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Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners

Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners
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Welcome to the Unfilteredd Podcast. On this show, we interview therapists to help you build a life free from the effects of narcissistic abuse that reflects who you truly want to be.
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In today’s episode, Juliana teaches you how to make sense of your reactions, how to recognize reactive abuse, and what you can do to begin healing and moving forward.
Who Am I?
Purpose:
To help you build an identity that belongs to you.
Instructions:
Start by outlining the different pieces that make up a person’s identity.
Here are some categories you can use:
- Traits
- Values
- Beliefs
- Hobbies
- Fears
- Passions
- Skills
- Goals
- Career
For each one, write down as many things as you can that fall under that category.
Example: Under traits, you might list: thoughtful, creative, independent.
Pro Tip:
You can use AI tools like ChatGPT to help brainstorm ideas for each category.
Here’s a prompt you can use:
“Can you give me a list of [insert category, like ‘values’ or ‘fears’] that could help someone explore their identity and better understand who they are or want to become?”
Once you’ve finished, go back through your lists and circle the ones that feel most true to who you are or who you want to become.
Then, each morning, choose one of the circled items and find a small way to explore or express it during the day.
Example:
If you circled “creativity,” you might:
- Cook a meal without a recipe
- Write a short poem about your day
- Make something by hand — a card, a drawing, a piece of pottery
At the end of the day, write down what you did, how it felt, and what impact it had on you.
Final Thoughts:
Do this for as many days as you can, and save all the reflections you write.
Over time, you’ll be able to use them to guide yourself toward more of what felt good and had a positive impact and less of what felt bad and had a negative impact.
This is how you begin to build an identity that belongs to you.
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana teaches you how to begin unlearning the harmful behaviors your ex made you believe were normal.
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana teaches you how to overcome the pain of feeling used by your ex.
Listen to This Next: Do This With Good Memories of Your Narcissistic Ex
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana shows you how to add context to the good memories you have about your ex — so you can keep the good memories without keeping the person who hurt you.
Listen to This Next: 5 Things Narcissists Want in a Relationship
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana breaks down the five things narcissists want in a relationship — and why no matter how much you give, it will never be enough.
Listen to This Next: If Your Narcissistic Ex Has a New Partner, Listen to This
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana explains why your narcissistic ex is treating their new partner better, and why it’s just the start of the same toxic cycle, not proof that they’ve changed.
Listen to This Next: How to Explain Your Narcissistic Relationship to Others
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana teaches you how to explain your narcissistic relationship to others by answering six important questions.
Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction
02:23 – Question One
02:52 – Question Two
03:55 – Question Three
05:21 – Question Four
06:02 – Question Five
07:08 – Question Six
08:18 – What’s Next
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About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana walks you through the eight steps you need to take to break the trauma bond with a narcissistic ex.
Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction
00:47 – Step One
01:42 – Step Two
02:41 – Step Three
04:17 – Step Four
05:32 – Step Five
06:17 – Step Six
08:10 – Step Seven
09:33 – Step Eight
11:32 – What’s Next
Listen to This Next:
How to Break a Trauma Bond with Your Narcissistic Ex
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana shares 11 pieces of advice our community wishes they had before dating again after narcissistic abuse.
Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction
00:58 – Advice #1
01:43 – Advice #2
02:32 – Advice #3
03:53 – Advice #4
05:14 – Advice #5
05:52 – Advice #6
06:28 – Advice #7
07:28 – Advice #8
08:04 – Advice #9
09:05 – Advice #10
10:03 – Advice #11
10:30 – What’s Next
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About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana walks you through the eight steps you must take to break the trauma bond with your narcissistic ex.
Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction
01:08 – Step One
01:47 – Step Two
02:50 – Step Three
03:33 – Step Four
04:49 – Step Five
05:50 – Step Six
06:51 – Step Seven
07:41 – Step Eight
08:23 – What’s Next
Listen to This Next: If You're Trauma Bonded to Your Narcissistic Ex, Try This
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana teaches you a three-step framework you can start using today to stop ruminating about your narcissistic ex.
Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction
00:43 - Definition
01:30 – Step One
02:31 – Step Two & Three
03:54 - Examples
15:12 – What’s Next
Listen to This Next: How to Break a Trauma Bond with Your Narcissistic Ex
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps you overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse so you can heal and move forward with your life. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana shares a four-part framework you can start using today to cope when your narcissistic ex moves on quickly.
Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction
00:49 – Part One
02:25 – Part Two
03:30 – Part Three
05:50 – Part Four
07:58 – What’s Next
Listen to This Next: How to Stop Ruminating About Your Narcissistic Ex
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps people overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse, heal, and move forward with their lives. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This episode of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're feeling stuck or unsure what to do next, you can sign up for a free one-on-one session with a professional from our team here: https://unfilteredd.net/support/
In today’s episode, Juliana walks you through a four-step framework to help you let go of your narcissistic ex, begin healing, and move forward with your life.
Chapters:
00:00 – Introduction
00:36 – Step One
02:30 – Step Two
03:21 – Free Gift
04:09 – Step Three
05:57 – Step Four
07:40 – What’s Next
Listen to This Next: How to Cope When Your Narcissistic Ex Moves On Quickly
About Us:
Unfilteredd is an organization that helps people overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse, heal, and move forward with their lives. Learn more about us here: https://unfilteredd.net/about/
Disclaimer:
This of the Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners Podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
Juliana sits down with Angela Avery to answer a question about getting revenge on your narcissistic ex.
If you have experienced or are currently experiencing narcissistic abuse, please visit our website to learn how we can help you: https://unfilteredd.net
Connect with Angela: https://www.thecounselingstudioclarkston.com
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🔔 This episode should not be used as a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice. If you're dealing with any concerns related to the topics discussed in this episode, we encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional.
Juliana sits down with Dr. Mishel Rych to answer a question about the common signs of financial abuse in a narcissistic relationship.
If you have experienced or are currently experiencing narcissistic abuse, please visit our website to learn how we can help you: https://unfilteredd.net
Connect with Dr. Mishel: https://doctormishel.com/
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🔔 Remember: This episode should not be used as a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're dealing with any concerns related to the topics discussed in this episode, we encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional.
Juliana sits down with Monica L. Amorosi to answer a question about the things you shouldn’t do when breaking up with a narcissist.
If you have experienced or are currently experiencing narcissistic abuse, please visit our website to learn how we can help you: https://unfilteredd.net
Connect with Monica: https://www.claritytherapynyc.com/nyc-therapist/monica-amorosi-lmhc-cctp/
Resource Mentioned:
https://www.claritytherapynyc.com/seeking-help-amid-crisis-therapy-for-those-enduring-active-trauma/
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🔔 Remember:
This episode should not be used as a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice.
If you're dealing with any concerns related to the topics discussed in this episode, we encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional.
Juliana sits down with Angela Avery to answer a question about why narcissists get married.
If you have experienced or are currently experiencing narcissistic abuse, please visit our website to learn how we can help you: https://unfilteredd.net
Connect with Angela: https://www.thecounselingstudioclarkston.com
Follow Our Socials:
YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | X | TikTok
🔔 Remember: This episode should not be used as a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice. If you're dealing with any concerns related to the topics discussed in this episode, we encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional.
Juliana sits down with Dr. Mishel Rych to answer a question about how to let go of a narcissist you still love.
If you have experienced or are currently experiencing narcissistic abuse, please visit our website to learn how we can help you: https://unfilteredd.net
Connect with Dr. Mishel: https://doctormishel.com/
Follow Our Socials:
YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | X | TikTok
🔔 Remember: This episode should not be used as a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice. If you're dealing with any concerns related to the topics discussed in this episode, we encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional.
Juliana sits down with Monica L. Amorosi to answer a question about what kind of person stays in a relationship with a narcissist and why leaving can be so difficult.
If you have experienced or are currently experiencing narcissistic abuse, please visit our website to learn how we can help you: https://unfilteredd.net
Connect with Monica:
https://www.claritytherapynyc.com/nyc-therapist/monica-amorosi-lmhc-cctp/
Resources Mentioned:
Interview with Monica Amorosi (Psychotherapist) About Attachment Styles (Ep 97): Listen on Spotify / Listen on Apple
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🔔 Remember: This episode should not be used as a substitute for medical, mental health, or legal advice. If you're dealing with any concerns related to the topics discussed in this episode, we encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional.
Juliana sits down with Dr. Mishel Rych to answer a question about why you're still attracted to the narcissist.
If you have experienced or are currently experiencing narcissistic abuse, please visit our website to learn how we can help you: https://unfilteredd.net
Connect with Dr. Mishel Rych: https://doctormishel.com
Follow Our Socials:
YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | X | TikTok
🔔 Remember: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not replace professional medical, mental health, or legal advice. If you're dealing with any concerns related to the topics discussed in this podcast, we encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional.