Stories from Real Life

🎙️ Episode IntroIn today’s episode of Stories from Real Life, we’re stepping inside the clubhouse with hospitality leader Joe Carlucci — a man who’s spent his career turning golf clubs and restaurants into communities.From the kitchen to the course, Joe understands that great hospitality isn’t just about food or service — it’s about creating moments that make people feel seen, valued, and at home.In this conversation, we talk about leadership, creativity, and the small details that turn a good experience into an unforgettable one. Whether you’re a golfer, a restaurant owner, or just someone who loves people — this episode is for you.📝 Show NotesEpisode Title: Beyond the 18th Hole: The Heart of Hospitality Episode Summary:In this episode, host Melvin E. Edwards sits down with Joe Carlucci, a seasoned clubhouse and restaurant leader who has spent decades redefining what hospitality means in the golf industry. Joe shares stories from the greens and the dining room — about leadership under pressure, building community, and creating spaces where people belong.Topics Covered:* How Joe found his calling in golf club hospitality* What makes a dining experience memorable* Lessons in leadership and team motivation* Funny and heartwarming stories from years on the fairwayKey Quote:“Hospitality is about more than service — it’s about belonging. If you make people feel seen, they’ll never forget how you made them feel.” — Joe CarlucciConnect with Joe Carlucci:🔗 LinkedIn🎙️ Podmatch Profile Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

🎧 Episode Intro:When firefighter and paramedic Jim Brown was diagnosed with Stage IV lung cancer, his life took a turn no training could prepare him for. Out of his struggle came something extraordinary — a nationwide guitar group that’s helping men find healing through music, honesty, and connection.📝 Show Notes:In this heartfelt episode of Stories from Real Life, Melvin E. Edwards sits down with Jim Brown — cancer survivor, former firefighter, and founder of the “Cancer Camp Guitar Club.” They discuss masculinity, vulnerability, and the surprising power of a few chords to bring men back to life after crisis.Key themes:* Living with stage four cancer* Music therapy and emotional healing* The Man Up to Cancer community* Redefining strength and vulnerability* Brotherhood through shared struggle🎙️ About the GuestJim Brown is a retired firefighter and paramedic from Olympia, Washington, and a stage four lung cancer survivor. After decades of serving others in crisis, his own diagnosis led him to a new mission — helping men facing cancer find healing through music and community.Jim is the founder of a nationwide guitar group that gives men a safe space to connect, express emotion, and rediscover hope through the power of song. He’s also a proud member and contributor to the Man Up to Cancer community, where he advocates for vulnerability, brotherhood, and living fully in the face of illness.🔗 Connect with Jim🌐 Learn more: NWPB Feature on Jim Brown📧 Contact: Man Up to Cancer – info@manuptocancer.org📱 Community: Man Up to Cancer on Facebook Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

🎧 Stories from Real Life🎙️ Episode Title: “Engineering a Meaningful Life”Episode Summary:Dr. Tomás Estrada doesn’t just teach engineering — he teaches perspective. In this conversation, the Elizabethtown College professor opens up about the stories that shaped him, the moments that challenged him, and the students who changed the way he sees his work.He talks about what it means to build something lasting — not only in the lab, but in life. From childhood curiosity to quiet moments of doubt and discovery, Dr. Estrada reminds us that the most meaningful designs aren’t always made of metal or code. Sometimes, they’re made of courage, compassion, and connection.About the Guest:Dr. Tomás Estrada is an engineering professor at the highly ranked Elizabethtown College in Pennsylvania, known for blending technical excellence with a human touch. His work focuses on helping students discover not just how things work — but why they matter. Dr. Estrada received a B.S. in Electrical Engineering from Universidad de Costa Rica in 2002, a M.S. in Electrical Engineering from the University of Notre Dame in 2005, and a Ph.D. in Electrical Engineering, also from the University of Notre Dame, in 2009.🌐 Guest LinksTomas Estrada, Ph.D.Elizabethtown CollegeOrder of the EngineerStories from Real Life is hosted by writer Melvin E. Edwards — a podcast about ordinary people living extraordinary stories, where every episode explores the meaning, struggle, and beauty behind the moments that shape us.Personal Stories. Global Impact.Stories from Real Life website Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

🎧 Stories from Real LifeEpisode: “The Other Side of the Gun – Susan Snow’s Journey Through Trauma, Grief, and Forgiveness”Summary:When Susan Snow was 17, her father — Los Angeles Police Detective Thomas C. Williams — was murdered in the line of duty. That single, devastating moment changed the course of her life forever.For decades, Susan lived with the unseen weight of trauma and unhealed grief. It took years before she found the language, the tools, and the courage to face what she had buried so deeply.Today, Susan is an author, speaker, and survivor who helps others navigate the long road from tragedy to transformation. In this deeply personal episode, she opens up about the hidden cost of trauma, the power of boundaries, and the life-changing difference between forgiveness and forgetting.💬 In This Episode* The day everything changed — losing her father to violence at 17* Living with trauma and PTSD before she had a name for it* The slow and often painful path to healing* Why forgiveness doesn’t mean erasing the past* How setting boundaries can be an act of love and survival* Turning grief into purpose and pain into power🕊️ Key ThemesResilience. Forgiveness. Boundaries. Transformation.Susan’s story reminds us that healing is not a straight line — it’s a daily act of courage.🌐 Guest LinksSusan SnowWebsite: susansnowspeaks.comInstagram: @susansnowspeaksBook: The Other Side of the Gun 🎙️ About the ShowStories from Real Life, hosted by writer Melvin E. Edwards, shares powerful conversations with people who have faced extraordinary challenges — and found meaning, hope, and purpose through them.Personal Stories. Global Impact. Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

Beware: This conversation includes a discussion of alcoholism and suicide. At 72, most people are slowing down. But for Rand Timmerman, life’s greatest challenge — and greatest healing — came on a 2,000-mile trek through the Appalachian Mountains. A Marine, lawyer, and recovering alcoholic, Rand set out with his 71-year-old brother to walk, reflect, and rediscover what really matters. This is a story about endurance, faith, and the long road home.Want to be a guest on Stories from Real Life? Send Melvin Edwards a message on PodMatch, here. Rand Timmerman’s websitewww.podcastreallife.com storiesfromreallife.substack.com Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

Everyone carries a story about their father — the one we got, the one we needed, and maybe even the one we’ve become.In this episode of Stories from Real Life, I talk with Patton Dodd, writer, editor, and author of The Father You Get: And the Ones You Make, Believe In, and Become.Patton’s story explores what it means to inherit pain and still choose purpose, to face the past without being defined by it, and to discover grace in the mess of family life.Together, we talk about father wounds, forgiveness, and the ways faith and storytelling help us rewrite who we are — and who we can still become.Patton Dodd’s websiteThe Father We Get bookStories from Real Life websiteThe Strength of a Thousand SonsPatton Dodd on LinkedIn Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode of Stories from Real Life, host Melvin E. Edwards speaks with Dr. Justin Woods about his book, Crowns of Valor, and the concept of Five Crowns Outreach. They discuss the importance of leadership development in Christianity, the dangers of cozy Christianity, and the significance of suffering for the gospel. Dr. Woods emphasizes the need for biblical literacy and the role of the church in raising the next generation of leaders. The conversation also touches on the distinction between timeless principles and trendy ministry fads, encouraging listeners to focus on genuine faith and action.https://authors.tertulia.com/drjustinrwoods-drafteldm83https://www.patreon.com/cw/5CrownsOutreachWant to be a guest on Stories from Real Life? Send Melvin Edwards a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/storiesfromreallifewww.podcastreallife.com storiesfromreallife.substack.com Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode of Stories from Real Life, psychologist Dr. Alan Godwin discusses his new book, ‘Ties that Blind,’ which explores the deceptive narratives that shape our understanding of reality. He contrasts the reality-based community with the story-based fortress, emphasizing how collective narratives can blind individuals to the truth. Through personal anecdotes and psychological insights, Godwin highlights the importance of self-awareness, the role of forgiveness, and the necessity of courage in confronting uncomfortable truths. The conversation ultimately conveys a message of hope and the potential for personal and collective growth.Dr. Godwin’s websiteThe Ties that Blind bookStories from Real Life websiteThe Lost Cause Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

TRIGGER WARNING: Child trauma discussed in this episode.In this episode of Stories from Real Life, we sit down with Adriene Caldwell — author of Unbroken: Life Outside the Lines — to explore what it really means to survive, heal, and rise. Adriene’s story is one of resilience forged through unimaginable hardship, from childhood trauma to the long road of rebuilding identity and trust. She shares how she found her voice, her faith, and ultimately, her freedom.This conversation isn’t just about trauma — it’s about transformation. Adriene reminds us that healing isn’t a straight line, and that every scar tells a story worth sharing.www.UnbrokenCaldwell.comWant to be a guest on Stories from Real Life? Send Melvin Edwards a message on PodMatch, here. www.podcastreallife.com storiesfromreallife.substack.com Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode of Stories from Real Life, host Melvin E. Edwards interviews Azgari Lipshy, an entrepreneur who shares her journey from starting her first business at 16 to navigating the complexities of entrepreneurship. Azgari discusses the influence of her family, the lessons learned from early failures, and her passion for helping others launch their own businesses. The conversation explores themes of freedom, success, mentorship, and the importance of taking risks in life.Today, she’s built and sold multiple companies — and teaches others how to turn ideas into income. But behind the spreadsheets and systems is a deeper story: one of self-belief, burnout, failure, and the quiet strength it takes to start again.In this episode of Stories from Real Life, Azgari opens up about the moments that shaped her, the lessons that nearly broke her, and the truth about building not just a business — but a life of purpose.Azgari Lipshy Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode of Stories from Real Life, host Melvin E. Edwards welcomes back music legend Norbert Putnam for a deep dive into his storied career. Norbert shares captivating anecdotes about his experiences with iconic artists such as Kris Kristofferson, Donna Summer, and Elvis Presley. He reflects on the collaborative nature of music production, the challenges faced by artists, and the profound impact of storytelling through sound. With insights into the music industry and personal reflections on human nature, this conversation is a treasure trove for music lovers and aspiring musicians alike.Norbert PutnamNorbert Putnam’s bookKris KristoffersonDonna Summer’s tribute to Dan FogelbergQuadrafonic Sound Studio Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode of ‘Stories from Real Life,’ host Melvin E. Edwards engages with Dr. Brad Duren, a history professor, to explore the intricate relationship between American politics, religious revivalism, conspiracy theories, and celebrity culture. They discuss how historical religious movements have shaped political landscapes, the influence of modern political rhetoric, and the role of community in shaping political identities among younger generations. The conversation also delves into the impact of conspiracy theories on American culture, the blurring lines between entertainment and politics, and the implications of these trends for the future of democracy. Dr. Duren emphasizes the need for a religious enlightenment that merges humility with enthusiasm, urging listeners to recognize the importance of history in understanding contemporary issues.Great Awakenings The ApprenticeThe Divine ConspiracyBrad L. Duren, Ph.D. serves as the Dean of Liberal Arts and Public Service at Tulsa Community College, and provides leadership support for the Social Sciences, Humanities, History & Political Science, Criminal Justice, Paralegal, Human Services, and Child Development & Education disciplines. Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

Do you ever feel like you notice things others miss, or get easily overwhelmed by noise, stress, or busy environments? You might be a highly sensitive person. In this episode, we explore what it really means to be highly sensitive—the challenges of deep feelings and overstimulation, as well as the hidden strengths like empathy, creativity, and intuition. Whether you’re an HSP yourself or you want to better understand someone in your life, this conversation reveals how sensitivity, far from being a weakness, can be a superpower.Tammy Goen’s websitehttps://hsperson.com/Want to be a guest on Stories from Real Life? Send Melvin Edwards a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/storiesfromreallife. www.podcastreallife.com storiesfromreallife.substack.com Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

Today I’m joined by Dean Taylor — speaker, mentor, and author — who helps fathers move from feeling stuck to living with clarity, courage, and purpose. After nearly three decades in healthcare leadership, Dean realized outward success didn’t match the life he truly wanted. Now, he equips dads to define their values, strengthen their faith, and leave a lasting legacy. In this conversation, we dig into his personal journey, practical tools, and the heart of what it means to live intentionally.Books mentioned in this episode:Start with WhyMiracle MorningWant to be a guest on Stories from Real Life? Send Melvin Edwards a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/storiesfromreallife. www.podcastreallife.com storiesfromreallife.substack.com Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

My guest today is Iuri Melo — a licensed therapist, author, and co-founder of SchoolPulse, a program that brings daily encouragement, emotional support, and real-time communication to students across the country. Iuri has spent his career helping people discover resilience, hope, and healing, whether in schools, families, or individual lives. In our conversation, we’ll dive into his personal journey, the lessons he’s learned from working with thousands of students, and how SchoolPulse is reshaping the way we talk about mental health and well-being in our schools. This is an episode about courage, connection, and the power of showing up when people need it most.Here’s a link to SchoolPulse. 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode of Stories from Real Life, host Melvin E. Edwards speaks with Maria Gallucci, a real estate agent and author who grew up in a deaf family. They discuss the unique challenges and experiences of navigating both the hearing and deaf worlds, the importance of communication, and the role of empathy and love in bridging cultural gaps. Maria shares insights from her book, 'Raised in Silence,' highlighting the significance of family dinners, the lessons learned from being a child of deaf adults, and the misconceptions surrounding deaf culture. The conversation emphasizes the need for inclusivity and understanding in communication, regardless of language. Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

I apologize for the distorted audio on my end. It’s still a good episode with plenty of helpful hints.In this episode of Stories from Real Life, host Melvin E. Edwards speaks with Bart Merrell, known as the Side Hustle Samurai. Bart shares his entrepreneurial journey, starting from his childhood experiences on a pig farm to becoming a successful entrepreneur. He discusses the importance of monetizing one's mindset, validating side hustle ideas, and the role of mentorship in achieving success. Bart emphasizes the need for financial resilience and preparedness for opportunities, as well as the significance of embracing new trends, particularly in AI. The conversation concludes with valuable advice for aspiring entrepreneurs, encouraging them to recognize opportunities in their own lives and take action.https://bartmerrell.com/Want to be a guest on Stories from Real Life? Send Melvin Edwards a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/storiesfromreallife. www.podcastreallife.com storiesfromreallife.substack.com Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

Summer camp should be all about fun, freedom, and the great outdoors. But when severe weather strikes, those carefree moments can turn dangerous in an instant. That’s why Julie Kay Roberts launched Signal & Shield, a national initiative equipping over 12,000 youth camps with NOAA Weather Radios and training staff to act quickly when alerts sound.In this episode, Julie shares the urgent “alert gap” most camps face, why minutes matter in a storm, and how one simple device can save lives. We’ll explore the partnerships making it possible, stories from the field, and how you can help bring safety — and peace of mind — to camps everywhere.🎙️ Whether you’re a parent, camp leader, or just passionate about preparedness, this is a conversation that could save lives.www.psema.org/foundation/signal Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

Dr. Gregg Korbon’s life was rooted in science, discipline, and achievement—through medicine, military service, martial arts, and teaching. But when his son, Brian, a deeply intuitive and gifted child, died just before his tenth birthday - just as he had predicted to his parents - everything changed. Out of unimaginable loss came dreams, synchronicities, and spiritual encounters that challenged the limits of reason. In this episode, we explore the themes of his book Beyond Reason: the transformative power of grief, the role of faith and intuition, and how loss can open us to a deeper consciousness of love and connection. Dr. Korbon also shares insights for those navigating grief, bridging the worlds of science and spirituality, and carrying forward the legacies of those we love.Want to be a guest on Stories from Real Life? Send Melvin Edwards a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/storiesfromreallife. www.podcastreallife.com Beyond Reason bookstoriesfromreallife.substack.com Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe

Kenneth Webb has lived a life of constant reinvention—retired U.S. Army Lt. Colonel, former American Airlines employee, defense contractor, and now debut crime-thriller author. In this episode, we dive into his journey from Texas to Lima, Peru, and explore the real-life experiences that shaped his novel Trapped in Deception. Ken opens up about leadership, resilience, and creativity, while also sharing what it’s like to start over in a new country and a new career.https://kenwebb69.com/Want to be a guest on Stories from Real Life? Send Melvin Edwards a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/storiesfromreallife. www.podcastreallife.com storiesfromreallife.substack.com Get full access to Melvin E. Edwards at storiesfromreallife.substack.com/subscribe