Unclipped

In this episode, I delve into the captivating world of the "Little Life" trend that is sweeping TikTok. You know the one—where the song "Little Life" by Cordelia became the anthem for showcasing the beauty in simplicity. At first, it was all about sharing clips of ordinary moments, but as the trend evolved, so did its influencers. Join me as I explore the unexpected twists in this trend, from new-age trad wives cultivating a seemingly simple life on multimillion-dollar properties to the soft girls revealing their not-so-low-maintenance routines. While I unabashedly admit to devouring this content, I also shine a light on the darker side—the unrealistic standards it sets and the insecurities it fuels. I uncover how social media has a unique talent for making us feel behind, inadequate, and isolated and I expose the stark contrast between the portrayed luxury and the reality of the average person's life. The episode emphasizes the importance of being intentional about the content we consume and how we interpret it. It iscrucial to consciously navigate the digital landscape and remember that your journey is valid, regardless of the illusions presented on social media.

Ever since I can remember, I've been the type to aim for the stars, to set the bar high, most notably for myself. It's a trait that's been both a guiding light and, at times, a heavy load to bear. In this episode, I want to unpack the nuances of being a high achiever, especially in spaces where mediocrity seems to be the norm. We often hear about the benefits of being ambitious – the drive, the passion, the relentless pursuit of excellence. And yes, those aspects have propelled me to achieve things I never thought possible. But it's not all sunshine and rainbows. There's a weight that comes with the constant push for perfection, a weight that intensifies when you find yourself surrounded by those who have settled comfortably in the realm of mediocrity. Join me as I share my personal experiences navigating the intricate dance between ambition and the stark reality of low expectations. I'll explore the moments of triumph, the victories that come with pushing boundaries, but also the moments of isolation and the challenges of setting standards that sometimes feel unattainable. How do you manage the pressure, the expectations, and the inevitable moments of self-doubt? In this episode, I'll lay it all bare – the benefits, the detriments, and the delicate balance required to navigate the unique challenges of being someone who refuses to settle.

In this episode, we embark on a journey of self-discovery, exploring the impact of external influences on our lives. As we grow and interact with the world, our sense of self can become entangled with the opinions and expectations of others. But when does the influence of others become too much? When do we lose sight of our true selves in the pursuit of social acceptance? The episode emphasizes the importance of solitude, even for those of us who thrive in social settings. Solitude provides the space to uncover our authentic voices, free from external influences. It's not about becoming a hermit but finding a balance that allows us to hear our own thoughts amidst the noise of the world. Discovering your true voice benefits not only you but the communities you're a part of. With self-awareness, you can contribute more authentically and understand the impact of your words and actions on others. It's a process of reclaiming your identity and unlearning the beliefs that may not truly be yours. So, if you've ever questioned whether the things you want and the thoughts you have are genuinely yours or a product of external influence, this episode is for you. We explore the journey toward a more authentic sense of self and the positive impact it can have on both you and the world around you. Tune in to explore the power of solitude, self-discovery, and the importance of finding your true voice in a world filled with external influences.

In a world that often discourages us from standing out, I candidly address the anxiety and despair that can come from the idea of conforming and mediocrity. This episode explores the nightmare of blending into the crowd, suppressing individuality, and embracing a life that lacks the spark of authenticity. I share personal experiences and insights, illustrating how societal norms and expectations can threaten to suffocate our unique ambitions and dreams. I challenge the status quo and argue that embracing mediocrity is a fear to be reckoned with.

Life isn't always a straight path, and we've all experienced detours that take us in unexpected directions. In this episode, we explore the idea that these detours don't necessarily mean a different destination; instead, they can be hidden blessings in disguise. Join me as I dive into the art of handling life's detours with grace and acceptance. Discover how to develop strategies for embracing these unexpected turns and making the most out of them. Sometimes, the detour that initially feels like an inconvenience can lead us to a better path or offer valuable life lessons.

There is an ongoing battle between chasing popularity and embracing your true purpose. In today's digital age, where social media inundates us with analytics and metrics, it's easy to get caught up in the pursuit of popularity. I share my personal experiences and insights on how this popularity-centric world can sometimes cloud our vision and steer us away from our core purpose. Join us as we explore the challenges of balancing the need for recognition with staying true to our authentic callings. Discover why the journey toward aligning with your purpose doesn't hinge on the quest for popularity. This episode offers a fresh perspective on how to navigate the modern era while remaining steadfast in the pursuit of your true passions, especially under the lens of being a fitness instructor. Tune in and be inspired to prioritize purpose over popularity.

Join me on a deeply personal journey through the highs and lows of mental health. From my darkest moments to the path of recovery, I’ll share some of my experiences, offering hope and guidance to anyone facing similar challenges. Discover that recovery is possible, one step at a time, as we delve into the resilience of the human spirit and the strategies that have led to a brighter, healthier future. Don't miss this inspiring episode that reminds us all: healing is within reach

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and I feel it's time to share my story, my experiences, and my perspective on forgiveness—or the lack of it. In this episode, I'm opening up about my own journey with intimate partner abuse; I'll be talking about the things I've been through, the emotions I've felt, and the challenges I've faced as a survivor. But this is more than just a recounting of my experiences. It's also about challenging the notion of forgiveness. You see, forgiveness is often touted as a key to healing, but I don't think it's an absolute necessity. I'll share why I believe forgiveness isn't always essential, especially when you've been deeply wronged. This episode isn't just about me—it's about all survivors finding their voices, breaking the silence, and raising awareness during Domestic Violence Awareness Month and beyond. Let's have a conversation that matters, challenge some preconceived notions, and support each other on our journeys toward healing and self-empowerment.

In this episode, we’ll delve deep into the concept of knowing your true worth and why it’s crucial to ensure that people in your life, be it employers or personal connections, recognize and respect it. We’ll explore the dynamics of transactional and non-transactional relationships and the sometimes harsh reality that not everyone values us at our worth. Discover why it’s important to make empowering choices, even if it means changing your scenery. Join me for a thought-provoking discussion on self-worth and self-respect

The time is here! Welcome to the inaugural episode of Unclipped. I wanted to use this episode to get our feet wet and set the mood for this space we are creating. I want you all to know a little bit more about me and that Unclipped is just as much for you as it is for me. Welcome to this corner of the internet. Ride with me!

In this episode, I'm getting real about the rollercoaster ride that is my personal journey through both fat and skinny shaming. Join me as I dissect the surprisingly similar struggles and unique challenges that come with being body-shamed, whether you're told you're too big or too small. I'll talk about those moments when whispers turned into echoes and stares felt like spotlights. It's a candid chat about how these experiences, though different in their details, share a common thread of societal judgment that can really mess with your head. We're diving into the undeniable truth that body shaming hurts, no matter what shape or size. I'm sharing my highs, lows, and everything in between, and I invite you to join the conversation. Let's break down these walls of judgment and build up a community that celebrates every body—because no one should carry the weight of shame.