Self-Help Junkie

One of the big problems in our modern world is how many choices we have. #firstworldproblems But what if you could get a sneak peak into your trials? Kylie-Anne Nel joins me to discuss the curiosity that are Gene Keys, a system that can show us our flaws and strengths. Let’s see what Richard Rudd can show us.----------Key points discussed in this episode:What are Gene Keys?Feeling freed rather than confined with the sequencesSolo and couple exercises----------Guest - Kylie-Anne Nel@mindyourhero----------We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

Wellness is a defining feature of our generation, never have we been so concerned by all the various aspects but how well is your home? Kate Troyer is here to show us how a few simple (and logical) steps can transform your life. Book by Terah Kathryn Collins.----------Key points discussed in this episode:Translating your intentions into your spaceInvite your ideal partner like you would a newbornChanges you can make without spending money----------Guest - Kate TroyerTiktok and Instagram | @fengshui.kateYoutube | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxBljRcYUyBrpprd0OSfPvA----------We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

Finding yourself in your 20’s was hard enough, what if you had to do it again in your 40’s?Kimberly Benoit shares her story of rediscovering herself, her purpose and pure joy and how it started with a little book we’ve all heard of, Eat, Pray, Love. This cultural phenomenon may have been propelled into stardom by Julia Roberts but it started off as a life lived by Elizabeth Gilbert. ----------Key points discussed in this episode:Solo travel to get to know yourselfBe brave and do it- who knows what joy it will bringStart small, you don’t have to go on a trip to find your purpose----------Guest - Kimberly Benoitkimberlyjbenoit.com----------We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

Gary Fahey is kicking off our season and has brought with him Viktor Frankl's "Man's Search for Meaning." Sometimes, we find purpose in the deepest pits, and Gary is a testament to how you can build a new identity of which you can be proud, no matter how dark it may seem.----------Key points discussed in this episode:It starts with little promises to yourselfValues-Based vs Performance-based LifeBuild when the Big Dog Sleeps----------Guest - Gary Faheywww.garyfahey.comwww.linkedin.com/in/garyfaheywww.youtube.com/@theneurostoicwww.instagram.com/strong.mendwww.facebook.com/strongmend----------We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

Join Erika, your host of Self-Help Junkie, as she takes a nostalgic trip through the highlights of Season One and offers a sneak peek into what's in store for Season Two. Reflecting on themes of personal growth, relationships, and unexpected discoveries, Erika shares her top book recommendations that have made a profound impact on her journey. As she gears up for the new season, Erika unveils her intentions to delve into uncharted territories of self-discovery, career shifts, and navigating the uncertainties of life post-2023. With a promise of engaging conversations on topics ranging from motivation gamification to feng shui, Season Two of Self-Help Junkie aims to inspire and empower listeners to embark on their own paths of exploration and growth.

Periods.How much do you really know about it? I’ve had mine for 20 years now and it turns out, I know very little. Katelin Vincent is here to help us reconnect and understand ourselves better, physically and emotionally, with the help of Period Power by Maisie Hill.You don't have to read the book but I would highly recommend it to everyone. 5/5 Erika Recommended!----------Key points discussed in this episode:The 4 seasons of your period cycleHow to maximize your productivity and pleasureInvolving your partner----------Guest - Katelin Vincenthttps://www.yougogirlfriend.com.au/https://www.facebook.com/yougogirlfriendzhttps://www.instagram.com/yougogirlfriend_/tiktok.com/@yougogirlfriend_https://www.youtube.com/@yougogirlfriend_www.linkedin.com/in/katelin-vincent-yougogirlfriend----------We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out:https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

Ever wondered why people have affairs? Join me and Camila Espana in this last leg of our series on affairs with Esther Perel's State of Affairs as our guide! In this episode, we challenge common myths, debunk stereotypes, and explore the surprising dynamics behind affairs. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation on why relationships don't have to crumble in the face of infidelity. ----------Key points discussed in this episode:No formula that leads to affairsImportance of emotional attunementThe reason is whatever we choose to attach meaning to----------Guest - Camila EspanaInstagram - @newmoonpsychotherapyWebsite - info@newmoonpsychotherapy.ca----------We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

If you’ve heard of gaslighting, you’ll want to tune in for this one. Stephany Ann, a practitioner of EFT, is here to share her journey of healing after tumultuous relationships with a narcissistic and violent partner. She’s brought along Why Did He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft to help us better understand how to identify and recognize abusive behavior. ----------Key points discussed in this episode:Shifting from victimhood to empowermentRecognizing red flags in relationshipsBreaking patterns and shifting perspectives----------Guest - Stephany AnnLinked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephany-ann-369a01293?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_appFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100092716308108&mibextid=LQQJ4d----------We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

How do you start trusting your partner after they have shattered it into a million little pieces?Kate Conwell started with learning to establish boundaries within her marriage and 10 years after the infidelity, she’s got some insights to share. Join us as we pour over “Good Boundaries and Goodbyes” by Lysa Teurkurst and find out how we can rebuild. ----------Key points discussed in this episode:How to find clarity in your decisionGood boundaries to have for him & for herPractical language to set up for success----------Guest - Kate ConwellWebsite: https://www.journeybeyondbetrayal.com Instagram: @journeybeyondbetrayal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/journeybeyondbetrayal/ ----------We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

Cheating. Infidelity. An affair.However you package it, betrayal cuts deep. In this episode, Vanessa Cardenas shares her personal story and offers invaluable advice not only for recovery but also for thriving after such profound betrayal. Edith Eger's "The Gift: 14 Lessons to Save Your Life" is also here to guide us, but rest assured, you don't have to read it to dig deep and gain insight from this episode.----------Key points discussed in this episode:Not taking the betrayal personally3 things to keep in mind while going through betrayalHaving the right support around you----------Guest - Vanessa Cardenashttps://www.UnderstandingEar.com https://www.instagram.com/trusted_advisor_for_betrayal/ https://www.facebook.com/UnderstandingEar Her book: Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayalhttps://amzn.to/43ayrIy https://amzn.to/3N1V4cw ---------We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

Travelling is stressful so what can you learn after traveling together for 10 years? Imani and John are back to give us their tips and lessons learned. ----------Key points discussed in this episode:How to plan and decision make on the roadMelding travel preferences and interestsMaking and keeping memories!----------Guests: Imani Ifedihttps://www.instagram.com/imaniifedi/https://samenewlove.com/https://www.instagram.com/samenew_love/John Hydehttps://www.instagram.com/john.t.hyde/We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

What does it take to travel well together? For Jake and Anika, it’s all about compatibility. Join us for a 2 part series that examines two couples and their travel methods.Jake and Anika represent our new couple who specialize in slow travel.------Key points we covered:Travel compatibilityEqual division of planning and budgetingHappiness in simplicity------Guest - Jake and AnikaThey don’t want you to find them 😛Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

Turn your pleasure into accessing your subconscious. Dr. Joli Hamilton is back to share the little-talked about the topic of orgasmic imagination. She shares this delicious activity using her own experiences and those of her clients!No self-help book this week, but plenty to learn!----------Key points discussed in this episode:Explore inner desires through mental imageryImagery does NOT have to be sexualFreedom from sexual shame----------Guest - Dr. Joli Hamiltonwww.jolihamilton.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjoli_hamilton/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drjoli_hamilton?lang=enYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz8_u_0Z6omnIJKqklSNVVwLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joli-hamilton-phd/Facebook business: https://www.facebook.com/jolidepthpsychFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/dr.joli.hamilton/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

Burnout in the dating game is inevitable… or is it?Grace Lee, dating coach and former matchmaker is here to help us fall in love with dating again and see it for what it is, a time for exploration without any responsibility for another person. No book this week, just an excellent conversation. Erika recommended 5/5!----------Key points discussed in this episode:Finding joy in the process rather than FOMOHaving a good first dateRelationships: Expectation vs Reality----------Guest - Grace LeeIG: @agoodfirstdatewww.agoodfirstdate.comWe made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out:https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay

No this isn’t an episode on thrifting. We are learning how to translate our insides to accurately reflect how we look on the outside. But how do you dress to look funny, outgoing or successful without turning to a Halloween costume?Julie Louise, certified image consultant, is here to guide us. Sure you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover but we are visual creatures, may as well use it to our advantage. No book this week so just follow along for a fun conversation!----------Key points discussed in this episode:Dressing by your valuesDressing for different dating scenariosMaintaining individuality in a relationshipThe importance of feeling good about yourself----------Guest - Julie Louisehttps://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-louise/We made it on the Top 40 List of Self-Help Books podcasts! Check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/self_help_book_podcasts/Audio Engineer - Stevie IG @ stevie.auHosted, Produced and Arranged by Erika Ng: Bettersaid.orgContact me @ selfhelpjunkiepod on IG, Twitter or GmailTheme Music by Coma-Media from PixabaySound Effects from Pixabay