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In an enlightening exchange, Mary Ellen and Ginny discuss the remarkable but often overlooked value of a Liberal Arts education.    Michael Yost of Thomas More College joins our hosts today, revealing why a Liberal Arts education may be the wisest, most valuable choice your student could ever make. This conversation could change everything if college is in your family's future.   The Remarkable and Increasing Value of a Liberal Arts Education Michael Yost is the Senior Admissions Officer at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts. He is a 2018 graduate of the college where he met his lovely bride. They are the proud parents of three beautiful children.  Tapping into Mr. Yost's expertise as Senior Admissions Officer, our hosts discuss: How affordable is Thomas More College? Work-study opportunities. Why is the Rome Semester integral to their education? The Admission Department's view of "Mom diplomas." The value of extracurriculars on the college application.   Full disclosure by Mary Ellen: I have a daughter who graduated from Thomas More College, so I am partial to the college; it's dear to me.    What makes Thomas More College a unique experience compared to other colleges? The focus is on a college education rather than training.  Students learn to be fully rational, knowledgeable creatures capable of understanding themselves, their Maker, and the world around them. They are trained to be talented communicators, able to process information rapidly and clearly.  Skilled in communication abilities needed in a world driven by data and information.   The Thomas More College Bachelor of Arts in Liberal Arts.  Our Program consists exclusively of the great works of the Western canon, deliberately organized in our single, integrated program of studies.  By carefully guiding in-class conversations, our exceptional faculty start students down the path of Wisdom in a mode more characteristic of discovery than instruction.  These aspects set the College apart from most other institutions of higher learning, yet the College is truly unique in its emphasis on the necessity of experience.  Each student sees first hand the impact of culture in our mandatory semester in Rome, begins the study of philosophy by studying the natural world in our Natural History course, and learns the value of craftsmanship in our Guild program.   The Rome Program – Integral to the Thomas More Education In their Rome semester, Thomas More College sophomores  Traverse catacombs and cloisters, piazzas, and palazzos. Explore the heart of the Christian West. Experience the history of Christendom written in the stones and on the ceilings, in the streets and the cemeteries, and in the skyline dominated not by skyscrapers but by the dome of St. Peter's.   Statistics: After four years at Thomas More College, each student has Written at least 64 papers. Participated in 1,792 seminar hours Translated over 1,000 lines of Homer, Cicero, and other Classical authors. Read 10,000 pages of the Great Books. Traveled over 8,400 miles to and from Rome, Italy. Visited over 100 baroque churches, Roman architectural sites, Renaissance piazzas, and catacombs. See it all here.    Thomas More Resources FAQs Meet Michael Yost The Rome Program: An Integral Part of the TMC Experience   Homeschool Resources Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services  

Let's All Keep Chickens! Dalia Monterroso is the passionate author of "Let's All Keep Chickens! The Down-to-Earth Guide to Natural Practices for Healthier Birds and a Happier World," and her enthusiasm for this homeschool-friendly topic is contagious.   She is a popular teacher on the basics of backyard chicken keeping. In today’s show, Dalia talks with Ginny and Mary Ellen about her book, which is gaining popularity among homeschooling families who appreciate its educational value as part of their learning curriculum.    Program Notes: Dalia is the creator of the website and YouTube channel "Welcome to Chickenlandia," podcast "Bawk Tawk," and an online course called "Chickenlandia's Backyard Chickens 101". She also hosted a TEDx talk titled "I Dream of Chickens."  She is also the author of "Let's All Keep Chickens! The Down-to-Earth Guide to Natural Practices for Healthier Birds and a Happier World," a comprehensive guide for beginners and experienced chicken keepers.   Getting started 1. Is it legal to own chickens where you live? 2. What is the expense and the daily care?  3. Is there a good number of chickens to start with?  4. What's your best advice for frugally getting started? 5. What are the recommended breeds?   Chickenlandia for Homeschoolers 1. Why does chicken keeping resonate with homeschooling families?  2. What unexpected life skills can kids gain from interacting with chickens?  3. How do you integrate chicken keeping into your curriculum?  4. How does chicken keeping help us connect better with ourselves and each other?   Resources "Let's All Keep Chickens! The Down-to-Earth Guide to Natural Practices for Healthier Birds and a Happier World Dalia's website and YouTube channel "Welcome to Chickenlandia." Her online course is called "Chickenlandia's Backyard Chickens 101." Dalia's TEDx talk titled "I Dream of Chickens."    Homeschool Resources Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services

Is your homeschooling experiencing the “End of the Winter Blues?” Are you frustrated that you and the kids have been cooped up way too long? Ginny and Mary Ellen have the tonic for that. Their formula is simple, and their solutions are straightforward. Their insight, ideas, and effective routines will help you manage everything.   How to Homeschool and Not Lose Your Mind (PART II) This is part two of our topic. If you missed one, listen to the episode posted last week. Last week, we covered discipline, early rising, prayer, and focusing on what is right for your family. So, let’s jump back in. Household – three things must be done daily. 1 – Laundry: washed, dried, folded, and put away. 2 – Meals: menu plan, grocery plan, and a well-stocked pantry. 3 – School: math, reading, and religion. Keys to Success Simplify your home and life as much as possible. Eliminate clutter. Minimize time out of the house. Before you join a co-op or pod school - Discern carefully! They sound attractive, but: Will it be worth it? They require everyone to be up and dressed for outside the house. Drive time there, entertaining the non-co-op kids, and a drive home. Don’t buy the socialization nonsense.  Let them be friends with their siblings, cousins, neighbors, and teammates. Socialization occurs outside of academic situations all the time. Basic Rules of Life – Children Pray with them. Instill discipline. Give them meaningful work. Basic Rules of Life – Older Boys Maintain a schedule. Should have physical work. Occupy their time as much as possible. Teens should get paying jobs, gaining valuable skills that their peers lack. Idle hands are the devil’s workshop. Spend time outside every day. Even 15 minutes makes a difference. Kids need vigorous exercise and lots of fresh air. Better concentration in class, and standardized test scores went way up. Homeschool strategy in a nutshell Pick a program and stick with it. Simplify your curriculum. Don’t follow trends (stay off the internet). Minimize the outings. Do school every day. Strengthening your marriage is very important.  Schedule a home date regularly. Welcome him when he arrives. Praise him often and speak well of him. Listen to his concerns and involve him in your decisions.   Homeschool Resources Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services

Sometimes, homeschooling can feel like the most overwhelming, frustrating, impossible thing to do, especially at the end of winter. You and the kids have been stuck in the house, and the work seems never-ending. It just feels gloomy. We've all been there.    But it's a new day, and Ginny and Mary Ellen are here with ideas and a plan that includes humor, smiles, and simple, effective methods to succeed with your family's homeschooling. Welcome to Episode One of Season Two – It's great to be back with you!   How to Homeschool and Not Lose Your Mind (PART I) There are no magic bullets. Methods or systems will only work if you are disciplined.  Focus on your children's needs,  Make a plan for the day, and stick with it.  Schedules work—even when they don't.  Do what works for your family, not what works for another family.  Copying other mom's systems can lead you astray and waste precious time. The internet can be a tool, but it also makes you crazy.  OTOH, if a homeschooler has it all together, become her best friend. See what she does. Get up early as best and often as you can.  This is your prayer time, personal grooming, caffeine, and prep for the day. Start your morning the night before.  Lay out clothes for the day the night before.  Straighten the house before going to bed. Pray Center your homeschool on God and petition Our Lady.  Use visual reminders (statues, pictures, holy cards). Frequent confession. Put it on the schedule. Start each day with prayer.  Say the Angelus at lunchtime. Consult your husband.  Find out his priorities for his household/homeschool.  Bring your problems to him.  Make him the principal of your homeschool.  If a kid is difficult, this is a "dad has to make him" job.  Dad: 1. Warn Junior before you leave for work (If your mother tells me….)  2. Call at lunch (Do you remember what I told you this morning?)  3. First thing dad says when he gets home (Junior, what kind of a report does mom have for me?)   Homeschool Resources Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services

Are you considering homeschooling your child with special needs? Are you already in the trenches and feeling like you aren’t doing well? This show could be a lifesaver. Mary Ellen has been there, and Ginny has a wealth of knowledge to bring to the subject. Let’s tackle the five things you need to know about homeschooling a child with special needs.   Five Things You Should Know About Homeschooling a Child with Special Needs *** Stay tuned to the end of the show to hear our big announcement. ***   First, the Big Things You Should Know… about homeschooling your child with special needs.  What do we mean by special needs?  When we speak about children who have educational issues outside the norm, we mean children who have been diagnosed with a neurological or physical condition that impairs learning or makes learning particularly challenging in some way. How to get a diagnosis – and how not to. The how-NOT-to is on social media. If you ask a question, people may respond based on their own experience – BUT they don’t know the facts of your case. Let’s say you tell little Johnny to put his navy-blue shirt on, and he comes out with his maroon one. He seems to do this all the time.  ● He could have attention deficit disorder.  ● He could have a hearing loss.  ● He could have an auditory processing disorder. ● He could be colorblind.  ● Or it could be nothing to be concerned about at all. See a professional if you are worried. If $ is a problem, you can often get an evaluation from your local public school district.   Five Essential Things You Should Know 1. You Can Do This There is a myriad of resources to help you navigate your student’s challenges. You don’t need a degree in special ed; you are an expert in your child.  2. Sometimes, Doing Less is More With a challenged child, sometimes doing less is more. It may take a challenged child longer to graduate than the typical 12 years. That’s fine. If you need to go an extra year or even two, there are no worries about that.  3. Life Skills can be as Critical as Academic Skills There are certain special needs children for whom life skills are just as critical as academic skills. They may not be able to do algebra, but they need to know how to count up change in the grocery store, navigate a bus route, or cook for themselves.  4. Routines and Rhythms Creating a daily routine or rhythm can be extremely helpful. If your child learns what to expect and when there is a lot less anxiety, that makes learning much easier.  5. Asking for Help is Not a Failure Sometimes, you need the services of an expert, be that a speech therapist or a reading specialist. You are still directing the education of your child, and you are still the manager.   Special Announcement.  When we started this podcast over a year ago, we were filled with ideas and enthusiasm, and the past year has been a great blessing. Still, we are starting to get a wee bit burnt out, so to keep the episodes you enjoy coming along, we will make some changes.  First, we are taking a hiatus for a few months to regain our bearings.  Beginning January 1st, we will be on break until March 1st. This breather will give us time to catch up on some neglected projects and write new material for upcoming podcast episodes. Next, we are changing from a weekly format to an every-other-week format.  This format change is for a couple of reasons. 1. We don’t want you to look at your inbox, see it full of us, and be exasperated. It’s hard to listen every week, and if you feel behind, you might not be inclined to stick with us.  2. The other reason is that we feel much more energized when we have that little break.    We hope you will start tuning in again in March when we come out of the gate with all kinds of new material. In the meantime, there are about 60 episodes you can listen to in our archive if you miss the sound of our New York accents.   Homeschool Resources Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services

Sometimes, situations we might have avoided if given a choice are the greatest blessings. Today's guest has written an inspiring book about a little boy who brings joy to all who know him. Today's podcast will touch your heart, bring a smile, and open a gift of unexpected proportions. Life-changing inspirations can come wrapped in unexpected ways.    Super J and the Power of Love                      Jennifer Nelson is a wife, homeschooling mom of seven children, and the founder of an international prayer ministry for women with pregnancy complications, infertility, and miscarriages. Her joyful spirit is infectious, and her deep faith informs everything she does, and she does a lot! We found her to be such an inspiration, and we know many of you will as well. The book we're discussing today, Super J and the Power of Love, is her first published work - the first of many, we hope. Super J is a little guy with Down syndrome. Meeting the real Super J some years ago inspired Jennifer to write the book. ● I love the way you dealt with aborting Downs kids – in a very child-appropriate way, ● Super J's superpower is his heart – his ability to love without conditions. ● The book does not encourage tolerating those who may be different – but celebrating them! Homeschool Influenced ● Our author, Jennifer, was homeschooled, as was the book's Illustrator, Sam Estrada.  ● Jennifer homeschools her children and shares how homeschooling formed her worldview. ● Our hosts share how differently-abled kids are well accepted in homeschool support groups. Super J and the Power of Love This book is a perfect gift for parents who may have just gotten a prenatal diagnosis and not just for Down Syndrome.   To purchase the book - www.deogratiasco.com  To learn more about Sam Estrada, the remarkable Illustrator - www.prostrada.com To learn more about Jennifer's ministry - www.travelingrelicsofstgianna.com Instagram  @sisterhoodofthetravelingrelics @superJthebook Homeschool Resources Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services   

For homeschooling moms seeking to advance in the spiritual life, the Church offers many opportunities, including the Rosary, Daily Mass, Spiritual Reading, and Liturgy of the Hours. But as a homeschooling mom with limited time, how do you choose from among these excellent practices? In today's podcast, author and moral theologian Fr. Jeffrey Kirby is here to help you prioritize your choices to advance in your spiritual life.   Father Kirby has an important message for our listeners at the end of the podcast.    Fr. Jeffrey Kirby, STD - Spiritual Direction for the Homeschooling Mom Father Kirby has authored several books, including the focus of our podcast, A Year with the Popes, Daily Meditations with the Vicar of Christ.   A Path Toward Spiritual Advancement A Year with the Popes, Daily Meditations with the Vicar of Christ.  ● There are 365 meditations – one for each day of the year. ● Each day has a theme with a short explanation. ● A reading on the theme from a pope, a saint, or a council. ● A short examination of conscience. ● A short closing prayer.   The Time Dilemma  The Church has many resources available to homeschooling families, but many families are short of time. Father Kirby guides us in prioritizing these excellent choices: ● Daily Mass ● Daily prayer life: Rosary? Divine Mercy Chaplet? Liturgy of the Hours? ● Frequent Confession ● Adoration ● Parish missions ● Spiritual reading: Scripture? Meditations? ● Retreats ● Pilgrimages   Resources Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services A Year with the Popes: Daily Meditations with the Vicar of Christ   More about Father Jeffrey Kirby, STD: Father Kirby is a moral theologian, Papal Missionary of Mercy, and the Pastor of Our Lady of Grace Parish in Indian Land, South Carolina. He holds a doctorate in moral theology from the Holy Cross University in Rome, a Bachelor of Arts in History, and a Master of Arts in Philosophy from the Franciscan University of Steubenville.  Father is also a Papal Missionary of Mercy.  The Missionaries of Mercy are priests – diocesan or religious – who have been commissioned by the Holy Father to give particular emphasis to the duty shared by all priests to "hear confessions and preach on behalf of and promote the Sacrament of Reconciliation." They are to be an intentional, visible expression of the mercy of God.   In 2016, Father Kirby was recognized by Governor Nikki Haley and granted the Order of the Palmetto, South Carolina's highest civilian honor, for his service to local communities and young adults throughout the state.

Music Appreciation There is lots of music beyond Disney! An excellent place to start is encouraging your children to listen to fine music. One good thing about the World Wide Web is you can find excellent classical music. You can also find explanations of the various pieces if you are interested.    Teaching music in the home (for the non-musical mom) Carnival of the Animals (Camille Saint-Saens): Various parts of the piece represent different animals. In Danse Macabre, the xylophone sounds like bones. Amahl and the Night Visitors (Gian Carlo Menotti) is a Christmas opera about the Three Kings visiting Jesus.  Peter and the Wolf (Sergei Prokofiev) is A fairy tale for children where different instruments represent characters. The Planets (Gustav Holst) Music represents the solar bodies and the classical origin of their names. For example, Mars is the source of war. 1812 Overture (Great for boys!) The Nutcracker, Sleeping Beauty, Swan Lake (Pytor Illich Tchaikovsky)  The Messiah   After I discouraged Disney Fantasia (Leopold Stokowski) Disney graphics set to classical music. Also Fantasia 2000   If you live near a major city, find out what is nearby.   ● Broadway/Off-Broadway productions ● University productions ● Opera ● Ballet ● Symphony Orchestras ● Band concerts Even if you do not live in a city or lack the cash, you can almost always find: ● Community college or high school concerts/plays ● Bands in the park during the summer.   Music Theory and Performance The very best ways for kids to learn to read music are: ● Instrument lessons (easy to find independent of schools) ● Choral lessons (more challenging, but sometimes churches have kids’ choirs) Online courses are available for instrumental, choral, and reading sheet music.   Study parts of bands and orchestras (Andre Rieux videos online)   ● Learn sections:  strings (orchestras only), woodwinds, brass, and percussion. ● Make scrapbooks with pictures of musical instruments. Label them with section and soprano, alto, tenor, or bass. ● Define: conductor, soloist Let kids make their instruments:   ● drums from oatmeal boxes or by stretching balloons over empty jars ● Fake cymbals by smashing two pot lids together ● Maracas: Decorate small pringle containers or empty plastic water bottles and fill them with dry beans or popcorn. Tape plastic spoons to empty plastic Easter eggs, fill and decorate.  ● Homemade xylophone out of water glasses filled to different levels   Composer Study ● Learn about the great composers, their music style, and their influences.   There is so much to explore. We hope this sampling helps you get on track.   Learn More About Seton Home Study School Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services

Join Ginny and Mary Ellen in a lively, joyful discussion on the saints, our great friends and allies on our homeschooling journey. And as always, they share their experiences with their unique blend of humor, love, and practical advice.  Prepare for dozens of examples from the saints to inspire and guide your homeschooling family in faith formation and education. - Welcome to the lesson book from our family of saints!       Exploring the Lives of the Saints in Our Homeschools ● Studying the lives of the saints gives our children models of virtue, holiness, and faith. ● Knowing more about the saints helps kids understand and connect with their Catholic faith.  ● It's essential to know that many saints were sinners first. Their lives were transformed through a willingness to be open to grace and a sincere desire to follow Christ.  ● Listen for the "aha moment."   Saints for Homeschool Parents - Because we welcome all the help we can get! ● Thomas Aquinas (the dumb ox) is the patron saint of academic progress.  - He defined the four cardinal virtues as prudence, temperance, justice, and fortitude.  - Doctor of the Church and is considered one of the greatest theologians who ever lived.  - He was recruited as a boy by Dominicans.  - His family imprisoned him for a year before allowing him to take vows.  - He is a model of Perseverance. ● St. Elizabeth Ann Seton homeschooled her children.  - The first American-born saint.  - Widowed with four young children in a foreign land. - Disowned by her in-laws. - She started schools and an order of nuns she nurtured like her children. ● St. Monica is a patroness of patience, perseverance, and mothers.  - Mother of Saint Augustine. - Prayed for decades for her wayward son and NEVER gave up on him. - Her prayers resulted in her son becoming one of the Church's greatest saints. ● St. John Bosco is a patron saint of students and magicians.  - Believed in educating children from a place of love. ● St. Marcellin Champagnat, patron of education and teachers. - Founded the Marist Brothers.  - He struggled as a student and was beaten, but with determination and perseverance, he completed his education.  - He wanted to teach all children to love Jesus. ● St. Jean Marie Vianney (The Cure of Ars) was such a poor student that he barely made it out of the seminary – but became the patron saint of parish priests ● St. Expeditus is the patron saint of expeditious solutions to overcome procrastination.    The Takeaway Explore ways to foster a personal connection with the saints through: - Prayers - Devotions - Traditions Celebrate feast days with: - Food - Crafts - Movies - Visits to shrines Research patron saints for their names and activities.   Resources ● Butler's Lives of the Saints  ● Art books (Seton's) ● Picture books (Tomi DePaolo, Demi, Diane Stanley, Ethel Pochoki) ● Vision books ● Holy Heroes/Glory Stories ● Movies: Song of Bernadette, A Man for All Seasons, The Scarlet and the Black.   Learn More About Seton Home Study School Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services

Mary Ellen and Ginny introduce to Emily Malloy, whose floral design career began as an apprentice who swept petals and leaves off the floors of a rapidly growing floral shop in Philadelphia.  She rose to manager and floral designer. Her work has appeared in Elle Décor, Green Wedding Shoes, the National Catholic Register, and the Ember Journal. Emily is the food and floral design editor at TheologyofHome.com. She and her husband live in Mississippi with their four children.     Emily Malloy, Theology of Home IV: Arranging the Seasons In this fourth installment of Theology of Home, Emily Malloy explores the vibrancy and life of the garden. With her expertise as a florist, Malloy brings a wealth of practical ideas for incorporating flowers into our homes as we march through nature's seasons and the Church's liturgical calendar.    Yet this edition, like the rest of the series, does not stop at the material level. Remembering mankind's beginnings in the Garden of Eden, Arranging the Seasons sumptuously illustrates and highlights our intrinsic need for beauty within the human heart.   Explored within this edition of Theology of Home are the deeper questions of life, family, love, and God that animate our efforts to cultivate the earth. In simple and small ways, it will inspire us to layer our lives and homes with the intangibles that turn the stuff of matter into a song.   ·      Your thoughts on beauty are so very Catholic and necessary in a world that seems to value the opposite. So many books on gardens and growing focus on the utility, but yours makes the point that beauty is necessary. Can you expand on that?   ·      Nature's beauty is absolutely a religious experience. As we record this, my garden is dying down for the winter, but I still see butterflies hovering and hummingbirds sipping nectar. It does give one delight and gratitude to God for His creation.   ·      Please tell us how you plan your gardens. Are they well planned and laid out, or is there a randomness to them?   ·      There are a lot of practical suggestions in the book for designing, arranging, and even how to make a boutonniere and wrapping a presentation bouquet. I'm so glad you included the very practical for the craft-impaired like myself.   ·      You homeschool your children. How was it writing, photographing, and designing this book while homeschooling? The children are in several photos (pg 256 is my favorite). Did it become a family endeavor?   ·      Gardening can be expensive, but a lovely garden can be done on a shoestring. Anyone can save marigold seeds to plant next spring, and bulbs multiply over the years. When gardening buddies divide perennials, they often want to rehome their plants. Anyone with a few feet of dirt or room for some pots can enjoy them.   ·      What we cannot see in our Creator, we can see in His creation. It is with the gift of the flower—a powerful representation of the love of God—that we can bridge not only home and garden but also the eternal and the everyday.   Purchase Emily's book at Theology of the Home Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services

Teaching and learning do not have to be dry and boring. In fact, for homeschoolers, it can be quite the opposite. We are free to expand our studies beyond the text and be creative. Today, Ginny and Mary Ellen take us on a journey to a world of ways to expand your studies with lapbooking, notebooking, novels, videos, you know, the fun stuff. There's a treasure chest of resources for you and the kids. You're going to find something here that you will love.   Expand Your Studies with the Fun Stuff   Lapbooks are a fun way to collect and creatively display what you are learning. · Start with two legal-size file folders and add your creative juices. · Perfect for, you name it, math, science, history, literature, religion, etc.  · Each child can add to the project. · Mary Ellen offers a mountain of suggestions and experiences. · Dinah Zike's Big Book of Books and Big Book of Projects are a big help.  Notebooking is an effective way to absorb facts and retain memory. · Keeping a history or science notebook is easy to start and fun to add on to. · Creating timelines and making nature notebooks with words, pictures, and specimens are very kid friendly. · Recording the commonplace is a means of making lasting memories. · Tactile associations will create neural paths that can develop into highways. · In early grades, I would have the kids do what we call morning work: "Today is Tuesday, November 15, 2022. It is a cloudy day. (Check the outdoor thermometer) The temperature at 11:30 was 34 degrees F. Today, we are going to the zoo." It seems pretty elementary, but kids learn days of the week, months, how to write dates, check thermometers, etc. Tomorrow, this child can write about the animals he saw at the zoo and perhaps draw a picture of one. Make History Come Alive · If you are studying a particular historical time, find novels set in that time.  · These are great Christmas gifts. · Audiobooks for the car; an alternative to isolating, personal music feeds.  · Love2learn.net has many booklists, as does goodbooksforcatholickids.com.  Raise the Bar, we set expectations very low for children now.  Throughout history, kids performed real work at an early age.  · For his 9th birthday, Almanzo Wilder received an ox yoke and learned to train ox calves.  · His wife, Laura Ingalls, taught school at 15 to help pay for her blind sister's education.  · We're thrilled now if our kids make their beds. We need to set higher expectations. · Having thoughtful kids who really help cut back on stress and burnout, too. Videos – Good or Bad Videos often get a bad rap. Carefully screened and considered, they can reinforce and engage.  · Nowhere else can your children see the inside of a beehive. · Or watch a tsunami strike the coast of Japan.  · Online content can bring learning alive. Resources YouTube Discovery Channel Curiosity Stream NASA TV (from the NASA website) National Geographic Khan Academy Creativebug Skillshare Dinah Zike's website for lapbooks Notebooking Resources   Thanks to our sponsors, especially Seton Home Study School, check out their great resources: Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services

Homeschooling with small children in the home will, at times, push you to the end of your patience. But these times will pass.  For now, take a breath as Ginny and Mary Ellen discuss tips, insights, and lessons on turning trying times into life-shaping opportunities. Learn how to lighten your load while training the kids to be big helpers and prepare them to be better students and caring adults. You've got this.   Homeschool Roadblocks: What to Do When You Are Drowning   This may sound like a health and safety or first aid podcast, but don't be fooled. A podcast buddy, Meg Gan, contacted our hosts on social media.  Ginny explains, "Meg had seven kids in seven years and wanted to know how on earth she could homeschool. Essentially, her question was, 'How do I homeschool while drowning?'  She came to the right place. Although I didn't have seven kids in seven years, I did have five in six years, and lots of kids on either side of those five.  Mary Ellen had eight, including twins! I assure you we know something about drowning, and yet we survived. And our kids have thrived!" First, here's a word of encouragement. This time is about as tough as your life will ever be.  Second, kids from big families learn to help relatively early and can make all the difference in the world. A 7-year-old's help may be limited, but 10-year-olds can set the table, do dishes, fold laundry, watch toddlers while you cook, and even help get breakfast on the table. Things should get MUCH better in a few short years. To follow up on that, make sure that you are teaching your kids every household task as soon as they can help. You can find lists on the Internet of which ages to teach which tasks.   Naptime is the key to homeschooling when you have lots of small kids.  + Babies, until 1 ½ or 2, should take two naps daily. + Children 2 to 4-ish, an afternoon nap.  + Even 4 and 5-year-olds should have some quiet time after lunch. Maybe let them look at a book or listen to some quiet music, but they have to stay in bed (on the couch, etc.) until they hear the timer go off.  Homeschool: You can often complete early homeschool grades in an hour or two each day. + In the same way you teach your children to help with household chores, teach them to complete homeschool assignments independently.  + Even the littlest students can practice handwriting on their own or practice their math facts.   + Get the littles involved in homeschooling. Get some DUPLOS and finger paint and let them be part of the classroom. + Play revolving kids. Let school kids take turns playing with the littles. + When the weather allows, homeschool in the yard while the little guys run around. Reinforcements:  + Look for some outside help. The grandmas may give you an hour or two each week.  + Nannies are expensive but look for a local teen to work as a mother's helper after school, allowing you to make dinner or clean. Double points if the kid is homeschooled and can give you some hours during the school day. + If your MIL asks what you want for Christmas, suggest an hour or two with a maid service. + Talk to your husband. If he can take the younger kids out for an hour on Saturday or Sunday, it will give you some time to homeschool.   Thanks to our sponsors, especially Seton Home Study School, check out their great resources: Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services

When talking about homeschooling, the elephant in the room is socialization. Naysayers insist that homeschooling isolates children, but the reality, as experienced homeschoolers and those who know them praise, is that their kids are the most socialized, as well as the most thoughtful and considerate kids around. But how do you get there initially, or how can you improve things? Ginny and Mary Ellen have a fresh bouquet of ideas and tips for finding new friends for the kids and yourself. You'll surely enjoy these practical solutions garnished with a generous helping of good cheer.    Roadblocks to Homeschooling: The S word - Socialization Used to be, you made friends on the sidewalk or on the street where you lived. Too often now, these places are empty – kids are at activities or afterschool care.  Solution - Be Aggressive in Seeking Buddies. ● If your little guy finds a buddy at the playground, talk with his mom. ● Find out where they live and see if you can offer to get together.  ● Not every friend has to be another homeschooler or even Catholic!  ● Diversity is an overused word, but there is a benefit to true, not forced, diversity. How to Find Other Homeschooled Children. Step One: ● Check with local public libraries and museums for homeschooler programs. ● Check out orthodox parishes. Homeschoolers tend to flock to those parishes.  ● Go to daily Mass. If you see other moms and kids, chances are they are homeschoolers. Step Two: ● See if you can set up times for get-togethers. Coffee and donuts after church? ● Meet at a park, church, or someone's house on Fridays. ● Set up a FB page to keep in touch. Possible Problems ● Poorly disciplined kids You invite this lovely family you met at church to your home. Their kids trash the place and are generally rude. Should you give up on that family? Maybe, but not right away. The key to dealing with kids like this is often to separate them from their parents.  Offer to pick up the children and bring them to a park or your home.  I found kids responded to our house rules.  They say "please" if that is the only way to get the cookie.  "We don't do that in this house" often does the trick.  Could you be their "Angel?"  Sometimes, a mom with no idea how to control her kids learns a trick or two from calm, confident parenting. Lonely moms Hey, you need buddies, too! There is no question that moms often make friends waiting at the school bus stop or volunteering for school activities. But don't give up. ● Tell your church acquaintances you would love a weekly rosary morning at your home. As time passes, maybe other moms will pick up the slack, but it is an excellent excuse to clean up the house anyway. ● As you get to know people, ask them if they ever get out without their kids. Suggest an adult outing. ● Do you bake bread? Pop over with a loaf. People will love you! ● Do you sew? Offer to fix that sagging hem. ● When my kids were teens, we had the "white tornado." If someone had a miscarriage or were sick, we would go over and clean. ● Join local groups: Ladies Auxiliary for the Knights of Columbus, Italian American Club, Hibernians.   If none of this is working, remember: Laura Ingalls Wilder - Almost no neighbors. But the family was happy, and the children thrived.  Abe Lincoln was raised in a cabin in the woods and became president.  Andrew Jackson grew up during wartime, lost his entire family in his early teens, and he raised himself. He grew up to be a successful military officer, landowner, and president.  Summary: People may say that you are cheating your children by not sitting them in a classroom with two dozen of their agemates. Don't listen to that. Too many modern kids are clinically depressed, on meds, and confused.   Thanks to our sponsors, especially Seton Home Study School, check out their great resources: Seton Home Study School Seton Testing Services

Fr. Ken Geraci, of the Fathers of Mercy, joins Ginny and Mary Ellen today and fills us in about his latest book, Spiritual Warfare and Divine Mercy, the Weapon for Our Times. Father is a friend of homeschoolers, having spoken at many of our conferences.   Father is an engaging speaker with a gift for converting complex spiritual matters into simple, understandable lessons. And our hosts take advantage of Father’s gift for plain speak to the max. This is a must-listen, for those who want to be a better-equipped homeschooling parent.   Fr. Ken Geraci - Spiritual Warfare and Divine Mercy   If you attended homeschooling conferences through the years know the Fathers of Mercy. An order dedicated to preaching missions, they have been great supporters of Catholic homeschooling and often preached at our conferences.  Fr. Ken Geraci was raised in a Catholic home but was a bit of a late bloomer in practicing his faith. He was an agnostic, then a non-denominational Christian, and finally found his way back to Holy Mother Church. He joined the Fathers of Mercy, headquartered in Kentucky, in 2006 and was ordained in 2012.     Fr. Geraci is the author of two books, "Why Be Catholic," published in 2021 by TAN Books, but today we will speak about his new book, "Spiritual Warfare and Divine Mercy, the Weapon for Our Times" published this year.   Father Geraci asks:  “Is the Church a cruise ship or a warship?” Follow the Captain's orders Know your job and do it with excellence While doing your job, look to see if you can assist others. Do not sink your own ship or shoot at your crewmates. (We see this everywhere today.) Practical Ways to Enter Spiritual Warfare Am I in a state of grace? Do I have a daily plan of prayer? (Moms need reliable habits! 15 minutes of silence for us would be a blessing.) Do I have monthly goals for receiving the sacraments? Do I have a plan for mortification? (Americans are terrible at self-denial.) How do I plan to serve my community? Is There an Absolute Need for Regular Confession? Few Catholics confess regularly, but virtually ALL Catholics receive Communion. Receiving in this manner is a potential sacrilege. (What should moms do when their parishes offer scant availability?)   The Value of Divine Mercy as revealed to St Faustina. Sincere examination of conscience.   Divine Mercy Sunday (Sunday after Easter Sunday) Confession within 20 days and receiving Communion in a state of Grace brings total remission of sin and remits temporal punishment for those sins. It is similar but not the same as a plenary indulgence.   The Value of Praying the Divine Mercy Chaplet The rosary is a meditation, while the Chaplet is an action. But we can meditate on the passion of Our Lord while saying the Chaplet.   At the conclusion of the book, Father Geraci reveals that some in the Church preach that hell is empty. Why is this dangerous?   References: Spiritual Warfare and Divine Mercy: The Weapon for Our Times by Fr. Ken Geraci, CPM

Teaching our children to set priorities, complete assignments on time, and achieve their goals are essential life skills we must teach them. After all, no child is born knowing how to manage their time effectively.    Ginny and Mary Ellen discuss why mastering these skills can be challenging for homeschoolers. But, as expected, our hosts have a plentitude of practical solutions, literally dozens of methods, to teach homeschoolers time management skills for success in school and later, as adults.   Teaching Homeschoolers the Secrets of Time Management   Parental Guidance Required Completing assignments on schedule, submitting applications and other paperwork on time and in a professional manner, and setting priorities and goals are all life skills that need to be taught. No child is born knowing how to manage their time effectively, so the only way they are going to learn these essential skills is for you, their parent, to teach them.  The Parent is the Model That means, to a certain degree, you must model this behavior. If you are always running around with your hair on fire, trying at the last minute to get the "thing" done on time, then it is unlikely that your students will learn to plan well. Getting Our Students Organized and Focused 1.     You must set clear goals with reasonable deadlines. a.     What is your child expected to accomplish this week, month, or year? b.     What are the consequences of missing the goal? 2.     Prioritize – You have to teach the importance of prioritizing tasks based on deadlines and importance. Create a schedule. a.     Work with your student to create a plan that includes school, work, extracurriculars, study, rest, and relaxation time.  b.     Work should come before play, and the schedule should be flexible enough to rearrange according to different needs and seasons. Make time management tools available. Digital - myHomework app, Microsoft's To Do or OneNote apps, MyTask app, Evernote. Paper - (linked below). Make some system available to your student and show them how to use it. It will be invaluable in college. Reduce distractions: a.     No screens, music playing, or texting when working. b.     It's a good idea to have a cell phone basket.  c.     Background music with NO LYRICS.  d.     Debussy piano etudes can be calming. Review - teach your student to review at the end of the week. a.     Where did the schedule work?  b.     Where didn't the schedule work? Some Practical Advice ·      Mom needs to keep an eye on younger kids and know if they are falling behind.  ·      When students start reading longer books and writing essays, they often benefit from fewer sibling distractions.  ·      They can, however, be easily distracted from the task at hand.  ·      Mom needs to have a daily appointment with each high school student. More Practical Advice ·      When they finish today's assignment, do not exit it. Minimize so mom can ensure that progress is being made. She can add notes/suggestions in red or blue. ·      Make sure math and foreign language have been corrected. ·      Set clear expectations for tomorrow's work.   A Final Note - Accountability ·      There have to be consequences for missed deadlines and unfinished assignments.  ·      Important - Mom must not swoop in and save the day.  ·      Students must learn to be accountable and face the consequences of not finishing tasks. ·      It is better to suffer little problems now than BIG ones later.   Physical Planners  Inexpensive Student Planner Seton High School Planner Seton Teacher Planner Catholic Daily Planner Donna Young - requires a subscription Blue Sky Academic Planner Blue Sky Teacher Planner Erin Condren Planners   Digital Planners My Homework App (the free version is plenty) Evernote (better for organizing) Microsoft To Do My Task

In today's podcast, Ginny and Mary Ellen talk with Kimberly Begg about her new book Unbreakable, Saints Who Inspired Saints to Moral Courage. Kimberly describes her work, published by TAN, and its unique perspective of not just telling the typical saint story but also the saint behind the saint.   Kimberly explains the importance of knowing how and why other saints inspired each saint, how these stories develop moral courage, and why saint stories are the birthright of Catholic children. She explains why Catholics need to teach their children to go through the cross instead of around it and why we are too comfortable in America.    At the end of the podcast, we will tell you how to enter to win a copy of the book!   Unbreakable, Saints Who Inspired Saints to Moral Courage - by Kimberly Begg   Kimberly Begg is a Catholic wife and mother of five children. She's an attorney with over 20 years of experience strengthening Catholic and conservative causes, and she helped found Young America's Foundation's Standing Up for Faith and Freedom seminar—a program for students at Catholic schools. She serves on the boards of numerous centers and foundations dedicated to Catholic and conservative principles. She is editor of Catholic School Playbook, an online resource for the renewal of Catholic education. Editor's note: they have a really cool website for those interested in Catholic schools.     A Different Perspective Unbreakable has a very different perspective than the typical saint story in that we meet the saint behind the saint. Knowing the back story is critical to understanding the saint's story. Kimberly explains: What made her decide to write a saint book this way? What led her to these particular saints? Why are the stories of the saints the "birthright of all Catholic children."  Kimberly introduces her free-to-download study guide linked below - a wealth of resources and insights for homeschoolers; a sampling: · What is a red martyr?  · What is a white martyr?  · Why is it ideal for all family members to pray together? · What is "the way of spiritual childhood" St. Thérèse discovered during her short life? How can her "little way" help people of all ages grow closer to Christ daily? The Saints Who Inspired the Saints: St. Joan of Arc Inspired by St. Michael the Archangel, St. Margaret of Antioch, and St. Catherine of Alexandria. St. José Luis Sánchez del Rio Inspired by Our Lady of Guadalupe and St. Juan Diego, St. Tarcisius, and Blessed Anacleto González Flores. Blessed Jerzy Popieluszko - an inspiration for her book.  Inspired by St. Maximilian Kolbe, Blessed Stefan Wyszyński, and Pope John Paul II. St. Teresa of Calcutta Inspired by St. Thérèse of Lisieux. The little way both saints practiced is simple and perfect for homeschooling moms.   In her study guide: · Kimberly quotes a study that says 73% of Americans say the most important goal in raising children is that they are happy, and should we share that goal?  · In her chapter about Blessed Jerzy, she reveals that his family, who probably didn't have much to begin with, abstained from meat on Wednesday, Friday, and Saturday because "man must know from childhood that renunciations are necessary in life, that not everything is like one wants," so how will Americans fare when it comes to raising saints? · Ten ways of imitating saints by practicing courage in everyday moments. · Where can our listeners purchase the book? Her study guide is available for Unbreakable at www.kimberlybegg.com Catholic School Playbook is an online resource for the renewal of Catholic education.

Meet Arlena Brown, a Seton Mom with four kids who found stability in times of change and chaos through homeschooling. Lena is a Traditional Roman Catholic wife of 14 years to her husband, Robert, and mother of four children ranging from 2 to 13 years old. The Browns had three children in elementary school when the pandemic occurred. They discovered homeschooling amid layoffs, relocations, and other changes and chaos. Lena shares with Ginny and Mary Ellen how their decision to homeschool provided a stable base and a saving grace in chaotic times and fills us in on their future plans.   Homeschooling’s Flexibility - Providing Stability in Changing Times   Arlena (Lena) Brown has a B.S. in Psychology with an Emphasis in Infant and Toddler Development. She has worked with parents and children from infancy through 8th grade and has been a mentor and teacher for a teen mom program.  Lena and her family have shared their homeschooling experiences in media outlets including Associated Press, Fox News Live, and the podcast From the Kitchen Table with Rachel Campos-Duffy and Sean Duffy. The Road Ahead The Browns plan to continue homeschooling for the coming year, grateful that they can tailor the curriculum to fit their children’s distinctive needs. Jacoby, 11, has been diagnosed with narcolepsy and sometimes needs naps during the day; Riley, 10, has been tested as academically gifted; Felicity, 9, has a learning disability. The Browns also have a baby, Lucy. Reaching Their Full Potential “I didn’t want my kids to become a statistic and not meet their full potential,” said Robert Brown, a former teacher who now does consulting. “And we wanted them to have a solid understanding of their faith.” Lena explains how homeschooling flexibility was critical to their kid’s growth and success.  ·      Why did they continue homeschooling after the pandemic? ·      How did having a baby enter into their homeschooling dynamic? ·      What specific advantages does homeschooling bring to their home? ·      Some of their kids have special learning needs. How does home education address that? ·      Do they plan to keep homeschooling? The Benefits of Homeschooling When families’ lives are interrupted by flux or chaos, job loss and transition, and relocation: ·      You know what your children are learning. ·      Your children are progressing at their own pace. ·      You are keeping your kids from falling through the cracks. ·      It provides stability when relocating, particularly helpful for military families. Reality Check - Taking on the Responsibility of Homeschooling Homeschooling can be a sacrifice for Mom and Dad to ensure the kids have a solid grounding through turbulent times. It can be a sacrifice, a kind of cross, picked up for the kids. The Benefit of Siblings Bonding ·      The enrichment of siblings spending their days together is a remarkable opportunity. ·      This relationship-building time is so different than spending a few hours together.  ·      These enriched times together can bear fruit for the children’s lifetimes. ·      If a baby is in the household, you are raising baby-friendly kids!  ·      Raising children at ease nurturing younger siblings is a rare gift indeed.  Dad’s Influence ·      In the Brown’s home, Robert discovered the homeschooling option. ·      Dad can offer prayerful support and influence. ·      Supporting his wife’s efforts is critical for homeschool success. Other Practical Insights from Lena ·      Homeschooling can keep pace with changes in your season of life. ·      The flexibility can adjust to changing sleep patterns. ·      Your home and parenting style is unique to your family. It does not need to be a copy of someone else’s homeschool. ·      A good homeschooling program provides the structure to be the best definition of the family you can become.

Today, we are pleased to speak with an experienced homeschooling mom in the Philippines, Therese Habana, fondly known as Mommy T., to her homeschooling community. In this warm, engaging discussion, you’ll learn along with Ginny and Mary Ellen as “Mommy T.” details the Filipino homeschool environment and culture and how she got started. She also shares her experience utilizing “Partner Centers” and explains homeschooling accreditation with the Philippine Department of Education (DepEd).    Homeschooling in the Philippines – An Interview with Therese (Mommy T.) Habana   Therese Habana is a homeschooling mom of four active boys ranging from 18 to 4 years old, a busy volunteer parent in the Catholic Homeschooling Families (CHF) community in the Philippines, an entrepreneur, and a full-time homemaker to her husband of 20 years. ·      Her family has been homeschooling using Seton Home Study since 2017.  ·      Homeschooling families fondly call her Mommy T. ·      Homeschooling works amazingly well for her family of athletic boys -- two triathletes, one jujitsu martial artist, and one preschooler who never runs out of energy.  What led Therese to homeschool? She went to a homeschool conference when living in Colorado and thought she should try it. When she moved back to the Philippines to be near her family, she started to homeschool with Seton. Therese became very involved in the community and loved it. An interesting fact: Mommy T’s son took Filipino as a second language, which is funny because although he is Filipino, his first language is English. In the Philippines, people homeschool for many reasons: ·      Most of Therese’s friends homeschool for religious reasons.  ·      Many people start as non-religious homeschoolers and become more faithful as a result. ·      Academics - Many use Seton books because of the excellent academic. Seton lists two “Partner Centers” (co-ops) in the Philippines. How do Partner Centers work?  Partner Centers are for Seton parents to help them with their homeschooling.  The Centers organize conferences so people can display their materials. Interested families can come to see how homeschooling works. Children participate in the Partner Centers and sponsored field trips. Priestly involvement: It is common for priests to be very involved. Priests often anoint the children with oil to begin the school year and bless the materials. Accreditation A common question is whether Seton Home Study School is accredited by the Philippine Department of Education (DepEd).  Answer: DepEd accredits schools located in the Philippines, and as Seton is an American school with offices in the United States, Seton is outside of the DepEd jurisdiction.  However, Seton records are accepted in the Philippines.  ·      Seton issues transcripts of records to students and an American diploma to graduates.  ·      It is more or less the same as a Philippine student who attended high school in the U.S.  ·      Several graduates are now studying in different Philippine universities.  Transferring to a regular school from Grades 1 to 10: ·      Ask the school about its requirements for international students with an American transcript.  ·      Requirements vary for different schools.  ·      From our many years of experience, students who used Seton transcripts to transition to Senior High and College in Philippine schools have been accepted and performed excellently in their chosen courses. “You seem to have much more family support there than we do in the States. It must make having babies and homeschooling easier.” ·      Therese has a staff of household help, which is pretty common. ·      Her sisters are nearby, and the homeschool friends have become family. ·      It is common for parents and siblings to live close together and help each other.

**The following podcast contains information on homeschooling and the law. The content provided in this podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional legal advice, consultation, or representation. For specific information about the law where you live, we suggest you contact the Home School Legal Defense Association, a local homeschooling support group, or a qualified attorney.** “Is Homeschooling Legal?” is one of the most frequently asked questions Ginny and Mary Ellen have been asked over the years in person, in forums, and at homeschool conferences.  They have spoken with countless moms and dads about the topic and today, they concisely explain in a simple, easy-to-understand manner what they have learned. Get ready for a good listen and some peace of mind. Do I have to jump through any hoops to homeschool? ● It depends on where you live. ● Some states have substantial requirements: MA, PA, ND, and NY. But even in these states, requirements can vary tremendously from district to district.  ● Others have very few laws and restrictions: IL, MS, ID, CT, AR, and OK. OK has the right to homeschool in its constitution, which makes it unique.  ● But you may find inconsistencies within your school district. One might insist that you register with the school district, another may instruct you to take standardized tests.  ● These inconsistencies are often due to ignorance about laws, so you must be informed and advocate for yourself.    How do I find out the restrictions or requirements where I live? ● Step #1 is to go to the Home School Legal Defense Association – HSLDA website. ● HSLDA is the best resource in the nation on legally homeschooling in every state and will provide competent and knowledgeable representation for homeschoolers when needed.  ● The HSLDA website provides reliable, up-to-date information about homeschooling in each of the 50 states. Also, HSLDA attorneys present short (2-5 minute) videos on "How to Comply with (my state's) Homeschooling laws."  ● Talk with a homeschooling family in your school district for practical experience on how interfering, or not interfering, your district will be. That can make a big difference.  ● Seton Home Study maintains a list of their families willing to be contacted.    Which families are most likely to face difficulties? Divorced or separated parents If parents divorce or separate, it’s advisable they agree about homeschooling. If the issue goes to family court, judges frequently opt for the most common education choice – public school. Public school is often the outcome when one parent wants private or religious schools, too.  A child with a disability   Parents of a disabled child are sometimes contacted by authorities who question their competence to home school. Other situations In some states, parents of children who claim gender confusion will have a problem if they try to pull their children out of school, even if those schools reinforce their children's confusion.   How do you keep your homeschool free from government interference? ● Know your state's law regarding home education.   ● Comply with all necessary legal requirements. ● Choose the least restrictive option. Some families find that the religious exemption option to be the least restrictive. ● If you live in a restrictive state, consider joining HSLDA (Seton families get a discount.) They provide legal guidance and help to their members. ● Know what to do if authorities contact you. Contact HSLDA for advice about this possibility.  Important to know - 1. When you pull a child out of school, it is not the time to explain your reasons.  2. If you are pulling your children out of a parish school, you want to have a good enough relationship to be able to get the sacraments.  3. A reasonable explanation is, "We are making other arrangements for Billy. We'll be in touch for his records." 

You want to start but wonder how much homeschooling will cost? The wait is over, Mary Ellen and Ginny share the cost, the budget, and how to maximize your benefits.  Learn about different homeschooling styles, where to find free placement tests and samples, budgeting tips and tricks, and much more. And as always, you're guaranteed to smile with their humorous yet practical, common-sense approach.    How to Create and Live with a Homeschool Budget   When people think of homeschool budgets, they often jump to the curriculum. While that can be the bulk of the expense, many factors play into the cost of homeschooling, accounting for a wide variance in what families spend. Budgeting your first year is hard because you have no idea what to expect. Here’s what to do: Keep track of your expenses. Don't impulse buy; be sure you need it. If possible, wait a few days before purchasing. The curriculum cost…  will hold some families back from homeschooling, but these tips will make that easier. Research your style before you buy Scholastic  Classical Charlotte Mason  Research different Providers and Publishers  Check out the websites for free placement exams. Sample books online and skim a few pages.  Can a friend who uses the materials let you look them over? Would she let you observe one day when she homeschools? Check out the return policy  Don't rely on the website. Call and ask before you buy. Buy used – a great way to save Facebook groups eBay Thrift books Library sales, etc.  Check out school voucher programs Arizona and Florida have them. A dozen other states have them, too, and more are becoming available. Some states have educational savings accounts.  Research what your state offers. Supplies - from pencils to laptops Buy in bulk only when needed. Ask for discounts Many stores give teachers discounts.  Homeschool teachers often qualify, use your IHIP as proof, or make an ID card.  HSLDA offers discounts for members. Ask relatives to gift memberships to museums or national parks. Or for big-ticket items like microscopes, science kits, etc. It's easier for relatives than buying individual gifts. Use the library for special collections, discount passes, computers and internet, audiovisual materials, maps, music, art, tutoring, and inexpensive classes. Food You might be shocked at how much your food bill will increase. Three meals a day plus two snacks can add a lot to a weekly grocery bill. It's essential to have rules and to shop judiciously. No grazing. Bake where you can; packaged food is unhealthy and very expensive. Try to cook for multiple meals. Ham on Sunday can become a casserole on Tuesday, and the bone can be pea soup on Thursday. Meal plan. Nothing breaks the budget like last-minute takeout. The kitchen closes at night. Utilities Having people in the house all day also increases utility bills, more heat, more a/c, and more water. Teach children to be careful with their resources. Specials and Extras – can yield a significant return on investment Music Lessons Sports Field Trips Important - Here's what not to do: Do not switch the entire curriculum mid-year because someone is struggling, bored, or hates it. These can be addressed individually and only require a little money to fix. Do not ask on Facebook what they use for (fill in the blank). You will get four hundred answers and affiliate links to their favorite things. Do not impulse buy or click on Instagram or Facebook ads. Take a deep breath, vacuum something, and think before you purchase. At the end of the year Assess your spending.  Save what you can for next year, the next child. Give away or sell what you don't need or didn't work. Try to set a reasonable budget for the coming year.  Having more control over the finances will bring a lot of peace of mind.   Resources HSLDA https://hslda.org/explore/member-savings