the misconception that balance means doing everything—working a full-time job, maintaining a side hustle, attending social events, and still finding time for self-care. But is that really balance, or are we just buying into the hustle culture that glorifies being constantly busy? Today I share how my understanding of balance has evolved and how the concept of Essentialism has given me a new outlook on life. We'll explore why it's important to focus on what truly matters, letting go of unnecessary commitments, and embracing a life of clear, intentional action. Discover how you can find your own balance by cutting out distractions, making mindful choices, and prioritizing what brings you joy and fulfillment. Learn how to do less but do it better, and how to create harmony in your life by aligning with your true passions. Don't forget to grab my free journal prompts to help you get started on your journey to discovering what really lights you up!

If you're interested in how 1:1 coaching can help you discover your passions and bring them to life, check out https://www.mindsetmatterswithvic.com/ If you’re anything like me, you're not a fan of dating apps. A few months back I made an episode sharing why I was DONE with the apps for good. But... My opinion has changed (somewhat). In this episode, I’m here to share how Bumble BFF has transformed my perception of dating apps. We’ll dive into what Bumble BFF is and how I’ve used it, and how my positive experiences have made me rethink dating apps for friendship versus love. Let's break down why we put so much more pressure on ourselves when it comes to dating, and how I'm choosing to look at dating apps differently.

Get your GRATITUDE JOURNAL: https://www.mindsetmatterswithvic.com/store Find your passions: https://www.mindsetmatterswithvic.com In this episode, I'm thrilled to welcome Amir Carlisle, a former University of Notre Dame football wide receiver, co-founder of the Players Company, current Director of Player Development for the Notre Dame football team, and a founding member of LEARN. Join me as I catch up with Amir and delve into his impactful journey from the football field to his current roles. Amir shares his inspiring football journey, the transition from player to mentor, and his return to Notre Dame in a significant leadership role. He discusses the importance of "finding your and," exploring interests and passions outside of sport. He shares how is own career-altering injury ultimately changed the course of his life, and has led him down a path of impact-driven work. We explore the differences in college football now compared to a decade ago, highlighting the increased pressure on players due to social media and financial opportunities. Amir's dedication to the holistic development of players, focusing on them as individuals rather than just athletes, shines through as he shares his philosophy and its impact on his work. Amir also discusses innovative experiences and initiatives designed for player development, including the Mindset Matters Gratitude Journal, which encourages a positive mindset and reflection among players.

https://www.mindsetmatterswithvic.com/ In this episode, we dive into one of the most impactful journeys you can embark on: showing up as your authentic self. There will never be another you; you are a unique presence on this earth. I believe, embracing your true self is essential for your happiness and fulfillment. We'll explore why authenticity matters, how to find yourself amidst the noise of social media and societal expectations, and why truly authentic people tend to be happier. Discover the road to fulfillment by defining your values and passions, and learn why happiness must come from within. As a coach, I help people find their passions and balance their lives, emphasizing the importance of self-love and mindfulness. Tune in to understand the key elements of finding your authentic self, including giving yourself space to explore, practicing essentialism, self-reflection, and spending time with people who light you up. Join us on this transformative journey to become the person you were always meant to be. #essentialism #mindset #mindsetmatters #fulfillment #authenticity