Our Parallel Paths: A Future for My Loved One With a Disability... and Me!

What About the Siblings (part 1) Part of the Our Parallel Paths podcast series with Gerry Anderson Arango Recording Date: September 8, 2025 Transcript: Download the episode's transcript. Keywords: disability, Our Parallel Paths, Gerry Anderson Arango, siblings, sandwich generation, caregiving, transition, caregiving for siblings, planning, personal futures planning Episode Summary: Gerry discusses the concern of many parents of children with disabilities... what happens when I am gone? Gerry explores the sometimes overlooked conversation... What About the Siblings? How do we help siblings be prepared, while also helping them as they explore their parallel paths while exploring the impact of changing roles. Topical Index: Introductions: [00:00] nique Sibling challenges [01:15] Our connections / resources as parents [01:54] What to share and when... [10:21] Change happens [11:36] Documentation - The Binder [13:58] Open communication [15:11] Next Steps [16:13] Need for Sibling Resources [17:09] In Closing [19:17] Join the Conversation at The Our Parallel Paths Facebook group Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co Send us your feedback online: https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/265f0c47-4318-4ba8-aab0-0546ae784f53 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Safe, Accessible Homes for You & Me with Dawn Heiderscheidt Recording Date: June 9, 2025 Keywords: disability, home safety, accommodations, Assistive Technology, Dawn Heiderscheidt, Aurora Independence, Geralyn Arango Deeley, Gerry Arango Anderson, Our Parallel Paths, aging in place, independence, fall prevention Transcript: Download the transcript for this episode. Summary: This episode of "Our Parallel Paths" focuses on the topic of aging in place and making homes more accessible and safe for our loved ones with intellectual disabilities and others. Our guest, Dawn Heidersheidt, is the founder of Aurora Independence, a company that provides home assessments and recommendations to help people stay independent in their homes as they age. Join our Facebook Group, Our Parallel Paths! Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co We would love to hear from you,., Leave your comments below in the comments section. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/28cdd4ec-fb1f-4dc6-9e47-b1d6f201a920 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

# Keeping Your Marriage Strong with gerry Arango Deely\ Recording Date: June 6, 2025 Keywords: disability, Our Parallel Paths, Gerry Arango Deeley, Gerry Anderson Arango, Dr. Geralyn Arango Deeley, marriage, strengthening marriage, communication, strong partnerships, resiliency Transcript: Download the transcript for this episode. Summary: ion this episode of Our Parallel Paths Gerry shares 7 principles for making marriage work, based on her own experiences, and sharing from the research of Drs. John and Julie Gottman. These include enhancing love maps, nurturing fondness and admiration, turning towards each other, letting your partner influence you, solving solvable problems, overcoming gridlock, and creating shared meaning. Gerry shares her personal experiences from her two marriages, and discusses the additional challenges that can arise when supporting a loved one with an intellectual disability or autism. She highlights research showing that uplifts, respite care, and open communication between partners are important for maintaining marital quality in these situations. Topica lIndex: Introductions [00:00] Gerry shares about her marriages [2:18] Dr. John Gottman - Seven Principle for Making Marriage Work [03:07] Commitment [12:08] Applying principles to those on the Parallel Path [12:57] Additional supporting research [16:09] Alexis Irazoque on Expressible.com/ Isler Taylor, Journal of Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities [17:34] The Importance of Uplofts [19:02] The importance of Resite [22:08] What About Siblings... does this apply? [24:16] Lee Woodruff, AAQRP article [27:25] Closing [30:20] Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co We would love to hear from you. Share your comments in the feedback section below. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/46157e70-3250-4b2e-b355-1c70942edfc2 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

$$$ with Mark Solomon, Financial Guidance for Special Needs Families Recording Date: June 2, 2025 Keywords: financial planning, special needs trusts, trusts, special needs planning, Mark Solomon, Financial Guidance for Special Needs Families, Geralyn Anderson Arango, Gerry Arango Deeley, Our Parallel Paths, disability, transition Transcripts: Download transcript for this episode. Summary: Gerry talks with Mark Solomon, Financial Guidance for Special Needs Families, about the differences families of special needs children / adults face when planning for the future. Mark offers practical advice, and resources for families that can alleviate stress, and encourage thoughtful planning. Resources: Website - snfguidance.com Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/SpecialNeedsFam/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@SNFGuidance Email - ConsultWithMark@yahoo.com Topical Index: Introductions [00:00] About Mark & Suzanne Solomon [02:55] Toolkit for families [04:37] Jugging Balls; Spinning Plates [05:42] How planning for special need children is different [06:37] Asset management vs. Financial Guidance [10:03] Medicaid - fears vs. reality [13:35] Siblings, trusts, and financial planning [17:22] Circles of Support [22:07] Contact information [23:23] The Parallel Path - retirement for your [24:22] Closing [32:09] Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co We would've to hear from you. Please leave your feedback in the comments section. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/e7792fc4-c4ca-4f66-a391-84dba4b4be6b

3 Ways to Turn Worry Into Action Part of the Our Parallel Paths podcast series with Gerry Arango Deeley Recording Date: March 18, 2025 Transcript: Download transcript for this episode. Keywords: worry, action, advocacy, medicaid, medicare, benefits, funding, disability, Our Parallel Paths, Gerry Arango Deeley, self-care, caregivers, supporters Summary: In today’s episode Gerry shares strategies for turning the potentially self-defeating emotions of worry into action steps that lead to taking charge of situations, and leading to problem solving. Gerry encourages caregivers / advocates, recognizing the frustration often felt, and the need to be well-informed. Topical Index: Introductions [00:00] Confronting worry [01:12] Some quotes about worry [02:10] The strategy - I am concerned about; I want to do something about; I need to learn about [04:25] About advocacy and resource [05:36] -- All Things Social Security -- Dr. Ed Weir, PhD, Former Social Security Manager The problem [08:43] One - Scream If You Must [11:17] Two - Get Focused and Get On The Phone [12:35] Three - Get Over the Guilt [13:51] The Resolution?? [[17:00] Closing [20:03] Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co We would love to hear from you. Please leave your feedback in teh comments section. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/33e1872b-8ea6-475d-bcfc-205a0217e867

Caregiving on the PATH! Part of the Our Parallel Paths podcast series with Geralyn Arango, Deeley, Ed.D. Recording Date: January 23, 2025 Transcripts: Download the transcript for this episode, Keywords: caregiving, What Would Nola Do? Gerry Anderson Arango, Geralyn Arango Deeley, disability, support, independence, transition, Our Parallel Paths Episode Summary: Host Geralyn Arango Deeley, shares her journey as a caregiver, including the publication of her memoir "What Would Nola Do?", which explores the lessons she learned from caring for her son with Down Syndrome, her mother with dementia, and a friend with a traumatic brain injury. Gerry shares six key caregiving lessons that she continues to apply in her life, including the importance of respecting privacy and personal control, recognizing that disability is a constant, thoughtful advocacy, combating loneliness, redefining "normal", and appreciating the support her son provides to her. Gerry announces the release of the 10th anniversary edition of her memoir in January of 2025, and encourages listeners to check it out as it may provide helpful insights for their own caregiving journeys. Topical Index: Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co We would love to hear from you. Leave your comments in the feedback section. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/d2c0dc75-57fa-4e54-9b46-5ec8a261130f

Revisiting Speech Therapy with Patrice Gilbert Part of the Our Parallel Paths podcast series with Geralyn Arango Deeley, Ed.D. Recording Date: January 23, 2025 Keywords: disability, speech therapy, speech and language therapy, speech and language pathologist, Patrice Gilbert, Gerry Arango, Geralyn Arango Deeley, transition, independence, communication, Our Parallel Paths Transcript: Download the transcript from today's episode. Episode Summary: This episode discusses the importance and value of speech therapy for adults with intellectual disabilities. The host, Geralyn Arango Deeley shares her and her son Nic’s experiences with speech therapy, and how it has impacted Nic’s life. Gerry’s guest, speech language pathologist Patrice Gilbert, shares her approach and philosophy for working with adults. Patrice emphasizes needing to presume competence when working with people and setting high expectations for success. She encourages involvement of all communication partners in the process to better ensure generalizing what is learned throughout all areas of a person’s life. This conversation highlights the ongoing value of speech therapy for empowering adults with intellectual disabilities to improve their communication abilities and participate more fully in their communities. Topical Index: Introduction [00:00] Nic's early speech therapy experiences [02:21] Recognizing the need for speech therapy [04:28] Introducing Patric Gilbert, speech pathologist [05:17] What does speech therapy for adults look ike? [06:57] Some guidelines [09:02] Importance of expectations [13:04] Importance of communicating [14:57] Respectful support [16:04] Communication as a two way street [19:42] Checking in [21:50] Nic's progress [24:24] The different forms of communication [25:57] Fining services [27:32] Importance of the correct assessment [30:07] Closing [34:14] Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co We would love to hear from you. Take time to share your thoughts in the comments below. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/9ca06ffc-f8f1-4050-bc46-c85e6ad2921b This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

The PATH! A Tool for Planning for the Future This episode is part of the Our Parallel Paths: A Future for My Loved One With a Disability... and For Me! Transcript: Download transcript HERE Recording Date: August 28, 2024 Keywords: person centered planning, The PATH, Planning alternative tomorrows with hope, Inclusion Press, Jack Pierpoint, Marsha Forrest, planning for the future, planning, disability, caregiving, Gerry Arango, Geralyn Arango Deeley, transition Summary: In this episode Gerry discusses the concept of "person-centered planning" and the PATH (Planning Alternative Tomorrows with Hope) tool, which can be used not only for individuals with intellectual disabilities, but also for their family members and caregivers. Gerry explains how the PATH process works, starting with envisioning a "North Star" or long-term goal, and then breaking that down into smaller, achievable steps. She shares her experiences using this tool, and encourages listeners to consider creating a PATH for themselves, as the paths of family members and individuals with disabilities often parallel each other. Gerry emphasizes the importance of self-care and planning for one's own future, in order to provide the best support for a loved one. Topical Index: Introductions [00:00] Concerns about the future [02:12] What is a PATH? [03:23] Putting yourself first [03:54] My introduction to the PATH tool [05:40] Describing the PATH [08:22] The recipe for the PATH… what you need [11:09] The steps of the PATH [12:11] Link to the PATH template download PDF. WORD The PATH… an ogoing process [17:12] Closing [18:12] Resources: The PATH tool WORD PDF Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co We want to hear from you. Please share your feedback/comoment/questions in the comments section. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/d555985e-2f39-4de0-9725-f41ab9efa7e9 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Episode 3: Chronic Sorrow and Grief with Maleita Olson Subtitle: Part of the Our Parallel Paths: A Future for My Loved One With a Disability... and For Me! podcast with Geralyn Arango Deeley, Ed.D. Recording Date: June 27, 2024 Transcript: Download Transcript HERE Keywords: Chronic Sorrow, Grief, Gerry Arango Deeley, Geralyn Arango Deeley, Maleita Olson, Sorrow, loss disability, transition, caregiver, parent, Our Parallel Paths Episode Summary: In this podcast episode, Dr. Geralyn Arango-Deeley interviews Maleita Olson, a licensed clinical social worker and mother of four, about the concept of chronic sorrow and grief in the context of parenting a child with special needs. They discuss the challenges and losses that parents may experience, such as the loss of privacy, the loss of feeling like an expert on their own child, and the loss of being able to make mistakes without feeling guilty. They also emphasize the importance of acknowledging and validating these feelings, as well as finding support and community among other parents who can relate to their experiences. The conversation highlights the need to hold both the sorrow and the joy of parenting a child with special needs, and to recognize that it is okay to feel both. Maleita shares a quote from an autistic individual that encourages parents to mourn the expectations they had for their child, rather than mourning the child themselves. They discuss the ongoing process of letting go and the cyclical nature of grief. The episode concludes with a message of hope and solidarity for all parents on parallel paths. Topical Index: Introductions [00:00] Chronic Sorrow article [01:12] Introducing Maleita Olson [04:46] Culture vs. the right to sadness [06:40] Compounding of losses [08:18] Disability and a sense of loss [10:15] Freedom to make mistakes [12:51] Micro-lossess [17:10] Internalizing our children's struggles [22:32] As a parent I am responsible for everything [23:53] Different responses to loss [26:01] walking through chronic sorrow [27:55] It is What It is [32:44] Balancing sorrow and joy [34:55] Importance of community [36:40] Closing [45:37] Resources: A Grief That Never Ends: Chronic Sorrow Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co We would love to hear from you. Please comment on the feedback form. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/3525435b-f89f-429e-90c6-cb5f57048376 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Supports Coordination - An Interview with Jessica Fenton, Miracle Works Pt. 2 Subtitle: Part of the Our Parallel Paths podcast series hosted by Gerry Arango Deely, Ed.D. Recording Date: May 3, 2024 Transcript: Download transcript HERE Keywords: Supports Coordination, waiver funding, CMS, IEP, ISP, transition, Our Parallel Paths, Gerry Arango, Geralyn Arango Deelely, Jessica Fenton, Miracle Works, advocacy, family, self-direction Episode Summary: In this episode host Geralyn Arango Deeley and guest Jessica Fenton, continue their discussion on the role of supports coordination in helping individuals with intellectual disabilities and their families navigate the system and access the services they need. Jessica shares her some of her own journey into this line of work. They continue to explore how supports coordination works, including the importance of regular monitoring and self-advocacy. They also touch on the concept of self-direction and how families can optimize the use of funding through supports coordination. Topical Index: Podcast Intro [00:00] Guest introductions [01:11] Jessica's journey to Supports Coordination [03:07] About Miracle Works [05:56] Choice of providers, services, supports coordination [11:12] How to make changes [12:03] Finding a Supports Coordination Organization [14:58] Advocating for you and your loved ones [19:06] How can a supports coordinator help? [21:26] Self-directed services [24:19] Blending service models to meet your needs [29:15] Closing [30:09] Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co We want to hear from you. Leave your feedback in the comments section below. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/8d42aae8-3374-48ef-9cb7-56182faaf564 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Supports Coordination - An Interview with Jessica Fenton, Miracle Works Subtitle: Part of the Our Parallel Paths podcast series hosted by Gerry Arango Deely, Ed.D. Recording Date: May 3, 2024 Transcript: Download transcript HERE Keywords: Supports Coordination, waiver funding, CMS, IEP, ISP, transition, Our Parallel Paths, Gerry Arango, Geralyn Arango Deelely, Jessica Fenton, Miracle Works, advocacy, family Episode Summary: In this episode, host Geralyn Arango Deeley introduces her guest, Jessica Fenton, who is a Supports Coordinator and Director of Miracle Works, a Supports Coordination Organization in Pennsylvania. They discuss the role of supports coordinators in locating, coordinating, and monitoring services for individuals with disabilities. They also talk about the different waivers available in Pennsylvania and the importance of advocating for the needs of loved ones. They touch on the transition from the Individualized Education Program (IEP) to the Individualized Support Plan (ISP) and the shift in language between goals and outcomes. The episode ends with a brief discussion of some upcoming changes in the system. Topical Index: Season 4 Kick-Off [00:00] Unique challenges [01:12] Moving from entitlement to qualifying [03:05] Introducing the Supports Coordinator! [04:55] Working definitions [06:44] The budget - needs based [08:42] Waivers - what are they [10:51] Advocacy - be your own voice [13:40] First step - reaching out to the county AE [16:57] Do waivers move with you? [20:09] Goals vs. Outcomes [22:42] Changes coming to Pennsylvania [25:05] Closing of pt 1 - intro to pt 2 [29:48] Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co We want to hear from you. Leave your feedback in the comments section below. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/1302b46d-c967-4867-a2f3-486fabbfd547 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Write About It, Part 2 - Journaling Tips Recording Date: February 14, 2024 Keywords: Journaling, writing, Gerry Arango, Geralyn Arango-Deeley, Our Parallel Paths, self-expression, journaling tips, Transcript: Download transcript HERE Episode Summary: Gerry continues sharing about her writing journey, and encourages caregivers to incorporate the habit of writing or "journaling" into their lives as a tool for problem solving, gaining perspective, and emotional support. In this second episode on journaling Gerry shares some quick and easy tips for making journaling a habit in your life. Topical Index: Introductions [00:00] Recap of benefits of journaling [01:36] Not a destination - it's a process [05:21] Use what makes you comfortable [08:10] Write every day [08:41] Make it easy [[09:55] Don't edit yesterday's entries [12:02] Journaling groups [13:12] Be patient with yourself [15:02] Closing [17:43] Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co Leave your feedback in the comments section below - we would love to hear from you. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/9b8c8779-8dec-4ff6-9b00-4abc2b6d0386 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Write About It, Part 1: Intro to Journaling Recording Date: February 5, 2024 Keywords: journaling, writing, keeping a journal, stress reduction, Our Parallel Paths, Gerry Arango, Geralyn Arango-Deeley, benefits of writing Transcript: Download transcript HERE Episode Summary: Over the next two episodes Gerry shares her writing journey – journaling. Journaling is a tool Gerry has long used as a means of personal expression, stress reduction, and problem solving. She feels journaling has provided her with a sense of clarity and perspective as she has travelled the Parallel paths of caregiving with her mother and friend, and continues to travel with her son Nic. Join us in this episode as Gerry introduces us to the gift of writing, and some tips on getting started. Gerry follows this up next episode with more tips on journaling as we navigate these Parallel Paths together. Topical Index: Introduction [00:00] Holiday Stresses [02:04] Ruminating on our stressors [06:06] journaling - a long time habit [06:41] Caregiving for mom, Nic, and James [07:27] Writing as an outlet for emotions [09:07] From journal to memoir [10:26] Journaling is a story - your story [11:24] Benefits of journaling [13:16] Journaling is a safe space [16:52] More benefits of journaling [17:09] Closing [23:11] Resources: Journaling for Emotional Wellness - Rochester Medical Center Your journal For Life - the Day One App Find out more at https://our-parallel-paths.pinecast.co Please leave feedback in the comments section below. We would love to hear from you. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/e8799f80-3c2e-4d3a-83df-28c658ea01a0 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Following Your Lead - an Interview with Teri Brewer Part of the Our Parallel Paths podcast series with Gerry Arango, Ed.D. Recording Date: December 5, 2023 Transcript: Download Transcript HERE Keywords: SAU1, Self-Advocates United as One, Teri Brewer, William Brewer, Disability, independence, supporting independence, self-advocacy, advocacy, transition Summary: In this episode, Gerry interviews parent Teri Brewer about her journey supporting her son William to live a meaningful life, and her involvement with SAU1 (Self Advocates United as One) with their work in promoting self-advocacy for individuals with disabilities. Teri shares her journey of discovering William's abilities and advocating for his needs, and the importance of having a strong support system. The main focus for Teri and William's future is finding way to support William in pursuing his dream to live independently. Teri’s interview emphasizes the importance of following our family members’ lead and celebrating their achievements along the way. Notes go here Topical Index: Introductions [00:00] SAU1 (Self Advocates United as One) [03:01] How We Got Here [03:40] Summer of Tears [04:31] One Day At a Time [06:41] School Years [06:16] First Act of Advocacy [09:27] Self-Direction [11:00] Mom and Dad take a Vacation [12:51] Gaining Confidence [14:07] Following Wiliam's Lead [15:30] Preparing for a Future Without Us [17:23] Early Years - Finding Our Way Alone [18:29] Transition [22:17] The Importance of a Support System [25:43] Never Getting Over the Wonder [27:36] SAU1 revisited [30:49] Preparing for the Future [34:11] Closing [38:53] We would love to hear from you. Leave your feedback in the comments sections. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/0f74bae9-5a4d-44c0-a70b-42bc0d32f5d0 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

_Siblings’ Perspectives: A Conversation with Emily Holl and Courtney Arango Recording Date: October 4,2023 Transcript: _Download transcript HERE Keywords: SibShops, Sib20, SibTeen, Sibling Support Project, Sibling Leadership Network, siblings, Emily Holl, Geralyn Arango-Deely, Courtney Arango, Our Parallel Paths, sandwich generation, peronal futures planning, PATH, end of life planning Summary: In this episode Gerry talks with two siblings – Emily Holl from the Sibling Support Project, and her own daughter, Courtney Arango – about their experiences growing up with their siblings who have disabilities, and the importance of planning for the inevitable time when parents are no longer in the picture. This important episode explores the many facets of caring for a sibling, the resources available, and the importance of building a network of support around you during this time. Topical Index: Introductions [00:00] Siblings’ roles [01:20] Our family situation [02:49] Introducing Emily Holl – author and advocate [03:43] Introducing Courtney [05:23] The “sandwich generation’ [05:53] Courtney shares childhood perspectives [06:42] Courtney’s current thoughts – anticipating change [10:35] Emily’s journey [14:01] o Change driven by Peter o Planning a move to New York o Polices and procedures for funding eligibility requirements. o Investing in both of our futures o Caregiver from afar Finding People who share your experiences. Sibling Support Project o SibNet, Sib20, SibTeen, etc. o Understanding and Validating our experiences o Who lives my story? Friends and acquaintances’ reactions [27:17] Facing difficult conversations [28:32] o Include everyone o Have the conversation o Minimize the impact on everyone o It’s okay to have your own dreams All the pieces of planning [31:19] o Live in the moment o Have the conversations o Use your resources o PLANS CHANGE… it’s okay! o Re-visit now and then o Build in fun and relationships o What is the nightmare – confront it head on o Celebrate successes / progress Resources ARC Center for Future Planning Sibling Support Project SIBSHOPS – Sibling Support Project The Future is NowCurriculum – Letter of Intent Connecting with Other Sibs We would love to hear from you. Leave your feedback in the comments section. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/01eb4c99-2497-4d5c-b477-5a2ac8fd31d2 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Individuation - What I Want & Why It Matters with Maleita Olson Part of the Our Parallel Paths podcast series Recording Date: August 15, 2023 Transcript: Download Transcript HERE Keywords: Maleita Olson, Gerry Arango-Deely, Our Parallel Paths, Individuation, transition, care-giving, care takers, caretakers, caregiving, adulthood, hover-mother, dignity of risk, independence, interdependence Summary: Gerry talks with social worker / parent Maleita Olson about the issues faced when "launching" our young adults with disabilities into adulthood. Some topics included are hovering, dignity of risk, comfidence building, and more. This episode also includes a discussion about individuation -- identifying what we want for ourselves in our transition as caregivers, and why it matters that we explore these things. Topical Index: Introduction [00:00] Indivdiuation [02:28] A shift in parenting: hover-mother [04:11] Fear of Failure [05:33] Failure to Launch [07:37] Who's filling the void> [10:25] Tips: We are not responsible if bad things happen [11:28] Risk taking can be good and healthy [12:01] Creating self-worth and confidence in kids [13:00] Teaching resilience [15:47 Sharing the spotlight / focus [24:02] Generational and Cultural shifts [25:36] Who are we - what's our identify [28:26] Dealing with guilt [22:13] What happens when I am gone [34:43] Celebrating the launch [42:54] Closing [47:14] Subscribe to our podcast We'd love to hear from you. Leave your feedback in the comments below. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/5c435f0d-65d0-4738-a858-8349d06dcc24 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

An Update From Gerry... Part of Our Parallel Paths: A Future For My Loved One With a Disability.... and For Me! Recording Date: September 6, 2023 Transcript: Download transcript HERE Keywords: Change, Individuation, remote supports, Our Parallel Paths, Gerry Arango, Geralyn Arango-Deely, navigating crises, dignity of risk, transition, disability, family, supports Summary: Welcome back to Season 3 of Our Parallel Paths... In this episode Gerry shares a brief update of her, Nic, and their family's continuing journey towards their joint goals and dreams for the future. Gerry also supplies some hints for upcoming episodes. We hope you join us on Our Parallel Paths... Topical Index: Introductions [00:00] Why an update? [01:32] Family changes [02:45] Individuation [04:23] Bumps In the Road - Supports and Health [05:37] A closer look at the future [10:29] Future episodes [12:00] Closing [12:25] Subscribe to our podcast We would love to hear from you... Leave your feedback in the comments section. https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/1681a9eb-babc-4c61-ac7e-c122e2b4c65c This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

More on Managing Supports - A Conversation with Bradley Beck Part Two part of the Our Parallel Paths series Recording Date: May 1, 2023 Transcript: Download transcript here Keywords: Our Parallel Paths, Managing Supports, Disability, Geralyn Arango, Geralyn Arango-Deely, Gerry Arango, Gerry Arango-Deely, Hiring support staff, Bradley Beck, supports broker Summary: Gerry continues her discussion of managing the supports for your loved one as roles change. This is part two of Gerry's conversation with Bradley Beck, a support broker, who shares his perspectives from the "outside looking in". Topical Index Introduction [00:00] Continuing the Conversation [01:04] Feedback - Self-assessment. [02:31] Providing feedback! [04:45] Tying feedback to raises [06:35] Building a diverse team [11:02] Providing acknowledgement that matters [12:54] Training and resources [16:26] Team building - an ongoing process [19:49] Patience [23:44] Closing [25:08] Subscribe to our podcastotes Notes go here Send us your feedback online: https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/eca3337a-1e9f-4da1-971e-b9e1b23386ca This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

More on Managing Supports - A Conversation with Bradley Beck part of the Our Parallel Paths series Recording Date: May 1, 2023 Transcript: Download transcript here Keywords: Our Parallel Paths, Managing Supports, Disability, Geralyn Arango, Geralyn Arango-Deely, Gerry Arango, Gerry Arango-Deely, Hiring support staff, Bradley Beck, supports broker Summary: Gerry continues her discussion of managing the supports for your loved one as roles change. She invites Bradley Beck, a support broker, to join in the conversation and share his perspectives from the "outside looking in". This conversation spans two episodes. Don't forget to listen to part two as well. Topical Index Introduction [00:00] What is a supports broker [02:00] Releasing of roles. [03:33] Clear expectations! [04:34] Giving feedback [11:17] Trust and Empowerment [15:44] Building relationships [19:05] Closing / continuing the conversation [22:34] Subscribe to our podcast Send us your feedback online: https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/7edd3032-a5e3-4610-9ca8-b7e2719993be This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Gerry's Angels - 5 Tips for Managing Supports part of the Our Parallel Paths series Recording Date: April 4, 2023 Transcript: Download transcript here Keywords: Our Parallel Paths, Managing Supports, Disability, Geralyn Arango, Geralyn Arango-Deely, Gerry Arango, Gerry Arango-Deely, letting go, promoting independence Summary: Gerry discusses the transition of roles all caregivers go through as their loved ones become adults, and their supports are shifted to other caregivers. What are the challenges of managing supports for our adult loved ones while providing room for growth and independence? Topical Index Introduction [00:00] Gerry's (aka "Charlie's") Angels [00:55] Who's the Boss? [03:32] You have to love checklists! [04:02] Gerry's Top Five checklist [05:25] Communicate [05:55] Delegate [09:45] Check In [12:30] Acknowledge their work [13:27] Understand [15:06] Closing [16:48] Subscribe to our podcast We'd love to hear from you! https://pinecast.com/feedback/our-parallel-paths/c4d5af06-13f5-4242-9162-bce842a7e698 This podcast is powered by Pinecast.