This episode is with Chris Blair who is the President of Maestro Associates, a flat fee financial planning firm in Denver, Colorado that helps clients make better financial decisions to achieve their ideal life. Chris explains just how important it is for men to understand their finances no matter your age. How much money you make is not what’s important. He explains the difference between assets and liability. He tells us about checking accounts compared to savings accounts. We discuss the viewpoint women have with money more than men. We talked about how communication about money is so important in a relationship. We talked about what a man needs to do to leave a legacy. Chris informs us just how Maestro Associates can and will help you to reach the goals you would like to reach. No matter where you live.
In this episode we learn from the owner of The Impactful Parent, Kristina Campos how we can help our kids to be more Emotional Regulated through the use of video games. Kristina explains why kids today do not know how to regulate their emotions. She gives us parents examples of what we need to do if we want our child to know how to handle their emotions. Kristina tells us what we as parents need to be aware of when our child has these big emotions and the parent is really only seeing a tip of the iceberg. How boys’ emotions are so different from girls' emotions and how it manifests itself. So how does a video game help a child regulate their emotions? Kristina tells us how a parent can use the time your child is playing a video game to learn when your child may need help to regulate what they are feeling. Being the owner of the app, The Impactful Parent, she tells us how this free app can help parents in their day-to-day life. You can even ask her questions on the app.
Our guest for this episode is Thomas Kersting. He is the Author of Disconnected: How to Reconnect Our Digitally Distracted Kids and How to Protect Your Child from the Dangers of Device Dependency. Tom has another book coming out in February 2023 entitled Raising Healthy Teenagers: Equipping Your Child to Navigate the Pitfalls and Dangers of Teen Life. He tells us the average amount of time a parent spends with their kids each week, which is, sadly, mind blowing. Tom provides some very important rules that every parent should put into practice. The data he collected from kids should wake a parent up about the harm that these devices we let our kids have affect them. Hear how some kids have reacted when these devices were taken away and why. Tom talks about ODD, ADHD are sometimes developed due to parenting style. Have you thought about why some many more kids have anxiety today? Tom does. You can reach Tom at www.tomkersting.com.
This week's show features Allen Carter the Author of Letters from a Father. For years now, it has been Allen Carter’s habit to write a monthly letter to his children during their teenage years. The letters cover an amazing array of life lessons that also show an intimate glimpse of one family’s life journey. He tells how writing letters to his kids provided him an opportunity to stay connected to his kids and draw value from them. There are almost 70 chapters in this book touching on subjects including, Love, Patience, Taking Risks, Believe in Yourself, Don’t Play It Safe, Anxiety, God’s Desire and so much more. One of my favorites was the chapter on Science and Faith. In our interview Allen breaks down the meaning behind the chapters. He explains just how important a father is to his kids.
Tommy Maloney from the podcast Blending the Family came on the show to talk about his new book “My Dad’s Advice at 5:04 AM” and where the title comes from. We stated with why a child should not see a parent leave. We talked about dating after a divorce. Tommy really explains how we as fathers can build quality time with our kids. Why he never wanted to get married or have kids. He discusses how men will sometimes battle depression. The advice Tommy learned from Zig Ziglar on how to handle depression. He shared what it was like to be a stay-at-home dad, why he did it, and a tip he learned from stay-at-home moms. One of the key things I think from this book and for people bringing kids into a relationship is the pack that Tommy and his wife made when they started dating. Ways to introduce the kids to the person you are dating. We discuss how important it is for men to know where they can find resources. Remember to check out Tommy on his podcast show Blending the Family.
This week’s episode is with Rachael Katz, MS, Ed, who teaches social and emotional learning skills to parents and children. Today you can learn all about the stages of development your child goes through as they gain social awareness and emotional balance—and how you can nurture this development using the author’s innovative MIND framework. Rachael explains how as parents we are always planting seeds within our children by the examples, we show them in our actions. She tells us how meditation can help the parent and the child. Rachael talks about how early a child's understanding starts. Learn more in her book with co-Author Helen Shwe Hadani, PhD, The Emotionally Intelligent Child. Available wherever books are sold and libraries.
This week’s episode is with Dan Doty. Doty is a father, husband, meditation teacher, men's work leader, and wilderness guide. He was the former co-founder of EVRYMAN and the director of hit tv show MeatEater which was a hunting and wilderness show. Dan talks about the father's wounds men carry and why. We discuss the difference in fatherhood by generations. He mentions the different challenges father experiences. He lets us know what his dad taught him. Dan’s current practice includes helping business founders deal with their deepest and hardest problems, coaching men on softening their hearts, and leading groups into the wilderness to contact their inner strength and confidence. You can reach Dan at dandoty.com.
This week’s episode is with Dwayne Meeks, an expert and the founder of an award-winning fatherhood program Urban Colors Arts and Mentoring and also the President and Chair of the Colorado African American Drug Policy Coalition. He believes that by changing yourself, you’ll be able to change and empower others. Meeks co-authored the book “Pieces Never Missing Required in a Child's Life”. It is Impacting the country and getting National attention as a recommended reading tool to help fathers and families stay connected and reduce at risk behavior in the home. Mr. Meeks was awarded the outstanding fatherhood individual by the Responsible Fatherhood Initiative and has been recognized by the Governor and Mayor of Colorado for his contribution to responsible fatherhood. Hear how when Dwayne was 32 years of age his father did a simple thing that changed his life 2 months before his dad passed away. He has now passed it on to his sons.
This week’s episode features Philip Pelto who is a husband, father, ultra-runner, adventurer, entrepreneur and lover of life! He believes that there is nothing you can’t accomplish with a little hard work, patience, persistence and perseverance. He talks about the fear of the unknown when he first found out that he was going to be a dad. Phil tells us how he and his wife communicate and how they handle problems. He shares what he has learned about himself being a father. He breaks down what success means to him and what he wishes society as a whole would do the same. Phil shares what he hopes his son learns from him. He also shares what he learned from his dad. You can reach Phil at his company My Firestorm at https://www.myfirestorm.com/
This episode is with Dr. Stacy Friedman who has a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality in addition to a Masters in Clinical Sexology and is a Certified Sex Coach. She is a member of WASC (World Association of Sex Coaching), including ACS (The American College of Sexologists) which shows that she has earned top credentials in her field. Dr. Stacy first explains what is sex and what it is to women. Dr. Stacy explains what men think sex is. She tells us the difference between sex and intimacy. Dr. Stacy said we as men should learn to have an open mind. She answers how important fourplay is to a woman. She answers if size matters in the actual performance. She lets us know if a woman's vagina is the same. She gives great ideals on ways to spice up your sexual relationship with your partner. If you have been demoralized from a current or past relationship Dr. Stacy tells us how you can overcome that issue. She tells us about the 5 basic love languages. If your goal is to be the best version of yourself, this is just another part of that for you. You can find Dr. Stacy on her website at drstacyfriedman.com. Look for her book Confessions & Lessons of a Sexpert: The Ultimate Guide to Greater Intimacy & Better Sex.
This episode is with the owner of Budget Management, LLC and current Bay City, Texas Mayor Robert Nelson who notice that a lot of people did not have the financial savvy and literacy that they really needed to move their life forward. If you really want to build generational wealth, in this video Robert tells us what money is, how to work with money, how to save money, how to spend money, how and when to invest your money, and having a budget. You might ask yourself, why is this important? Kids emulate their parents. If you are not teaching them by example, how are they supposed to learn how something is done?
This week’s episode is with Jason Kreidman of Dad University. Dad University was established in 2016 to help dads learn what we are not taught in school and support dads across the world. Jason explains how important a man’s mind-set is. He tells us how we as men should have more compassion for ourselves. Jason gives three examples of crucial mistakes that men make. Jason tells us what he wants his kids to learn from him. Through Jason’s course, videos, podcasts, social media and speaking, they help businesses, organizations, and schools communicate with dads. Dad University's mission is to get more dads involved, increase parenting effectiveness, and help dads find work/life balance. He is a keynote speaker for organizations, businesses, and schools that want to either enhance participation of their dads or provide education and parenting skills of their participants.
Jayne Sanders is a MASTER Scientific Hand Analyst and Transformational Coach. In this week’s episode she tells us what hand analyst is and how it works. With a corporate background and 3 coaching certifications - Purpose, Law of Attraction, and Spiritual Life Coach – and featured in a FORBES article about her work, Jayne Sanders helps leaders, business owners, and teams, love their lives and their work. Using her extensive past corporate experience, along with Scientific Hand Analysis and her proprietary Coaching process, she reveals your purpose, special gifts, and blind spots, then guides you into the inspired meaning, passion and fulfillment you crave in life and work. Jayne believes we all have a purpose and was put on this earth for a reason. If you have not figured out your life purpose, you should get in touch with her. She is offering The Father Show audience a special price, a discount of $100.00 off. All you have to do is follow this link Https://bit.ly/3mrHjUv for the $397 special price on a full Scientific Hand Analysis with summary report and recording. Her website is https://www.purposewhisperer.com
Michael Uram, MA, LMFT, LPCC is the Founder and CEO of Uram Family Therapy, a private practice psychotherapy office dedicated to helping their clients live their authentic lives by treating anxiety, depression, ADHD, Asperger’s, High-Functioning Autism, OCD and related conditions using Evidenced-Based techniques, such as, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Collaborative Problem Solving® (CPS), Exposure Response Prevention (ERP), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and more. Michael gives us insight as to what a father needs to know and how to become the best father he can be while raising a child with Asperger’s, Autism, or ADHD. He informs us that there are little to no support groups dedicated to helping fathers facing these challenges. However, Michael gives us ways to help father’s that want to know how to connect with their child who has Asperger’s or Autism connect with them. He tells us the hardest lesson he had to learn about being a father. Michael has written a book that was released in February 2021 called, “Parenting & Asperger’s”. It is a simple guide to understanding your child’s unique traits and having an open mind on how to support and connect with your child. It is available through all major book publishers. You can reach Michael at uramfamilytherapy.com
This week’s episode is with Judy Graybill who is a relationship healer and a certified stepfamily coach. Judy works with men, women, and couples who repeatedly argue, can’t agree on a solution, and long to feel the connection again. She’s gifted at identifying a strategy that can transform conflict into connection and partnership. Everything we talk about today focus on how men are being in a relationship. The 3 blocks of intimacy. Are you focusing on the end goal and what is that? Men must learn how to truly be intimate within their relationship. To really have a connection with the person you are in a relationship with. What does that mean and how can we get there? She tells us to think about empowerment. Judy has published 2 free e-books available on her website. You can find her on Instagram, YouTube, BlogTalkRadio and www.JudyGraybill.com, and stay tuned for more from Judy.
Appearing on this week’s episode from Stony Brook Psychotherapy & Wellness is psychologist Dr. John G. Cottone who has a private practice in Stony Brook, New York. He’s here to talk about an article I read of his entitled Fathers and Sons: Masculinity, Men, and Relationships. It highlights the tricky nature of relationships between men. Being a father and a son himself he informs us as to why relationships matter and why men should find a therapist to strengthen relationships. He talks about the unwritten rules of the pecking order between a father and son and males’ social groups. He explains how this pecking order keeps males avoiding traits like tenderness and emotional sensitivity that would maybe make them look vulnerable. Dr. Cottone has numerous peer-reviewed research publications in neuroscience, psychiatry, psychotherapy outcome and moral reasoning. He is also a regular contributor to Psychology Today where he has a blog entitled The Cube, and he is the author of three books, including, Who Are You? Essential Questions for Hitchhikers on the Road of Truth. You can email him at MindCube3D@gmail.com, check out his YouTube channel Mind Cube 3D (youtube.com/channel/UCcuWgaynspx77K4vavXIRfw) and or his blog The Cube on Psychology Today (psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-cube ).
This week’s episode is with Kyndall S. Cooper of The Kynship Birth Collective who is a doula that specializes in working with new parents. She explains what a doula is, what they do, and how they can help before, during, and after a pregnancy. How important can a doula be to an expecting dad? Kyndall provides great details on what a father-to-be role is. She gives great advice on how we as men can help the expecting mother. She makes it clear as to how what the expecting mother is feeling affects the unborn child's mental foundation. Since she has worked with kids from the age of 0-3 years old, she explains what a father can expect and need to know. How, even with twins, each child is different and you have to treat and interact with them differently. We hear how bonding with your child is so Important. Kyndall provides ways that we can make that happen. She lets us know what fathers should be mindful of. You can reach Kyndall at kyn@thekynship.com
On this episode of The Father Show our guest is Daniel Huerta who is the Vice President of the Parenting and Youth Department at Focus on the Family. Danny oversees initiatives that equip parents to disciple and mentor the next generation, so that they can thrive in Christ. He is a bilingual, licensed clinical social worker. We talked about the 7 Traits of Effective Parenting from his book by the same name. Daniel tells us how we can correct our child when we have teachable moments. He gives examples as to what we as fathers should do when we have those correctable moments but we didn’t handle it in a way that the child we really learn from their mistakes. He teaches us how we can recognize the different invitations your child gives to build a better bond. We talked about how a child picks up on the emotion in the room and what you should do about the times big emotions show up. At the end of the show he tells us dads something that we really need to grab hold of. You can find more on the book Seven Traits of Effective Parenting on focusonparenting.com
If you are a father that is going to family court soon or in the near future, this week's episode is a must see. Michael Watson who is a professionally qualified social worker and author of two books, Family Court: Giving Evidence in Family Court and his second book is Represent-Yourself-Family-Court. He has over 33 years’ experience working with children and families. Michael is an expert in the family court at assessing parenting relationships and the various needs of children. He talks about how a person's emotion can hinder a person to stay objective. How to present all the evidence you have to the court. He tells us how a person should conduct themselves in court. He also talked about how important both mother and father are to the child. Michael even gives good examples as to when a parent should not be in a child’s life. Whether you have an attorney to represent you or you are doing it on your own, the information Michael Watson talks about is so important. You can reach him at familycourtcoaching@gmail.com. Learn what the hardest thing to do in court is.
On this week episode we talked about How to Build an Intimate Relationship That Last a Lifetime with author, counselor, and a pioneer in the men’s and fatherhood movement Randell Turner, Ph.D. He has authored award-winning resources for National Center for Fathering, National Fatherhood Initiative, Prison Fellowship, and Fatherhood.gov. Randell Specializing in healthy masculine intimacy, he has dedicated over 20 years in working with men who feel broken, rejected, isolated, and lonely because of their struggles with “intimacy ignorance.” Dr. Turner says most men think of intimacy as something that leads to having sex. Intimacy is not something that men discuss or are taught. He says intimacy is who they are rather than what they do. He tells us that there are 5 different types and 5 different characteristics of intimacy that are all supposed to work together. Dr. Turner informs us that learning how to be more intimate helps with relationships with your kids, siblings, friends, and others in your circle. It allows people to bond with each other on many levels. His personal and professional experience inspired the creation of Rescuing the Rogue designed to equip men in forging intimate relationships to last a lifetime. His most recent work includes two small group study guides: Transformational Life and Relationship Foundations. We are going to have Dr. Turner back. If you have any questions about intimacy, email them to thefathershow@gmail.com and we’ll get the answers for you.
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Almost an hour of unorganized talking my advice would be create an outline of points you want to discuss to save the listener some time this seems like it was just two guys sitting at an impromptu discussion with no organization or planning whatsoever beforehand