Nice Guy Dilemma

I help "nice guys" become the sovereign men that they are meant to be, the sovereign men that women are looking for. I take a stand for men, finding their ways in the world.  This is not like the other episodes, but an important topic -- sexual assault. I think you may be surprised so give it a listen, even if you are uncomfortable. I like to encourage making uncomfortable the new comfortable.  It wasn't an easy episode to share as I share some of my own experiences. None of what I do is about blaming or shaming, but just bringing awareness to patterns that are playing out all of the time.  Want support from a topic like this or something else, book a call and I'll give you a recommendation. Then book a call with me and I'll help you get clear: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---Free Group Session: Register here.holla at me:info@niceguydilemma.c

The world of Pick Up Artistry is still going strong. Guys are lining up to learn this craft. Why? Because they are some "average frustrated chumps" who want to get laid! So what are the pros and cons for Nice Guys in this world?I'll speak about  3 pros and 3 cons that every "nice guy" should know before investing fully into the pickup world. And I'll speak about 2 seduction/pick up teachers that I know and how things turned out for them. Curious? Have a listen. Then book a call with me and we'll talk about your foundation and what you can do about it: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/Free Monthly Group Session: Register here.Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---holla at me:info@niceguydilemma.com

4 flavors of "nice guys" to choose from. They all like to help others and can put others first, but they are not created equal. The more clear you can be about seeing yourself clearly, the more your relationships and life will improve.  Which one do you relate to? The Stereotypical Nice GuyThe Conflict Avoidant Nice GuyThe Anxious Nice GuyThe Perfectionist Nice GuyI'll share more details about each one so you can expand your awareness-- and in turn expand your authentic power.  Not sure which on you relate to?Or maybe you think you know, but want more details and a game plan?Then book a call with me and I'll help you get clear: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---Free Group Session: Register here. holla at me: info@niceguydilemma.com

Andrew Tate is everywhere. The alpha male is everywhere. And it's hard not to compare yourself to these guys, but what's really going on here? Is that who "nice guys" should aspire to me? What motivates these men?How are these men similar to the "nice guy"? As always, I analyze shit like this to support the nice guy. When you can see yourself and others more clearly -- you can become the authentic man that you were meant to be. Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/xo Janelle

I'm amazed at what people will do to avoid having a tough, honest conversation..... some may think it easier to kill someone. What does this have to do with being a nice guy? Well, everything. Let me explain. When nice guy, Cody married Jordan, he would have never guess what would happen just 8 days after his wedding. But if we examine the story leading up to that night, we can all learn a few things from some classic nice guy tendencies. You ready to dive in? Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/xo Janelle

I finally got my very good friend Josh on the show.. my very first guest.  Josh was a well-known cryptographer with a successful career + marriage --> which ended in a divorce. So Josh found himself single and dating yet again, only with less confidence about how to be in a healthy relationship.  Josh thought if I can get good at cryptography, can I get good at relationships too?He also shares why "pick-up culture" won't get you into a successful relationship. And he shares what it's like to date me!   Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/xo Janelle

When you do this one thing, it's clear to everyone that you are stuck in the nice guy dilemma. You know... trying to do the best you can helping others, being a gentleman, and what do you get in return? Lonely nights and longing for connection... oh and the resentment. Life ain't fair. Especially if you are in the nice guy dilemma. Check out this weeks episode where I dive in this one thing so you can get more clarity on if you do it and how it can affect your chances with women. Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---And my website --> https://www.niceguydilemma.com/Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/xo Janelle

So many nice guys aren't sure what they are doing wrong with women. They often think -- "why isn't being nice good enough?!" Alright, I want to help you out here, because that's what I do.  I help nice guys connect to their authentic power and I want to share about this huge blind spot many nice guys have. Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---And my website --> https://www.niceguydilemma.com/Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/xo Janelle

Figuring how to approach women is something many nice guys struggle with. What do I say? Where do I put my hands? Where do I look? Or not look? There are so many ways you could fuck it up! This is the first of many episodes covering the topic -- HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN. There are many aspects of this and in this episode, I paint some pictures that I think are helpful in understanding -- rejection. Rejection sucks for everyone, so let's break down all you need to know about it. Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/xo Janelle

Kim Kardashian and Pete Davison Breakup – from bad boy Kayne West to nice guy Pete Davidson, let’s walk the journey by analyzing both relationships, their archetypes, and potential growth or benefits from the experiences. Not in a celebrity gossip sorta way, but in a – what can be wall learn about relationships by looking at this - sort way. Pete has some nice guy traits that are his strengths in this relationship, as well as his weaknesses – because that’s how life works. Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/xo, Janelle

Let's talk about one of the most important terms as a nice guy --> Codependency. No, it doesn't just mean "dependent" or "clingy." You want to understand this term and how it shows up in your life. Getting this will change your life and relationships. Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/xo Janelle

A self-proclaimed nice guy has taken his younger, female co-worker under his wing and supports her at her new job and they become friends. But then, out of nowhere, he finds out... She has a boyfriend! How dare she not tell him. He has done so much for her?! Well, that's just the beginning of this (Reddit) story with twists and turns -- it's a trainwreck that you can't look away from. Maybe you don't do this exactly, BUT you probably do some element of this so let's use this entertaining story for everyone to learn from! The last episode explains how codependency shows up for nice guys with a bit more specifics -- listen to that first so you can really take in the story with wider awareness. Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/xo, Janelle

I'm Janelle Klander. I help nice guys (often introverted) access their authentic power and become the sovereign man that women are looking for.  I have 13 years of experience working with clients and working with various aspects of self. I have a no-BS approach. This episode lays the groundwork for the podcast journey we have ahead of us. You want to learn more? Give a listen. If you don't care to learn more about me or the intention of the podcast -- then skip it.  I honor your time and the most important thing is we dig into these topics. Sound good? Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a Free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <---Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/xo, Janelle

This is for the nice guys —- if it’s not clear how to have goals, stick to them, help others, know your value, set boundaries without being a selfish asshole, ALL while being a strong, independent man that women are looking for you are in the right place. Being a nice guy can be confusing as hell. You are doing the best you can. You fear being rejected… because you have been rejected. Conflict can be difficult for you. Dating can be even more difficult for you. Being friend-zoned is frustrating. And worst of all, it seems like everyone around you is going on and living their life… so when is it your turn? When do YOU get a turn? To attract the gal. To sustain a successful relationship.One that is fulfilling. To communicate with more ease with all people in your life. Move through your life with confidence and freedom. To live the life as the sovereign man you were meant to be. The good news is….. You are in the right place. So subscribe and share.I’m Janelle Klander. Host of podcast – Nice Guy Dilemma. The podcast supports nice guys finding and living from their authentic power, so they can attract the right gal, sustain a fulfilling relationship, and overall stand up and play in the arena of life. I”m bringing over a decade of experience supporting men to find their power, connect to their purpose, and improve relationships. I’ll be sharing insights, and stories, sharing a woman’s perspective, detailing important communication strategies, and having a special guest on every now and then — my good friend Josh who has loads to share. I’ll be releasing 3 new episodes very soon and once a week after that. Follow, subscribe, and if you want to take our relationship to the next level already — there is a link in the description to a free 45 min training—> 5 simple shifts to Take a Stand and Become the Sovereign Man that Women are Looking for <--- And my website --> https://www.niceguydilemma.com/Book a call with me if you are curious about working together: https://janelleklander.lpages.co/booking/See you on the other side. Xo Janelle