The Open Bedroom Podcast

Timestamps by PodSqueezeIntroduction to the Episode (00:00:02) Jennifer introduces the podcast and discusses the importance of staying within relationship boundaries. Catching Up (00:00:51) Scott and Jennifer share personal updates, including Scott's education and recent surgery. Protecting Your Bond (00:03:41) The couple emphasizes the importance of maintaining their bond while exploring open relationships. The Beginning of Their Relationship (00:08:14) Scott reflects on their early relationship and the importance of mutual growth and exploration. First Encounter with Guardrails (00:10:04) Jennifer recalls a pivotal moment when Scott redirected her focus on strengthening their relationship. Establishing Boundaries (00:17:39) Scott discusses the importance of establishing clear boundaries and understanding each other's needs. Jealousy and Growth (00:20:10) The couple talks about navigating jealousy and the importance of growing together rather than apart. Conclusion on Open Relationships (00:22:46) Scott and Jennifer conclude by sharing their successful experiences in an open relationship and mutual respect. Attention and Excitement in Relationships (00:23:38) Scott reflects on maintaining excitement in long-term relationships to avoid mundane routines. Deterioration of Bond (00:25:05) Jennifer introduces themes that weaken relationships, emphasizing the decline in attention, interest, and intimacy. Engagement and Connection (00:26:16) Scott discusses the importance of actively engaging and staying connected with each other amidst distractions. Chasing New Excitement (00:29:10) Jennifer and Scott explore the thrill of new attractions and how it relates to their primary relationship. Navigating Attraction (00:30:32) Scott shares how he prioritizes their bond when faced with new romantic interests. The Risk of New Relationships (00:33:12) Jennifer raises concerns about partners abandoning long-term relationships for new, exciting connections. Cheating in Open Relationships (00:35:12) Jennifer discusses the phenomenon of cheating within open relationships and its impact on partners. Self-Control and Respect (00:36:09) Scott emphasizes the need for personal discipline and respect in open relationships to avoid betrayal. Rekindling the Spark (00:40:07) Jennifer questions how to revive excitement in a relationship when partners feel neglected or bored. Important Questions to Ask (00:44:09) Scott lists critical questions couples should consider to assess their motivations and connection in open relationships. Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ Coaching With Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

This is Part II of The Play featuring Michael Hollis. Be sure and go pack to EP#162 to catch the first half. https://youtu.be/NuDUtkxroyg https://open.spotify.com/episode/2gTD3KuwOcqYMviUz8xbwV?si=PjlyWecHQQWux3EULRSNgw Intro (00:00:00) Michael describes the welcoming atmosphere at play parties, including bag and phone checks. Size Doesn't Matter (00:00:33) Discussion on perceptions of penis size and the importance of personality and skills in intimate settings. Consent and Boundaries (00:03:59) Emphasis on the importance of consent and setting boundaries, especially regarding voyeurism. Intimacy Exercise (00:05:05) Explanation of an intimacy exercise involving eye gazing to foster nonverbal communication. Dibs: Desires, Intentions, and Boundaries (00:08:10) Introduction to the "dibs" concept for sharing desires and boundaries among participants. Creating a Positive Space (00:10:17) Discussion on fostering a positive culture around play parties through open communication and shared experiences. Art and Performances at Parties (00:12:29) Michael describes the creative performances that enhance the atmosphere at play parties. Crowdsourced Art Experiences (00:14:06) Michael shares a memorable puppet show performance that humorously addresses insecurities in relationships. Late-Night Connections (00:16:29) Observations of various intimate and playful interactions occurring at parties, showcasing diversity in experiences. Goddess Garden Concept (00:19:37) Explanation of a female-only space at parties to encourage exploration and comfort among women. Vulnerability and Connection (00:20:40) Michael emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in fostering deeper connections at play parties. After Party Dynamics (00:21:09) Discussion on the continuation of the party atmosphere and the challenges of ending a successful event. Play Party Leadership (00:22:29) Discussion on leadership dynamics and the importance of knowing when to follow. Scarf Cocking Humor (00:23:12) Light-hearted exchange about a production manager's choice of attire at a party. Next Steps for Community Involvement (00:24:07) Guidance on how to apply and engage with the play party community. Introducing the Play Network App (00:24:54) Overview of a new app designed for community connection and sharing experiences. Community Engagement and Features (00:26:31) Discussion on app features for connecting people and sharing kinks. Networking and Job Opportunities (00:27:38) Exploring networking, job listings, and community events within the app. Appreciation for Community Builders (00:29:06) Acknowledgment of the importance of courageous individuals in sex-positive discussions. Validation of Efforts (00:30:54) Reinforcement of the shared mission in promoting sex positivity and community support. Closing Remarks (00:31:44) Final thoughts on community building and encouragement for continued efforts. Follow The Play: https://www.instagram.com/theplay.la/https://www.instagram.com/theplay.la/ Follow The Open Bedroom Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ Sponsor: Coaching With Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Introduction to Partners (00:00:00) Jennifer introduces her four partners and discusses her busy life with children and work. Mastering Multiple Relationships (00:01:10) She shares how managing multiple partners expands one's capacity over time. Kitchen Table Polyamory (00:04:26) Explains the concept of kitchen table polyamory, emphasizing transparency among partners. Using Calendars and Schedules (00:06:39) Discusses the importance of shared calendars for managing time effectively with multiple partners. Daily Contact for Connection (00:11:15) Stresses the need for daily communication to maintain strong connections with each partner. Apps for Communication (00:13:09) Highlights various apps like Telegram and Marco Polo for effective communication with partners. Planning Fun Dates (00:17:15) Encourages planning enjoyable activities and dates to strengthen relationships. Having Fun in the Bedroom (00:19:10) Describes different sexual dynamics with partners and introduces the use of a sex chair for enhanced experiences. BDSM Corner Experience (00:21:59) Jennifer shares her experience shopping for high-quality BDSM toys and discusses the importance of usability. Using Toys in Relationships (00:23:00) She emphasizes making sex fun with toys and encourages partners to bring their own for shared experiences. Scheduling and Capacity (00:23:30) Jennifer addresses common questions about dating multiple partners, focusing on scheduling and managing relationship capacity. Podcast Review Shoutout (00:24:09) She reads a listener's review, encouraging others to rate and review the podcast for greater engagement. Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin FREE Winter Dating Prompts Guide: https://tr.ee/RJcuW3ORi3 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Intro (00:00:00) Alice (  @Thealicelittle  ) discusses various experiences available at the Chicken Ranch, including girlfriend and porn star experiences. Introduction to the Podcast (00:00:59) Jennifer introduces the podcast and welcomes Alice Little, highlighting her background in the legal sex work industry. Alice's Background (00:01:49) Alice shares her journey as a legal sex worker and sex educator, starting in 2015. Transition from Educator to Legal Sex Worker (00:02:35) Alice explains her motivation for moving from a BDSM dungeon in NYC to the Bunny Ranch. Independent Contractor Lifestyle (00:04:40) Alice describes the flexibility of her schedule and her ability to manage appointments. Booking and Demand (00:06:39) Alice shares how far in advance she books appointments, mentioning requests up to two years ahead. Characteristics of Great Guests (00:07:25) Alice outlines the qualities she looks for in repeat guests, emphasizing kindness and communication. Terminology: Guest vs. Client (00:09:04) Alice explains her preference for the term "guest" to foster a welcoming atmosphere. Reasons Guests Seek Alice's Services (00:11:18) Alice discusses various motivations guests have for seeking her services, from bucket list experiences to intimacy education. Initial Contact Process (00:13:30) Alice details how potential guests can reach out via email to inquire about appointments. Lineup Experience for New Guests (00:16:37) Alice describes the lineup process at the Chicken Ranch and recommends appointments for first-timers. Specialties Among Ladies (00:18:41) Alice explains that different ladies have different specialties, especially in BDSM and other activities. Common Guest Requests (00:20:51) Alice reveals that the most common request from guests is for eye contact during intimate encounters. Budget Considerations (00:22:05) Alice mentions that pricing varies by lady, indicating individualized budget considerations for guests. Understanding Pricing and Accessibility (00:22:08) Alice discusses the range of experiences available at the Chicken Ranch and emphasizes affordability for everyone. Safety in the Industry (00:23:20) Alice shares insights on safety protocols for legal sex workers and guests, including health screenings and security measures. Opening Relationships with Professionals (00:26:51) Alice explains how couples can explore open relationships by engaging with legal sex workers for shared experiences. Introduction to the Adult Roadshow (00:28:53) Alice introduces her collaborative production company, the Adult Roadshow, focused on creator ownership and content production. Creator Control and Ownership (00:30:50) Alice details how the Adult Roadshow allows creators to maintain ownership of their content and benefit directly from subscriptions. Ethical Porn and Content Distribution (00:32:30) The discussion covers the importance of ethical porn and how creators can share their work across various platforms. Inclusivity in Content Creation (00:35:18) Alice emphasizes the inclusive nature of the Adult Roadshow, welcoming creators of all backgrounds and body types. Key Takeaways on Intimacy (00:36:31) Alice shares three essential elements of intimacy: connection, communication, and openness with partners. Follow Alice Little: ⁠https://linktr.ee/alicelittle⁠ Follow Alice's Adult Roadshow: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/adultroadshow/⁠ Follow The Open Bedroom Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ SHOW SPONSOR: Coaching With Jen ⁠https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

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Intro (00:00:00)Jennifer introduces the podcast and the theme of open relationships and appreciation. Realization in Bed (00:01:30)Jennifer shares a powerful realization about her connection with Scott after a weekend of intimacy. Choosing Each Other (00:02:50)Discussion on the importance of actively choosing each other in relationships, regardless of monogamy or not. Understanding Each Other's Needs (00:04:07)Jennifer highlights the efforts made to understand and meet each other's emotional and physical needs. Morning Intimacy (00:05:26)A personal account of a sensitive morning reconnection between Jennifer and Scott. Slowly Bringing Each Other Online (00:07:25)Jennifer explains the importance of taking time to connect intimately and understand each other's bodies. Appreciation of Partners (00:10:50)Reflection on the daily choice partners make to be together and the significance of that choice. Closing Thoughts and Challenge (00:12:14)Jennifer encourages listeners to appreciate their partners and acknowledges the honor of being chosen. Podcast Wrap-Up (00:13:22)The unnamed speaker thanks listeners and encourages engagement with the podcast. Coaching With Jen:https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Your partner can actually help you find dates online! Here's how. Intro (00:00:00) Jennifer shares insights about her relationship with Scott and their polyamorous journey. Fluidity in Relationships (00:02:23) The concept of fluidity in relationships is explored, highlighting changes over time. Navigating Open Relationships (00:03:36) Jennifer discusses her experiences and challenges in transitioning to an open relationship. Exploring Relationship Configurations (00:04:40) Different relationship configurations are examined, including throuples and dating couples. Desire for a Closed Throuple (00:05:39) Scott expresses a wish for a semi-closed throuple, emphasizing safety and commitment. Updating Dating Profiles (00:07:41) The couple updates their dating profiles to reflect their new relationship intentions. Successful Matching Experience (00:08:52) Jennifer recounts a successful match with a woman interested in their dynamic. Unexpected Connection with a Man (00:10:03) Jennifer shares an unexpected connection with a man looking for a couple for his wife. Embracing Polyamorous Vibes (00:11:54) Jennifer expresses excitement about the positive dynamics with their new partners. Desire for Shared Experiences (00:12:54) Jennifer reflects on the importance of shared experiences and connections in polyamory. Dating Apps as a Portal (00:13:57) Jennifer views dating apps as a magical portal for finding compatible partners. Current Relationship Configurations (00:14:53) Jennifer outlines her current relationships, including two throuples and solo dating. Encouragement for Partner Support (00:15:53) Jennifer encourages partners to support each other in finding additional partners. Shared Efforts in Dating (00:16:51) The couple collaborates on dating efforts, ensuring mutual understanding and communication. Challenges with New Partners (00:17:46) Jennifer discusses the challenges of integrating new partners into their relationship. Alignment and Intentions (00:18:49) Emphasizing alignment in dating profiles, Jennifer highlights the importance of clear intentions. Podcast Introduction (00:20:07) Jennifer thanks listeners and encourages them to like, subscribe, and share the podcast for more discussions. Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Michael Hollis started The Play, a lifestyle sex party where art meets erotic expression located in Los Angeles to be a place for people in open relationships that was different. This is Part 1, where we discuss who The Play is For, The Price, the STI Testing policy, what to expect, and more. Part II coming out soon... Introduction (00:00:00) Becoming Ethically Non-Monogamous (00:00:52) Michael shares his and his wife's transition to ethical non-monogamy and its impact on their lives. Experiences in the Lifestyle (00:01:13) Discussion of various party experiences, from large hotel takeovers to intimate gatherings in Joshua Tree. Inspiration for Play Parties (00:04:08) A memorable movie night sparks the idea for a party focused on self-expression and artistic performances. Establishing Party Pillars (00:06:13) Michael explains the foundational pillars of health, consent, intimacy, and artistry in his play parties. Testing Process and Inclusions (00:09:27) Michael details the STI testing requirements and how they accommodate individuals with different health statuses. Community Health Focus (00:12:06) The importance of community health and regular testing is discussed, highlighting the growth of the play community. Handling STI Outbreaks (00:14:50) The protocol for attendees who experience outbreaks is explained, emphasizing community support and understanding. Inclusivity of the Play Parties (00:17:54) Michael discusses who the play parties are for, emphasizing inclusivity and the intersection of art and sexuality. Overview of a Night at the Play (00:19:03) An outline of what attendees can expect during a night at the play party is provided to manage expectations. Expectations Based on Pricing (00:20:06) Discussion on how price points create expectations and power dynamics at play parties. Diversity in the Community (00:24:03) Michael highlights the diverse makeup of attendees, ensuring a welcoming environment for all. Artistic Expression at Parties (00:25:55) Exploration of how guests' fantasies are realized through creative performances at play parties. Unique Experiences at Each Party (00:30:02) Every play party is different, with new themes and guests creating unique atmospheres. Preparation and Boundaries for Couples (00:34:07) Discussion on how couples should communicate their boundaries before attending play parties. Navigating Open Relationships (00:36:39) Michael advises on the necessary conversations for couples exploring open relationships and boundaries. Introduction to Intimacy at Play Parties (00:39:27) Discussion on boundaries and the role of intimacy in play parties. Overview of Play Party Structure (00:39:49) Michael explains the preparation and entry process for attendees at play parties. Encouraging Creative Expression (00:41:17) Attendees are encouraged to bring creative items, enhancing the party's atmosphere. Phone Policy to Reduce Anxiety (00:42:11) The importance of phone checks to maintain focus and reduce distractions during the event. Rules for Entry (00:42:57) Three core rules: no phones, no money, and no hierarchy to ensure equality. Building Authentic Connections (00:47:02) How the initial activities foster intimacy and authentic connections among attendees. Boundary Conversations (00:47:32) Encouraging attendees to discuss their boundaries as a way to enhance communication. Understanding and Respecting Boundaries (00:48:38) The significance of boundary conversations for respectful interactions at play parties. Consent Education (00:52:12) Discussion on what consent looks like and emphasizing the importance of enthusiastic yes. Responding to No (00:54:10) Advice on how to gracefully accept a no and maintain respect for personal boundaries. Follow The Play: https://www.instagram.com/theplay.la/ Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Today I'm teaching you how to write a dating profile that ACTUALLY gets dates. And not just dates, but aligned, perfect dates! XO, Jen Creating an Effective Dating Profile (00:00:00)Jennifer shares tips for crafting a dating profile that attracts aligned partners. Client Success Story (00:02:29)Feedback from a client who received over 200 right swipes on her dating profile. Understanding Right and Left Swipes (00:03:30) Explanation of swipe terminology and its significance on dating apps.Tinder Overview (00:03:30) Discussion on Tinder as a dating app and how to use it effectively.Bumble Overview (00:06:46) Insights on Bumble, emphasizing women’s control in initiating connections. Field App Overview (00:07:58) Introduction to Field, a dating app for the open community and polyamorous relationships.Identifying Your Ideal Match (00:10:02) Guidance on determining who you want to date when signing up for an app.Crafting Your Dating Profile (00:10:56) Jennifer offers a free resource to help optimize dating profiles.Personal Manifestation Experience (00:12:05) Jennifer shares her journey of manifesting partners and relationship dynamics.Client Testimonials (00:17:08) Discussion on helping clients find their ideal partners through tailored profiles.Optimizing Your Dating Profile (00:18:08) Tips on enhancing your profile for better visibility and matches.Profile Picture Importance (00:20:11) Jennifer discusses the significance of using authentic profile pictures in dating profiles.Tips for Profile Photos (00:21:00) Advice on what types of pictures to avoid and how to represent interests accurately.Showcasing Hobbies (00:22:02) Encouragement to include images that reflect personal hobbies and passions.Personal Profile Example (00:23:01) Jennifer shares her own dating profile pictures to illustrate her points. Field App Features (00:26:02)Overview of the features available on the Field dating app, including partner visibility. Crafting Your About Section (00:27:08)Guidance on writing an engaging and informative "About" section for dating profiles. Desires and Interests (00:28:14) Discussion on how to effectively list desires and interests on dating profiles.Creating Connection in Profiles (00:29:21) Examples of how to write profile descriptions that foster deeper connections. Client Profile Example (00:31:43)Jennifer shares a crafted profile for a client navigating open relationships. Cuffing Season Insights (00:36:16) Connect with Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq⁠ A Guide to Crafting a Dating Profile that Actually Gets you Dates ⁠https://www.jenniferkayloruscin.com/pl/2148570784 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Meet Wendy Perkins, an orgasm and neuro pleasure coach, discussing open relationships, conscious uncoupling, and alternative family dynamics. Wendy shares her journey of separating from her husband while continuing to co-parent their children in a supportive environment. She emphasizes the importance of open communication and prioritizing children's needs. Wendy also reflects on her bisexuality and the challenges of navigating societal norms. Explore non-traditional relationship structures and maintain integrity and love in your breaking up and co-parenting interactions. Intro (0:00:00) Wendy's Background (00:02:12) Wendy shares her role as an orgasm and neuro pleasure coach and her journey of self-discovery. Wendy's Relationship History (00:02:59) Wendy discusses her marriage, separation, and co-parenting dynamics with her ex-husband. Realization of Polyamory (00:03:46) Wendy reflects on her early understanding of her polyamorous identity dating back to childhood. Challenges of Monogamy (00:05:52) Wendy talks about societal pressures and her struggles with being in a monogamous relationship. Understanding Bisexuality (00:07:06) Wendy shares her journey of embracing her bisexuality after overcoming past trauma. The Importance of Open Conversations (00:11:25) Wendy highlights how open discussions about sexuality can empower others to share their experiences. Navigating Co-Parenting (00:12:28) Wendy discusses the challenges of co-parenting and the societal norm of bashing ex-partners. Wendy's Decision to Separate (00:15:37) Wendy explains her decision to separate from her husband to avoid resentment and foster a healthy environment. Creating a Supportive Family Dynamic (00:19:40) Wendy emphasizes the importance of maintaining a supportive family atmosphere despite the separation. Follow Jen:https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen:https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq Follow Wendy:https://owningyouro.com/instagram/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

[object Object]Introduction to Flirting with Women (00:00:02) Jennifer introduces the episode's focus on how women can flirt with women. Personal Exploration of Sexuality (00:00:14) She shares her journey of realizing her attraction to women and exploring it during her last marriage. Societal Programming and Body Image (00:01:14) Jennifer discusses societal norms that discourage women from exploring their bodies and sexuality. Differences in Sexual Curiosity (00:02:23) She contrasts bi-curious women with those who are truly bisexual, highlighting their different experiences. Understanding Women's Bodies (00:04:38) Jennifer emphasizes the need for women to learn about their bodies and how to engage with other women. Types of Bi-Curious Women (00:05:44) She categorizes bi-curious women into two types: bi-situational and truly bisexual. Craving Connection with Women (00:07:07) Jennifer expresses her desire for intimacy with women and the joy it brings her. Learning Through Experience (00:09:14) She reflects on how her experiences with different women have taught her about sexuality and pleasure. Flirting as a Skill (00:10:31) Jennifer discusses her journey in learning how to flirt with women and the importance of verbal communication. Desire and Affirmation (00:11:43) She emphasizes that women want to feel desired and beautiful, just like men do. Direct Communication of Desires (00:12:50) Jennifer encourages women to express their desires openly without excessive caution. Using Flirting in Everyday Life (00:15:00) She shares personal examples of how to flirt and express attraction in casual conversations. Engaging in Flirty Conversations (00:18:05) Jennifer highlights the importance of maintaining flirtatious communication throughout the day. Flirting Ideas (00:20:02) Jennifer shares tips on starting daily conversations with female partners to enhance flirting. Navigating Bi-Curious Feelings (00:21:02) Discussion on exploring bi-curiosity and using existing partners to ease into relationships with women. Building Connection Through Dates (00:22:02) The importance of one-on-one time and physical connection during dates to foster intimacy. Fun Flirting Experiences (00:23:14) A humorous personal story about a memorable kissing moment during a date with another woman. Naked Exploration (00:24:14) Encouragement to engage in naked play to understand sexual orientation and connect with each other. Coaching Offer (00:25:27) Jennifer offers one-on-one coaching for women seeking guidance in dating and flirting with other women. Connect with Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Today I have Cordelia Gaffar, known as the "ultimate joy goddess" on the podcast. Cordelia, a movement facilitator and bestselling author, discusses "multi-orgasmic living," a lifestyle emphasizing self-care, pleasure, and movement for women. We explore the importance of nurturing oneself, maintaining vitality with age, and fostering emotional and physical connections, especially in ethically non-monogamous relationships. Cordelia offers practical advice on incorporating movement into daily routines and highlights the significance of self-exploration and communication in enhancing intimacy and overall well-being. Introduction to Multi-Orgasmic Living (00:00:00) Cordelia explains her concept of multi-orgasmic living and its personal significance. Nurturing Self (00:01:26) Discussion on the importance of self-care and maintaining vitality, especially for mothers. Staying Juicy (00:03:05) Cordelia shares secrets to staying vibrant, emphasizing movement and physical activity. Nutrition Tips (00:05:07) Advice on nutrition, particularly for women approaching menopause, including the impact of alcohol and caffeine. Choosing Pleasure (00:07:29) The significance of being mindful about who and what brings pleasure into one’s life. Self-Exploration (00:10:52) Cordelia encourages self-touch and exploration to rediscover personal pleasure. Connection with Partners (00:14:28) Exploration of how to gauge emotional and physical connections with partners in non-monogamous relationships. Negotiation in Relationships (00:15:52) The importance of taking time to negotiate and explore boundaries with new partners. Reconnecting with the Body (00:22:50) Cordelia discusses helping individuals reconnect with their bodies through movement, meditation, and somatic awareness. Juiciness and Orgasmic Living (00:33:18) Exploration of how Cordelia defines and experiences 'juiciness' and orgasmic living post-divorce. Follow Cordelia https://cordeliagaffar.com/ Follow Jen https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching With Jen https://calendly.com/jenniferkayloruscin/1-1-relationship-sex-coaching FREE Opening Up Guide https://www.jenniferkayloruscin.com/OpeningUpGuide --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

One of the key takeaways from our recent podcast episode is the importance of emotional safety in sexual experiences. Sierra Bucher and I chat about how feeling completely safe and secure can make a huge difference in achieving squirting. It’s not just about the physical act but also the psychological release. How do you ensure emotional safety with your partner? Let’s discuss! Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00) Jennifer welcomes listeners and introduces the topic of squirting and sexual pleasure. Sierra's Experience with Squirting (00:00:22) Sierra' shares her journey to understanding squirting and feeling safe with partners. Squirting as a Popular Fantasy (00:00:47) Jennifer prompts Sierra' to discuss the appeal and misconceptions surrounding squirting. Research and Personal Insights (00:01:09) Sierra' talks about her extensive research on squirting and surprising revelations from friends. Hydration and Squirting Mechanics (00:03:19) Sierra' explains the importance of hydration for squirting and its physiological aspects. Understanding Squirting Fluid (00:05:28) Discussion on the origin of squirting fluid and common misconceptions about it being urine. Psychological Aspect of Squirting (00:07:24) Sierra' highlights the psychological factors that influence the ability to squirt. Personal Experiences with Squirting (00:08:41) Sierra' shares her first squirting experience and the emotional release it brought. Techniques for Achieving Squirting (00:10:42) Sierra' explains various techniques and tools that can help stimulate squirting. Jennifer's Personal Squirting Story (00:12:09) Jennifer recounts her experiences with a partner known for helping women squirt. Exploring Different Partner Experiences (00:15:27) Jennifer discusses the variations in sexual experiences with different partners. Future Topics on Male Pleasure (00:16:50) Sierra' suggests discussing differences in male pleasure between circumcised and uncircumcised men. Variation in Vaginal Sensations (00:17:25) Jennifer shares insights into the diverse sensations experienced with different partners. Preparation for Future Experiences (00:18:01) Jennifer talks about acquiring a king-size splash blanket for future intimate encounters. Podcast Episode Timestamps Struggles of Squirting (00:18:19) Discussion on challenges faced by squirters, including difficulties with spontaneous sexual activities. Understanding G-Spot Stimulation (00:19:25) Sierra' explains the mechanics of squirting and its relation to G-spot stimulation. Intentional Exploration (00:20:11) Jennifer shares her plans to experiment with toys for personal exploration of squirting. Curiosity about Partner Experiences (00:20:42) Sierra' wonders about the experiences of Jennifer's girlfriend regarding masturbation as a squirter. Follow Sierra: https://www.instagram.com/unforbidden_living/ Follow Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin Coaching with Jen: https://tr.ee/aRl7H-zWQq --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Welcome to the Open Bedroom (00:00:49)Jennifer welcomes listeners and introduces Layla and Brian. Layla's Journey into Non-Monogamy (00:01:35)Layla shares her three-year experience in the lifestyle, starting from fantasies with her husband. Brian's Perspective on Non-Monogamy (00:04:08)Brian discusses his intentional approach to non-monogamous relationships and setting expectations early on. Differences in Relationship Dynamics (00:05:43)The group debates the nuances of polyamory and swinging, highlighting their varying relationship styles. Spontaneity vs. Planning in Relationships (00:10:14)Jennifer and Brian explore the challenges of balancing spontaneity and planning in their relationships. The Complexity of Relationship Boundaries (00:16:18)Brian discusses shifting boundaries in relationships and the difficulties of navigating friendships and intimacy. Finding a Middle Ground (00:17:10)Jennifer suggests a hybrid approach to spontaneity and planning, aiming for a balance in desires. Exploring Connections with Familiar Partners (00:18:21)The group agrees that sexual experiences are often better with familiar partners, discussing trust and comfort. Ideal Relationship Arrangements (00:19:10)Brian expresses his desire for a whitelist of trusted partners to facilitate spontaneity without complications. Exploring Emotional Connections in Non-Monogamy (00:19:15)Discussion on whether sex is better with emotionally connected partners versus casual encounters. Performance Anxiety and Intimacy (00:20:50)Brian shares insights on male performance anxiety and the importance of intimacy in sexual experiences. Kim Minami's Three-Hour Sex Dates (00:21:26)Introduction to Kim Minami's concept of extended sexual encounters for deeper intimacy and satisfaction. The Shift in Sexual Experiences (00:22:15)Brian reflects on his journey from quick, unsatisfying sex to longer, more fulfilling sexual experiences. Finding Safety in Sexual Relationships (00:23:35)Layla discusses the significance of feeling safe with partners for enhanced sexual pleasure. Validation Through Performance (00:25:12)Layla shares her experience of seeking validation through sexual performance at parties. The Challenge of Completing the Scene (00:28:09)Brian expresses his internal struggle with the pressure to climax during public sexual encounters. Communication About Sexual Goals (00:33:00)Jennifer emphasizes the need for clear communication about sexual expectations and desires with partners. The Importance of Aftercare (00:35:01)Discussion on aftercare practices and their significance in enhancing intimacy post-sexual encounters. Aftercare Preferences (00:36:40)Discussion on personal aftercare preferences post-scene, emphasizing communication over physical touch. Aftercare at Play Parties (00:38:04)Exploring the lack of aftercare at play parties and the need for more communication about it. Spontaneity vs. Aftercare (00:39:05)Balancing the desire for aftercare with the spontaneity of play parties and not wanting to be clingy. Playful Intimacy During Scenes (00:40:22)Sharing experiences of playful interactions and laughter during sexual encounters, enhancing the overall experience. Concept of "Between Care" (00:41:20)Introducing the idea of care during sexual activities, especially in longer sessions. Quick Aftercare Technique (00:42:07)A nurturing aftercare technique involving cleaning up with warm washcloths after play, enhancing intimacy. Challenging Norms in Non-Monogamy (00:46:30)The hosts share their mission to challenge societal norms surrounding non-monogamous relationships. Authenticity in Storytelling (00:48:01)Emphasizing the need for real stories and authenticity in discussing non-monogamous lifestyles. Connect with The Masked Swingers  Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Introduction to Conflict Management (00:00:03)Jennifer emphasizes the importance of communication to prevent conflict in throuple relationships. Defining a Throuple (00:01:17)Explains what a throuple is and how it differs from a couple. Types of Relationships (00:02:30)Discussion of closed and open relationships, illustrating with personal examples. Understanding Compulsions (00:03:53)Jennifer shares her experience with jealousy and the concept of feeling happy for partners. Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:03:53)Defines ethical non-monogamy and its conscious communication aspect. Swinging vs. Polyamory (00:05:06)Differentiates between swinging (sexual experiences) and polyamory (emotional relationships). Threesomes and Triads (00:05:06)Clarifies the terms threesomes and triads within the context of throuples. The Concept of a Unicorn (00:06:19)Describes a unicorn as a third person in a preexisting couple's relationship. Misconceptions about Throuples (00:07:35)Addresses common misconceptions, such as throuples being just swingers. Is Non-Monogamy Cheating? (00:08:56)Clarifies that non-monogamous relationships are not cheating if all parties are informed. Sexual Gratification Misconception (00:10:11)Explains that sex is a small part of throuple dynamics, emphasizing emotional connections. Jealousy in Relationships (00:11:24)Discusses how jealousy can arise and how trust can mitigate it in throuples. Feeling Left Out (00:12:23)Jennifer shares how communication can prevent feelings of being left out in throuples. Benefits of a Throuple (00:14:51)Highlights the support and resources available in a throuple relationship. Fulfillment of Sexual Experiences (00:16:10)Describes how new partners can enhance sexual experiences and exploration. Challenges of Being in a Throuple (00:17:50)Discusses the potential challenges, including jealousy and societal pressures. Communication and Boundaries (00:21:01)Stresses the importance of communication and boundary-setting in throuple dynamics. Conflict Management Strategies (00:22:16)Provides tips on addressing conflicts and ensuring inclusivity in decision-making. Seeking Professional Help (00:24:33)Encourages seeking therapy or coaching for navigating complex relationship dynamics. Conclusion and Coaching Offer (00:26:48)Wraps up the episode and invites listeners to consider coaching on related topics. Podcast Closing Remarks (00:27:34)Jennifer thanks listeners and encourages them to like, subscribe, and suggest topics for future episodes. Sharing the Podcast (00:27:52)Listeners are invited to share the podcast with friends and partners to spark meaningful conversations. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Kate Shelor's Background (00:02:27)Introduction of Kate as a hypnotherapist and her expertise in subconscious influences on relationships. Exploring OnlyFans (00:03:41)Jennifer shares her experience signing up for OnlyFans to understand its content better. Safety in Content Creation (00:06:04)Discussion on how OnlyFans provides a safer environment for content creators. Connection Over Content (00:10:37)Emphasis on the importance of personal connection in the success of OnlyFans creators. Navigating Personal Insecurities (00:11:07)Kate shares her feelings of insecurity about how followers perceive her. Balancing Professional and Personal Life (00:12:24)Jennifer highlights Kate's multifaceted identity beyond her OnlyFans presence. Journey to Hypnotherapy (00:14:30)Kate shares her personal journey with hypnotherapy and overcoming orgasm challenges. The Importance of Sexual Education (00:15:39)Kate emphasizes the need for open conversations about sexuality and sexual health. Building a Community (00:17:59)Kate describes her motivation to create a supportive community around sexuality. Challenges in Content Creation (00:20:05)Discussion on the difficulties of sharing educational content on social media platforms. Financial Success and Family Support (00:22:10)Kate discusses the financial benefits of her work and her family's acceptance. Censorship Challenges (00:23:55)Discussion on censorship issues faced when discussing sex education on platforms like OnlyFans and Patreon. OnlyFans Exploration (00:24:28)Exploration of OnlyFans as a platform for educational content and personal experiences in creating such content. Business Mindset in Adult Content (00:30:03)Emphasis on treating adult content creation as a business rather than a casual hobby for financial success. Understanding Sexual Dynamics (00:39:00)Discussion on sexual dynamics in relationships and how different drives affect intimacy and connection. Addressing Sexless Marriages (00:40:07)Insight into underlying issues in sexless marriages and the importance of communication and connection. Effective Communication Strategies (00:43:23)Tips on how to approach difficult conversations about intimacy in a constructive and non-pressuring manner. Using 'I Feel' Statements (00:46:36)Explains how to express feelings without accusations to reduce defensiveness in conversations. Seeking Professional Help (00:48:10)Suggests involving a therapist if communication struggles persist, highlighting the importance of tools for conversation. Coaching Through OnlyFans (00:48:13)Kate shares her approach to coaching on OnlyFans and the limitations of her current practice. Men's Experiences on OnlyFans (00:49:06)Explores why men seek advice on OnlyFans, including comfort in discussing personal issues. Shame Around Sexuality (00:50:53)Addresses men's feelings of shame regarding sexuality and perceived porn addiction. Understanding Compulsive Behaviors (00:52:18)Explains how feelings of loneliness and anxiety often lead to compulsive behaviors like porn use. Focusing on Enrichment (00:54:21)Encourages adding positive activities to life rather than fixating on what to avoid. Addressing Shame Cycles (00:55:13)Explores how negative feelings about porn can create a cycle of shame and compulsive behavior. Aligning Values with Actions (00:56:21)Highlights the need to understand personal values in relation to behaviors like porn consumption. Breaking Down the Cycle of Shame (00:58:29)Discusses the harmful impacts of shame-based approaches to porn addiction and the need for understanding. Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations (00:59:08)Acknowledges the importance of having safe environments for discussing sensitive topics like sexuality. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow Kate --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Jealousy and Compassion (00:00:03) Jennifer discusses experiencing compersion and joy on the other side of jealousy and encourages allowing oneself to feel jealousy. Online Coaching Services (00:01:13) Jennifer mentions her online coaching services in the sex and relationships space, focusing on topics such as open relationships, polyamory, swinging, the lifestyle, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Starting with Friendships (00:02:28) Jennifer advises starting friendships with mixed sexes to overcome jealousy and encourages allowing and encouraging partners to have friends of the opposite sex. Breakfast or Lunch Dates (00:04:46) Jennifer suggests trying breakfast or lunch dates as a non-threatening way to overcome jealousy in open relationships. Dinner/Playdate Scenarios (00:05:51) Jennifer discusses moving into dinner/playdate scenarios and the evolving dynamics of open relationships, including setting boundaries and flexibility. Tips to Move Through Jealousy (00:09:46) Jennifer provides three tips to help move through jealousy, including scheduling a massage, journaling, seeking coaching or counseling, and going out with friends. Compassion and Joy (00:11:56) Jennifer discusses the concept of compersion and joy on the other side of jealousy, emphasizing the importance of allowing oneself to feel jealousy and processing through it. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

The spectrum of open relationships (00:00:03) Jennifer, Chad, and Scott discuss the diverse experiences within open relationships, from swinging to polyamory. Introduction to the Open Bedroom podcast (00:01:02) Jennifer introduces the Open Bedroom podcast and her coaching services in the sex and relationships space. Special episode: The husbands of podcasters (00:02:33) Jennifer interviews Chad and Scott, the husbands of podcasters, in a special episode called "Husbands of Podcasters" Boxers or briefs? (00:03:27) The conversation shifts to a lighthearted discussion about men's underwear preferences. Public perception and personal impact (00:11:27) Chad and Scott share their feelings about their partners' public podcasts and the impact on their personal lives. Handling difficult conversations on the podcast (00:18:15) Chad and Scott discuss how they approach sharing personal and sensitive topics on the podcast. Public assumptions and misconceptions (00:24:45) Chad and Scott reflect on the assumptions and misconceptions that arise from their partners' public podcasts. The Reviews (00:26:27) Discussion about the podcast reviews and individual preferences for hearing feedback. Diverse Experiences in Open Relationships (00:27:31) Comparison of experiences as swingers and semi-open polyamorous individuals in open relationships. Negative Experiences from Airing Personal Life (00:29:05) Instances of negative reactions to podcast content and its impact on personal relationships. Supporting Partners' Podcasts (00:35:05) Ways in which the husbands support their partners' podcasts, including promotion and behind-the-scenes help. Coaching Couples Together (00:40:25) Exploring the possibility of coaching couples together and the differing perspectives on it. Individual Podcast Interests (00:42:34) Husbands' personal interests for potential podcast topics, including sports, fishing, behavioral science, and engineering. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow The Confident Swinger --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Tala and Jackie Christensen share their journey of trust-building and experimentation, including the use of psychedelics like MDMA and magic mushrooms, and exploring BDSM. They emphasize the importance of communication and patience in their relationship. The episode also highlights their clothing line, Nerdy and Dirty, which features BDSM-inspired apparel. The conversation provides insights into unconventional sexual practices and their impact on intimacy and connection. Introduction (00:00:00) Exploring non-conventional sexual activities (00:02:14) Guests Tala and Jackie share their experiences with exploring non-conventional sexual activities, including psychedelics, BDSM, and trust-building in their relationship. Background and cultural influences (00:03:25) Tala discusses her conservative upbringing in Jerusalem and the societal taboos surrounding sex, while Jackie shares his motivations for wanting more out of his sex life. The journey of trust-building and experimentation (00:07:14) Jackie and Tala discuss their journey of trust-building, experimentation, and healing in their relationship, including the use of psychedelics and unconventional sexual activities. Introducing unconventional sexual activities (00:08:29) The guests discuss the introduction of BDSM and other unconventional sexual activities in their relationship, including the exploration of new experiences and trust-building. Exploring unconventional sexual activities (00:11:33) The guests delve into the process of introducing unconventional sexual activities and the impact on their relationship, including the challenges and growth experienced. Enhancing intimacy and communication (00:19:56) Jackie discusses how engaging in intimate activities, such as shaving each other's nether regions, has enhanced trust and communication in their relationship. Bonding through trust and comfort (00:20:38) Discussion on building trust and comfort in sexual relationships, including the importance of accepting imperfections. Frequency of drug use and preparation (00:21:14) Exploration of the frequency of drug use in the context of relationship activities and the preparation involved. Extended sexual activities (00:23:05) Description of engaging in sexual activities for extended periods, including the use of MDMA and the effects of different routes of administration. MDMA experience and effects (00:28:34) Guest's experience with MDMA, including heightened sensations, increased openness, and the impact on personal reflection. Psychedelic experiences and reflection (00:34:49) Discussion of the use of magic mushrooms for personal reflection, addressing relationship challenges, and the melting of the ego. The Weeping and Touching (00:40:56) Discussion about the emotional and physical connection during a psychedelic experience. Stem Cells and ED (00:42:08) Conversation about a medical procedure for erectile dysfunction and its success. BDSM Clothing Line (00:43:47) Description of a clothing line inspired by BDSM and its unique features. Closing Thoughts (00:47:13) Encouragement to have an open mind, trusty partner, and try unconventional activities in relationships. Glow Apparel website: https://www.nerdyanddirty.com/ Connect with Jen: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

Exploring Vulva Diversity (00:00:01) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the importance of exploring and understanding the wide diversity of vulvas. Introduction to Open Bedroom Podcast (00:00:51) Host Jennifer Kaylo introduces the Open Bedroom Podcast and its focus on open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Coaching Topics (00:01:08) Jennifer Kaylo highlights the coaching topics she specializes in, including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Setting the Stage for the Discussion (00:02:17) Dr. Alison Ash and Jennifer Kaylo introduce the topic of champ quality pussy pleasure and provide a brief background on their previous conversation about shame. Prioritizing Pussy Pleasure (00:03:23) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of prioritizing pussy pleasure and challenges the shame and biases surrounding it. Personal Experiences and Sexual Awakening (00:04:31) Jennifer Kaylo shares her personal experiences with receiving and giving pussy pleasure, including her sexual awakening and exploration of diverse vulvas. Importance of Communication (00:11:22) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the significance of enthusiastic communication and authentic enjoyment in giving and receiving pleasure. Expressing Pleasure (00:12:56) Jennifer Kaylo and Dr. Alison Ash discuss the significance of vocal expression and authentic pleasure in enhancing the overall experience. Feedback and Communication (00:14:40) Dr. Alison Ash provides tips for both givers and receivers to give and ask for feedback in a comfortable and effective manner. Setting Expectations and Preferences (00:19:35) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of setting expectations and preferences in advance, as well as providing feedback and guidance during sexual encounters. The bossy game (00:22:31) Discussion about using the "bossy game" to navigate new experiences with women and the use of audio porn for masturbation. Pleasuring the pussy (00:24:06) Tips and techniques for pleasuring the female genitalia, including the importance of relaxation and using toys for extended pleasure. Sex education and positions (00:25:13) Discussion about sex education, positions, and techniques for prolonged sexual encounters, including the use of tools and devices. Toys and tools for prolonged sessions (00:27:44) Detailed list of toys and tools recommended for extended sexual encounters, including g-spot stimulators, vibrators, and anal toys. Importance of longer sexual encounters (00:36:35) Emphasizing the importance of longer sexual encounters, exploring foreplay, mental stimulation, and the impact on emotional connection. Madlib for pussy pleasure (00:39:58) Introduction of a handout called "The Guide to My Pussy" for receivers and givers to enhance communication and understanding of preferences. Conclusion and future plans (00:41:49) Expressing excitement for future learning, acknowledging the impact of the conversation, and expressing interest in future collaborations. Follow Jen  Sponsored by Coaching with Jen   Follow Dr. Alison Ash: Instagram @turnon.love Coaching - TurnON.love/coaching Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse - TurnON.love/intimacy On-demand workshops (including How to Eat Pussy like a Champ) - TurnON.love/workshops Live events - www.TurnON.love/events Previous Moving Through Shame Episode: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/episodes/EP113-Moving-Through-Shame-with-Dr--Alison-Ash-e2cvaum --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support