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Author: Dr. Marianne Brandon and Dr. Abe Morgentaler

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Tune in to the Ultimate Podcast on Sexual Health and Relationships! Join clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist Dr. Marianne Brandon, alongside her husband, renowned urologist and sexual medicine specialist Dr. Abraham Morgentaler, for insightful discussions on intimacy, desire, and well-being.

This expert duo dives deep into the science and psychology of sexual health, exploring practical advice on building stronger relationships, enhancing intimacy, and navigating common sexual concerns.

Whether you're looking to improve your relationship or gain a better understanding of sexual health, this podcast offers the expertise you need.
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In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about the off-label use of bremelanotide (Vyleesi/PT-141) in men—its potential benefits for libido/erections, origins, side effects (notably nausea), and how patients often access it via compounding pharmacies. 00:05 – Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler dive into Bremelanotide and share how the Goldsteins have been pioneering its research. 02:08 – They laugh about the iconic Katz’s Deli “When Harry Met Sally” scene and its connection to sexual medicine history. 03:06 – The doctors explain how Bremelanotide works, how it’s used by both women and men, and why refills tell an important story. 08:43 – They tackle the criticism that women take these meds “for men,” pushing back and stressing women’s right to pleasure. 19:48 – Wrapping up, they encourage listeners to talk with their doctors or compounding pharmacies if they want to explore this option. Resources: Goldstein, I., & Goldstein, S. (n.d.). [Abstract on off-label use of Bremelanotide (PT-141) in men: Refill rates and sexual function outcomes]. The Journal of Sexual Medicine. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #BremelanotideForMen #SexualHealthTreatment #OffLabelUse
In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr Morgentaler talk about how affairs can make a couple’s sex life better, worse, or just different—and simple ways to heal and reconnect. 00:16 Understanding the Impact of Affairs: They explain how cheating can change desire and closeness in different ways. 01:12 Nuances in Post-Affair Sexuality: Sex may drop, rise, get more adventurous, or face issues—it depends on the couple. 02:49 Addressing Sexual Dysfunction: They cover anxiety, erection problems, low desire, and using mindfulness or medicine to help. 05:00 Rebuilding Intimacy and Trust: Start slow—talk, apologize, slow dance, gentle touch—and add steps over time. 08:38 Therapeutic Approaches and Conclusion: Therapists help couples heal, try new ways to connect, and keep working together. Resources: Timm, T. M. (2024). The effects of infidelity on the sexual relationship. Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 39(4), 1372–1388. https://doi.org/10.1080/14681994.2023.2283504 Lehmiller, J. J. (2023, June 23). When partners cheat, who do they do it with? Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202304/when-people-cheat-who-do-they-do-it-with With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #PostAffairSexuality #RelationshipRebuilding #SexualDysfunctionTherapy
In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some women cheat through an evolutionary lens, how parenting can dull desire, and simple ways couples can rekindle passion while staying connected. 00:09 Discussing the Article: Why Women Cheat: They talk about a study on why some women cheat. 00:49 Evolutionary Perspective on Cheating: From a science view, some marry “good dads” but seek excitement elsewhere. 02:47 Parenting and Sexual Dynamics: Raising kids can make life less romantic and lower desire. 05:33 Rekindling Passion in Long-Term Relationships: Make space, try new things, and rebuild closeness step by step. 15:29 Conclusion and Recommendations: Most women still prefer their partner; talk openly and try the tips. Resources: Murphy, M., Phillips, C. A., & Blake, K. R. (2024). Why women cheat: Testing evolutionary hypotheses for female infidelity in a multinational sample. Evolution and Human Behavior, 45(5), 106595. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2024.106595 Brandon, M. (2014). Unlocking the sexy in surrender: Using the neuroscience of power to recharge your sex life [Kindle eBook]. Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HS9FNMQ With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #EvolutionaryPsychology #RelationshipPassion #InfidelityStudies
In this episode Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the Match.com Singles in America survey with the Kinsey Institute, exploring how modern singles view sex, porn, love, and relationships across generations. 00:14 Match.com Survey Insights — Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss key findings from the Singles in America survey with over 75,000 participants. 06:02 Singles' Beliefs and Relationship Expectations — They explore statistics on porn use, emotional disconnects, and the belief in “one true love.” 12:49 Rising Trends in Marriage and Singlehood — The doctors highlight how rates of never-married adults and sexless marriages are reshaping social norms. 17:21 The Role of Sexual Chemistry and Cultural Shifts — They reflect on why 90% of singles prioritize chemistry and how media and porn influence expectations. 20:12 Gen Z's Unique Perspectives on Relationships — They unpack Gen Z’s conservative stance on sex, intentional celibacy, and uncertainty about long-term commitments. Resources: Match and The Kinsey Institute (2025). Singles in America: 14th annual study. Match Group. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DatingTrends #RelationshipInsights #SexualBehaviorSurvey
In this episode Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about whether the time of day really matters for testosterone testing, challenging the old “only in the morning” rule and showing how real-world evidence proves it makes little difference. 00:43 Debating Testosterone Testing Times – The doctors question the long-standing rule that testosterone must be tested in the morning. 04:56 Research Findings and Implications – A large study shows no real difference between morning and afternoon testosterone levels. 14:36 Understanding Testosterone Levels and Libido – They explain that libido doesn’t rise and fall with small shifts in testosterone throughout the day. 15:20 Challenges with Testosterone Testing Protocols – Insurance rules forcing two morning tests create unnecessary hurdles for patients. 18:02 Debunking Myths and Practical Advice – The doctors stress that symptoms and context matter more than rigid numbers on a lab sheet. Resources: Novaes, L. F., Flores, J. M., Benfante, N., Schofield, E., Katz, D. J., Nelson, C. J., & Mulhall, J. P. (2024). Analysis of diurnal variation in serum testosterone levels in men with symptoms of testosterone deficiency. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 21(5), 408–413. https://doi.org/10.1093/jsxmed/qdae026 Crawford, E. D. (1997). Prostate Cancer Awareness Week: September 22 to 28, 1997. CA: A Cancer Journal for Clinicians, 47(5), 288–296. https://doi.org/10.3322/canjclin.47.5.288 Mulhall, J. P., Trost, L. W., Brannigan, R. E., Kurtz, E. G., Redmon, J. B., Chiles, K. A., Lightner, D. J., Miner, M. M., Murad, M. H., Nelson, C. J., Platz, E. A., Ramanathan, L. V., & Lewis, R. W. (2018; valid through 2024). Evaluation and management of testosterone deficiency: AUA guideline. The Journal of Urology, 200, 423. https://www.auanet.org/guidelines-and-quality/guidelines/testosterone-deficiency-guideline Morgentaler, A., et al. (2015). Fundamental concepts regarding testosterone deficiency and treatment: International expert consensus. Mayo Clinic Proceedings. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTesting #DiurnalVariation #HealthInsuranceRules
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how technology is reshaping intimacy, friendships, and sex, warning that without mindful effort to connect in person, future generations may default to tech over human relationships. 00:07 The Impact of Technology on Human Interaction – They explore how our shift from face-to-face contact to device time is changing the way we relate to each other. 01:07 Screen Time and Human Connection – They share personal stories about shocking screen-time stats and how constant device use is eroding real-life connection. 03:53 Intimacy with Technology – They explain how people are forming emotional and sexual bonds with chatbots and other tech, often feeling lonelier in the long run. 05:30 The Rise of Non-Human Romance – They discuss younger generations’ growing preference for fantasy and non-human partners in porn and romance media. 12:55 The Future of Human Relationships – They predict that without mindful action, more people will choose tech-based intimacy over real partners, altering human connection as we know it. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TechImpactOnIntimacy #ShiftInRomanticPreferences #PreservingHumanInteraction
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how testosterone can, in the right patients, be an effective solo treatment for erectile dysfunction despite common medical guidelines saying otherwise. 00:06 Testosterone and Erectile Dysfunction: The Debate – They kick things off by questioning the common belief that testosterone alone can’t fix ED. 00:54 Understanding the Traverse Study – They break down why a big study seemed to show testosterone doesn’t help erections—and why its results are misleading. 03:20 The Role of Testosterone in Erections – They explain how testosterone, nerves, and blood flow all have to work together for healthy erections. 08:59 Clinical Insights and Patient Experiences – Dr. Morgentaler shares real-world stories of men whose ED improved dramatically once their testosterone levels were restored. 19:43 Conclusion and Final Thoughts – They wrap up by stressing that while guidelines matter, treating each patient as an individual is the real key. Resources - TRAVERSE Study Bhasin, S., Snyder, P. J., Cunningham, G. R., Matsumoto, A. M., Stephens-Shields, A. J., Cauley, J. A., Gill, T. M., Barrett-Connor, E., Swerdloff, R. S., Wang, C., Ensrud, K. E., Lewis, C. E., Budoff, M. J., Cohen, B., Pahor, M., Kenny, A. M., & Ellenberg, S. S. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 The Testosterone Trials (2016) Snyder, P. J., Bhasin, S., Cunningham, G. R., Matsumoto, A. M., Stephens-Shields, A. J., Cauley, J. A., Gill, T. M., Barrett-Connor, E., Swerdloff, R. S., Wang, C., Ensrud, K. E., Lewis, C. E., Hou, X., Hou, X., Budoff, M. J., Ellenberg, S. S., & The Testosterone Trials Investigators. (2016). Effects of testosterone treatment in older men. The New England Journal of Medicine, 374(7), 611–624. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa1506119 2018 American Urological Association Guidelines on Erectile Dysfunction Burnett, A. L., Nehra, A., Breau, R. H., Culkin, D. J., Faraday, M. M., Hakim, L. S., Heidelbaugh, J. J., Khera, M., Kirkby, E., McVary, K. T., Miner, M. M., Nelson, C. J., Sadovsky, R., Seftel, A. D., Shindel, A. W., & SOP Committee. (2018). Erectile dysfunction: AUA guideline. The Journal of Urology, 200(3), 633–641. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.juro.2018.05.004 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneAndED #TestosteroneTherapy #UnderstandingED
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how keeping both tender lovemaking and raw, passionate sex in a relationship is essential for long-term intimacy, excitement, and connection. 00:18 Discussing Creative Sex Life Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explore why variety and creativity keep intimacy exciting over time. 01:23 The Importance of Language in Sex They explain how specific words shape understanding and emotional impact in intimacy. 02:38 Defining Different Types of Sex They break down the differences between lovemaking, sex, and raw, passionate encounters. 08:03 Challenges in Modern Relationships They address how porn and technology can pull primal energy away from partnerships. 15:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts They emphasize that balancing tenderness and passion is key to lasting connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #HealthyIntimacy #RelationshipDynamics #SexualExpression
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about low libido in men, and how psychological, physical, and emotional factors can all play a role in a guy’s desire—or lack thereof. 00:22 – Understanding Low Libido in Men Low libido means not feeling the urge for sex, even if everything seems physically fine. 10:23 – Psychological and Physical Factors Stress, depression, meds, or low testosterone can all mess with a guy’s sex drive. 15:41 – Understanding Delayed Side Effects of Medications Some meds don’t kill your libido right away—it can take weeks or even months. 16:54 – Exploring Low Libido and Testosterone Levels Doctors check testosterone if libido’s low, but it’s not always the full story. 18:30 – Addressing Psychological and Emotional Factors Feeling disconnected, stuck, or unhappy in life can tank your desire without you realizing it. In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about low libido in men, and how psychological, physical, and emotional factors can all play a role in a guy’s desire—or lack thereof. 00:22 – Understanding Low Libido in Men Low libido means not feeling the urge for sex, even if everything seems physically fine. 10:23 – Psychological and Physical Factors Stress, depression, meds, or low testosterone can all mess with a guy’s sex drive. 15:41 – Understanding Delayed Side Effects of Medications Some meds don’t kill your libido right away—it can take weeks or even months. 16:54 – Exploring Low Libido and Testosterone Levels Doctors check testosterone if libido’s low, but it’s not always the full story. 18:30 – Addressing Psychological and Emotional Factors Feeling disconnected, stuck, or unhappy in life can tank your desire without you realizing it. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some men fake orgasms, what causes it, how common it actually is, and how emotional pressure, physical challenges, and even kindness can all play a role. 00:50 – The Case of the Young Man A young man starts faking orgasms to avoid hurting his girlfriend’s feelings when he can’t climax during sex. 04:20 – Understanding Male Orgasm Challenges Some men struggle to orgasm during intercourse, even though they can climax through masturbation. 12:40 – Understanding Early Sexual Experiences How a guy learns to masturbate early on can shape how his body responds to sex later in life. 15:48 – The Ethics of Faking Orgasms Faking orgasms might seem harmless, but over time it can damage trust and intimacy in a relationship. 24:03 – The Impact of Technology on Sexual Relationships With rising pressure around sex, more people are turning to tech and sex toys for no-stress satisfaction. In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some men fake orgasms, what causes it, how common it actually is, and how emotional pressure, physical challenges, and even kindness can all play a role. 00:50 – The Case of the Young Man A young man starts faking orgasms to avoid hurting his girlfriend’s feelings when he can’t climax during sex. 04:20 – Understanding Male Orgasm Challenges Some men struggle to orgasm during intercourse, even though they can climax through masturbation. 12:40 – Understanding Early Sexual Experiences How a guy learns to masturbate early on can shape how his body responds to sex later in life. 15:48 – The Ethics of Faking Orgasms Faking orgasms might seem harmless, but over time it can damage trust and intimacy in a relationship. 24:03 – The Impact of Technology on Sexual Relationships With rising pressure around sex, more people are turning to tech and sex toys for no-stress satisfaction. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler have a special guest, Patience, on their podcast—they talk about how working in gentleman’s clubs has shaped her confidence, challenged stereotypes, and revealed the complex ways technology is changing intimacy, connection, and sexuality. 00:00 – Intro and First Guest Announcement Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler introduce Patience, their very first guest, bringing a fresh, personal perspective from inside the gentleman’s club world. 00:38 – Patience's Journey into the Gentleman’s Club Industry Patience shares how curiosity and a spontaneous audition in London led to a decade-long, empowering career across the U.S. and U.K. 02:30 – Impact of Technology on the Industry She reflects on how tech has made human interactions feel more superficial, changing the energy and dynamics in clubs and dating. 16:53 – Debunking Misconceptions About the Industry Patience challenges the idea that working in clubs is degrading, emphasizing choice, dignity, and the humanity behind the role. 17:43 – Empowerment and Skills Gained She explains how the job taught her communication, patience, emotional intelligence, and self-respect—skills she’ll carry for life. 20:30 – Navigating Relationships and Sexuality Patience opens up about owning her sexuality, setting boundaries, and how the job helped her better understand intimacy and emotional connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexIndustryInsights #TechImpactOnDancing #EmpowermentInStripping
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how advances in sex tech are blurring the lines of infidelity, making it harder for couples to agree on what counts as cheating—and why open, ongoing conversations are more important than ever. 00:00 – Intro to Modern Infidelity Dr. Brandon opens the conversation by exploring how technology is complicating traditional views on what it means to be unfaithful. 00:53 – Defining Cheating in the Digital Age She breaks down how behaviors like sexting with chatbots or forming emotional bonds with AI blur the lines of infidelity. 01:31 – The Impact of VR Porn Dr. Brandon explains how VR porn creates a deeper sense of intimacy and physiological response compared to traditional porn. 03:11 – Gender Differences in Perceptions She highlights that men tend to be more lenient than women when it comes to defining cheating through sex tech. 04:06 – The Importance of Communication Dr. Brandon urges couples to have open conversations about boundaries, even if they disagree, to avoid silent assumptions. 05:13 – Finding Compromises and Solutions She encourages couples to explore compromises and possibly integrate sex tech together, fostering connection instead of conflict. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexTech #DigitalInfidelity #RelationshipCommunication
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon dive into the alarming drop in testosterone levels over the past few decades, why it's happening, and what it could mean for men's health, fertility, and our future. 00:09 – Declining Testosterone Levels: An Overview Testosterone levels in men have been quietly dropping for decades—and it’s starting to raise big questions. 00:22 – Key Studies on Testosterone Decline Major long-term studies show a 15% drop in testosterone over just one generation, and no one knows exactly why. 01:32 – Smoking and Testosterone: Surprising Findings Oddly enough, smokers have higher testosterone—though no one’s saying it’s worth the trade. 04:08 – Environmental and Lifestyle Factors From plastics to obesity, something in our modern world is messing with men's hormones—and we're only scratching the surface. 16:27 – Conclusions and Future Directions We don’t have all the answers yet, but staying lean and rethinking our plastic use might be a good place to start. Resources: Feldman, H. A., Longcope, C., Derby, C. A., Johannes, C. B., Araujo, A. B., Coviello, A. D., ... & McKinlay, J. B. (2002). Age trends in the level of serum testosterone and other hormones in middle-aged men: Longitudinal results from the Massachusetts Male Aging Study. The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 87(2), 589–598. https://doi.org/10.1210/jcem.87.2.8201 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DecliningTestosterone #MaleHealth #EnvironmentalImpact
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler talks about how low testosterone—not high—might actually be the real risk factor for prostate cancer, challenging decades of outdated beliefs. 00:28 – Historical Beliefs and Misconceptions For decades, doctors thought testosterone fueled prostate cancer like gas on a fire—but that fear was based on outdated science. 03:27 – The Traverse Trial: Debunking Myths A massive 2023 study proved testosterone therapy doesn’t raise prostate cancer risk—finally putting that old myth to rest. 06:00 – Exploring Low Testosterone as a Risk Factor Now the big question is: could low testosterone actually make prostate cancer more likely? 06:56 – Gleason Scores and Testosterone Levels Turns out, the more aggressive the cancer, the lower the testosterone levels tend to be. 11:25 – Animal Studies and Final Thoughts Even lab studies in rats and cancer cells suggest low testosterone may feed tumor growth—flipping the old story on its head. Resources: Huggins and Hodges (1941) Huggins, C., & Hodges, C. V. (1941). Studies on prostatic cancer: The effect of castration, of estrogen and of androgen injection on serum phosphatases in metastatic carcinoma of the prostate. Cancer Research, 1(4), 293–297. TRAVERSE Trial (2023) Lincoff, A. M., Nissen, S. E., Wolski, K., Bhatnagar, A., Glasser, D. B., Picard, D. W., ... & Thirumalai, S. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 388(8), 698–710. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 Chu et al. (Lab study) Chuu, C. P., Chen, R. Y., Kokontis, J. M., Hiipakka, R. A., & Liao, S. (2009). Suppression of androgen receptor signaling and prostate specific antigen expression by (−)-gossypol in prostate cancer cells. The Prostate, 69(1), 31–40. https://doi.org/10.1002/pros.20849 Tu et al. (PSA levels and testosterone) Tu, X. M., Lu, Y. Y., Zhang, S. H., Zhang, W., & Wang, H. (2014). The relationship between serum testosterone and prostate-specific antigen levels in men with benign prostatic hyperplasia and prostate cancer. Asian Journal of Andrology, 16(5), 757–761. https://doi.org/10.4103/1008-682X.126384 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ProstateCancerMyths #TestosteroneTherapy #LowTestosteroneRisks
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how chatbots are becoming digital lovers and emotional crutches—and why that’s both fascinating and deeply worrying for real human relationships. 00:33 – The Rise of Chatbots Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how chatbots are becoming more realistic—and how they’re designed to build emotional bonds for profit. 02:23 – Impact on Relationships They also explore how young people are turning to chatbots for love, comfort, and even sex—and what that means for real relationships. 05:39 – Real-Life Examples and Concerns They also share wild stories from real users, plus stats that show how many people prefer AI companions over actual humans. 10:46 – Chatbot Demonstration They also test one live on the podcast, showing how calm, kind, and dangerously convincing a chatbot can sound. 22:13 – Final Thoughts and Conclusion They wrap up by warning parents to talk to their kids and reminding everyone: nothing replaces real human connection. Resources: Skjuve, M. B., Følstad, A., Fostervold, K. I., & Brandtzaeg, P. B. (2022). A longitudinal study of human–chatbot relationships. International Journal of Human–Computer Studies, 168, Article 102903. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ijhcs.2022.102903 Willoughby, B. J., Carroll, J. S., Dover, C. R., & Hakala, R. H. (2025). Counterfeit Connections: The Rise of Romantic AI Companions and AI Sexualized Media Among the Rising Generation [Survey report]. Wheatley Institute, Brigham Young University. Retrieved from https://wheatley.byu.edu/Counterfeit-Connections-AI-Romantic-Companions With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #AIChatbots #DigitalCompanionship #PrivacyConcerns
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how chatbots are becoming digital companions and even "therapists"—but warns they’re no substitute for real human connection. 00:21 – Capabilities of Chatbots Dr. Brandon talks about how advanced chatbots have become—some even act like friends, partners, or therapists. 01:33 – Chatbots in Therapy and Companionship She also mentions that many people use chatbots for emotional support, but warns they’re not real therapists. 02:33 – Live Chatbot Interaction Example She also shares a live example of a chatbot that sounds super human, warm, and emotionally aware. 04:33 – Risks and Concerns with Chatbots She also brings up serious risks like false info, lack of privacy, and how chatbots can actually make loneliness worse. 07:28 – Final Thoughts and Recommendations She also recommends using chatbots with caution—don’t let them replace real people or real therapy. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ChatbotConcerns #DigitalCompanionship #AItherapy
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how early exposure to porn is shaping young people’s views on sex, causing confusion, unrealistic expectations, and lasting effects on their brains and relationships. 00:24 – Early Exposure to Porn and Its Effects Dr. Brandon says most kids see porn around age 12, which can shape how they think about sex for years. 02:47 – Research Insights and Real-World Implications Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon share studies showing many college women were choked during sex and link this trend to lessons learned from porn. 13:20 – Adolescent Brain and Porn Exposure Dr. Brandon explains that teen brains rewire fast, so watching porn early can lock in what turns them on. 14:49 – Impact of Porn on Sexual Expectations Dr. Morgentaler notes that porn can give young men unreal ideas about body size and how quickly sex should start. 20:10 – Parental Guidance and Modern Challenges Dr. Brandon urges parents to talk early and often about porn, because filters help but kids still see it outside the home. Resources: Pfaus, J. G. (2009). Who, what, where, when (and maybe even why): How the experience of sexual reward connects desire, preference, and performance. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 38(6), 901–914. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-009-9526-0 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #AdolescentBrainDevelopment #ImpactOfPornOnYouth #SexEducationResponsibility
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how sex tech hijacks our natural instincts by acting as a "supernormal stimulus"—something manmade that satisfies primal urges even more powerfully than nature ever could—and why it's especially compelling for men. 00:04 – Understanding Supernormal Stimuli Dr. Brandon explains that sex tech grabs our attention because it’s made to feel even more exciting than what’s natural. 00:42 – Bird Experiments and Supernormal Stimuli She tells a story about birds choosing fake mates or eggs that looked more extreme, showing how easy it is to trick instincts. 02:25 – Food as Supernormal Stimuli She says apple pie is more tempting than a regular apple, just like manmade things can feel stronger than nature. 03:50 – Sex Tech as Supernormal Stimuli Dr. Brandon says sex tech, like VR porn or toys, feels more powerful than real-life stuff, which is why people want it so much. 05:06 – Gender Differences in Sex Tech She explains how men and women react differently to sex tech, like how they act at strip clubs, because of deep instincts. 07:19 – Conclusion and Final Thoughts Dr. Brandon reminds us to enjoy sex tech wisely and not let it take the place of real connection with others. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexTech #SupernormalStimulus #MindfulIntimacy
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how testosterone levels relate to age, weight, vitality, and long-term health—highlighting surprising research, the impact of obesity, and why staying lean may be the secret to aging well. 00:08 Testosterone and Aging: An Overview Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon open the episode with a candid look at how aging affects testosterone—and why it’s more complex than most people think. 01:00 Symptoms and Diagnosis of Low Testosterone From low libido to lack of vitality, they explore subtle signs of low testosterone and the importance of testing even when symptoms aren’t obvious. 03:42 Research Insights on Testosterone Levels They break down surprising research showing that average testosterone levels may not decline as much with age—but free testosterone tells a different story. 09:39 Impact of Weight and Lifestyle on Testosterone The doctors highlight how obesity is a major driver of low testosterone and explain how weight loss or GLP-1s can help restore healthy levels. 16:48 Concluding Thoughts and Final Tips The episode wraps with key takeaways: stay lean, stay engaged, and don’t overlook testosterone—especially in overweight or aging men. Resources: Wu, F. C. W., Tajar, A., Beynon, J. M., Pye, S. R., Silman, A. J., Finn, J. D., ... & Forti, G. (2010). Identification of late-onset hypogonadism in middle-aged and elderly men. New England Journal of Medicine, 363(2), 123–135. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa0911101 Wu, F. C. W., Tajar, A., Pye, S. R., Silman, A. J., Finn, J. D., O’Neill, T. W., ... & EMAS Group. (2008). Hypothalamic-pituitary-testicular axis disruptions in older men are linked to age and modifiable risk factors: The European Male Ageing Study. The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 93(7), 2737–2745. https://doi.org/10.1210/jc.2007-1972 Huhtaniemi, I., Forti, G., & EMAS Study Group. (2012). Profile of the European Male Ageing Study (EMAS): Background, aims, and study design. Archives of Gerontology and Geriatrics, 54(3), e547–e556. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.archger.2011.11.014 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MensHealth #TestosteroneLevels #HealthyAging
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how porn impacts adults and kids differently, why it’s becoming the main source of sex education for young people, and why parents need to start having real conversations about it. 00:00 – Introduction and Controversy of Porn In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler open up a real, honest conversation about why porn is still such a hot-button topic. 00:47 – Gender Differences in Porn Consumption They break down how men and women often view porn differently—and how that shows up in therapy sessions. 03:19 – Impact of Porn on Youth and Society The doctors dig into how kids are being exposed to porn too early, and how it's replacing real sex education. 12:19 – The Impact of Aggressive Pornography They discuss the rise of aggressive sexual behaviors like choking—and how porn may be shaping young people’s ideas of “normal.” 13:57 – Reasons People Watch Porn Turns out, people don’t just watch porn because they’re horny—it can serve lots of emotional and mental roles, like boredom or stress relief. 18:32 – Concerns About Kids and AI As AI enters the picture, they warn that kids might turn to tech for sexual and emotional connection, with real risks for future relationships. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #PornographyDiscussion #YouthAndPorn #HealthySexEducation
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