The Stay or Go Podcast for Women Considering Divorce

<p>No more wasting years stuck in indecision. Life Coach Britta Jo shares insights and wisdom from years of coaching women considering divorce. Discussing everything from your fears about how it'll impact your kids to how inevitable affairs become when you're starving for love, it's an authentic and no shame approach to considering divorce. Listen in and leave each episode knowing it's your life and you can live it unapologetic and confident no matter what you choose. </p>

Three Life-Changing Concepts for Your Considering Divorce Journey

#42: Oh, y’all, this episode is buzzing with energy because I’m back in my flow! 🌊 After a few weeks of slowing down and leaning into the ebb, I’m here to share what it feels like to embrace the natural rhythms of life—and how that can completely transform the way you approach challenges like divorce or deep personal decisions. 💫This week, I’m diving into three foundational principles that have been life-changing for me and my clients:✨ How your beliefs shape your reality (yes, it’s time to c...

01-21
58:49

When the Pain Feels Too Big: Navigating Depression and Connection

#41: Hey there, loves. This week’s episode is raw, real, and deeply personal 💔. I’m diving into something I’m currently in the thick of—navigating the waves of depression through the lens of complex PTSD and the abandonment depression cycle, inspired by Pete Walker’s incredible book.I share how a tough week with my oldest son has brought up layers of emotional triggers that connect back to deep childhood wounds. Together, we’ll explore what this cycle looks like—emotional flashbacks, spiralin...

01-14
01:26:41

There Is a Better Way: Reclaiming Women’s Desires and Soul Calls in 2025

#40: Welcome to the first episode of 2025, y’all! 🎉 I’m already obsessed with this year. In this episode, I’m reflecting on the magic of 2024—the year that showed me just how life-changing healthy, secure relationships can be. 💖 From deep personal growth to experiencing what it’s like to truly thrive in love and partnership, last year was a game-changer. And yes, I’m spilling all the details, including my rom-com-worthy New Year’s Eve moment. 🥰✨But this isn’t just about me—it’s about what’s p...

01-07
50:37

Why Your Timeline Is Perfect: Reframing Divorce Decisions for the New Year

#39: ✨ Hey, beautiful souls! As we stand on the threshold of a brand-new year, this episode is your heartfelt invitation to pause, reflect, and exhale. 🧘‍♀️ Together, we’ll unpack some of the sneaky feelings that tend to creep in around this time—like frustration with your timeline, shame about where you think you "should" be, or the endless loop of comparison to others.I’m sharing a transformative tool I’ve been loving lately, inspired by 10x Is Easier Than 2X, to help you reframe your persp...

12-31
01:02:15

When Staying Feels Wrong: Trusting Your Intuition Over His Efforts

#38: Have you ever wondered, If he’s trying so hard now, why don’t I feel like staying? You’re not alone, my loves. In this fiery and truth-packed episode, I tackle one of the most confusing and emotionally draining dynamics I see in women considering divorce: when your partner suddenly does a complete 180—but your heart and body still say, “No.” ❤️‍🩹Together, we’ll explore the emotional rollercoaster of guilt, relief, and self-doubt, uncovering why his efforts might feel too little, too late...

12-24
01:27:50

The Stay or Go Community

#37: 🎉 Today’s episode is a heartfelt, behind-the-scenes dive into something truly special I’ve been building—a space that’s more than a community; it’s a movement. I’m peeling back the curtain to share the vision, the energy, and the life-changing experiences inside The Stay or Go Community. 🌟From the courage to embrace your bigness to finding joy and support while navigating one of life’s hardest decisions, this episode is all about creating a revolutionary sisterhood for women like you. 💪✨...

12-17
01:28:12

The Bold Vision: Expanding the Stay or Go Mission and Impact for 2025

#36: Hey, y’all! 🙋‍♀️ Today’s episode is a heart-to-heart about evolution, intuition, and embracing where our soul is calling us. ✨ I dive into the big shifts happening in my work and vision for the Stay or Go community, along with how listening to your inner voice transforms not just your decisions but your entire life. 💪I share what led me to this moment—from reflections on trauma healing, trusting the soul over fear, and finding clarity on how I can best serve YOU. Spoiler: the podcast and...

12-10
47:31

From Closet to Confidence: Stephanie’s Journey Considering Divorce and Beyond

#35: Hello, hello, y’all! 🌟 I am beyond thrilled to bring you today’s episode—this one is truly special. I finally got to sit down with Stephanie, a woman I had the honor of coaching through one of the hardest decisions of her life. In this heartfelt conversation, she bravely shares her journey: from navigating the darkest moments of her marriage to slowly, deliberately building a life she loves after divorce.Stephanie’s story is raw, real, and oh-so-inspiring. We talk about everything—from w...

12-03
01:08:04

Following the Call of Fear Into Your Brilliance

#34: Hey loves! This week, we’re wrapping up a month-long theme in the community that has been absolutely transformational: Dancing with Fear. 💃✨ While we often view fear as something to avoid, I’m inviting you to see it as a sacred signal—a call to grow, expand, and step into your brilliance. This episode is packed with insights from my own journey, community breakthroughs, and powerful tools to shift your relationship with fear.We’ll dive into:🌟 How to differentiate between fear rooted in p...

11-26
55:08

Election Results 2024: A Pause for Grieving and Holding Each Other in the Face of Oppression

#33: Hey everyone, this episode gets personal. After an intense week of emotions, I’m inviting you to join me in exploring the power of pausing. Last week’s election stirred up so much anger, grief, and reflection on what it means to live in a patriarchal world. I’m sharing how sometimes, the most radical act is simply to rest, feel, and give ourselves permission to be still.If you’ve been feeling the weight of it all, know you’re not alone. Let’s talk about why rest is resistance, and how ho...

11-12
39:50

Dancing With Fear: 3 Tips to Help You Get Unstuck and Take the Next Right Step

#32: Hey gorgeous souls! 💫 Buckle up for today’s super amazing episode where we’re flipping fear on its head. Picture this: moody Texas weather swirling with fog, a vibe full of tension and mystery, setting the perfect stage to dive into our biggest, juiciest fears. But don’t worry—we’re not here to run from them. Nope, we’re here to learn how to dance with them. 💃🔥We’re getting real about how fear grips us when we're on the brink of a life-altering decision, like whether to stay or go in you...

11-05
01:10:46

Kids and Divorce - Part 2: Post-divorce Outcomes (With Quinn Otrera From the Post-divorce Glow-up Show)

#31: Hey y'all, in this episode, Quinn and I dive into life after divorce and all the changes that come with it. 🌿 From navigating new relationships to balancing co-parenting and work, we explore how to embrace the "crisis period" (those first two chaotic years) and use it as an opportunity for growth.We share personal stories, insights from For Better or For Worse: Divorce Reconsidered by E. Mavis Hetherington, and talk about how change, while hard, doesn’t have to be negative. 💪 Whether you...

10-22
02:04:02

Kids & Divorce - Part 1: Disadvantages and Benefits (With Quinn Otrera from The Post-Divorce Glow-up Show)

#30: In this episode, I’m joined by my bestie and coach, Quinn Otrera from the "Post-Divorce Glow-Up Show" podcast, to tackle a question so many of you ask: Will divorce ruin my kids’ lives? 💔👶 This is part one of our deep dive into the fears and challenges surrounding kids and divorce.Quinn and I open up about our own worries—how we feared our kids would struggle emotionally, fall behind in school, or feel completely lost after our divorces. We break down where these fears come from and what...

10-15
01:54:11

How Your Journey Through Considering Divorce Teaches Resilience for Every Chapter Ahead

#29: Hey everyone! After a whirlwind week, I felt the need to drop this episode because the energy right now is wild. If you’re feeling unexpected shifts in your life or relationship, especially if you’re considering divorce, know you’re not alone. 🌙✨Life threw a curveball at me this week, so today’s episode is all about navigating those intense, unpredictable changes. Whether you're making bold moves or dealing with surprises from your partner, remember: this is part of your evolution. 💪I’ll...

10-11
01:41:17

Releasing the Fear of Making a Wrong Decision

#28: Hey loves! 🌸 In this episode, we’re diving into some powerful truths about life and decision-making. I share personal stories, including how stepping into a new, fulfilling relationship has transformed my life and motherhood.We talk about:1️⃣ Releasing the fear of making the wrong decision.2️⃣ Trusting your inner knowing to guide you.3️⃣ Embracing imperfection as part of your journey. 🌱Whether you’re feeling pressure to get it "right" or navigating uncertainty, this episode will help you...

09-24
01:09:29

Trusting the Timing of Your Journey in Divorce Decisions

#27: Hey, loves! This week, we’re diving into the power of trusting the timing of your life—whether you’re navigating big decisions like staying or leaving your marriage or handling unexpected twists. I’ll share personal stories, like how I knew I was getting divorced a year before filing and how that extra time was a blessing. We’ll talk about letting go of guilt, the fear of missing out, and why slowing down can actually help you make clearer decisions. Plus, I’ll tell you about a canc...

09-17
59:02

My Life Post-Divorce: Better Than I Ever Imagined

#26: Hey there, beautiful souls! 🌟 In this episode, I’m sharing the powerful transformation I’ve experienced since my divorce—from fear and uncertainty to a life filled with joy, freedom, and deep connection.I’ll talk about how stepping into the unknown led me to create a life that’s richer than I ever imagined. I’ve found true freedom in having my own space, and I’ve discovered a relationship that’s built on empathy, mutual support, and a love that nurtures my soul. 💖But it hasn’t been witho...

09-03
01:43:13

Embracing Anger as a Catalyst for Change (With Quinn Otrera from the Post-Divorce Glow-Up Show)

#25: Hey loves! 💛 Today, I’m sitting down with my bestie, Quinn, to talk about something we all feel but often avoid—anger. That fiery emotion many of us, especially when considering divorce, are told to suppress.Quinn and I dive into how anger shows up in our lives and why it’s crucial to face it head-on. Anger isn’t something to fear—it’s a powerful signal that something needs to change. We share personal stories and insights on how embracing your anger can lead to breakthroughs, healing, a...

08-27
01:21:44

Feel First, Decide Later: Emotions as the Key to Divorce Clarity - Part 2

#24: Hey loves, in this episode, we’re diving deep into the sacred art of being with our bodies. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed or disconnected, this guided journey will help you ground down, tune in, and just breathe through whatever is coming up for you.Together, we’ll explore how to drop out of our busy minds and gently reconnect with our bodies. You might notice tingling, tightness, or even some big emotions rising up. Whatever shows up, it’s all okay—your body knows exactly how to pr...

08-13
19:00

Feel First, Decide Later: Emotions as the Key to Divorce Clarity - Part 1

#24: Hey loves, it's been a minute since I last recorded, and today's episode is all about getting real and raw. I'm diving deep into the messy, uncertain parts of my own journey—especially around what it means to live a good life, and how to handle all the emotions that come with it. If you're considering divorce, you're really going to connect with this one.I'll share some personal struggles, including a recent, challenging moment with my teenage son that left me questioning everything abou...

08-13
35:52

Jill Dear

all the way from New Zealand; this podcast has been life-changing. the first podcast of hundreds I have listened to that truly resonates. thankyou, from the bottom of my heart

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