Spilling Tea with D

“Welcome to Spill Tea with D—where ancient wisdom meets everyday magic. I’m D.Lisa West—spiritual life coach, intuitive guide, and your companion on this sacred path of transformation. Each week, we stir the sacred, sip the mystical, and spill the tea on healing, dreaming, and spiritual awakening. So take a breath… open your heart… and let’s begin the journey.”

Creativity

Pondering how everyone is creative

01-11
07:05

How do you mange being Pulled and Pushed by life?

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing, she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd

03-14
19:01

Words have power

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing, she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Fargo A million ways song

03-08
14:21

Increasing your sense of deserving

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing, she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd

03-01
18:29

There is no wrong way to be creative

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing, she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movie: Sybil Song: Sing

02-22
26:28

Feeling Pushed and Pulled?

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing, she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd

02-14
20:11

New Years Resolutions and how to design them

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movies we mentioned: Book Club 1 Book Club 2 It's a Wonderful Life

01-23
27:25

Gratitude changes you and the receiver

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movies we mentioned: GhostGhost Bob on Sesame Street

01-04
17:20

On Death

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd

12-13
05:28

How to make friends as an Adult

show notes: Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movies we mentioned: The Cable Guy

12-13
15:17

How to do the holidays with those relatives

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movies we mentioned: Home For the Holidays Parenthood

11-30
27:36

Procrastination and how to deal with it

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movies we mentioned: The Incredibles TV show, Columbo When a Man Loves a Woman

11-24
30:07

Life is a lucid dream in a vivid reality

Cristina and I talk about dreams, and how we can recall them, and get wisdom for waking life Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movies we mentioned: Spellbound

11-18
29:02

Who loved you as a kid? Shaping behavior by rewarding success, disappointment, and dopamine hits

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Videos we mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r4GcqxiuCJE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fKy7ljRr0AA

11-16
21:08

Finding the gift in adversity

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movies we mentioned: Mixed Nuts Apollo 13

11-09
27:22

Time is not linear, how to hack that

About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movies we mentioned: Mirror Has Two Faces   Ground Hog Day Being Erica

10-25
18:17

Distraction - not just for the ADHD

We chat about modern distractions and some ways to stay focused, and at the end we get to the real reason many people let themselves get distracted. Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movies we mentioned: UP   Bells are Ringing

10-12
23:55

How to push past fear, and some movies to watch

Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd Movies we mentioned: Defending your Life Ghost My Life ET

10-05
32:44

Shame

Cristina and I share thoughts on shame, on the 5 people you spend most time with and how to train your mind like you would train a puppy Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd

09-28
16:17

Impostor Syndrome and more

Cristina and ! chat about imposter syndrome, and how the more successful you are, the more you have it! Show notes: About Cristina: www.spatarocounseling.com Cristina@spatarocounseling.net Cristina Spataro, is a New York State licensed mental health counselor. She has worked with adults, children, and families in crisis for the past 18 years. If there is one thing she has learned is that everyone has the capacity for change if they truly want it. Life can seem hard, and the choices are not always so apparent. Our decisions and their consequences leave us questioning ourselves. While Cristina has specialized in lending assistance when things get really bad, she would love to see her clients get the help they need beforehand. Therefore, she also provides life coaching and support group services. About D.Lisa https://coachingwithd.com d@coachingwithd.com D.Lisa is a spiritual life coach, artist and so much more. She inspires people to live a life they LOVE” and teaches creativity, meditation, dream recall and more. Follow her on social @coachingwithd @coachingwithd

09-21
23:54

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