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The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating and Relationship

The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating and Relationship

Author: Kirsten Trammell

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Welcome to The Naked Connection, the show for motivated men who want to build deeper connections and have better communication and sex with women.

Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you build meaningful romantic connections so that you can live with purpose and freedom. Kirsten studied under the VITA methodology, a tantric and holistic approach to sex, love, and relationships, and is currently in grad school to become a Licensed Sex Therapist.

If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate with the woman you want, and build a lasting relationship…this podcast is a must-listen! 

It is time to experience what is truly possible.  Now, let's get some!
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Are you tired of being in the same painful relationship cycle…yet again?   This week, Kirsten talks with Licensed Therapist Jessica DaSilva all about attachment theory and how your attachment style may perpetuate the slump you find yourself in.    Whether you are single and want to learn more about who you are in relationships, or you are in a relationship and want to understand better the unconscious dynamic that may be holding you back, this episode is for you! Tune in to learn how to create self-awareness, effectively communicate with your partner, and build attraction towards secure and healthy dynamics.   Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com/nc   Connect with Jessica Da Silva https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thejessicadasilva/?hl=en   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes.   Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!   Key Episode Topics: 01:27 Understanding Attachment Theory and the 4 Attachment Styles 05:23 How To Navigate Anxious and Avoidant Dynamics 09:47 Cultural Influences on Attachment 10:49 Navigating Relationship Needs 14:26 Tools to Communicate Your Attachment Needs 15:43 How to Shift Towards Being Attracted to Healthy Relationships 20:05 Navigating Attraction and Healthy Behavior 23:05 Understanding Secure Self Blueprint 25:05 Dating World Confusions and Insights 28:59 Attachment Styles and Sex Life 34:33 Moving Towards Secure Attachment
We all have secret fantasies. What do you do when your girl has a dirty fantasy she wants to play out?  In this episode, we walk through the steps to exploring a kinky fantasy with your girl with how to navigate the conversation, successfully execute the fantasy with success and explore the underlying desire the kink is actually fullfilling.  If you are feeling uncomfortable with your desires, tune in to learn some of the deeper reasons that drive fantasies and kinks. Let’s get some! Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com     Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!   Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction to Fantasies 00:24 Why Fantasies Are Hard to Share 00:46 Welcome to The Naked Connection 01:06 Personal Journey and Podcast Anniversary 02:45 Common Fantasies and Their Challenges 04:44 Exploring a Rape Fantasy 07:34 Understanding the Psychology Behind Fantasies 16:04 Setting Boundaries and Safe Words 21:28 Communicating and Respecting Limits 26:15 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Want to turn your sex life from good to great? Join Kirsten as she sits down with Kevin Anthony, a certified sexologist and tantra counselor, to explore ways to take your sex life to the next level.    Whether you are currently single and want to learn skills for your next lover or are in a relationship wishing to deepen your sexual experiences, this episode is packed with value for you. Key topics include initiating sex, improving foreplay, maintaining arousal, and enhancing sexual energy during periods of abstinence.    Kevin and Kirsten address body image issues that men carry, the importance of a mindful masturbation practice, and how to build polarity and desire in your dynamics with women. Tune in for a deep dive into upgrading your intimacy and sexual prowess. Let's get some!   Key Topics: 06:27 Communication and Co-Creation in Sex 12:15 Initiation and Arousal Techniques 17:14 Foreplay: Tips and Techniques 20:19 Understanding Erection Anxiety 21:22 The Importance of Relaxation 22:30 Exploring a Woman's Body 23:37 Body Image Issues in Men 25:35 Taking Action on Body Image 29:11 Keeping Sex Fun and Exciting 35:07 Maintaining Sexual Energy When Single   Connect with Kevin Anthony https://www.kevinandceline.com/ https://powerandmastery.com/   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.   Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!
Am I masturbating too much? Is masturbation getting in the way of having more sex?   In this episode, we will explore the impact of masturbation on relationships, and common concerns about masturbation, such as secrecy, dependency, and the potential to reduce intimacy. Tune in to learn 3 actionable steps to improve both self-pleasure practices and relationship dynamics. Here is a place to explore more ways to connect, how to leverage masturbation for deeper connection, and amplify your sexual energy - whether you are single or in a committed relationship. Don’t miss this!   Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Masturbation on Relationships 01:05 Statistics and Commonality of Masturbation 01:51 Masturbation as a Coping Mechanism 04:35 Challenges of Masturbation in Relationships 09:15 Effective Communication About Masturbation 14:11 Exploring Mutual Masturbation 18:12 Experimenting with Masturbation Frequency 22:18 Conclusion and Call to Action   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify your and your partner’s arousal and pleasure. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!  
Do you wish your penis was larger? No matter how big or small, many men want safe and effective tools to increase penis size and functioning.  This episode is packed with insight into girth and length enhancement strategies that are both natural and long-lasting. Whether you want to increase the size of your penis or value tools to improve your sexual health and functioning, this episode is a must-listen. To have this conversation, join Dr. Judson Brandeis, an award-winning urologist, sexual medicine expert and surgeon who has committed his practice and career to sexual medicine innovations for men. Breaking down the snake oil claims of other providers,  If you want to feel great, look good and have better physical intimacy, dont miss this episode.   Key Topics: 00:11 Misconceptions About Penis Enlargement 02:14 Penis Enlargement Methods and Their Issues 06:42 The P Long Procedure Explained 10:18 Penis Pumps and Their Effectiveness 13:35 Understanding Peyronie's Disease 16:40 Factors Influencing Penis Size 17:43 Testosterone Levels and Modern Lifestyle 19:59 Improving Testosterone Naturally 23:58 Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT)   Connect with Dr.Judson Brandeis https://p-long.com/ Check out Dr. Judson’s e-Books: https://brandeismd.com/ebooks/   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
Here is a simple practice that will make your woman desire you (and respect you) more than ever.  This week, tune in to explore the power of setting boundaries, saying “no” and maintaining personal integrity within a romantic relationship. Whether you are consistently giving in to your woman’s requests and demands or feeling pressured to make your woman happy no matter what this episode is for you. This isn’t about withholding love, tune in to hear guidance on how to discern when to establish a boundary and when to provide. Its time to let resentment become an experience of the past and step into standing firm on who you are and what you value most. This episode is sure to inspire not only you but that special someone you’re with too! Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction: Facing Disappointment 00:52 The Nice Guy Syndrome 01:45 Setting Boundaries and Avoiding Resentment 02:58 The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships 03:46 Women Want Men with Boundaries 06:16 The Cement Pillar Analogy 06:44 Expressing Emotions and Needs 07:02 Understanding Women's Testing 08:05 Control and Respect in Relationships   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!  
Sex and Money are two hard topics to address. In this episode we will explore why money and finances are ruining your romantic relationships and what to do about it. Join Kirsten as she sits down with money expert and financial planner Shannah Game to discuss the significant role money plays in romantic relationships.    Whether you are single and trying to navigate who should pay on the first date or you're in a committed relationship preparing to spend your life with someone who has different spending patterns this episode is for you. Shannah breaks down practical exercises for couples to build a healthy financial dynamic.    The episode also touches on the historical expectations of men as providers and the interconnection between financial and sexual health in relationships. Don’t miss this episode. Your heart, your cock, and your wallet will thank you.   Key Topics: 01:28 Understanding Money in Relationships 04:30 Starting the Money Conversation 06:36 Building a Financial Partnership 10:14 Men, Money, and Societal Expectations 19:08 Exercises for Financial Harmony 24:27 Dating and Financial Dynamics 31:18 Money and Sex: The Connection 33:08 Final Thoughts and Resources   Connect with Shannah Game: etmpod.link/starthere Everyones Talkin Money Podcast: https://everyonestalkinmoney.com/ https://www.instagram.com/shannahgame/?hl=en   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!
When your partner rejects your sexual advances…what do you do?   In this episode, Kirsten and special guest Dr. Viviana Coles discuss exactly what you can do in these situations and so much more.    Dr. Viviana Coles is an intimacy expert and sex therapist and she provides valuable insights into how couples can better understand each other's needs and work towards a balanced intimacy dynamic.    This is where you will learn actionable steps to address common challenges couples face, such as feeling unsupported or disconnected. Whether you are fresh in a new relationship wanting it to succeed, or you are at the point in your dynamic where you feel like you are about to give up…this episode is for you.    Sneak Peek: There are 4 primary intimacy styles related to sex…and when you are able to understand your (and your partner's) styles a new level of sex will become possible.    Key Topics: 00:33 Understanding Men's Intimacy Needs 02:03 The Four Intimacy Styles Explained 04:25 Addressing Intimacy Issues in Long-Term Relationships 06:17 Practical Steps to Reconnect Intimately 14:33 The Importance of Pillow Talk 27:31 Balancing Parenthood and Partnership   Connect with Dr. Viviana Coles Take the 4 Intimacy Styles Quiz: https://doctorviviana.com/the-4-intimacy-styles/ https://www.instagram.com/doctorviviana/?hl=en   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes.   Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
  Why is it SO hard for us to talk about sex?  Here is how to prepare for a conversation about your sex life.   In this episode, you’ll learn 8 specific strategies to prepare for and conduct these conversations effectively. Whether you are fresh into a new relationship wanting to explore something kinky and new or you have been in a relationship for years struggling to keep your sex life alive…this episode is for you!   Key Topics: 00:14 The Benefits of Discussing Sexual Desires 00:31 Common Concerns and How to Approach Them 01:01 Seven Tips for a Successful Sex Conversation 02:13 Understanding Your Desires 05:04 Setting the Stage for the Conversation 08:46 Navigating the Conversation 11:21 Framing the Conversation Positively 13:10 Starting Broad and Checking In 16:19 Keeping Requests Positive 19:09 Less is More: Focusing on One Thing at a Time Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/question   Explore BDSM and Discover Your Kinks Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/bdsm-checklist and get your FREE Kink/BDSM checklist. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED at checkout for 15% off your order!
Ready to enhance your erection? Here is the science and psychology behind your erection and how to overcome erectile dysfunction issues.  Renowned Sex Therapist Mark Goldberg is on the show to break down every question you could have about erectile dysfunction (ED): What it actually is, how to overcome erectile issues, what your partner can do to be supportive, and so much more.   Whether you are currently suffering from Erectile dysfunction or want to reduce your chances of experiencing erection issues in the future, this episode is a must-listen.  Mark and Kirsten discuss the causes and impact of ED, the emotions men experience, and what is causing ED prevalence to be on the rise, especially among younger men. This episode is stacked with clear information and actionable practices to improve erectile performance.    AND…Mark and Kirsten answer some of your questions about ED!    Key Topics: 02:39 Emotional Impact of Erectile Dysfunction 03:44 Causes of Erectile Dysfunction 04:39 The Rise of Erectile Dysfunction in Younger Men 07:43 Impact of Modern Dating on Erectile Dysfunction 11:14 Situational Erectile Dysfunction and Communication Challenges 14:06 When to Seek Help for Erectile Dysfunction 17:52 Supporting a Partner with Erectile Dysfunction 27:35 Practical Steps to Address Erectile Dysfunction 42:13 Dealing with Trauma and Psychological Factors Related to Erectile Dysfunction   Connect with Mark Goldberg https://erectioniq.com/ Erectile Dysfunction Radio: https://erectioniq.com/podcast/   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
Are you the man every woman wants? In this episode, tune in to learn the 4 main archetypes of a man and how each archetype influences sexual dynamics, relationships, and personal growth.  Whether you are ready to expand your sexual repertoire or you want to connect with a new part of yourself and your personality…this episode is for you. Tune in to explore these archetypes, understand their impacts, and learn how to integrate them into your life for a richer, more dynamic existence. Let's get some! Key Topics: 00:00 Who Are You in the Bedroom? 00:15 Exploring the Four Archetypes 03:36 The King Archetype: Leadership and Stability 07:22 The Warrior Archetype: Courage and Discipline 13:13 The Magician Archetype: Wisdom and Transformation 17:37 The Lover Archetype: Passion and Sensuality 21:40 Integrating the Archetypes: A Balanced Approach 27:30 Expanding Your Range of Expression   Resources King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine by Robert Moore   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
How do we have better sex?  By building more intimacy into ALL of your life. This week, its time to connect with Magda Kay, an intimacy expert and Tantra teacher and learn the specific steps to build deeper intimacy and make your sex life more satisfying.   In this episode, you will learn specific foreplay strategies and tantric perspectives to build intimacy and open the doorway to deeply fulfilling sexual experiences.    Whether you want to experience the next-level connection you know is possible with your woman, or you want to find tools to enhance your sexual experiences…this episode is for you! Let's get some!   Key Topics: 01:10 Understanding Women: Breaking the Mystery 08:19 The Importance of Intimacy in Relationships 12:25 Building Intimacy: Practical Tips and Insights 16:02 Exploring Intimacy Beyond Romantic Relationships 22:40 Bringing Intimacy into Your Sex Life 24:24 Balancing Intimacy: Fast vs. Slow 25:06 The Power of Relaxation in Sex 27:31 Understanding Foreplay and Sexual Education 33:46 Scheduling Intimacy: A New Approach 40:38 Exploring Male Sexuality Beyond the Norm   Connect with Magda Kay https://magdakay.com/ https://www.instagram.com/magdakayofficial/   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes.   Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
Do you want to get your woman turned on quickly?    In this episode, you will learn the key insight into turning a woman on sexually at any moment. Whether you are looking for tips on how to bring more sexual experiences into your life or want to understand Tantric approaches to intimacy, this episode is for you!   From tantric insights about magnetism to practical techniques for stimulating a woman's heart and breasts, this episode offers a new approach to enhancing intimacy and sexual connection. Tune in to understand a tantric perspective on how you can turn your women on through foreplay.    Key topics include the concepts of positive and negative charges in the body, specific breast massage techniques, and the importance of awareness and intention during foreplay. Key Topics: 01:04 Understanding Tantric Poles 03:12 The Key to Female Arousal 06:26 Techniques for Breast Stimulation 10:03 Advanced Tips and Final Thoughts   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
Are you tired of being considered the “nice guy”? Do you want to find a way to be BOTH assertive and compassionate? This week, Kirsten is joined by Nate Ewert, an expert in men's work and leadership, to explore exactly how to stop playing the 'nice guy' and step into your masculine strengths.  Kirsten and Nate discuss the dynamics of masculine and feminine expressions, the balance needed in relationships, and how to cultivate safe, intimate spaces. The conversation covers the importance of assertiveness and emotional intelligence and the profound impact these insights can have on one's sex life and relationships. Let’s get some!   Key Topics: 02:40 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies 06:15 Balancing Masculine and Feminine in Relationships 16:41 Stepping Up in Relationships 19:30 Shifting from Nice Guy to Assertive Man 26:56 Understanding the roots of anger & unpacking emotions beneath anger 28:26 The Impact of Societal Expectations on Men's Emotions 30:14 Exploring Shadow Work 33:31 Rites of Passage and Initiation 38:33 Living on the Edge of Comfort 40:53 The Role of Choice in Emotional Expression 42:26 Impact on Intimate Relationships 44:18 Connecting Masculine and Feminine Dynamics   Connect with Nate Ewert: www.ignitermensgroup.com Attend his upcoming retreat, Ascending Masculinity!    Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
50% of marriages end in divorce. Which side of this statistic do you want to be on?   In this episode, you will learn the real reasons couples get divorced adn how you can prevent them from happening to you. Your host, Kirsten dives into this topic with a seasoned New York City-based divorce attorney, Dennis Vetrano.   Dennis and Kirsten explore how to avoid divorce, what to do if you find yourself in the divorce process, and how to approach ending relationships from a new perspective.    Dennis shares insights from his 25 years of experience, discussing the most common causes of divorce and the tools you ultimately need to avoid losing the quality of your relationship. Dennis also speaks to the role of sex in relationships, the importance of prenuptial agreements, and the emotional and legal complexities of divorce. Get ready for some very actionable and practical advice for both preventing divorce and navigating the process if it becomes inevitable.   Key Topics: 03:34 Common Causes of Divorce 06:08 The Role of Intimacy in Relationships 09:13 Legal Aspects of Divorce 13:33 Ways to make sure you choose the right partner  20:13 Whether or not you should get a prenuptial agreement 24:54 Postnuptial Agreements Explained 27:30 Heartbreaking Realities of Divorce 32:35 Gender Dynamics in Divorce Filings 40:21 Advice for Men Going Through Divorce 41:55 Remarriage After Divorce   Connect with Dennis Vetrano https://www.drvetranolaw.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drvlaw/ https://www.tiktok.com/@drvlaw   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ Last Longer In Bed Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/self-massage and get your FREE guide on penis and testicle massage to increase your sexual health and vitality. Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
There is SUCH value in making a woman feel safe with you.   In this episode, you will learn the three main ways to build safety so that a girl is attracted to you and wants to move forward with your relationship dynamic. Tune in to learn actionable tips to generate more safety so that you can build deeper connections, increase sexual intimacy and have more success with women.  Whether you are frustrated by failed attempts in dating or you’re in a relationship and want to show up better for your partner, this episode is for you.    Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction: The Key to Successful Interactions with Women 00:31 The Importance of Safety in Relationships 02:53 Building Physical Safety 07:32 Creating Emotional Safety 11:08 Establishing Mental Safety 13:21 The Power of Safety in Deepening Connections   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ Last Longer In Bed Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/self-massage and get your FREE guide on penis and testicle massage to increase your sexual health and vitality. Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
Do you want to last longer during sex? This week, Kirsten shares two effective techniques to help men last longer during sex. Because lasting longer is not just for your personal satisfaction, but for enhancing your intimacy as a couple.    Whether you are tired of coming earlier than you want or are ready to step up your sex game..this episode is for you. Tune in for detailed steps and helpful insights to improve both solo and partnered sexual experiences. Lets get some!   Key Topics: 00:00 Lasting Longer in Bed 02:40 Understanding Premature Ejaculation 04:51 Technique 1: Timing Your Masturbation 13:16 Technique 2: Testicle and Penis Massage 19:19 Addressing Performance Anxiety   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ Last Longer In Bed Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/self-massage and get your FREE guide on penis and testicle massage to increase your sexual health and vitality. Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
Have you ever felt confused or ashamed by your sexual desires and turn-ons? Well, get ready to embrace the wonderful diversity of human sexuality without shame or judgment.   In this episode, Kirsten goes deep inside the sexual brain with the help of Dr. Ogi Ogas, a Harvard researcher and mathematical neurscientist who analyzes massive data sets from online searches, porn sites, erotic stories and more.   His findings shed scientific light on everything from the stark differences between male and female sexual cues to the paradoxical fetishes and fantasies we all share across cultures. You'll learn why men are so visually inclined, craving videos and images, while women tend to be turned on more by personalities and emotional context. We'll explore men's fascination with large penises, women's rape fantasies, and how our ancient primate hardwiring still influences modern desires around dominance, submission, and more.   Whether it's the reasons behind cuckolding or the erotic appeal of paranormal romance novels, Dr. Ogas maps out the neural circuitry driving our sexual thoughts and behaviors. Above all, you'll come away with a greater self-understanding and compassion for the full spectrum of sexual diversity. It's an eye-opening, judgment-free exploration of our deepest sexual desires.   Connect with Dr. Ogi Ogas https://www.ogiogas.com/   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   Explore BDSM and Discover Your Kinks? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/bdsm-checklist and get your FREE Kink/BDSM checklist.   Manifest your deepest desires! Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/sexmagic and get your FREE Sex Magic guided practice to discover how to use your sexual energy to manifest anything you want.   Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.
How often does a women want you to be more open with her, but when you are…she shuts you down? In this episode, Kirsten explores the topic of male vulnerability and its impact on relational dynamics with no other than Connor Beaton. Connor is a renowned expert in men's work and he’s here to share a deeper understanding of the challenges men face today and the societal narratives that shape their experiences. Connor breaks down what a woman actually wants when she says, “be more vulnerable”, the importance of self-regulation and impulse control in fostering authentic connections and so much more. Whether you're a man seeking to cultivate meaningful relationships or a partner looking to understand the intricacies of men more clearly, this episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies for navigating the intricate world of relationships. Don’t miss it! Key Topics: 00:53 Exploring the Landscape of Men in Relationships 02:07 The Evolution of Male Friendships and Challenges in Modern Society 12:30 Addressing the Crisis in Male Mental Health and Therapy 18:58 Navigating Vulnerability and Masculinity in Today's World 25:14 Understanding Vulnerability in Relationships 25:52 Navigating a Partner's Response to Vulnerability 27:11 Pre-Relationship Checks on Emotional Compatibility 30:21 Setting Boundaries as a Form of Vulnerability 33:06 Addressing Hypersexualization and Its Impact 33:37 Strategies for Desexualizing the Brain 38:17 Impulse Control and Nervous System Regulation 42:47 Practical Steps to Combat Oversexualization   Connect with Connor Beaton https://connorbeaton.com/ https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ Explore BDSM and Discover Your Kinks? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/bdsm-checklist and get your FREE Kink/BDSM checklist. Manifest your deepest desires! Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/sexmagic and get your FREE Sex Magic guided practice to discover how to use your sexual energy to manifest anything you want. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.  
Are you having less sex in your relationship than you want?   In this episode, Kirsten talks with Kate Shelor, a renowned hypnotherapist, about sexless relationships: why this happens and how to start having more sex again!   Tune in to learn the underlying issues that lead to a decrease in sexual intimacy within couples, the impact of responsive desire, and practical strategies to rebuild passion with your girl. Whether you're in a relationship facing these challenges or are interested in preventive measures, this episode is packed with insights and advice on maintaining a fulfilling sexual relationship.   00:00 Navigating the Complexities of Sexless Relationships 02:24 Understanding Sexless Relationships: Definitions and Perceptions 04:14 The Underlying Issues of Sexlessness and Strategies for Reconnection 11:29 Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire: Bridging the Gap in Intimacy 18:08 Practical Steps to Rekindle Intimacy and Break Negative Cycles 23:02 Reconnecting Through Intimacy Without the Pressure of Sex 28:32 Incorporating Newness and Excitement: Preventative Measures Against Sexlessness 29:37 Exploring New Dimensions of Intimacy: The Concept of Sex Lab 31:02 Exploring Playfulness and Discovery in Intimacy 31:51 The Joy of Experimentation: Sex Lab Adventures 37:14 Embracing Self-Love and Masturbation 38:49 Unpacking Subconscious Patterns in Relationships 40:30 The Power of Hypnotherapy in Sexual Wellness 46:05 Understanding and Overcoming Erection Challenges 52:02 Leveraging Brain Science for Better Sexual Experiences   Connect with Kate Shelor https://www.kateshelor.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/kateshelor/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kateshelor3?lang=en   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   Explore BDSM and Discover Your Kinks? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/bdsm-checklist and get your FREE Kink/BDSM checklist. Manifest your deepest desires! Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/sexmagic and get your FREE Sex Magic guided practice to discover how to use your sexual energy to manifest anything you want.  
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