Weddings Unscripted

Welcome to Weddings Unscripted! Ever wonder how a vintage rental company became one of the most trendsetting forces in the DC wedding scene? In this episode, we sit down with Dawn and Molly of Something Vintage — the powerhouse duo redefining event design through color, craftsmanship, and creativity. From humble beginnings collecting teacups to running a 35,000-square-foot warehouse, Dawn shares how her leap from the CIA to design entrepreneurship turned into a bold, thriving business. Molly joins in with insights on leadership, logistics, and what it takes to keep an ever-growing creative team aligned (and inspired). Together, they reveal the behind-the-scenes systems that keep Something Vintage running—from custom-built bars to nationwide linen shipping—and how they stay ahead of design trends that shape weddings across the country.   What we discuss: [00:01:18] – Dawn’s unexpected career pivot from the CIA to weddings [00:06:49] – Molly’s path into events and how business savvy fueled their rapid growth [00:09:01] – How Something Vintage sets national trends (and what happens when China copies them!) [00:18:48] – The birth of their custom linen line and how they scaled nationwide shipping [00:25:57] – Why booking early is essential—trucks, timelines, and logistics behind the scenes [00:34:10] – Wild weather, rain plans, and lessons learned from unpredictable event days [00:40:48] – The real challenges of warehouse life (and the math behind getting furniture into elevators) [00:46:08] – The creative social media strategies that built Something Vintage’s iconic brand   Key Takeaways: Trendsetters, Not Followers: Something Vintage doesn’t wait for inspiration—they create it, leading the way with original designs and bold aesthetics. Kindness Counts: The team reminds us that compassion and respect between vendors are what make event days seamless and enjoyable. Social Media with Purpose: Their content isn’t just pretty—it educates, entertains, and builds community within the industry.   Connect with Something Vintage: Website: https://www.somethingvintagerentals.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/smthingvintage/ Instagram: @smthingvintage TikTok: @smthingvintage   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted  

Ever been stuck in a long bar line at a wedding and thought, “There has to be a better way”? You’re not alone. In this episode of Weddings Unscripted, Alex and Alison continue their candid conversation with Mary Margaret of Ridgewells Catering, diving deep into what it really takes to create a seamless, guest-centered dining and bar experience. From perfecting staffing ratios to preventing those all-too-common alcohol mishaps, this episode pulls back the curtain on the art, logistics, and heart of catering. Whether you’re a planner, couple, or fellow vendor, get ready for practical insights and heartfelt truths about collaboration, hospitality, and creativity in the wedding world.   In this episode, you’ll hear: [00:01:00] – Why long bar lines are the number-one guest complaint (and how to fix it) [00:02:00] – The golden rule: one bartender per 50 guests [00:05:00] – The psychology behind closing the bar—and why it’s not as scary as it sounds [00:09:00] – Tales from the bar: guest behavior and enforcing liquor laws [00:17:00] – Creating unforgettable culinary experiences [00:21:00] – Why collaboration sparks creativity between planners and caterers [00:27:00] – Building trust through transparency: behind Ridgewells’ proposal process [00:37:00] – Fostering better vendor relationships in a competitive market   Key Takeaways: Hospitality is a mindset. Every element—from how guests get their drinks to how quickly they’re seated—shapes how they feel cared for. Smart staffing makes or breaks the experience. Remember Mary’s rule: one bartender per 50 guests to avoid bar lines. Respect the liquor laws. Self-service may sound fun until it puts your event at risk—understanding regulations protects everyone.   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted  

There's more to wedding catering than just great food—and the real magic happens behind the scenes with people you'll never meet. In this episode, we sit down with Mary Margaret from Ridgewell's Catering, one of DC's most established catering companies (founded in 1928!), to pull back the curtain on what it really takes to execute flawless wedding catering. From warehouse managers to pantry staff, Mary Margaret reveals the unsung heroes who make your wedding day seamless, plus the hottest trends that are elevating wedding dining from "rubber chicken dinners" to Michelin-star experiences.   In this episode, you'll hear: [00:02:28] The incredible history of Ridgewell's—nearly 100 years of catering evolution and why longevity matters in the industry. [00:12:01] The invisible workforce: kitchen managers, warehouse staff, and pantry people who make or break your event. [00:16:35] Why the pantry person is the unsung hero protecting your venue and your budget. [00:22:13] Current trends: cultural storytelling, intentional food and beverage pairings, and Michelin-star dining experiences. [00:27:14] Interactive dining experiences [00:32:55] Mary Margaret's controversial bar strategy [00:36:08] Strategic bar placement and why guests "stick to bars like they'll never see alcohol again."   Key Takeaways: Behind every flawless wedding meal is an entire ecosystem of specialists—from warehouse managers ensuring nothing is forgotten to pantry staff protecting your rental investments. The hottest trend isn't just good food—it's storytelling through cuisine that reflects couples' cultural heritage and shared experiences. Successful bar service is all about strategic staffing and placement—no lines means trusting your caterer's staffing recommendations.   Connect with Ridgewells: Website: https://www.ridgewells.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ridgewellsdc/ Instagram: @ridgewellsdc Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted  

From Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement to Sofia Richie’s French fairytale, celebrity weddings always capture the spotlight—but they also quietly shape trends that trickle into everyday weddings. In this episode, we dive into the glitz, drama, and influence of high-profile “I dos,” sharing what planners and couples can learn (and adapt) from the celebrity wedding playbook.   What we discuss: [00:01:40] Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce engagement—speculation, security, and influence. [00:05:30] Jeff Bezos & Lauren Sánchez—flashy Italy wedding, logistics, and public pushback. [00:10:40] Celebrity privacy vs. public spectacle—how secrecy shapes big weddings. [00:12:20] Breaking down the design of Taylor & Travis’s engagement setup. [00:16:20] Sofia Richie’s wedding in France—the $4M event that sparked endless client requests. [00:19:30] Classic vs. modern trends [00:24:00] Becca Bloom’s Lake Como wedding—fashion moments, smoke bombs, and over-the-top design. [00:30:00] Demi Lovato and timeless design elements—draping, black-and-white dance floors. [00:31:20] Paige Mycoskie’s multi-day Mexico celebration—playful, custom, and flawlessly executed. [00:36:00] Takeaways: What couples and vendors can realistically adapt from celebrity weddings.   Key Takeaways: Celebrity weddings are trendsetters. From rings to flowers, design details often filter into everyday weddings—even when couples don’t realize the source. Security and logistics matter. Large-scale weddings with celebrity guests highlight just how crucial privacy, NDAs, and guest management can be. Personality over replication. The best weddings take inspiration from celebrity events but personalize them to reflect the couple’s unique style. Collaboration is key. Behind every flawless, large-scale celebration is a team of vendors working seamlessly together.   Resources & Links: Explore Cherry Blossom Events: https://cherryblossomwe.com/ Follow Cherry Blossom Events on Instagram: @cherryblossomeventsdc Celebrity weddings mentioned: Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce Jeff Bezos & Láuren Sanchez Sofia Richie Becca Bloom Demi Lovato Paige Mycoskie   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted  

When you think "wedding cake," you probably think dry, flavorless, forgettable dessert. But what if it didn't have to be that way? In this episode, we sit down with Alison Friedman, founder of Liberty Bakery in Fairfax, Virginia, to talk about revolutionizing wedding cakes with her "birthday cake for your wedding" philosophy. From culinary school origins to pound cake pride, Alison shares how she's building a thriving business around actually delicious wedding desserts.   In this episode, you'll hear: [01:23] Alison's culinary school journey and the "aha moment" that changed everything at a wedding cake shop [02:47] The mission to make wedding cake that actually tastes good—calling it "birthday cake for your wedding" [20:37] The logistics of wedding cake production—maxing out at 6-8 cakes per weekend in peak season [23:10] Design trends: the return of fondant and why cake trends start in Australia and New Zealand [34:40] How a viral TikTok about free cake tastings nearly broke her business and led to charging for tastings [47:48] Managing client expectations around copying Pinterest-perfect designs from other weddings [58:11] The photographer collaboration challenge and why cake makers feel like "the forgotten vendor"   Key Takeaways: High-quality ingredients and chef training can create desserts that guests actually want to eat Charging for tastings solved the problem of non-serious inquiries while compensating for time and ingredients Temperature matters more than you think—buttercream melts in Virginia heat, so timing and venue type dictate design possibilities The best vendors adapt and pivot—from fighting Instagram to embracing it.   Learn more about Alison & Liberty Bakery: Website: https://libertybaking.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/libertybakingco Instagram: @libertybakingco   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted

There’s a new vendor shaking up the wedding world—and it’s not your planner, florist, or DJ. In this episode, Alexandra and Alison sit down with Lauren Ashley, founder of In the Moment Content Creators, to talk about the fast-growing role of wedding content creators. From raw, behind-the-scenes clips to TikTok-ready reels, Lauren shares how this new vendor category is changing the way couples, planners, and vendors experience wedding days.   In this episode, you’ll here: [00:02:00] How bridal TikTok inspired the rise of wedding content creation. [00:06:00] How Lauren found her niche, her challenges, and turning point of her business. [00:12:00] Why raw, unedited footage matters to couples. [00:18:00] The overlap and potential conflicts when multiple content creators are onsite. [00:22:00] Communication, contracts, and collaboration with photo/video teams. [00:27:00] Lessons from working with large media teams at high-profile weddings. [00:32:00] Sharing content—when it belongs to couples vs. vendors. [00:36:00] Challenges of being a new vendor category and earning industry respect. [00:48:00] Why content creation is here to stay and where the industry is headed.   Key Takeaways: Wedding content creators provide raw, real-time footage that complements photography and videography—not replaces it. Couples love having a “VIP guest perspective” of their wedding day that captures moments they miss. Clear communication and collaboration with the full media team (photographers, videographers, planners) is essential.   Connect with Lauren: Website: https://www.inthemomentcontent.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inthemomentcontentcreators/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@inthemomentcontent Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted  

Ready to dive into fall wedding season? In this episode of Weddings Unscripted, we share what's on our calendars for an exciting October lineup while discussing the art of helping clients discover their true wedding vision. From venues like River Farm and Stone Tower Winery to the International Spy Museum, we reveal how the best weddings happen when couples move beyond Pinterest inspiration to create something authentically them. Alison takes us behind the scenes of a complete wedding design transformation—from light and airy to moody Michelin-star restaurant vibes—and shares the planner instinct that saved a rental appointment disaster. Plus, hear about the latest draping trends, hotel carpet confessions, and why the D.C. wedding design scene is reaching new creative heights.   What we discuss: [00:04:00] – Fall wedding lineup: River Farm, Stone Tower Winery, and Spy Museum [00:07:00] – Why October beats September for fall weddings [00:11:00] – The Women's Museum draping trend that everyone's copying [00:14:00] – How to recognize when clients aren't happy (even when they don't say it) [00:15:00] – The rental meeting rescue mission that saved a wedding design [00:22:00] – Hotel carpet and the modern renovation movement [00:25:00] – What's next after the draping trend: Prints and patterns [00:27:00] – D.C. wedding design reaching new creative heights [00:29:00] – 2026 planning mode: Booking priorities and vendor timelines   Key Takeaways: Trust your planner's instincts: The best planners can read when clients aren't connecting with their choices, even without verbal cues Design evolution is normal: Moving from initial Pinterest inspiration to something that truly reflects your personality creates more authentic celebrations October is the sweet spot: September can still run hot, making October the preferred choice for fall wedding weather     Planning a fall 2025 or 2026 wedding? Connect with experienced planners who know how to help you discover your authentic wedding vision beyond the Pinterest boards. Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted Leave a Review: Help other couples find Weddings Unscripted by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform

What happens when 130+ wedding vendors come together to discuss the real challenges facing the industry? In this episode of Weddings Unscripted, we share insights from our experience moderating a groundbreaking vendor roundtable at Stone Tower Winery. Hosted by Kate Denman of Floret and Vine and Lisa Harvard, this collaborative discussion tackled everything from client expectations and ghosting to budget education and the changing wedding market. From AI-generated inspiration photos that defy physics to the hidden complexities behind "simple" requests, we reveal the behind-the-scenes realities that shape your wedding day experience. Whether you're planning your big day, considering a career in weddings, or simply curious about what goes on behind the curtain, this episode offers valuable perspective on vendor collaboration and the evolving wedding landscape.   What we discuss: [00:02:00] – The vendor roundtable experience at Stone Tower Winery [00:03:00] – Budget reality checks: When venues eat up your entire budget [00:06:00] – Market shifts: From Reddit leads to ChatGPT recommendations [00:09:00] – Client expectations vs. reality: The AI inspiration photo problem [00:16:00] – Social media dreams vs. actual budgets [00:22:00] – Budget planning before you spend a dime [00:28:00] – Timeline management and vendor communication [00:34:00] – The ghosting phenomenon and how to handle it better [00:37:00] – Feedback culture: Why rejection without reasons hurts everyone   Key Takeaways: Budget first, venue second: Establish your total budget and priorities before booking any vendors to avoid overspending on your venue AI inspiration needs reality checks: Those Pinterest-perfect photos might require rigging points, special permits, and significant labor costs Vendor communication is crucial: Sound checks, setup schedules, and timeline coordination prevent day-of conflicts The market is transitioning: Post-COVID pricing adjustments and new client discovery methods are reshaping the industry   Ready to plan your dream wedding with realistic expectations? Connect with experienced vendors who prioritize communication and collaboration for a stress-free planning process.   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted Leave a Review: Help other couples find Weddings Unscripted by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform  

There’s no college degree for wedding planning—and even if there were, it wouldn’t prepare you for some of the requests we have faced. In this episode, we share real-life stories from the trenches: the hilarious, the heartwarming, and the “are you kidding me?” moments that taught us how to adapt, set boundaries, and still deliver unforgettable celebrations. From rainy-day rescues to last-minute inflatables, and from ironing linens to fending off surprise slideshows, this is what wedding planning really looks like.   What we discuss: [00:01:30] There’s No College for This — learning through real-life experience. [00:02:00] The crab place card marathon and the lesson on pre-prepped décor. [00:04:00] Escorting a wedding party through a rainstorm at The Wharf. [00:07:00] What’s in (and not in) a wedding planner’s emergency kit. [00:15:00] Drawing the line: steaming dresses, serving drinks, and contract boundaries. [00:26:00] The unseen workload of a wedding planner’s day. [00:30:00] Family surprises gone wrong: the unapproved slideshow disaster. [00:40:00] Why vendors need advance notice and proper resources for surprise elements. [00:42:00] Saying no: protecting staff well-being and event quality.   Key Takeaways: Experience is the best teacher. No class can prepare you for every challenge—you learn by doing. Boundaries matter. Define what’s in your scope, and refer out for specialized services. Emergency kits evolve. Build them over time based on real requests, but know your limits. Relationships last. Great client connections can become genuine friendships.   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted   📣 Announcement: We’re taking a short break next week, but we’ll be back in September with exciting interviews and more insider stories. Stay tuned!

Is your hair and makeup team just there to glam you up—or can they shape your entire wedding day experience? In this episode of Weddings Unscripted, we sit down with Amie Decker, one of D.C.’s top hair and makeup artists, to talk about the evolving role of bridal beauty. From airbrush myths and scheduling tips to emotional support and finding the right fit, Amie shares insights from over 20 years in the industry. Whether you’re a bride, a planner, or a vendor who wants to better understand beauty’s impact, this episode is packed with useful advice, behind-the-scenes stories, and a lot of laughter. Plus, you’ll get expert insights on bridal trials, scheduling, airbrushing, and even a candid discussion about managing insecurities and finding confidence on your big day.   What we discuss: [00:01:30] – Introducing: Amie Decker [00:07:30] – What bridal hair & makeup looked like before Instagram took over [00:11:00] – Trials, tryouts, and why waiting to book is a risky move [00:15:45] – The red flags: when a stylist or client just isn’t the right fit [00:24:00] – What stylists wish clients knew before a trial [00:28:30] – Schedules, timelines & the myth of the perfect glam day [00:39:00] – What’s actually true about airbrush makeup? Amie breaks it down [00:45:30] – How to vet your beauty team (hint: it’s more than a Pinterest board) [00:50:00] – Who goes first—hair or makeup? And why the bride shouldn’t go last   Key Takeaways: Don’t wait for a trial to book—dates go fast. A good trial is about communication, not perfection. Hair & makeup pros often set the tone emotionally and energetically. Clean, dry hair and presence > inspiration photos alone. Concierge beauty is growing—especially for weekend-long events.   Connect with Amie: Website: https://amiedeckerbeauty.com/ Instagram: @amiedeckerbeauty Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amiedeckerbeauty/   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted

What really makes a wedding day flow seamlessly? In this dynamic episode of Weddings Unscripted, we sit down with Washington, D.C.-based wedding photographer Kir Tuben who brings nearly a decade of experience capturing unforgettable moments and navigating the ever-evolving world of weddings. Together, we unravel the secrets to successful vendor collaboration, from personality matching to balancing budgets and visions. We also get candid about handling surprises on the big day, the dos and don'ts of social media sharing, and why open communication between planners, photographers, and all members of the vendor squad is absolutely essential. Whether you're a bride-to-be, industry professional, or just love a good behind-the-scenes scoop, this episode delivers practical tips and honest conversations to help you navigate the wild world of wedding planning. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and join us for another unfiltered look at what really makes weddings extraordinary.   What we discuss: [00:02:00] – Kir’s journey from art student to full-time photographer [00:06:30] – Inside the Cherry Blossom planning team [00:10:00] – The emotional and creative world of proposal photography [00:14:00] – Vendor compatibility: balancing personality, vision, and budget [00:20:00] – Communication do’s and don’ts across the vendor team [00:26:00] – Day-of coordination: what happens when plans shift [00:41:00] – Submitting weddings for publication & managing press rights [00:47:00] – Sharing galleries with vendors & protecting client privacy [01:00:00] – Trends vs. timeless photography & generational shifts     Key Takeaways: Proposals and weddings require different energy—but both are deeply personal Building your vendor team is about skill and synergy Clear communication is essential—from email etiquette to day-of timeline updates Social media and publications serve different goals; know which matters more to you     Connect with Kir: Website: https://kir2ben.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kir2ben Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Kir2Ben/     Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted

Are garter toss still a thing? What about mismatched bridesmaids? In this trend-forward episode of Weddings Unscripted, we break down which wedding trends have stood the test of time—and which ones need to quietly exit the chat. From signature cocktails and photo booths to mismatched décor and second looks, we share our insider perspectives from years of planning weddings and watching fads come and go. Whether you’re planning your big day or just trend-obsessed, this episode is your permission slip to let go of what’s “in” and lean into what’s you.   What we discuss: [00:01:42] – Timeless or Timed Out? [00:05:16] – Getting comfortable with your photographer [00:06:18] – Cake cutting: fading tradition or must-have moment? [00:15:00] – Baby’s breath, rectangle cakes, and other retro-comeback trends [00:16:08] – The garter toss: Where did it come from, and is it really gone for good? [00:20:03] – Rise of second (and third!) ‘wow’ looks [00:27:37] – Are photo booths here to stay? [00:34:28] – The “getaway car” tradition: Are they still in demand? [00:49:58] – Which traditions to keep, ones to skip, and the best advice for modern couples   Key Takeaways: A trend becomes timeless when it reflects authenticity and intention. Just because it’s all over Instagram doesn’t mean it belongs in your wedding. Trends fade—but classic choices feel meaningful for years to come. It’s okay to skip the champagne tower or donut wall (really). Confidence in your own taste beats trying to impress the algorithm.     Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted

Ever wondered what wedding planners really think about guest behavior? In this laugh-out-loud and eye-opening episode of Weddings Unscripted, we down the most outrageous, frustrating, and just plain baffling things we’ve seen guests do at weddings—and what you should absolutely avoid if you’re attending one. From surprise plus-ones and giant gift boxes to inappropriately sloshed uncles and children running wild, no topic is off-limits. Whether you're planning your wedding or attending one soon, this is your ultimate etiquette guide (with a healthy dose of real talk and behind-the-scenes stories from planners who’ve seen it all).   What we discuss: [00:02:00] – The golden rule: don’t complain [00:13:00] – Why bringing too much stuff (bags, laptops, shoes!) is a no-go [00:19:00] – Stop putting your jacket on the reception chairs before photos [00:24:00] – Let the vendors do their job—no surprise performances, please [00:27:00] – When guests harass the DJ… and what to do about it [00:30:00] – Please don’t get wasted (or pressure vendors to drink!) [00:33:00] – Should kids come to the wedding? Only if invited [00:43:00] – Why giant boxed gifts create major planner headaches [00:48:00] – Vendors, read the timeline! [00:50:00] – What couples should do: hire a planner you connect with   💡 Key Takeaways: Don’t complain—especially not to the couple. Bring minimal belongings (and don’t ask planners to hold them). Stay out of the vendor’s way—they’re working for the couple, not you. Kids are great—if they’re invited and supervised. Boxed gifts? Ship them. Always. Drinking is fine. Drunken drama is not.     Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted

What’s it like to DJ 50+ weddings a year—and then plan your own? In this high-energy and heart-filled episode of Weddings Unscripted, we chat with Jake Sherman of Washington Talent, who brings decades of family history, professional experience, and hilarious behind-the-scenes stories to the mic. From DJing dance-floor-packed receptions to managing event logistics and literally helping relocate an entire wedding mid-ceremony (yes, really!), Jake shares wisdom for couples, planners, and anyone in the wedding world. Whether you’re choosing between a band or DJ, or just need a reality check on how much dancing is too much, this episode delivers insight, laughs, and plenty of music magic.   What we discuss: [00:01:00] – Jake’s journey: From family legacy to general manager and DJ [00:10:00] – The power of music: Reading the room and trusting your DJ [00:13:00] – That Halloween wedding… and the lighting-cue magic [00:17:00] – Jake’s own wedding (308 guests!) and giving up control [00:22:00] – DJ vs. band: What couples need to understand [00:30:00] – Planning logistics when there’s no planner on site [00:42:00] – The hurricane wedding ceremony that got pulled off last-minute [00:48:00] – Wildest story: A Four Seasons wedding moved to the Watergate Hotel mid-event   💡 Key Takeaways: The best weddings leave guests wanting a little more, not exhausted. Trusting your entertainment professional creates better flow and energy. DJs and bands offer very different experiences—know what you value. Last-minute miracles are possible… if you have the right team. Behind every wedding DJ is a logistic-savvy, gear-hauling professional.     Resources & Mentions: Washington Talent Agency Band: Onyx Venue shoutouts: The Ritz-Carlton Tysons, The Four Seasons DC, The Watergate Hotel Special mention: Design Cuisine & amazing vendor teams     Connect with Jake: Washington Talent: washingtontalent.com Instagram: @thejakesherman Contact for DJ/Band Bookings: via Washington Talent site   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted

What happens when a mother of the bride knows her limits—and hires a planner to save the day? In this heartfelt episode of Weddings Unscripted, Alex and Alison chat with Stephanie, whose daughter’s Chesapeake Bay wedding went off without a hitch thanks to the help of a talented wedding planner. Stephanie shares what it was like helping plan a destination-inspired wedding in Maryland while the couple lived in Florida, and how her planner, Rebecca Thomas, became her trusted guide, timeline-keeper, and behind-the-scenes “angel.” If you’re a parent navigating the wedding process, or a planner wondering how to better serve your clients, this one is full of real-life lessons and love.   Episode Timestamps: [00:01:00] – Meet Stephanie: Mother of the bride [00:03:00] – Why a shorter wedding timeline was actually a blessing [00:08:00] – Finding her planner, and why it was the best decision [00:10:00] – The magic of having “homework” and a timeline from your planner [00:14:00] – Ceremony by the water, flower details, and signature cocktails [00:20:00] – Why a planner matters for everyone, not just the couple [00:28:00] – Behind the music: coordinating the band with precision [00:34:00] – Advice to other parents on investing in a planner [00:37:00] – Repurposing florals and the thoughtful touches that made a difference   Key Takeaways: A good wedding planner doesn’t just manage details—they preserve the entire experience. Planners aren't a luxury—they're a necessity when you want to be fully present. Choosing a planner early helps shape every decision that follows. Behind every calm mother-of-the-bride is a planner with a headset and a timeline.   Resources Mentioned: Wedding Planner: Rebecca Thomas Venue: The Wylder Hotel on Tilghman Island, Maryland Florist: Local woman-owned floral business on Maryland’s Eastern Shore   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted LOVE THE SHOW? Rate & review us on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to help more wedding lovers find us!

Ever wonder what happens when planning your wedding leads to a whole new career path? In this episode of Weddings Unscripted, we’re joined by past bride-turned-floral-designer Audrey Klein of Le Jardin Klein. From a Bridgerton-inspired wedding to her first big floral installation, Audrey shares how a magical experience with her wedding florist sparked a full-blown creative journey—and business. Join us as we catch up with Audrey about her wedding day, her floral “aha” moment, and the real-life logistics of launching a blooming side hustle (complete with a Vespa flower bar and custom tissue paper). Whether you're a wedding lover, creative entrepreneur, or planner watching your client blossom (literally), this episode is heartwarming, honest, and oh-so-inspiring.   What we discuss: [01:00] – Meet Audrey: Bride, finance analyst, and floral designer [07:00] – Wedding vision: Bridgerton vibes, blue hydrangeas, and The Perry Belmont House [10:30] – Choosing a florist: Barbara of Growing Wild and a farm visit [20:00] – When a wedding inspires a side business: Growing flowers and building a brand [27:00] – Launching a floral pop-up with a Vespa and heart-led branding [36:00] – Flowers as love letters: Creating an emotional brand experience [47:00] – The challenges of solo entrepreneurship and finding your people   💡 Key Takeaways: Creative sparks can come from unexpected places—even your own wedding day. Working with passionate vendors can inspire life-changing ideas. Launching a creative business requires both heart and hustle—from branding to logistics. Flowers aren’t “just flowers”—they’re storytelling tools and emotional expressions. Even as a one-woman show, community and mentorship make all the difference.   Resources Mentioned: Growing Wild Floral with Barbara – growingwildfloral.com (Barbara’s floral farm) Lisa Blume Photography The Perry Belmont House   Connect with Audrey: Website: Le Jardin Klein Instagram: @lejardinklein Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61575779390803   Connect with us: Visit our website: Podcast: www.weddingsunscripted.com   Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com   Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted

Thinking of hosting your wedding at home or under a tent? This episode is your essential reality check. In this episode of Weddings Unscripted, we’re joined by expert planner and author Janice Carnavale of Bellwether Events, who shares hard-won wisdom from decades of producing elevated home weddings. From rain plans and power logistics to sentimental details and viral disasters, this episode pulls back the curtain on everything that makes tented weddings both magical—and massively complex. Whether you're a couple dreaming of a backyard celebration or a planner who needs to prep your clients with the facts, this one’s required listening.   What we discussed: [04:00] – Bourbon-burying, surprise rainstorms & home wedding traditions [07:00] – When good intentions go wrong: DIY prep & overdoing it [14:00] – Hurricane season, disasters & emergency backups [24:00] – Flooring, power drops, and tent types decoded [30:00] – Permits, noise ordinances & dealing with neighbors [38:00] – Why insurance, septic planning & generators matter [45:00] – What makes tented weddings so special (despite it all)    Key Takeaways: Tented weddings = building a venue from scratch. Plan like it. Weather is unpredictable. A backup plan isn’t optional—it’s essential. Power, permits, plumbing, and parking need to be sorted first. Working with a planner ensures safety, comfort, and beauty. Despite the logistics, home weddings are deeply personal and unforgettable.   Resources Mentioned: Get Janice’s eBook: The Elegant At-Home Wedding   Connect with Janice: Website: https://yourweddingathome.com/ Bellwether Events: https://bellwetherevents.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/janice-carnevale-8b844b9/ Instagram: @bellwetherevent   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com | www.cherryblossomwe.com   Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted   Show Weddings Unscripted some love by leaving a review on Apple Podcast, Spotify, or wherever you enjoy your podcasts. Thank you! Catch up with you next week.

In one of the sweetest surprises we’ve ever experienced, a family of ducklings waddled into a wedding ceremony—and straight into the hearts of everyone there. In this feel-good episode of Weddings Unscripted, Alex is joined by Carlene from the Cherry Blossom Events team and Phoebe from Purple Onion Catering to relive the viral moment, now featured in People Magazine. What started as a beautifully designed wedding with a bird-themed motif turned into an unforgettable story of timing, symbolism, and unexpected joy—complete with 11 ducklings walking right down the aisle. This episode is packed with behind-the-scenes details, vendor shout-outs, and a reminder that sometimes, the best moments are the ones no one could plan for.   What we discussed: [01:00] – Meet the couple, the venue, and the unexpected visitors [04:00] – The ducks arrival [07:00] – How the wedding’s bird theme made this moment even more magical [10:00] – The ducklings walk the aisle (yes, during the ceremony!) [14:00] – Viral video, People Magazine, and a million views later [20:00] – How the vendor team came together to share the story [25:00] – Final reflections: joy, teamwork, and unexpected magic   Key Takeaways: Unexpected moments can become the most memorable parts of a wedding. Nature has a way of showing up—be ready to embrace it with joy. Strong vendor teamwork makes magical moments even more meaningful. Symbolism in wedding design can show up in the most literal ways. It’s not just about the details—it’s about how the day makes people feel.   Vendors Featured: Planning & Design: Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events Catering: Purple Onion Catering Venue: Decatur House Florals: Be Inspired Events Photography: Maddy Williams Photography Tent: Sugarplum Tent Co. Rentals: Curated Events DC Entertainment: Dan Goldman Events Invitations & Paper Goods: Miranda Lane Pies: Pie Shop Plants: Plants Alive Hair & Makeup: MAB Artistry Bride's Dress: amsale Groom's Suit: Suit Supply Engagement Ring & Wedding Bands: Emily Chelsea Jewelry     Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com | www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted

This week, Alex and Ali are joined by the incredibly talented Andie Ingagliato from Costola Photography for a candid conversation about what it’s really like behind the lens on a wedding day. From artistic inspiration to timeline strategy, Andie opens up about working with high-end clients, building trust with planners, and what makes for truly meaningful photos. You’ll also hear about her experience documenting major events like the Super Bowl (yes, really!), how motherhood shifted her photography approach, and why printed albums still matter in the digital age. Whether you're a couple planning your big day or a wedding pro looking to work better with photographers, this one is full of laughs, wisdom, and behind-the-scenes truth.   What we discuss: [00:05:30] – Andie’s photography journey & working with her husband [00:10:00] – Building trust and connection without direct client contact [00:18:00] – Why family dynamics matter—and how to capture them [00:27:00] – The first look vs. traditional timeline debate [00:41:00] – Photography trends Andie loves (and ones she’s over) [00:44:00] – Why albums are worth the investment (and how she teaches it!)   💡 Key Takeaways: Trust and communication between planner and photographer is essential. The first look can free up time and create a better guest experience. Photographers need room to capture real moments—timelines matter! Dance floors = personality gold. Don’t underestimate the candid shots. Printed albums preserve your story in a way digital never will.   Learn more about Andie: Website: https://costolaphotography.com/ Instagram: @costola_photography Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CostolaPhotography/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMUKdBs72GicKaHK5aAvjnA Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/costola_photography/   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com | www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted

Welcome back to Part 2 of our deep dive into one of the most creatively layered wedding weekends we've ever planned. In this episode, Alex and Ali break down the full design story behind a four-day luxury wedding—from a sparkle-themed boat arrival to a moody penthouse welcome party and a wedding ceremony dripping in baby’s breath and architectural symbolism. We’re taking you inside every design decision, reveal moment, and unexpected wow factor—including a surprise Mardi Gras-style parade and a float that had guests cheering (and dancing) their way into the after party. If you're a couple looking for intentional, personal design inspiration—or a planner eager to elevate your guest experiences—this episode is packed with ideas and insight you won’t want to miss.   What we discussed: [01:00] – Rehearsal Dinner Design: Sparkle, boat rides & LED-lit elegance [07:00] – Welcome Party: “Penthouse at Sunset” design and unexpected plant drama [16:00] – Performance moments: Creating a lounge-like space for live music [22:00] – Wedding Day Vibes: New Orleans Garden + architectural influences [30:00] – Surprise Parade & Custom Float Reveal [40:00] – After Party Transformation: Bourbon Street energy + personalized décor   Key Takeaways: Meaningful design starts with personal stories. From architecture to attire, the best themes are rooted in what matters most to the couple. Collaboration is key. Bringing a design to life takes detailed planning, trust, and a lot of vendor teamwork. Every visual detail counts. From menus to cocktail napkins, each touchpoint builds a branded guest experience. Leave space for the unexpected. Thoughtful surprises (like a parade!) create unforgettable memories. The “after” matters too. A seamless transition into an after party keeps the energy going and the experience elevated.   🔗 Vendors & Partners Mentioned: Event Planning & Design: Cherry Blossom Events DC Floral & Custom Installs: Edge Floral Event Designers Rentals: Something Vintage Stationery: Oh Eleven Studio DJ: DJ Allure Venue: The Renwick Gallery + Andrew Mellon Auditorium Live Performer: Veronica Swift   Missed part one? Click here: Ep 8 • Planning a Complex, Four-Day Wedding Weekend with Multiple Events (Part One)   Connect with us: Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com | www.cherryblossomwe.com Follow us on our socials: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755 Instagram: @weddings_unscripted TikTok: @weddings_unscripted