The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating and Relationship

In this episode, psychotherapist Lisa Breitman joins us to discuss the pitfalls you face during arguments and how to transform conflict into productive conversation.    Kirsten and Lisa cover common reasons for fights, such as money and family dynamics, and provide advice on how to address these issues without becoming defensive and destructive. Whether you are sick of having the same fight with your partner, or you are single and want to ensure your next relationship is filled with productive conversations, this episode is for you.    Get ready to explore strategies for effective communication, set boundaries, and resolve conflicts related to sex and intimacy.   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Connect with Lisa Brateman https://www.lisabrateman.com/ Get her book: What Are We Really Fighting About by Lisa Brateman   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!   Key Topics: 01:24 Common Pitfalls in Arguments 03:09 Underlying Issues in Fights 08:40 Effective Communication Strategies 14:56 Ground Rules for Healthy Arguments 20:00 Managing Anger and Frustration 22:51 Hurtful Accusations and Defensiveness 23:54 The Desire to Win vs. Relationship Harmony 27:57 The Impact of Avoiding Conflict 33:09 Reconnecting in the Age of Distractions 38:54 Navigating Sexual Intimacy Conflicts 45:47 The Importance of Effort in Relationships

Sex only gets better with age! Tune in to learn how to have better sex with older women, particularly women in their midlife (40-50s) and beyond.   In this episode, Kirsten and sexologist Eva Clay discuss the intricacies of sex, dating, and relationships with women in their midlife. As women transition through perimenopause and menopause, they experience significant hormonal changes that affect their libido, identity, and view of society. Kirsten and Eva explore how couples can navigate these changes successfully and highlight the importance of empathy, understanding, and redefining intimacy.    Eva offers insights into the evolutionary role of estrogen, how its decline impacts women's behavior, and provides advice for men to support their partners through this transition. They also discuss how aging enhances sexual experiences and deepens emotional connections. Whether you are currently in this stage of life, or preparing for it, this episode sheds light on embracing these changes and living a fulfilling, intimate life.   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Connect with Eva Clay​​ https://www.evaclay.com/   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!   Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction to Midlife Relationships 01:56 Understanding Menopause and Perimenopause 04:09 Impact of Hormonal Changes on Relationships 05:39 Navigating Intimacy During Menopause 06:18 Supporting Your Partner Through Menopause 09:49 Redefining Sex and Intimacy 13:42 The Benefits of Aging in Relationships 34:48 Dating in Midlife: Embrace the Adventure

Are you tired of dates and relationships that go nowhere?  Here are 3 habits that will change your dynamic with women. These habits are crucial not just for dating but also for sustaining a healthy relationship over time. Tune in for practical advice and thoughtful insights to enhance your love life…I dare you.   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes.   Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!   Key Topics: 00:00 Attracting Your Ideal Woman 01:00 Habit 1: Shifting Your Focus 03:51 Habit 2: Building the Capacity to Walk Away 09:49 Habit 3: Relinquishing Sex as the Main Focus 14:51 Conclusion and Final Thoughts  

Have you been struggling to initiate sex with your partner or feel like your connection is fading?   Tune in to connect with Kirsten and men's coach Karen Brody to understand the intricacies of sexual dynamics, the deeper motivations behind intimacy, and the challenges couples face when sex becomes routine.    Learn the significance of open and honest communication, playful experimentation, and addressing power dynamics early on. With actionable advice and insights, discover how you can take proactive steps to lead with confidence, elevate your sexual experiences, and rekindle passion and connection in your intimate relationships.   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Connect with Karen Brody https://karenbrodycoaching.com/best-selling-books/   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!   Key Topics 02:04 Understanding the Dynamics of Sex in Long-Term Relationships 03:12 The Role of Communication in Maintaining Intimacy 04:10 Redefining Sex and Overcoming Barriers 06:01 The Impact of Shame and Resistance 07:05 Navigating Sexual Resistance and Leadership 11:09 The Deeper Meaning of Sex 13:14 Revitalizing Sexual Purpose 20:58 The Importance of Mutual Desire 23:58 Opening Up About Relationship Challenges 24:40 The Importance of Honest Communication 25:15 Creating a New Kind of Attraction 26:05 Navigating Sexual Honesty 28:57 Practical Tips for Better Intimacy 30:13 Exploring the 'Sex Lab' Concept 32:11 Impact of Sexual Disconnect on Relationships 35:41 Rebuilding Confidence and Leadership  

Is your woman getting fully turned on during foreplay or sex?   In this episode, Kirsten addresses a listeners question about how his partner is not experiencing pleasure during foreplay.    Whether you are with someone who struggles to reach orgasm or you want to try out new ways to stroke and touch your woman, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn 5 techniques to enhance female pleasure, reduce discomfort, and activate deeper enjoyment and connection.   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!   Key Topics: 02:30 Understanding the Clitoris 04:13 Technique 1: The Pocket 05:45 Technique 2: Indirect Touch 07:27 Technique 3: The V-Shape 08:49 Exploring the Power of the Thumb 09:46 Understanding the Vestibular Bulbs 10:55 Stimulating the Pleasure Triangle 12:30 General Tips for Effective Stimulation

Curious about using psychedelics to enhance your sex and love life? Tune in to talk with Dr. Steven Radowitz, a psychotherapist who specializes in using psychedelics to foster better intimate connections and address issues like performance anxiety, ED, and intimacy challenges. Whether you are curious about psychedelics in general or are looking for new ways to connect and experience your relationships, this episode has insight for you. And while psychedelics may be a more controversial topic, Dr. Steven and Kirsten discuss nonsubstance alternatives and various ways to enhance your overall intimate life. Key Topics: 00:51 Exploring Psychedelics and Sex 04:56 Understanding Ketamine and Other Psychedelics 07:46 The Impact of Psychedelics on Relationships 10:23 Psychedelics and Personal Growth 13:48 Integration and Aftercare 17:50 Practical Advice for Using Psychedelics   Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com/nc   Connect With Dr. Steven Radowitz Visit his NY Clinic: https://nushama.com/ Learn about his PTSD & Ketamine Research: https://osf.io/preprints/psyarxiv/78m96 https://www.instagram.com/nushamawellness/   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes.   Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!

What do women really want?    In this episode, you will learn 4 key drivers that attract a woman to men. Kirsten answers a listener's question about what women are drawn to in men.    Whether you are single searching for insight on how to attract your dream woman or are in a relationship and wanting to boost your girl's desire to be with you, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn natural ways to boost your attractiveness with women while enhancing your overall well-being.  Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com/nc Key Topics: 01:32 Understanding Female Cravings 02:48 The Importance of Height and Physical Attributes 07:42 Boosting Testosterone: Natural Ways to Enhance Attraction 09:26 The Power of Music and Artistic Expression 14:11 The Science of Smell and Attraction 18:32 Status and Financial Stability 22:17 Leveraging Biology for Success in Love   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes.   Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!

Are you tired of being in the same painful relationship cycle…yet again?   This week, Kirsten talks with Licensed Therapist Jessica DaSilva all about attachment theory and how your attachment style may perpetuate the slump you find yourself in.    Whether you are single and want to learn more about who you are in relationships, or you are in a relationship and want to understand better the unconscious dynamic that may be holding you back, this episode is for you! Tune in to learn how to create self-awareness, effectively communicate with your partner, and build attraction towards secure and healthy dynamics.   Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com/nc   Connect with Jessica Da Silva https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thejessicadasilva/?hl=en   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes.   Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!   Key Episode Topics: 01:27 Understanding Attachment Theory and the 4 Attachment Styles 05:23 How To Navigate Anxious and Avoidant Dynamics 09:47 Cultural Influences on Attachment 10:49 Navigating Relationship Needs 14:26 Tools to Communicate Your Attachment Needs 15:43 How to Shift Towards Being Attracted to Healthy Relationships 20:05 Navigating Attraction and Healthy Behavior 23:05 Understanding Secure Self Blueprint 25:05 Dating World Confusions and Insights 28:59 Attachment Styles and Sex Life 34:33 Moving Towards Secure Attachment

We all have secret fantasies. What do you do when your girl has a dirty fantasy she wants to play out?  In this episode, we walk through the steps to exploring a kinky fantasy with your girl with how to navigate the conversation, successfully execute the fantasy with success and explore the underlying desire the kink is actually fullfilling.  If you are feeling uncomfortable with your desires, tune in to learn some of the deeper reasons that drive fantasies and kinks. Let’s get some! Flure Dating: Made for Pleasure - https://flure.com     Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!   Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction to Fantasies 00:24 Why Fantasies Are Hard to Share 00:46 Welcome to The Naked Connection 01:06 Personal Journey and Podcast Anniversary 02:45 Common Fantasies and Their Challenges 04:44 Exploring a Rape Fantasy 07:34 Understanding the Psychology Behind Fantasies 16:04 Setting Boundaries and Safe Words 21:28 Communicating and Respecting Limits 26:15 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Want to turn your sex life from good to great? Join Kirsten as she sits down with Kevin Anthony, a certified sexologist and tantra counselor, to explore ways to take your sex life to the next level.    Whether you are currently single and want to learn skills for your next lover or are in a relationship wishing to deepen your sexual experiences, this episode is packed with value for you. Key topics include initiating sex, improving foreplay, maintaining arousal, and enhancing sexual energy during periods of abstinence.    Kevin and Kirsten address body image issues that men carry, the importance of a mindful masturbation practice, and how to build polarity and desire in your dynamics with women. Tune in for a deep dive into upgrading your intimacy and sexual prowess. Let's get some!   Key Topics: 06:27 Communication and Co-Creation in Sex 12:15 Initiation and Arousal Techniques 17:14 Foreplay: Tips and Techniques 20:19 Understanding Erection Anxiety 21:22 The Importance of Relaxation 22:30 Exploring a Woman's Body 23:37 Body Image Issues in Men 25:35 Taking Action on Body Image 29:11 Keeping Sex Fun and Exciting 35:07 Maintaining Sexual Energy When Single   Connect with Kevin Anthony https://www.kevinandceline.com/ https://powerandmastery.com/   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.   Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!

Am I masturbating too much? Is masturbation getting in the way of having more sex?   In this episode, we will explore the impact of masturbation on relationships, and common concerns about masturbation, such as secrecy, dependency, and the potential to reduce intimacy. Tune in to learn 3 actionable steps to improve both self-pleasure practices and relationship dynamics. Here is a place to explore more ways to connect, how to leverage masturbation for deeper connection, and amplify your sexual energy - whether you are single or in a committed relationship. Don’t miss this!   Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Masturbation on Relationships 01:05 Statistics and Commonality of Masturbation 01:51 Masturbation as a Coping Mechanism 04:35 Challenges of Masturbation in Relationships 09:15 Effective Communication About Masturbation 14:11 Exploring Mutual Masturbation 18:12 Experimenting with Masturbation Frequency 22:18 Conclusion and Call to Action   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify your and your partner’s arousal and pleasure. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!  

Do you wish your penis was larger? No matter how big or small, many men want safe and effective tools to increase penis size and functioning.  This episode is packed with insight into girth and length enhancement strategies that are both natural and long-lasting. Whether you want to increase the size of your penis or value tools to improve your sexual health and functioning, this episode is a must-listen. To have this conversation, join Dr. Judson Brandeis, an award-winning urologist, sexual medicine expert and surgeon who has committed his practice and career to sexual medicine innovations for men. Breaking down the snake oil claims of other providers,  If you want to feel great, look good and have better physical intimacy, dont miss this episode.   Key Topics: 00:11 Misconceptions About Penis Enlargement 02:14 Penis Enlargement Methods and Their Issues 06:42 The P Long Procedure Explained 10:18 Penis Pumps and Their Effectiveness 13:35 Understanding Peyronie's Disease 16:40 Factors Influencing Penis Size 17:43 Testosterone Levels and Modern Lifestyle 19:59 Improving Testosterone Naturally 23:58 Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT)   Connect with Dr.Judson Brandeis https://p-long.com/ Check out Dr. Judson’s e-Books: https://brandeismd.com/ebooks/   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.

Here is a simple practice that will make your woman desire you (and respect you) more than ever.  This week, tune in to explore the power of setting boundaries, saying “no” and maintaining personal integrity within a romantic relationship. Whether you are consistently giving in to your woman’s requests and demands or feeling pressured to make your woman happy no matter what this episode is for you. This isn’t about withholding love, tune in to hear guidance on how to discern when to establish a boundary and when to provide. Its time to let resentment become an experience of the past and step into standing firm on who you are and what you value most. This episode is sure to inspire not only you but that special someone you’re with too! Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction: Facing Disappointment 00:52 The Nice Guy Syndrome 01:45 Setting Boundaries and Avoiding Resentment 02:58 The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships 03:46 Women Want Men with Boundaries 06:16 The Cement Pillar Analogy 06:44 Expressing Emotions and Needs 07:02 Understanding Women's Testing 08:05 Control and Respect in Relationships   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!  

Sex and Money are two hard topics to address. In this episode we will explore why money and finances are ruining your romantic relationships and what to do about it. Join Kirsten as she sits down with money expert and financial planner Shannah Game to discuss the significant role money plays in romantic relationships.    Whether you are single and trying to navigate who should pay on the first date or you're in a committed relationship preparing to spend your life with someone who has different spending patterns this episode is for you. Shannah breaks down practical exercises for couples to build a healthy financial dynamic.    The episode also touches on the historical expectations of men as providers and the interconnection between financial and sexual health in relationships. Don’t miss this episode. Your heart, your cock, and your wallet will thank you.   Key Topics: 01:28 Understanding Money in Relationships 04:30 Starting the Money Conversation 06:36 Building a Financial Partnership 10:14 Men, Money, and Societal Expectations 19:08 Exercises for Financial Harmony 24:27 Dating and Financial Dynamics 31:18 Money and Sex: The Connection 33:08 Final Thoughts and Resources   Connect with Shannah Game: etmpod.link/starthere Everyones Talkin Money Podcast: https://everyonestalkinmoney.com/ https://www.instagram.com/shannahgame/?hl=en   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order!

When your partner rejects your sexual advances…what do you do?   In this episode, Kirsten and special guest Dr. Viviana Coles discuss exactly what you can do in these situations and so much more.    Dr. Viviana Coles is an intimacy expert and sex therapist and she provides valuable insights into how couples can better understand each other's needs and work towards a balanced intimacy dynamic.    This is where you will learn actionable steps to address common challenges couples face, such as feeling unsupported or disconnected. Whether you are fresh in a new relationship wanting it to succeed, or you are at the point in your dynamic where you feel like you are about to give up…this episode is for you.    Sneak Peek: There are 4 primary intimacy styles related to sex…and when you are able to understand your (and your partner's) styles a new level of sex will become possible.    Key Topics: 00:33 Understanding Men's Intimacy Needs 02:03 The Four Intimacy Styles Explained 04:25 Addressing Intimacy Issues in Long-Term Relationships 06:17 Practical Steps to Reconnect Intimately 14:33 The Importance of Pillow Talk 27:31 Balancing Parenthood and Partnership   Connect with Dr. Viviana Coles Take the 4 Intimacy Styles Quiz: https://doctorviviana.com/the-4-intimacy-styles/ https://www.instagram.com/doctorviviana/?hl=en   Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/question   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.    This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes.   Boost your next naked moment!  Visit http://thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Intimacy Massage Oil with CBD to intensify you and your partner’s arousal and pleasure.