The KYLO Show

In this live Q&A from the Albany tour stop, Danny and Brittney answer two deeply relatable questions: how to engage with controlling family members and how to overcome the crushing weight of mom guilt. With humor, honesty, and wisdom, they share practical tools for setting healthy boundaries, taking ownership of your emotions, and remembering your identity in Christ—especially in the high-stakes relationships of family. Whether you’re navigating toxic dynamics or second-guessing your parenting, this episode will leave you grounded, encouraged, and empowered. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why no one can control you without your permission. How to communicate from a place of self-control and clarity. What makes a powerful person and how to become one. The difference between toxic shame and healthy conviction. Why you were chosen to be your child’s parent—flaws and all. Key Takeaways: You are a powerful person: You have the God-given ability to control yourself and choose how you respond in every situation. Control is an illusion: Others may use fear or manipulation, but you still get to choose how you show up. Mom guilt is not from God: You were chosen to parent your children, and He equips you for every season—even the messy ones. Healthy shame builds connection: When handled well, correction and conviction strengthen relationships and model growth. Lead with love and truth: In parenting and family dynamics, your confidence, honesty, and humility create a culture of safety and growth. Join the Conversation: Are you learning to say “no” in a relationship where control once ruled? Or finding freedom from mom guilt in your parenting journey? We’d love to hear your story—join the conversation at www.thekyloshow.com. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most vulnerable and meaningful questions yet—from handling painful family inheritance situations to leading a business with integrity and learning to hold on to joy in the midst of grief. This episode offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools for staying powerful and connected during life’s hardest seasons. If you’re in a challenging time or walking alongside someone who is, this one will speak straight to your heart. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to respond with maturity and integrity during family inheritance conflicts. Why staying a “good son” or “good sibling” matters more than what you receive. How to lead a godly business that reflects Christ in culture, excellence, and kindness. What it looks like to grieve powerfully and ask for help without losing yourself. How to access joy and hope even when life feels overwhelming and dark. Key Takeaways: You control your response, not the outcome: When it comes to inheritance or injustice, you can choose honor, integrity, and connection regardless of others’ decisions. Let your character lead your business: A godly business isn’t just about Christian language—it’s marked by the fruit of the Spirit and excellence in every interaction. Ask for help when you're grieving: Owning your need is a powerful step toward healing. You don't have to grieve alone. Joy is cultivated, not circumstantial: Don’t wait for life to go your way to choose joy. Build habits of gratitude and obedience that reconnect you to God’s presence. Stay connected even when it’s hard: Grief and hardship can make you want to isolate—but choosing connection, even imperfectly, is part of staying powerful. Join the Conversation: Have you been in a season where joy felt far away? What helped you return to hope and connection? Share your story with us at www.thekyloshow.com—we’d love to hear from you. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this candid Q&A from the Bethesda tour stop, Danny and Brittney respond to questions on dating, identity, and how to build relationships that are both healthy and lasting. From practical wisdom on staying true to yourself in dating to the importance of aligning your life mission with your partner’s, this episode unpacks how to keep your love on from the very start. Whether you’re single, dating, or mentoring someone who is, you’ll gain insight on what it means to pursue connection with clarity, confidence, and community. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why self-awareness and confidence are critical before entering a relationship. How to discern if you're adjusting yourself to be what someone else wants. The importance of building relationships within the safety of community. Why shared life vision and mission matter more than chemistry alone. How early alignment can lead to long-term unity and growth. Key Takeaways: Don’t change your ticket: Choose relationships where your life mission and calling are already aligned—you’re heading the same direction. Be confident in who you are: Healthy relationships start when both people know, like, and are developing who they are in Christ. Stay in community: Surround yourself with trusted people who can speak into your relationships and help you stay grounded. Chemistry fades—clarity lasts: Compatibility rooted in purpose and values is more sustainable than just emotional or physical connection. Join the Conversation: Have you ever changed your “ticket” to make a relationship work? What’s one area of your identity that you’re learning to love and protect? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and keep the conversation going. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this powerful continuation from Bethesda, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions from a live audience about conflict, connection, and covenant. Through raw and insightful stories—from car ride disconnection to navigating orphan mindsets and newlywed advice—they highlight the courage and humility it takes to lead in relationships. Whether you’re married, mentoring others, or healing from disconnection yourself, this episode will challenge you to protect connection, prioritize self-awareness, and embrace the path of growth and reconciliation. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How listening better than someone is talking changes the emotional climate of a relationship. Why hurt often masquerades as anger—and how to respond with compassion. What to do when someone is stuck in self-protection or an orphan mindset. Why curiosity and self-awareness are keys to thriving in marriage. How to use five simple words to communicate emotional truth and protect connection. Key Takeaways: Listening is an act of protection: When you slow down and truly understand what someone is feeling, you create safety and open the door to healing. Self-justification is the enemy of connection: Owning your part, even when it’s uncomfortable, is the path to deeper trust. Curiosity transforms conflict: When you stop blaming and start getting curious—about yourself and others—you create space for growth. Connection must be protected at all costs: React to disconnection like your couch is on fire—drop everything and deal with it. Simple words bring powerful clarity: Words like “ouch,” “yikes,” and “ugh” help you name what’s happening inside and move toward reconnection. Join the Conversation: Which part of this episode challenged you most? Do you need to slow down and listen better, or have the courage to speak your truth in love? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and let us know how you're keeping your love on. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney take us to Vancouver, Washington, where they respond to powerful audience questions about family disconnection, political disagreements, and parenting through transition. Whether it's a daughter using "boundaries" to cut off relationship, a seventeen-year-old disrupting family game night, or a holiday skipped because of political differences, the heart of this episode is about restoring connection without compromising your values. With wisdom, laughter, and plenty of real talk, Danny and Brittney offer practical tools for loving your people without losing yourself. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The difference between boundaries and punishment in relationships. How fear drives disconnection—and how love casts it out. Why adult children sometimes distance themselves and how to rebuild trust. What to do when siblings in the same home become strangers. How to build a culture of respect in your home through shared family values. Key Takeaways: Boundaries keep the door open for reconciliation. Punishment shuts it. When a child disconnects, start by asking: “Do I have a mess to clean up?” Family time is a culture you create, not an obligation you force. Your job isn’t to control your adult kids—it’s to become a trusted friend. Clarifying your family values (like a “Family Creed”) helps everyone know what’s expected and what matters most. Join the Conversation: Have you ever been on the receiving end of a "boundary" that felt more like rejection? Or maybe you're a parent learning to navigate new dynamics with adult children. We'd love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and tell us how you're learning to keep your love on. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Whether you’re single, parenting adult children, or recovering from relational pain, this episode is packed with wisdom for staying powerful in the face of disconnection. Recorded live at Eden Church in Newcastle, Washington, Danny and Brittney answer real audience questions about singleness, narcissism, motherhood, boundaries, and healing from toxic relationships. They share stories, scriptures, and practical tools for cultivating healthy identity, confronting manipulation with courage, and protecting connection without enabling dysfunction. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to build strong relationships without losing themselves. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why the KYLO 5 is essential—especially when you’re single. How to create joy-filled, life-giving relationships that align with your purpose. What real boundaries look like when dealing with manipulative or toxic adult children. How to differentiate between your role and God's role in your child's life. Why Jesus is the ultimate model of healthy boundaries. Key Takeaways: Singleness isn’t waiting—it's preparation: Cultivating self-love, healthy community, and clear boundaries now sets the stage for healthy connection later. Love isn’t enabling: Setting boundaries with someone you love—even your child—isn’t cruelty, it’s wisdom. You are not your child’s savior: Your job is to love them, not rescue them. Trust Jesus to be who only He can be. Boundaries aren’t rejection: They’re protection—for you, and for the relationship. Jesus had perfect boundaries: He never violated another person’s will, even in crisis. He honored self-control and invited ownership. Join the Conversation: Have you had to set a hard boundary with someone you love? How did you stay connected without being controlled? We’d love to hear your story. Connect with us online or submit a question at www.thekyloshow.com. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What do you do when your feedback is met with stonewalling, shutdowns, or accusations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney return with more live Q&A from their tour stop in Newcastle, Washington, tackling tough questions about feedback, conflict, narcissism, and relational disconnect. Through personal stories and real-life coaching moments, they offer wisdom for navigating relationships where feedback feels impossible and disconnection seems inevitable. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a one-sided relationship or struggled to confront dysfunction in love, this episode will equip you to stay powerful, connected, and courageous. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What to do when someone resists or shuts down your feedback. How to stay calm, clear, and connected when emotions run high. Why asking “What did you hear me say?” is a game-changer for clarity. The difference between repentance and self-justification in broken trust. How to approach accusations of narcissism in a culture that overuses the term. Key Takeaways: Don’t confuse judgment for feedback: True feedback is sharing your experience, not labeling or controlling the other person. Safe connection takes time: If someone has never experienced feedback as love, they may need consistent safety before they engage. Stay powerful, even when others aren’t: You get to choose self-control, honor, and clarity, regardless of how the other person responds. Build trust with repetition: Healing relational dynamics takes practice, courage, and time—not a one-time conversation. Repentance isn’t promises—it’s change: When trust is broken, words don’t restore it—consistent changed behavior does. Join the Conversation: Have you ever struggled to give feedback to someone who wouldn’t receive it? What helped you stay connected and powerful? Let us know by leaving a review or connecting on socials. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

When fear, anger, and disconnection enter a relationship, it’s easy to slip into control, self-protection, or power struggles. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney answer live audience questions from the KYLO Show Tour and talk about the battle to stay connected even when emotions run high. They share personal stories about rebuilding trust in marriage, navigating conflict with respect, and overcoming deception in relationships. If you want to create a culture of love, accountability, and healthy communication, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and encouragement. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to stay courageous when building trust in a wounded relationship. Why connection—not control—should be your goal in conflict. Practical ways to manage fear and anger without damaging connection. How to recognize and respond to deception without breaking relationship. Why feedback, accountability, and a listening posture protect healthy connection. Key Takeaways: Connection heals fear: Staying connected in the middle of conflict is more powerful than rushing to fix or control the situation. Courage builds trust: Committing to connection, even when you feel hurt or scared, transforms relationships over time. Self-awareness is key: Recognizing your own fear, anger, or self-justification is critical to building safe, lasting connection. Feedback protects growth: Inviting honest feedback and staying accountable to others helps you stay out of deception and isolation. Join the Conversation: Where have you experienced the power of connection in the middle of conflict? We’d love to hear your story! Share with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

We’re back with part two of The KYLO Show live from our tour stop in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho! While Brittney was still down for the count with the flu (we missed her!), our good friend and Resolute Church pastor Katie Ann Browning returns to co-host alongside Danny. This episode goes deep into the heart of parenting teens without power struggles, shame, or fear. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, powerless, or unsure how to parent in a way that cultivates connection without losing authority—this one’s for you. We also explore how healing our own shame is essential to raising emotionally healthy kids—and how to stay anchored in love, even when your kid says, "You suck." What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why connection—not control—is your superpower in parenting How to handle disrespect and scary behavior without losing your peace Tools for breaking power struggle cycles with your kids Why your own healing journey is crucial to raising whole, healthy children The role of shame, and how it sabotages both parenting and marriage Key Takeaways Fear fuels control. When we’re disconnected from our kids, fear takes over—and controlling them becomes our default. Connection is the goal, not control. Staying relationally connected through conflict is more powerful than punishment. You’re not powerless. You don’t control your child—but you do control access, resources, and your response. Shame blocks love. If you struggle to receive love or extend it, shame is likely at the root. Do the inner work—it’s the best gift you can give your family. Repetition builds character. Inner healing matters, but tools and practice are what carry you through real-life conflict. Practical Parenting Tools Mentioned Use phrases like “I know,” “Probably so,” and “Nice try” to avoid power struggles Establish connection before correction Practice calm, confident boundaries with natural consequences Stay close in the middle of scary choices to build long-term trust Do the inner healing work to break shame cycles before they get passed down Books Referenced Loving Your Kids on Purpose by Danny Silk Imperfect Parenting by Brittney Serpell Keep Your Love On by Danny Silk Unpunishable by Danny Silk The Way of the Dragon Slayer by Danny Silk Stay Connected Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

We’re taking The KYLO Show on the road! This special episode is the first in our KYLO Show Live tour, recorded in front of a live audience in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. While Brittney was unable to make the first stop due to illness, our incredible friend Katie Ann Browning, pastor of Resolute Church, stepped in to join Danny on stage. This episode is packed with raw and powerful conversations about what it truly means to protect and love your spouse. Danny shares personal stories of learning how to be a protector in his marriage, navigating the pull of self-preservation, and stepping into courage instead of fear. From breaking free from shame cycles to embracing the power of love languages, this episode will challenge and encourage you in your relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What it really means to be a protector in marriage. How to overcome self-preservation and step into courageous love. Why shame blocks connection—and how to break free from it. The impact of love languages and how to pour into your spouse even when it feels unnatural. How small, intentional shifts in your mindset can transform your marriage.   Key Takeaways: Love requires courage: Confidence in love comes after stepping into courage, not before. Self-preservation destroys connection: Protecting yourself instead of your spouse creates distance in relationships. Breaking shame cycles is essential: If you struggle to receive love, it’s time to examine where shame might be at play. Love languages require intentionality: Even if a love language doesn’t come naturally to you, choosing to invest in your spouse’s needs builds a stronger marriage. We love hearing from you! What resonated with you from this episode? How have you seen courage and protection play a role in your marriage? Share your thoughts with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message! Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Feedback—it’s one of the most powerful tools for personal and relational growth, yet it can also feel uncomfortable, intimidating, and even scary. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney dive deep into the importance of feedback, why it’s essential for building trust, and how both giving and receiving it can transform relationships. They share personal experiences, discuss the fears that often hold people back, and offer practical wisdom on how to cultivate a culture of honest, loving feedback in your life. If you want to grow in self-awareness, strengthen your connections, and create a thriving community, this episode is a must-listen.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why feedback is a key ingredient for maturity in relationships. The difference between healthy feedback and harmful criticism. How self-justification blocks growth and damages trust. The role of truth in building lasting, covenant relationships. Practical ways to invite and give feedback in a way that strengthens connection.   Key Takeaways: Mature love invites feedback: The healthiest relationships are built on truth and vulnerability, not avoidance or self-protection. Self-justification destroys trust: When we defend or dismiss feedback, we push people away and stunt our own growth. Courage is required: Both giving and receiving feedback require bravery, humility, and a commitment to relational health. Your community should be built on truth: The people you surround yourself with should be willing to exchange honest, respectful feedback.   Join the Conversation: What’s your biggest challenge when it comes to giving or receiving feedback? Share your thoughts with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you! Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What does it take to keep the flame alive in marriage? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney dive into the key ingredients for maintaining connection, intimacy, and joy in your relationship. They explore the small habits that prevent disconnection from creeping in, the importance of prioritizing your spouse, and how to navigate the inevitable challenges that come with different seasons of marriage. If you want a thriving, passionate, and enduring relationship, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical tools to help you cultivate love that lasts.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why connection—not just romance—is the foundation of a thriving marriage. The small habits that prevent distance and disconnection from growing. How prioritizing your spouse impacts the long-term health of your marriage. The role of communication, forgiveness, and self-awareness in maintaining intimacy. Why enjoying your spouse is just as important as pursuing them.   Key Takeaways: Small disconnections grow into major issues: Addressing small moments of disconnection early prevents resentment and distance. Marriage evolves through seasons: Each phase of life brings new needs and adjustments—healthy couples adapt and grow together. Enjoyment is key: Thriving marriages are built on intentional connection, playfulness, and mutual appreciation. Communication is the lifeline: Learning to tell the truth, listen well, and respond with humility keeps your relationship strong.   Join the Conversation: We’d love to hear your thoughts! What are your favorite ways to stay connected in marriage? Share your insights with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you!   Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Boundaries are one of the most challenging, yet essential, tools in relationships. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney explore the concept of boundaries and how they protect what is valuable in our lives. From setting boundaries with strangers to navigating difficult situations in close relationships, they share practical wisdom and personal stories that illustrate why boundaries are vital for connection, growth, and thriving. If you’ve ever asked, “What do I do with mean people?”—this episode is for you.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why boundaries are essential for creating a thriving life and relationships. How to handle situations with difficult or mean people using boundaries. Real-life examples of setting boundaries with strangers, family, and spouses. The role of repentance in rebuilding trust and restoring connection. Practical tips for maintaining boundaries while keeping hope for reconciliation.   Key Takeaways: Boundaries protect what’s valuable: They safeguard your energy, time, and relationships. It’s about hope, not punishment: Boundaries should aim to restore and reconnect, not reject or punish. Repentance is crucial: Without repentance, moving forward in relationships is nearly impossible. Different relationships, different boundaries: Boundaries look different with strangers, coworkers, spouses, and children.   Join the Conversation: We’d love to hear your thoughts! Share how this episode resonated with you, and let us know your biggest boundary-related questions. Leave a review or connect with us on social media to keep the conversation going.   Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Episode Overview The KYLO Show is back! In this highly anticipated relaunch episode, Danny and Brittney Silk share the story behind their recent break, offering a candid look at the reflections, lessons, and renewed energy that have fueled their return. Together, they dive into what’s next for the show, their commitment to strengthening connections, and how this fresh start aligns with their mission to cultivate thriving families and communities. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why Danny and Brittney decided to take a hiatus and what they discovered during that time. The vision behind this new chapter of The KYLO Show. How they plan to provide even more impactful tools and insights for building powerful relationships. A sneak peek at the exciting topics and content coming your way in future episodes. Key Takeaways: Breaks can lead to breakthroughs: Hear how stepping back helped Danny and Brittney refocus on what truly matters. Connection remains at the core: The KYLO Show continues to prioritize fostering strong, healthy relationships. Get inspired for the journey ahead: Learn how the show’s fresh direction can empower you in your own relationships and leadership. Episode Highlights: [00:12] Introduction: "We’re back, and here’s why we stepped away." [02:30] Behind the scenes: Reevaluating priorities and finding clarity. [08:45] The mission moving forward: Tools and insights to build thriving communities. [15:00] A glimpse into upcoming episodes and exciting plans. Resources Mentioned: The KYLO Show Tour - Join us on tour! Keep Your Love On: Connection, Communication, and Boundaries – A foundational resource by Danny Silk. Loving on Purpose YouTube Channel – Subscribe for video episodes and additional content. Join the Conversation: We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts on this episode and what you’re most excited about for The KYLO Show. Connect with us on social media or leave a review on your favorite podcast platform to help others discover the show. Stay Connected: Website: Loving on Purpose Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of The KYLO Show, we dive into practical ways to handle power struggles with children and discuss the fine line between discipline and punishment. We answer a listener's question about managing expectations and responsibilities in the home, offering insights on empowering kids to make better choices without resorting to control. Later, we tackle the challenges of maintaining healthy connections in the face of family conflicts. Learn how to keep your love on, protect your peace, and foster genuine relationships even when navigating tough family dynamics. Like, Subscribe, and download this podcast to hear more each week on how whole, healthy families are saving the world! This episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.