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Today’s caller doesn’t know how to react to her 5 year old nudist. - Submit your Dilemon Check out our Amazon Storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH (FREE TEE with every purchase!) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Strap in besties, today’s episode is a full plate served hot with extra chicken salt. We debrief on our poddy Xmas party and the importance of a good theme. Then Gem has a story that doubles as an important reminder to teach your kids your phone number. We also dive into raising respectful sons, finding the right role models, and what it really means to raise boys who grow up to be good humans. Grab your coffee/ wine/ chippies and happy Tuesday! #Notspons R: iPhone Legacy Contact G: Teach your kids your phone number - Women And Children First 16 Days of Activism Resources and Support What Exactly is Coercive Control? Episode on Apple What Exactly is Coercive Control? Episode on Spotify  - Positive Men to follow: Sharny & Julius Daniel Principe Luke Bateman Coaching with Tim - Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple (2 WEEK FREE TRIAL!!) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's caller wants to reduce her Christmas mental load without losing the magic. - Check out our Amazon Storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH (FREE TEE with every purchase!) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The gals are spiralling straight into the vortex of modern motherhood. First up: Revz has an update on her Roblox story. Hallelujah! It’s Perinatal Mental Health Week, Gem reflects on her perinatal experience and please, DLs, if you need it, there is so much support for you. Meanwhile, Revz needs to vent about her shit-box car, and speaking of, why can’t we have nice things with kids and teens? Finally, 2025 Dance Mum Life has arrived and Gem is Not Coping™. Costumes, competitions, choreography—someone’s child needs to lift, and that someone is… Gem. Grab your lukewarm coffee and emotionally support us through this chaos. #Notspons R: Kmart 108 Graphic Markers G: Ooni Pizza Oven - Mentions: Check out our Amazon Storefront Perinatal Mental Health Resources Kmart Fresh Ocean Candle Big W Sandalwood Candle Headlice Solution - Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week's caller doesn't know if she should send her kid's school an email or just keep quiet. - Check out our Amazon Storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Gem’s found a rogue black hair in a very unexpected place, and naturally… it’s peri until proven otherwise. Meanwhile, Revz has had a financial fright courtesy of her child and a very large in-app purchase. Cue a deep dive into kids, devices and digital chaos. How the hell are we meant to keep boundaries, when ours are hanging by a thread?   #Notspons R: Made by Fressko Keep Cup G: Naturium The Glow Getter Multi-Oil Body Wash Mentions: Sexy Toy Advent Calendar - Check out our Amazon storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's caller is in love but not feeling attracted to her husband. - LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Revz kicks off the episode with the ultimate jar-opening hack—it might just change your life. Then we dive into godparents and why, honestly, we should be allowed to choose our own. Next up: the great hair-in-your-food debate. Would you say A) it’s not that bad, or B) that food is dead to me? Spoiler: opinions get heated. And parents, pay attention: Gem has a PSA you don’t want to miss. We’re talking Toothpaste Gate and a jaw dropping story. Notspons: G: NRMA call: 13 11 22 R: (LOL it’s actually) Edenvale Non-Alcoholic champagne - Check us out at Apple Creators We Love LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week's caller needs her husband to get a social life.  - LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sister Lu’s back and proving once again she’s the chillest mum in the game… possibly too chill? We’re talking her latest “low-effort, high-reward” parenting hack that has us questioning parenting styles. While we’re on genius ideas, can someone please make a trampoline that isn’t hideous? Lu and Revz also chat about what it’s like living together on tour (domestic bliss or absolute chaos?), and Lu’s got a whole list of life lessons from her house-hopping adventures. Cheers to our favourite day of the week x Notspons: Lu: Reseller Revz: Sugar soap wipes (aff link) - Check us out at Apple Creators We Love LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today’s caller’s mother in law is dealing with NOT just regular boomer body image bullshit. - LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

First up, Gem’s entering her no-fucks-given era, otherwise known as our 40s, and she’s got a story to prove it. The girls are easing back into post-tour life, allegedly eating better, and Gem’s been deeply inspired by her friend who went all the way to THE MALDIVES… for the gym?! Revz owns up to a harmless little lie and it’s official: Gem is a certified bin chicken, and this comes as a surprise to… no-one. Then comes the big question, should we even be cohabitating? Because Gem’s “separate apartments” fantasy has us wondering if sharing a home is just one giant scam. Notspons: Gem: Pandaroo Miso SoupRevz: Lacura Ceramide Cream from Aldi - Check us out at Apple Creators We Love LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's caller wants to know how to make friendships in different parenting eras work. - LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

First up, gag reflexing over kids’ toothpaste in typical Gem style. Then, we spiral into the minefield of saying thank you — what’s the right level of gratitude these days? Verbal thanks? Text? Handwritten note? Full-blown doorstep ballad? And why does it all feel like a test we’re destined to fail? We get a little ragey about why we’re all trying so damn hard to be “good” at everything. Happy Tuesday!   Notspons: Gem: Schwarzkopf Pink Hair dye Revz: Aldi on Door Dash Check us out at Apple Creators We Love - LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week's caller has strong social media boundaries. - LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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DLs, how often are you cleaning out your fridge? Are you a ‘clean as you go’ queen or do you wait until you can smell something funky? School holidays are over (praise be), but now Revz is dealing with the fallout of kids expecting Cirque du Soleil every day. Whatever happened to being bored and building character? Meanwhile, Gem’s got a list of things we’re apparently not supposed to talk about. Think: your deepest fears, financial stress, petty grudges, and that little voice in your head that says rude things about your body. We’re breaking the silence, babes. Thanks for being here, we freaking LOVE you. Not Spons: Revz: Dog Friendly Co Harness Gem: Joseph and Joseph Nest Chopping Board Set - LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.