Grief has a way of making every word feel heavier. That’s why our conversation with international intuitive medium and mentor Deb DeSell focuses on language, consent, and care—so messages from spirit soothe rather than sting. Deb brings a rare blend of evidential skill and therapeutic crisis intervention training, showing how trauma-informed and grief-informed practices can transform a reading from “interesting” to deeply healing. We dive into the simple shifts that matter most: why “died by...
This episode of The Unity Code was not planned — and those are always the ones that hit the hardest. After walking into a Catholic church for a funeral for the first time in over a decade, I had a full-body realization: the church makes the invisible feel undeniably real — not just through belief, but through the nervous system. The silence. The architecture. The rituals. The sitting, standing, kneeling. The repetition. The collective rhythm. Before a single prayer lands, your body already kn...
The room goes quiet when someone tells the truth: the fluffy stuff isn’t changing us. We trade comfort for transformation and ask what power actually feels like in a woman’s body—how it vibrates through ritual, how it steadies in the spine when you stop apologizing, and how it holds compassion without shrinking. Nicole shares the jolt of leading a raw activation at a Mexico retreat and the aftershock of wondering if “too much” is actually exactly right. Adriana reframes soft and strong as bou...
What if the moments you judge the most about your past are actually proof of your evolution? In this deeply personal and insight-packed episode of The Unity Code, Medium Nicole pulls back the curtain on the real reason self-reflection can feel “cringe” — and how learning to honor your former selves becomes one of the most powerful activations on your spiritual path. We explore the intersection of neuroscience, nervous system responses, soul agreements, and intuitive growth, revealing why your...
Ever felt your home push back when you’re trying to grow? That quiet resistance might be more than mood—it could be the nervous system reading your space as unsafe. We explore how physical clutter fuels micro stress, why your eyes are a constant trigger for your body, and how a few decisive changes can flip anxiety into ease. Months of late nights and sudden 3 a.m. panic spirals ended not with more sage, but with a closet reset and a small altar that turned a heavy corner into a calm anchor. ...
In this episode of The Unity Code, Nicole throws out her perfectly planned December content calendar (spreadsheets and all) because Spirit had other plans. If you’ve been crawling toward the end of this universal Year 9 feeling fried, overwhelmed, and stuck in an endless mental to-do list, this one’s for you. Nicole breaks down why this Year 9 energy feels so intense, how incomplete endings create nervous-system overload, and why your brain keeps looping on unfinished tasks, conversations, an...
Ever have the universe tap your shoulder with something so specific you can’t ignore it—like the word “moo” and a license plate that reads 138 on the same day? That’s where our story begins, and it unfolds into a clear, usable system for reading angel numbers without getting lost in contradictions or wishful thinking. We share how that quirky moment led to concrete guidance about values, releasing the past, and stepping into new income and career opportunities—guidance that later aligned with...
The numbers keep finding you for a reason. We open up a grounded, heart-forward guide to angel numbers—why they show up so often, how to interpret them without spiraling into fear, and the simple moment-to-moment practice that helps you actually feel supported. Our guest, angel medium and human design guide Carly Arbuckle, shares her awakening story, the difference between faith and trust, and a body-based exercise to sense angelic love by “opening” your cells to receive. The core filter we r...
In this final episode of the Trust Series, we get real about what it actually looks like to work with your guides — not the fluffy, love-and-light fantasy, but the real-world, stubborn-human, free-will-packed version. Nicole breaks down why some messages come in crystal clear and others show up like a fogged-up windshield, how soul contracts shape your milestones, and why your guides are more COO than cosmic parent. With a very on-brand story about ignoring her team’s nudges on the way to Cos...
In this second episode of the Trust Series, Nicole takes you behind the scenes of that wild Puerto Vallarta “no-plan” workshop and explains why full surrender actually worked — not just spiritually, but scientifically. We break down how your nervous system, brainwaves, and heart coherence create the conditions for spirit to get through… or block it completely. From beta brain and fight-or-flight to alpha/theta states and trust-as-a-frequency, you’ll hear how science and spirit are saying the ...
What happens when you board a plane with no lesson plan and a promise to stop gripping the wheel? I flew to Puerto Vallarta for Dia de los Muertos expecting to teach—and instead got schooled by trust, La Catrina, and the Sierra Madre herself. I share how a travel agent’s nudge toward La Catrina reframed mediumship as joyful remembrance, not fear, and how studying the ofrenda’s elements and tiers unlocked a living map: shamanic work in the lower world, mediumship in the middle, Akashic insigh...
Ever wondered how to actually use remote viewing outside of the lab or the woo? This episode of The Unity Code brings this powerful psychic skill into real life. Learn simple, practical ways to strengthen your intuition and see beyond the physical — no scientific jargon, just grounded, usable techniques. Discover how remote viewing can help you find lost items, read the energy of a place before you visit, calm anxiety before a date or big event, or even tune into a loved one’s energy from acr...
What happens when thousands of curious minds try to view the same hidden place at the same time? We set up a live, two-target remote viewing experiment and invite you to join the Unity Collective, shift into an expansive “vacation state,” and capture five fast impressions before your brain starts editing. No special tools, no esoteric jargon—just practical steps to quiet the noise, notice the signal, and test your hits against concrete feedback. We walk through the essentials: what remote vi...
What happens when laser physicists, gifted intuitives, and the CIA chase the edges of human perception? We revisit the remote viewing program that moved from lab trials to real-world missions, spotlighting the moment that stunned researchers: Ingo Swann’s 1973 description of Jupiter’s faint rings, later confirmed by Voyager 1. Rather than claim proof of psychic space travel, we explore why structured methods, blind targets, and rigorous judging produced results strong enough to earn decades o...
Ready to test the veil where it actually lives—inside you? We invite you into a focused, heart-led journey to meet a past-life self and carry their strengths into your day-to-day life. This isn’t theater; it’s a structured experiment in consciousness designed to trade overthinking for embodied clarity, and curiosity for usable insight. We begin by activating the Unity Code Collective, a shared field that aims to amplify truth, safety, and connection. With breath and simple cues, we ground in...
A plastic mask can hide a face, but a true costume reveals a memory. We open the door to Halloween’s deeper current—back to Samhain’s bonfires, offerings, and playful divination—and show how those old practices evolved into modern symbols that still carry protection, reciprocity, and illumination. Along the way, we unpack why certain places feel instantly familiar, why some skills arrive like muscle memory, and how that “I know you” feeling might be your soul recognizing an old friend. Toget...
What happens when thousands of curious minds breathe together, set a single intention, and listen for love across the veil? We decided to find out with a guided, real‑time experiment designed to test whether collective focus can amplify your ability to connect with a departed loved one. We start by building a sacred yet practical container: breath to settle the nervous system, a gold‑white sphere for protection, and a clear boundary that invites only the highest love and truth. From there, w...
Candles, marigolds, soft light, and longer nights set the stage—but what actually makes the “veil” feel thinner? We dive into a layered explanation that blends ancient ritual, neuroscience, and the quiet power of collective intention to show how attention—not the calendar—opens the door to meaningful connection with ancestors and guides. From the Celtic roots of Samhain to Día de los Muertos, Hungry Ghost traditions, and lantern festivals, we trace how cultures across continents used fire, fo...
What if the hardest stretch of your life is quietly training you to become someone softer, steadier, and more powerful than you imagined? That’s the heartbeat of our conversation with Sarah Tolson—medium, Reiki master teacher, and founder of Grounded Harmony—whose path winds through early family loss, a decade-long rupture with her mom, and the unthinkable shock of her young daughter’s seizures and cancer diagnosis. Months in the hospital forced her to sit still, breathe, and listen. After re...
What happens when you stop editing yourself—and discover the code beneath your life? We’re launching The Unity Code as a living lab where authenticity becomes medicine and curiosity becomes method. After months of resisting the nudge to “start the podcast,” saying yes cracked open a voice that didn’t perform, it simply was. That honesty drew a community, revealed the patterns behind “never enough,” and transformed what looked like chaos into evolution. We share why the shift from Empower You...