The Open Bedroom Podcast

Meet Wendy Perkins, an orgasm and neuro pleasure coach, discussing open relationships, conscious uncoupling, and alternative family dynamics. Wendy shares her journey of separating from her husband while continuing to co-parent their children in a supportive environment. She emphasizes the importance of open communication and prioritizing children's needs. Wendy also reflects on her bisexuality and the challenges of navigating societal norms. Explore non-traditional relationship structures and maintain integrity and love in your breaking up and co-parenting interactions. Intro (0:00:00) Wendy's Background (00:02:12) Wendy shares her role as an orgasm and neuro pleasure coach and her journey of self-discovery. Wendy's Relationship History (00:02:59) Wendy discusses her marriage, separation, and co-parenting dynamics with her ex-husband. Realization of Polyamory (00:03:46) Wendy reflects on her early understanding of her polyamorous identity dating back to childhood. Challenges of Monogamy (00:05:52) Wendy talks about societal pressures and her struggles with being in a monogamous relationship. Understanding Bisexuality (00:07:06) Wendy shares her journey of embracing her bisexuality after overcoming past trauma. The Importance of Open Conversations (00:11:25) Wendy highlights how open discussions about sexuality can empower others to share their experiences. Navigating Co-Parenting (00:12:28) Wendy discusses the challenges of co-parenting and the societal norm of bashing ex-partners. Wendy's Decision to Separate (00:15:37) Wendy explains her decision to separate from her husband to avoid resentment and foster a healthy environment. Creating a Supportive Family Dynamic (00:19:40) Wendy emphasizes the importance of maintaining a supportive family atmosphere despite the separation. Follow Jen:https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen:https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq Follow Wendy:https://owningyouro.com/instagram/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

[object Object]Introduction to Flirting with Women (00:00:02) Jennifer introduces the episode's focus on how women can flirt with women. Personal Exploration of Sexuality (00:00:14) She shares her journey of realizing her attraction to women and exploring it during her last marriage. Societal Programming and Body Image (00:01:14) Jennifer discusses societal norms that discourage women from exploring their bodies and sexuality. Differences in Sexual Curiosity (00:02:23) She contrasts bi-curious women with those who are truly bisexual, highlighting their different experiences. Understanding Women's Bodies (00:04:38) Jennifer emphasizes the need for women to learn about their bodies and how to engage with other women. Types of Bi-Curious Women (00:05:44) She categorizes bi-curious women into two types: bi-situational and truly bisexual. Craving Connection with Women (00:07:07) Jennifer expresses her desire for intimacy with women and the joy it brings her. Learning Through Experience (00:09:14) She reflects on how her experiences with different women have taught her about sexuality and pleasure. Flirting as a Skill (00:10:31) Jennifer discusses her journey in learning how to flirt with women and the importance of verbal communication. Desire and Affirmation (00:11:43) She emphasizes that women want to feel desired and beautiful, just like men do. Direct Communication of Desires (00:12:50) Jennifer encourages women to express their desires openly without excessive caution. Using Flirting in Everyday Life (00:15:00) She shares personal examples of how to flirt and express attraction in casual conversations. Engaging in Flirty Conversations (00:18:05) Jennifer highlights the importance of maintaining flirtatious communication throughout the day. Flirting Ideas (00:20:02) Jennifer shares tips on starting daily conversations with female partners to enhance flirting. Navigating Bi-Curious Feelings (00:21:02) Discussion on exploring bi-curiosity and using existing partners to ease into relationships with women. Building Connection Through Dates (00:22:02) The importance of one-on-one time and physical connection during dates to foster intimacy. Fun Flirting Experiences (00:23:14) A humorous personal story about a memorable kissing moment during a date with another woman. Naked Exploration (00:24:14) Encouragement to engage in naked play to understand sexual orientation and connect with each other. Coaching Offer (00:25:27) Jennifer offers one-on-one coaching for women seeking guidance in dating and flirting with other women. Connect with Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Today I have Cordelia Gaffar, known as the "ultimate joy goddess" on the podcast. Cordelia, a movement facilitator and bestselling author, discusses "multi-orgasmic living," a lifestyle emphasizing self-care, pleasure, and movement for women. We explore the importance of nurturing oneself, maintaining vitality with age, and fostering emotional and physical connections, especially in ethically non-monogamous relationships. Cordelia offers practical advice on incorporating movement into daily routines and highlights the significance of self-exploration and communication in enhancing intimacy and overall well-being. Introduction to Multi-Orgasmic Living (00:00:00) Cordelia explains her concept of multi-orgasmic living and its personal significance. Nurturing Self (00:01:26) Discussion on the importance of self-care and maintaining vitality, especially for mothers. Staying Juicy (00:03:05) Cordelia shares secrets to staying vibrant, emphasizing movement and physical activity. Nutrition Tips (00:05:07) Advice on nutrition, particularly for women approaching menopause, including the impact of alcohol and caffeine. Choosing Pleasure (00:07:29) The significance of being mindful about who and what brings pleasure into one’s life. Self-Exploration (00:10:52) Cordelia encourages self-touch and exploration to rediscover personal pleasure. Connection with Partners (00:14:28) Exploration of how to gauge emotional and physical connections with partners in non-monogamous relationships. Negotiation in Relationships (00:15:52) The importance of taking time to negotiate and explore boundaries with new partners. Reconnecting with the Body (00:22:50) Cordelia discusses helping individuals reconnect with their bodies through movement, meditation, and somatic awareness. Juiciness and Orgasmic Living (00:33:18) Exploration of how Cordelia defines and experiences 'juiciness' and orgasmic living post-divorce. Follow Cordelia https://cordeliagaffar.com/ Follow Jen https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching With Jen https://calendly.com/jenniferkayloruscin/1-1-relationship-sex-coaching FREE Opening Up Guide https://www.jenniferkayloruscin.com/OpeningUpGuide --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

One of the key takeaways from our recent podcast episode is the importance of emotional safety in sexual experiences. Sierra Bucher and I chat about how feeling completely safe and secure can make a huge difference in achieving squirting. It’s not just about the physical act but also the psychological release. How do you ensure emotional safety with your partner? Let’s discuss! Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00) Jennifer welcomes listeners and introduces the topic of squirting and sexual pleasure. Sierra's Experience with Squirting (00:00:22) Sierra' shares her journey to understanding squirting and feeling safe with partners. Squirting as a Popular Fantasy (00:00:47) Jennifer prompts Sierra' to discuss the appeal and misconceptions surrounding squirting. Research and Personal Insights (00:01:09) Sierra' talks about her extensive research on squirting and surprising revelations from friends. Hydration and Squirting Mechanics (00:03:19) Sierra' explains the importance of hydration for squirting and its physiological aspects. Understanding Squirting Fluid (00:05:28) Discussion on the origin of squirting fluid and common misconceptions about it being urine. Psychological Aspect of Squirting (00:07:24) Sierra' highlights the psychological factors that influence the ability to squirt. Personal Experiences with Squirting (00:08:41) Sierra' shares her first squirting experience and the emotional release it brought. Techniques for Achieving Squirting (00:10:42) Sierra' explains various techniques and tools that can help stimulate squirting. Jennifer's Personal Squirting Story (00:12:09) Jennifer recounts her experiences with a partner known for helping women squirt. Exploring Different Partner Experiences (00:15:27) Jennifer discusses the variations in sexual experiences with different partners. Future Topics on Male Pleasure (00:16:50) Sierra' suggests discussing differences in male pleasure between circumcised and uncircumcised men. Variation in Vaginal Sensations (00:17:25) Jennifer shares insights into the diverse sensations experienced with different partners. Preparation for Future Experiences (00:18:01) Jennifer talks about acquiring a king-size splash blanket for future intimate encounters. Podcast Episode Timestamps Struggles of Squirting (00:18:19) Discussion on challenges faced by squirters, including difficulties with spontaneous sexual activities. Understanding G-Spot Stimulation (00:19:25) Sierra' explains the mechanics of squirting and its relation to G-spot stimulation. Intentional Exploration (00:20:11) Jennifer shares her plans to experiment with toys for personal exploration of squirting. Curiosity about Partner Experiences (00:20:42) Sierra' wonders about the experiences of Jennifer's girlfriend regarding masturbation as a squirter. Follow Sierra: https://www.instagram.com/unforbidden_living/ Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Welcome to the Open Bedroom (00:00:49)Jennifer welcomes listeners and introduces Layla and Brian. Layla's Journey into Non-Monogamy (00:01:35)Layla shares her three-year experience in the lifestyle, starting from fantasies with her husband. Brian's Perspective on Non-Monogamy (00:04:08)Brian discusses his intentional approach to non-monogamous relationships and setting expectations early on. Differences in Relationship Dynamics (00:05:43)The group debates the nuances of polyamory and swinging, highlighting their varying relationship styles. Spontaneity vs. Planning in Relationships (00:10:14)Jennifer and Brian explore the challenges of balancing spontaneity and planning in their relationships. The Complexity of Relationship Boundaries (00:16:18)Brian discusses shifting boundaries in relationships and the difficulties of navigating friendships and intimacy. Finding a Middle Ground (00:17:10)Jennifer suggests a hybrid approach to spontaneity and planning, aiming for a balance in desires. Exploring Connections with Familiar Partners (00:18:21)The group agrees that sexual experiences are often better with familiar partners, discussing trust and comfort. Ideal Relationship Arrangements (00:19:10)Brian expresses his desire for a whitelist of trusted partners to facilitate spontaneity without complications. Exploring Emotional Connections in Non-Monogamy (00:19:15)Discussion on whether sex is better with emotionally connected partners versus casual encounters. Performance Anxiety and Intimacy (00:20:50)Brian shares insights on male performance anxiety and the importance of intimacy in sexual experiences. Kim Minami's Three-Hour Sex Dates (00:21:26)Introduction to Kim Minami's concept of extended sexual encounters for deeper intimacy and satisfaction. The Shift in Sexual Experiences (00:22:15)Brian reflects on his journey from quick, unsatisfying sex to longer, more fulfilling sexual experiences. Finding Safety in Sexual Relationships (00:23:35)Layla discusses the significance of feeling safe with partners for enhanced sexual pleasure. Validation Through Performance (00:25:12)Layla shares her experience of seeking validation through sexual performance at parties. The Challenge of Completing the Scene (00:28:09)Brian expresses his internal struggle with the pressure to climax during public sexual encounters. Communication About Sexual Goals (00:33:00)Jennifer emphasizes the need for clear communication about sexual expectations and desires with partners. The Importance of Aftercare (00:35:01)Discussion on aftercare practices and their significance in enhancing intimacy post-sexual encounters. Aftercare Preferences (00:36:40)Discussion on personal aftercare preferences post-scene, emphasizing communication over physical touch. Aftercare at Play Parties (00:38:04)Exploring the lack of aftercare at play parties and the need for more communication about it. Spontaneity vs. Aftercare (00:39:05)Balancing the desire for aftercare with the spontaneity of play parties and not wanting to be clingy. Playful Intimacy During Scenes (00:40:22)Sharing experiences of playful interactions and laughter during sexual encounters, enhancing the overall experience. Concept of "Between Care" (00:41:20)Introducing the idea of care during sexual activities, especially in longer sessions. Quick Aftercare Technique (00:42:07)A nurturing aftercare technique involving cleaning up with warm washcloths after play, enhancing intimacy. Challenging Norms in Non-Monogamy (00:46:30)The hosts share their mission to challenge societal norms surrounding non-monogamous relationships. Authenticity in Storytelling (00:48:01)Emphasizing the need for real stories and authenticity in discussing non-monogamous lifestyles. Connect with The Masked Swingers  Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Introduction to Conflict Management (00:00:03)Jennifer emphasizes the importance of communication to prevent conflict in throuple relationships. Defining a Throuple (00:01:17)Explains what a throuple is and how it differs from a couple. Types of Relationships (00:02:30)Discussion of closed and open relationships, illustrating with personal examples. Understanding Compulsions (00:03:53)Jennifer shares her experience with jealousy and the concept of feeling happy for partners. Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:03:53)Defines ethical non-monogamy and its conscious communication aspect. Swinging vs. Polyamory (00:05:06)Differentiates between swinging (sexual experiences) and polyamory (emotional relationships). Threesomes and Triads (00:05:06)Clarifies the terms threesomes and triads within the context of throuples. The Concept of a Unicorn (00:06:19)Describes a unicorn as a third person in a preexisting couple's relationship. Misconceptions about Throuples (00:07:35)Addresses common misconceptions, such as throuples being just swingers. Is Non-Monogamy Cheating? (00:08:56)Clarifies that non-monogamous relationships are not cheating if all parties are informed. Sexual Gratification Misconception (00:10:11)Explains that sex is a small part of throuple dynamics, emphasizing emotional connections. Jealousy in Relationships (00:11:24)Discusses how jealousy can arise and how trust can mitigate it in throuples. Feeling Left Out (00:12:23)Jennifer shares how communication can prevent feelings of being left out in throuples. Benefits of a Throuple (00:14:51)Highlights the support and resources available in a throuple relationship. Fulfillment of Sexual Experiences (00:16:10)Describes how new partners can enhance sexual experiences and exploration. Challenges of Being in a Throuple (00:17:50)Discusses the potential challenges, including jealousy and societal pressures. Communication and Boundaries (00:21:01)Stresses the importance of communication and boundary-setting in throuple dynamics. Conflict Management Strategies (00:22:16)Provides tips on addressing conflicts and ensuring inclusivity in decision-making. Seeking Professional Help (00:24:33)Encourages seeking therapy or coaching for navigating complex relationship dynamics. Conclusion and Coaching Offer (00:26:48)Wraps up the episode and invites listeners to consider coaching on related topics. Podcast Closing Remarks (00:27:34)Jennifer thanks listeners and encourages them to like, subscribe, and suggest topics for future episodes. Sharing the Podcast (00:27:52)Listeners are invited to share the podcast with friends and partners to spark meaningful conversations. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Kate Shelor's Background (00:02:27)Introduction of Kate as a hypnotherapist and her expertise in subconscious influences on relationships. Exploring OnlyFans (00:03:41)Jennifer shares her experience signing up for OnlyFans to understand its content better. Safety in Content Creation (00:06:04)Discussion on how OnlyFans provides a safer environment for content creators. Connection Over Content (00:10:37)Emphasis on the importance of personal connection in the success of OnlyFans creators. Navigating Personal Insecurities (00:11:07)Kate shares her feelings of insecurity about how followers perceive her. Balancing Professional and Personal Life (00:12:24)Jennifer highlights Kate's multifaceted identity beyond her OnlyFans presence. Journey to Hypnotherapy (00:14:30)Kate shares her personal journey with hypnotherapy and overcoming orgasm challenges. The Importance of Sexual Education (00:15:39)Kate emphasizes the need for open conversations about sexuality and sexual health. Building a Community (00:17:59)Kate describes her motivation to create a supportive community around sexuality. Challenges in Content Creation (00:20:05)Discussion on the difficulties of sharing educational content on social media platforms. Financial Success and Family Support (00:22:10)Kate discusses the financial benefits of her work and her family's acceptance. Censorship Challenges (00:23:55)Discussion on censorship issues faced when discussing sex education on platforms like OnlyFans and Patreon. OnlyFans Exploration (00:24:28)Exploration of OnlyFans as a platform for educational content and personal experiences in creating such content. Business Mindset in Adult Content (00:30:03)Emphasis on treating adult content creation as a business rather than a casual hobby for financial success. Understanding Sexual Dynamics (00:39:00)Discussion on sexual dynamics in relationships and how different drives affect intimacy and connection. Addressing Sexless Marriages (00:40:07)Insight into underlying issues in sexless marriages and the importance of communication and connection. Effective Communication Strategies (00:43:23)Tips on how to approach difficult conversations about intimacy in a constructive and non-pressuring manner. Using 'I Feel' Statements (00:46:36)Explains how to express feelings without accusations to reduce defensiveness in conversations. Seeking Professional Help (00:48:10)Suggests involving a therapist if communication struggles persist, highlighting the importance of tools for conversation. Coaching Through OnlyFans (00:48:13)Kate shares her approach to coaching on OnlyFans and the limitations of her current practice. Men's Experiences on OnlyFans (00:49:06)Explores why men seek advice on OnlyFans, including comfort in discussing personal issues. Shame Around Sexuality (00:50:53)Addresses men's feelings of shame regarding sexuality and perceived porn addiction. Understanding Compulsive Behaviors (00:52:18)Explains how feelings of loneliness and anxiety often lead to compulsive behaviors like porn use. Focusing on Enrichment (00:54:21)Encourages adding positive activities to life rather than fixating on what to avoid. Addressing Shame Cycles (00:55:13)Explores how negative feelings about porn can create a cycle of shame and compulsive behavior. Aligning Values with Actions (00:56:21)Highlights the need to understand personal values in relation to behaviors like porn consumption. Breaking Down the Cycle of Shame (00:58:29)Discusses the harmful impacts of shame-based approaches to porn addiction and the need for understanding. Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations (00:59:08)Acknowledges the importance of having safe environments for discussing sensitive topics like sexuality. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow Kate --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Jealousy and Compassion (00:00:03) Jennifer discusses experiencing compersion and joy on the other side of jealousy and encourages allowing oneself to feel jealousy. Online Coaching Services (00:01:13) Jennifer mentions her online coaching services in the sex and relationships space, focusing on topics such as open relationships, polyamory, swinging, the lifestyle, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Starting with Friendships (00:02:28) Jennifer advises starting friendships with mixed sexes to overcome jealousy and encourages allowing and encouraging partners to have friends of the opposite sex. Breakfast or Lunch Dates (00:04:46) Jennifer suggests trying breakfast or lunch dates as a non-threatening way to overcome jealousy in open relationships. Dinner/Playdate Scenarios (00:05:51) Jennifer discusses moving into dinner/playdate scenarios and the evolving dynamics of open relationships, including setting boundaries and flexibility. Tips to Move Through Jealousy (00:09:46) Jennifer provides three tips to help move through jealousy, including scheduling a massage, journaling, seeking coaching or counseling, and going out with friends. Compassion and Joy (00:11:56) Jennifer discusses the concept of compersion and joy on the other side of jealousy, emphasizing the importance of allowing oneself to feel jealousy and processing through it. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

The spectrum of open relationships (00:00:03) Jennifer, Chad, and Scott discuss the diverse experiences within open relationships, from swinging to polyamory. Introduction to the Open Bedroom podcast (00:01:02) Jennifer introduces the Open Bedroom podcast and her coaching services in the sex and relationships space. Special episode: The husbands of podcasters (00:02:33) Jennifer interviews Chad and Scott, the husbands of podcasters, in a special episode called "Husbands of Podcasters" Boxers or briefs? (00:03:27) The conversation shifts to a lighthearted discussion about men's underwear preferences. Public perception and personal impact (00:11:27) Chad and Scott share their feelings about their partners' public podcasts and the impact on their personal lives. Handling difficult conversations on the podcast (00:18:15) Chad and Scott discuss how they approach sharing personal and sensitive topics on the podcast. Public assumptions and misconceptions (00:24:45) Chad and Scott reflect on the assumptions and misconceptions that arise from their partners' public podcasts. The Reviews (00:26:27) Discussion about the podcast reviews and individual preferences for hearing feedback. Diverse Experiences in Open Relationships (00:27:31) Comparison of experiences as swingers and semi-open polyamorous individuals in open relationships. Negative Experiences from Airing Personal Life (00:29:05) Instances of negative reactions to podcast content and its impact on personal relationships. Supporting Partners' Podcasts (00:35:05) Ways in which the husbands support their partners' podcasts, including promotion and behind-the-scenes help. Coaching Couples Together (00:40:25) Exploring the possibility of coaching couples together and the differing perspectives on it. Individual Podcast Interests (00:42:34) Husbands' personal interests for potential podcast topics, including sports, fishing, behavioral science, and engineering. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow The Confident Swinger --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Tala and Jackie Christensen share their journey of trust-building and experimentation, including the use of psychedelics like MDMA and magic mushrooms, and exploring BDSM. They emphasize the importance of communication and patience in their relationship. The episode also highlights their clothing line, Nerdy and Dirty, which features BDSM-inspired apparel. The conversation provides insights into unconventional sexual practices and their impact on intimacy and connection. Introduction (00:00:00) Exploring non-conventional sexual activities (00:02:14) Guests Tala and Jackie share their experiences with exploring non-conventional sexual activities, including psychedelics, BDSM, and trust-building in their relationship. Background and cultural influences (00:03:25) Tala discusses her conservative upbringing in Jerusalem and the societal taboos surrounding sex, while Jackie shares his motivations for wanting more out of his sex life. The journey of trust-building and experimentation (00:07:14) Jackie and Tala discuss their journey of trust-building, experimentation, and healing in their relationship, including the use of psychedelics and unconventional sexual activities. Introducing unconventional sexual activities (00:08:29) The guests discuss the introduction of BDSM and other unconventional sexual activities in their relationship, including the exploration of new experiences and trust-building. Exploring unconventional sexual activities (00:11:33) The guests delve into the process of introducing unconventional sexual activities and the impact on their relationship, including the challenges and growth experienced. Enhancing intimacy and communication (00:19:56) Jackie discusses how engaging in intimate activities, such as shaving each other's nether regions, has enhanced trust and communication in their relationship. Bonding through trust and comfort (00:20:38) Discussion on building trust and comfort in sexual relationships, including the importance of accepting imperfections. Frequency of drug use and preparation (00:21:14) Exploration of the frequency of drug use in the context of relationship activities and the preparation involved. Extended sexual activities (00:23:05) Description of engaging in sexual activities for extended periods, including the use of MDMA and the effects of different routes of administration. MDMA experience and effects (00:28:34) Guest's experience with MDMA, including heightened sensations, increased openness, and the impact on personal reflection. Psychedelic experiences and reflection (00:34:49) Discussion of the use of magic mushrooms for personal reflection, addressing relationship challenges, and the melting of the ego. The Weeping and Touching (00:40:56) Discussion about the emotional and physical connection during a psychedelic experience. Stem Cells and ED (00:42:08) Conversation about a medical procedure for erectile dysfunction and its success. BDSM Clothing Line (00:43:47) Description of a clothing line inspired by BDSM and its unique features. Closing Thoughts (00:47:13) Encouragement to have an open mind, trusty partner, and try unconventional activities in relationships. Glow Apparel website: https://www.nerdyanddirty.com/ Connect with Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Exploring Vulva Diversity (00:00:01) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the importance of exploring and understanding the wide diversity of vulvas. Introduction to Open Bedroom Podcast (00:00:51) Host Jennifer Kaylo introduces the Open Bedroom Podcast and its focus on open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Coaching Topics (00:01:08) Jennifer Kaylo highlights the coaching topics she specializes in, including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Setting the Stage for the Discussion (00:02:17) Dr. Alison Ash and Jennifer Kaylo introduce the topic of champ quality pussy pleasure and provide a brief background on their previous conversation about shame. Prioritizing Pussy Pleasure (00:03:23) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of prioritizing pussy pleasure and challenges the shame and biases surrounding it. Personal Experiences and Sexual Awakening (00:04:31) Jennifer Kaylo shares her personal experiences with receiving and giving pussy pleasure, including her sexual awakening and exploration of diverse vulvas. Importance of Communication (00:11:22) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the significance of enthusiastic communication and authentic enjoyment in giving and receiving pleasure. Expressing Pleasure (00:12:56) Jennifer Kaylo and Dr. Alison Ash discuss the significance of vocal expression and authentic pleasure in enhancing the overall experience. Feedback and Communication (00:14:40) Dr. Alison Ash provides tips for both givers and receivers to give and ask for feedback in a comfortable and effective manner. Setting Expectations and Preferences (00:19:35) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of setting expectations and preferences in advance, as well as providing feedback and guidance during sexual encounters. The bossy game (00:22:31) Discussion about using the "bossy game" to navigate new experiences with women and the use of audio porn for masturbation. Pleasuring the pussy (00:24:06) Tips and techniques for pleasuring the female genitalia, including the importance of relaxation and using toys for extended pleasure. Sex education and positions (00:25:13) Discussion about sex education, positions, and techniques for prolonged sexual encounters, including the use of tools and devices. Toys and tools for prolonged sessions (00:27:44) Detailed list of toys and tools recommended for extended sexual encounters, including g-spot stimulators, vibrators, and anal toys. Importance of longer sexual encounters (00:36:35) Emphasizing the importance of longer sexual encounters, exploring foreplay, mental stimulation, and the impact on emotional connection. Madlib for pussy pleasure (00:39:58) Introduction of a handout called "The Guide to My Pussy" for receivers and givers to enhance communication and understanding of preferences. Conclusion and future plans (00:41:49) Expressing excitement for future learning, acknowledging the impact of the conversation, and expressing interest in future collaborations. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow Dr. Alison Ash: Instagram @turnon.love Coaching - TurnON.love/coaching Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse - TurnON.love/intimacy On-demand workshops (including How to Eat Pussy like a Champ) - TurnON.love/workshops Live events - www.TurnON.love/events Previous Moving Through Shame Episode: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/episodes/EP113-Moving-Through-Shame-with-Dr--Alison-Ash-e2cvaum --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Understanding the Needs (00:00:01) Exploring how unmet needs can impact behavior and relationships. Coaching and Topics of Interest (00:01:17) Jennifer Kaylo's coaching topics and interests including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Creating a Lasting Throuple Dynamic (00:02:42) Addressing the lack of resources for creating a lasting throuple dynamic and introducing the aim of the episode. Recognizing Individual Differences (00:03:50) Emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and understanding the individual needs and patterns of each partner. Love Languages and Erotic Blueprints (00:05:04) Exploring the use of love language and erotic blueprint quizzes to understand and fulfill partners' needs. Dealing with Triggers (00:09:42) Discussing the importance of listening and softening when triggered in a throuple or quad relationship. Finding Common Ground (00:12:04) Encouraging the identification and focus on shared interests and common ground in the relationship. Managing Jealousy (00:13:20) Addressing the inevitability of jealousy and providing guidance on dealing with it in throuple dynamics. Individuality and Responsibility (00:16:40) Emphasizing the concept of individuation and taking responsibility for one's own feelings and actions. Establishing Patterns for Safety (00:17:45) Discussing the importance of creating patterns for safety and building trust in the relationship. Seeking Professional Support (00:20:59) Highlighting the benefits of hiring a coach for guidance and support in maintaining a lasting throuple dynamic. Erotic Blueprint Quiz 5 Love Languages Quiz Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Sensual Awakening (00:00:02) Susan Bratton tantalizes us with her journey to sensual awakening, sharing her intimate experiences with trauma, abuse, and sexual health challenges. Product Tease (00:01:03) Jennifer Kaylo spills the tea on her steamy encounters with Susan Bratton's line of sexual wellness products, diving into their delicious uses and benefits. Sultry Introduction (00:05:46) Susan Bratton makes her grand entrance, as Jennifer Kaylo can barely contain her excitement to dive into a juicy discussion about orgasms and sensual awakening. Susan's Sensual Journey (00:06:29) Susan Bratton bares her soul, revealing her personal journey through traumatic experiences, sexual struggles, and the sizzling transformation of her sex life. Transformation and Titillation (00:10:23) Bratton gets candid about how therapy, personal growth, and erotic education workshops ignited the transformation of her sexuality. The Sexy Side of Education (00:11:35) Bratton underscores the importance of erotic education, workshops, and techniques in elevating satisfaction, intimacy, and pleasure to new heights. Bratton's Passionate Mission (00:13:46) Bratton shares her fervent mission to spread sexual education and pleasure techniques worldwide through her company, Personal Life Media. Jennifer's Awakening (00:16:20) Jennifer Kaylo opens up about her own sensual awakening journey and the electrifying impact it had on her relationships and pleasure perception. Diving into Sexual Biohacking (00:18:57) Bratton introduces the tantalizing concept of sexual biohacking, exploring its role in optimizing sexual health and vitality through various steamy techniques and treatments. Blood Flow and Erect Fun (00:25:09) A steamy discussion on the importance of blood flow for achieving full erectile function, and how foreplay and pleasuring can enhance that delicious flow. Orgasmic Activation and Biohacking Toys (00:26:31) An exploration of orgasmic activation, the use of sexual biohacking toys, and the concept of a pleasure protocol to elevate sexual experiences to new peaks. Enhancing the Experience (00:30:20) A deep dive into the regenerative and enhancement aspects of sexual biohacking, including vulva and penis pumping to reverse atrophy and amplify sexual pleasure. Biohacking Challenges and Triumphs (00:32:18) Personal tales of the challenges and triumphs in the world of sexual biohacking, including maintaining that sizzling sexual vitality as the years go by. Orgasmic Cross Training (00:35:26) An introduction to the concept of orgasmic cross training and the diverse array of orgasmic experiences, activating different pleasure zones for ultimate ecstasy. Starting Your Biohacking Journey (00:40:05) A discussion on when people typically start their sexual biohacking journey, the lack of awareness among doctors, and how to access tantalizing information on the topic. Intimate Connection and Longevity (00:44:18) An explanation of how intimate connection can boost longevity, including the release of feel-good hormones, benefits for cognitive function, and overall health. More Sensual Resources (00:47:36) Details on where to find more steamy content and resources related to sexual biohacking, including websites, social media, and newsletters. LINKS: Connect with Jen Follow Jen  Coaching with Jen   Connect with Susan Bratton Susan Bratton Better Lover Better Lover on Youtube  FORIA PRODUCTS Get Your Foria Products Here USE CODE: THEOPENBEDROOM USE CODE: THEOPENBEDROOM --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Realization of being Semi-Open (00:01:25) Jennifer reflects on realizing her relationship with Scott is semi-open, leading to a shift in perspective. Understanding Semi-Open Relationships (00:03:52) Jennifer discusses the concept of being semi-open and the distinctions between fully open, semi-open, and monogamous relationships. Fully Open Relationships (00:05:05) Jennifer explains the dynamics of fully open relationships, including hierarchical and non-hierarchical arrangements, and examples from the swinger community. Semi-Open Relationships (00:08:30) Jennifer explores the dynamics of semi-open relationships, including soft and hard swapping, occasional dating outside the primary relationship, and ethical non-monogamy. Engaging with Listeners (00:12:00) Jennifer invites listeners to share their relationship dynamics and engage with the podcast, encouraging likes, follows, and reviews. Closing Remarks (00:12:48) An unnamed speaker encourages listeners to like, subscribe, and share the podcast, inviting topic suggestions and promoting open conversations. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Are you curious about BDSM and kink, but feel unsure about how it could fit into your life? In this podcast episode, Wendy, an orgasm and neuro pleasure coach, shares her insights on how BDSM can help people with ADHD release their excess energy and create a sense of safety in their bodies. Wendy explains that people with ADHD often live with constant low-level anxiety and stress, which can cause dissociation between the body and mind. By engaging in consensual BDSM activities, individuals can create a container of safety, curiosity, and playfulness that allows them to explore their bodies in a new way. But BDSM isn't just about physical pleasure. Wendy emphasizes the importance of communication, negotiation, and aftercare in creating a healthy and safe experience for all involved. By planning out scenes and being specific with instructions, individuals can build confidence and comfort in their BDSM practice. Wendy also touches on the benefits of orgasm and how it can help release stored trauma in the body. She offers masterclasses and coaching services for individuals and couples, emphasizing that she can work with people of all backgrounds and interests. So if you're curious about BDSM and how it could work for you, don't be afraid to explore in a safe and consensual way. As Wendy and the host suggest, creating safety in the body is key to healing and pleasure. https://www.instagram.com/owningyouro/ Jen's Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/jenniferkayloruscinpodcast/ Coaching with Jen: https://www.jenniferkayloruscin.com/love-coach-jennifer-ruscin Support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes. https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jennifer-ruscin/support --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Introducing Lindsey Hall and Her Journey (00:00:02) Lindsey introduces herself as an intimacy and empowerment coach, discusses her decision to leave her corporate job, and shares her mission to help women deepen their intimacy and live joyfully. Jennifer Kaylo's Introduction and Coaching Offer (00:00:22) Jennifer introduces herself and her coaching services, focusing on open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. The Importance of Conscious Uncoupling (00:02:20) Jennifer and Lindsey discuss the significance of conscious uncoupling and the impact it has on co-parenting and maintaining a friendly relationship with an ex-partner. Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting (00:05:36) Lindsey shares her experience of navigating divorce with her ex-partner, discussing the challenges and emotional struggles they faced during the process. Staying Friendly with the Ex-Partner (00:11:38) Lindsey explains how she maintained a friendly relationship with her ex-partner, emphasizing the mantra "we are friendly not friends" and setting boundaries. Supporting Each Other and Creating Unique Structures (00:18:22) Jennifer discusses the importance of supporting each other post-divorce and shares her and her ex-husband's unique approach to visitation and legal arrangements, emphasizing the significance of envisioning the desired outcome for the family. Conclusion (00:21:29) Lindsey reflects on the similarities in their approach to divorce and co-parenting, highlighting the importance of creating their own schedule and ignoring societal expectations. Navigating Co-Parenting Schedules (00:21:59) Discussion about the 2-5-5 co-parenting schedule, finding balance, and creating a visitation structure that works for both parents. Creating Own Visitation Schedule (00:22:56) The process of creating a visitation schedule without professional help, deciding on a fair arrangement, and navigating interactions with the ex-partner's new relationship. Taking Steps for Future Relationship (00:24:04) Making efforts to build a friendly relationship with the ex-partner for the sake of shared events and future plans. Staying True to Your Own Path (00:25:18) Emphasizing the importance of following one's heart, choosing a different path from societal norms, and prioritizing what feels best for the individual situation. Coaching and Support for Divorce (00:26:11) Discussion about a coaching program for conscious uncoupling, the benefits of seeking support early in the divorce process, and finding a divorce coach. Connecting with the Guest (00:27:04) Information about where to find the guest, her social media handles, website, and podcast on YouTube, as well as the opportunity to hire her for coaching. Closing Remarks (00:27:51) Encouragement for audience engagement, sharing the podcast, and leaving comments for future episode topics. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen Follow Lindsey --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

One day I decided to check out the local BDSM group, and attended a Munch (think... BDSM people out in the "Wild" having a Vanilla meetup). One of the men at my table told us about his hot wax art, and showed me a beautiful picture he'd taken of a cherry blossom he made on a woman's back. I immediately knew this was a type of sensual play that Scott and I would both like! I asked if I could hire him for a night of learning how to do hot wax, so Steph joined us for a delicious night of sensation play. Today, I'm teaching you how to choose the best wax for the temperature play that you'll like, how to make hot wax candles, and how to drizzle this yumminess all over your partner, then take it off (my favorite part! Feels so good). Don't forget to grab the free guide below with links to all of the products I use (they're all on Amazon!). Setting the stage (00:01:21) Introduction to hot wax play, witnessing it at a party, and the sensual and meditative experience. Types of wax (00:03:49) Different kinds of wax, their effects on the skin, and recommendations for purchasing wax and wicks. Preparing the candles (00:05:58) Instructions for making hot wax portable candles, including the type of containers, wicks, and additional items like clothespins. Artistic wax play (00:06:55) Using crayons and essential oils for artistic and sensual wax play, and the safety considerations for the wax and oils. Melting the wax (00:08:46) Methods for melting the wax, including using a ceramic pot and mason jars, and the importance of safety precautions. Preparation for wax play (00:12:00) Preparation for applying hot wax, including the use of massage oil, spatulas, and eye masks for protection. Positioning and warming up (00:17:12) Preparing the person for wax play, including warming them up with a sensual massage and positioning on the massage table. Testing the Wax Temperature (00:21:16) Discussion on testing the wax temperature and adjusting the height of candle drips for desired wax temperature. Applying the Wax (00:22:20) Instructions on starting with less sensitive areas and gradually moving to more sensitive areas, as well as playing with colors. Removing the Wax (00:23:18) Demonstration of removing the wax in a slow, sensual manner, and the aftercare process involving wiping off oil and wax residues. Post-Play Activities (00:25:22) Exploration of post-play activities, including snuggling, watching a show, or moving into sexual intimacy. Conclusion and Podcast Promotion (00:26:30) Final thoughts on hot wax play and a promotion for the Open Bedroom Podcast. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Claim Your Hot Wax Play Purchasing Guide --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Mental and Physical Connection to Pleasure (00:00:01) Discussion about losing touch with feeling oneself and the mental and physical connection to pleasure. Introduction to Open Bedroom Podcast (00:00:38) Jennifer Calo introduces the Open Bedroom Podcast, her coaching topics, and the importance of conscious uncoupling. Challenges with Achieving Orgasm (00:02:21) Exploring the challenges women face in achieving orgasm without a vibrator and the importance of partner involvement. Building Trust and Safety for Oral Sex (00:07:48) The significance of trust and safety for women to enjoy oral sex and the importance of partners being prepared and considerate. Different Perspectives on Oral Sex (00:11:38) Sierra and Jennifer share their different views and experiences with oral sex, including power dynamics and preferences. Exploring Oral Sex Techniques (00:17:26) Sierra discusses her preferred oral sex techniques, emphasizing power dynamics, communication, and partner involvement. Evolution and Improvement in Sexual Experience (00:24:15) The importance of evolving and improving sexual experiences, including addressing discomfort and working on personal growth. The giver's perspective (00:24:30) The intimacy and pleasure of giving oral sex, and the importance of desire and chemistry in a relationship. The receiver's struggles (00:27:41) Challenges for women in receiving oral sex, including hygiene concerns and being present in the moment. Hygiene and self-care (00:28:06) The importance of proper vulva care, hygiene, and self-confidence in oral sex experiences. Enhancement products and communication (00:32:14) Use of clitoral and G-spot enhancement creams, and the significance of communication in sexual experiences. Conclusion and future conversations (00:34:17) The importance of communication in sexual relationships, and the role of coaches in facilitating discussions about intimate topics. Follow Jen Follow Sierra --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Watching Partner with Another (00:00:01) Exploration of feeling love, empathy, and turned on by partner's intimacy with others. Women's Empowerment and Non-Monogamy (00:02:09) Discussion on the reasons women seek non-monogamy and its effects, introducing Mark's experience. Challenges in Relationship (00:02:36) Mark shares his wife's transformation and challenges in embracing non-monogamy. Exploring Non-Monogamy (00:07:38) The couple's transition to swingers and the impact on their relationship. Discovering Swinging Lifestyle (00:11:17) The couple's journey into non-monogamy, including their first experience at a clothing-optional resort. Freedom in Non-Monogamy (00:16:19) The concept of being a "free agent" and the energy of consent and freedom in non-monogamous relationships. Meeting Unmet Needs (00:18:46) Mark's unmet needs for variety and novelty in sexual experiences before embracing swinging. Dirty Talk and Reliving Experiences (00:19:16) The speakers discuss the impact of dirty talk and reliving sexual experiences on their relationships. Observing and Learning from Group Events (00:20:16) The benefits of observing and learning from group events in open relationships are discussed. Deepening Relationships with Other Couples (00:21:47) The speakers talk about deepening relationships with another couple, including regular communication and support. Exploring Sexual Variety and Novelty (00:23:23) The experience of exploring sexual variety with different partners and the impact on relationships is discussed. Dynamic Changes and Relationship Evolution (00:30:03) The conversation shifts to how dynamics can change and evolve within open relationships over time. Negotiating Boundaries and Communication (00:33:59) The importance of negotiating boundaries and communication in open relationships is highlighted. Navigating Open Relationships (00:35:19) The speakers provide advice on navigating open relationships, addressing potential overwhelm and finding what feels right. Women's Choice in Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:36:08) The original intent of discussing women's choice in ethically non-monogamous relationships is briefly mentioned. Women's Empowerment in Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:36:19) Women's perspective on ethical non-monogamy as a journey of sexual exploration and emotional enhancement in relationships. Communication and Processing in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:37:10) The impact of open communication and processing time on non-monogamous relationships over a span of five years. Post-Event Processing and Communication (00:38:25) The process of discussing experiences and feelings with a partner after non-monogamous events, including validation and comfort. Emotional and Sexual Connection in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:41:41) Differences in motivations for men and women in choosing non-monogamous relationships, focusing on emotional and sexual connections. Benefits and Enrichment in Open Relationships (00:42:44) The unexpected benefits of enhanced communication and closeness in open relationships, contrary to common misconceptions. Layers of Intimacy in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:43:45) The multi-layered intimacy experienced in non-monogamous relationships, including emotional, sexual, and shared experiences. Vulnerability and Depth in Open Relationships (00:47:23) The vulnerability and depth experienced in open relationships, including discussions about difficult topics and emotional support. Communication and Attraction in Open Relationships (00:49:53) The level of open communication and sharing attraction in open relationships, emphasizing human nature and emotional connection. Non-Monogamy Resources and Masterclass (00:50:41) Information about non-monogamy resources and upcoming masterclass series for those interested in exploring open relationships. Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Follow Mark: https://openingus.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

The experience of our first interaction (00:00:01) The initial connection beyond sex, finding interesting and curious people to spend time with outside the bedroom. The one year anniversary conversation (00:00:36) Informal discussion about being in a triad for a year, relationship dynamics, and joining a creative triad. Transitioning into a throuple (00:02:55) Desire for a throuple, initial experiences, and the evolution of deeper connections beyond sex. Deepening connections and intimacy (00:05:31) The value of deep connections, sharing intimacy, and experiencing unique personalities within the relationship. Exploring sexual energy and intimacy (00:09:36) The excitement and warmth of shared affection, participating in intimate moments, and feeling connected in a throuple. Learning and exploring sexual energy (00:15:03) Learning about each other's turn-ons, exploring sexual energy, and the excitement of being included in intimate moments. Evolution of relationship dynamics (00:19:51) Changes in dynamics, exploring one-on-one play, and the evolution of the relationship over the past 12 months. Stis and Newbie Concerns (00:24:51) Initial concerns about STIs and fear of getting close to others; evolving perspectives. Encouraging One-on-One Time (00:25:22) Scott encourages one-on-one connection, desires direct engagement, discusses feelings of envy and left out. Communication and Growth (00:29:27) Improved communication, handling sticky situations, learning to communicate through challenges, and evolving dynamics. Jealousy and Balance (00:31:29) Scott discusses the absence of jealousy or imbalance in the relationship, values being drawn closer together. Low Poly and Relationship Dynamics (00:32:53) Steph discusses her approach to low poly relationships, absence of jealousy, and allowing freedom in relationships. Ownership and Independence (00:36:13) Jennifer realizes not owning anyone, discusses the capacity for love, affection, and filling emotional needs. Exploration and Adventures (00:40:24) Discussion about non-sexual adventures, shared experiences, and exploring new activities together. Deepening Relationships (00:43:02) The value of fully experiencing another person, exchanging warmth, affection, and desire, and peeling off layers to deepen connections. Challenges and Scheduling (00:46:43) Challenges with busy schedules, making time a priority, and the importance of relationship check-ins and scheduling. Triad Night (00:48:58) Scheduling regular triad nights for bonding, intimacy, and connection within the triad relationship. One-on-One Connections (00:49:53) Importance of one-on-one time with each partner within the triad for deeper connections and individual relationships. Challenges in Communication (00:50:58) The difficulty in communication and expressing feelings within the triad relationship, leading to potential misunderstandings. Personal Responsibility (00:52:14) Learning to prioritize personal well-being and boundaries rather than feeling responsible for partners' feelings. Creating Open Relationships (00:52:49) Guidance on creating and nurturing open relationships, emphasizing clear understanding, mindfulness, and genuine appreciation. Exploring Threesome Dynamics (00:54:40) Discussion on the reasons for wanting to explore open relationships and the distinction between casual encounters and committed throuple relationships. Manifesting Relationship Desires (00:55:46) The power of clear communication and intention in manifesting desired relationships, and the ongoing openness to new connections. Future Plans (00:58:04) Excitement about future intentions, such as scheduling vacations and trips, for further strengthening the triad relationship. Follow Jen Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support