DiscoverWeddings UnscriptedEp 30 • How Wedding Planners Balance Family, Clients, and Chaos
Ep 30 • How Wedding Planners Balance Family, Clients, and Chaos

Ep 30 • How Wedding Planners Balance Family, Clients, and Chaos

Update: 2025-11-04
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Ever wondered what it really looks like to build a thriving wedding planning career while juggling motherhood, pumping breaks in parked cars, surprise school pick-ups, and the occasional chair-hauling at 9 months pregnant? 🤯

In this candid episode, we peel back the curtain on the realities of being moms and wedding planners — the balance, the guilt, the boundaries, and the moments that make it all worth it.

From pumping behind tinted car windows at venues to tag-teaming childcare between timelines and tent load-ins, this conversation is honest, heartfelt, and full of perspective for anyone in the events industry… or any career built on passion.

 

What we discuss:

[00:00 ] — Why this conversation matters for the wedding industry

[02:00 ] — The "dream job" myth vs. real logistics + spreadsheets

[04:00 ] — Navigating pregnancy while planning weddings

[10:30 ] — Learning to ask for help & building a supportive team

[14:30 ] — When vendors don't show up — and planners step in

[18:00 ] — How anxiety shows up in high-pressure wedding seasons

[28:00 ] — Kids at weddings — behind-the-scenes realities

[31:00 ] — Setting boundaries as a parent and wedding professional

[35:00 ] — Why Zoom changed wedding planning forever

 

Key Takeaways:

  • Wedding planning is flexible — but that doesn't mean easy
  • Boundaries help you serve clients better (not less!)
  • Childcare logistics in the events world are real and complex

 

Connect with us:

Visit our website: www.weddingsunscripted.com

Cherry Blossom Weddings & Events: www.cherryblossomwe.com

Follow us on our socials:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572429101755

Instagram: @weddings_unscripted

TikTok: @weddings_unscripted

 

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Ep 30 • How Wedding Planners Balance Family, Clients, and Chaos

Ep 30 • How Wedding Planners Balance Family, Clients, and Chaos

Alexandra Pare, Alison Golt